Great idea! Chicago is waiting. Such a fan.

I agree!

Agree!

I’m her number 1 fan in South Africa 🇿🇦. A week can’t go by with me NOT watching her ❤

Facts! I’ve had financial trauma and it’s real.

The system is set up to pull from us. It's something we don't see. Best to avoid. Court is not a place I play with. Don't do it!!! Work it out without going there. I would pray for any women to choose someone and pray over avoiding at any cost for anything 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾Even in my personal experience not marriage, it can be very worrisome but God🙌🏽I have prevailed each time💔😢🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾Thank you Lord

Even if they don’t aspire to achieve those things, they should still get a prenuptial because a lot of men take advantage of the hierarchy and are more likely to leave a BW with nothing if a divorce occurs and the courts are biased and don’t give BW the same level of grace or mercy that they lend to other races of women, generally speaking.

MAN BEEN LOSING THEIR LIFE WORK TO WOMEN 1000s of years. When finally is a women turn to pay up to a man...She is butt hurt.

@@xoxo-vp7ww This is true.

Remember in the community most blk men make less than 50k so if you making 100k to millions why are you with a man that makes considerably less find a man that makes more than you or the same these relationships never work the msn going to cheat , mistreat you because he doesn’t have money especially in our community it doesn’t benefit us ..especially in court they want to make an example I doubt if it was a white women blk man I doubt they would’ve played in her face and made her pay… blk women get out of blk male worship it doesn’t benefit you remember most black men not in they kid life so if they go to court and say they want their kid the judge would say yes remember we have a 70% fatherless rate her ex husband is now the women staying at home with the kid,alimony,child support etc cautionary tale blk women the courts going to make an example of you for your bad decision making in relationships she’s a cautionary tale

Obedience...really? Do you know how wrong that sounds? Religious women really need to snap out of this religious brainwashing. It's 2024 and some of you are still talking as if you are slaves on a plantation and you need to Obey masser...or else. SMH Religion really did a number of many of you, ladies and you don't even know where you are coming or going in your blind obedience and submission to a man made god created for males and by males. SMH again.

Some of us undervalue the value, importance and meaning of friendship and the role that it plays in being in love. Knowing one's self and establishing one's relationship and engagement with one's Creator. Being allowed to live one's truth eventhough in a relationship. Loving another doesn't supersede loving one's self.

Blk women in love they get man crazy how she did not sign a pre nup is beyond me .. I am a few minutes in and I am wondering where we her legal team ..9/10 she was with a dust mite that latched on you can not link urself to men that have less it breeds jealousy ,resentment especially in black relationships it’s unequally yoked

I totally agree

Agreed!

Yes! Loved her since Bella Barb days 🥰

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She didn’t have good lawyers and you know in the blk community the women is doing that struggle love ..marriage doesn’t benefit blk women with a blk man we end up on the losing end in marriage hence the 20% marriage rate between two blk people and 70% percent of those marriages divorce … they have the marriage rate at 32% for blk people but 10% or so of that is black and another race .. the lack of a stable family background shows the instability of our race the blk women is making moves and the men are standing still

Its the law...once lawyers are hired, they will fight to get everything for their client. BTW, women dont like to sign prenups when their the lower income. Higher income, now they want to sign.

@@ginminniThe word says what a man is supposed to provide. We are in a new world now though, so everyone should be careful.

@@chanyoung3725 the WORD says "Husbands provide for your wives" not man. The Word doesn't change, the world does.

I left an employer and pulled everything. I had recently got married, and they tried to tell me he was entitled to part of my 401k. Yea, right? Just know he never saw a dime 😉

@@greaterishe7197 you can only do what the law allows. The caliber of lawyer matters too.

You know how these relationships are most black women married are essentially single parents they paying most of the bills , generating money tbh they would be better unmarried statistics show we are the financial breadwinner in marriages hence no benefit for us to be with our counterparts we will be dragged down financially and emotionally this tied in with the 20% marriage rate in the community.. her relationship is a cautionary tale .. blk women get urself together and drop the dead weight because it breeds jealousy she would’ve been better off by herself same thing I am doing but I am single no dust mite can even get near me and I don’t want none of them near me marriages doesn’t benefit blk women with a blk man cautionary tale blk women stay clear 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

amen to that! Always putting the man as the enemy and no accountability for the ex-wife 🤦🏾‍♂️

I was looking for this comment. He's raising their son full-time also. It's a business that was started during the marriage and she benefitted from what he provided during the marriage. Their divorce is public record and she definitely made herself sound like a saint here. He got 25% of the value of the business at the time of the divorce. That's not unreasonable. He filed for divorce over adultery.

Her husband probably wouldn’t sign it

First time hearing it, don't see anyone signing that either.

@@philw9787 it’s rarely signed unless the other party too has something to loose and or protect!

Don’t even get married

Probably because most situations the women put up with negative energy and help with the build up.

Most situations, the women are helping in the background.

@@chanyoung3725 come on now, really.

I guess it depends on the relationship. It worked for Kandi Burruss and her husband. And he is now doing well financially

Dr Traci Lynn MAY be an example.... not sure how much her husband makes but she's a BOSS LADY.

Wanted hear more about 1st marriage. Now he is successful, three kids n did not stick it out was tough

Thank you so much!

I heard of a prenup but I never heard a postnup. This is a lesson learn Thanks for the info.

You're welcome. ​@@lindamoore4312

I have never heard of Samia before today. Thank you for this Brandi keep bringing on people that are not well known her story was inspiring and devastating

I hate that she lost her son, too; but her solution to the issue was a nanny. It makes since that the father raises the child over a nanny, imo.

@@missdeedee333 oh okay, if that's the case then this nuance I hadn't picked up while listening. 🌞✌️

Because it's her business. My husband, personally does not want a family business with me..as he wants to do hus own thing. So yes, she can say 'her' business cos you never know their situation

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The truth came out in court.