The version of the song you hear in this video is the first version from October 2015. Some months later I fixed the drastic volume change and the overall muffled tone where you can hear better what's going on. If you're interested in a cleaner sounding version of "her" you can find it here sadnessmusic.bandcamp.com/track/her . Thank you for feeling the music

I posted on this video 5 months ago my wife when she passed away in 2000 I still can't get over her I see my two kids my son and my daughter im her it just hurts me so bad but you know what I have to live on every day without her I miss her so much I wish she was here every day with me but I can't hurt myself or harm myself cuz of my kids right now cuz they are going to be parents now and I'm going to be a grandfather from them and I can't do it I do it for her to stay alive so that way I can see my second generation live on

My wife left me n my two kids when they were babys its been 18 years now i still see her in my kids i miss her so much rest in peace my love

I was homeless, had lost my job due to covid lockdowns. It was winter i had no job or will to live. Almost about to end it all. By chance she happened into my life and we kinda struck a chord. From there we did everything together. I walked 30 miles to her town to see her. I got a job and saved up money for an apartment. Finally got to take her home , felt amazing. Life was simple and i felt content and happy. One day she just disappeared and never said a word. Never saw her again. I still remember kissing her goodbye at 415 that morning on my way to work and feeling like i had the whole world. I came home she was gone. I couldn't contact her. I felt hopeless. Still feel that way. Shes gone but i wonder now, a couple years later, does she think of me? I miss her. I cant find anyone else like her. Fucl im foreman on a construction crew nowand ive moved up in life greatly. But i need her back

The reason the song has no vocals is because there are no words to describe the loss of someone you care about. Whether it is a breakup or a death. Look at the comments here. Nothing I say matters, my loudest scream isn't even a whisper in this ocean of agony. Knowing others go through the same thing doesn't help, it only makes me feel worse. I have never felt this hopeless or helpless before in my life.

She taught me a lot about love, even if she could not give it to me.

All the men who posted here, you have just shown me a side of being a real man that stays so hidden in the everydays. Respect for your support for one another. This life or another, your connection is real. Hold onto love, that is all we are.

Tears in my face, her voice in my head...

When she left it was like the world stopped existing for me. And even now six years later all I can think about is her and if she is happy now. And countless times I think about writing her but then I remember that she is probably happy now and does not remember me anymore. Knowing that she is better off without me breaks me every time I think about it but I just cannot forget her no matter what I do and I really tried hard. But knowing that she is happy now is the only thing easing the pain because she was the love of my life and even though it destroys me not having her by my side anymore I still want the best for her. But maybe that is what love is all about: Enduring the suffering and the pain so that your loved one can be happy. At least I hope so. I miss you V...

I still come back to this song now its been 20 years that she passed on I miss her I still can't get over her this is the best song love u Rose ann Aguirre 2 21 2000

She's the only person I'll ever love. Even now, five years later, I still love her and want the best for her. I feel her everywhere - see her everywhere. In the ripple of a shadow on a lake, in the starless night sky, on a warm summer's wind. Her eyes, a winter storm. Her skin, an alabaster moon. Even if she never responds to me, even if she never thinks about me, she made me a better person, and gave me the hope and strength to keep living. At least we sometimes exist together in my dreamscapes, in otherworldly planes.

I love and respect everyone in this comments section. The pain links us together.

I thought I was in a bad spot, but holy crap I did not expect this comment section to be like this. Stay strong fellas, and try to not think about the past too much. Also I come here pretty often, this is an absolute masterpiece of a track.

Her..ghost haunts these walls...

You disappear from my life, Forget about all the memories, Fade away by time, But the scars will never been cure, Pain... Till I die

In school i was bullied in a number ways, i planned to commit suicide one day until she appeared, she was the only one who was my friend at school, until the end of eight grade, where we saw ourselves for the last time and 3 years later i still miss her, she was the only girl who made me happy.

The worst part of love is when the person you love most leaves, it’ll destroy you. The day the love of my life dies is the day I die emotionally forever. She’s the only one that understands me, cares about me more than anyone I’ve met, puts up with me when I’m difficult and I’m the same for her. Our ups are more powerful than the few downs we’ve had. But the fear of the inevitable of losing her is what hurts my heart and I know the day she passes it’ll destroy my soul. She’s my everything and I’m her everything. I’ll do everything in my absolute power to protect her and care for her. My best friend for 6 years and the love of my life for a year and a half now. She’s the one who showed me light when my world was dark. Thank you my love

It's a good thing I don't have anyone to think of while listening to this cause that would be like 10x sadder. I feel bad for the other people in here though.

Man this hurts inside to listen to. It's so beautiful. She is gone from my life, but I cannot just simply forget those simple moments and wonderful memories of just us alone.

This is not just a song, it is a way of expressing your inner feelings, feelings that you can't express most of the time.

I miss her. I should’ve tried harder to help her. But I didn’t, and now she’s gone. If her over protective older brother wouldn’t have tackled me thinking I was gonna hurt her, I probably could’ve saved her. All I wanted to do was save her from herself. But I didn’t try hard enough in the first place, so I lost her. Even though she told me to forget her, I never really did. I can’t forget her, I refuse to. I miss her. May we meet again in the after life. I’ll wait an eternity just to be with her again.

Everyone has a “her” and the beauty of this song is that it helped us to realize it. Thank you for this.

Sometimes all that is left are tears. Tears that not even alcohol and coke can cure. Im not sure I have found my "her" but I have tried and sadness has remained and my youth is leaving me

I used to have a friend with whom I was in love. That was until I fell in love with another girl who didn't turn out to be special to me. I had my chance with my friend after that until I fell in love with another girl, and it was the same case with the last one. My friend and I don't talk to each other anymore, but it was only at the end, when I'm alone and depressed, that I realized she was my "Her" this whole time. Every time I listen to this song, my heart aches for her instead.

This song describes how I feel right now perfectly... About her..., about how she saved my life...

my mind is always with her.. I've faded far from hers...

Truth is this. I love her. Only she can ever have access to my heart. Even if she hurt me, I'd always forgive her because I well and truly with all my heart love her. The first time we spoke was the moment my life changed. She was and is perfect to me. I can never love anyone else, only her. I love you always and forever.

This MUSICAL SADNESS reminded me of what erodes me: the EMPTY and EXTREME PAIN of wanting and never being able to be / make someone happy, and also of the people I LOVE but maybe I will NEVER have in my fragile arms, thank you ...

21 years on February 21 I fucking miss u n this is the best song to play when I'm thinking of u

I was there for you on the lonely cold nights when you needed me. You were there when I felt lost . You bled in my arms. I thought I was going to lose you , for when you first held me back.. Your scars grew but you became distant; cold and distant. I miss you , but you chose Her. She took you from me, when I still loved you. I hope she loves you and heals the scars I couldn't.

Es improbable que alguien lo lea realmente. Solo que al escuchar esta canción por primera vez con detenimiento me trajo recuerdos que aun no sanan. Hace tres años conocí a una chica maravillosa y la mas hermosa que conocí. Cuando comenzamos a reflexionar sobre como actuamos no podemos cargar con tal culpa al principio. Lo peor es que ella siente mas dolor que el que nosotros sentimos y es lo mas difícil de llevar. Creo que siempre un momento para realmente llorar desconsoladamente como un niño puede calmar un poco las nubes.

i could say so much about her, i could say that i need her in my life, her smell, her smile, her kiss and her hands holding mine, her voice while she's saying good moring or when she's screaming at me. I know that only her love can make my life worth living. but i'm afraid of not having this, afraid of lonliness, afraid of...just being afraid

I'm dead to her, I don't know why.

They said that after bargaining and depression, acceptance would come... but I just went back to anger :/ ...

She left a hole in my heart

that picture of the couple is breathtaking

She has been the only one person in this world that made me really happy. When I was with her, I felt real happiness. I only want the best for her. Meanwhile, I still crying cause of I lost her after 2 years of relationship...

This song reminds me more of what it feels like to be completely numb and empty. Reminds me of feeling lost

It´s like... Somehow i can still feel her... at this same room where i am now... I will look back to my bed and she´s gonna be there, smiling. But she isn´t there anymore

i actually cried through the entire song, never yet have i done this with any dsbm song

A part of her will always live in me. Even tho it's over, I'm over it too, this still remains true, and I would feel empty if I didn't have that drop of memories of unique times that will never come back. it's fine this way.

I love my boyfriend... 🖤 He introduced me this beautiful band... 🖤🖤🥀

Never thought I could love again after what my ex put me through... All the pain emotional torture hurt and sadness. All I had were drugs and alcohol. And then I met her a year later still knee deep In shit. She showed me love again. She showed me life. I remember when you kissed me at that train station all those years ago. Then after a year of not seeing you, you came back.... as beautiful as ever. It was like we were ment to be. And you kissed me again and again each day we grew stronger we fell in love... now you don't want to see me again. If only I could cuddle with you in your car again like we used to and just kiss under the moonlight at the beach. Fuck I miss her and just want her back my dudes

Love is a lie beneath the tears A feeling which is drasticly kills a person day by day

She wasnt a lover she was my grandma and my best friend I took care of her for her last 8 months and it's been 5 years. I'm still feeling lost without her.

Sitting here right now listening to this, bringing up so many memories, when i had the break-up those cold dark winters ago. music like this keeping me going. i have found a new someone again after many long years without it and hoping it stays around awhile. Sobbing so so hard right now, the pain is almost unbearable, cried even more last night. She is gone again and i cannot stand it. She came by my place last night right after i came home exhausted (no invite) from working and with tears in her beautiful brown eyes Told me "there is someone better out there for us both." Still healing from this but doing better, I miss her so so much. I know i will run into her again at a concert and we will see what happens....The riff at 6:58 is so powerful, it's like a knife hurled straight into the heart and soul...

Known her more than half of my life & I loved her from the very beginning, the first encounter. Thru all the years,all the good,all the bad & all in between...I'll still love her til' I'm dead & probably in the next life. Never knew how much it hurts to care for someone.But I'd be a bastard avatars of I walked away when things got dicey. I'll always love you Rachel

Ty for this beautiful song February will be 21 years that she has left us kids r now Parents and me a grandfather or 3

Eye of Prima flashed me, now checking everything else :)

Lads , dont feel sorry or bad that you dont have your loved one anymore , you have to be grateful that this makes you think of someone , make you remember a moment , the smiles , the laugh , the voice , the face . Yes we all have someone in our mind , that you will carry forever , but that just means that you had once in your life love , and you loved someone . And yes i have someone i fucking miss so much that it makes me feel bad and keep me awake at every night remembering the good moments , i do feel all of u that miss someone

Exactly one year has passed, been with others yet I still crave for her. 5 years are too much to break up so easily, shitty feelings

her whom I love , trust she was there with other guy in relation pain depression cold feeling inside me became my friend , my hope and my heart withered her .... her .... her

Im here again because yesterday Sun 10 Jan 2021 i lost a person who gave me hope , who showed me how to be a human , who cared with all her heart , who opened my eyes to many things , who taught me that life isnt that bad , the only person that i would give my life for , she didnt want to leave because she doesnt love me anymore , she wanted to leave because she wants to feel safe , she live far away from me and she wants to find home , i only get to see her 7 times maximum a year , and i failed to keep her safe , i tried i swear i did , but all the stress from her parents , she doesnt want them to know because they would start making trouble for her and her life isnt fine to begin with, yesterday we listened to music , we cried together, i can still hear the sorries that she was saying while crying out her eyes and heart , i wish i could a be better lover , i wish we could go to a place that no one would find us and that we could take care of each other until the end of time , but im not going to stop here and i’ll try to find a way to be her home and be by her side again and care about her and feel her warmth forevermore , thats my only wish now

This song is very sad. I think Damián only is a living person because he can put all of his emotions into his songs. I really wanted to be friends with him, or at least watch him play those damn songs on a piano without him realizing I was there.

Love this beautiful music reminds me of memories!..

This song sounds really romantic in it's own way. Love the piano, it's relaxing and has this sad/melancholic vibe to it.

Magnifique..

How many times I will end up here? Always sad, always hiding behind my rage? How many times I will switch musical genres, find new friends and still be the same? I don't want this emptiness anymore. Help me. God, please give me relief.

This song makes me cry knowing someday I might lose her

This is the saddest song I‘ve ever heard. Absolutely beautiful

Beautiful...reminds of how stupid I was to let someone go because I couldn't get my act together...songs says it...reminds me of Her

A very good friend suggested this song, i have never heard anything more beautiful. It brings all raw emotions to the surface which would be otherwise trapped inside... it demands to be released and felt by the listener... truly extraordinary.

tantos recuerdos, tantas cosas que nos faltaron hacer , recuerdame porfavor , si encuentras a alguien con quien seas feliz, recuerdame, me dejaste con un corazon partido hecho añicos pero aun asi te amo aun sigo esperandote hasta el ultimo segundo de mi vida, porque sé que no tendre la misma conexion con alguien mas, no eras ni eres perfecta pero me recordaba que bonito era la vida , me llenabas el corazón y ahora lo desgastas y sufro por ti porque soy asi, porque no sufres como yo lo hago por mi acaso no me amas? no me amaste? se que ha pasado tanto tiempo pero aun sigo sintiendo todo lo que prometi hacerlo hasta el final , prometi y ahora no puedo romperlo, perdon por el daño que nos causamos los dos con amor vicente

I'll never love anyone again.

I miss her.

I miss her. But it is what it is, sometimes you have to move on, even if it feels like you world is ending, like you have no choice in life, like you've lost the battle for the only thing you've ever wanted, for the only person you've felt worth fighting for, sometimes you're just not wanted, and that's okay, maybe one day we can find someone who wants us as much as we want them. Someone who'll always be there, someone who can fill this void inside me.

May we meet again. Somewhere far away. In a dream. In the light. Above the darkness. In-between the beatings of my heart. Your heart. There lies the spaces of where we shall meet. And talk of wonders. Wonders of what we were. What we became. And what we are. Eternity.

6:51 that explosion of feelings ;u;

Hoje faz 3 meses que tudo o que virou memórias... O que me consola é saber que dentro de mim ela ainda existe e nossos corações pulsão em um só ritmo. Eu não vou te esquecer, penso em ti todos os dias quando acordo e todas as noites em claro. Você me ensinou o prazer das pequenas conquistas e da beleza em pequenos gestos. Eu não irei te esquecer, você esta viva em mim... Te dediquei meus poemas, te dediquei minhas músicas... te dediquei a minha vida enquanto você esteve aqui... Agora devo seguir meu caminho sozinho, mas tudo parece tão difícil sem você por perto.. espero que não esteja sofrendo mais. eu te amo.

greetings from turkey

i dont wanna live without her

Прошло 2 года но она всё еще в моём сердце

This comment section is the saddest thing i've seen in a long time, everyone shares their pain and agony towards the loss of their lover i feel all of u and i trully hope you all find your peace and true love one day

I listened to this song back in 2017 when I was heart broken never thought I'll love someone again i was wrong had the most wonderful relationship for 2 ywars and my mental health got in the way it's been 8 or 9 months since we split everyday i miss em i dream of them now here I am back to 2020 even worse now can't deal with the fact that there with someone else that's not me I don't know what to do anymore

Another great song for women in spite they can destroy us inside. For you Blackter whererver you are after 17 yrs.

she will always be. in my heart forever❤💔❤

What a beautiful song.

MY DEAR BROTHERS AND SISTERS! I KNOW THAT WE ARE SAD, ALONE, DEPRESSED, REJECTED AND MISSUNDERSTOOD, BUT PLEASE STAY STRONG, BELIEVE IN GOD, NEVER GIVE UP AND ALWAYS HAVE HOPE FOR THE NEXT DAY! GREETINGS AND RESPECT FROM GERMANY! 👏 🇩🇪

For her, I'm a friend. For me, she's the girl I love the most. I never told her, and I probably never will. This drowned love will ever be stuck between my heart and my throat. Acting like she is just a friend, talk with her with all this feelings that I can't say is so hard, it hurt. I almost hate her for don't loving me like I love her, then I hate myself : if she don't love me, it's not her fault, maybe mine.

knew as soon as this started it's gonna be a good one and remind me of HER

This song doesn't even have lyrics...but how are these comments so damn relatable?? I thought I was the only one.

that explosion

Esta canción me recuerda tanto a ella, fue corto el tiempo a su lado y pese a como se dio todo y la despedida jamás ocurrida, no puedo olvidar cada momento a su lado. Esto me volvió fuerte en muchos aspectos, con todo el dolor causado, sólo espero que le vaya muy bien y alcance la felicidad en su vida que tan esquiva le ha sido, lo merece. Donde quiera que el destino te lleve, se feliz Pequitas.

I love this melody, the climax of Te amé is like a more black metal-ish version of this song.

Unrequited love...

thought invoking overwhelming nostalgic depressive comfort

I love this music, but i am not even slightly depressed. I want to say something to you all, i just dont know what that is. so here is my comment. Its a little bit of a waste of space, but im happy with it

This is so sad im crying for no reason, this song, and this picture, so cold. I have never been in a relationship but i can feel this deep in my middle ear bones

Since she left, i can not feel the love anymore, she took me everything, letting behind a huge emptiness

My grandfather died of cancer and he was actually the only person who cared about me. All the bad memories come in my mind, the abuse I've suffered my whole life, doomed, hopeless and no prospect of life. Existence is punishment. Life meant nothing to me . I should never have been born.

Beauty!

Great song from start to finish!

Omfg it hurts so much ..

i wish she still cared...

I was in pain after realising that i broke her heart. I couldn't take it tuned it and cried a lot

Her... Her incomparable spirit her face her smile her tears her smell her embrace her safety her beauty her loving embrace her vulnerable innocence was safe with me , how did we go from one flesh to now two? Split down the middle like a thunderous crack in the earth's surface. You were going to be my wife and mother of our children and your entire being is sacred to me, I kneel at your feet as your ever willing and protective soldier in love's name. I would cut my own arm off to be able to go back and prevent anything I ever did or said that jeapordised our love, or stop myself ever taking you for granted. I cannot breath without you, I don't want to live if your love is not in my life, 6 years I committed my heart and soul to her and she just breaks my heart seemingly out of nowhere, and is so quickly in another's arms and bed... How could she do this to us, I have no closure or explanation, I'll never understand it's like she died! I've never truly considered ending it all until now. Despite anything I will always love her beyond words and would die for her happily, she is my special gift from above, but cannot bear this loneliness any longer...! I love you my darling princess Ingi 💔 Forever and a day, always.

My god. This is so Beautiful...

No podría ser más perfecta.

тоска Toska (Russian) Russian word roughly translated as “sadness, melancholia, lugubriousness.” According to Vladimir Nabokov: “No single word in English renders all the shades of toska. At its deepest and most painful, it is a sensation of great spiritual anguish, often without any specific cause.”

Shes my life my everything but i must let her go