It especially hurts when u don’t even have your “best friends” because deep down u know they never would put u first and you truly have no one

I’m pretty sure I’ve always been the “second” friend or just a back up when they need😔

I put everyone first, never myself and no one wanted to put me first. It hurt...........knowing no one really cared enough.

Why am I always the backup plan. The only time I’m someone’s first option is when they have a problem they think I can fix.

Do u ever just feel numb and lie in bed until u can’t cry anymore so u just sit and question life and urself till u can’t do it anymore. But u have to or ur friends and family with be broken like u already r inside....

"I'm a mess and I don't have anything or anyone" that hit me deep...😢

Everyone be like: I don’t want to feel anymore. Sis, feeling nothing is the worst feeling.

reason we want to be first option is because we don’t chose ourselves over people and we just want someone to finally chose us back

“No one puts me first, least of all you” That hit me I’m always the last option for my friends. There’s always someone else they would rather be with. And you know what sucks? I had a friend tell me she would always be there for me and make sure I didn’t feel so alone and it lasted 2 days till she forgot about me again. I had to sit at a table next to hers coz it was too crowded. It fucking sucks coz she’s the closest thing I have to a best friend at school. No one cares about me in school and school is supposed to be the place I go to escape from my family. I just wanna die

When you stop texting them, you realize it was you who was initiating a conversation in the first place. They never cared.

Ever go back to these videos just to know you can still feel but.. You just watch and feel empty. I mean i want to cry hut i cant i wanna feel what you guys are feeling and it's so fustrating that i cabt anymore.

“I hate myself with such a passion” I said that to my friend and he didn’t even care

The sad part is apologizing for your pain. For your tears.

it's hard when you talk for hours and hours on facetime with a friend talking about their problems but when you tell them it's been a hard month or two they respond with 'lol mood'

All I want is to be cared about I feel useless at times. I’ve never been appreciated for anything I’ve done for people.

You know it's happening again when you start watching these kinds of videos

"No one puts me first" Maze I feel you girl

Is it just me that can sit for hours and just feel numb and cry till you can’t cry more and just sit there and feel nothing ? And when a sibling ,family member or a friend came in to your room and you said you are fine but you are not and you don’t want to tell them how you feel Because you don’t want to break them or want them to feel bad :(

when i saw the title,no one puts me first, i immediately thought of that scene from lucifer

the scene where mazikeen cries always gets me. she seems so broken and sad

Why should i cried? Nobody will hear me. Nobody gonna knows that i cried. I wasted my tears.

My best friend, someone I would do ANYTHING for, chose someone else over me all the time and ignored me at my most darkest times

Sometimes I just sit and think. What’s the point of life. I’m a nobody I hate myself and just wish I wasn’t so dam lonely all the time

I’m always that friend, that is there for everyone and everything, for help them and listening to them. But I’m never the one that they listen to my problems. I may be the mom of the group but I’m the most lonely of my group, I don’t know what to do, I just want to disappear or die but I don’t want to hurt them, but I would perfectly die and maybe I’ll be happy

i always put others first and want them to be okay but no one ever asks me how i am they don’t care for me unless i help them

I used to watch these videos to get that pain out but now its planted itself in to where my heart used to be

”You only care about me when you don’t have ”Chloe” anyone else ,none puts me first. Least of all you” that one hit me hard this whole video hits me hard but that one is the worst:(

Everyone just took me for granted.

It sucks when your best friends say they will put you first but then a boy walks in to their life that they have known for 5 seconds and you don’t exist anymore

I always feel like the second choice to my friends when it comes to hanging out. It feels like they would rather be hanging with anyone else but me and it hurts knowing I probably won't be anyones first choice.

I have to admit, although I rlly don’t want anyone hurting. It’s nice to hear people who relate to me so much finally. Let’s stay strong~

It sucks when you are forgotten.. when all your life you’ve put everyone first.. and when you need it everyone’s gone.. your world crumbles, never put first never remembered

it's hurt deeply when u know that no one will put u first ! everyone will do that's for themselves, but u will do it for who's u love , and in the end ? u will just realize that NO ONE care about u ..

“You only care about me when you don’t have ___” awful how my best friend came to my mind

When the person you will always choose first wouldn’t even choose you second

1:43 This broke my heart 😢

I am learning that I have to appreciate myself, love myself, put myself first..Becouse no one will do that...no one understands

Empty is something I have always been very proud to have. I have walked down many paths in my life. I feel very blessed.

I cried by reading the line "no one puts me first"

To anybody watching this, you must be feeling a certain type of way. I need you to know, you’re loved, you’re cared about and you will always be more than enough.❤️

That Omelia part killed me!💔 Amazing vid!

Amelia is one of my favorite characters, shes so strong and she's been through so much

grey’s anatomy hits different

I love this. I always cry when i watch this.This is beautiful job. 💓

Mazikeen’s scene hit me hard 😭

Sad to admit but its the truth that No one ever put me first from family to friend.. theres no one

The feels are real. I'm just there to people and for people, I'm not the one they go to and just say hi and chat. When people are down, I try my best even when I'm sad, and I'm down in the dumps, but when I'm down, I always end up alone. It sucks sometimes, when you have that awful feeling that you want to go to someone and pour out the feelings but there ain't no one to call or talk to.

I’m always last...for everybody. There’s always someone better than me...it’ll always be that way. But I am sick and tired of feeling this way.

People feed of from others. They love and cherish certain ones because those help them feel validated. We all have our jnsecurities but we should never become needy. I'd prefer to be appreciated and respected. It's a stronger position I think. I don't think I've ever been anyone's favorite person. I felt sad about it for awhile. But when I was told it was because of my strength and because of me being my own person, I wasn't bothered by it anymore. True friendships are based on much more than making others feel or think that they are our favorite person. That I am sure of.

The grey's anatomy and lucifer parts :'(

Everytime i consider someone my best friend, i find out they already have a best friend and im never gonna be their first choice :(

If anyone sees this can relate, tell me: I feel like there's no one actually in my life. I'm no one's best friend, oldest friend, fuck having a relationship people don't even want to be friends with me, and it's definitely not for lack of trying I've tried. So. Hard. In the past. But I'm done trying. I guess they call this acceptance. Alone, forever, meeting people in passing, never letting anyone truely in... Thinking back not much will have changed, just removing the stressful "trying to change it" part. I suppose we all have our roles, mines gonna be "loner in a shitty studio drinking smoking sleeping or working all day, but always alone"

The fact that I'm realising that when someone asks me who my best friends I would say there names but I don't think they would say my name ...

You put everyone before you and be with them through thick and thin but they are the first people to betray you and leave you alone when you need them until you learn to just stay alone coz its better than being hurt

I had always been the second priority to my family and my friends. And never really been in a relationship because I'm always the second option, and people choose their first. I've wondered why for so long but then I just realized they just don't love me that much as I love them. And it's not something I can help. But as soon as I stop caring this, I felt so free. I knew that no one would call me first but hey I don't need to call them first either. And being with the men who would choose other people over me is worse than being single. And I figured out that ever since I stopped calling them first, the ones who cares for me would call me back, and the ones who don't don't deserve my time. Deep down I still wonder why though. People say it's because I don't love myself enough, but I've seen people obviously lack of self-love being so favored by other people. I wonder why I just can't get that.

the main problem is that im not even putting myself first cause i just dont want even to exist like i wish i was able to disappear

I always put the people before me because i can make them feel happy. But the people never do the same thing back they put everyone before me. But if i don't give them gifts anymore they think i am the bad one and i am the one who forget them.

This amazed me! It is like s mini movie. I love!

Got nothing left to lose I’m all alone yet I have a full home

I feel like I want to cry but there's no tears coming up, my heart is so heavy.

I feel I’ve never had friends in my whole life. They just talk me when they need me and after that they just leave me. When I think in a real friend I can’t find anyone and I just feel so alone because I try with all my heart finding someone but I just can’t. I don’t know if i have something wrong with myself or I’m bored... idk

i go through these periods every once in a while when i feel like everybody either hates me,finds me annoying or straight up doesn’t care about me.i just feel so disconnected from everyone

Omg i loved the video what where all the different fandoms? ❤️❤️

This is so amazing x

The worst part is that when I put myself first, I get told that I'm "selfish" by the same people that I know don't care about me and that aren't my friends.

Poor Jo, Amelia, and Owen. It makes me cry.

Who else is always the one asking them how are you, how was your day or even hi first but they never ask us first...

I don't care if you put me second, just need someone to support me...I just need a friend 💔😥

I hade someone who made sure I was happy and put me first but now my hero the one who always believed in me and made sure I had a good life he’s dead he’s gone now i just sit here and I don’t tell anyone but when I do they always turn it around on me saying well sorry I don’t make you happy or I put you first OR I care and I believe in you and I want you to have a good life but then they do nothing to help me I can’t even talk to them because I feel like no one has my back it sucks it really does

I'm that friend who's always there for them and listen to their problems. But no ones ever that person back to me and it hurtz. No one checks up on me. I'm the 2nd option and it hurts so much because you feel like they don't care about you. They care about their problems and never ask me😔😔

i loved the video 😊 it was amazing

, " NO ONE puts me first" yea i felt that .

It hurts when your friends would always put each other before you. I'm the last for my friends to pick in group projects. The last one to be sat with on the bus. My friends always run off randomly to greet each other in the hall mid-conversation. I know if it came down to it I would be last in everything.

Attachment is very dengirous, very painful. Can't describe in words 🙂

My own self gives me violence. My lovers give me silence. My mother gives me lies and I feel worse cause the lies I'm buyin. My so called friends give me invisibility. Some people give me vulnerability. I hate being left alone but now it's just become my ability. 😞🥺

This hits deep 💔 I don’t know what I’m doing anymore

I’m never liked or anyone’s first choice 😔 always feel neglected

What’s worse? Having no friends whatsoever, not feeling the pain of not being put first by them, but still feeling the pain of having NOBODY. No human contact, only actually talking to ur mom since the rest of ur family hates you. Or having friends. Not having your social life crumbling away, and still talking to people, instead of being told what a bad person you are for keeping to yourself. It might not be ideal. Find better friends, explore your options before you truly. Have nobody. I’d kill to remember what it was like to have friends, to talk and laugh with people. Even if I’m never the first choice - I never was. But I still had fun. It’s been years and I forget what “fun” is, or the feeling of laughing your head off till you can’t breathe. Some of us have to accept we won’t always be first, not in your group where you choose to do nothing about it. The day will come, someone will put you first, but you wouldn’t know, because maybe you’re like me. You keep people at a distance in an attempt to avoid getting hurt again. Accept you won’t be the first choice. Accept that you have friends. You have people to talk to, you just have to put yourself out there. If they don’t want to listen to you, let them go. If you wont do that, at least accept the fact of how lucky you are to have any friends at all. If you have friends, on some occasion, you must laugh, right? Have fun? Smile? You know what its like, even if you feel like the odd person out. I don’t remember those feelings. I miss it.

Honestly, I think the one thing no one in this comment section understand is, that you have to care about yourself first in order to someone else caring about you. If you don't even think you're worth it, than why should others? Stop waiting for someone to come and pick you up from your dark place, because nobody will. Nobody except you. You have to value yourself! Please ♡ In the end we all are some kind of lonely. But the good thing is, that you will always have someone by your side and that someone is you. So be kind to yourself..

I am basically always the thirdwheel in my group and that hurts 💔

Even i can't put my self first

3:20 the way she is crying broke my heart. She was literally saying with her tears that she cannot handle it anymore.

Do you ever feel like ur not important to anyone. Or no one actually likes you they just tolerate you. I don’t make any different in anyone’s life and I feel like this every fucking day. I don’t have a purpose and I’m jus unlovable. No one will ever love me and I’ve realised that finally.

I’m always second even with my own family. My sister has a medical issue and I understand but everybody forgot abt my pain they just call me crazy and ignore it. She always gets everything and while I’m there just broken

I used to come here to cry but now I can't feel anymore. Am i becoming really empty now?....

I have family and friends but no one i can talk too. I already told them that i have depression but it seems they all forgot about it or didn’t care at all...

For once and once I want to feel wanted and loved,or special. It shatters me from inside to not be loved even bring good and kind I got hit the most from life.

Guy drinks more than anyone, he should be in the Guinness World Record books

I moved from Australia to England about a year ago and my two best friends (one for 7 years the other for 4) are both in Australia and I don’t even think I would be their first best friend which hurts because I’ve always tried my hardest to put other people first.

Do you ever just feel so exhausted of having to work so hard to just be okay… the separation between myself and others just feels so impossible to cross sometimes

What’s wrong with me putting myself first when I know nobody else will?

Even though the video is sad The comments hit hard because I can relate

Its really heart's

I'm just a person who puts others first, there happiness over mine. I don't know why I look at life that way but it kinda makes me feel better and yet I'm still sad and broken inside 😔😢💔

I always would put people first before me..my ex I always made sure she was okay and I would hide how I felt about things..she got distant like in the past and..when we split she went for someone whom she fell for awhile with me..and a bit after that she made me believe she still wanted me..because her lover would hide stuff from her..and ignore her or something bad..but yet she never ever gave me an actual sign she wanted me back she chose that person over me and told me.."it's not my fault every human except you can treat me right"

I know how it feel when you are just option for them and they are priority for you 💔

I'm always the "extra friend", when they want to get rid of someone bc "it's too crowded" they ask me to leave :)

I waited for my friend till 5am to call me because she said she needed someone . Turns out she was calling someone else and forgot to inform me... am i that easy to forget? I know it is stupid to overthink about... but why does it hurt?

Im just a back up to all my friends and it hurts that they only appreciate me when they are hurt :(

I always put everyone before me cuz I can't be selfish. I think of the pain I go through only to remember people go through worse. I always fuck things up.