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Run Clubs Are The New Dating Apps | Brett Cooper

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@JimmyMFP
@JimmyMFP Ай бұрын
It’s almost as though meeting organically through a shared interest is a natural way to develop a relationship. Who knew?
@guaranteedV
@guaranteedV Ай бұрын
fkg perfect comment. like, what the? Is it really that hard these days? I guess anything for a revolution, hmm.
@omp365
@omp365 Ай бұрын
Yeah except most of them aren’t interested in running 😂😂
@oliviae369
@oliviae369 Ай бұрын
@@guaranteedV Guessing you aren't a millennial or Gen Z with this comment... So many guys struggle to even communicate normally to us. I think tech devices have shrunk so many brain cells and made guys tongue-tied. They are so used to staring at screens they just stare at me and other women too!
@pattymac1776
@pattymac1776 Ай бұрын
It’s also a 3rd space!!! It’s relatively free (outside of buying running materials) and you can just keep showing up
@rouen1111
@rouen1111 Ай бұрын
yeah i think what they meant was the intention they do to join the club is to find someone to date and running is just a 2nd priority.
@RyanYoung-br1iz
@RyanYoung-br1iz Ай бұрын
this is a psyop to get us into cardio
@italkgory99
@italkgory99 Ай бұрын
Strength training and cardio are the best anti aging and health related activities you could ever do
@blkmgik
@blkmgik Ай бұрын
Lmfaoooo!!! That’s what you got fam? 😂
@ChrisWillx
@ChrisWillx Ай бұрын
RESIST
@HMuny55
@HMuny55 Ай бұрын
@@ChrisWillx hahahaha
@abcdefzhij
@abcdefzhij Ай бұрын
@@italkgory99what about re-engineering your stem cells
@Buddy330
@Buddy330 Ай бұрын
At least people are getting off the internet to meet people in person again that's a positive.
@jgp1294
@jgp1294 Ай бұрын
Me over here killing the like button on your comment forgetting that ONE time I got on bumble for 72h and now I’m married to the only dude I swiped, true story. But I do think the apps are trash still and people need to get out and meet each other.
@joshuaagbettor5610
@joshuaagbettor5610 Ай бұрын
​@@jgp1294Completely agree about the dating app thing
@ErlingGrey
@ErlingGrey Ай бұрын
Hell yes. I support it.
@austinburwell5834
@austinburwell5834 Ай бұрын
@@jgp1294 i don’t think the apps are necessarily trash i thibk the intent of the people is trash. Now of course these apps want your money especially from the men but still
@SIMPLYDEVON
@SIMPLYDEVON Ай бұрын
for 23 i never learned that now after 3 months going to a muay thai gym I'm impressed how easy it actually is to Communicate with people
@mo-akif
@mo-akif Ай бұрын
W
@TheCrimsonOne508
@TheCrimsonOne508 Ай бұрын
Based, Muay Thai is awesome
@zacharyzbeetnoff7043
@zacharyzbeetnoff7043 Ай бұрын
@@TheCrimsonOne508I had the same effect at CrossFit lol
@bennie5983
@bennie5983 Ай бұрын
i have been thinking about doing muy thai becuase they actually have to do it with people unlike regular gym. do you genuinly recommend it?
@TheCrimsonOne508
@TheCrimsonOne508 Ай бұрын
@@bennie5983 I personally recommend that every man learn a martial art, and Muay Thai is respected for a reason. It's a night and day difference in confidence from just knowing you can handle an altercation if one arises.
@blkmgik
@blkmgik Ай бұрын
At least people are meeting outside again. There’s hope.
@asparrow9876
@asparrow9876 28 күн бұрын
Oh how naïve... 😂😂😂
@dinodancer8115
@dinodancer8115 Ай бұрын
I was a running coach for 20 years for these types of clubs. This was a great way for some singles to meet. There are about 70/30 women/men. Better dating atmosphere for the guys than for the girls. For the guys, the rule of thumb was, if she looks remotely cute post run imagine what she will look like cleaned up. A lot of socializing happened not only during the run but afterwards at breakfast, or at a pub on the patio if it was an evening run, out of town for big race events, and more. There were lots of marriages, dating, affairs, etc. I could go on.
@Users_rx
@Users_rx Ай бұрын
What about stalking and redrums?
@evanhughes3027
@evanhughes3027 Ай бұрын
​@@Users_rxstay home, it's not for you.
@agarengames3101
@agarengames3101 Ай бұрын
I gotta change my hobbies because most of the clubs I am in are male dominated.. time to start running! 😂
@Users_rx
@Users_rx Ай бұрын
Lol ure correct my man ​@@evanhughes3027
@Users_rx
@Users_rx Ай бұрын
​@@evanhughes3027lol ure so correct, my mannn
@jacquelinewestbrook7658
@jacquelinewestbrook7658 Ай бұрын
I joined a run club a few months ago with the intention of supporting a more disciplined running routine and to stay accountable to others. That’s exactly what I found. There is no judgement or cute outfits or fancy shoes and there sure as heck isn’t any intentions beyond running with a community. That being said, I know of several run clubs that are hot spots for singles to meet and have created this type of expectation when it comes to “run clubs”. I’m fortunate to have found a true run club that is safe and non judgemental and has improved my life significantly. There are still well-intentioned clubs out there!
@Josh-sz8ip
@Josh-sz8ip Ай бұрын
So it's not a well intention to bring single people together for an auspicious and happy future together?
@chrisr5649
@chrisr5649 Ай бұрын
It’s not bad intentions if everybody knows what they are getting into. But people who are in it just for the athletic pursuit should also feel like they aren’t going to be subjected to unwarranted romantic advances.
@Josh-sz8ip
@Josh-sz8ip Ай бұрын
@@chrisr5649 Wrong. As a member of the social contract, you have a duty to contend with and politely handle romantic advances. The world doesn't revolve around you. If you don't want romantic advances, oh well. Just say no. Don't expect everybody else to be celibate and never try outside a dating app just because SOME people might not want to meet
@jacquelinewestbrook7658
@jacquelinewestbrook7658 Ай бұрын
You guys are right, using words like “true” and “well-intentioned” weren’t the right words to use. Thank you for putting a better perspective on that. I meant no discouragement or negativity to clubs who provide safe and healthy spaces for people to meet. Just wanted to offer my experience so others feel welcome in the run club space. Appreciate the feedback and keeping me honest and open minded
@LY3355
@LY3355 Ай бұрын
They are third spaces. Humans seek a third (one that is not work or home) on which to socialize or build relationships. One where there are established social norms and behaviors. This has been a part of humans for most our history. So people have started to expand on places/communities/locations as “third spaces” organically. We saw it with gyms. We see it with churches. We see it with community centers. Even with parents and children playgrounds. 👀 “Much unseen is also here” Whitman said.
@celso6454
@celso6454 Ай бұрын
The third spaces has been documented as being in decline for the past couple decades, and post pandemic they pretty much were completely removed from the social sphere. I think it’s fair to say that a large uptick in illness for the past couple decades can be at the least somewhat due to the decline of these third spaces. Isolation is really unhealthy for humans. I think it’s great that some people are doing something to bring them back. Even if half the people don’t care so much about the “running” aspect of the run club, the fact that they are getting out and being around other humans is so healthy for body/mind/soul.
@ipleadthefifth1791
@ipleadthefifth1791 Ай бұрын
I DO NOT RUN. Listened to this episode this morning, went to a new run club tonight for the first time. So many inspecting eyes, so many athletic young people in one place… AND LMNT was there, so basically Chris was there, and I got a free drink. The stars aligned and Jesus said “run club” 🗿!!! Will be back.
@kathyp1563
@kathyp1563 22 күн бұрын
Single people should be adding new hobbies. Joining clubs. Meeting interesting people.
@naomigreasley7280
@naomigreasley7280 Ай бұрын
When you’re 47 this is how you used to meet people in your twenties. It’s called having a hobby! You do something you like and actually engage face to face with others, without the sleaze of an app and awkward endless texts.
@joedotphp
@joedotphp Ай бұрын
I joined a run club just meet some new people because I don't have a lot of friends. I was quite surprised to see it's primarily people trying to find dates. I just wanted to run and maybe get some new friends lol.
@krumbergify
@krumbergify Ай бұрын
Dancing classes are also a great way to meet in the same way if you don’t like running :).
@user-wx6ri4xq2g
@user-wx6ri4xq2g Ай бұрын
I was about to make this same comment! Plus you can get a better read on if there's a physical connection
@FreedomTalkMedia
@FreedomTalkMedia 29 күн бұрын
I was kind of wondering what might be better than running. I've never liked running.
@janaeporter3513
@janaeporter3513 Ай бұрын
Summer camp is a fantastic place to meet new people! Especially a Christian summer camp, because you then have some idea of their beliefs and background! And then you’re doing all sorts of activities, finding out what people are good at and what they’re bad at, and you’re ALL wearing shorts and tshirts and you’re very sweaty and it’s hot out but you’re having fun AND praising the Lord because it’s Christian summer camp! I love it
@DaiKam84
@DaiKam84 Ай бұрын
Hahaha...as a runner, I disagree. Although, it is feasible to establish relationships this way, as in any other club activity or place of work that you see people consistently... I run because I love running. And talking with fellow runners on marathons, races, and gear is just that for me. I learn a lot in terms of fitness, and I enjoy running.
@CarpenterHunts
@CarpenterHunts Ай бұрын
Is this why everyone I know who joined CrossFit or OrangeTheory cheated and got divorced?
@Users_rx
@Users_rx Ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯☝️
@TonySoprano-fy3kr
@TonySoprano-fy3kr Ай бұрын
Oh damn I should join a crossfit gym
@Zero_Zero_Zero_Zero
@Zero_Zero_Zero_Zero Ай бұрын
Yes. Yes it is.
@JoeJ-8282
@JoeJ-8282 21 күн бұрын
Yep. Basically because in most cases their partner wasn't there with them, so... Yeah...
@ramirezharrier
@ramirezharrier Ай бұрын
Recently single, I go to 2 separate run clubs in my city to filter out blue hair twitter types 😂
@ProfessionalCleancutguy
@ProfessionalCleancutguy Ай бұрын
😂😂
@tesladrew2608
@tesladrew2608 26 күн бұрын
Why does the color of someone's hair offend you lol
@eddiewilliams7555
@eddiewilliams7555 26 күн бұрын
​@tesladrew2608 you must have blue hair
@tesladrew2608
@tesladrew2608 26 күн бұрын
@@eddiewilliams7555 no I have blond hair lol
@paulmurphy8549
@paulmurphy8549 Ай бұрын
The irish pub been doing that for centuries
@jfkst1
@jfkst1 Ай бұрын
That's not consistent with my experience and run clubs.
@Gunzy83
@Gunzy83 Ай бұрын
There are two types of run clubs. We are members of the other type it seems 😅
@Byourowncoach
@Byourowncoach Ай бұрын
You’re lucky, you’re in a real run club
@witoldschwenke9492
@witoldschwenke9492 Ай бұрын
Yea when I see run clubs it's lots of middle aged to old people and some of their teenage grandkids
@WBrizzle81
@WBrizzle81 Ай бұрын
A bit reductive. Perhaps there's 1 extra layer that's underappreciated. It's community. People are making connections and even friendships. Sure, there is some hooking up, but I think it's positive in the aggregate.
@SeyidAr
@SeyidAr Ай бұрын
Just sounds like a club for people who want to run lmfao.
@Aiden-lm8mo
@Aiden-lm8mo Ай бұрын
No one wants to run, you do realize that right?
@Frankenstizzle
@Frankenstizzle Ай бұрын
Sounds like you don't understand the lengths people will go to to find a date
@limitisillusion7
@limitisillusion7 Ай бұрын
​@@Aiden-lm8moRunning is life. I want to run.
@alexboulay
@alexboulay Ай бұрын
@@Aiden-lm8mofalse
@Ciera_Banks
@Ciera_Banks Ай бұрын
@@Aiden-lm8morunning is one of my main hobbies and I’m quite passionate about it. I love it and do it every single day. I guess I’m in the minority 😂
@lloydmarshall8563
@lloydmarshall8563 Ай бұрын
I go to a run club to run with other runners.
@phantom.wreath
@phantom.wreath Ай бұрын
Based
@HMuny55
@HMuny55 Ай бұрын
Not these 18-25'rs, you clearly havnt been
@lloydmarshall8563
@lloydmarshall8563 Ай бұрын
@@HMuny55 I’ve been going for the last 5 years bar Covid.
@jamesdewane1642
@jamesdewane1642 Ай бұрын
Fre a k
@daniel-eg2oq
@daniel-eg2oq Ай бұрын
Yeah idk what they’re talking about I’m their to work on my running goals
@cniht
@cniht Ай бұрын
When I hear people pushing men to cold approach to random women that are complete strangers, I think it's bollocks for this reason. You have to have a shared interest, and you have to be in a place to see that person, over, and over, and over again.
@kathyp1563
@kathyp1563 22 күн бұрын
I also think current young people are over romantizing the cold approach. As a young woman, I enjoyed being chatted up by men. But it never went anywhere. Definitely not an effective method, unless you're writing a script.
@djee02
@djee02 Ай бұрын
I was definitely going for the running bit.
@respectfuldiscourse9011
@respectfuldiscourse9011 Ай бұрын
Ok. I'm glad this is happening. It's what we used to do as part of normal life. Have hobbies, find others who share your hobbies, make friends, and maybe find a love interest. Falling in love used to be a magical experience, now we have gotten to a point where it's over analyzed, talking about bringing something to the table. We weigh and measure the other person in great detail, ripping out any magic from the relationship. Men and women knew what part they play in a relationship, they saw how their parents did it, they understood what to expect from the other person. Both rolls were respected and valued, until the day feminism convinced the world that one responsibility was less than the other. And the price is paid by the generations of children who are no longer challenged to be better by their fathers, or smothered with love by their mothers. There is one thing different between dating back then, and dating now. The end game. Dating was about finding a partner to share a life with, have kids with, and grow old with. Now, it's just to fulfill the bodily functions of an organism. Until the core fundamental objection changes, the results will not improve. Sorry for the rant
@solovalentino7124
@solovalentino7124 Ай бұрын
warehouse syndrome, close proximity, workplace affairs. 3 become 7s lol
@TyroneBiggums789
@TyroneBiggums789 Ай бұрын
Don’t be giving us 3’s a little bit of hope 😂
@bigj3508
@bigj3508 Ай бұрын
Wow, I just got really into cardio for some reason.
@freddiejohames8332
@freddiejohames8332 25 күн бұрын
It gives me great comfort that we are rediscovering organic relationships
@fraserct533
@fraserct533 Ай бұрын
This has always been so‼- as a GenX man - sports clubs, etc are great places to meet like minded people doing something you all like & to make friends - including girl-friends & boy-friends. I've always said so to my son. I'm a bit surprised / sad to hear young people discussing this as if its something new ⁉️ - get out there, good luck & just be your selves.
@FredericoMourafc
@FredericoMourafc Ай бұрын
You both guys need to come to Brazil and see how effective are the run , cycling or triathlon club are. It's extremely more efficient doing this in a group. Of that can not be the only way to train but it is very efficient
@hw_plainview1179
@hw_plainview1179 Ай бұрын
My father founded the Central Park Track Club (CPTC) in 1972.
@joeynova9896
@joeynova9896 14 күн бұрын
Consistency is the key. 🔑
@MegaSunshineyday
@MegaSunshineyday Ай бұрын
I used to go to different Nike run clubs all over LA. I was invited by a male friend who was a good runner, and by a female friend from work, separately. I agree think this is a great way to meet people. There’s plenty of time before and after to network. Also, I thought everyone was attractive and professional.
@jamesdoyle2769
@jamesdoyle2769 Ай бұрын
Revolutionary... Everything old is new again. Brett nails it - a low stakes environment where an acquaintance grows organically. this is how people used to do things before dating.
@sophiehaywood6762
@sophiehaywood6762 Ай бұрын
I signed up for a half marathon and intend to start going to run clubs to help with training consistency. I also don't have many friends, so it's seems like a good place to meet other actively-inclined people. Hate that I also realised it would be a good place to find a partner in the future... hoping I'll be able to focus on the run rather than being more concerned about how I'm being perceived.
@tedwunderlich2741
@tedwunderlich2741 Ай бұрын
Trust me, there is a certain subset for whom this isn’t the case, because we don’t meet the physical requirements
@atomicsmith
@atomicsmith Ай бұрын
Which came first the chicken or the egg?
@dynamite_dynamite5954
@dynamite_dynamite5954 Ай бұрын
The struggs
@rikuclad1264
@rikuclad1264 Ай бұрын
Hahaha love your honesty
@Aiden-lm8mo
@Aiden-lm8mo Ай бұрын
If you can’t meet the physical requirements then you should work on that before trying to date
@tedwunderlich2741
@tedwunderlich2741 Ай бұрын
@@Aiden-lm8mo oh it has nothing to do with anything below the chin
@brotherben4357
@brotherben4357 Ай бұрын
Back 2 decades ago my local squash club was the OG dating app.
@pwk22
@pwk22 17 күн бұрын
I'm out of the dating scene, but run clubs sound like a wholesome, healthy way to meet people.
@constantined9015
@constantined9015 Ай бұрын
In the UK there are hiking activities formally addressed to singles! I would be like the nerd there because I would go for the actual hiking!!!
@limitisillusion7
@limitisillusion7 Ай бұрын
Hiking is a much better fit for socializing than running in my opinion. Once I'm running, the music is on and I'm in without mode.
@Frankenstizzle
@Frankenstizzle Ай бұрын
I'm a bodybuilder so I joined the Fitness Singles website like 10 years ago and I have yet to get a message from someone who's in shape LOL
@ligh7foo7
@ligh7foo7 Ай бұрын
Tried the going club club, coffee club, run club, church club over many years and being genuinely interested in this process and the club and people not being interested.
@Ciera_Banks
@Ciera_Banks Ай бұрын
I’m in the run club for my city, which is somewhat big, 200k ppl, and I can assure you it’s a place I came bc I LOVE RUNNING 😂 If I meet someone cool. But initially I was like ok, what can I get involved in, community wise where there’s at least ppl to talk to, that I truly enjoy the activity to my core. I wouldn’t care if it was all women or not. Even better (just bc I’m trying to make more female friends!). I LOL’d way too hard at this.
@victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289
@victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289 Ай бұрын
The common experience i hear from singles who do this is that the people are never someone they would be interested in (both men and women). They say the people that usually go to those groups are not anyone they would find attractive.
@tinostarks
@tinostarks Ай бұрын
what they described is like every meetup I've been to
@CorNigrum
@CorNigrum Ай бұрын
I go to a (trail) running club and I'm single. I must be doing something not quite right. But more power to those that find love, it's hard to just meet people once you hit a certain age and are busy with life.
@vincentlussier8264
@vincentlussier8264 27 күн бұрын
Love this girl Bret Cooper. She's brilliant and well spoken and holds a show really well. I see her as a talkshow radio host or a news anchor women. Very resourceful and has the looks for sure! I think there's an important place for this girl and should take her talent beyond Utube!
@RonCecchetti
@RonCecchetti 29 күн бұрын
I think that's better because it takes some of the pressure off and you can just have fun and work out
@curiousconsultant7922
@curiousconsultant7922 Ай бұрын
It's an artificial recreation of what high school gym class (or any class) was. A group of people united by a common activity but no control of who else gets to be there so they are socially required to socialize with otherwise random people and chemistry spawns from there. But this model is 1000 times better than the 1 on 1 interview that dating apps require (even if I've gotten very good at that) And running is good for you if nothing else
@fdra1763
@fdra1763 Ай бұрын
It’s more organic this way. Not as much pressure as a date.
@fcfdroid
@fcfdroid 13 күн бұрын
So run clubs and pickleball is where I need to be😅
@icebreaker753
@icebreaker753 Ай бұрын
I actually think people are so poor or "time poor" in america that they have a hard time having hobbies that they consistently turn up to. And for a guy, his first hobby is generally shooting, or mma, or something man-centric, and so the barrier to entry is to have a second hobby that is laid back, like acro yoga. So men and women would have to be "time rich" and well off enough to have a consistently nurtured second hobby with a healthy co ed ratio, or even a favorable ratio where perhaps more of your desired gender show up than you.
@matthewboyd8689
@matthewboyd8689 24 күн бұрын
This used to be called 3rd places It's something that walkable towns and cities used to have, but because half of Of where we live is taken up by parking and highway systems. There's not enough room for them anymore. And because people would walk you would only meet people in a walking distance, thus creating the same effect.
@annatardlordofderps9181
@annatardlordofderps9181 Ай бұрын
The dating scene has been destroyed by a combination of dating apps and cars. Relationships in the past developed between people of your surroundings. Youve already had a pretty significant history with the other person before even starting to pursue something romantic. Now the relationships are flimsy, hollow. They are a lot more tempestuous and instable early, because for the first few months the man and the woman are largely strangers. It also creates a bad perceptual cycle where the plurality of women are going after a minority of very valuable men. This asymmetric value results in these sought-after high value men do not value any individual woman they end up with to anywhere near the same degree. When they had significantly fewer options and had to treat these options better. There is a minor tendency of some hgiher valued women coincidentally or intentionally responding to this trend and 'dating down' and giving those 6s, 7s and 8s a try. I dont know if these relationships will be more stable or if inclinations will have her expecting the man to adopt a burden he isnt in a position to be able to.
@izzlabel
@izzlabel Ай бұрын
Women need to change and be reasonable.thats the bottom line, they have too much power and too less effort
@BalazsFingszEgyikFingja
@BalazsFingszEgyikFingja Ай бұрын
Dating apps and "cars"?🧐
@Aiden-lm8mo
@Aiden-lm8mo Ай бұрын
I really felt that when you said the first couple months the man and the woman are mostly strangers because that is so true
@kileerr1533
@kileerr1533 Ай бұрын
This is such bs heaps of people go just to run
@kileerr1533
@kileerr1533 Ай бұрын
Also why shit on people meeting in a healthy way?
@Josh-sz8ip
@Josh-sz8ip Ай бұрын
​@@kileerr15331. They aren't saying it's problematic. 2. They didn't say people don't go there to run.
@akaemzett
@akaemzett Ай бұрын
It also works with bjj and boxing, but you need to turn yourself gay first.
@darshandev1754
@darshandev1754 Ай бұрын
done
@LaLaBlahBlahh
@LaLaBlahBlahh Ай бұрын
I love how this is a global thing too. I live in Western Australia and it’s huge here too. The Hokkas, everything 😂
@olliec1319
@olliec1319 Ай бұрын
Married man here. I joined a run club to share my hobby with others and push myself a bit. And made lots of nice friends along the way. But certainly didn’t join as a dating club.
@kathyp1563
@kathyp1563 22 күн бұрын
I think the point is that 20-somethings are relearning how to make friends & potential dates in person. This is great!
@olliec1319
@olliec1319 21 күн бұрын
@@kathyp1563 If 20 somethings are going to running clubs to meet a partner then great. I'm all for it. Just to quote what was said: "Run clubs are dating organisations masquerading as a fitness pursuit. Noone goes to run club for the running bit."
@ben8629
@ben8629 Ай бұрын
This used to be the pub but its too expensive to drink anymore. A run club is probably healthier
@KouryuuGW2
@KouryuuGW2 Ай бұрын
this stuff doesnt work in real life. ive asked a bunch of girls out over the years where we have a mutual thing and its always no, no matter how much they seem to like me. im just not it
@onmywayup94
@onmywayup94 Ай бұрын
It might just be you my guy
@user-wn1kq8jx5q
@user-wn1kq8jx5q Ай бұрын
@@onmywayup94exactly. It blows my mind how many people can’t catch the social queues
@ItsOnlyFate777
@ItsOnlyFate777 Ай бұрын
​@@onmywayup94if you pay attention to what you read, that's what he said at the end.. "it's just not it.."
@KouryuuGW2
@KouryuuGW2 Ай бұрын
@@beatewagner7.2934 cheers. i dont consider myself nice, more weak. i keep working on myself, i've come a long way but it seems like theres too much further to go. no hate, some of us are just not meant to make it
@Jin-Rohhh
@Jin-Rohhh Ай бұрын
It does work, you need to work on your game and appearance bruv.
@BAYKING_316
@BAYKING_316 Ай бұрын
This is good news. Get off the phone and meet people and get fit at the same time.
@Glitch-vn4hz
@Glitch-vn4hz Ай бұрын
The main reason i wouldn’t do this is because some people do actually just want to run and i don’t want to run that for them by hitting on them
@colindavidson6483
@colindavidson6483 Ай бұрын
This is why all my past relationships came from my job. Plenty of time to develop relationships and figure out each other
@H.Michele
@H.Michele Ай бұрын
People keep telling me to join some kind of club or group for something I’m interested in to meet people… problem is every activity I enjoy is solitary. 🤷‍♀️
@kevincosgrove948
@kevincosgrove948 Ай бұрын
Run clubs are consistently tied to either monday or tuesday evenings at breweries in North Carolina. Wait… i thought you are there to run and not drink alcohol?
@oxycane851
@oxycane851 13 күн бұрын
So like literally any social group you join? Hard to believe this is some ground breaking realization.
@_._.4
@_._.4 Ай бұрын
It never occurred to me until these two pointed it out that Run clubs weren't there just for the purposes of going for a good run.
@dustinbranham9746
@dustinbranham9746 Ай бұрын
I've gone to running groups for years because I want to run. So this is an overstatement. It is true, though, that many people use run groups this way.
@ochem123
@ochem123 Ай бұрын
80% of success is simply showing up. Gen Z mostly avoids uncomfortable situations (as do we all naturally). If you show up once, act awkward then never show up again, you’ll never meet people. Be consistent and everything else will flow naturally. That’s why people make friends in school; because they go everyday to learn. Coworkers are different because of different dynamics. ❤️‍🔥🇻🇦🇺🇸
@meanerminnermina7333
@meanerminnermina7333 24 күн бұрын
Going places and doing things with other peoples leads to the formation of relationships??? This is seriously news to me...wow I never would've thought. What a surprise. (I'm a weekly church goer since childhood)
@guillaumesandmayer7053
@guillaumesandmayer7053 25 күн бұрын
Sounds like an extension of people meeting at the gym over the course of time. I'd rather join a run club though. Always found gyms to be slightly odd 😅
@dxd360_kia4
@dxd360_kia4 12 күн бұрын
....wait so having my own built gym is screwing me up with my dating life? Damn if only i liked people enough to go to a running club thing
@JoeJ-8282
@JoeJ-8282 21 күн бұрын
Hmm, I did not know that there even were such a thing as "run clubs"... Where are they held and how do I sign up for one? I've never even heard of such a thing until now...
@bobcobb158
@bobcobb158 21 күн бұрын
theres a club for literally any interest or hobby you can imagine.
@JoeJ-8282
@JoeJ-8282 20 күн бұрын
@@bobcobb158 OK... Well, if that's indeed true then there REALLY needs to be a website or something totally dedicated to hooking you up with one in your area, based on genre of interest and your town where you live, because some of the nerdy niche hobbies that I have, I've never found ANYONE else who's as passionately into it/them as I am, much less an entire local group of "fellow nerds" who are interested in the same stuff as me, lol!
@themick6586
@themick6586 26 күн бұрын
I go to a place called Orange Theory, it's about 95% women, everyone is friendly. I'm a guy married for 45 years going to support my wife, even if you don't meet someone, the workout will kick your butt. I've had some of my weight lifter buddies try it and get their butt's kicked.
@Sucellusification
@Sucellusification 21 күн бұрын
My grandpas used to walk along a pedestrian street here, with their friends, and that way they met girls or boys to date. It's not so different
@francois9369
@francois9369 Ай бұрын
At least you meet fit people with no filters.
@MrMarzworld927
@MrMarzworld927 Ай бұрын
For me, it s whats happens when some or most and the "relationship" turns out to be nothing 😐 we "just talk" with random people most of the days.. idk its trying to find what the weird factor is in all of this🤷🏾‍♂️
@brandoncoates2460
@brandoncoates2460 Ай бұрын
Great, cool, but can you do it around something other then running.
@leoverran311
@leoverran311 25 күн бұрын
Stalking? Normal people similar interests. Put in the ear bud if you’re only there to run.
@khdur
@khdur Ай бұрын
I adore both of you, NOW...can we talk about what it really is? Particularly in North America, predominantly in the US, we've allowed the breakdown of multi-generational living/gathering/celebrating/training/etc. We can develop as people far more effectively in a circle of unconditional love than is possible in a competitive environment. A multi-generational and community based environment allows for a broader, wiser and more balanced perspective. We also develop a subtler intuitive body when dealing with those outside our generational comfort zone. Grandparents and children require a different hand than Bob from payables or Cheryl from HR.
@dinodancer8115
@dinodancer8115 Ай бұрын
Dance studios are awesome as well. There are way more girls who want to dance and too many guys are too self conscious to do so. If you are clean, smell nice, friendly attitude, and not creepy…women love to dance. Women who love to dance usually have friends who love to dance too. The options can be great for guys.
@championxix
@championxix Ай бұрын
I like how run clubs are low-key being described as innovative when gyms have been a way for people to socialize in that way years
@kurtismotif
@kurtismotif Ай бұрын
Ahh the good old day... classrooms were the best. Next to homeroom, PE and detention...ooh detention.
@joshuawiedenbeck6944
@joshuawiedenbeck6944 Ай бұрын
Church used to do that, but everyone stopped going.....
@Timeus
@Timeus 24 күн бұрын
My bicycle still calls for strava, I'm gucci.
@austinjohnson8400
@austinjohnson8400 Ай бұрын
She’s not wrong. Some young people suck at just talking forget a relationship.
@lefthandofthedevil4372
@lefthandofthedevil4372 Ай бұрын
That's the mere exposure effect
@trawll8659
@trawll8659 24 күн бұрын
Shocker that having to work multiple jobs just to get by has people more reliant on their phones for social interaction than meeting people face to face.
@777jones
@777jones Ай бұрын
Oh my gosh, doing normal stuff like a person puts you into proximity with other people. And you can talk to people nearby omg.
@gymnopedie4445
@gymnopedie4445 Ай бұрын
"Run clubs" don't address the fundamental dilemma for young men trying to date today: any attempt to approach a woman outside of spaces explicitly designed for dating is now considered "sexual harassment" and any space that IS explicitly designed for dating is going to have an 80/20 male/female ratio and is going to be massively unfavorable to the men.
@johnherring450
@johnherring450 Ай бұрын
I've seen marriages ruined by run clubs and the workout clubs in the gyms
@alondrita02
@alondrita02 Ай бұрын
I just want running buddies 😂 but I live in the middle of nowhere and 40 minutes from the city (Texas)
@ask230
@ask230 Ай бұрын
I didn't know if it's the lighting, but she looks A.I. generated 😅
@JohnScaer
@JohnScaer 2 күн бұрын
Maybe things are different in, “the real world.” I tried Run Club a couple of times in college because I truly liked casual running. It was mostly made up of people who took running far more seriously than I did and seemed to be trying for a spot on the university’s cross country team.
@SubjectiveFunny
@SubjectiveFunny Ай бұрын
I may have to find a running club, although I despise running..
@ronmexico5908
@ronmexico5908 Ай бұрын
Can’t for virtual run clubs on treadmills. It’s less creepy😅
@MrOrthodox13
@MrOrthodox13 Ай бұрын
Is there a problem? Gym is a socializing thing, if you want to train there is the floor, you can do pushups squats crunches and hyperextensions, you can get a pullup bar and get extremely fit. People think I'm on steroids but I'm on floor.
@dwaynesbadchemicals
@dwaynesbadchemicals Ай бұрын
I hate the idea of formulaic courting. It takes everything away from spontaneity.
@IndieSamy
@IndieSamy 22 күн бұрын
2 non-runners talking about running clubs
@anthonygraham8122
@anthonygraham8122 Ай бұрын
I just would love to see dr.mike's opinion on this
@PLF...
@PLF... 16 күн бұрын
If you talk to anyone while working out, youre not working out
@lotussociety1022
@lotussociety1022 Ай бұрын
It's called Proximity Hunting! Duh!
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