In the Netherlands and Germany the parents have to accompany the child for the first two weeks during the settling in period until they are familiar with the environment and teachers. The child cannot be left alone with strangers until they are familiar with them to avoid being traumatised 😢
@susanhyaola23702 ай бұрын
In Africa you leave them there
@estherndirangu5881Ай бұрын
In Kenya we are left with them crying untill when they get used to the new environment
@happymomhappykids4162Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂@@estherndirangu5881
@annastasiahnjugunahlucy9653Ай бұрын
@@susanhyaola2370 and you hide and run away when they start crying and running towards you🤪🤪
@zamamuhibu4830Күн бұрын
Wow!!!! This is the best!
@TT-oj9xt4 ай бұрын
Its tata selassie hidding his tears for me behind glasses, the way he touched his stomach! His emotions were all over the place. Anna we are cheering for u bambi. Love from belgium.
@themoya1624 ай бұрын
All parents go through this, I remember when my son started pre school the first day, the teachers reassured me everything will be ok...I cried because it was the first time leaving him in that type of environment, while at work I couldn't concentrate because my mind was on my child. I was so happy when I collected him in the evening and everything was ok...😊 You will be ok mama....trust the process
@Jifunze_Kiswahili13 ай бұрын
As a mother , I can confirm what you are saying. It isn't easy, but with time you realise it was worth it
@kimeragrace47533 ай бұрын
My son cried for a week am telling you 😂😂😂
@maremare16554 ай бұрын
I can relate to this, I was in your shoes 35 years ago. My little son ran after me with his little arms extended upward - mommy mommy and my heart broke and I had to hold back the tears until I got out of his eyesight. I cried emotional tears like you for a short time. It is good though ❤️❤️❤️💯. When he was 17 he packed his treasured belongings and told me he was leaving our house to live in his own and it wasn't because he didn't love me, it was just time, and the right thing to do. I waited till he was out of eyesight and again I cried emotional tears for a short time. Now he is taking his son to school. And my mom who passed away 2020 used to say life is about ups and downs. 🙃☺️. God bless your family Anne.
@user-zj4nl7qq5c4 ай бұрын
The way I like seeing Sky arihamwe na Anne🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️ Ndabakunda bantumwe❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@ageisanumber2 ай бұрын
Turabakunda munonga sky, Anna and baby son.
@nicolesmutonimusonera3204 ай бұрын
I can testify that selassie felt betrayal for the first time😂😂😂
@BABS8894 ай бұрын
First day at school parents must sit with him for a while until he wanders off to play building rapport with other kids. It's painful I also cried
@kembabazimackline4 ай бұрын
Bambi, the bond between a mother and a child is so strong.......the last part is making me shed tears 😭😭
@namutebirashidah59754 ай бұрын
Me too 😢
@vivianlubanga97663 ай бұрын
Same here
@stacy-mariebennett87604 ай бұрын
He is a big boy🎉🎉🎉🎉. He will be fine and so will Mummy and Daddy. The school is lovely . Congrats, a new mile stone. ❤❤❤❤
@gorretluboobi16833 ай бұрын
I feel the excitement and anxiety you are going through Ann. We all go through the same experience. Me the 1st time i left my 1st son to school i cried all through and surprisingly he asked me why i cried..... its an experience all mothers should go through and at the end you both be happy when he returns to start telling you stories and you better the pupil and him the teacher. Congratulations Congratulations to this milestone Ann and your hubby. God bless the lito one, may he find favour in this new journey.
@estheroluka85984 ай бұрын
This was bitter-sweet to watch... But worry not Anne, he will catch up. Wishing the beautiful little Selassie a great school tenure. Blessings.
@mariabasirika41514 ай бұрын
The separation anxiety doesn't end here. Unless the child has been in boarding school, many mothers here once again experience that 1st day of school situation when they leave home for college, even if they are now teenagers. When my son left for college, I cried each day at my desk at work for a week. I dont know why it was at work, but i guess at home it helped me going to his bedroom and calm myself a bit. Moreover, they dont call until you do.😮 The only difference is they dont cry when being dropped off, they are very excited about the new life and freedom kwegamba! But that doesn't stop moms to feel sad, okuzaala!! Virtual hugs from California to you Ann and Sky.
@twinamatsikoallen42093 ай бұрын
I remember crying the first two days i took my son to school. But later he got used. Bambi mothers have such a big attachment to their children❤
@ceeceeauthentic48974 ай бұрын
Awwww Prince Selassie goes to school. It's ok to feel the way you do Anne. But he will be fine, like tata Selassie said "the other children in class were happy" meaning it's a good place. He will adapt, make friends, learn new things and everything will be just fine. Watching this video made me emotional too.
@lornakal53003 ай бұрын
It was a tough day for all of you. My son would cry from the entrance of KKA all the way to his class so many blocks away from the entrance. He cried everyday for the first month in school. We were forced to change him to a school that was teaching the Montessori curriculum where the number of pupils was very low. Surprisingly he never even cried on his first day in a new school. We found the rest of the pupils at Assembly and he joined them for morning devotion 😅
@LAMALOESSENTIALS-kt5tn3 ай бұрын
As I watching this video I was remembering your school comedy videos of don't mess with kansime 😅. And now it's reality be blessed ❤
@loicemurapa97554 ай бұрын
Time flies. Your boy is so handsome. I hope he enjoys
@liselinambota59794 ай бұрын
The other day I was just discussing with my workmate, once you have a child your whole life changes...until that child is independent. So for the next 20-23 years you have to live for Selasie ❤😊❤. And that's the joy of parenthood.
@berinasnaturestories4 ай бұрын
Thai's right.
@susankiambi40564 ай бұрын
My dear to a parent the child is never independent. Selassie will be all grown and you’ll look back and laugh at the memories of this day. Been there done that my girl.
@believer2010ful3 ай бұрын
A child remains a child
@nasasirahshakira842 ай бұрын
The worst feeling ever leaving your child behind crying 😢
@akhope1459Ай бұрын
Oooh, that feeling beats my heart deep......
@albertinamarcelino6204 ай бұрын
Me sgading tears for baby Selasie as he was running after the mother..courage Kansiime. I love your family.
@sunshineheaven18024 ай бұрын
I was not going to cry but now when he ran after them I was inconsolable. I hope it goes well and we see him one week and then a month and a year. Well done people.
@brendakavuma95193 ай бұрын
Pi
@desireamelia38144 ай бұрын
that is real motherhood Kansiime ❤waking early morning every day to prepare Selassie for school, am really excited kureeba this story ❤
@believer2010ful3 ай бұрын
When I saw him chase the parents and then kansiime " It seems like we abandoned him " My heart really broke. I could not take it anymore. My case is far worse as compared to leaving a child at school. These are many yrs ago but this situation just pieced me in the scar
@tdias66104 ай бұрын
The ending is so emotional 😭😭😭😭😭 but much love kansiime and yo darlgs the first day is so painful oooo
@jkaranga40104 ай бұрын
I couldn’t help myself even though am a grandma I was laughing and crying at the same time 😂when his dad responded to the director of the school and said “ One week of crying like this ? “ it broke my heart 😢. You can’t help but love them for ever ❤you two are wonderful parents looks like you are truly hands on in raising your young son. I wish you happy school days ahead it gets better for everyone the first time it’s difficult but just hang in there . Your son is destined for greatness keep up the good work ! Blessings .
@colletahauko6654 ай бұрын
😅😅😅😅 the mums crying part got me laughing
@achomrose1273 ай бұрын
As a teacher that has handled such age group of kids, it's always very emotional for both child and the parents especially first time mothers. I remember we had a parent who would drop the child off to school at 9, step out of the school and stands at the gate till the kid keeps quiet. Pick up time was always 3pm but she comes at 1pm, sits in her vehicle till 3 OMG I know what yo going through but he'll definitely stop crying and adapt to the school environment after meeting other kids and of course receiving that love, care and attention from the care givers. Wishing him blessings in his new journey.
@marieannedwards24313 ай бұрын
So good to see you..omg with a toddler too ready for school Kansiime. I’ve had some great laughs watching your videos, then I took a break from SM. Stay bless and congrats on this new chapter in your life with your beautiful family.
@leahgushu4 ай бұрын
The boy is his father's duplicate 😊
@desireamelia38144 ай бұрын
aki😂 selassie starting a school ready knowing to count numbers you will be a teacher ❤❤❤
@bogeremuzamiru63263 ай бұрын
Oh my God, trust me i relate, leaving him crying was so so painful,.but then I had too as well, today I went to pick him oh my God, he run and hugged me, and I told him tommorrow we shall go back again to school. Painful as it is, he has to go to school. Atleast I got a breather when the teacher told me he stopped crying after I left but it has been something I had been practicing for almost 3 months, taking him to the grand and leaving him there.
@nalugomercy32783 ай бұрын
Hhihihihi,i can relate especially us who leave them in boarding schools. I'm always the last parent to leave school.
@gloriapatienceug493 ай бұрын
Oohh dear😊😊
@ahabwerachel99674 ай бұрын
I feel like commenting on Anne's behalf that my heart is full
@catherinekainza98923 ай бұрын
Banange the parents have protected themselves with safety belts but the baby is just bare in the front and there is no car seat for him 😢😢😢❤
@Avant-toir50443 ай бұрын
Yes indeed a car seat should be a priority for child's safety please
@mukelabaimulozi3 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly.😢.it's even better to sit in the back with the child..
@svt3Ай бұрын
@@mukelabaimuloziit shock me really how parents can put seatbelt on themselves but they don't mind their baby to be in child capsule in a back seat, if the father just press break fast unexpected that the end for that child
@Dramadonia7 күн бұрын
It's never easy for anyone involved. I trust Little Selassi is more settled in now. 💝
@mxc34294 ай бұрын
The way i like kasime talking her mother language
@emel75254 ай бұрын
My goodness time flies! Look at the Prince now attending school aaaaahhhh ❤❤❤❤
@eaglet71834 ай бұрын
I have cried on the last part.... I can't imagine when mine will start school...i already feel the separation anxiety.
@akoraebirungirossette87143 ай бұрын
Selassie his counting very first than me😂😅😅
@kyomugishajoanita2363 ай бұрын
I like it when you mix our mother tongue. Keep it up
@user-or4wk9or5b4 ай бұрын
There's nothing that makes a mother much more happy like seeing her child,her bone starting school. The calmness in the house first day heeeeee all goes well because we're preparing the little all attention love fun .I know what it means for the parent though am not but you get the experience
@lindashagala97673 ай бұрын
He will never forget this first experience 😂😂
@nualisplace4 ай бұрын
One of the most difficult moments in parenting. To entrust your child with someone away from the childs familiar environment.Kindergaten, Boarding School ah,its hard but Selassie will be alright and soon he will be telling you teacher is right and you don't know anything 😂😂
@mercyt4 ай бұрын
😂
@ruthbaliraba6713 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 you know
@gianarightonassisya22484 ай бұрын
First days are hard however they need it in life and so do we as parents because they have to discover their own identity. He will be great not just fine. He will flourish and bloom into a beautiful human being. Very proud of you mama and daddy! 👏 👏. Congratulations on this new amazing journey of parenting.
@MunduWaNyeri4 ай бұрын
The bitter sweet moment! Time goes by so fast. ❤
@lovielove51823 ай бұрын
This is how I felt the first day I left my baby at school, he cried and I cried. Don't worry Ann it gets better ❤
@edithmadu30804 ай бұрын
The day I dropped off my daughter for the first time too was just like this. She cried , I cried. I couldn’t focus at work. But the the next week, we both were ready to go do our businesses. Lol
@brendaapiyo54834 ай бұрын
I think the best thing was to do a settling in session where you can both attend the school for a couple of hours then again. They can arrange another session where your son would have to attend for a few hours while you are within the school setting but not in the same class. By doing that, the child would have built more trust in setting and not feeling like being abandoned. The mother is right, and how the left him is too traumatising for a child who has never been left with a stranger before. Also, it can cause anxiety.
@komumusic92244 ай бұрын
I don't even remember my first day at school. I started understanding when I was already in school and I am still in school. Uganda and her education banange.....20 years in school.
So the child in advert of pampers wauu so good I love kaansime I can't believe seeing you having a family I ts very good❤❤❤❤❤❤
@mulisatshifaro46863 ай бұрын
Mine experience was different, I stayed with my aunt, she was teaching at the kindergarten school so I didn't feel sad or lost, my cousin was also with me there... Up to a point where, after graduating, I stayed extra year (did my grade R) so in the same school and I was now like a senior learner kind off. 😅 Now I am a grown man, I will soon be taking my own children there...I hope the experience will be sweet enough
@namanyagift68274 ай бұрын
The end for me😂 u have reminded me the first time I took my son to school.
@patriciag52714 ай бұрын
For kids, it really does looks like a hospital, i still remember my first in Nursery school way back in the day, i was about 5 years old or so and convinced it was hospital, i cried for the life of me, the entire session of admission. it took me a week to realize it was not a hospital.
@Flourish_today4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 I'm not laughing at you. I'm laughing at the fact that it looked like a hospital. Did you spend so much time in hospitals as a child? Maybe it's the way it's organized, the tables, the lady at the reception.
@patriciag52713 ай бұрын
@@Flourish_today 🤣🤣Yes, i was quite sickly as a child and i think that's why. Also the whole reception setup was quite similar to me, my dad taking me and carrying while he talked to the headmistress was all too familiar with what happened with hospitals/clinics for me too. The poor woman tried to hold my hand, but the way i screamed and kicked? my poor dad, i must have embarrassed the life out of him now that i think about it. its still the only clearest memory i have period in my life, it must have traumatized me too much.
@fatiabubakar43374 ай бұрын
Crying Ann, for Selassie first Day In School 😂. Take Heart this Hw We all pass Through 🙏🙏. Just Wish Him Success
@NuwasiimaTamali22Ай бұрын
Oh school 😂😂😂i just see tears of joy 😅😅 what a happy couple n nice family 🎉😍
@korkorlawson24803 ай бұрын
Ann it's natural for him to cry.Very soon he won't even mind you when you go to pick him after school .He will actually tell you he is not going. home with you.I am happy he is in school.Congratulations
@twongirweprivah87274 ай бұрын
I can't believe, this is so emotional. I am crying 😢
@ritamukamahoro40734 ай бұрын
That’s abandonment right there, he will always remember it . I think we need to adapt different ideas from different systems. Where I live you can’t deliver a child to an institution the first few days in such a manner. A space of 4-5 days integration period for a child is given, where by a parent stays behind with the child as he gets used , get friends or connects with the teachers. The 1st days are so crucial that a parent can stay for 4-5 hours and then take the child home. Until he gets used. Every child is different how they cope. It was so sad to watch this. And this is not for mothers alone, the father can also take some integration days off, if impossible at least a relative or a house helper whom the child knows and is comfortable with.
@alberttravis2564 ай бұрын
This is helpful
@ahaisibwesarah91334 ай бұрын
It's a blessing indeed to have such a family
@kikulwem.viscey85214 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂ve enjoyed this riyale. Kansiime, it's not only Abt missing a period😂😂😂anyway, try missing another period, Selassies cuteness will do good for a girl too
@carolinekyomuhendo4 ай бұрын
I cry with you Ann 😢😢😅😅but it's okay he'll be fine and he's fine
@user-ht3gl3rr1q3 ай бұрын
The rukiga for me😂😂😂😂
@farmgrl3 ай бұрын
This makes me think, can we have a school program whereby parents can go with kids for even just an hour for a week or two to get kids accustomed to this new environment with minimal emotional trauma? I wish there could be something like this where the teacher is introduced amidst parents so that it doesn't feel so painful when the child is finally left with the teachers 😢
@lillianm94632 ай бұрын
Other countries are already doing this. You settle your child in for the first week, you stay for a hour, then two hours the next day, then three hours the following day and by then they’ll be used to the new environment.
@praisesharma1962 ай бұрын
My son started school this year he is turning 4next month..he was so ready and he loves school so much the next day he said he will go to school by himself 2days he was using school bus he was absent only once this week because he wasn't feeling well..he was ready and i was ready too and so far we enjoy our school morning routine
@husseintumusime76474 ай бұрын
What ablessed couple please stay day always in Jesus name Amen❤.
@emmakwamboka1073 ай бұрын
That feeling 😢 that is how my son did to me, but my girl she step school compound and said mum buy go to work. Kids are so different
@angelladesire30914 ай бұрын
Ann this year we need selasies sister or brother walayi tunyumilwe roles of big bro sela...😂😂❤
@nantumeshanitah23474 ай бұрын
He felt betrayed by his his own for the first time😢,i hope he enjoys the school and very soon,all will be well❤
@user-ho1xq3sd4s3 ай бұрын
Sorry Mukazi. 1st day is, always not easy. But He will Enjoy with time. Be strong dear. May God help him to get used quickly Bambi. Blessings abalungi. We love you.
@stellawanjiku33593 ай бұрын
When you get the right partner things flow❤
@kansiimegrace95903 ай бұрын
Okay, thank you guys for making us weep on a Monday skiiii🥹
@olnssoghara94903 ай бұрын
😂
@isabellansubuga26922 ай бұрын
Kansime you have a genius right there. That pic in a cardigan is really nice , you should sign him up for baby modelling
@omukachiheritageАй бұрын
And the boy is sharp like the mother. So cute
@tarinyeba68143 ай бұрын
Shine said," you're taking the package without its food". 😂😂😂😂😂 Love you Shine❤
@etyangdinah75723 ай бұрын
Shine is onother trouble,I love her trouble😂😂
@akellocaroline36063 ай бұрын
This is his first test of betrayal according to him😢😢
@nantalehadijah63112 ай бұрын
When Sky was left at the gate to find his own class, it sounds so crazy and realistic. 😂😂. Anne, ur so nice
@rebeccamirembe7105Ай бұрын
Awww I really feel you Ann, you will get used with time. I thought it only happens to me, I got very lonely when i left my son in boarding school. I regretted why I took him to boarding . Its been one year but every time its beginning of term its hits me back.
@actualwakandangirl71214 ай бұрын
Omg he broke my heart, I know I’m gonna cry so much when my baby starts school, I don’t even wanna think about it.
@gladyskabia17064 ай бұрын
Not Salesio becoming a twin of Sky❤❤🇰🇪
@brendahfar_see73083 ай бұрын
Blessings Mr .Selasie❤ Kumbe he knows to count 😮lol😂
@anonnona64334 ай бұрын
It's him running with his little legs 🦵 and small steps 😮
@nazziwavanessa6064 ай бұрын
Iam naturally an emotional person and I couldn't hold my tears. Can't wait for him to get used and enjoy school.
@user-fq9ol4nr9x3 ай бұрын
I also cried ooh my Gog Soo saad😂😂😂😂😂
@SendaKakoma2 ай бұрын
Am a pre school teacher i always feel for parents when they ask me saying teacher senda are you sure my kid will get used
@bonitahatuhaire12212 ай бұрын
I hv noticed that I will also cry when I leave my bby at school coz eeeehhh
@MegaOluka3 ай бұрын
Hahahaha Naye ANNE, he will be so fyn
@fellybossymachu92123 ай бұрын
Kindly let's like before watching, coz when we watch we found ourselves crying and we left without liking.😢All is well to your baby❤
@djoanugtv62453 ай бұрын
Naye mwe😂❤
@yogawithlea-inuganda44733 ай бұрын
The first time i have seen Anne kansiime emotional😊🥺
@user-iq5eb6ln6n4 ай бұрын
Ann stop..... now am also crying 😭, that part when he ran after the parents really broke down
@ayikobuabenardurugbo0014 ай бұрын
Ending part is so emotional
@saphiranahabwe45273 ай бұрын
Really breaks my heart bambi, I hope Mr Ataho and the parents are okay now and adjusting. Sucks that we all have to go through this, looks like down right torture, but yet it kinda has to happen.
@lydiahjrgensen54124 ай бұрын
Awwwwiiiiiiiii this last part got me emotional 😢😢😢😢poor little Selassie has no choice I guess he feels betrayed by both of you 😂😂😂😂we hope he catches up very soon and we get to see him running around and smiling ❤❤❤
@faidajackie91493 ай бұрын
If most of African parents could bond and cooperate like both of you for our kids,, I think everyday would be local chicken 🐓 😂.. well done,, this memory was wel captured and kept in archive for ur child
@joanamushabe26414 ай бұрын
Mwankora eki , I think I wasn't ready to watch, I think I will do home schooling for my son eki tinkakibaasa bagyenzi
@ruthnambooze82792 ай бұрын
Kansime, I love you dearly, and this is a special moment in any parents life, im so proud of you... Mama, I hate to be a Debbie downer, but dear, you can't be in a seatbelt without a baby being a restrain while the car is moving, please. I'm a mom x3
@SoeFoods4 ай бұрын
OMG not Selassie growing up before our own eyes..our internet nephew ❤❤