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@JeremyRomance
@JeremyRomance Жыл бұрын
Thank you for interviewing me 🙏
@christopherthomas3481
@christopherthomas3481 6 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing. you seem like a rad dude. i identify with your story and this is helpful.
@akaginny7516
@akaginny7516 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story
@gameaddictgonewild777
@gameaddictgonewild777 5 ай бұрын
You are stronger than you think you are. GLHF in life man wish you the best
@GeorgeAlex-cl8cr
@GeorgeAlex-cl8cr 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story, you seem like a really genuine guy.
@nikholewegner1656
@nikholewegner1656 5 ай бұрын
I'm 40. I got diagnosed @ 29. I just now got on the right meds after going on and off of them. Growing up was hard. Life has been hard. Man I feel so much of your story.
@yaboy_jesus
@yaboy_jesus Жыл бұрын
I think weed is not the best drug for Schizoaffective disorder as it can increase paranoia
@MiaWallace361
@MiaWallace361 Жыл бұрын
Agree! 👍🏼
@genarenee3697
@genarenee3697 Жыл бұрын
Agreed!!
@Hollyferris
@Hollyferris Жыл бұрын
It can sometimes be the trigger for psycho affective disorders. That link is well researched and established.
@seriousstuff8887
@seriousstuff8887 Жыл бұрын
Weed isn't good for anything, only lining the pockets of drug dealers .
@Mark-gn5rw
@Mark-gn5rw Жыл бұрын
It can help some disorders but too many variables/ different strains can cause anxiety.
@mskinetik
@mskinetik Жыл бұрын
The fact that Jeremy has determination, a support system and never got addicted to hard drugs makes such a difference in his outcome. He should be proud of his hard work.
@stzaleft7355
@stzaleft7355 Жыл бұрын
Barbiturates are one of the few drugs that withdrawals can kill. I Definitely put them in the hard drug category .
@JeremyRomance
@JeremyRomance Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@andreaholland2234
@andreaholland2234 Жыл бұрын
@@stzaleft7355 He was taking a benzo. But, yes, can also kill.
@stzaleft7355
@stzaleft7355 Жыл бұрын
@Andrea Holland aye. That's what I ment to say. Thanks.
@alexmonza2823
@alexmonza2823 Жыл бұрын
He just said he was addicted to xanax. Tf is wrong with you
@badrabbitt17
@badrabbitt17 Жыл бұрын
My favorite part of this interview was when you asked him his age and he so proudly responded “I’m 32!” Some won’t understand, but he’s made it 32 years with his mind making every step of his life more difficult than most people’s. So many people give up and can’t be here any more. I hope he continues to be proud of himself for making it every day. I hope one day he can proudly answer “I’m 96!”
@ShinyFlakesShinyFlakes
@ShinyFlakesShinyFlakes Жыл бұрын
So glad we have a qualified psychologist to analyze this for us! 😃
@kariikonen3933
@kariikonen3933 Жыл бұрын
Its hardest when it starts. Its like what IS this i sleep 2 hours night and people think im on meth but im not. I dont understand no one understands. The medication Hell like lets put you on this ahh this dont Works lets put this and that neuroleptic shit, when i was 20... Now 34 and The bipolar psychosis thing what ever IT IS Gets easier older i get.
@chriss6136
@chriss6136 Жыл бұрын
God bless ❤ one love
@christophermills1733
@christophermills1733 Жыл бұрын
I’m very blessed, I haven’t suffered from a mental illness but someone very close to me struggles with some massive challenges. Thank you for saying this comment, I didn’t think of that, how beautiful.
@LivingDeadGirl0702
@LivingDeadGirl0702 Жыл бұрын
​@@ShinyFlakesShinyFlakes really, dick?
@effloress
@effloress Жыл бұрын
As a fellow schizoaffective person from upstate new york, I am wishing him the absolute best! Seeing joy in others who are like me gives me an extra push on my darker days.
@davechristian7543
@davechristian7543 Жыл бұрын
Wat about down state New York like is that a thing pmsl ?
@leahflower9924
@leahflower9924 Жыл бұрын
​@@davechristian7543 I don't know if this is true for people from new York but I'm from new jersey and for me everything that's not new York city or long island is considered upstate new York
@crunchymetal
@crunchymetal Жыл бұрын
New York is so hard. Especially Central NY where Syracuse is . The economy is so bad. Weather sucks. Taxes suck.
@MrJames-tw3so
@MrJames-tw3so Жыл бұрын
you have beautiful hair.
@nhlibra
@nhlibra Жыл бұрын
Mentioning location is just part of the comment, not the focus of the point being made. Besides the expense of living there, New York is a beautiful state. 😃
@cura973
@cura973 11 ай бұрын
You're fortunate to have a wife and kid. I go to sleep with nothing and wake up to nothing. I too am diagnosed schitzo-affective and proud to say I'm 40 years old! I too am an artist and I have the support of my parents siblings and God.
@kevinscott630
@kevinscott630 10 ай бұрын
This interview hit me like a freight train 😔 I am the wife of someone diagnosed schizoaffective. He's currently in treatment for a serious manic episode that left me absolutely terrified for him. Bless you honey your interview has opened my eyes to a lot. You look well and I hope you have a beautiful life. Thank you so much for sharing ❤
@410Gregj
@410Gregj Жыл бұрын
“It took me a long time to be comfortable with who I am” What a profound statement. I’m happy for you and the support you had along the way. Props to your wife for hanging in there and staying with you throughout finding yourself. Enjoy your daughter and your life!
@GabrielXDrums
@GabrielXDrums Жыл бұрын
Definite things to keep him pushing forward. Cool sweater too.
@JeremyRomance
@JeremyRomance Жыл бұрын
Thank u
@FableHillFarm
@FableHillFarm Жыл бұрын
My father was schizoaffective and a lifelong recovering addict. It was very painful for our family to endure his mania and addictions. I wish this young man and his family peace and happiness.
@chriss6136
@chriss6136 Жыл бұрын
I wish and your family blessings and healing
@ThePortalTheory
@ThePortalTheory Жыл бұрын
Great job pushing thru that anxiety while being interviewed! wish you the best in life. You got this!
@Krahbe
@Krahbe Жыл бұрын
Heck yeah ! He did awesome
@JeremyRomance
@JeremyRomance Жыл бұрын
Thank u
@ProdParkerJazz
@ProdParkerJazz Жыл бұрын
Huge shout out to his wife and all the significant others that are staying strong for their loved ones 🤞🏼💙 this interview was fantastic, wishing you the best too Jeremy
@cinderellie9583
@cinderellie9583 Жыл бұрын
Most underrated comment
@michellenaron827
@michellenaron827 Жыл бұрын
Ain't that the truth! Families and loved ones suffer the burdens of this diagnosis. Hard to "hang in there". Wish there was more help, wish medication was better...it's kinda of a crap shoot finding the right meds. Why does schizophrenia foster such denial? Pray for my loved one...she's the same age.
@cinderellie9583
@cinderellie9583 Жыл бұрын
@@michellenaron827 protecting yourself isnt selfish. Figure out where your boundties are and dont waver. You cant be there for anyone when ypu have nothing left to give. Thats an ugly place to be too
@MrSprite2005
@MrSprite2005 Жыл бұрын
@@cinderellie9583 Yes!!!! 💯 % truth!!!! You have to take care of your heart and mind first to take care of others. I have learned this very well in my 56 years here. So grateful to truly understand this and do this for myself now. Aloha, love and peace to anyone reading this. ❤️😘💋🌈🌺🌊☮️💫🥰❤️
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
@@cinderellie9583 ❤
@vickiedouglas401
@vickiedouglas401 Жыл бұрын
Jeremy you are the perfect example of someone who didn't give up when treatment wasn't working. I'm so glad that you kept trying till they finally found the right med for you. And you stay in counseling. Big applause! I've been sick all my life with bipolar 2 and major depression. No treatment till about age 30. I am now 70 and am thankful for meds and counseling. I can still have a breakdown that can last months but it passes and then life is easier. I wish you the stamina and continued intelligence to recognize what you need. Cheers!
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
Just turned 72. I began treatment for depression and anxiety in my 30’s but wasn’t diagnosed until I was 50. So I understand. I’ve been getting stuck in my negative thinking. Believe I’m coming out of it. Happiness and blessings to you from Michigan. ❤❤❤
@JeremyRomance
@JeremyRomance Жыл бұрын
Thank u
@rocketmantheone
@rocketmantheone 9 ай бұрын
God bless you. I’ve been on medication for schizophrenia since may and it’s been tough. Tough as hell. I’m fighting though, fighting everyday !
@GabrielXDrums
@GabrielXDrums Жыл бұрын
This dudes cool as heck, as a drummer in a band myself when I heard he got on Warped Tour instantly I’d be his friend, even at the start, super well put together, coherent, holding it together, I hope the rest of his days are full of goodness.
@JeremyRomance
@JeremyRomance Жыл бұрын
Thanks g
@lot2319
@lot2319 Жыл бұрын
​@@JeremyRomance... That was a great interview. Your joy is contagious. Best of everything in life man. 😜
@PositiveAlgorithm-ef8hw
@PositiveAlgorithm-ef8hw 9 ай бұрын
@@JeremyRomancebrilliant interview you’d be my best friend… don’t beat yourself up i guarantee you do a better job than you think with everything you do g
@tmusa2002
@tmusa2002 3 ай бұрын
I would like to listen to an interview of his wife.
@cassandramorgan5185
@cassandramorgan5185 Жыл бұрын
This interview is so important. Bless Jeremy for his outlook on life and for sharing his story.
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
@n.e.barton1299
@n.e.barton1299 Жыл бұрын
Yyhb lX🥣
@JeremyRomance
@JeremyRomance Жыл бұрын
Thank u
@_AvgWellInformedCitizen
@_AvgWellInformedCitizen Жыл бұрын
This guy kicked a hardcore Xanax addiction, which is one of the hardest.
@tammic2016
@tammic2016 Жыл бұрын
Definitely liked this young man and his outlook. He has had his struggles but is coming out on the other side a better person. He spoke so endearingly of his wife and child which was so sweet. Best wishes to you Jeremy!
@GabrielXDrums
@GabrielXDrums Жыл бұрын
Yeah he’s very well spoken and coherent, amazing and proud of him.
@JeremyRomance
@JeremyRomance Жыл бұрын
Mad love
@Adam-nv9zo
@Adam-nv9zo Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story, Jeremy. It takes a brave man to do this. It can help so many people to hear these stories to know they are not alone. I'm so happy that you are doing better, man.
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
@JeremyRomance
@JeremyRomance Жыл бұрын
Thank u
@Brandenuzis
@Brandenuzis Жыл бұрын
@@JeremyRomance I’m from Camden about 15 mins from rome and I swear I’ve seen you at destiny mall😂
@JeremyRomance
@JeremyRomance Жыл бұрын
@@Brandenuzis true!
@starringshannon8163
@starringshannon8163 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes, a video comes along that hits differently. This is one of them. I cannot express how important this story is to share. He will change lives! Thank you so much!
@JeremyRomance
@JeremyRomance Жыл бұрын
🙏
@uoftdrone
@uoftdrone Жыл бұрын
@@JeremyRomance You mentioned you sell your paintings. Is there anywhere online I can see or buy them?
@McRemmyBaby
@McRemmyBaby 11 ай бұрын
ever felt any balls hit differently on ur asshole as a MAN strokes ur po nann out?
@treich1234
@treich1234 11 ай бұрын
20:59 "God I hope I did well" Oh God you did more than well! Thank you for your courage. I'm humbled by it
@lisapizza6494
@lisapizza6494 Жыл бұрын
Fellow Syracusan. I'm glad you found the help you needed. Thank you for sharing your story.
@earthvariety
@earthvariety Жыл бұрын
Jeremy I can't thank you enough for taking the time to do this interview. My bf of 4 years has bipolar disorder and it hasn't been easy at all. Everything you said resonated with him more than anything he's ever heard and it's encouraged him that he will find the right medication for him and to be okay with therapy. 🙏
@thebigcchannel773
@thebigcchannel773 Жыл бұрын
This is awesome to see a Schizoaffective feature.. he represents one of many different manifestations of this disorder. This disorder can be crippling and so destructive, especially in a world where people rarely attempt to “understand” behavior- but instead distance, bully, or ridicule.
@suzannemartin1876
@suzannemartin1876 Жыл бұрын
Jeremy, I wish all of the best for you and am glad you are in a good place! My son has the same diagnosis so I know how difficult it is to live with schizoaffective. You are helping so many people by talking about this condition and giving hope that given the right medication and therapy you can live a good life. ❤
@davechristian7543
@davechristian7543 Жыл бұрын
​@JC-du6snr U tripn ?
@AliciaM5555
@AliciaM5555 Жыл бұрын
​@J C I don't understand why you religious nuts come on YT and preach your bs comments under everyone's comment. 🖕 off with that noise.
@twinkletoes110
@twinkletoes110 Жыл бұрын
@J C Amen
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
The recommendation wasn’t for you. ​@@davechristian7543
@duane2344
@duane2344 10 ай бұрын
Jeremy, Your interview was awe inspiring. My life was very similar to yours but I was pushed away in elementary school. I was alone for so many years but I met my wife and she stuck with me even when I tried to push her away. We have two great kids. Always talk to someone. Keep your wife as your best friend. I can tell you are a very loyal devoted father and husband because I feel the same way. It is the BEST feeling to know you have someone in your corner. Peace!
@NattyBeGood
@NattyBeGood Жыл бұрын
Your mental health is not your fault nor does it have to define you brother. You're an awesome human and worthy of all good things in life, especially love. You go this brother Jeremy.
@kmiller0402
@kmiller0402 Жыл бұрын
It’s not easy to be yourself and it’s even harder to grow into yourself to be the best version of yourself. I will never judge you Jeremy, and thank you Mark (Mr. Laita) ❤
@davechristian7543
@davechristian7543 Жыл бұрын
​@JC-du6snr U tripn
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
@@davechristian7543 We’re individuals do what works for one can be Totally different from what works for another.
@sciencenotstigma9534
@sciencenotstigma9534 Жыл бұрын
@@marylougeorge9890True. Still, I’m a person of faith and I don’t think it’s appropriate to tell someone struggling with mental illness they should practice prayer and religion. For one thing, it’s not cure. People in this society used to believe those with mental and even physical illness and disabilities were being punished for a lack of faith or morals. Not just in Western society, but some others, too. I don’t think I should make assumptions about another‘a religion or spiritual life because they are struggling with illness. I wouldn’t recommend any faith practices to a client unless asked, as someone in the recovery field. I know that if my bipolar disorder is acting up, I will go through certain symptoms no matter how much I pray or study. I don’t assume someone is not engaged in spiritual practices or needs to be. I have asked clients if they have a faith or belief system that helps them in recovery. I ask if they need a referral in a specific faith community. If not, I’ll ask about their interests, and if they have a passion for something like art or music, or a career or cause that inspires them. I don’t say they need to read the Tanakh or any religious text. To me, it implies that their religion, or lack thereof, isn’t good enough, or even that it’s why they are struggling with addiction and/or mental illness. That attitude has led to a lot of atrocities, historically. I’m not implying the person who commented has any I’ll will or prejudice. I just know that if I was struggling and someone told me to read a specific religious text or consult another faith’s prayer resources I would probably feel uncomfortable, whether they meant any harm or not. In the recovery community, we stress I -statements like, “What works for me is reading this book and consulting these faith based resources “, rather than saying “read this book and watch this show”. What others choose to do is their business.
@davechristian7543
@davechristian7543 Жыл бұрын
@@marylougeorge9890 ya well just don't brain wash children then mate n you'll be fine..
@gcmusictchr
@gcmusictchr Жыл бұрын
@@davechristian7543 Your last name is ironic, in light of your responses.
@ryanmalone2681
@ryanmalone2681 Жыл бұрын
Not being able to trust my own mind is my worst nightmare.
@teem7030
@teem7030 Жыл бұрын
Hugs to you Ryan
@alanculbertson5499
@alanculbertson5499 3 ай бұрын
I feel this guy his story is like mine it’s grate to feel I’m not the only one
@ryanmalone2681
@ryanmalone2681 3 ай бұрын
@@alanculbertson5499 It’s true. It would really grate on me too if I felt I was the only one. Very grating indeed.
@mariaportas5401
@mariaportas5401 Жыл бұрын
He is so brave to talk about this. So many have mental health issues and shame gets in the way of them getting help or have no support system. We need to hear more from people like him. Thank you Mark
@Carol-qv3mk
@Carol-qv3mk 11 ай бұрын
The stigma needs to vanish.
@MeldaTheWitch
@MeldaTheWitch Жыл бұрын
Jeremy you did do very well. My son was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder and we have yet to find the right medication. Thank you so much for giving hope.
@fastl1fee
@fastl1fee Жыл бұрын
Seriqoul saved me.
@justinestephonie4606
@justinestephonie4606 Жыл бұрын
The line "I'm so happy I'm not dead" rings true to me as a fellow healing schizo affective person. My biggest issue in life was that I wanted to end it so bad. I don't particularly feel that way anymore and I am very happy to say that too. I am not the perfect bill of health, but damn I work hard af trying to be the healthiest I can be while I'm still alive.
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
Getting away from suicidal thoughts is Major progress in your mental health. That says you’ve got your priorities in order and aren’t letting yourself get overwhelmed. Great job taking care of yourself!👏👏👏❤️
@myportal8512
@myportal8512 Жыл бұрын
In high school, you were singled out by your class, but you were different bc you responded differently than everyone else. That is absolutely intolerable. Bullying causes mental health issues beyond repair for some. Watching and hearing you, you are cool and have overcome some trying times very well. I'd love to see your art. Congratulations on being a dad! Best of luck to you and your family. 🧡
@halfpennyC3
@halfpennyC3 Жыл бұрын
💯 ❤
@iii1429
@iii1429 Жыл бұрын
I hate bulliyng, its an insecure cowarda way to rise above others. Its disgusting...
@celestialviznz2134
@celestialviznz2134 Жыл бұрын
That was very triggering to me, because I endured similar in high school. Even at 31, those days still haunt me very much. It changes you at a very deep level.
@myportal8512
@myportal8512 Жыл бұрын
You are not alone. Huge cyber hug!
@00TheD
@00TheD 5 ай бұрын
It's normal childhood behavior, you can't stop humans from being human. Either learn it when young or be doomed to suffer us all as an adult
@Igomeow7383
@Igomeow7383 10 ай бұрын
I'm a mom. I have schizoaffective too. I paint too. We have a lot in common. Lol. When I'm manic I think I can do ANYTHING lol😊....I have no friends anymore. I relate to damn near everything you are saying. Like EVERYTHING!!!
@giafogg7182
@giafogg7182 Жыл бұрын
Jeremy, you did fantastic. I was diagnosed with bipolar back in the 90's and took an overdose of lithium. After spending a week in intensive care, then in and out of psych wards I finally found the right combo of meds and therapy. I went back to school, then worked since with severely mentally ill individuals in a hospital setting. Mental illness is manageable. Just never forget to ensure you take care of yourself. I know it's vital for me to eat right, exercise, and rest. If my schedule goes off too much so don't I. 😊 I'm really happy for you that you have a support system, your wife, baby daughter and parents. You seem such a gentle soul. I've always told patients how happy I am that I didn't die when I overdosed. I'm so happy you didn't either. Here's to life. 💪💖
@freereinartstudio1463
@freereinartstudio1463 Жыл бұрын
'It took a long time to be comfortable as me.' I think many people can relate, if they were honest, self aware enough. Good for you Jeremy! You did amazing & I am sure it will be helpful for so many. PS I find art to be a huge help to my mental health too! :)
@nhlibra
@nhlibra Жыл бұрын
I agree. We all go through a level of this in one way or another.
@sizzleiguanaclick
@sizzleiguanaclick Жыл бұрын
You did well man, you were great to listen to.
@DeeStitcher
@DeeStitcher Жыл бұрын
You did an excellent job Jeremy, thank you for being brave and sharing your story. I am sure you have helped many by opening up.
@stratos175escape7
@stratos175escape7 Жыл бұрын
I have a fried who's son suffers from schizophrenia. Very sweet young man when he is not in a bad place and taking his meds, problem is they want to stop the meds because they feel fine, they don't understand that's what's helping them. We would have a lot less issues in this country if we would do more for mental health.
@Sketcher93
@Sketcher93 Жыл бұрын
Jeremy you did great in this interview. You are a super likeable person. There are times for all of us where we find it hard to maintain. There is an ebb and flow to everyone's stability. So it feels so good to get to a good sturdy plateau. You have gained the wisdom now to be able to see yourself without filtering it first through everybody else's judgements. And nobody can take that perspective away from you. It's "in the can" as they say in the movie business. When we are young we don't have that perspective developed yet. And our mental health challenges makes it so hard to get there. I'm so happy for you that you found your footing. You've done the hard work and now you can share with others about your journey. Good on you Jeremy. You are helping so many other people. ❤️
@justmyopinion2
@justmyopinion2 Жыл бұрын
"I'm so happy that I am not dead!" That hit the feels, hard. I have a chronically homeless paranoid schizophrenic middle aged son, the psychosis is so bad now that he is completely out of touch with reality. He has forgotten us, he used to call once in a while but not anymore. He *NEEDS* meds to be stabilized but that means he would need to be hospitalized and placed under a conservatorship for long term care, that won't happen (laws protect him). Every day I wonder with dread if it will be his last. I am so touched that Jeremy understands what might've happened to him and he appreciates what he has. I wish him TONS of luck, success, and happiness!
@user-fz2pd7im6i
@user-fz2pd7im6i Ай бұрын
I feel the pain and worry that you live with.When you live in a state that says you can't force someone to get the care they need unless they are suicidal,you feel so hopeless.
@justmyopinion2
@justmyopinion2 Ай бұрын
@@user-fz2pd7im6i, every single day and sadly, my dread became a reality. He died a year ago last May from a Fentanyl overdose. I am heartbroken and angry that safety nets aren't out there for people in need.
@2LucidDream
@2LucidDream Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video, glad Jeremy is doing so well. I was diagnosed with SA back in the late 80s.
@andreaeady8000
@andreaeady8000 5 ай бұрын
All the best to you too !❤
@sandidandy72
@sandidandy72 Жыл бұрын
Jeremy, I work as a peer support specialist in the adult behavioral health field, you are amazing! I’d love to spend time connecting with you. I implore you to look into the peer support community because there are so many others out there that could benefit from your insight and lived experience. I have crohn’s PTSD, and have worked hard to recover from Borderline Personality Disorder. The behavioral health organization I spent 28 years of my life in treatment now employs me. I see you. I feel you! 💙
@jayhughes4956
@jayhughes4956 Жыл бұрын
I’ve battled depression and mental health issues my entire life. I am so glad there is more help for people know. It’s such a battle every day of our lives. God bless this young man🙏❤️
@Sllayt3r
@Sllayt3r 11 ай бұрын
What a guy. Can’t be easy being put into the spotlight like this. He handled this brilliantly. The world is happy you’re not dead too, our friend! ❤
@longdongiii5375
@longdongiii5375 Жыл бұрын
“I try” and “I do the best I can” are 2 very powerful statements.
@breezyncj
@breezyncj Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story Jeremy, and thanks to Mark for giving you space to do so!
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
👍👏👏👏❤️
@chriscatton705
@chriscatton705 Жыл бұрын
He's very articulate which made this a really good interview. Good work, Mark.
@karidavis5188
@karidavis5188 Жыл бұрын
My daughter has Schizoaffective/Disassociation, she’s 29 diagnosed at 21 and I take care of her, lots of love to him, his family and anyone else suffering from this disEase 💜
@dolcevitaslots
@dolcevitaslots 29 күн бұрын
what kind of symptoms does she experience with disassociation?
@katiesers6007
@katiesers6007 10 күн бұрын
@@dolcevitaslotsout of body / nothing feels real I’m sure
@katiesers6007
@katiesers6007 10 күн бұрын
Gosh, I love this. And I love my momma, I wish she would help me through disassociation episodes. I get pushed off into relationships.
@katiesers6007
@katiesers6007 10 күн бұрын
What do you do for self care? I’ve suggested my partner seeking therapy so he can help, not be afraid, better understand, and feel happier.
@johnruvolis874
@johnruvolis874 Жыл бұрын
"The crazy's make me feel less alone". That's why I watch this channel. Everyone is a little crazy.
@lisamareepritchard6375
@lisamareepritchard6375 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story Jeremy. As a person with Bipolar Disorder I can relate to many things you mentioned. I wish you all the very best & just be you ❤
@ISa-jy8ol
@ISa-jy8ol Жыл бұрын
My brother is a 39 year old, paranoid, aggravated schizophrenic with HIV and Parkinsons. He is a warden of the state and lives in a psychiatric hospital. He gets electro-shock treatment daily. The best any of his medications do is help him to remember that he was diagnosed as schizophrenic. He has audio and visual hallucinations all the time. It has been quite an experience to witness to. I pray for him every day. I feel so sad for the life he has lived. It has been incredibly hard. There is so much need and so little help.
@stacyyoust
@stacyyoust Жыл бұрын
Woah. Is he getting micro shocks daily?
@angelheart5963
@angelheart5963 Жыл бұрын
@atlramona
@atlramona Жыл бұрын
Daily? Sorry, that rings false
@rebeccamontague9811
@rebeccamontague9811 Жыл бұрын
Under the circumstances he was fortunate to have loving parents. Imagine going through his life without their support.
@corinnecerminaro9753
@corinnecerminaro9753 Жыл бұрын
Fellow Syracuse resident here. Thank you for sharing your story.
@kathrynparke1711
@kathrynparke1711 Жыл бұрын
What a great interview, thanks to both Jeremy and Mark for presenting this wonderful and humane view of a person living with such a challenging illness. Treatment is so important and the earlier the illness is caught and treated, the better the outcome. Jeremy you are an amazing person, I have so much admiration for your honesty and strength.
@JeremyRomance
@JeremyRomance Жыл бұрын
Appreciate you
@student22044
@student22044 Жыл бұрын
Hey Jeremy, thanks so much for sharing your story. You’ve had a lot to contend with! You’re such an inspiration in the way you’ve persevered and found what’s right for you to stabilise. Your little girl is super lucky to have you for a dad. ❤️ Good luck with the rest of your journey, it’s lovely to see how smiley you are about life right now, it can’t have been easy to get there. You’ve done so much positive work on yourself, the only way is forwards 🙌🏻
@lordquickofedinburgh6063
@lordquickofedinburgh6063 Жыл бұрын
I struggle with the same problem this was comforting knowing I'm not alone
@sheepnomore8063
@sheepnomore8063 Жыл бұрын
Your gut and your health, including mental health, are so very closely tied together. This is why dietary changes and proper nutrients/nutrition can have such a positive effect on health.
@bearcub1811
@bearcub1811 Жыл бұрын
You did so well! I am so glad that you found happiness and that you're able to be a stay at home father to your daughter :) Life seems to have turned out well for you and I'm glad your still alive too!
@wesleyalan9179
@wesleyalan9179 Жыл бұрын
@daboy22 You stand no chance😄
@karenfryberger4260
@karenfryberger4260 Жыл бұрын
@daboy22 You're toxic. Don't know how you came to this channel, but hope you go away soon.
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
@daboy22 She has both parents who love her. Those seem to be what’s need for a child to live their potential. Watch more interviews.
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
@@wesleyalan9179 Lol! Figures it’d be you with this Excellent response! Bless you my sweet friend. ❤️❤️❤️
@wesleyalan9179
@wesleyalan9179 Жыл бұрын
@@marylougeorge9890 😄 I call it like I see it, I mean...read the name "daboy" Kinda name is that? Lol 😂 I hope you're doing well, Mary Lou💜💥
@nicoleduncan269
@nicoleduncan269 Жыл бұрын
Xanax is by far the most difficult substance to get off of. I battled an addiction with xanax from the age of 15-22, went through psychosis trying to get off of it, literally lost my mind. Fast forward to now, I'll be 3 years clean next month and I love my life today.
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations! ❤🎉👏👏👏
@ak8h
@ak8h Жыл бұрын
This is amazing Jeremy! Keep up the good work. Nothing better than the joy of having a family and you seem like a wonderful father/caring husband.
@yepnowletussee6702
@yepnowletussee6702 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. If only you knew how much this has helped a 64 Yr person
@angieroyall1516
@angieroyall1516 10 ай бұрын
This guy's going to be all right. It's got a big heart. He's got humor. He's darling. God bless him, clear his heart and mind and let him meet your son Jesus. He would be an awesome warrior!
@tattooed1976
@tattooed1976 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the interview. I have a loved one with this disorder & it's been so hard to watch him go off and back on his meds. He's a completely different person. I know that medication works and I'm so tired of pill shaming. I could go on and on. Thank you Mark
@CoveredInGoo
@CoveredInGoo Жыл бұрын
Benzo addiction is so scary. I'm in recovery for almost 3 years now. The scariest thing about Benzos is that the withdrawal is one of the few that are deadly. Grand mal seizures are a real possibility when you start to come off of the medication. It becomes a cycle. You want to get off of them but you're scared of the consequences of withdrawal. Seeing someone with a similar story from Syracuse, like I am, is such a wonderful thing and makes me feel less alone. Doctors hand them out too easily. It needs to stop. Benzos ruin lives.
@alphamaleswift7558
@alphamaleswift7558 Жыл бұрын
I too have been diagnosed with Schizo Affective Disorder since 2007. It's a horrible mental illness and it's a difficult diagnosis to put into word's. For me, I get VERY uncomfortable around too many people that I don't know, or if there's too much noise around me, if people are coughing or sneezing around me, standing too close, etc.... It's not only invading my space, but I feel a need to be defensive and it can escalate VERY quickly. I too have been given many different meds over the years. I still haven't found the right one. I just kinda gave up on the meds and just try to deal with the situation as best as I possibly can.
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
Consider asking your Dr to do the gene test that’s specifically for meds. The results can help determine what won’t work and what possibly could. Cuts down on trial and error.
@fastl1fee
@fastl1fee Жыл бұрын
Seriqoul saved me after arrested again again again. So tired
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
@@fastl1fee It’s not fun taking meds but the alternative is horrible. I don’t want to live with the person I am without meds. And my family won’t let me!!!🤣🤣🤣
@scottrussell2281
@scottrussell2281 Жыл бұрын
My son suffers with the same diagnosis, and he is also 32. He was 30 before he finally got the right diagnosis, but he can't hold a job and lives with his mother, and will likely never live what most people would consider a normal life. His behavior can range from pretty close to normal, to unplugging everything in the house because he said "they" were using the power cords of lamps and such to hack all our devices and steal our account information and our money. He is very intelligent, but can't stay together more than a few weeks at a time and the wheels come off. I suffer from clinical depression myself, but it crushes my soul to see what he has to deal with. Seeing someone you love struggling just to find the tiniest glimmer of joy is torture. I hope at some point he can reach the point where Jeremy is at now.
@michellenaron827
@michellenaron827 Жыл бұрын
I hear you fellow parent, in similar situation. My daughter is the same age and we just can't get her med complient. She doesn't do any drugs, legal or not. She is in her own world and that often is a sad place. I pray
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
Have you investigated if there is an injection?
@jmarrocco
@jmarrocco Жыл бұрын
Jeremy, I’m from upstate too! I don’t have Schizoaffective, but have Bipolar. I was in my sixties before getting a proper diagnosis. Same as you, it took quite a while to get my medicine cocktail right. I have similar fears as you, too. But we are not alone. So sad it took most of my life to figure it out (I got told it was hormones too lol), I am so happy for you and proud of you for doing the work it takes to manage your disorder. Sometimes I miss those manic creative episodes too but they also backfired - life is sure better now! Stay in therapy-and out of your own head. Would love to see your art! You are so brilliant and happy - you seem comfortable in your own skin. You have my respect 100%. Keep on keeping on. You are amazing and you have a great story! And so glad you are still with your college sweetheart. Such a blessing! And a daughter!💕 And thank you Mark for this great interview. So inspiring!
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
😊❤️
@t.0fu.
@t.0fu. Жыл бұрын
Xanax is such an insanely scary drug. Been there before. Glad he could find his way out.
@sarawill9455
@sarawill9455 Жыл бұрын
I like Jeremy. He seems like he really knows himself and takes action to live a good life. Jeremy, Don't ever dismiss you being a stay at home dad. Your daughter benefits all the time you put into her. Keep doing what you're doing.
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
Amen!!!👏👏👏❤
@ow3wells
@ow3wells Жыл бұрын
He seems to be doing well, all the best for the future💕
@LukesOnMC
@LukesOnMC Жыл бұрын
Jeremy I just wanted to say I’m 22 years old with a crippling spinal injury Clinical Depression and Anxiety and possibly bipolar as well. I’ve been struggling with my meds all my life (most of which were unsuccessful or harmful) and seeing this genuinely really helped me to feel ok with myself. It truly helped me to stop blaming myself as much for being myself.
@1101agaoj
@1101agaoj Жыл бұрын
Praying for the very best for him and his family.
@nancycejarimanifestingfrom
@nancycejarimanifestingfrom Жыл бұрын
I feel happy to see he has people who supports him, I hope this help others to feel more compassion and understanding with people dealing with MI.
@Truth5eeker33
@Truth5eeker33 Жыл бұрын
MI?
@anonymousish9725
@anonymousish9725 Жыл бұрын
To the people questioning if his use of marijuana is helpful for people with mental health issues.... If he says feels better then who is anyone to question if he's feeling better or worse due to smoking marijuana? Every single person has the right to find their own path to what wellness looks like for themselves.
@andreaeady8000
@andreaeady8000 5 ай бұрын
You should be so very proud of your success !! I support clientele with disabilities, Autism & and woman with Schizoaffective Disorder & your video has helped me so very much to support her in the best way possible. I’m sharing with the rest of the team. Amazing progress & Jeremy , you have incredible insight…. ❤❤❤
@paularhodes1997
@paularhodes1997 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Jeremy. I learned a lot. I knew someone, I believe may have had something going on, but was never diagnosed. I think he may also have had a fear of being alone but he pushed everyone who cared, away. Thanks again Jeremy. I am so glad you are in a better place right now. Hang in there young man. You have a your own family that loves you, for who you are. You did good Sir. 🥰
@amberjenkins2600
@amberjenkins2600 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so brave doing this and bringing awareness. ❤
@JohnQPublix
@JohnQPublix Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing, Jeremy!❤ The sweetness in your simile despite everything is so endearing. I wish there was some way for me to access your work/art.
@LizBall-lj8fn
@LizBall-lj8fn 10 ай бұрын
I'm 46 and have only just been diagnosed with the same mental illness. I didn't have a full manic episode till I was in my late 3os, witch made it alot harder to diagnosed properly. Because the use of a drugs set it off they thought it was drug indused phycosis, it was only when the perfect storm of stressful circumstances set it of it became apparent that I had been missdiognosed. I always new I was different even as a child,I have really good intuition so that disgusting it even more. Finally I am on the path to the right medications and support that I need, people understand me better and don't think I must be some phyco drug addict but someone with a mental disability, witch also has its own downsides, and people are still judging and misguided with their understanding of my mental illness but having better support and understanding of myself also helps and I'm not as scared of relapsing into phycosis. I do totally understand how the manic episodes witch is what I'm referring to as phycosis does feel easier,and at the time can even feel at times less depressing. But at the same time you can't look after yourself properly when their accuring and they don't stop until you get the right treatment and intervention, your at harm mostly to yourself and sometimes even others. I liked hearing that I'm not alone in thinking that yet still somehow it feels easier, my hat goes off to you for being so honest for admitting that, I think I needed to hear that from someone else to know that's also somehow normal. Good luck in your life, your a cool guy and a great dad, you ought to be proud for being so strong and caring,life is often more challenging with a mental illness but that's not all that you are.
@JeMy569
@JeMy569 Жыл бұрын
I’ve read that when u have Krohns, it can cause electrolytes being unbalanced, as well as your body being rapidly depleted of various vitamins & minerals, etc..can cause mental unbalancing & affect your thinking & health, mental & physical. It makes total sense. With Krohns your body isn’t processing the vital things it needs to be healthy.. I’m so glad he’s getting the help he needs & is getting his health balanced, to the best of his ability… plus a good support system is important.
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
Most people and drs don’t deal with the need for vitamins and minerals. So much can be helped outside/along by considering these wholistic treatments.
@frrrrp
@frrrrp Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jeremy for expressing so smoothly the toughstuff-times of growing up with mental illness. You were very cool and spoke so beautifully! We diehard fans appreciate your supreme effort. Sticking with your fam and your medication management and mental health plan is the ticket. Somebody give this dude and his fam a deal!
@maplecookies2036
@maplecookies2036 Жыл бұрын
Excellent Interview . He has a contagious Smile. Wishing Him the Best ❤
@dredayyyyyyyyyyy
@dredayyyyyyyyyyy Жыл бұрын
I absolutely adored this. Not just medication management but Jeremy himself is very resilient and I love much he loves his family and you can tell. I love how open and honest he was there’s a big stigma about schizophrenia/ schizoaffective disorder and I love his courage to share his story. I think you should have added his link for his art work that’s my two cents but hopefully people find him. I love how grateful he is and positive he is doing rn and the future
@davecaldwell445
@davecaldwell445 Жыл бұрын
This was tremendous. I am positive that others who are suffering from similar issues will see this, understand they are not alone, or unusual, and be encouraged to seek help. He has gone through some "real shit," as he put it, but he is self-aware and found a route to happiness through trial and error -- and is damn determined to stick to it. You will help others, Jeremy.
@sommasculpture
@sommasculpture Жыл бұрын
Smoking a lot of weed in his condition is not a great idea
@idoskidsattheawesomeauzzie9255
@idoskidsattheawesomeauzzie9255 Жыл бұрын
You did AWESOME in the interview Jerome, as I'm 52yo & I know how hard it is to live with Multiple Mental illnesses. And how LONELY it can be.
@manifestdestiny12
@manifestdestiny12 Жыл бұрын
I have a friend with schizophrenia. He uses marijuana also. But his meds are an injection because he wasn't taking them. Wishing everyone peace
@myeyeswentdeaf6213
@myeyeswentdeaf6213 Жыл бұрын
Peace and Love right back at ya and your friend too.
@KeLLaBee09
@KeLLaBee09 Жыл бұрын
I really feel like weed helps a lot of ppl but also can make ppl worse
@rm2828
@rm2828 Жыл бұрын
You were FANTASTIC Jeremy! You are very genuine, articulate and with Superman strength, courage and determination to be happy. Wishing you continued good health and happiness with your daughter, wife and everyone who Loves you! ❤️from Montreal
@fragariavesca1635
@fragariavesca1635 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a nice guy. Wishing him all the best.
@GiGi_to_3
@GiGi_to_3 Жыл бұрын
It is refresshing to see Jeremy articulate his feelings so well. Most schizoaffective individuals I have worked with are socially immature due to their illness & this was a refresshing talk to be included in. You did really wel, Jeremy & I wish you & yr family the best! :)
@edie4321
@edie4321 Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that the medication and life is working for Jeremy. If they falter, I pray he finds alternative therapies. A therapist named Jerry Marzinski is making great strides in treating similar and same disorders. I send Love in hopes he's found exactly what he needs to live a healthy life.
@lizzytrouf3577
@lizzytrouf3577 Жыл бұрын
You did fantastic Jeremy! You are a pleasure to listen to. I’m happy you are alive too! You are our brother and friend in this world. We want you here with us ! You are a Dad , a husband and an artist. You are loved! Please always be yourself. I wish you happiness joy and love brother💙💙💙
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@j.colbert8558
@j.colbert8558 Жыл бұрын
❤😊❤
@Carol-qv3mk
@Carol-qv3mk 11 ай бұрын
1000%❤
@Wackaflaka89
@Wackaflaka89 Жыл бұрын
Ancient wisdom saved my life, I don’t look at myself as bad but as very gifted and special
@johnkelly1772
@johnkelly1772 Жыл бұрын
I lived recently with someone suffering with schizoaffective disorder. Worst experience of my life. It was a transition home where we were expected to be more independent but also look after one another. He should not have been there. He wouldn’t participate in groups. Never lifted a finger to clean. Didn’t bathe or wash clothes. Wanted everyone to fix his life for him. No therapist or shrink. I’m glad to hear Jeremy is proactive and aware. Best to him.
@Jesus_Saves_J2415
@Jesus_Saves_J2415 Жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with Bipolar Schizophrenia spent a while in a mental hospital too and the Lord Jesus healed me and my mind. I am no longer SMI or on abilify. It was a tough battle, but I made it out! God is good, put your trust in Christ; for without him we are nothing and can do nothing!
@MariaCascalheira-sh9eq
@MariaCascalheira-sh9eq 4 ай бұрын
No
@NihilNovi
@NihilNovi Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jeremy for openly sharing your experience. You have my utmost respect.
@davechristian7543
@davechristian7543 Жыл бұрын
And you don't have mine as your a compulsive KZfaq commenter who just has to say something even if it's nothing 😂
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 Жыл бұрын
@@davechristian7543 I bet you’re assuming.
@christophertheiss8877
@christophertheiss8877 Жыл бұрын
"It took a lot just to be comfortable as me." That is some Olympic level self -awareness, especially considering his condition. He accepts the hand he was dealt yet still strives to endure and overcome. Optimism requires much more fortitude than pessimism. I wish everyone dealing with mental issues had a support system to back them up.
@elizabethcastelo6272
@elizabethcastelo6272 Жыл бұрын
I thought you did AMAZING. Bringing much needed awareness to such a stigmatized condition and allowing those that don’t know much about it to see it so genuinely is to be commended. I have a 17 year old daughter with schizoaffective disorder. My heart goes out to all who have been dealt such a heavy hand ❤.
@Sunnysunshine208
@Sunnysunshine208 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate this so much. My Son was diagnosed with this condition. Now things make sense. He passed Dec 21. 39 years old. Fentanyl od. We were in a hotel room on vacation and he was eating Xanax like candy. This guy helped me to understand a little.
@marlismueller4496
@marlismueller4496 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss. Excuse my English.
@SarahHugzBuddy
@SarahHugzBuddy Жыл бұрын
20:50 "God, I hope I did well" my HEART, YOU DID GREAT thank you for sharing your story
@AlreadyDeadInside83079
@AlreadyDeadInside83079 Жыл бұрын
I can tell that this man has a good heart, and it took a lot of courage to do this interview. I wish him nothing but happiness and love.❤
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