Sahil Adeem & Eram Saeed | Full Talk | Episode 2 | How To Tackle Relationship Issues In 2023

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Eram Saeed asks Sahil Adeem difficult questions that many women wonder but find it very difficult to ask!
Watch this video as the two experts delve into the topic of spiritual relationships with Allah and the complexity of love triangles in the context of Islamic teachings. They discuss the importance of maintaining a strong connection with the Divine while navigating romantic relationships and the limitations set by Islamic principles, including the prohibition of consensual sexual relationships outside of marriage.
Join in the conversation as they explore the nuances and challenges of balancing faith and love.
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Chapters
00:00 The importance of sex education
11:00 The “woman’s character” debacle
26:00 Why Islam prohibits zina
29:00 What true love from a man looks like
37:00 Why craving for “I love you too” is wrong
48:00 The finest equation of love
53:00 Objectification and self-esteem of girls
01:01:00 Who qualifies as an Ashraf-al-makhlooqat
01:05:00 Domestic abuse
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@EramSaeedCoaching Жыл бұрын

What was your biggest takeaway from this session? We'd love to know! -Team ES

@muslimidentity123 Жыл бұрын

Allhamdulillah 👍 👍 👍 ek to meri Du'a qabool hogahi hai, aap dono ka Teamwork:) Our aap dono ne mere khayaalat apni zubaan par layen.

@zayankhan2544 Жыл бұрын

Ma'am app sir ko bolne to dain.... Bahut se main pint choot gai hain jab bhe wo kisi main point pe ate hai app interpret kerke kisi aur tarf lejate ho..... Please.....

@aroobay4760 Жыл бұрын

For me it was role of men, selfesteem and true meaning of LOVE, I have learned life can be so easy for both men and women if we know our true roles and in the end I loved this thing about Sahil when he said Haal pe critise ho skta h halaat p ni, this was directly hit me as if it was for me!!!! JazakAllah khair

@Muslim_Identity32 Жыл бұрын

Love is sacrifice

@farahrauf9193 Жыл бұрын

Once there was a woman in fb group and she was talking about her husband cheating on her. Though her husband was fully taking all her responsibilities. I replied in that group and adviced the woman to pray to Allah to keep her love alive for him and forgive him for his this mistake. I asked her to pray to Allah for herself to broaden her heart enough to love people with all their weaknesses. She will be able to forgive him and he will truly one day give have hidayat. All the group members disliked my comment and admin blocked me. We are unforgiving people. If he cheats, we want to bash him so much that he cheats again and again. There is always a lesson behind every event that happens in our lives. If a single events happens in my life only, so it has deep meaning. Allah wants to make us strong and polish our weak esses to groom and flourish as a Human.

@HinaKhan-bl2pk Жыл бұрын

Sahil adheem is one of a kind Islamic speaker who inspires the youth to think and understand the Glorious Quran in a way no other speaker is doing! He makes us look at Prophet Mohammad sallal hu alay he wasalam as one and only role model for us! Very nice session

@travelmood4543 Жыл бұрын

Including Sheikh Imran Hossein irrespective of different topics they talk.

@tabassamnishat5464 11 ай бұрын

First time strong headed woman quoted Islam very beautifully

@muhammadusamarehman9228 Жыл бұрын

bravo! we need more talks like these for our youth. our youth has gone astray and have made the west their gods. well done to you two for doing this. very insightful.

@Mrymkhn Жыл бұрын

Eram Darling. I wish You could have let him speak a little. Everytime he come to the point, you unnecessarily interrupted him. Please watch again what you have done to him. Thanks

@sunduskhan3979 Жыл бұрын

Damn! I am crying May Allah forgive us all.

@aliitrat Жыл бұрын

Loved it Ms. Eram, just one constructive criticism, I hope I am not triggering a negative psychology. Just kindly listen to the other person completely first, before giving your input. As the value of your input, whatever an amazing input it may be, decreases if you interrupt the other’s statement. May Allah bless you.

@egoiisticprince7977 Жыл бұрын

Yeah thats true

@zayankhan2544 Жыл бұрын

Totally agree.... Some time it irritates so please ma'am erum.... Thoda dhiyan dain

@mahamkhan525 Жыл бұрын

Centre of love is one and only Allah ❣

@TheZainrafi Жыл бұрын

wow. that's quick. I thought we have to wait like agest to get the second episode. Great work team!

@anaamika2093 Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for this discussion! Please upload more and more sessions like this.🙂❤️💙🙏

@laibazahidlaibazahid1300 Жыл бұрын

Such a joy to watch two legends together !

@sabawaqqas1668 Жыл бұрын

MasAhllah two of my favorite speakers may Allah protect them and bless them with infinite knowledge Ameen

@monajaved2963 Жыл бұрын

the best conversation yet, thank you!

@naziaghafoor4604 11 күн бұрын

Subscribed with pleasure! Though too scared to use the word ‘love’, I am mesmerised by your articulation of arguments and manner. May Allah increase your knowledge and make you source of guidance in true essence. Sahil Adeem is a good addition to people of knowledge.

@AV_IMS Жыл бұрын

Please do more and more sessions like this we are anxiously waiting guyz keep it up

@drmunazzanasir9021 Жыл бұрын

Alhumdulillah at least someone is talking about all these issues. Well done both of u 👏👏

@nadiaahmed3935 Жыл бұрын

JazakAllah both of you 😊

@humahumadurvesh7841 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful conversation It was like a council session for me Thanks

@sayedalihaider873 21 күн бұрын

Ma'am bht acha session hey . Waiting for more like this

@aroobay4760 Жыл бұрын

Allah Rabiul izzat Sahil bhai ko boht boht boht Jazay khair de. Maza ajata h aisi clear baat sun kr. JazakAllah Erum and Sahil bhai!!!!

@ranazain1587 Жыл бұрын

May Allah SWT reward ur efforts Desperately waiting for another intellectual discussion like this Jazak Allah Khair ❣️

@faryaltariq9314 Жыл бұрын

Thank you For discussing the matter of women travelling alone❤️

@kidsbrandoutfits401 Жыл бұрын

all topics choosen wisely Allah bless both of you 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

@tayyabakhokhar3695 Жыл бұрын

beautiful session mam eram....wonderful....we want more sessions with sir sahil

@saimaali2492 Жыл бұрын

I really enjoy this topic and got lots of answers about my life sis eram and sahil sahib I learn a lot from ur topics but I still don’t understand how to implement Islam in my life and my kids may allah give me hidayat and understanding and saber to tolerate everything 😊

@ridasaeed205 Жыл бұрын

Waiting

@farazsoomro2669 9 ай бұрын

Mam Erum Saeed asks the questions from my heart.

@amirals2773 Жыл бұрын

Much appreciated. میں نے یہ جانا کہ گویا یہ بھی میرے دل میں ہے

@raemaaftab7657 Жыл бұрын

I wish people understood the concept of real love which is sacrifing your nafs and wishes for the love Allah and his Prophet (PBUH) . Building a connection with your Ruh to get connected to Allah. But sadly even while partners for marriage people are only looking forward towards finances of the girls and have sadly made the institution of marriage difficult making material and beauty a bar standards

@KomalRajput-xq5pt Жыл бұрын

Much appreciation Mam Erum and Sir Sahil for giving us awareness on such an important and sensitive topic... May Allah reward you! Ameen It is also a humble request to Erum Mam with due respect that please let him complete his vision and knowledge, as i see, you raised another question in between...

@zaibazhar4902 6 ай бұрын

Beshak ❤

@positivpathways Жыл бұрын

lovely session again. would eagerly wait for more like this❤

@EramSaeedCoaching Жыл бұрын

Lots more to come! Stay tuned. Until then, let us know what was your biggest takeaway from this session? We'd love to know! -Team ES

@sairamaqsood6066 Жыл бұрын

I learnt in this session that how can i love allah more than anything else

@sabakhan-en8yd 10 ай бұрын

Outstanding podcast bhut khoobsurat relieving ❤❤ thank you erum ma'am nd my fav hasti Sir sahil much respect much love 😘 I am from india

@user44c Жыл бұрын

My biggest takeaway was understanding that we often confuse lust/attachment with love, love is truly a strong emotion in its utmost sincerity. Most happy marriages don’t work on love(attachment/feelings) alone & any married person can attest to this. Therefore, having Allah as a center of our love gives more meaning to other relationships. Next takeaway was understanding the psychology of a man as a provider/protector. As an independent woman, I agree that it’s not easy taking on the responsibility of a provider & the Rizq we earn is independent of our own hard work to some degree. There are people who are wildly successful because of a job that came their way due to no effort & others who spend years looking for a job/ opportunity only to be stuck. Overall, very beneficial talk. ❤

@tarotariq5135 Жыл бұрын

what a fine talk ❤️

@EramSaeedCoaching Жыл бұрын

What was your biggest takeaway from this session? We'd love to know! -Team ES

@tabinda460 Жыл бұрын

I agree 100%.. I always says husband wife needs to be respectful to each other 1st..love is conditional

@ibrahimdawood2321 Жыл бұрын

nice❣️❣️

@farahrauf9193 Жыл бұрын

Last part of this video is amazing 💕

@humahumadurvesh7841 Жыл бұрын

Truly! Beautiful conversation 👍 Last part

@afshanmurtaza3145 Жыл бұрын

Great discussion..u both expand our minds with your thoughts.

@EramSaeedCoaching Жыл бұрын

What was your biggest takeaway from this session? We'd love to know! -Team ES

@cmab391 Жыл бұрын

It was a good discussion overall. Good points raised and discussed until 54 min. The point was so important but Mr. Sahil just swayed to a different direction and didn’t clearly talked about the actual and very important point raised.

@fatimayoshida556 Жыл бұрын

Please share all references of the hadiths you share. Thank you

@pak2worldentertainment643 8 ай бұрын

❤ sahil bhai

@skywalker4710 10 ай бұрын

Is there an episode 3?

@umehanzala5051 Жыл бұрын

Madam Erum let speak your guest please .. with due to respect I saw he didn’t complete his point which was very interesting you interrupted n ask other question He is showing women boundaries positively I respect you madam

@Saif-xw2gx Жыл бұрын

You guys posted clips from episode 1 and you also mentioned it a couple of times.. but it’s nowhere to be found on the internet. Any clues?

@aneeq.q6614 Жыл бұрын

Speaking truth channel p h

@EramSaeedCoaching Жыл бұрын

Which clips are you talking about? Surely we can direct you to them! -Team ES

@truebeliever3948 Жыл бұрын

Surah e R'AD ( رعد) ke ayat Hain akhir mae

@pa2359 Жыл бұрын

Erum claims to be close to Allah, and in Quran to cover. Why she is not understanding this simple concept?

@Random_Shorts1177 Жыл бұрын

let's say this SubhanAllah 10x Astagfirallah 10x Alhumdulillah 10x La ilaha illallah 10x

@prettygeniuses3464 Жыл бұрын

Aslamoalikum erum i got to know that u have read alot about prophet muhammad pbuh. And u find him most amazing person … u know for me its astonishing as i always heard hadiths which is against women like farishtay lanat bhejim gay agar wife husband ko mana kerin … sab say zada aurtiem jhanaum may hongi … yahan taak kay maa kay kadmoo talay jannat hay bus us ka kam hay suffer kerna . This all versions i heard from my husband and astagfirullah i always felt frightened to read about prophet pbuh. Pls guide me what and where should i learn correct knowledge about him.

@kainikhan1511 Жыл бұрын

Read hadith books such as shahih bhukari , صحیح مسلم، read serah books

@remtem Жыл бұрын

I have always heard from scholars and any person discussing about women in Islam. And respect from her husband. They always mention that she is the mother of his children. What about the women who don't or can't have children? So the husband cannot respect her?... Please take this into notice aswell. That when a woman is unable to give her husband a child or children how a husband and his family be towards her. And how her own family and people be towards her. I'm sure it hurts alot for the woman who is unable to have children because it was Allahs will.

@nidawasif2162 Жыл бұрын

No doubt, that mothers have been given the most exhalted level in the eco system of human beings, stating that janat ma kay pairon may hay... but hardly have i ever heard anyone ever talking that us janat ka darwaza baap say hay. Rub nay balance rukha huwa hay in each and every aspect of this world. nothing is in imbalance.

@nadiaahmed3935 Жыл бұрын

So if it’s already happened like women already get married with that kind of man what should she do now ? If anyone understands my question please reply me JazakAllah

@user-kk6fe1mk3j 6 ай бұрын

Assalamualaikum which kindof men?

@faryaltariq9314 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful discussion with beautiful personalities but Some points of madam Erum Saeed got me confused. According to my research on youtube the men and women have different obligations, roles, talents and hence therefore, they should have different opportunities in life aswell. Women should not be going to college or universities or travel solely to gain Wordly education. Women should not be docters, architects, enginners because their role as a mother and as a wife is different. I am confused here. I have gotten this information from authentic people and You talking about women education and her travelling confuses me. Therefore, I want you to discuss the women role in islam in detail. Besides I want to know that men are providers and protectors so they can have leverage of going to universities and gaining the best possible education but women cannot do so because providing is not obligation and she need not to have a degree to be A good mother or a wife. She can go to madrassa in order to educate her kids islamically. Please adress certain points that I am coming scross now a days during my research.

@wafakanwal4940 Жыл бұрын

Allah say love ko permanent and consistent kaisay krain? We love him but then get distracted or we get attached to something else

@DontOpenThisChannel Жыл бұрын

One of the best ways I have found is to subscribe Islamic channels and spend at least one hour watching Islamic content because indeed in the remembrance of Allah hearts do find peace. Also unsubscribe to all other channels who makes you forget ALLAH.

@DontOpenThisChannel Жыл бұрын

You have to show consistent effort in order to have that fire (love) in your heart for Allah.

@DontOpenThisChannel Жыл бұрын

I watch bayan ul Quran by Israr Ahmed and it makes me very much conscious about Allah.

@user-kk6fe1mk3j 6 ай бұрын

Someone we love we just think. About her/him . Likewise we should think about allah subhan wa talla and remember here after ..... As prophet sallaho alyhi wa alyhi wasalm said the wiser among you . remember the death regularly

@RevealingFacts-hi2bs 3 ай бұрын

Why this Lady not covering herself as per islamic regulations ... Sheikh you should have mentioned this

@mohammed_ali340 Жыл бұрын

دو بڑی شخصیات

@azhermahmood4211 3 ай бұрын

On one hand you talk about Nikaab etc, then you choose someone without Nikaab for your interview. In the future could you please have someone with Nikaab, even if its this same lady but in Nikaab. Because it goes totally against your own teachings and makes it seem as if you are all talk talk but no practice. Thankyou

@sunduskhan3979 Жыл бұрын

Character wali baat ohhh gosh....larki poori zindagi shareef rahay blackmail ho aur badnaam karein log tau psychologist ke chakkar lagati hain phr

@lochan8180 Жыл бұрын

"And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before GOD, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life. And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books. The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works. Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone NOT FOUND written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire." (Revelation 20:12-15) Today, while you are still alive and able, may you REPENT from your sins, BELIEVE in your heart and CONFESS with your mouth that JESUS CHRIST is your Lord and Savior, so that through Him, your name may be found written in the Book of Life. "If you openly declare that JESUS is Lord and BELIEVE in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be SAVED. For it is by believing in your heart that you are made right with GOD, and it is by openly declaring your FAITH that you are saved. As the Scriptures tell us, “Anyone who TRUSTS in Him will never be disgraced.” (Romans 10:9-11) "For God so LOVED the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever BELIEVES in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world THROUGH Him might be saved." (John 3:16-17) By God's GRACE ✝️, the gift of SALVATION and ETERNAL LIFE is available to all. You can receive it. You can reject it. May you choose wisely.

@raofarooq9147 Жыл бұрын

With due respect, at once ma'am is saying that she is in love with Allah and also telling us the meaning of love which is alot hidden contracts. So Allah says in quran that women should cover their bodies. But here she is not having her head covered and in her many videos she is wearing trousers where her legs are half naked. If you really love Allah so you can't do these things because according to you love is a submission and you have to submit everything to Allah.

@nighatnaqi6797 Жыл бұрын

Noone is perfect including you & me. Please don't judge her for her clothes. Let Allah decide if her submission is good enough. On the other hand if you want to argue about her concepts & have a reasonable response to her intellectual ideas you have all the right to do so.

@ashgul7868 Жыл бұрын

how many things you are doing right?

@sadiajaved8909 Жыл бұрын

Plz ap dono islam ky elwa koi or batain kerain Plz logo ko istrah to confuse nabkerain I Hope you get it.

@Dilly.Dallying Жыл бұрын

I find Erum’s responses more of trying to validate her responses to clients than actually exploring the topic. If she truly wants that topic to be discussed than please learn from Youth club sessions how to ask questions. Second presenting her exposure to nasty men she came across in courts as evidence to proof that men defame women speaks volumes of her biases. You cannot generalise a small sample’s behaviours it would be same as someone calling all men criminals because majority of men in prisons are criminals. Third she should decide of she wants to discuss Islam or pakistani society, she presents her arguments going against islam by quoting non-islamic practises of Pakistani people. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Wrong practices of some individual does not mean that islam gave wrong values Fourth why try to fit current scenarios with islam, islam actually discourage women to got out of home without any genuine need. Especially without covering herself appropriately! Fifth without adopting dress codes set by Allah for women and claiming that I truly love Allah and ready to obey Him is itself contradictory. Accepting islam doesn’t reflect free will, rather it’s submitting all one’s wills and choices as per the standards of Allah.

@taym2720 Жыл бұрын

What is the ''dress code'' set by Allah?

@Dilly.Dallying Жыл бұрын

@@taym2720 See chapter 24:31 !

@pa2359 Жыл бұрын

Your comments perfect, I thought but you wrote. Thank you

@zubyali3675 9 ай бұрын

@@taym2720 THE CONDITIONS OF THE DRESS CODE FOR THE MUSLIM WOMAN Our adherence to the verses of the Qur'än, the Sunnah of Muhammad (#s) and the traditions of the Salaf ni this important matter has made clear to us that when a woman goes out of her house, ti si incumbent upon her to cover her whole body and not to display anything of her beauty, aside from her face and her hands-if she wishes-by wearing any kind of costume or gar- ment, as long as the following conditions are fulfilled: 1. It should cover al the body apart from whatever has been exempted 2. It should not Itself Constitute Beauty or Adornment 3. It should be Thick and not Transparent or See-through 4. It should be Loose, not Tight so that it describes any part of the Body 5. It should not be Perfumed with Incense or Perfume 6. It should not Resemble the Clothing of Men 7. It should not Resemble the Dress of non-Muslim Women 8. It should not be a Garment of Fame and Vanity

@truebeliever3948 3 ай бұрын

80 lashes hain aesae admi ke liey Jo ilzam lagaey AURATH par