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Secrets Exposed: DON'T Confront Cheaters & Liars Head-On (Do This Instead)

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MJ Harris

MJ Harris

Күн бұрын

In this video, we're going to teach you how to deal with cheaters and liars head-on, without confrontation.
If you're tired of feeling like you can't win against cheaters and liars, then this video is for you! We're going to teach you how to manage challenges and disputes without confrontation, so you can stay positive and focused on your goals. Watch and learn how to stay strong when things get tough!
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Malcolm “MJ” Harris helps you live your best life emotionally, romantically, and financially - and he makes you laugh alot! MJ is an internationally recognized lifestyle and business influencer who has been featured by Oprah, USA Today and Black Enterprise. He has a global reach of over 20 million people each month - across social media and TV. In addition to this, he is the CEO and founder of MJ Harris Financial Services, which is one of America's largest African-American owned financial services firms. MJ’s rise began when he started creating empowering and aspirational digital content about lessons learned from his path of achieving success after overcoming a childhood surrounded by abuse and addiction. Through his videos, online courses, and live events, he created a loyal global fanbase and quickly became a powerhouse in the self-improvement industry.
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@GLesbihonest
@GLesbihonest 10 ай бұрын
I don't give second chances. I did it one time and learned a trifling person is going to be a trifling person. Period!
@KindraTeamJesus
@KindraTeamJesus 10 ай бұрын
Amen ‼️‼️‼️‼️
@NooooneYA1010
@NooooneYA1010 10 ай бұрын
Facts, they typically become even a more trifling person when you give them another chance.
@shanellem6310
@shanellem6310 10 ай бұрын
Me too. I learned that lessons early. I have 2 ex-husbands, and neither one of them can come to my house. I don't trust them due to their characters. I have kids with both of them. O choose to drop the kids at their house or we'll meet elsewhere. I have to protect my peace by any means necessary. Period.
@koreaboo1437
@koreaboo1437 8 ай бұрын
Yes I've learned no to 2nd chances No
@shiellamarine467
@shiellamarine467 10 ай бұрын
Yes MJ I am done with cheaters it’s somebody out there that want to be faithful
@cristiamcclain9292
@cristiamcclain9292 10 ай бұрын
Facts
@YellowRoses10
@YellowRoses10 10 ай бұрын
I agree💛
@AB-qv1qd
@AB-qv1qd 10 ай бұрын
You should do audiobooks... your story telling is amazing !!! 😂 I'm almost finished with my second book and would hire you on the spot...you gets all of my attention listening to you...😂
@bosslady2266
@bosslady2266 10 ай бұрын
😊 yes would be a best seller hunni
@livingmybestlife1208
@livingmybestlife1208 10 ай бұрын
I agree 💯 he's the best
@nikkic9492
@nikkic9492 10 ай бұрын
😅 I totally agree, the voice/sounds and facial expressions keep you tuned in...
@jennifermeinecke6944
@jennifermeinecke6944 5 ай бұрын
He has an audio book
@c.helaire8083
@c.helaire8083 10 ай бұрын
I can’t stop laughing MJ. Your honesty is refreshing!
@misscuronda1665
@misscuronda1665 10 ай бұрын
MJ tells theee best stories, makes me feel I'm talking to my best friends, & ALWAYS have me in tears of laughter!😂
@NoGreyArea334
@NoGreyArea334 10 ай бұрын
He make you like he telling the story to you in person lol
@DanielleTRushin
@DanielleTRushin 10 ай бұрын
You are so right! I know several couples who are extremely toxic and have been married for 30+ years, miserable, dysfunctional, abusive, bitter, controlling, financially abusive, emotionally abusive, physically abusive, sexually abusive, spiritually abusive. ALL OF IT! And they swear they have been successful because they’ve been bound for 30+ years.
@natashiaformley8348
@natashiaformley8348 10 ай бұрын
😮😬
@TheSS314
@TheSS314 10 ай бұрын
This is giving me so much strength to walk away!!
@karenmaloney4085
@karenmaloney4085 10 ай бұрын
That's right MJ you are so right. When you getting older your mindset is different.
@nicolemorgan1184
@nicolemorgan1184 10 ай бұрын
I am dyeing thee hell laughing MJ you took that dating a woman question to the ground😭😭.... I love you😘
@Pianopraiser
@Pianopraiser 10 ай бұрын
I hate I missed the live but the replay was everything. I was in the restaurant laughing.
@one2inV
@one2inV 10 ай бұрын
Omg, “I’m the mommy. I’m the mommy” I’m dead
@forbesgrl5707
@forbesgrl5707 10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 MJ cracked me up about the cooch cooch
@marietobar5669
@marietobar5669 10 ай бұрын
Exactly MJ I agree with you I'm the same way a person cheat on me one time I'm absolutely through with him bc I don't believe in cheating and I don't tolerate that type of behavior from a man never in my life period good topic thanks for sharing M J much love and blessings to you ❤🙏👏
@moneka1030
@moneka1030 10 ай бұрын
MJ you need a podcast ! I'm so invested
@BH-hp4os
@BH-hp4os 10 ай бұрын
Why would a man go through the motions of buying an engagement ring and asking you to marry him then ask you to pick a date and then say the date is too soon and then never ask you for or pick another date?
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 10 ай бұрын
It's call the SHUT up ring!! If there's no Wedding date...theirs will be no Marriage. He's making a FOOL out of you! Walk!!
@lyndadynesedunn7191
@lyndadynesedunn7191 10 ай бұрын
Amen; happy, fulfilled and living a nice life single. My peace is Everything!❤
@meli7315
@meli7315 10 ай бұрын
💯
@lilprz7719
@lilprz7719 10 ай бұрын
Once i get quiet i’m done exactly working on my exit plan so he don’t see it coming and the story about the mail i did the same thing he also stopped getting important mail lol that was my ex a long time ago 😂I can relate I love your videos i’m am a seasoned lady too 😂GN lovely.
@noellemerritt3534
@noellemerritt3534 10 ай бұрын
"The dog who bites your hand will still lick it too."
@noneya-hv2vu
@noneya-hv2vu 28 күн бұрын
Whew 😳😬🙊
@simplymarilyn5295
@simplymarilyn5295 10 ай бұрын
MJ, I love you because you keep it real 🌟🙌....Thank-you 🌹
@upperclass1287
@upperclass1287 10 ай бұрын
Red flag. Not answering questions directly.
@shiellamarine467
@shiellamarine467 10 ай бұрын
Red flag they call you first to track where you are before they set up their dirt
@noneya-hv2vu
@noneya-hv2vu 28 күн бұрын
😩🙊
@teebookwriter
@teebookwriter 10 ай бұрын
Hey MJ, you are right! Don't settle! I'm not a cheater and there are many of us like you
@lisamoses5821
@lisamoses5821 10 ай бұрын
Loretta Devine on Waiting to Exhale had me dead
@livingmybestlife1208
@livingmybestlife1208 10 ай бұрын
My favorite uncle MJ😊love you're wisdom and content
@moneka1030
@moneka1030 10 ай бұрын
MJ you crazy as hell 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I just love you!!!!! 🥰 ❤❤
@carolynharrell4115
@carolynharrell4115 10 ай бұрын
You are so truthful. No 2nd chances
@claritybaeTarot
@claritybaeTarot 10 ай бұрын
MJ you funny - af 🤣😆🤣 Best Storyteller Eva!!! 💯🔥🎯
@AbenaMcKenzieSoapiphany
@AbenaMcKenzieSoapiphany 10 ай бұрын
Heyyyy MJ! I love you ❤! I'm Moving to South Africa, can't stand it here... 😢
@jasminesuther7101
@jasminesuther7101 10 ай бұрын
MJ you are hilarious & speaking facts😂😂😂❤😊
@tamikaruskin2345
@tamikaruskin2345 10 ай бұрын
I agree. I don't give cheaters second chances either!
@stephielightfoot
@stephielightfoot 10 ай бұрын
I’m so engaged in your story I feel like I was at the club with u rofl!!!! U pull a person into your stories. I’m always here for it!!!! 😂😂😂 I’m over here cracking up!!!! 😂😂😂
@nadclair1
@nadclair1 7 ай бұрын
I am dying laughing here 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@teepeeNC
@teepeeNC 10 ай бұрын
I watched 30 sec of this video. She is too much😂. Got what I needed from him that quick
@charisse234
@charisse234 10 ай бұрын
MJ you are super wise.i just love your channel.thank you for this video.positivity peace and love ♥️
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 10 ай бұрын
Yes. CHEATING is taking TIME from you!
@paulaolie7276
@paulaolie7276 10 ай бұрын
Mr.Harris ,Mr Harris,Mr Harris tell it.
@shiellamarine467
@shiellamarine467 10 ай бұрын
And cheaters always use the same tricks so I don’t need to look for the cheater they’re all the same
@bettyc931
@bettyc931 8 ай бұрын
MJ! I wish I had at least one friend like you. One hour into it and I am clear on an answer I will give (relationship wise) only IF life calls for it. But I am shutting the fudges up like you said lol. You are one of a kind and that is the best kind. Thank you!
@shellymatlock4888
@shellymatlock4888 10 ай бұрын
LOOOOOOOO MJ YOU GOT ME ROLLING OVER HERE. YOU ARE TOOOO FUNNY!!!!!!
@614HairSnob
@614HairSnob 5 ай бұрын
You have tipped toed ALL ON MY NERVE TODAY MAAM! LOVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE❤
@anastaciathomas1215
@anastaciathomas1215 10 ай бұрын
MJ is cutting up in this video. You’re so real though and I love it.
@gailthompson370
@gailthompson370 10 ай бұрын
Omg MJ you are so funny telling this story 👍🏽❤️
@tanyaholt7451
@tanyaholt7451 10 ай бұрын
I know the feeling! He want you to do all the work
@livefromtheground7274
@livefromtheground7274 9 ай бұрын
12:25 lol😂Cooch is high maintenance!!!
@cleojay2501
@cleojay2501 10 ай бұрын
Yooo MJ you leave me in stitches everytime 😂😂😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love youu
@zethliajackson5864
@zethliajackson5864 10 ай бұрын
MJ…. I really enjoy listening to you. You make me laugh but what you are saying is so true….
@nellymarie5290
@nellymarie5290 3 ай бұрын
When you said my body is incapable of during certain things omgggg CTFU I'm in tears right now fr🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@facetedperspectives9950
@facetedperspectives9950 10 ай бұрын
Boy, do I love your advice and frankness‼️‼️ This "new age" relationship bull$hit IS just that...BULL$HIT‼️ Let's be clear, taking a break in a relationship is sheer NUTS!! IF you take a break and get sexually involved with someone else; it's an AUTOMATIC wrap for me. That behavior is NOT negotiable. Might be old school, but geeze. You want to date variety, go on. I really don't like this new dynamic between men and women. I don't see women benefitting UNLESS it is transactional and that's UNDERSTOOD from the start. It's all too tedious to bother with and MY mental, emotional and SPIRITUAL health is way too important. Self love says NO EXPLANATIONS are needed. LORD...please....
@meli7315
@meli7315 10 ай бұрын
💯
@tinahoward1807
@tinahoward1807 6 ай бұрын
MJ! You bring the realness!!!!!❤
@femininefun1637
@femininefun1637 10 ай бұрын
ty for sharing your stories w us auntie mj lol the dennys line was funny ahell
@sarinalawand3257
@sarinalawand3257 10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤ from Lebanese living in Dubai since 20 years
@kimpossible2725
@kimpossible2725 10 ай бұрын
Not a firecracker! 💀🤣
@wejoin
@wejoin 10 ай бұрын
So nice to see you! Glad your visit with Marco & Lydia was fun!! I almost thought you had a beard.
@serenityserenity9829
@serenityserenity9829 10 ай бұрын
This was a whole word!!!
@woowoodafool6397
@woowoodafool6397 10 ай бұрын
Out the bushes HEY MJ AND CHAT
@elainesmith8010
@elainesmith8010 10 ай бұрын
You are too much 🔥🔥🔥🔥. I am cracking up !
@Ms.CyranoDebergerac
@Ms.CyranoDebergerac 10 ай бұрын
YOU SPEAK THINGS INTO EXISTENCE...
@linabeans6328
@linabeans6328 7 ай бұрын
Fr these men think your supposed to keep them entertained
@karladizz
@karladizz 10 ай бұрын
I needed to be taken to the Dennys. 😂😂😂
@tanyaholt7451
@tanyaholt7451 10 ай бұрын
Amen! We picking each other or nothing
@drypshunee8428
@drypshunee8428 8 ай бұрын
The way I just hollered! My name is Jeraldine 😂
@KindraTeamJesus
@KindraTeamJesus 10 ай бұрын
I love your honesty ,realness,& Transparency ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥you helps me ……..
@wafavlogs5
@wafavlogs5 10 ай бұрын
I just found this channel and I am lol by myself ,MJ you’re so entertaining I can listen to you all day long 😂
@Sincerity_7
@Sincerity_7 4 ай бұрын
Snatching edges today ‼️
@Nicole_GOE
@Nicole_GOE 10 ай бұрын
Just shared… I had to..!!
@sheilabrewster3620
@sheilabrewster3620 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for super advice
@xoxo_mylaa23
@xoxo_mylaa23 9 ай бұрын
Yo I swear u are the reason I can’t sleep at night 🤣 u are too funny I love you 💗
@MegaDnw
@MegaDnw 10 ай бұрын
Not the firecrackers 🧨
@teresahayes4892
@teresahayes4892 10 ай бұрын
You are a riot 😅😂😂😂😂 I can’t stop.. you are indeed a great story teller.. da best 😅😅😅😅
@lh5286
@lh5286 10 ай бұрын
MJ Thank you for helping me, I truly appreciate your wisdom.
@M.A.F.I.A..
@M.A.F.I.A.. Ай бұрын
"WHY IT FLAP LIKE THAT?!"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@RicaG29
@RicaG29 5 ай бұрын
I just busted out laughing at work. All the different vay jay jays - yes we ladies are all unique in that area.
@mrgreen75
@mrgreen75 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 I love you Malcolm I can't stop laughing
@tanyaholt7451
@tanyaholt7451 10 ай бұрын
Amen because you been together 50 years means nothing
@TRUSTING_HIM314
@TRUSTING_HIM314 10 ай бұрын
Silence is a killer😂
@reneejal4
@reneejal4 10 ай бұрын
They sell a neck cell phone holder so you don't have to hold your phone in the bed. Love listening to you.
@Sipho720
@Sipho720 10 ай бұрын
I'm already excited❤❤❤
@adelante3938
@adelante3938 10 ай бұрын
we love you MJ thank you for sharing your wisdom with so much love
@zechariahweathersby1976
@zechariahweathersby1976 10 ай бұрын
Yep
@letakeokuk5446
@letakeokuk5446 10 ай бұрын
I personally like becoming friends first. It’s safer until you know that you know. ✌🏾
@charlenedean4627
@charlenedean4627 9 ай бұрын
I love it , THIS RIGHT HERE❤🎉
@dvmn444
@dvmn444 10 ай бұрын
Its the be silent and be still for me 🤯
@AbenaMcKenzieSoapiphany
@AbenaMcKenzieSoapiphany 10 ай бұрын
Plowed 🤸🏾‍♀️🥄🍍🦵🏿🦵🏿🌳 💅🏾💯
@karenmaloney4085
@karenmaloney4085 10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 u is something MJ
@karenmaloney4085
@karenmaloney4085 10 ай бұрын
I enjoy u.
@tracyculver9998
@tracyculver9998 10 ай бұрын
MJ your the best parent
@JacqlynCharles
@JacqlynCharles 10 ай бұрын
Pedicure prettier than mine 😂😂😂😂
@boydweiser123
@boydweiser123 10 ай бұрын
😂I freaking love you!!
@tanyaholt7451
@tanyaholt7451 10 ай бұрын
Flirting is cheating getting numbers and giving yours is cheating! Just be honest and go be a whore and leave me alone! I don’t need no break
@JustDoRight
@JustDoRight 10 ай бұрын
I sure do have extra locks. PPPUUUAAAHHH 😂😂😂 Mommy is right. My ex-husband is still mad at me about that till this day when I changed the locks. PPPUUUAAAHHH 😂😂😂 HILARIOUS!!
@nanettetaylor6126
@nanettetaylor6126 10 ай бұрын
I think before it get that far we should make sure the partner knows what each other likes
@mickievans2967
@mickievans2967 10 ай бұрын
Do you think it's weird that a person starts calling you baby from first date?
@MJHarrisSpeaks
@MJHarrisSpeaks 10 ай бұрын
YES!! Love bombing
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 10 ай бұрын
Probably didn't remember your name. 😳
@meli7315
@meli7315 10 ай бұрын
First Love bombing and second gaslighting
@liddyw88
@liddyw88 10 ай бұрын
Yep! Hate it.
@NoGreyArea334
@NoGreyArea334 10 ай бұрын
Yes
@GhettoandBlessed
@GhettoandBlessed 10 ай бұрын
That part!
@shirleyadams7887
@shirleyadams7887 10 ай бұрын
That’s right MJ💯🎯‼️
@laurarudd737
@laurarudd737 10 ай бұрын
MJ love to listening to you .Your wise and smart and funny.
@BLADETASA
@BLADETASA 10 ай бұрын
Absolutely RIGHT
@travelfoodielove
@travelfoodielove 10 ай бұрын
You keep it so real that’s why we love u ❤❤❤❤❤
@Makada_
@Makada_ 10 ай бұрын
Some were around 40:00 😂😂😂 just keep listening . However the amount of game given
@patriciamarie213
@patriciamarie213 9 ай бұрын
Omg have me laughing hard… ooh girl I love your videos how you chat like you on the phone lol be my friend forever ❤
@FeliciaStands
@FeliciaStands 2 ай бұрын
True I’m quiet I don’t confront him about his lack of communication I got a new place in everything just have to have the talk
@Legacy_125
@Legacy_125 10 ай бұрын
He needs a post office box
@wandastoudemire9877
@wandastoudemire9877 9 ай бұрын
I just love your style MJ
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