I was in a relationship for 4+ years with my girlfriend when i was 18 and i was so in love with her i was going to buy an engagement ring, then out of the blue i find out she is pregnant and it wasn't my child. I was diagnosed with depression and insomnia for over 2 years and every night was hell. Now I've grown and realized that there's so much more to life than dwelling on the past and being bitter and depressed. I love my life now and I'm as happy as I've ever been. All it took was time. So please anyone who is going through struggles please just talk to someone and give it time. Things do get better.

You know, the hardest lie I ever told was; "I'm happy for you." Because it's hard seeing someone you loved.......who loved you back... Find a new person to love.

Haven't listened to this band in forever but after my children's mother and I split up this band just seemed to pop back into core memory. Good band💯👌

the worst thing is when people make you believe they care when they actually don't. the worst thing is when people don't give you an explanation that you deserve. the worst thing is when people make you believe that that disrespect is what you deserve. and the worst thing of all is when you let them.

I cant believe. this song makes me remember again all those memories. I cant stop crying.

Man... Music like this just brings you down, especially the lyrics "I've broken all my promises to you" when you have hurt the one you love and all you ever wanted to do was make them happy and want them to like you back or even accept you as a good person, and yet all the times you've tried you've always done something to screw everything only increasing the distance between you and the other person you love. and all the times you thought were easy and you talked to her so much and her texts made you smile and laugh and all the times you've secretly told her you loved her. and now she's ignoring you for some guy she hardly even knows. man this song just shoots a bullet straight into my heart.

2022 and it's still one of the best song of secondhand serenade

Hi it’s June 2020 still I am crying to this song

I feel like my heart is shattering into millions of tiny pieces. Each fragment is just hurting me all over again.

WE WILL ALL SURVIVE AND WE'LL BE ALL HAPPY SOMEDAY.

Everytime I hear this, I remember my 1st love way back in college. It seems everything flashes back, especially the pain that I've been through. But it made me realize now that I overcome those years, how much more now I'm facing.

I almost forget about this song and how much i loved it I found it by chance today and i had tears in my eyes as soon as i heard him singing

Hello to the people of the future, this is a message from the past. You are amazing, the fact that you can read this is already a blessing, don't ever give up and believe in yourself. You can do this! 👊

When I listen to this song, I sing my whole heart out. It's the only song I'll ever sing aloud, I love my crush. I get teased by his friends for it, even though only him and his group of friends know as it's been 2 months since I confessed. I still have feelings for him, and I dont want to lose him. Hes my best friend, my family... at least that's what he sees me as. I see him as one of the best people in the world, hes my whole world, he means everything to me. When I hear the lines, "You make it hard to smile because you make it hard to breathe." I start crying, and then sobbing when I hear the line again.. He means everything to me, even though he doesnt realize it. I have been clean of self-harm for 5 months now for him, and I feel proud. If I lose him... I'm going to spiral back down into my self-harm, I want to get better for him. I really do...

That awkward moment when you listen to this song in a generation where most phones are touchscreen and have no buttons

im from indonesia ... always listening SECONDHAND SERENADE 😊

It's the feeling of having to smile through your teeth while you see the person you love fall in love. Damn it..anyone with me?

this song reminds me of a friend that moved across the country and she was the greatest person I had ever met she was so sweet so funny just a great person to be around she had the greatest smile .... she made me feel happy when I was sad she kept my secrets and never told a soul .. I never got to tell her how much she meant to me before she left and this song reminds me of it all ... such great memories but so depressing ..I love you I hope you come back soon !!!

Still on my playlist on this time of Coronavirus. June 2020 y'all.

Think of all the people you lost, how terrible it was to loose them. Think of the smiles that you put on each others faces. Be happy that you knew that person. Don't cry because you miss them, don't be sad because they are gone, but be happy that you knew them.

This song helps me. I'm alone at school, unless I'm being made fun of Sometimes I feel like I should cry But no one would care ... I would not be here if it wasn't for music like this.

Secondhand serenade is my favorite band , i always listen to their song whenever im sad and going to sleep.

When I met him my heart skipped a beat. It was just me and him and time stopped. Then I started noticing a few things that where off about our relationship. I realized he was slowly drifting away. It hurt me more than it hurt him but I had to pull the plug. We both drifted away not knowing what was ahead of us. We fought and fought to the point I was done. He will always remain in my heart but known as the reason for the tears in my pillow when I fall asleep at night😭❤️😔

“These days aren’t easy like they had been once before These days aren’t easy anymore” I still feel that.....

After all these years, there’s nothing else that can replace these feelings we felt while listening to it.

This song reminds me of the bullying I've been through. How can someone so easily take away another persons happiness.

Penuh kesesakan dalam dada tiap dnger ini . 2012 mengenal lagu ini ..2021 kembali mengulang lagu dengan perasaan teramat pedih .

lies hatred greed betrayal broken mistakes giving up screaming tears shouting fear alone solitary =WHY?

I forgot to pack a lunch because I didn't know that we were going on a feels trip.

I dont know why every time i listen to secondhand serenade tears will start to fall from my eyes

june 3,2021 im still like this song!!! ♥️😭😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️

I use to listen this song when I was 16 years-old, when I broke up with someone that for first time in my life I was opening my heart to, now almost 5 years later I felt like I have to listen to it again because the person I've love the most in my life, left me. My longest relationship and the person I fall in love with, is not mine anymore, that F*#$^@#% hurt, He was there when I change country, when I was alone and I was in a depression hole, now I miss him, but the main significance this song has to me is:"I am moving on, you are now just the most beautiful chapter of my life" I love you and I'll love you for ever but, everything happens for a reason, and now my reason is to be me, and be happy learning to love myself...

When I listen to this song, I think more about the pain I feel, more about the things this life has put me through. I'm strong most of the time, but sometimes everyone just needs a chance to break down.

"Because these days aren't easy like they have been once before, These days aren't easy anymore" 😞😞😞😭😭😭

Im 31 years old now.. im very miss my teenage memory.. so sad cannot return.. peace from sabah malaysia..

I've never commented on a youtube video before but here goes. 17th March. I lost the love of my life. It was our 4years 4months anniversary. I was so hurt. I am so hurt. I dont know if I will ever recover. He was that one thing in my life I had, one day I'm forced to live without him. He was the kind of person when things fall apart he says, "its okay we'll work it out. There no reason to break up." But on that day, he was the person I never thought he'd be. I would understand people breaking my heart. I just never thought it would be him. I was so easy for him from saying " I love you, happy anniversary, I miss you." in the morning and an hour later, "we should break up." He was not only my boyfriend. But my life, my best friend, my all. Why do you do this to me?

This song is perfect although it unravels many memories I've fought to forget and keep hidden.... It hurts to listen to it yet I love it.

2019 and i dont know why im here. I guess seconhand serenade remind me of my ex. Who's i loved so much. And he left me bcs of distance. I understand why sometimes. Im just not good for him. But i cant find the reason why i should hate him he knw that i loved him. But i saw how happy he was with his new girlfriend so i gave up. There is no one i meet out here like you. Thankyou for being part of my life..

Hi it’s 2021 and I find myself depressed and listening to The same three Secondhand Serenade songs over and over again!

I was dating a man for two years and know we're acting like we never meet. Ever. Its hard and its been hard days for me but this song helps me to get my pain outta my chest. Thankyou, secondhand

This song wet my pillow! You just own a new subscriber

Words can't express how amazing this song is!

i remember crying to this exact upload not even a few months after it came out.

The worst part about loving some who rejects you is not that you fell in love with them in the first place it's thinking that they fell for you too that's where I messed up so anybody reading this be careful when falling in love or you'll get hurt too

😢 A tear drop in the ocean.

I listen to this every morning on the bus to school. Strangely, it calms me but also makes me cry and also makes me happy idk man

Damn... even though its almost 2 years i still love her...

2020 😍 .. secondhand serenade songs are the best 🥰 been listening since 2009

Am I the only one here on 2019???

I cry every time i hear this song

I’m only 18 and I just found this song, I relate and love it so much.. it hit home for sure and I pray for anyone else struggles 🤍 your not alone

ill cry all night when i hear this song 😢

I feel really bad my cousin listen to secondhand and I always made fun of him saying stop listening to depressing music and then he passed away 😢 and I looked in his phone and this song was his favorite so I listen to this all the time and it hurts I miss him so much and I love secondhand now

1:48 gets my heart fluttering everytime! His voice is sooo perfect.

I was singing along to this song, And my boyfriend called. We talked, and he told me "One day I will love another girl more than you", at first I was confused, and then he added "And she will call you mommy". That was the best thing anyone has ever said to me, and I love him

Its may 2021 nd my heart is breaking all over again

This song shows how sad someone can get. Nothing wrong with this song at all its actually a good song.

in the beginning i thought that background buzzing noise was my stomach and i was like wow. I'm a hungry beast

my dad has caused a lot of pain not only within the family but between my love life but I still push on. I guess i will love even if I have to hurt to love.

It's now 2023 and we used to listened this song on a computer shop that has only one computer and 5mbps internet and can only play 240p, friendster, myspace the good old days with friends no drama just pure fun and now that we aged still a good song brings a lot of memories..

Omg this song makes me wanna cry ;-; Secondhand serenade, why do you do this to me?

Oh maaan... ''buttons on my phone''

THIS SONG WILL MAKE YOU SLEEP AFTER YOU CRY

Who's in 2019?

Each note in this song is a stress fracture in this already brittle glass heart of mine. I gave it away to someone who won't it

you don't have to be emo to love this song... I love this song... I Really love this song.

i know im a few years late but damn this song is good, by the time i finished it i was in tears tbh . i love this type of music its so relaxing and its perfect.

bunyi pesan masuk di hp LG gw...kangen waktu awal2 balik ke Jakarta lagi..senang dengerin lagu secondhand serenade

Omg this is old song 2008 No thing like the memories

This song reminds me of a best friend I lost.

9 years later I find this song and here I am crying because of the nostalgia it brought

This is going to be set as my alarm. Those are exactly my emotions in the morning

Beautiful song!!! It makes me want to cry...

August 2022 anyone ? 😪

Back when I was 13 and enjoying this song, I never thought that I could relate to it someday

Beautiful song that means every symphony and reason to love this song

ths song reminds me of a guy i used to really like, he gave me hope and ditch me for my friend....worst time of my life but i learnt something from it

Every single time I listen to this song I cry. It just explains what's going through my mind these days. Like, my boyfriend broke up with me when people found out we were dating. It looks like it's so fxcking easy to him, but it breaks me every day a little bit more...

It's April, 2022 and I still love this song.🖤🖤

Como eu sofri ouvindo essa música em 2009 😪 Mas veja só como o mundo da voltas ...E que voltas

This Song is from my past. Been so long sems I've heard it

This song reminds me of her... I didn't believe in love and then I met her and I just felt so fucking happy... I poured my heart out to her and treated her like an Angel... We broke up almost two years ago but for some odd reason I can't let go... Breawna Bell Harden I love you so fucking much...

What a meaningful song ? you've always bringing me back to my past😭

This song brings back so much memories!!

this song makes me think about the biggest crush of my life in highschool... damnnn life sucks cause u can't get everything u want... but then life is good because chances are you can find better

amo esta canción!

2020 and I still come back to this song😌🖤

What a beautiful song. So touching.

The very first line mirrors so much memories. Can't escape getting old.

the feeling when a girl chooses a guy that makes her unhappy over someone who cares about her and wants the best for her if she ever sees this only thing i got to say is i really do love you but the pain is not worth getting my hopes up that you realize your mistake

whyyyy? secondhand serenade's songs make me crazyy .. why is it so beautiful to hear .. ???? whyyy?

❤️❤️💕 Love this song!!

This song is still alive 💓💓💓💓

it's been years and i still can't get over you tell me why

2021 I'm 27 now I was maybe 16 when I found this song. Means more now then back then and has me in tears. Iv never felt more alone in this time in my life before atleast people took the time to tell me I was worthless now silence is killing me when ur a adult ur meant to just deal with it smile and keep going

you make it hard to breathe :'(

Memories... 😞

2018 and i still love this song

October 2020 and i’m still crying at 3am to this song..

I still love her and i miss her 😭😭😭