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@HelperHelps-ek4yj Жыл бұрын
can u boost my low energy level dear ☺️🙏?
@zubair_india Жыл бұрын
I believe in eye contact with interviewer With logical answers
@Mukilcse4 ай бұрын
Give me number
@सिखते_रहोАй бұрын
Hi
@user-gh4bv1vk1h24 күн бұрын
Ok
@arpansaha8323 Жыл бұрын
Tried the first tip in an interview, I looked so powerful that the HR humbly asked me to leave 😅😂
@shaxzoda7379 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 you should add “How you doin” part .
@bbernardino21 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@kaufmanat1 Жыл бұрын
Lol, will have a similar effect on dates.
@priyanshusahu001 Жыл бұрын
@@shaxzoda7379 Joey .. are your there 🤣
@oracle3415 Жыл бұрын
@@priyanshusahu001 Chal be angrez ke aulad....Jai Modi
@thomaskatt4450 Жыл бұрын
a room full of people all like this would be funny asf
@kp77777 Жыл бұрын
Trying too hard 😂
@fnma21 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@charnjitsingh3365 Жыл бұрын
Sarcasm
@The_Butcher-k31 Жыл бұрын
Bruh, no kidding 🤣🤣🤣
@travislee9662 Жыл бұрын
Everybody trying to out alpha each other just sitting down 😂
@choudharysahabmusic3513 Жыл бұрын
It's all fun until you try this in interview😊😅
@araz9112 ай бұрын
putting a leg is not confident posture, its a wall of protection and also may be interpreted as weak
@sherylsalender Жыл бұрын
I have the ability to sense if the person is trying to look confident or who is truly confident at all. Energy never lies.
@md.mohsin60392 ай бұрын
Fake it till you make it.
@paulaCvenecia2 ай бұрын
Some of us see that 1 mile away 😅
@michaelhatfield343013 күн бұрын
Exactly . I can see right through it.
@zoix-f9oКүн бұрын
keep that energy to yourselves and 🤡
@codymanley40 Жыл бұрын
“How to sit like a movie villain.”
@sammich_777 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@user-sh3mb1es5x Жыл бұрын
Like you
@laddu683 Жыл бұрын
Right
@SouvenTuduCODOH8 ай бұрын
🤣😂
@PusheenDeCat7 ай бұрын
Great ive learned how to mimic all these steps but Haha I also feel like my eyes are watering what emotion is that supposed to display?
@yumis77 Жыл бұрын
You wanna look confident not arrogant
@sarailesias Жыл бұрын
My thoughts!
@Ajax2696 Жыл бұрын
There’s a thin line between those it’s difficult to portray yourself without arrogance
@Shutupbradley Жыл бұрын
@@ronaldflint681 great point, I didn’t think “arrogant” looking at this
@suttukunju5234 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way
@sankeolsimicklepcha9703 Жыл бұрын
Looking arrogant is not my business it is you the beholder who interprets me that way, you stupid. Arrogance is in your talk. "You look arrogant is a stupid sentence." Rather one behaves and talks arrogantly.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Ronitbroy Жыл бұрын
Keep any posture that makes you feel enthusiastic , confident and ready to engage. There are no rules really.
@Amazeproductions158 Жыл бұрын
apne hijab se se Karo Jai hind Jai bharat apne
@mommafoxxdiaries65097 ай бұрын
Yesss ! Yess!!❤
@adnansayeed71554 ай бұрын
@@Amazeproductions158what's wrong with you
@pietro4772 Жыл бұрын
I neither deem it necessary to broadcast my confidence nor seek recognition of my confidence. That is confidence. The confidence of being you.
@steelersgirl3063 Жыл бұрын
Well said
@juliusjohnson4829 Жыл бұрын
Beta
@C-Ra Жыл бұрын
Always keep them guessing.
@DaskaiserreichNet78 Жыл бұрын
@@juliusjohnson4829 negative.
@fatimasiddiqui2604 Жыл бұрын
right on point !
@subhashreeBengalTigress1504 Жыл бұрын
If I will sit like this , my whole environment will call me ' MANNERLESS ' !!
@manar_als Жыл бұрын
Rejecting natural feminine poses and viewing masculine poses as the “confident” poses ❌
@426338 ай бұрын
Soo true man
@ankitap25116 ай бұрын
Was looking for this comment
@7ebr8305 ай бұрын
I made a similar comment, but it will probably get banned because I used words like lesbian, etc. I wonder if _this_ comment will survive?
@Kristenm284 ай бұрын
Bingo
@cousinsister694 ай бұрын
You equate females with having poor posture, lacking confidence, limp bodies, lowered heads and performing self soothing mannerisms as their usual body language? This just isn't factual. Confidence doesn't belong to only one sex.
@samtruptimohanty6162 Жыл бұрын
You needn't cross your legs to look confident Just sit up straight and look them in the eye...that's how you display confidence without looking arrogant or cocky
@taslimaakter7042 Жыл бұрын
agree
@shalomleftismisalie3470 Жыл бұрын
Crossing our legs with the feet facing down shows we are respectful and confident. Please don't stick to nasty Indian sexism.
@somyajha8324 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@deniseneumann Жыл бұрын
What is arrogant about crossing the legs?
@shalomleftismisalie3470 Жыл бұрын
@@deniseneumann Indians are first-grade hypocrites. That's why they cannot find the difference between confidence and arrogance. Being an Indian, I face so much hostility for embracing chivalry and self-esteem every day.
@JohnvanGurp Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad to be at the age where I just don’t care anymore… I just do whatever comes naturally.
@joebeta1837 Жыл бұрын
For you and I to think alike, we must be brothers from different mothers.
@Jacki79 Жыл бұрын
Exactly ☺️💯
@mihaitatiberiubalan5907 Жыл бұрын
So it supposed to be, naturally.
@cv1234-s2j Жыл бұрын
Truth! No need to fake it.
@wing_gundamzero_5433 Жыл бұрын
This is the way
@alexanderbemar2637 Жыл бұрын
Posture does not count for me, a clean and loyal heart does. ❤
@pingpongpaddlehead Жыл бұрын
Posture comes naturally with this. ❤
@babytheresalight6699 Жыл бұрын
A clean heart?
@pingpongpaddlehead Жыл бұрын
@@babytheresalight6699 cleanliness is godliness
@heisenberg5747 Жыл бұрын
Well you can have both 😉 besides a poor posture is unhealthy and won't bring you very far in life..if you get further in live you also get the ressources to help more people and then your heart is even "more clean"
@mathopedia8100 Жыл бұрын
Yes for me too... But i don't get people like you everywhere..
@charusharma20 Жыл бұрын
Intimidating Postures screaming Strength ❤
@navya.s26 Жыл бұрын
Being confident doesn't mean you have to sit haughtily like a king.
@If_YouMean_GreenPaprika_YesSir Жыл бұрын
"King in the castle, king in the castle. I have a chair, I have a chair."
@AMANGAMING2403 Жыл бұрын
I just sit comfortably where ever I go i don't care about a shit what other thinks😂😂😂
@vikramdhakad6099 Жыл бұрын
Yo man, you r my type
@chippyanirudhan6538 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@poyakhajei2585 Жыл бұрын
same here however I try to go by the situation... when i need to assure the person that I'm listing to them i try to have Eye contact and let the person have the hand in the conversetion... so i would be in a comfortable posture
@rtoriq Жыл бұрын
Thank God, free-willed humans still exist!
@emp9413 Жыл бұрын
Then you don't need this :)
@karandeshmukh3268 Жыл бұрын
We Gentlemens never look at these things in any girl....we just want a loving & respectful angel♥️‼️
@Hello_there497 Жыл бұрын
Tried becoming confident in front of my teacher 🙂 next u know 🔪
@HariNair108 Жыл бұрын
That subtle line between looking confident and over dramatic.
@emp9413 Жыл бұрын
Yes triangle finger thing is pretentious and unnatural according to behaviour panel. Rest good advice
@slipperywhenwat Жыл бұрын
One of the biggest mistakes a person can make in their professional, romantic, and social lives is failing to differentiate confidence from competence.
@caimase311 Жыл бұрын
This!!!!
@GPS.GhostPirateSloan Жыл бұрын
This is one of the (hundreds) of things stunning and brave wahmern-ists will never get. They get to play dress up like men- but QUICK to call “time out” when the smoke comes smmfh
@slipperywhenwat Жыл бұрын
@Kelly M you don’t agree?
@slipperywhenwat Жыл бұрын
@Kelly M it actually isn’t. I’m a Jiu Jitsu / grappling / mma hobbyist and I sweat a lot when I train. In fact, there’s this running joke at my gym that I’m the sweatiest person alive and it’s impossible to get a hold of me. Many people think I have hyper hydrosis or something. They started calling me WAT after that cardi B song as an acronym for “Wet Ass Taylor” (my first name). It’s kind of embarrassing because it’s gross to a lot of people. So, as an attempt to be endearing, I embraced the nickname WAT and that’s how everyone at my gym knows me. We all have fun nicknames and we all bag on each other in harmless ways. So, my belt, some of my gi’s and my bags all have the tagline Slippery When WAT on them. It’s just a fun play on words. Nothing perverted about it.
@user-tj7rt5nn6r Жыл бұрын
When I see someone sitting in the "first confident position" I don't see confidence, I see arrogance and someone ready to be confrontational. In turn, I ready myself for a fight.
@hfjsjdhnd705 Жыл бұрын
Bro what
@erikaweber_ Жыл бұрын
Yep
@keh-dalia809 Жыл бұрын
or they just have sweaty balls while still tryna be business. lol
@noc427 Жыл бұрын
For me too. IMHO For some reason that I can't fully explain, I find the postures she suggests to avoid more appealing. The other posture conveys that she is more confident in herself but also, at least in my opinion, that she is more arrogant and less approachable.
@kinetic_Intelligence. Жыл бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mM6RatWou9XSnWg.html Parsing body language ANGELINA JOLIE
@rexbobby6406 Жыл бұрын
What these body language "trainers" don't understand is that you can't fake body language. It is primal and associated with your limbic brain, which makes it so authentic and powerful in the first place. If your mind is not feeling confident, you won't be able to assume this "power pose" for long, and it will do more harm than good (during interviews and such)
@rexbobby64066 күн бұрын
Thank you! Finally, someone called out these phony "coaches"
@angelsky68692 ай бұрын
That first move looks pretty masculine and very unladylike
@Gobs_gaming Жыл бұрын
Title must be How to make another person uncomfortable
@Krishang70 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@broskichannel4163 Жыл бұрын
facts
@zizyntax-1790 Жыл бұрын
💯%
@user-gp6vk2yg1x Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂bro
@moek8924 Жыл бұрын
LOL
@shannonhondo260 Жыл бұрын
If you’re a happy human being you’ll project great energy no matter what your body language is
@westmcgee9320 Жыл бұрын
False. It’s called “body language” for a reason. She’s telling people what these postures mean to others do people can choose to say, with their bodies, what they intend. You’re basically saying that if you’re thinking good thoughts, people will know it, no matter what you say. And that’s not his language works.
@glenforde6558 Жыл бұрын
Well...non verbal communication is the majority of communication. Sitting with good posture is a non verbal que to confidence.
@gurlallaali7388 Жыл бұрын
♥️
@daniesavage Жыл бұрын
now that's facts!
@adolfoherrera3147 Жыл бұрын
@@westmcgee9320 body language is a fraud
@rishiraj2548 Жыл бұрын
Excellent acting - for positive postures and negative postures - both. Wow!
@eshrath Жыл бұрын
Just focus on being the best at work and the rest will follow. Honestly, people can sniff very easily if you are good at what you do or not, and the respect will follow accordingly.
@tiraandaz Жыл бұрын
This is upside down. You dont COMMUNICATE confidence; you have it. When you are confident, your body language changes just by itself. And also when you are confident, the need to _communicate_ it fades away. You just dont care.
@bee8740 Жыл бұрын
That part
@1beautifulexistence4ever Жыл бұрын
So true
@pocasanchez Жыл бұрын
Right...but this is more of a fake it til you make it video. We all know having confidence is ideal but that doesn't mean everyone can just magically turn it on. However, they still want the job even if they have insecurities.
@rtoriq Жыл бұрын
Thank you. The posturing MUST STOP.
@rtoriq Жыл бұрын
Everyone wants to “act” like everything they do is theatre. GTFOH; how is that a way to truly live life?
@Umtree Жыл бұрын
Nothing looks weaker than someone faking body language. I always look nervous, but have no fear and will dominate every situation.
@ezequielmartinez3582 Жыл бұрын
yea right lol
@audreyshannon8709 Жыл бұрын
I do all lol
@mihaitatiberiubalan5907 Жыл бұрын
In ourdays they are all therapists, shrinks, and so on.
@Umtree Жыл бұрын
@@ezequielmartinez3582 you got me. In fact I find myself faking body language all the time and crumbling under pressure. But typing I’m strong made me feel good.
@SeaJayBelfast Жыл бұрын
The fact you're writing about it on KZfaq suggests you're extremely self conscious and need to anonymously tell people you're confident in order to feel better
@dudeasp1 Жыл бұрын
So basically act more masculine as masculinity is actually not toxic! Hail to the boyz!
@slagletoby Жыл бұрын
To be slightly insecure is also part of modestly which I greatly admired in a person.
@nocomments5029 Жыл бұрын
No, highly insecure people boasts how great they are to others, they need the constant validation , while the ones admitting they have some issues, are faking it, they don’t know they are faking it, because they don’t fit the norm, they believe society they’re not good enough, however to be able to point out your shortcomings is a huge sign of confidence, because you’re not afraid of confronting the flaw in yourself. However take a narcissist and tell them they’re imperfect, and they’ll either redirect the judgment back to you, or they’ll double down on how great they are. Perfection is fragile because any chip in the visage will challenge the reality of a narcissistic person. Whilst any good human being already know they got limitations, and that’s alright. So next time someone tells you they got insecurities, call out their lies, and tell them how confidence they truly are. Confidence is about looking at the mess of the world, and take care of what needs attention. People confused narcissism with confidence, and self awareness with insecurity.
@smores8982 Жыл бұрын
I agree. It’s actually a lot more genuine and reminds us that everyone is human
@ellasmith731 Жыл бұрын
Ofc you like it more Bcz insecure women are easy to control lol
@slagletoby Жыл бұрын
@@ellasmith731 Ella and Liam, you two need to be friends you’re likeminded. Keep a little insecurity for yourself it can be quite charming to others. If you’re human we all have it. Otherwise try being kind, it works sometimes. ;-)
@afternoondelight1240 Жыл бұрын
Anything is possible when you think with your head and not your head Toby
@guywithamoustache2391 Жыл бұрын
When I feel uncomfortable, I stare at people’s soul to get them uncomfortable.
@Cici_mimi Жыл бұрын
Bruh I do the same. Lool!
@shreshthi3040 Жыл бұрын
😂 Me too
@chippyanirudhan6538 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@freebee9172 Жыл бұрын
Does it work hhh
@skubydubydu Жыл бұрын
Found the actual life hack
@MrHarshxyt Жыл бұрын
*When i sat like this*/My mom make me ductile,sonorous,and a good conductor of heat and electricity
@Narcissistic.nAz_i Жыл бұрын
POV: You are a 16 year old girl who searched how to appear confident, but on bing💀.
@kianoosh352 Жыл бұрын
Its called body language because it's your body's way of communicating how its feeling on the inside, so instead of working on faking the appearance of confidance and happiness we could actually work on being those things and really feeling happy and confident and our body will show that naturally. ✌️😊
@nephastgweiz1022 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Don't act. Don't learn. Don't pretend. Make the changes in your life so that your body language actually reflect the pride you have in yourself.
@tymondabrowski12 Жыл бұрын
@@nephastgweiz1022 I can't imagine a person who usually sits like in the first example (with their head and expression like that) to be able to sit in that "better" position without feeling way more exposed and self-conscious, and even less confident.
@anakein Жыл бұрын
Word.
@fnma21 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@turnfrmsinorhell_jesus Жыл бұрын
Let Jesus in and keep his word as in bible book Matthew, you will be exactly as you need to be .
@jvg7566 Жыл бұрын
I did this in an interview. It's been 1 month , i still haven't heard anything from them. Hope I impressed them
@SaravanaKumarFellowBeing Жыл бұрын
😂😂 point blank
@Gobs_gaming Жыл бұрын
They will call you wait bro
@caesartattoobodyart7533 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@SheCitrine Жыл бұрын
If you are man you will bcz the positions were apt for males not females
@excellence_is_me Жыл бұрын
Lol
@OnlyGursikhi Жыл бұрын
if you want to get rejected in the interview. this is the best pose.
@willliebenrood9178 Жыл бұрын
Dude. This woman is so fucking gorgeous. I’m in love.
@booksindemand Жыл бұрын
It's not about appearing confident it's about being confident first, then you just appear it naturally
@c0d3_m0nk3y Жыл бұрын
While this is true, it's easy to say "just be confident". I think, just making somebody aware of what kind of message they are giving with their body language goes a long way. There is a reason why women often get paid less - they are often just not as confident in job interviews. So advice like this can be very helpful.
@jebril Жыл бұрын
Yea if you know what you're doing you can sit like the beginning and people will still respect you, I know cuz I do that lol
@megancarroll Жыл бұрын
Fake it til you make it!
@Tom_McMurtry Жыл бұрын
Doing what makes you appear more confident can actually make you more confident
@1theguitarfreak Жыл бұрын
Wrong
@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 Жыл бұрын
The woman in the video is absolutely beautiful. Wow. What a smile.
@Dawn-Songs7 ай бұрын
I find it funny that even when i am talking on both my landline and mobile phones , i still wave my hands about when describing something 😂
@ghostrider8307 Жыл бұрын
A person could have wrong body language but could be extremely strong mentally. And vice versa.
@moel3613 Жыл бұрын
I’m agree with you 10000000000000%
@steelersgirl3063 Жыл бұрын
When I sit down I just wanna sit not make people think if I’m weak or powerful, I know what I bring to the table without having to prove that through sitting lol
@basilkhalili9312 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. She just want to make YT content, but lacks creativity
@TheFriendlyPsychopath. Жыл бұрын
Soo what exactly are you bringing to the table besides a used clam?!
@musiccritic8971 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@jnkdubya37 Жыл бұрын
Yep
@joebeta1837 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. According to this lady, I look weak. But yet, I perform way better and have more energy than my coworkers. So, I'm confused. Am I weak or am I strong?
@susanaschwab55522 ай бұрын
I do need to sit like a man to show that I am confident
@phajduk86 Жыл бұрын
When you are a beast, from excess gym. Trying to be smaller to make everyone calmer helps I find..
@skabeche81 Жыл бұрын
Be always yourself, no matter how you sit on a chair
@rogerward3390 Жыл бұрын
Said no one ever
@graceperiod5352 Жыл бұрын
👍
@M60gunner1971 Жыл бұрын
@@rogerward3390 he said it.
@notallthatbad Жыл бұрын
Don't need body hacks, need confidence. Body will follow the mind.
@ham5483 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@cesgar7994 Жыл бұрын
Love it
@msimp0108 Жыл бұрын
You need to read some Anthony Robbins. Personally he kind of bugs me but the one thing I got from him that proved to be infallible was that mind and emotion conforms to posture. It may work the other way to some extent but what she is demonstrating here is fundamental and very important.
@moel3613 Жыл бұрын
And even send or build an energy positive in the environment you at or to the one or the group a front of you subconsciously . Vladimir Putin doesn’t have any fucking language not even a clear smile . The whole fucking world it stuck with him now
@lescap1209 Жыл бұрын
She's just trying to act like a man.
@pratishthadubey9397 Жыл бұрын
Confident lady always look confident ...pose doesn't matter ...👍..
@harishchandrapadole1673 Жыл бұрын
For me, sitting relaxed or comfortably works
@lescap1209 Жыл бұрын
How to be confident is what you need to learn. Not fake confidence.
@SunnyDlite84 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, thinking about it looks and posing is easily seen thru.
@J.Dean7777 Жыл бұрын
Facts,
@pokiidoki5532 Жыл бұрын
You could fake it till you make it 🤷🏾.
@thealohamu808 Жыл бұрын
Actually psychology research shows that body gestures tells your brain how one feels. So they say if you want to be happy more, smile and your body tells your brain that you are happy. The same goes with confidence. Science.
@BucksTheBear Жыл бұрын
Fake confidence literally is confidence. Studies show if you fake confidence (with bodylanguage) it sends signals to your brain, causing you to get more confident🤷🏼
@TheGargoyle Жыл бұрын
I’m so tired of social media telling people how i should act or what to think. If someone is insecure let them be insecure. There would be nothing more awkward than approach someone based on their body language and then be called a sexist with toxic masculinity because someone was faking their posture to look a certain way instead of being who they are.
@rmp9417 Жыл бұрын
Get informed
@eenchantress5113 Жыл бұрын
Let them be insecure? Please Elaborate?
@wordswordswords8203 Жыл бұрын
I agree with this. We should just be who we actually are. But I understand why she made the video and it's kind of interesting.
@ericwilliams538 Жыл бұрын
@@eenchantress5113 we live in a day and age that if you are a stronger, secure person, and you see, or are around someone that isn't...you simply just be a good person, just simply be a good fellow human being to them. There is nothing more important than simply doing just that!!! It actually shouldn't be necessary for anyone to explain that. Then if everyone is just good to one another, then possibly no one would have to be insecure about themselves. You can disagree all you want, that's perfectly fine....
@kevinwest3689 Жыл бұрын
Your on the internet. In the comment section. Telling people what your sick of. As if, 1. The world is your pen pal 2. No one made you watch the video 3. Question if your confidence level is so high that you feel that everybody should hear your opinion, then aren't you trying to straighten everyone out like KZfaq🤔 if you look in the mirror and see a 🤪🐓🍭, dont get mad at the mirror 🎭
@Tincanturtle Жыл бұрын
I mean tbh, real confidence is something that exudes out regardless of what position you take. I think the fact that you try to “appear” more confident is already based on insecurity
@TheRealMisterChopShop Жыл бұрын
You got the best advice I seem to be doing that all the time where I touch my arms when I’m nervous, but my hands have no problem doing what they do😂
@tonydanis1480 Жыл бұрын
The most powerful human I know slouches in his seat, avoids eye contact and stares at the floor , yet has an overwhelming presence.
@ismailmiah1446 Жыл бұрын
Good point. ..cannot judge so easy on appearances. ..even in sports like boxing. ..people like beterbiev /inoue /pacqiauo /ggg are killers yet they act like public educated nerds
@doroparker1702 Жыл бұрын
Who is the most powerful human you know? Your teenage son?
@ismailmiah1446 Жыл бұрын
@@doroparker1702 why can't it be you twatt???
@doroparker1702 Жыл бұрын
@Margaret Christian Yes, maybe he is thinking of Elon Musk but he is very wrong. Elon Musk is not powerful. He is just very rich and he can get things done for his companies. He bought Twitter. So what? Others did put up their claims decades ago. Power is something very different. Power is ruling the world like Gilly Bates. He bought all newspapers worldwide, all international organizations and every organization that is involved in medical needs. He changed so many things that no longer governments have power in their own countries. All members of world health organization will have a lockdown if he tells them. It is his private organization. It is paid by member countries and by him but it is his private company. Trump refused to pay millions of US American tax money to WHO. He canceled the contract. Stupid chancelor Angela Merkel of Germany made up for the missing money from USA. She took the millions from German taxpayers and gave it to her best buddy Gilly Bates. He proudly stated he had her private number on speed dial. She is a very stupid and naive woman. Grew up on the country side in the poorest region of Eastern Germany. She was asked about her strongest side. Her answer was that she was good in being obedient. This is very bad. The head of a country must be strong. She never ruled. She was ruled by Gilly Bates.
@missmayflower Жыл бұрын
If you’re talking about Elon Musk, he never had to go for a job interview.
@karate4348 Жыл бұрын
Being happy and comfortable is beautiful, fun, trustworthy, reliable and truly true!
@ryankelly9032 Жыл бұрын
Basically, sit like you’re comfortable, not like your nervous.
@elegantchrisarts001 Жыл бұрын
I'd advice people to be normal. Not everyone can fake confidence and make it....
@davidd34 Жыл бұрын
We're all "actors" in the game called life. Mere puppets at any given time to either of one of two controllng spiritual entities.
@cosmicboy7188 Жыл бұрын
@@davidd34 That was thoughtful
@adarshparmar839 Жыл бұрын
Interviewer will kick me out.
@anthonyholden5018 Жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with self soothing. I love to see a woman self soothing... 😮🎉😊
@whizgal851 Жыл бұрын
The confident postures are so funny no one sits like that in interviews.
@overthemoonflorist9135 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@scottwall8419 Жыл бұрын
those "confidence" postures are mimicked from "strong men" in movies which aren't real men. they are fictionalized representations to sell you something idealized. a good seating position in any situation is just having good posture with good eye contact and paying attention.
@investfoxy Жыл бұрын
Confidence comes from how you think and what you speak
@SKOLAH Жыл бұрын
75%+ of human interaction and communication is non-verbal, hence conveyed via body language... SMH 🤦♀️
@akkusingh517 Жыл бұрын
no
@rahulb1069 Жыл бұрын
@@SKOLAHthat's from the University of America. Not reality 😅😅😅
@anonymous3479 Жыл бұрын
@@SKOLAHnot really
@Leeejahyup Жыл бұрын
Haha ur being delusional
@ChristosAnesti337 ай бұрын
So I have to pretend to be something I’m not, got it
@Niche4Sure Жыл бұрын
This reminds me of a Brooklyn Nine-Nine episode. About a TED talks on power poses.
@Bearintheair Жыл бұрын
You’ll do what you feel. Don’t fake how you don’t feel. That’ll always come off wrong. Start with confidence and body language FOLLOWS. There’s no “fake it till you make it” here…they’ll know as soon as you open your mouth, or fail to…
@ChristDynasty Жыл бұрын
16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. 18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
@Rebholtz Жыл бұрын
Bingo
@jigglepuff871 Жыл бұрын
Or you could just be confident without trying to show you are confident. That is true confidence 😉
@streetsurvivalsecrets Жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@ravza1379 Жыл бұрын
I don't agree.it effects your confidence like power of your brain and if you continue to do that you'll start to become it
@Letthy_oliverr Жыл бұрын
@@ravza1379no it doesnt. Confidence is KNOWING youre able to do something. It comes only and ONLY from experience. Years of proving yo yourself that youre able to do something. No amount of moving or not moving or whatever position will give you confidence. All it does is give you some momentarily motivation to establish yourself. Confidence is earned. Theres no shortcuts you lazy fuck do the work
@ravza1379 Жыл бұрын
@@Letthy_oliverr what rubbish u talking about? I didn't say that you will become a confidence person suddenly. İt is just first step becoming it. Your behaviours are just result of your habits. So if you repat the same behaviours consistenly it is gonna become a habit. Realize how powerful your brain is. Don't fake it till you make it fake it till you become it. I reccommend listening to that ted talk.
@joebeta1837 Жыл бұрын
Mr Puff, I couldn't have said it better myself.
@tanishashokeen5195 Жыл бұрын
And with this powerful body language I’ll straight be rejected in any interview 🥹
@swettyspaghtti Жыл бұрын
Yeah this is how I sit at a table with just a beer when no seats at the bar. I just act like I own the place
@user-ev8lm4vd1y2 күн бұрын
Le maam:- cheeeeth😂 Le student:-sorry maam😂
@Walkwithme8341 Жыл бұрын
Sad part of education is that common sense cannot be taught
@Queen-uj9jt Жыл бұрын
👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
@robinsilvers362 Жыл бұрын
Parents teach common sense... or should
@salookie8000 Жыл бұрын
Some are born with it and some not. 😢
@If_YouMean_GreenPaprika_YesSir Жыл бұрын
@@salookie8000 "Maybe it's maybelline"
@blivak8230 Жыл бұрын
I've sent this video to all my colleagues at work. The next meeting should be very interesting.
@lizrain2210 Жыл бұрын
😂
@chrisiestan5921 Жыл бұрын
oh you made me laugh, i needed that after a long and tough day at work. thank you so much!
@ukmedicfrcs Жыл бұрын
Try sitting this way and lean forward and heartily chuckle at anything anyone says.
@czos9239 Жыл бұрын
So what happened? Half were obnoxious, taking up way too much room (potentially with stinky feet - what are those? Socks? Put your shoes back on...) so maybe there was a throw down. Meanwhile the other half did the megalomaniac steepled finger thing, scamming for their fav donut, and then threw down when someone inevitably lost out. This channel's a potential wrecking ball.
@monabhatra9193 Жыл бұрын
😅
@persiagil1488 Жыл бұрын
Body language is the manifestation of your inner state. Because I have a very strong personality, I automatically exude confidence and power in how carry and project myself. But for those people who are not and try to act like like their opposite inner state, they appear awkward and unsettled. This comes out automatically.
@KhasAdun1990 Жыл бұрын
I've found that as my confidence grew, I automatically adopted a more relaxed position in general. One thing in this vein that helped me was looking at myself in a full body mirror and standing how I normally stood, with my shoulders forward and down. Then I pulled my shoulders back, like Superman but with my arms still at my sides, and I saw a surprising difference in the energy I appeared to exhibit. Doing this did get me into the habit of keeping my shoulders back, and I think that has had a positive effect on how people responded to me, which in turn had a positive effect on how I felt both in public and after being in public.
@brokenarrow-zz7ch Жыл бұрын
I did this in a job interview once. The boss asked me if he was hired 😂
@29_D_ Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂full confidence
@kudz247 Жыл бұрын
Legend!!
@AV24274 Жыл бұрын
If only you didn’t laugh at the end of your own joke this comment woulda blew up. Shame
@ananyajere Жыл бұрын
Lmaoo
@ShadowKaneki Жыл бұрын
Sitting like this in exam hall when u didn't study anything
@fnma21 Жыл бұрын
And you will pass because you "looked" confident 🤣
@amandasi8967 Жыл бұрын
I Did this confident stance the other day as I was getting a written warning , scared the crap out of HR 😂😂😂
@radeonblue1816 Жыл бұрын
Acting confident rather then being one is itself a weakness 😅😂
@johnnysack3808 Жыл бұрын
Confidence is a state of mind ✨️ NOT A SEATING POSITION!
@AK47HEAVYMETAL83 Жыл бұрын
True, sit confidently and then shake while trying to talk 😂🤣 “I am confidently having a nervous breakdown.” 😂😂😂
@themaggattack Жыл бұрын
@@AK47HEAVYMETAL83 🤣
@emp9413 Жыл бұрын
Untrue. How you hold your body will affect how you feel, and will allow people to read you.
@unicornadrian1358 Жыл бұрын
How you carry yourself is an indicator of how confident you are. Us humans also have a cool thing where we can use our body position to alter our mood. However at a job interview or other stressful situation is not the place to try it out. Practise being mindful of body position in every day life and it will become more natural.
@fuckyoutube4changingmyusername Жыл бұрын
She said "make you APPEAR"
@bin-ob Жыл бұрын
Ma’am, confident is not about your body, it’s about your mind.
@Frugal637 Жыл бұрын
Your body language projects your mind
@ramrajah5460 Жыл бұрын
@@Frugal637 yes but the vice versa is not true.
@Letthy_oliverr Жыл бұрын
@@Frugal637 yeah and if your mind is not genuinely confident but « i gotta look confident » Thats what your body will project, fake confidence and insecurity Confidence is earned, not learned.
@dariojuric1618 Жыл бұрын
@@Frugal637 People fake body language nowadays, its all they do in public. Try hiding true confidence with less confident body language, its such a learning experience.
@Amor_fati.Memento_Mori Жыл бұрын
@@Frugal637 If that was then this teaching wouldn't make any sense.
@IamPJKisiel Жыл бұрын
This video just made me realize we are all just a bunch of actors, Oprah is giving you an Emmy award and you get one and you get one we all get one.
@nointerference1117 күн бұрын
Our natural state determines our body language, we can't fake it that much😂
@ClearAdventure Жыл бұрын
I have to agree with this. Same for men. The best thing is holding your head high with your shoulders back. It exudes confidence. Bad posture is a clear sign of doubt.
@Hammern28 Жыл бұрын
Or a bad back. Or sleepy. Or whatever.
@soniamo4139 Жыл бұрын
Be yourself, be confident self soothe if you need to, accept how you are, love yourself, be kind to others and stand strong. The rest will come.
@tommydinob Жыл бұрын
It’s also ok to just be yourself, be comfortable, and not worry about what anyone thinks.
@gforce9596 Жыл бұрын
It depends on your goals and job, and industry. Some people have a situation where they don't have to care what others think about the way they sit. Others do not have that luxury, or have goals in a setting where those objectives are influenced by your visual and physical factors. Just the way some things are in some lifestyles, settings, and job industries.
@missmayflower Жыл бұрын
Not in a job interview.
@casey3635 Жыл бұрын
@@gforce9596 Dude good point
@christins.1481 Жыл бұрын
@@missmayflower Be yourself in a job interview. Not only does it show what you're employer is hiring it also shows you if the company is good enough for you. Unless you're just desperate for a job.
@borisjankovici662 Жыл бұрын
Yes, that's where the answer is: in middle. Not looking timid and not looking like a tool.
@777Bviews Жыл бұрын
I display my confidence by squating on the chair with my fingers in the triangle pose along my head tilted left at a 25° angle
@rohansingh4515 Жыл бұрын
Well there is a difference between a Feminine and masculine body language
@MrDE5MOND Жыл бұрын
Exactly 👌🏾
@techjavaid6177 Жыл бұрын
Lol 😂😂😂
@yms4355 Жыл бұрын
How is being confident a masculine behaviour? You okay???
@SwaRaJ_075 Жыл бұрын
@@yms4355 read it again
@jungkookisnotyouroppa1537 Жыл бұрын
Yeah but everyone is not small-minded, high standard people do not differentiate, they develop instead.
@therealkoolaidandkale Жыл бұрын
You can also work on your confidence so that it naturally shows in how you carry yourself.
@Alisha-ef4vj Жыл бұрын
Yep exactly
@darrylgordon5170 Жыл бұрын
This isn't "working on your confidence"?
@UFOxBAE Жыл бұрын
This 🔥
@aamnamukhtar2492Ай бұрын
facial expressions also play a big role here. if you have a pleasant expression with this body language, you exude confidence instead of arrogance. a twisted/blank expression shows you'd rather be anywhere else than there, and that, is arrogance.
@StarShopping01 Жыл бұрын
In school the teacher be like:😂 Get lost!
@PowerstrokeSynd Жыл бұрын
Just be you. Nobody can tell you how you should be. Just be you.
@wintertontoday Жыл бұрын
Sometimes "you" is insufficient though. And yes, I am speaking for myself haha
@hanac5586 Жыл бұрын
@@wintertontoday lmao yeah :D I think this works at least with teachers. The teacher whose body language appears more relaxed and confident keeps my attention longer and makes me (with an anxiety disorder) feel more at ease too. It's cool how big of a difference body language can make.
@AnnaPoli800 Жыл бұрын
Its not just about body postures its the whole energy of the person. You can pretend to be anything but being is different
@altafumraniiАй бұрын
When you grow mentally and physically body posture will auto correct it self. ❤
@user-sh3mb1es5x Жыл бұрын
If you sit like that in Indian school you will be in out side of the classroom 🤣😅😂
@stratafunk Жыл бұрын
The triangle thing is the most “I’m insecure” move ever.
@riceandramen Жыл бұрын
Agree
@Selfdestuctiongig Жыл бұрын
me : sitting like this in front of my asian mom *SLIPPER FLIES *👡👡👠👢🎇🎆
@Devianita45 Жыл бұрын
If u sit like this in a upsc interview u must be rejected by the interviewer 😂😂
@natiavitiacastillo5994 Жыл бұрын
I used my hands and it turns out my sister thought that was aggression 😮
@Faith_8888 Жыл бұрын
Lol , when your manager discussing about your performance then this pose is perfect 😂😂
@seaneckhart9914 Жыл бұрын
Lmaooooo
@wulan.backpacker Жыл бұрын
Thanks for making me laugh 😂
@RedNovaMedia Жыл бұрын
News flash: sit whichever way makes you feel comfortable… and let your work do the talking
@ayushsrivastava2796 Жыл бұрын
@Elkster Eidolon with an "o"?
@shaun787max Жыл бұрын
Says the unconfident person 😅
@robindobson7901 Жыл бұрын
That’s literally what all of us do already.. this is a video on how to appear more confident.. which you won’t if you’re hunched over and rubbing yourself ect 😂 if we were all naturally confident we wouldn’t be watching this video
@eesoteric. Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@JasmineThanai Жыл бұрын
I’d like to say if you appear to “confident”, it come off narcissistically, such as prideful, to cocky. Not having emotion concerned more about appearance, can be very “vain”. I’d say do what you feel is appropriate for YOU, body language is good, but I’ll tell you, usually it’s always one doing the speculation on another, usually in negative relationships behaviors, interrogation, court etc. anyways peace ☮️ & ❤ to you all 😊
@aditisaxena98911 ай бұрын
Using this body language will simply su me away from an interview 😂