I feel early marriage without completing education is not a good idea. A girl should have worked for some time before marriage. A girl also needs maturity in taking life decisions.
@ShubhamSahu-vl9zdАй бұрын
You are right mam, 22, 23 is your graduation age then say 1-2 years of job you are 25 best time to get married
@Adzb-nq9td Жыл бұрын
There is a couple in our relatives who has a son only. They often mention they wanted a girl child to do kanyadaan. I mean don't you want to raise a girl to make her capable as a human being no they just wanted to kanyadaan her to feed their own ego k Bhai punya ka kaam kar liya. If I have a daughter in future I wont ever give her authority to a boy and his parents. If I have a son I will teach him to make garam roti for himself and will condition him to contribute equally in marriage. This needs to change now!!
@ishitaanandjadhav331 Жыл бұрын
Nice video Sir. My father was so great. When I completed my graduation he told me to do CA. He wants I should be stay in my life with dignity. You are very true that parents of daughter should always have ownership. Girls need emotional support if something wrong at in laws house. Our old hindi movies shows girls are bechaari. But society has changed a lot and nobody is taking care of problems. Thanks.
@vershatehlan98096 ай бұрын
Yrr m too armed forces mein Jana chahti hoon kya karu
@utkalakalinga1270 Жыл бұрын
Sir, Boy do quit job. I am from Odisha, I quit my well paying permanent job(IT) to accommodate with my wife. She got permanent job at a different location and we decided then I quit my job, doing contract jobs and we are happy.
@Bharatiya12321 Жыл бұрын
Your are 1 in a million ☺️
@expressionkamal Жыл бұрын
1 in 1 crore.
@smileysmiley1 Жыл бұрын
Great sir🙏
@RiaMukherjeeCHEM Жыл бұрын
Respect to your family.
@okfine_33 Жыл бұрын
Respect 💯
@carolinasharma5574 Жыл бұрын
I really wish your videos were available to me 10 years ago.. I ruined my career oppurtunies because of no correct guidance. I hope to do something now with help of your videos.
@ishitaanandjadhav331 Жыл бұрын
My brother got married and he is happy with his family. But my parents are happy with daughters. This is reality of life. Daughter in law don't want to stay with mother in law and daughters are serving their parents in old age. ये जिंदगी का कड़वा सच है।
@rashgyl25 Жыл бұрын
Isko kadwa kyun bol raho hai.....khushi ki baat hai ... Serves parents rather than pil
@songandstrings81253 жыл бұрын
Excellent analysis Sir. Your expressions have Accuracy, Brevity, Clarity and Logic. 🙏
@PoonamGupta-es2dt7 ай бұрын
I support my married daughter in raising her kids,we have clarity,we have only daughters.who elsewill support them if we don't. But mother if she has a son ,she neither support daughter in law nor supports her own daughter in confusion.
@35priyageography577 ай бұрын
Gch baat practical sir
@Adzb-nq9td Жыл бұрын
Sir I agree but why don't you tell men to cook their own garam roti if they are free. I believe they too have physical strength to cook roti. You said marriage is a companionship and we cannot rely on men to make us happy then why do they rely on us for garam roti cook it for themselves and their parents if they ain't supporting the career of girl. Why do men lack at this. We too feel someone should cook garam roti for us after a hard day at work (Nowadays husbands too don't provide money to working wives so we don't have anything to do with their jobs too). When will this change? There is nothing in marriage left to offer to a girl except for children. I think this institution won't last in future if men don't step up and better themselves. The world will depend on sperm banks and sperm donation and there won't be a need to marry.
@utopiancity8138 Жыл бұрын
Exactly.... Marriages are failing because the husband wants to be treated like a divine figure or a king jisko wife hi cook kr k degi , kapre dho k degi , cleaning karegi or in laws k liye bhi shadi Tut Rahi hein kyu ki saas ko bahu chahiye jisko wo apne hisap se control kr ske , pura Ghar bhi sambhale , job hi kare sab. Upar se respect to do pese ka bhi nhi dete. Statue bna k rakh dete hein Ghar me. Or kuch galti karoge to bolenge maa baap kuch sikhaye nhi.
@neerugaba591011 ай бұрын
Sir aap wife ko kamane ko kahte hai but man ko bhi household work karna chahiye iss par bhi video banaye. Tabhi to ghar ki woman kamane jaaingi
@Monika-oj2zp11 ай бұрын
Forget about cooking , even if we cook and then tell them to serve themselves, their male ego gets hurt.
@SK-cd5wb10 ай бұрын
Lady chahe job wali ho,uska hi farz hai clothes who k,press kar k rakhna,sab k liye cook kar k serve krna.Socially aana jana hai ladies ka kaam.Bacho ka home work bhi ladies ki duty.Lady duty kar k ghar aye to usko koyi pani ka glass bhi nhi offer krta
@iamsimranchawla5 ай бұрын
Mam aap recent videos check karen.. usmei guru ji bolne lag gye h for men too
@vidyadate521 Жыл бұрын
Sir, aapko thoda male aur "ladkewalo" ka mindset bhi change karne ke liye protsahit karna chahiye. Husband ko garam roti chahiye isliye wife job chhod de? Samaj sath me aage badh sakta hai.
@Adzb-nq9td Жыл бұрын
Yes literally it's not the husband's job to keep the wife happy then it's not the wife's job to give garam roti. marriage is a companionship . If your wife is tired make garam roti for yourself and your parents . It's okay to do this 1-2 times a week . Women too should profit as marriage is just an institution. If marriage is burdensome no need to marry coz inlaws come as a package deal with it better to stay alone look for yourself and adopt then only men will start to change. At least that adopted child will be happy , these inlaws can never be happy and are just burdensome and non supportive.
@hetalchawda673 Жыл бұрын
Sir aap kitne sare topics ki itni deep analysis karte hai? ye sun kar mera mind bhi deep analysis karne laga , Bhagywan logo ko esi sangat milti hai. 🙏
@sonamgotmare Жыл бұрын
Thank god the person like you got this intelligence...god blessed you with wisdom.
@paromitaroy7167 Жыл бұрын
Appreciate your ahead of time thinking but yes, jaldi shadi kar lo, and career advice do not hand in hand thus is ok for those who keep marriage primary and career secondary, those who keep career primary and marriage secondary this advice will fall flat. All the suggested careers for women were told keeping marriage in mind, men do not choose careers keeping marriage in mind so they beat the women in career By 24 ir 25 the foundation of career has not set, nothing without a foundation can survive in the long run, my advice is to set your career foundation strong and then look for marriage
@sangitanatekar6020 Жыл бұрын
Great thought you explained, कन्यादान विधी इन marriage, now we should avoid totally
@lakshaysingh322811 ай бұрын
Badhiya 👌
@prateekrajput7096 Жыл бұрын
Very nicely explained sir. Those who put hate comments should understand that this a reality of today's society which you are bring o this platform. If haters think they can debate then they should also post their videos.
@radharaghavan2033 Жыл бұрын
Such a truth.girls parents think kanyadaan kardiya bas hogaya.They should take ownership of children .this attitude has to go.
@Adzb-nq9td Жыл бұрын
Ye kanyadan ki pratha hi band kardo faltu hai . It gives a false sense of ownership of a girl to a boy and his parents. Faltu kuch bhi no girl wants to be given as a daan. She is not a thing to do so. It feels like human trafficking. Trafficking a maid, a sex slave and a baby making machine to society.
@mumofgenAlpha Жыл бұрын
Oh my God ,sir intna deep analysis kahan se latey ho ap🫣...two things we always discuss in the family that u said -1 Physical health, stamina and wellbeing of daughter 2.larki jo kmaati hai vo kisi ko nahi deti( in majority cases)...
@shwetaagashe6280 Жыл бұрын
sir aap bade spasht bolte ho, chahe kisi ko achchha lage na lage. great ideas sir
@PrakritiSehgaal Жыл бұрын
Sooo true Sir... The true picture of our society !!
@samarsingh27063 жыл бұрын
Too good Sango. I like your straight talks. Very clear and sharp analysis.
@preetichanda62003 ай бұрын
100% Correct Sir 🙏
@s_sagar4u7 ай бұрын
Sirji, virtual charan sparsh! Thank you
@shilpidave1122 Жыл бұрын
Sir, Bohot accha video banaya hai aapne.. Please continue 3 rd part also 🙏🙏
@PoonamGupta-es2dt7 ай бұрын
I used to run chemistry coaching centre at home , evening classes.i saved lot of money ,as they had coaching at home. My both daughters r gov.doctors.
@nidhiarora14323 жыл бұрын
Super video 👍 but jaldi shadi wala point sab jagah valid nhi hai.. jaldi shadi me kayi baar sort of decent income flow nahi hota girls ka .. wait karke 28 tak better rehta hai dats my thinking
@Spanish5643 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right.
@nidhiarora14323 жыл бұрын
@@Spanish564 yeah plus regret ki late shadi ki hoti to sab better hota .. definitely kafi better hota aur regret bhi nahi hota 😀
@bun-tea Жыл бұрын
@@nidhiarora1432 one of my friends got married at 22, she continued her job, acquired more skills, achieved a good spot which increased her salary manifolds. They went on 3 honeymoons abroad. And finally had a baby at 29. I think in her case it worked out quite well
@kamleshsuman7432 Жыл бұрын
you are right
@ytglamhub777 Жыл бұрын
Make another video on high income skills for girls
@vivoglaxy5769 Жыл бұрын
Right sir hmare rishtedari me ek couple h humne unko 10 saal phle bola tha judge ka exam clear n ho rha kuj aur try krlo.but wo abhi tk judge ki tyari kr re the.ab unki age hogyi h ab wo apne bacho ko judge bnane me lge hai jbki unki bache abhi 6aur 11 saal k hai
@user-ih1mq9vl1s6 ай бұрын
Sir govt job ke tyare kete krte 27 ya 28 ho jate hai...or vo be sbke nhi lgti ..or uske baad be koi stability nhi hote kbi khi kbi khi...kha jaee ..
@drpallavisadanandnemane42035 ай бұрын
Very correct 👍🏻 My parents totally bear the onus.
@satyarathybaisla19732 жыл бұрын
Nice👍
@sadhna86ster Жыл бұрын
Thanks for bringing valuable topics and great insight. Can you make a video on working women's role and responsibilities in household chores and expectation setting with spouse or in laws.
@akshay111rr3 жыл бұрын
Very enlightening concept conveyed very lucidly
@speciallife29003 жыл бұрын
Sir high incom skill from home se kuch bussines idea pe video bnaye plz🙏
@jyotica05 Жыл бұрын
Plz sir
@arvind30593 жыл бұрын
Perfect analysis... Eye opener video..
@okfine_33 Жыл бұрын
Sir please skin colour ke upar bhi video banaye...racism ke wajah se dowry system aata hi hai.....
@Harsha-D311Күн бұрын
Hamare idhar ladkiya teachers ban gayi hry Parents r happy Theyre making 12 k
@daymah.l18409 ай бұрын
Thanks sir ji 🙏❤🎉🎉
@rajandhir19752 жыл бұрын
Super advise !!
@priyankadeodhar93419 ай бұрын
I agree with each point. Pls share high income skills too.
@kapildixit11493 жыл бұрын
Perfect. Appreciated.
@Shefali_Rana24 Жыл бұрын
Your videos are extremely helpful sir💯💯
@ridhimaglobal85452 жыл бұрын
So educational sir.👏👏👏
@rajigardenvlogs Жыл бұрын
Very thoughtful suggestions
@hanam_119 ай бұрын
Good video❤❤❤
@Gudly-cn4izАй бұрын
We want more episodes please❤
@abhinnabiswal Жыл бұрын
Marvelous Information! Great Input... Thanks a Lot!👌👌
@shivangitiwari2485 Жыл бұрын
i can relate with every point he is making
@rajenderrana85633 жыл бұрын
Very nice
@MsSudhanshumittal Жыл бұрын
Sir me aapki teesri video dekh raha hu mujhe lagta he aap kisi bhi topic pe true comments ya aapne views de sakte ho... U r nice person
@SangoLifeSutras Жыл бұрын
Thanks for kind words
@create.your.success3 жыл бұрын
Fabulous video❤️
@krishaa35969 ай бұрын
Thanks sir
@artibhatt9048 Жыл бұрын
You are superb!
@heerikadua55 Жыл бұрын
Uncle please make more videos and share a guide on what to do and look forward to life scenarios
@N-cl6fc Жыл бұрын
Aap 30k ki job ki baat kr rhe h I hve tried in kindergarten school 8k ki job 8 hrs plus school owner ka attitude aisa ki ek laakh ki salary ho.
@NinjaNursing Жыл бұрын
City
@bhoomika2002 Жыл бұрын
Local school me iethana hi miltha Hai. International schools me 30k expect Kar Saket ha hai
@artadda226610 ай бұрын
Sahi kaha apne even ache se ache school kam se kam salary aur kaam jyda karwana chahte
@abhijitpathre49962 жыл бұрын
Great ! Plz give some examples about high income skills to get more clarity...
@jyotica05 Жыл бұрын
Even I want to know
@mannukpujara44272 жыл бұрын
Excellent Amit ji 👍
@rajrani4016 Жыл бұрын
Video bhut sona lga maine isse kaffee kuchh seekha .phone pe bat kar sakte han.🙏🌹🙏
@richamishra3578Ай бұрын
Si high income skills k bare mein kaise pta karen khan judna hai
@vivekranjan6745 Жыл бұрын
More video on this high income skill
@145a2 ай бұрын
Mene to aaj ye video dekha hai ,or mai 33 saal ki hu aab kya kru please help or one video please sir🙏
@travgist6204 Жыл бұрын
High paying skills par ek video banaye.
@Artesu-cc9xp Жыл бұрын
A girl child is competent to apply for any Carrie do not discriminate on gender please
@bhoomika2002 Жыл бұрын
What the youtuber try to say is about sustainability. I will tell u my experience I took a software course got job in MNC but due to night shifts I lost health ... later I lost job. Now it's 5 years and I have to upgrade my skill development to get job. I can't take my old job it's outdated . So ur body also has to help u with ur brain.
@SR-mv2mf11 ай бұрын
Competence is different from comfort.. only wise can understand
@Artesu-cc9xp11 ай бұрын
@@SR-mv2mf Ya competence is ‘ Might is Right’
@rashmithakur9203 ай бұрын
Sir aap to ladkiyon ko job karne yo bolte hain. To ye contradict nahi hua?
@sangitanatekar6020 Жыл бұрын
आप आप बोल रहे है, लाडकी को disown नाहि करना,it is good But in laws बोलते है की लाडकी के parents Interference करते हैं Pls explain that point
@antarabanerjee1222 Жыл бұрын
What are those high income skills ? Discuss those. Give an insight on that.
@mysticguy11743 жыл бұрын
Sir, high income skills video Still pending
@pankajgoyal3528 Жыл бұрын
in case of IT job Ladki ko Banglore or noida naukri milti hai who kya kare.
@bhoomika2002 Жыл бұрын
For experience take the job if u r unmarried. Later with this experience u can switch the job where ur spouse works.
@snehlata628611 ай бұрын
High income skills videos urgent
@monikakhilwani70613 ай бұрын
Did u mean we should do business
@kritikasardana634921 күн бұрын
srr high paying job video
@akhild69 Жыл бұрын
Please share your thoughts about high income skills
@komal9930 Жыл бұрын
Ladki ke liye hr ka job kaisa hai bataiye sir please🙏🙏
@user-ih1mq9vl1s6 ай бұрын
Sir ager sb ldkiya job lene m lg gai to shadi vgera bhulna hoga ek hi kaam ho skta h...govt job lena aaj ke time aasan nhi h
@NamasteChatterjeefamily Жыл бұрын
Skills development naam pe sirf schools ko mehengi fees pe karte hai. Hum yeh bhi ni keh sakte ki aage padhai ni karni. Agar bolde ki nhi padhna toh parents bolenge ki kya karoge. Iska jawab unke pass nhi hai. Sab bass and andho ki tarah bhed chaal mein chal rhe hai
@improvelivingandlearning Жыл бұрын
In case 2 bhai ki wives aik saathhoon or aik job krti ho aik nai tu job wali aksar dusri pr sb kuch dal delti hai or sb ko paise dikha k sb ko apni trf b kr rakha hai
@shaguftanasreen662 Жыл бұрын
Mostly don't spend their money on household stuff in general and keep salary in their own pocket then what is the point in earning and ignoring their household
@zshaikh9499 Жыл бұрын
Humne toh ye bhi dekha hna ghar h na job na jama punji padhe likhe nhi phir bhi achi job krnewali ladki that too from good family
@ramawahi6303 Жыл бұрын
Yahan aapki statement mein contradiction aagaya hai. Isme aapne bola ki 24-25 saal ki ladki ki shaadi kardo naukri kare ya na kare. Doosre video mein aapne kaha ki ladke walon ko naukri karne wali ladki se hi shaadi karni chahiye. Aap is baare mein kya kahenge?
@SangoLifeSutras Жыл бұрын
No contradiction. Advise is correct. For different parties. Will explain more. Ladke ko naukri wali n ladki walon ko jaldi.
@khushisingh2048 Жыл бұрын
@@SangoLifeSutras mtlb jldi se jldi job krni hai
@gokulnikumbh232310 ай бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅
@shrikantjadhav83 Жыл бұрын
You are University sirjee
@pankajgoyal3528 Жыл бұрын
Yadi ladki doctor ya engineeri ho toh
@harshaaditya3648 Жыл бұрын
Toh bhi acchi life chalegi agar husband aur wife acche se manage kar le
@rinaborah4811 Жыл бұрын
Sir app sa consultation chahiye apka number mil sakta ha kya