navigating my mid 20s | apartment hunting in nyc, opening up about my relationship & mental health

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~ CHAPTERS ~
0:00 intro
0:16 my dream apartments
2:13 let's go apartment hunting!
3:07 ~my dream apartment~
3:54 the apartment i regret the most
4:57 apartment hunting debrief
7:00 why we're apartment hunting :)
7:51 career & relationship
9:11 pottery & space
10:13 how my relationship's different now
11:45 family & adulthood
12:38 back in nyc
13:06 tattoooo
14:59 making naengmyeon
16:15 mental health check in ❤️
18:16 family pic & taste test
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@sarahpan Ай бұрын

hope everyone’s having a happy weekend 🥰

@miwe8819 Ай бұрын

🤗

@dianebaker5243 Ай бұрын

👍🥰

@sofsings101 Ай бұрын

I’m sorry WHAT??!?? Not only are you amazingly smart kind creative and hardworking you also BOUGHT YOUR PARENTS A HOUSE?!???? This is insanity!! You’re the best Sarah!!

@sarahpan Ай бұрын

omg thank u 😭 honestly it’s just been a lifelong goal of mine so i’m really happy i was able to do that for them 🥹

@IrilynOriginal Ай бұрын

I can 10/10 confirm that it’s normal to not be talking to each other 24/7 while living together. I’ve been with my bf for 8 years and we always just do our own thing most of the time. I think it’s pretty healthy that couples do this to avoid driving each other crazy 😂. Thank you for always sharing! Love your videos ❤

@shaaswatha Ай бұрын

"and your mothers beautiful" James must be protected at all costs 😭💗

@sarahpan Ай бұрын

dw i will protect him 😭🥹

@TheWorldAccordingToV Ай бұрын

thank you for opening up about your relationship! i've always assumed that james was a full on clothing designer haha - that's cool that you're both embracing creative sides vs working tech jobs. i think people don't talk about those moments in a relationship online as often and it's much appreciated as someone in a budding long-term relationship.

@melodys3944 Ай бұрын

The doing different things in the same space is called parallel play. My husband and I do it all the time. (we're mid-20's) It works as long as we're both willing to engage in conversation occasionally.

@milospotykievic710 Ай бұрын

It is so nice to see you happier, and i can not even describe how happy it makes me to see you two together, even if there are challenges with your schedules and careers. Also idk if you've just been sharing them less, or Moose's problems went away, but i hope he is doing good aswell. Thank you so much as always, you make my day every time i get to watch your vlogs.

@elleszabo8655 Ай бұрын

respect helping your family out getting a home, very kind~!

@jxxxvii Ай бұрын

She’s so chill

@nc_fr87 Ай бұрын

So glad to hear you’re feeling better 🥳

@applecrimson Ай бұрын

im so glad you kept that james cameo in at the end! you guys are so cute 🥹💕

@Jibril_Abdulkadir Ай бұрын

It’s a great day when Sarah posts ❤

@nicolecoates4312 Ай бұрын

i've missed you and so happy to see your face (and james' too!) again!! the tat he got was beautiful!

@Alexis-zs2xp Ай бұрын

Yesssss new apartment tour!!!🎉

@Sleepytimecol Ай бұрын

I’ve been waiting for a video like this

@michaelchavez5593 Ай бұрын

Thank you for the good wishes for this upcoming week I am ready !!!

@elleszabo8655 Ай бұрын

mini pickles have a higher surface area to volume ratio and can absorb more yummy pickle juice pottery is so fun! It's really healing creating things with your hands

@sarahpan Ай бұрын

i live for scientifically true pickle facts 😩

@kaiquimba Ай бұрын

i really loved watching youuuuu

@ko_grindz Ай бұрын

Your videos are the best

@marccolomayt82094 Ай бұрын

enjoying this kind of life being a 20-year old❤❤

@allesae Ай бұрын

love love love

@WalkingCommuter Ай бұрын

wtf!!! how was that 3 bed 2 bath 3800! I am experiencing 2nd hand regret!

@sarahpan Ай бұрын

i knowww 😭😭 to be fair it’s a few more stops deeper into brooklyn but SO WORTH THE PRICE

@tulipcats 26 күн бұрын

I just found your channel through your last video!! Can you please talk more about how you bought a house for your parents? Its something I want to do for them in the future 🥹

@_Its_candi 11 күн бұрын

How do you find all these amazing lofts, I feel like I've been searching for ages with no luck 😞 love your videos btw ❤️❤️❤️

@foodinbob Ай бұрын

What Noodle Brand is that at the end of the video lol, or which other one were you referring to that was good?

@mistahdieu Ай бұрын

RESPECTTTT

@disischristy Ай бұрын

@sarahpan Ай бұрын

🫶🫶

@andile_ Ай бұрын

Love you

@dianebaker5243 Ай бұрын

Lovely video thanks for sharing 🥰👍

@sarahpan Ай бұрын

thank you for watching! 🥰

@ShesAWillow Ай бұрын

17:50-17:53 cracked me up, but same lol

@itsjoseluis Ай бұрын

Just curious, what areas were these apartments? Do you have any recommendations. - also a swe in big tech

@tragicallycanadian8317 Ай бұрын

Listen, I know no one else who understands the superiority of mini pickles...they are just better 🥒

@sarahpan Ай бұрын

😌😌

@arhumz1573 Ай бұрын

How much was the first studio?

@iosdeals Ай бұрын

the first word I said as a baby..well first one that my parents recognised, was pickle. after I was crying so loud and pointing towards the pantry, my dad started to hand me everything im there to see if that's what I wanted, at last he grabbed a pickle jar and I almost swallowed my tongue when I saw it. Not sure how much of it is true, but I heard this story a million times and each time the pickle jar is bigger. So I supposedly ate my own weight in pickles that day... well, I do eat about 100 jars a year of that stuff. People don't bring wine when they visit, they bring pickles.

@sarahpan Ай бұрын

omg i love this story 😂

@jedcal Ай бұрын

$3800?! is this my sign to move to brooklyn

@sarahpan Ай бұрын

come be my neighbor 👀

@melodys3944 Ай бұрын

thanks for the cat tax!

@pbnj2248 Ай бұрын

Wait, if you got to pottery at 10, what time do you go to sleep?

@sarahpan Ай бұрын

between 1-3am 🥲

@pbnj2248 Ай бұрын

@@sarahpan woah, ok. You just motivated me to go to the gym at 10 🤣 i wfh too so sleeping beyond 12 can work 😅

@caitlinconnolly6186 Ай бұрын

What is James’s username for his content creation? I would like to check it out and follow him - please share if he is comfortable with it 😊

@sarahpan Ай бұрын

@jung.garments on ig! 🥰

@Tyheir Ай бұрын

5500 for a studio is so crazy

@instaSHINOBI Ай бұрын

insane, you could get a mansion in San Diego, CA -- and live next to millionaires -- for that price LOL

@shaliekk Ай бұрын

Wait... you eat the stem on the mini pickles? ...how come?

@redbeardjunior Ай бұрын

5.5 way toooo much

@tpwp4916 Ай бұрын

i’m sorry if this is an inappropriate question but why did you choose to stick w the budget that you did? bc i’m sure u can afford it with your google salary

@ariela_ Ай бұрын

Someone should always live below their means. Just because she makes money doesn’t mean it should all go to rent. There’s other bills, savings, investments, emergency funds and other things people need to save money for

@dianebaker5243 Ай бұрын

@@ariela_agree 💯

@sarahpan Ай бұрын

hii definitely no offense taken to this question on my end (it's very valid!) I think generally everyone's situation is different / everyone has different priorities but for transparency, im building up my savings again after helping my parents buy their home a year and a half ago (so right now i dont feel like i have the means to be affording an expensive apartment) also I am trying to max out my 401k contributions every year (& the nyc tax rate is so high) so the amount I bring in a month after all that is actually the whole rent of that place (if not a little less) also i’m saving up right now because i plan to leave corporate in the future so trying to minimize risk i hope that clears it up 🙂

@aquagamer1212 Ай бұрын

@@sarahpanThank you for such an eye opening response! It really brings into account a lot of financial responsibility! 💕