can u boost my low energy level dear ☺️🙏?

I believe in eye contact with interviewer With logical answers

Give me number

Hi

Ok

😂😂😂 you should add “How you doin” part .

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Lol, will have a similar effect on dates.

​@@shaxzoda7379 Joey .. are your there 🤣

@@priyanshusahu001 Chal be angrez ke aulad....Jai Modi

Trying too hard 😂

😂😂

Sarcasm

Bruh, no kidding 🤣🤣🤣

Everybody trying to out alpha each other just sitting down 😂

putting a leg is not confident posture, its a wall of protection and also may be interpreted as weak

Fake it till you make it.

Some of us see that 1 mile away 😅

Exactly . I can see right through it.

keep that energy to yourselves and 🤡

Exactly!

Like you

Right

🤣😂

Great ive learned how to mimic all these steps but Haha I also feel like my eyes are watering what emotion is that supposed to display?

My thoughts!

There’s a thin line between those it’s difficult to portray yourself without arrogance

@@ronaldflint681 great point, I didn’t think “arrogant” looking at this

I feel the same way

Looking arrogant is not my business it is you the beholder who interprets me that way, you stupid. Arrogance is in your talk. "You look arrogant is a stupid sentence." Rather one behaves and talks arrogantly.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

apne hijab se se Karo Jai hind Jai bharat apne

Yesss ! Yess!!❤

​@@Amazeproductions158what's wrong with you

Well said

Beta

Always keep them guessing.

@@juliusjohnson4829 negative.

right on point !

Soo true man

Was looking for this comment

I made a similar comment, but it will probably get banned because I used words like lesbian, etc. I wonder if _this_ comment will survive?

Bingo

You equate females with having poor posture, lacking confidence, limp bodies, lowered heads and performing self soothing mannerisms as their usual body language? This just isn't factual. Confidence doesn't belong to only one sex.

agree

Crossing our legs with the feet facing down shows we are respectful and confident. Please don't stick to nasty Indian sexism.

Yes

What is arrogant about crossing the legs?

@@deniseneumann Indians are first-grade hypocrites. That's why they cannot find the difference between confidence and arrogance. Being an Indian, I face so much hostility for embracing chivalry and self-esteem every day.

For you and I to think alike, we must be brothers from different mothers.

Exactly ☺️💯

So it supposed to be, naturally.

Truth! No need to fake it.

This is the way

Posture comes naturally with this. ❤

A clean heart?

@@babytheresalight6699 cleanliness is godliness

Well you can have both 😉 besides a poor posture is unhealthy and won't bring you very far in life..if you get further in live you also get the ressources to help more people and then your heart is even "more clean"

Yes for me too... But i don't get people like you everywhere..

"King in the castle, king in the castle. I have a chair, I have a chair."

Yo man, you r my type

😂😂

same here however I try to go by the situation... when i need to assure the person that I'm listing to them i try to have Eye contact and let the person have the hand in the conversetion... so i would be in a comfortable posture

Thank God, free-willed humans still exist!

Then you don't need this :)

Yes triangle finger thing is pretentious and unnatural according to behaviour panel. Rest good advice

This!!!!

This is one of the (hundreds) of things stunning and brave wahmern-ists will never get. They get to play dress up like men- but QUICK to call “time out” when the smoke comes smmfh

@Kelly M you don’t agree?

@Kelly M it actually isn’t. I’m a Jiu Jitsu / grappling / mma hobbyist and I sweat a lot when I train. In fact, there’s this running joke at my gym that I’m the sweatiest person alive and it’s impossible to get a hold of me. Many people think I have hyper hydrosis or something. They started calling me WAT after that cardi B song as an acronym for “Wet Ass Taylor” (my first name). It’s kind of embarrassing because it’s gross to a lot of people. So, as an attempt to be endearing, I embraced the nickname WAT and that’s how everyone at my gym knows me. We all have fun nicknames and we all bag on each other in harmless ways. So, my belt, some of my gi’s and my bags all have the tagline Slippery When WAT on them. It’s just a fun play on words. Nothing perverted about it.

Bro what

Yep

or they just have sweaty balls while still tryna be business. lol

For me too. IMHO For some reason that I can't fully explain, I find the postures she suggests to avoid more appealing. The other posture conveys that she is more confident in herself but also, at least in my opinion, that she is more arrogant and less approachable.

kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mM6RatWou9XSnWg.html Parsing body language ANGELINA JOLIE

Thank you! Finally, someone called out these phony "coaches"

🤣🤣

facts

💯%

😂😂😂bro

LOL

False. It’s called “body language” for a reason. She’s telling people what these postures mean to others do people can choose to say, with their bodies, what they intend. You’re basically saying that if you’re thinking good thoughts, people will know it, no matter what you say. And that’s not his language works.

Well...non verbal communication is the majority of communication. Sitting with good posture is a non verbal que to confidence.

♥️

now that's facts!

@@westmcgee9320 body language is a fraud

That part

So true

Right...but this is more of a fake it til you make it video. We all know having confidence is ideal but that doesn't mean everyone can just magically turn it on. However, they still want the job even if they have insecurities.

Thank you. The posturing MUST STOP.

Everyone wants to “act” like everything they do is theatre. GTFOH; how is that a way to truly live life?

yea right lol

I do all lol

In ourdays they are all therapists, shrinks, and so on.

@@ezequielmartinez3582 you got me. In fact I find myself faking body language all the time and crumbling under pressure. But typing I’m strong made me feel good.

The fact you're writing about it on KZfaq suggests you're extremely self conscious and need to anonymously tell people you're confident in order to feel better

No, highly insecure people boasts how great they are to others, they need the constant validation , while the ones admitting they have some issues, are faking it, they don’t know they are faking it, because they don’t fit the norm, they believe society they’re not good enough, however to be able to point out your shortcomings is a huge sign of confidence, because you’re not afraid of confronting the flaw in yourself. However take a narcissist and tell them they’re imperfect, and they’ll either redirect the judgment back to you, or they’ll double down on how great they are. Perfection is fragile because any chip in the visage will challenge the reality of a narcissistic person. Whilst any good human being already know they got limitations, and that’s alright. So next time someone tells you they got insecurities, call out their lies, and tell them how confidence they truly are. Confidence is about looking at the mess of the world, and take care of what needs attention. People confused narcissism with confidence, and self awareness with insecurity.

I agree. It’s actually a lot more genuine and reminds us that everyone is human

Ofc you like it more Bcz insecure women are easy to control lol

@@ellasmith731 Ella and Liam, you two need to be friends you’re likeminded. Keep a little insecurity for yourself it can be quite charming to others. If you’re human we all have it. Otherwise try being kind, it works sometimes. ;-)

Anything is possible when you think with your head and not your head Toby

Bruh I do the same. Lool!

😂 Me too

😂😂

Does it work hhh

Found the actual life hack

Exactly. Don't act. Don't learn. Don't pretend. Make the changes in your life so that your body language actually reflect the pride you have in yourself.

@@nephastgweiz1022 I can't imagine a person who usually sits like in the first example (with their head and expression like that) to be able to sit in that "better" position without feeling way more exposed and self-conscious, and even less confident.

Word.

Exactly!

Let Jesus in and keep his word as in bible book Matthew, you will be exactly as you need to be .

😂😂 point blank

They will call you wait bro

😂😂

If you are man you will bcz the positions were apt for males not females

Lol

While this is true, it's easy to say "just be confident". I think, just making somebody aware of what kind of message they are giving with their body language goes a long way. There is a reason why women often get paid less - they are often just not as confident in job interviews. So advice like this can be very helpful.

Yea if you know what you're doing you can sit like the beginning and people will still respect you, I know cuz I do that lol

Fake it til you make it!

Doing what makes you appear more confident can actually make you more confident

Wrong

I’m agree with you 10000000000000%

Exactly. She just want to make YT content, but lacks creativity

Soo what exactly are you bringing to the table besides a used clam?!

😂😂😂😂

Yep

Exactly. According to this lady, I look weak. But yet, I perform way better and have more energy than my coworkers. So, I'm confused. Am I weak or am I strong?

Said no one ever

👍

​@@rogerward3390 he said it.

Exactly

Love it

You need to read some Anthony Robbins. Personally he kind of bugs me but the one thing I got from him that proved to be infallible was that mind and emotion conforms to posture. It may work the other way to some extent but what she is demonstrating here is fundamental and very important.

And even send or build an energy positive in the environment you at or to the one or the group a front of you subconsciously . Vladimir Putin doesn’t have any fucking language not even a clear smile . The whole fucking world it stuck with him now

She's just trying to act like a man.

Yeah, thinking about it looks and posing is easily seen thru.

Facts,

You could fake it till you make it 🤷🏾.

Actually psychology research shows that body gestures tells your brain how one feels. So they say if you want to be happy more, smile and your body tells your brain that you are happy. The same goes with confidence. Science.

Fake confidence literally is confidence. Studies show if you fake confidence (with bodylanguage) it sends signals to your brain, causing you to get more confident🤷🏼

Get informed

Let them be insecure? Please Elaborate?

I agree with this. We should just be who we actually are. But I understand why she made the video and it's kind of interesting.

@@eenchantress5113 we live in a day and age that if you are a stronger, secure person, and you see, or are around someone that isn't...you simply just be a good person, just simply be a good fellow human being to them. There is nothing more important than simply doing just that!!! It actually shouldn't be necessary for anyone to explain that. Then if everyone is just good to one another, then possibly no one would have to be insecure about themselves. You can disagree all you want, that's perfectly fine....

Your on the internet. In the comment section. Telling people what your sick of. As if, 1. The world is your pen pal 2. No one made you watch the video 3. Question if your confidence level is so high that you feel that everybody should hear your opinion, then aren't you trying to straighten everyone out like KZfaq🤔 if you look in the mirror and see a 🤪🐓🍭, dont get mad at the mirror 🎭

Good point. ..cannot judge so easy on appearances. ..even in sports like boxing. ..people like beterbiev /inoue /pacqiauo /ggg are killers yet they act like public educated nerds

Who is the most powerful human you know? Your teenage son?

@@doroparker1702 why can't it be you twatt???

@Margaret Christian Yes, maybe he is thinking of Elon Musk but he is very wrong. Elon Musk is not powerful. He is just very rich and he can get things done for his companies. He bought Twitter. So what? Others did put up their claims decades ago. Power is something very different. Power is ruling the world like Gilly Bates. He bought all newspapers worldwide, all international organizations and every organization that is involved in medical needs. He changed so many things that no longer governments have power in their own countries. All members of world health organization will have a lockdown if he tells them. It is his private organization. It is paid by member countries and by him but it is his private company. Trump refused to pay millions of US American tax money to WHO. He canceled the contract. Stupid chancelor Angela Merkel of Germany made up for the missing money from USA. She took the millions from German taxpayers and gave it to her best buddy Gilly Bates. He proudly stated he had her private number on speed dial. She is a very stupid and naive woman. Grew up on the country side in the poorest region of Eastern Germany. She was asked about her strongest side. Her answer was that she was good in being obedient. This is very bad. The head of a country must be strong. She never ruled. She was ruled by Gilly Bates.

If you’re talking about Elon Musk, he never had to go for a job interview.

We're all "actors" in the game called life. Mere puppets at any given time to either of one of two controllng spiritual entities.

@@davidd34 That was thoughtful

😂😂😂😂😂

those "confidence" postures are mimicked from "strong men" in movies which aren't real men. they are fictionalized representations to sell you something idealized. a good seating position in any situation is just having good posture with good eye contact and paying attention.

75%+ of human interaction and communication is non-verbal, hence conveyed via body language... SMH 🤦‍♀️

no

​@@SKOLAHthat's from the University of America. Not reality 😅😅😅

​@@SKOLAHnot really

Haha ur being delusional

16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. 18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.

Bingo

Exactly.

I don't agree.it effects your confidence like power of your brain and if you continue to do that you'll start to become it

​@@ravza1379no it doesnt. Confidence is KNOWING youre able to do something. It comes only and ONLY from experience. Years of proving yo yourself that youre able to do something. No amount of moving or not moving or whatever position will give you confidence. All it does is give you some momentarily motivation to establish yourself. Confidence is earned. Theres no shortcuts you lazy fuck do the work

@@Letthy_oliverr what rubbish u talking about? I didn't say that you will become a confidence person suddenly. İt is just first step becoming it. Your behaviours are just result of your habits. So if you repat the same behaviours consistenly it is gonna become a habit. Realize how powerful your brain is. Don't fake it till you make it fake it till you become it. I reccommend listening to that ted talk.

Mr Puff, I couldn't have said it better myself.

👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

Parents teach common sense... or should

Some are born with it and some not. 😢

@@salookie8000 "Maybe it's maybelline"

😂

oh you made me laugh, i needed that after a long and tough day at work. thank you so much!

Try sitting this way and lean forward and heartily chuckle at anything anyone says.

So what happened? Half were obnoxious, taking up way too much room (potentially with stinky feet - what are those? Socks? Put your shoes back on...) so maybe there was a throw down. Meanwhile the other half did the megalomaniac steepled finger thing, scamming for their fav donut, and then threw down when someone inevitably lost out. This channel's a potential wrecking ball.

😅

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂full confidence

Legend!!

If only you didn’t laugh at the end of your own joke this comment woulda blew up. Shame

Lmaoo

And you will pass because you "looked" confident 🤣

True, sit confidently and then shake while trying to talk 😂🤣 “I am confidently having a nervous breakdown.” 😂😂😂

​@@AK47HEAVYMETAL83 🤣

Untrue. How you hold your body will affect how you feel, and will allow people to read you.

How you carry yourself is an indicator of how confident you are. Us humans also have a cool thing where we can use our body position to alter our mood. However at a job interview or other stressful situation is not the place to try it out. Practise being mindful of body position in every day life and it will become more natural.

She said "make you APPEAR"

Your body language projects your mind

​@@Frugal637 yes but the vice versa is not true.

@@Frugal637 yeah and if your mind is not genuinely confident but « i gotta look confident » Thats what your body will project, fake confidence and insecurity Confidence is earned, not learned.

@@Frugal637 People fake body language nowadays, its all they do in public. Try hiding true confidence with less confident body language, its such a learning experience.

@@Frugal637 If that was then this teaching wouldn't make any sense.

Or a bad back. Or sleepy. Or whatever.

It depends on your goals and job, and industry. Some people have a situation where they don't have to care what others think about the way they sit. Others do not have that luxury, or have goals in a setting where those objectives are influenced by your visual and physical factors. Just the way some things are in some lifestyles, settings, and job industries.

Not in a job interview.

@@gforce9596 Dude good point

​@@missmayflower Be yourself in a job interview. Not only does it show what you're employer is hiring it also shows you if the company is good enough for you. Unless you're just desperate for a job.

Yes, that's where the answer is: in middle. Not looking timid and not looking like a tool.

Exactly 👌🏾

Lol 😂😂😂

How is being confident a masculine behaviour? You okay???

​@@yms4355 read it again

Yeah but everyone is not small-minded, high standard people do not differentiate, they develop instead.

Yep exactly

This isn't "working on your confidence"?

This 🔥

Sometimes "you" is insufficient though. And yes, I am speaking for myself haha

​@@wintertontoday lmao yeah :D I think this works at least with teachers. The teacher whose body language appears more relaxed and confident keeps my attention longer and makes me (with an anxiety disorder) feel more at ease too. It's cool how big of a difference body language can make.

Agree

Lmaooooo

Thanks for making me laugh 😂

​@Elkster Eidolon with an "o"?

Says the unconfident person 😅

That’s literally what all of us do already.. this is a video on how to appear more confident.. which you won’t if you’re hunched over and rubbing yourself ect 😂 if we were all naturally confident we wouldn’t be watching this video

Exactly

I’d like to say if you appear to “confident”, it come off narcissistically, such as prideful, to cocky. Not having emotion concerned more about appearance, can be very “vain”. I’d say do what you feel is appropriate for YOU, body language is good, but I’ll tell you, usually it’s always one doing the speculation on another, usually in negative relationships behaviors, interrogation, court etc. anyways peace ☮️ & ❤ to you all 😊