Institution Of Marriage And New Generation | Humko Shaadi Nahin Karni Syndrome

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Sango Life Sutras

Sango Life Sutras

Жыл бұрын

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@nutrifityou2957
@nutrifityou2957 Жыл бұрын
I love last 4-5 minutes of video where you mention how initially women have to take pressure & than men would play for later part of innings.
@rishavsoni3680
@rishavsoni3680 Жыл бұрын
What is your suggestion for bald boys.
@sandeepkaur-ci7kr
@sandeepkaur-ci7kr Жыл бұрын
How can I get platinum membership? Please help
@shivasardana652
@shivasardana652 Жыл бұрын
@@rishavsoni3680 get a wig
@TestKumdhir
@TestKumdhir Жыл бұрын
By making these video you are trying to influence others. You are not realistic, you just try to add propaganda in the youngster. Marriage is not for everyone. In real world girls are spoiling the life of boys. I see a very good people left job because his wife is not caring the babies. You donot know what problem boys are facing in current economic scenario. I see old people like you are saying to make baby, human being is not for reproduction only. One couple should have one or zero babies because giving birth is not only responsibility of father and mother, one should think whether his child will survive in the next world where AI and ML will take all jobs and finance.
@TestKumdhir
@TestKumdhir Жыл бұрын
Donot take platinum membership. People like this having good speaker can influence and make money for himself. Please update you view after 2-3 months if you already subscribed to platinum
@ThePratima89
@ThePratima89 Жыл бұрын
I am turning 35 next month still not ready for marriage and terrified by my friends situations who ended up in bitter divorce and separations , I am happy with little things that God has blessed me with he's gonna take care of me 😇.
@vinayakdixit4636
@vinayakdixit4636 Жыл бұрын
Yes, you are right. I am also a 37 years old person. I am single and I am happy in my life. I just surrender myself to God and I am sure he will take care of me.
@englishclasses1665
@englishclasses1665 Жыл бұрын
Yes I will not get married as well
@PawanKumar-nx3no
@PawanKumar-nx3no Жыл бұрын
I am regreting after marriage.
@englishclasses1665
@englishclasses1665 Жыл бұрын
@@PawanKumar-nx3no may i know the reason ????
@PawanKumar-nx3no
@PawanKumar-nx3no Жыл бұрын
@@englishclasses1665 My wife is very decent and innocent. But my mother viewpoint and thoughts are evil, which I came to know after marriage.
@dr.shakshigupta5879
@dr.shakshigupta5879 Жыл бұрын
I married 7 years back and have a child...but I lost my job, my parents, my childhood home, my confidence and everything....and I got abuses ,violence, depression, anxiety, migraine .......so decide very carefully
@sarangifiddler
@sarangifiddler Жыл бұрын
No one speaks about this enough. Women shouldn't marry unless they have savings enough to buy property and to live without income for a year or so. You can always freeze your eggs and procreate later if you want kids.
@sudhirchandra9790
@sudhirchandra9790 Жыл бұрын
In India the women who don't earn mostly are treated as slaves, telling by how my mother was treated Now she is in clinical depression Never leave your job for marriage,or even if your husband earns much more Job gives a women confidence and security against any abuse that she may have to face from in laws or husband, also one make friends in job Which is important for mental health
@Terminator-to3lp
@Terminator-to3lp Жыл бұрын
For me,, if people reject you only because u don't have job, then they don't deserve to have u in their life. They r lifeless people... Atleast I don't ever include those in my life.
@dr.shakshigupta5879
@dr.shakshigupta5879 Жыл бұрын
@@Terminator-to3lp people may even reject you for your likes, hobbies, and also for no reason.....just works on their mood
@Terminator-to3lp
@Terminator-to3lp Жыл бұрын
@@dr.shakshigupta5879 No worries at all. That's why it was said, " chal akela".. i follow the same and a very few people i take with me, only gems... 😀 Remember, when u meet 100 people , hardly 10 belongs to you & it happens everywhere.. u join any academic institution, meet 50 people in 1 year, when u leave institute, hardly 5 people will be in your contact in future.. 😊
@umeshg17
@umeshg17 11 ай бұрын
Video muze convince nahi kar paya😅. Comment padh kar pata chala mere jaise happily single log bohot hai. Muze single rehne ke liye confidence badh gaya😂
@samadhanadekar2762
@samadhanadekar2762 4 ай бұрын
😅😅😂😂
@Jungle_boy123
@Jungle_boy123 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂kay bolto mitra, confidence badh gaya 🤣
@user-mw6zv4gw2i
@user-mw6zv4gw2i Ай бұрын
Same here dost.
@umakantchabukswar403
@umakantchabukswar403 Ай бұрын
sach me dost aaj ke time me shadi matlab bohot bada risk he
@Jungle_boy123
@Jungle_boy123 Ай бұрын
@@umakantchabukswar403 पण घरचे लोक समजत नाहीत जबरदस्ती लग्न कर लग्न कर म्हणून पाठी पडतात🙂
@AMANVERMA-zh8uh
@AMANVERMA-zh8uh Жыл бұрын
I am 25 and worries about high inflation, climate change and AI. So I decided not to get married.
@Akashyadav-rd1eo
@Akashyadav-rd1eo Жыл бұрын
Here I m turned 26 13 Jan ..and feel same
@sortcapsregulatory7911
@sortcapsregulatory7911 Жыл бұрын
😂
@gopalrawat9034
@gopalrawat9034 Жыл бұрын
@@K9_Jerry it's because of our unrealistic demands. everyeone wants minium 2bhk flat in posh society. shiny privates school for children. parties, holidays. once you die without child your whole money unfortuntely goes for the same people who have more than 2 child.
@sortcapsregulatory7911
@sortcapsregulatory7911 Жыл бұрын
I wish i would married at 22-23. It is the best time. After 30 all gone
@freedom4813
@freedom4813 Жыл бұрын
@@sortcapsregulatory7911 if you till 16-17-18 completed 12th after that graduation if your further studies in law,ca, doctor then it takes a lot of years from study to proper stablish that profession . Have you entered job market ? How to earn- multiple sources of earning money? Any there for step by step guide you,help you? Any fruitful relationship? How to raise child? how psychology effect on child till 25-30? Have you enough money+ knowledge to have choice to raise your child or save your partner in any way? Are you street smart? You have to play that part eventually. It's 60 years plus togetherness more or less.
@Anant-ki-aurr
@Anant-ki-aurr Жыл бұрын
i am 33 and happily unmarried :)
@pankajbisht7813
@pankajbisht7813 Жыл бұрын
I'm suffering from low self-esteem that's why I'm not going to get married.. 33 year old
@jaibharat9686
@jaibharat9686 Жыл бұрын
Do inner engineering you will have confidence with clarity
@kamalupretidelhi
@kamalupretidelhi Ай бұрын
Dost please constlant from some therapist , I am gone through same problem get treated from AIIMS , now all is good
@harshhasteer7394
@harshhasteer7394 28 күн бұрын
Log shaadi krenge to aapki dukaan chalegi. Single and happy person is not your customer 😅
@englishclasses1665
@englishclasses1665 Жыл бұрын
Mai 25 saal ki hu maine apne parents k behaviour ko dekh k shadi na krne ka decision liya h
@Dhirajkumar-ls1ws
@Dhirajkumar-ls1ws Жыл бұрын
If you are a girl then you are going to get married you have no choice.
@englishclasses1665
@englishclasses1665 Жыл бұрын
@@Dhirajkumar-ls1ws no need
@Dhirajkumar-ls1ws
@Dhirajkumar-ls1ws Жыл бұрын
@@englishclasses1665 aap kis District se ho?
@englishclasses1665
@englishclasses1665 Жыл бұрын
@@Dhirajkumar-ls1ws ballia
@Dhirajkumar-ls1ws
@Dhirajkumar-ls1ws Жыл бұрын
@@englishclasses1665 ok..ballia backward area hai kafi, jada se jada 2 saal aur fir apki shadi ho jaegi apki community mai.. Isse acha hai koi ladka khoj khud hi karlo.. Aap UPPCS k taiyari kar rahi ho isliye apke parent ruke hue hai 100%
@tuhinspix
@tuhinspix Жыл бұрын
Sir smoking is injurious to health but marriage is injurious to wealth & health both 😂
@zaara8151
@zaara8151 9 ай бұрын
😂
@movocode
@movocode 5 сағат бұрын
sahi bola
@abhyuday238
@abhyuday238 Жыл бұрын
My suggestion: Don't make marriage compulsory but optional. Having the opposite gender into your inner space needs much rethinking if you really are prepared for this institution. There are still many individuals who are doing great in personal and social life without marriage and even being single.
@ankita8354
@ankita8354 Жыл бұрын
Right
@abhyuday238
@abhyuday238 Жыл бұрын
@@ankita8354 Thanks for the response Ankita.
@abhyuday238
@abhyuday238 Жыл бұрын
@@TheMonkNZ Thank you Monk!
@swatipriya562
@swatipriya562 Жыл бұрын
@@TheMonkNZ women are more happier coz they don't have to deal with exploitation that come with marriage; ladkon ka kya hai shadi k baad v kuch saal taak apne life ; apne entertainment mai focus krte hai
@deep4630
@deep4630 11 ай бұрын
I feel exactly the same !
@khajawandiaries9041
@khajawandiaries9041 Жыл бұрын
Sir I still choose to stay single and childfree for life 🙂
@freedom4813
@freedom4813 Жыл бұрын
Then start seeking for money+ knowledge+ hobby (skills) +tasty food you will get true happiness
@khajawandiaries9041
@khajawandiaries9041 Жыл бұрын
@@freedom4813 yes that's the plan
@rishavsoni3680
@rishavsoni3680 Жыл бұрын
@@freedom4813 do exercise and yog also
@moronicintelligence6761
@moronicintelligence6761 Жыл бұрын
Because you know u can not afford this challenge.
@dineshbhasker8557
@dineshbhasker8557 Жыл бұрын
You will regret in later years for what you are enjoying now. Then it will be too late. Life cannot be filtered to enjoy only.
@anuragpateriya787
@anuragpateriya787 Жыл бұрын
Aapki baatein hi mujhse sbse behuda lg rhi hain sir ..bht izzat se yeh baat keh rha hun.... main regret krna psnd krunga but itna dukh aur doglapan ke rishte ko na nibhaunga
@ASHISHGUPTA-mk4ic
@ASHISHGUPTA-mk4ic Жыл бұрын
Sigma bro 🔥🔥
@RaviGupta-hj8qh
@RaviGupta-hj8qh Ай бұрын
You are right ye faaltu ka views badhane ko gyaan de raha maine kitno ko unmarried dekha door mat jaao padosh me hi aise kayi hai jo unmarried hai Jo Khushi she life jii rahe.
@ayushjain4226
@ayushjain4226 Жыл бұрын
देखिये, आज शादी कोई तभी करेगा जब उसे सुख मिले। क्योकि ये कोई जिम्मेदारी नही, और ना ही कोई ठेका ले रखा है पीढ़ी बढाने का। जिनका मन कमजोर है वो करे शादी। वरना आज के समय शादी का कोई लाभ नही बल्कि हानि होने की अधिक सम्भावना है। विशेषकर आज के परिवार विरोधी कानूनो मे। अब तो यही सबसे बडा सवाल है की शादी क्यो करे? मिलेगा क्या ये जिम्मेदारिया उठा कर? मरना तो एक दिन वैसे भी सबको है। क्यो ना निश्चिंत होकर जिया जाये। बेहतर है कि अंत समय आध्यात्म का सहारा ले ले। आज ढेरो संस्थाए है जो वृद्धावस्था की व्यवस्था करती है। कोई दिक्कत नही जाती, जीवन आराम से हसी खुशी बीतता है।
@nishitarawat
@nishitarawat Жыл бұрын
GREAT THINKING
@shahajitonage6843
@shahajitonage6843 3 ай бұрын
Right
@LostInParadiseOfBliss
@LostInParadiseOfBliss Жыл бұрын
In our Vedic times nearly 25% of population chose Bhramcharya after taking Deeksha ( Sadhna to channelise sexual urges/energy to some other things). It was because everyone is not suitable to get married. That was the wisdom back then. Compulsion to get married at present time comes from the Mughal period as security of females becomes most important and the way to secure them was to get them married.
@uditraj8290
@uditraj8290 Жыл бұрын
Yess bro 🙏
@Ritez_
@Ritez_ Жыл бұрын
This has changed. This is not Vedic time.
@saneykumarshaw4354
@saneykumarshaw4354 Жыл бұрын
Tu vedic time me chala ja...yaha is timeline me kyu jee rha hai
@sawanshah9799
@sawanshah9799 Жыл бұрын
Government survey k hisabb se 10 crore mahila ladkigaa UNMARRIED he nakii unko shadii nahi karnii Unkii kwaisshee purii nahi hotii
@Evaisgalaxy
@Evaisgalaxy Жыл бұрын
This...sahi kah rhe hai aap
@bansalprashant1
@bansalprashant1 Жыл бұрын
Sir I watched ur whole episode thinking that maybe I missed something and that ur episode may force me to rethink my decision to never marry. But I think this episode was not for me. I still stick to my decision n still estatically happy with my decision. I took this decision 3 years back and not regretted ever since. I just turned 39. However m sure ur way of explaining various issues do help a lot of people. Thankful to God that people like u exist too. 🙏
@SangoLifeSutras
@SangoLifeSutras Жыл бұрын
Wait for 42 yrs of age.
@bansalprashant1
@bansalprashant1 Жыл бұрын
@Sango Life Sutras I don't need to challenge u and I'm not. I respect u for the good work u r doing. All I'm saying is m not marrying for all the right reasons and none of the reasons that u mentioned for youngsters delaying or not marrying nowadays.
@saumyathapliyal.
@saumyathapliyal. Жыл бұрын
Wah sir ! 42 precisely kaise bataya apne aise konse biological changes ho jate hai 42 me...he's already 39 & happy...3 saal me uski dunia konsa upside down ho jaegi lol
@khajawandiaries9041
@khajawandiaries9041 Жыл бұрын
@@bansalprashant1 good decision
@amirahkaiser6199
@amirahkaiser6199 Жыл бұрын
@@SangoLifeSutras Bang on sir! You regret not making this investment once you grow old.
@vnssn
@vnssn Жыл бұрын
This video has an assumption that both the man and the woman are loyal to each other which is not the case in this modern society
@ajaisharma3028
@ajaisharma3028 Жыл бұрын
Marriage without financial independence is scary for both boys and girls. Marriage is not going to die. But why should a poor boy and a girl marry and how would they support their children. Sociologically you are right, but what about individual's psycholgy.
@beautyandthebeast1465
@beautyandthebeast1465 Жыл бұрын
True
@Ritez_
@Ritez_ Жыл бұрын
I need more clarity on this. My parents are well Seattled we have own house and property. They are government servent. I have recently started my business but it's in loss. Growth rate is slow. It's my second year of business. But I have loyal customer, the always come back. But foot fall is very low. my current age is 33 . And I live with my parents because I am the only son. I am not financially strong my my own income so I am scared of getting married. But parents want bme to do marriage, they say they will support me and help me grow. I am unable to decide whether I should get married or not.
@keshabroy6094
@keshabroy6094 Жыл бұрын
​@@Ritez_ shaadi kar le bhai
@sahilagrawal9799
@sahilagrawal9799 Жыл бұрын
best comment ever
@lifecoachconsultancy612
@lifecoachconsultancy612 11 ай бұрын
true sir
@pankajtanwar155
@pankajtanwar155 Жыл бұрын
Sir I respect you but on this topic I don't agree with you sir .Ek sawal he kya insan sirf shadi aur bachche aur settle hone ke liye peda hua he kya ?? Insan ko bandhano se mukti ki jarurat he faltu ke tante palkar khud ko aur kisi aur insan k bandhan mat badao . Life sirf maje marne k liye nhi hoti he .
@pankajtanwar155
@pankajtanwar155 Жыл бұрын
@@vivek8580 that's OK bro but don't you think that shadi k bad life jand si ho jati he, roz ki vohi khatpat, mathaphodi , ldai jhgda , aap kro to bhut sochsamjkar krna kyuki me bhugat chuka hu shadi ki barbadi aaj bhi nind nhi aati , goliya khani pdti he .
@rohans7194
@rohans7194 Жыл бұрын
@@vivek8580How many ambitious women do u see around? There are only 20% of women who has India’s workforce participation. Many women leave their job after getting married or discontinue after having children while men aren’t allowed to do that. And those ambitious women look for ambitious men who earn more than them. They don’t look down. This uncle tells everyone to find a career oriented/working wife but he should know the statistics of working women population.
@maitreyeebiswas9849
@maitreyeebiswas9849 Жыл бұрын
@@vivek8580 i di really appreciate the things you have said but one thing i need to point out that having a family and baccha ko palna is not actually low level goals but may be they are basics .....
@mrsbenedictcumberbatch9565
@mrsbenedictcumberbatch9565 Жыл бұрын
I completely agree
@aninditamitra6425
@aninditamitra6425 Жыл бұрын
@@pankajtanwar155 shaadi zaroori nhi h but aapke jaise kehena toh stereotype h Sir. Most of couples ki compatibility nhi hoti, acche lgne ke baad zindagi hoti h, sbko apne life se alag cheezein chahiye hota h, sbki react krne ka tarike, rehan sehan alag hota h. Duniya mein har tarike ka insan hote h, atrangi falana dimkana, wo ladka ladki dono mein hoti h. Toh aapke jaisi khayal jis ladki ki hogi, usse aapki banegi. Sath rehena lambi time tak aur shaadi, farak nhi h. Agar farak h toh bs social responsibilities aur security ki darr. Aapke kharab experience ka mtlb ye nhi shaadi kharab, partner galat chunte h bs. And also many indian girls and guys in many states or cities i have seen has a specific mindset or behaviour, jisse pati ya patni k sath bnti nhi h, toh apne dimension expand karo, search for someone outside ur boundaries, i have seen many indians marrying foreigners and staying happy. So dont restrict ur thought to one section in society
@irasingh8884
@irasingh8884 Жыл бұрын
99% of people need marriage , what the hell. Reasons of people not wanting marriage are not so simple. Leave it to the individual. Marriage as an institute is on decline and will continue for a lot longer.
@user-ck9rh2ek7o
@user-ck9rh2ek7o 11 ай бұрын
Marriage is not neccesary in life😊. He is a fool man.
@TheSlimmshadyy
@TheSlimmshadyy 11 ай бұрын
True 👏
@AnshuKumar-fi2jy
@AnshuKumar-fi2jy 11 ай бұрын
​@@user-ck9rh2ek7o so brave of you to call this professional problem solver a fool . What's your worth??
@afreenjamal4045
@afreenjamal4045 9 ай бұрын
​@@user-ck9rh2ek7o He's not at all a fool. Marriage is necessary.
@somukumar6682
@somukumar6682 8 ай бұрын
​@@user-ck9rh2ek7o right bro ❤❤❤❤
@user-ni7yd5hf8d
@user-ni7yd5hf8d 11 ай бұрын
No need to marry....its just a compromise ....market is father of your child.....5-6 relationships before marriage.....then dulha and dulhan into traditional dress😂😂😂😂
@Actingshowreel
@Actingshowreel Жыл бұрын
Bhaad me gyi shadi, bhaad me gyi ladki
@bobd2028
@bobd2028 Жыл бұрын
Based
@nishitarawat
@nishitarawat Жыл бұрын
SAME HERE
@user-xb4kj2tu1j
@user-xb4kj2tu1j 3 ай бұрын
Larki bhi yahi sochti hey bhiya ki sadai baadi faltu hey
@rituverma9058
@rituverma9058 Жыл бұрын
I am also female 33 year old I want to stayy single while my life
@priyankaraina969
@priyankaraina969 Жыл бұрын
Ya toh pati k sath bilkul alag raho ...nhi toh kbhi shadi mat karna .....
@uditraj8290
@uditraj8290 Жыл бұрын
@@sonujain2348 Freedom is more important than "Samaj"
@jonaligoswami651
@jonaligoswami651 Жыл бұрын
Right
@ankitrawal3240
@ankitrawal3240 11 ай бұрын
​@@sonujain2348to wa reh kya ho jab financially stable ho to alag raho unse
@davidkumar4008
@davidkumar4008 4 ай бұрын
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
@shalakachoughule3013
@shalakachoughule3013 Жыл бұрын
Sir, the way you get smile on your face with confidence when you say, I am the no. 1 clarity giver in the India is LAJAWAB.
@davidkumar4008
@davidkumar4008 4 ай бұрын
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
@aniketpatel2571
@aniketpatel2571 Ай бұрын
muh miya mitthu he ye uncle..😂
@rgrohitguptajnv
@rgrohitguptajnv Жыл бұрын
Every one has their own comfort zone of getting married..but selection of right parter is very crucial otherwise it will waste whole life..
@anishashaji4133
@anishashaji4133 9 ай бұрын
That happens rarely. If you are rich, you can live in comfort
@daar483
@daar483 Жыл бұрын
Mujhe nahi karni shaadi, na bacha chahiye. Mujhe tinde hi pasand hai.
@geetrajasthanedu
@geetrajasthanedu Жыл бұрын
THE BEST REPLY ...😀
@prakashdangi7261
@prakashdangi7261 Жыл бұрын
Listen to acharya Prashant to get more clarity and live for liberation
@gosthagotdrip906
@gosthagotdrip906 Жыл бұрын
Average tinde enoyer
@rakeshkishan2389
@rakeshkishan2389 Жыл бұрын
😂😂.. sahi
@kavitakandari7103
@kavitakandari7103 3 ай бұрын
😂
@gagadonim3354
@gagadonim3354 Жыл бұрын
Not eka dukka 5-6 people in my family and friends are fighting divorce cases
@advait_enthusiast
@advait_enthusiast Жыл бұрын
Sir I want to take spiritual path and remain unmarried
@vanshikakaushik6497
@vanshikakaushik6497 Жыл бұрын
Yaar pls stick to this decision my dad never wanted to marry but his family force him to get married he became alcoholic plus he stopped providing us for money because of this me and my brother's mental health is ruined I started earning at 19 and later provided for my family so for every guy who doesn't want loads of financial responsibility and is not willing to marry should stay single
@AKa0611
@AKa0611 Жыл бұрын
Amit Ji, you are the best. I feel so productive and motivated after listening to you. Thank you for bringing the change in society and the mindset of youth 🙏🙏
@AnkitSingh-fs2sl
@AnkitSingh-fs2sl Жыл бұрын
Pata nhi saaala life hai ki koi task hai! Thk gya hun yr. Nhi khelna mujhe ye game😞
@rupjyotidasgupta
@rupjyotidasgupta Жыл бұрын
Sir, you are actually trying to change the thought pattern of the new generation. Yes, we are becoming reluctant in terms of marriage, but hopefully this scenario will change, with time. Keep up the good work sir.
@deepti12347
@deepti12347 Жыл бұрын
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@prashant71194
@prashant71194 Жыл бұрын
Marriage is a failed institution in current socio-economic scenario where men and women earn same and are independent. Neither of them would want to compromise, (and why should they?) Marriage cannot work without compromise, you see in past times when women were limited to household, they had to compromise because they were financially dependent on husband, however modern woman will not compromise (and why should they?) Hence marriage is a failed social experiment.
@sapien9567
@sapien9567 20 күн бұрын
Dear old generation, stop lecturing us. We know what the world is today.
@chandrimad5776
@chandrimad5776 Жыл бұрын
I am old enough and very happy being single. I am unmarried by choice and do not prefer having kids. I am successful and have other priorities in life. I personally know many people in India and abroad who are single and established in life, they all are in late 60s or 70s and are very happy. Regarding this video: I have seen this trend of intruding into other people’s personal lives in India only. Someone wants to marry or doesn’t want to marry is his/her personal choice and society should respect that. Anybody else’s comment on it is absolutely uncalled for.
@gautamyadav10
@gautamyadav10 Жыл бұрын
If someone married you, your child will be ugly.. it is better to stay away.
@AmitVerma-rf6fx
@AmitVerma-rf6fx 11 ай бұрын
Well said
@Shivshakti-ly5no
@Shivshakti-ly5no 11 ай бұрын
Well said😊
@nikitafernandes461
@nikitafernandes461 11 ай бұрын
I am 31 years old but I am facing pressure at home and relatives to get married it's like pressure But I am happy being unmarried and single also I am a working girl
@nikitafernandes461
@nikitafernandes461 11 ай бұрын
Getting married and having kids is a personal choice and marriage is not everything for a girl They can work on themselves, focus on studies, hobbies and work on themselves and focus on career and work
@lillyedits55
@lillyedits55 6 ай бұрын
Main reason: Because of one sided Indian judiciary laws.
@davidkumar4008
@davidkumar4008 4 ай бұрын
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
@gagadonim3354
@gagadonim3354 Жыл бұрын
You are forgetting very important part that majority of the girls today have or had past lovers but because of family pressure or other didn't marry him. When they marry they settle for some nice guy for the resources but their heart is still with their ex and since they are self-sufficient they don't respect the husband and do affairs with their ex or someone they cannot have like a very good looking or rich man. Character is everything while selecting a wife all other things are pretty much useless without character.
@snehalt.channel992
@snehalt.channel992 Жыл бұрын
*right on the point. In our relatives happend with 4 good guys ,their wives hardly stayed for few months and now demanding for Alimony*
@rohans7194
@rohans7194 Жыл бұрын
@@snehalt.channel992Thats why girl’s past is important.
@sowjanyahrr
@sowjanyahrr Жыл бұрын
Very much agree
@happyplease4093
@happyplease4093 Жыл бұрын
@@rohans7194 boys also have past....boys have multiple affairs......play boy
@vnssn
@vnssn Жыл бұрын
@@happyplease4093 But if the guy cheats in a marriage and it leads to divorce, the girl doesnt have to pay alimony(the guy has to pay alimony) etc whereas if the woman cheats then still the man has to give alimony etc after divorce.
@user-ni7yd5hf8d
@user-ni7yd5hf8d 11 ай бұрын
शादी मत करना।।अकेले रहो सुखी रहो।।समाज मे रहकर कोई अच्छा काम करो।।दुनिया याद करेगी।।
@vipinshandal
@vipinshandal 9 ай бұрын
सब हिन्दू शादी करना बन्द बच्चे पैदा बन्द दुनिया उनके लिये छोड़ दो!
@mayurikarne5417
@mayurikarne5417 8 ай бұрын
Bakwasssssssd couple raho
@utkarshsingh6823
@utkarshsingh6823 7 ай бұрын
@@mayurikarne5417 khud kuch ukhaad lo jewwan Mai bacche toh kutiya bhi paida karti hai 🐈🐈
@padmajavadada8650
@padmajavadada8650 Жыл бұрын
I agree sir. Completed 25 years of marriage. My hubby is under pressure for now n I feel for him.
@amijoshi2559
@amijoshi2559 Жыл бұрын
Single rehna achhi baat hai no stress no nuisance etc but when it comes to travel,outing,movies,eating out,attending grand events etc ni family, friends or relatives come to hang out n theres pure loneliness so many people change their mind and get married in late 40s so they can have a good company
@anishashaji4133
@anishashaji4133 9 ай бұрын
My lead is single. He is roaming in world tour with his single friends.
@SantoshRawat508
@SantoshRawat508 Жыл бұрын
मेरी उम्र 35.साल हो गई है में शादी नहीं करना चाहता
@shijag007
@shijag007 Жыл бұрын
I also want to add that parenting is changing rapidly with time and don't know what will happen to this generation that eats with mobile. Parents are helpless and clueless and this is changing with more tech entering households. I have empathy for new parents and will be parents.
@anishashaji4133
@anishashaji4133 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't wish to raise a kid in technology era.
@raspberrypaper3562
@raspberrypaper3562 Жыл бұрын
Sir sometimes you just don’t find the right person. Many a times the person you were invested for the purpose of marrying with Break off the relationship. Life is unpredictable. And one cannot simply move on being logical and calculative at all times. Yes however, if one finds a good partner at the right age then by all means do not delay it. But life isn’t a straight road. And getting married just for the heck of it without Basic values being aligned, and a firm and through background check in case of arranged alliances isn’t fruitful at all. Baad mein jo hoga Woh to apple definitely akele jhelna hai. But be late then sorry.
@SagarSingh-py5ci
@SagarSingh-py5ci Жыл бұрын
I agree
@freedom4813
@freedom4813 Жыл бұрын
@@ashitmukherjee5934 then why ready to entertain with your life. If you married someone,then it's 60years togetherness more or less. Then why for this so much hustle bustle
@msrenukamardi9712
@msrenukamardi9712 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯 💯
@abc_t5
@abc_t5 Жыл бұрын
@Raspberry I agree! Sometimes he seems very robotic & ignorant of human emotionalities. Life is not just black or white, Sir.
@shikhag5326
@shikhag5326 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you. And the pain it brings of putting dedicated effort into a relationship so that it turns a long term innings of marriage can sometimes break a camels back. I also agree with Sir's point of cribbing nature of men. It can come in any form. I don't understand high earning men mentality. They want a trophy partner plus accomplished and should have the potential to be at the beck and call of the partner every single need. Forget parents they themselves are so emotionally demanding.
@dr.surekhaverma9957
@dr.surekhaverma9957 Жыл бұрын
Sir, aap astrologer ho...yuga change kar raha hai...marriage paradigm is changing...abhi sirf earn, pay and bacche ke liye shadi nahi chahiye...now people are looking for something higher...they want a soul connection...plus in the new age or yuga the population will be far less...the initial phase has started manifesting with the younger lot not wanting to marry...perspective of life itself is changing and the young ones don't want to be stuck in the old paradigm... Aur aap shaadi ki old paradigm Ki baat kar rahe ho? You're an astrologer. The earth is ascending...new age is dawning...isko nazar mein rakhte huye guide kyun nahi karte ho?
@Deb_deCoder
@Deb_deCoder Жыл бұрын
if he supports the changes in modern society then for marriage who will buy rings and jems from him !!
@davidkumar4008
@davidkumar4008 4 ай бұрын
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
@satveerverma9077
@satveerverma9077 11 ай бұрын
Ye sab baate acharya Prashant j pehle bahut achhe se samjha chuke h mera drashtikon badal gaya
@zahrabjinu
@zahrabjinu Жыл бұрын
Wonderful video. And that concept mental plane and reality of every person is different is so true. I use to say the same thing to young people around me who think they have lot of time to mature,grow up and start taking responsibility. Young people nowadays are overgrown children.Very few listen to their parents and at 25 they don’t want responsibility especially men.Many young men marry for ‘bahu’ and ‘sex’ and its only after marriage they realize how tough it is. Counselling should be done by parents.This video will open parents eyes who are wasting time of their children in name of ‘ good girl’.
@CarzyNavi
@CarzyNavi Жыл бұрын
sir shadi ki chodo... yeh batao 6000 ki russian kaha milegi.... ek video ispe bhi banao
@chetan257
@chetan257 Жыл бұрын
Bhai thailand best h … cheap h affirdable 😊
@animeshupadhyai4057
@animeshupadhyai4057 Жыл бұрын
@@chetan257 what about STDs? aur self worth bhi gir jaati hai is cheez se to be very honest.
@chetan257
@chetan257 Жыл бұрын
@@animeshupadhyai4057 condom + rapid testing kit aati h bhai .. Or me medical line se hu …to pata h symptoms ..thodi research karo … Koi option h kya … jail..mental torture… adultery..slavery… apne assets wealth gawane se accha hi h … Koi option nahi h … Or bhai prostitute bhi ek se ek hoti h … Firends with benefits wali gf bana lo …
@akshay-jr1qz
@akshay-jr1qz 4 күн бұрын
​@@animeshupadhyai4057 bhai 2 condoms lagate hai std hone ke chance nahi hota
@Vikram_8621
@Vikram_8621 Жыл бұрын
Sir, the thing which you explained in the last 2 mins, that is one of the prime reasons why guys or girls are afraid of marriage or don`t get married early. because no family would like an underdog or so. Anyone does not look for extra baggage to carry. One request can you make a video about folks who want to marry late in life?
@friendlyvimana
@friendlyvimana Жыл бұрын
Jin ladkon ko sachmein aisa lagta hai ki hamein to ek free ki kaamwali pakad ke lani hai, unhein to sahi mein koi nhi milni chahiye, better ki wo single hi rahein, kyunki shadi karli to faltu ki expectations rakheinge. Main bhi ladka hun, pr if there is actually a population like this, and that population feels against marriage due to lack of such kaamwalis in the market, then they better remain single, even better that they think this is the right decision now.
@vanshikakaushik6497
@vanshikakaushik6497 Жыл бұрын
Right I know my cousin who's getting married with this approach he earns 30k per month with home tuitions and he gets so pissed off when girls argue with him let's see how the marriage turns out for them moreon financially independent girls are not willing to take shit from men
@friendlyvimana
@friendlyvimana Жыл бұрын
@@vanshikakaushik6497 exactly
@namratasingh9031
@namratasingh9031 Жыл бұрын
" your parents world is different, we stay in our minds, same ghar me dusre mental world me hum rehte hai " so so true 👌👍Thanks for this video , I really like all your videos..... aapka perspective ekdum hatke hota hai 🙏👌
@abhi-tm7ey
@abhi-tm7ey 2 ай бұрын
Uncle ji single life best
@spa1920-n5f
@spa1920-n5f Жыл бұрын
Sir ,Agar shaadi timely na karwane me maata pita hi na chhaye to? Hai aise bahut maata pita jo 40 Tak bachho ki shaadi nahi karne dete aur agar khhud se kar lo bawaal, marte dam Tak muh nahi dekhte. Samajhte hi nahi aise maata pita ki unke bachhe 42 /45 ki umar me apne chhote chhote bachho ko kaise sambhalte honge. Sir it's a true of story of someone. Not everyone is against marriage, sometimes parents are responsible.
@suprionandy
@suprionandy Жыл бұрын
apka aisa situation hai kya?
@AnkitKumar-kk3iw
@AnkitKumar-kk3iw Жыл бұрын
Mata pita ko chodo.....aur khud se shadi kr lo........bawal hota to hone do Apni life ki command apne haath me lo
@green.frugal.minimalist1316
@green.frugal.minimalist1316 Жыл бұрын
Bahut sahi baat kahi aapne... Agar mata-pita ya bhai behen ko lag jaye ye beti/beta or bhai/behen responsible hai, ghar ki sari jimmedari uthata hai, finance to everything, thn un logo ki shadi karwane ke liye koi ichchuk nahi hota hai...
@manojshrestha2740
@manojshrestha2740 Жыл бұрын
SHAADI TO MUJHE BHI NAHI KARNI....43 SAAL KA HOGAYA HU...AB TO AKELA REHENE KI AADAT SI HOGAI HAI ....AUR AKELA HI KHOOSH HOON
@davidkumar4008
@davidkumar4008 4 ай бұрын
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
@dailygames4880
@dailygames4880 Жыл бұрын
Sir main aapki zyadatar advice follow ni krta aadhi se jyada mujhe aapki baatein galat bhi lgti hai pr phir bhi aapko sunnna acha lgta hai
@SanghPath
@SanghPath Жыл бұрын
😂
@sandeepsingh1409
@sandeepsingh1409 Жыл бұрын
ye budha pagal ho gya iski sun k zndagi kharab mat kro.
@divyanshdwivedi9751
@divyanshdwivedi9751 5 ай бұрын
Koea asea chutiyo se leta bhi nahi hai advive
@sudhakarmohan4259
@sudhakarmohan4259 Жыл бұрын
Well said Sangwan Sir.I am a Doctor and used to say these things in family and friend circle .You are doing great service to the society.You deserve 1 million subscribers
@user-ue9lp4ul5n
@user-ue9lp4ul5n Жыл бұрын
किसी ने बिल्कुल सही कहा है- शादी एक ऐसा लड्डू है, जिसे नहीं मिले वो ललचाये, और जो खाये वो पछताये। हर शादीशुदा व्यक्ति के अपने अलग अनुभव हैं। उसको जनरलाइज करना मुश्किल है। जो शादी के बन्धन में लम्बे समय से है, उनमें झेलते झेलते इतनी सहनशीलता आ जाती है कि शादी की वकालत करना शुरू कर देते हैं। पहले एक कारण - बुढ़ापे की चिंता से लोग शादी किया करते, लेकिन अब सामाजिक व्यवस्था ही ऐसी हो गयी है बच्चे अपने बूढ़े माँ बाप कितना ख्याल रख पाते हैं? मनुष्य जितना अपने मन के सहारे जीयेगा, शादी के बंधन टूटेंगे। समय के साथ हमारा भी बिल्कुल west वाला हाल होना तय है।
@bhoopinderkaur6171
@bhoopinderkaur6171 Жыл бұрын
Highly psychological Analysis of marriage for both girls and boys,there should be more people like you, I send your videos to lot of young and old members of society,
@user-kx7wk8gi3g
@user-kx7wk8gi3g 11 ай бұрын
38 Y Old here, single , very much happy my own way. Society is just purely dillusion for those who are mesmorised. 1 Question only How many Girls really marry to boys ? Or wiseaversa (I think none) Most of marriages are based on Financial status, So, Just marriage is just with money 💰 not with the person. No matter How Good you are by nature, or what is your instinct. That does not matter. Matter is only Financial status both side.
@umeshg17
@umeshg17 11 ай бұрын
Bro jyada si sach bol diya😢
@divyanshdwivedi9751
@divyanshdwivedi9751 5 ай бұрын
Isiliye apna paisa apne upper enjoy karo
@AnkitSingh-fs2sl
@AnkitSingh-fs2sl Жыл бұрын
As a homosexual I am blessed that I don't have to indulge in all this mess!
@satyamlodhii
@satyamlodhii Жыл бұрын
Inke alag hi chutyape he 🤣🤣
@deep4630
@deep4630 11 ай бұрын
Oh yeah...😂 But all families don't tolerate the 'homosexual' behaviour in our society...😑
@AbhishekKumarjisain
@AbhishekKumarjisain 11 ай бұрын
I am also homosexual but my perents and relatives forced me to getting marriage. I am depressed.
@pradumkumar7464
@pradumkumar7464 11 ай бұрын
Bhaiya aap log home me se..x karte ho Isle homose..ual ho
@AnshuKumar-fi2jy
@AnshuKumar-fi2jy 11 ай бұрын
Yuck 😝🤢
@agarwalkaditya
@agarwalkaditya Жыл бұрын
Sir ,I am respectfuly saying that you missed the important reasons: 1.Ladka ya ladki apni azzadi aur kuareypan ke mazey ni chod saktey isliye Aisa hora hai. 2.Shadi ke baad bandhn aur chic chic se wo khud ko door rakhna chahtey hai. 3.Naukri ki jbrdast uncertainty hai .
@anjaan274
@anjaan274 Жыл бұрын
I m 35 years old and i m still single. The issue is salary. I hope one day I'll get marry.. Your thoughts are great👍👍
@sushigama671
@sushigama671 Жыл бұрын
Same here bro 👍
@domonkor7667
@domonkor7667 Жыл бұрын
Hope you also go to jail under maritial rape law
@barryallen1100
@barryallen1100 Жыл бұрын
Are salary issue nahi hoti... Financial stability nahi hai yeh soch issue hai...... Kuch jugad karke ,same situation & companion wali ya wala se jiyo...
@ravikumar-km9lg
@ravikumar-km9lg 11 ай бұрын
😂
@AnonymousAlien2099
@AnonymousAlien2099 7 ай бұрын
Teri personality thik hoti toh tujhe koi choose kar leta Abhi paisa kaamake khudko ek commodity ki tarah ladkiyo k saamne prastut karoge toh ye ek business deal hai Shaadi aise nahi karte ki jo mile usse kardo
@BLISS_24x7
@BLISS_24x7 3 ай бұрын
इन भाई साहब का धंदा शादी होगी तो ज्यादा चलेगा अगर दिमाग हो तो शादी मत करना guys जमाना बदल गया है
@user-vw7ej8ux1l
@user-vw7ej8ux1l 2 ай бұрын
Shadi barbadi hoti hai. Aajkal divorce rate dekh rahe ho kitna hai. Maine bohot log dekhe hai jinki jindagi barbad hui shadi ki vajah se
@shivamupadhyay24
@shivamupadhyay24 Жыл бұрын
In my case, my mother used to tell me to marry a woman with job(even she is ready to do all household work). She's not like what you said in this video.....but i'm the one who don't want to marry any sort of woman cuz i know that my mother don't know about these "modern woman".
@TheTejasNaik
@TheTejasNaik Жыл бұрын
You right bro
@vineetthakur182
@vineetthakur182 Жыл бұрын
Best is cohabitation since women now a days earn of their own they don't need mans protection anyway in form of marriage
@shivamupadhyay24
@shivamupadhyay24 Жыл бұрын
@@vineetthakur182 so you have not met a feminist who is in her 30s/40s.
@freedom4813
@freedom4813 Жыл бұрын
@@vineetthakur182 4 din ki Chandni,fir Andheri Raat ☠️
@sudhirchandra9790
@sudhirchandra9790 Жыл бұрын
He hasn't taken into account the issues of men in marriage 1. He says that the number of women doing domestic voilence cases are less but he doesn't even know the number of silent threats that millions of husbands are going through from there wives and in laws to take control of husband My brother who is earning well and his wife who is housewife was threatened softly by his wife that I know everything about domestic voilence case,just because my brother pointed out that she don't keep the house in order inspite of having maids 2. He didn't covered that its not men but women who are more choosy in marriage,they will see everything educational qualifications,looks, property,job,earnings before marriage but men don't see so many things
@seekerar9058
@seekerar9058 Жыл бұрын
Marriage is a choice, not a necessity! Everyone has their own priorities in life...we cannot impose one or two reason for not getting married on everyone as if they are the universal reasons...we should leave it to the individual to decide his/her own course of life...Sir i think aapka Survey Sample Size thoda chota reh gya! But nevertheless it is a nice talk!
@akhild69
@akhild69 Жыл бұрын
Great video, perfectly pitched explaining the realistic ground reality. Hum kar to rahey they, par aisa na humko kisi ney samjhaya nahin. " Guru Tatva ko Dhanyawaad. "
@jayashreesathe6026
@jayashreesathe6026 Жыл бұрын
From a woman's point of view.... Initial days into marriage for a woman are just horrible..... It's like ragging..... It's a different story maybe if it's just मिया- बिवी staying together but with all the adjustments in a new home with the foreign bodies like सास, ससुर, जेठ, जेठानी n all it's horrifying time for the new bride in India......So first the mindset of the boy and his people has to change drastically......then only girls might get ready for marriage... Else it's wasting a precious life ........
@suchithragokul
@suchithragokul Жыл бұрын
@Jayashree Sathe foreign bodies 😂😂😂. You are correct, Yes mindset of boy and his parents has to change .
@UdayPratapSingh999
@UdayPratapSingh999 Жыл бұрын
True
@jayashreesathe6026
@jayashreesathe6026 Жыл бұрын
@@SBH3356 Agree.... But still the interference continues....and the in laws make sure that the life of the newly weds becomes a hell.... Hence I feel that the mindset of the boy and his people has to change....
@Samikshakomal
@Samikshakomal Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right...i married in my twenties..and after two years of continuous mental torture I decided to leave that house ..now I am so much afraid to do it again as the mindset of in laws and other relatives are same...jese ek bachari aayegi ..dahej bhi layegi aur sewa bhi karegi ...aur apne bare me kuch bhi nhi sochegi...what a ridiculous thinking...seriously..are girl made for sewa???
@kahna2601
@kahna2601 Жыл бұрын
@@Samikshakomal Areee ye pagal admi na bakvas krna janta hai Actually ham logo ko jab shadi krni hai tab krnge aur sabki apni apni kismat hoti hai Jab iswar ne likhi hogi tab hogi jisse honi hogi tab hogi Unko bas bakvas krne ki adat hai
@sudhagupta6069
@sudhagupta6069 Жыл бұрын
Women, never retires from work& gets no pension for her work. It affects her health adversely 😢
@ashrafmohammad2784
@ashrafmohammad2784 Жыл бұрын
Then be a prostitute....you will be paid handsomely 😂😂
@abhiography
@abhiography Жыл бұрын
Chacha sirf ladkiyo ka side lete hai. Remember boys you’re worthy and capable and you deserve the best ❤🎉
@naruti3992
@naruti3992 Жыл бұрын
King u dropped it 👑
@cinemamylove5712
@cinemamylove5712 Жыл бұрын
sahi baat hai..shaayad inko beta nai hai isliye ...
@abhiography
@abhiography Жыл бұрын
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@knowledgeenglish6752
@knowledgeenglish6752 Жыл бұрын
Chacha ki do char ladki hai Sadi Nehi horehi 😀😀
@Nitin-ep4xg
@Nitin-ep4xg Ай бұрын
chacha chutiya panti me PHD kar rakhe hai.. inke hisab se tinda khane vala kush nhi reh skta.. or shadi karke baccha paida karna yhi important hai jindgi me..
@vasuarora9588
@vasuarora9588 Жыл бұрын
Mental peace >> Women
@vanshikakaushik6497
@vanshikakaushik6497 Жыл бұрын
Obv loyalty>>>>men also dogs>>> men the are loyal
@shivamupadhyay24
@shivamupadhyay24 Жыл бұрын
@@vanshikakaushik6497 says a woman...
@vanshikakaushik6497
@vanshikakaushik6497 Жыл бұрын
@@shivamupadhyay24 sorry I meant dogs are loyal
@shivamupadhyay24
@shivamupadhyay24 Жыл бұрын
@@vanshikakaushik6497 hmmm.....says a woman.
@rajeshnaidu693
@rajeshnaidu693 Жыл бұрын
Namaste, You are great to bring such videos. I love you Amitji.
@aadiptpandey538
@aadiptpandey538 11 ай бұрын
He is marriage consultant runs a marriage institution that's why he putting facts for marrige and children. Otherwise see comment I am 33 yo unmarried never been in relationship by choice and Happy.
@mattcardin1796
@mattcardin1796 10 ай бұрын
How did you convince your parent
@aadiptpandey538
@aadiptpandey538 10 ай бұрын
@@mattcardin1796 circumstance and parents health play role in delay. I completed my grad @ 30 I lost my father this yr and mother is schizophrenic. So currently I have lots of responsibility and want to live life freely. Marriage comes with responsibility...
@ashuvijay7031
@ashuvijay7031 4 ай бұрын
How u kill fear of illness loneliness old age ...??
@GauravRajput-jx2xy
@GauravRajput-jx2xy 3 ай бұрын
​@@ashuvijay7031those who can't live with themselves (alone) can't live with somebody.
@ashishmeher5637
@ashishmeher5637 Ай бұрын
​@GauravRajput-jx2xy bro ye admi apni hi baat ko kaat raha hai. Ye khud hi bol raha hai ki sex ratio kharab hai . Aur khud hi bol raha hai ki sabko shadi karni chahiye 😂
@kapilyadav4399
@kapilyadav4399 11 ай бұрын
I feel like my late father is giving advice while watching your videos. Thank you uncle for creating great content.
@sakunia.bikram89
@sakunia.bikram89 Жыл бұрын
Sir...my age will be 34 on this February. I had been a Broken engagement last year spetember 2022 because of some circumstance the girl stoped relationship with me. Till day I am looking for a bride from past 3 years through relatives, Matrimonial site and By myself. Koi bhi ladki na ho baat karne mein intrest show kar rahi hai..aur nahi kishi ki source mil pa Raha hai..idharr age and time Aage badhte jarahi hai. Aap keh rahe hai ladko ko 27-30yrs age mein Marriage hojana chahiye but ek Boy ko carrier, finances, Emotionally, mentally prepare hone mein time lagta hai. Sir..Aap suggestions or guidance dijiye yeh matter mein
@pallavverma5448
@pallavverma5448 Жыл бұрын
Are bhai kyun is shadi ke jhamele mein pad raha hai mat kar sab faltoo ki cheezen hai look after ur parents and health and enjoy your life
@prasunkumar1434
@prasunkumar1434 Жыл бұрын
@@pallavverma5448 After reaching a certain age you will regret your life decisions. View it as you are there to take care of your parents but after a certain time there will be no one to take care of you or even talk to you because you never had a life partner and you never became a parent. If you live in a joint family them this doesn't apply to you but if by any chance you have a nuclear family you are doomed.
@prasunkumar1434
@prasunkumar1434 Жыл бұрын
@@legends5066 I'm not telling to get married, I'm telling the consequences of not getting married. BTW if you are between 18-22 then congratulations to your premature thinking coz I also used to think the same but then I critically analysed the situation of life without a partner and with a partner and trust me no will take you seriously and everyone would be reluctant to offer you a rented apartment and when the parents are no longer there then your life becomes hell even if you are committed to your work and earn a lot of money but that will never make up for the need of real family members. Think critically not emotionally. Like in the video it is said that not everyone's life becomes a hell after marriage. It is only some of the extreme cases which gets highlighted more.
@prasunkumar1434
@prasunkumar1434 Жыл бұрын
@@Evaisgalaxy Ooh! sad to hear that.
@prasunkumar1434
@prasunkumar1434 Жыл бұрын
@@legends5066 Sorry to hear that. May god grace you with a new life ahead. What are your plans now?
@dhruvshukla2389
@dhruvshukla2389 9 ай бұрын
Iss buddhe ki baat mat suno. Marriage in 2023 is a scam. It's not like the 1970s.
@MOKSH_J_K
@MOKSH_J_K 2 ай бұрын
Shameful comment🖕🖕🖕
@dancingnachos3634
@dancingnachos3634 2 ай бұрын
What a stupid statement. Firstly you have no respect for someone older then you. Secondly, if you don't agree then chose the right path yourself. He is giving some suggestions based on what his own observation.
@albertishu9066
@albertishu9066 Жыл бұрын
Very practical thought process sir.... you're unique ❤️
@UdayPratapSingh999
@UdayPratapSingh999 Жыл бұрын
Whenever you do, make sure you are mature enough for it. You understand the responsibility you're taking. Social norm and increasing the population are not enough reasons.
@himanshuverma3984
@himanshuverma3984 Жыл бұрын
My life is going great & I don't feel that getting married is going to improve or add on anything positive in my life. Also, getting married in today's era depends on luck. Women have become great, I agree, but they have also become very good at hiding their true faces. My instincts are getting better these days & I have an instinct that my life will be destroyed if I get married. But my parents are still living in an era where women were good, feminine, loyal, caring, respected others etc. All I see in today's women are they look for multiple sex relationships before getting married & later when they get married to a decent guy, then file a fake 498a case against him so that she can continue to enjoy her "sexual liberty". It's only when she reaches 30 & her beauty starts to fade away, she starts thinking about stable married life.
@GauravSingh-rq2kw
@GauravSingh-rq2kw Жыл бұрын
👍
@Hakimshafin
@Hakimshafin 11 ай бұрын
Ispar video bnna chahiye
@itsok7525
@itsok7525 Жыл бұрын
Still choosing to be alone not being left alone. Thanks sir 🌸btw
@suchitagujarathi
@suchitagujarathi Жыл бұрын
Very well said sir, I am mother of 20 year old . Right now I am not facing this issue personally. But when we look around in society, major issue is not about boys of Marriageable age but it's about girls. All Girls and their parents wants prince Charming with handsome salary package . Even if a boy with normal salary want to marry it's becoming very difficult to find girl. It's very difficult to change girl's parents mind set.
@atulmishra864
@atulmishra864 Жыл бұрын
Sad but true
@sudhirchandra9790
@sudhirchandra9790 Жыл бұрын
Yes,he didn't discussed that Girls and there parents are very choosy these days,they want good salary, property,good looks,good dressing sense,good qualifications Also after marriage girls want to take control of husband using 498A
@damyantidhull9993
@damyantidhull9993 Жыл бұрын
True
@Deb_deCoder
@Deb_deCoder Жыл бұрын
@@sudhirchandra9790 right.. but what mn will get after fullfilling all these criteria ? In 10 years what will remain of that gal ? she will become disgusting old ldy but the mn will have huge money to enjoy.. not a good deal for mn with money
@Dublicate.Shahrukh
@Dublicate.Shahrukh Жыл бұрын
Why boys don't select a black girl
@veenanarwani761
@veenanarwani761 Жыл бұрын
Old ladies were not foolish. They were brave.
@dr.mahboobkhanfamilychannel
@dr.mahboobkhanfamilychannel Жыл бұрын
You have so much clarity....I always watch your videos.They are so motivational.
@Pdrock2001
@Pdrock2001 Жыл бұрын
Than you sir for bringing such videos for kids and the youth . I salute your courage since so many middle age people dont really accept their faults politely . They are far , far away from the truth .
@sunitaahlawat9608
@sunitaahlawat9608 Жыл бұрын
You really explain all the topics very well!!Thanks
@davidkumar4008
@davidkumar4008 4 ай бұрын
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
@friendlyvimana
@friendlyvimana Жыл бұрын
I liked the long term perspective ☺️, never thought about this before. This was amazing to think, and this balances out the whole thing among both the partners.
@vaish7504
@vaish7504 9 ай бұрын
Everyone is not suitable to get married. When people have unresolved psychological issues of their own, they project it on their spouse and children. Bringing a life into this world just for the sake of it and saddling him/her with your emotional neglect is not ok. Brining a new life into existence without understanding life's true nature, importance and purpose is a pure ignorant and selfish act.
@AnonymousAlien2099
@AnonymousAlien2099 7 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯 You resonate with me.
@charansingrana2666
@charansingrana2666 4 ай бұрын
😂 Shadi is Gambling 50 50 chance either hell or get burdened
@bindu6351
@bindu6351 Жыл бұрын
Very well explained ❤️for those who are not marrying because they are finding faults with the other gender. Marriage is hard, Living alone is hard. You need to choose. Not marrying is a choice, it's not because the girls are bad or the boys are bad.
@davidkumar4008
@davidkumar4008 4 ай бұрын
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
@satyajitsahu2852
@satyajitsahu2852 Жыл бұрын
A overhyped institution🤣
@chhayalakra9909
@chhayalakra9909 Жыл бұрын
Sir, I have been following you since a few weeks now and i am glad i found ur videos. I m a 25 yr old doctor and marriage proposals are coming constantly now. I was confused and anxious about marriage and other aspects of my future. Your talks gave me a perspective for me to contemplate and decide. Ye baatein jo mere liye bilkul nayi hain kisi bade ka margdarshan zaroori hota hai jo parents se mil nahi raha. Thankyou and sending you warm regards.
@dahliajaji9547
@dahliajaji9547 Жыл бұрын
Yes you can marry. But choose partner carefully. Choose someone who matches with your aspirations, goals and commitments in life. Since you are a doctor,most important is he should understand your commitment as a doctor. Also better to have in laws who would support you to pursue your career , render help n support when you have kids in future. Don't go for glamour. Looks, guy working abroad with high earnings etc. MOST IMPORTANT never come under peer pressure. Best wishes.
@sagar17258
@sagar17258 Жыл бұрын
@@bhadwamuhammad979 yes proposals will come until and unless you are in sbi
@av7337
@av7337 Жыл бұрын
Mat kr bhai
@sudhirchandra9790
@sudhirchandra9790 Жыл бұрын
Kar lo,get a doctor wife
@anujdimple
@anujdimple Жыл бұрын
Pta nhi maa baap kya kr rhe h.......
@RajeshKumar-vr2lm
@RajeshKumar-vr2lm Жыл бұрын
What an explanation O my GOD. GOD BLESS ALL.
@CeeBeeThakur
@CeeBeeThakur Жыл бұрын
This is fake currency world. Everything is decided on the basis of this currency. We youngsters are so dependent on currency that if someone is not earning enough than he/she will not think about marriage at all. Because in current scenario you just can't live a happy life with poverty. This world is getting cruel, development is not sustainable. Our Childhood days were golden days, even with parents'low income we all were happy and celebrated our life but now things are getting changed. 🙏💐
@VikramjitSingh924
@VikramjitSingh924 Жыл бұрын
Beta AI sab ki band baja degi dekh lena
@bhupenderpunia662
@bhupenderpunia662 Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right sir..initially deny for marriage till 30s but later married then things are out of hand...I got married at the age 26 now I m well settled and having 9 years old son ...One of my friend got married at 35 because he denied for married.....conclusion is that either marriage at right time or fully committed not to marry.
@udaykhanna1
@udaykhanna1 Жыл бұрын
It doesn't matter even if you get married later in life. There is no restrictions or boundaries or rules set by god that do this and don't do that. We have freedom to take any decision regarding this topic. Ultimately everyone is gonna die soon, it doesn't matter in the end but it also depends if that person wants to have a child after marriage or not. Someone who does not want a child shouldn't care at all about this thing.
@adityasyangdan3019
@adityasyangdan3019 Жыл бұрын
Salute to you sir 🙏. Very clarity given video for today's generation n parents of ladka ladki as well.
@neeraj29100
@neeraj29100 Жыл бұрын
अब सबको प्यार चाहिए ऐसा प्यार जिसमे इतनी सच्चाई हो कि जिसके लिए इंसान कुछ भी कर जाए बस तभी हो सकती है शादी ।।
@ajayjagtap1765
@ajayjagtap1765 4 ай бұрын
Marriage is a gambling, You may lucky or unlucky. Best of luck, Once you have child it is 25 years project at 0% profit. Burden after marriage: Home loan, personal loan, child education loan. Don't marry stay away from all responsibilities.
@lifetimeeducation3739
@lifetimeeducation3739 6 ай бұрын
Tim Cook Swami Vivekananda Or foreign live in their happiness life It's individual life Indian people usually focus on other life whether neighbour or family Nobody should focus on their life It's better to live alone
@AshuRajdor
@AshuRajdor Жыл бұрын
Amazing video. You are indeed a Clarity giver, probably the best one in India right now...
@Antariksha
@Antariksha Жыл бұрын
Its very true. Thankfully, we got married at 26 inspite of people around saying that its too early. Had two kids by 32. Took a career break. Now they are grown up and I can finally focus on my career again and its not too late. If you have a partner, get married early and have kids early if you plan to.
@sudhirchandra9790
@sudhirchandra9790 Жыл бұрын
26 isn't early,its right age My sister got married at 21 after completing her bsc,bEd and taking up teachers job She had kid at 23 and still continued her career as her in laws take care of her son She neither left her career,nor marriage nor having kids
@anujdimple
@anujdimple Жыл бұрын
Ek kaam kro na jab career hi pardhan h to no shadi no kid...Just enjoy life and career career career ....Why shadi nd kid....Ye sb pairo ki zanjeer h....Aage badhne se rokti h....
@433nehasinghal
@433nehasinghal Жыл бұрын
Yes i agree...that's the perfect periodic table ...u can run after the kid in 28 nt 40
@gamingwithxan1430
@gamingwithxan1430 Жыл бұрын
@@sudhirchandra9790 wait, how at 21 completed bsc & bED?
@sudhirchandra9790
@sudhirchandra9790 Жыл бұрын
@@gamingwithxan1430 she completed her 12th at 17 years then joined integrated Bsc Bed Program Which is of 4 years
@simplyawesome6914
@simplyawesome6914 Жыл бұрын
People keep changing with time...even if someone thinks they are marrying the right person, it might turn out otherwise later...one can never be sure...pls make a video on mental plane explanation. thanks.
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