Hey My loves❤ I am aware there is a Telegram scam going on using my name and pictures, IT IS NOT ME!! ITS A SCAM please be careful and stay safe❤ Thank you ❤️
@frenchgirl5878 Жыл бұрын
1. Move away from your city/hometown/country if it’s holding you back 2. Quit your job if its not making you happy or serving your purpose 3. Prioritize your mental health (set strong boundaries) 4. Don’t settle down or at the very least settle down but don’t have kids 5. Cut people off (people who disrespect you, people who ignore your boundaries, toxic people)
@cynthiaebijie Жыл бұрын
All the points are very crucial and not talked about enough. Especially the marriage one. Alot of women desperately getting into relationships so they can secure a life partner cos they think they are running out of time, and they end up accepting the worst from their partners.
@SindyAkpolo Жыл бұрын
Intentionally picking people who come into your life as friends is key 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 don’t be afraid to cut off people or friends that is not serving you 👏🏾👏🏾 friendship is not by force. Spot on
@gloriabaiden1659 Жыл бұрын
Aw lucy....is there a video on how ladies should control your finances and unnecessary wants in your 20's
@gloryceeyeditingacademy1 Жыл бұрын
Yh I need this too
@Lucylu723 Жыл бұрын
I have unapologetically cut off a friend before in the past. Prior to cutting the friend off we had an hours long conversation of me expressing aspects of the friendship that I was concerned about and how if things continued I would end it. They agreed and said they'd change. Long story short they did not. Events occured and they did something that was the last straw and I cut them off. It was hard, but if I could go back in time I would do it all over again because getting rid of that friendship was the start of me healing and learning to establish healthy relationships with people. I think it took me around 6 months to fully get over it. A year later they got in contact with me via other people seeing as they were blocked everywhere else. I had already forgiven them. But what I want to make clear is that I reconciled the friendship enough that they are more so an acquaintance more than anything. We will never be the way we once was but at least they're in my life at a safe enough distance that does not affect my health and wellbeing.
@zhenxxx Жыл бұрын
I could literally watch you talk the entire day. You say what we don’t know that we already know ❤. You are so wise and as someone entering into their 20’s soon I sure learn a lot from you, thank you momma for being the light we all need, shine brighter ❤
@MyLucyBenson Жыл бұрын
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@ZainabJuliana Жыл бұрын
it’s crazy because the moment i turned 20 , i’ve seen a lot of videos like these and everything is true ❤
@Lucylu723 Жыл бұрын
You've gotta love Lucy for keeping it realistic. Reminding us that it's okay to make mistakes, to learn, to grow, to go at your own pace. It's okay❤
@jadassolitude78 Жыл бұрын
I’m 18 and this really changed my perspective…thank you ❤️
@dorothymithamo5960 Жыл бұрын
You people stop pretending you can't see how beautiful she looks in that hairstyle...am in love with it ... beautiful 😍
@gloriaamashegh1004 Жыл бұрын
How can you not love her with the words of wisdom coming from her mouth ❤
@annieprechiy Жыл бұрын
The joy in my heart when I open youtube and see your face cannot still be explained. Love you Lucy❤️
@amberpalmer3708 Жыл бұрын
Just started watching! I’m 22 and have been thinking these past few weeks of selfish choices I’m gonna make! Perfect timing and thank you for this video Lucy ❤
@annahnolet1873 Жыл бұрын
22 you are so young. This information is life. I wish I heard this at 22. 😘
@binnyhamlyn7581 Жыл бұрын
Yes you need this to guide your through your youth. Donot force relationships, keep only positive people around you. Avoid people who drain you emotionally. Donot overspend your earnings. Start saving now.
@Dntwatchmyglowup Жыл бұрын
I had my baby early (23) wasn’t planned but I don’t regret it . I love being a mom it honestly made me more focused & mature
@magdalene6844 Жыл бұрын
Wow Lucy,Lucy,Lucy,this video was absolutely for me . I made a decision that really hurt me but I know one day it would be worth it . I am taking risk I am putting strong boundaries I am cutting off unapologetic I am prioritizing my mental health I am making the difficult decision off late and it’s paying off positively. Thank you and I love you. Keep encouraging and giving positive videos and advice. God bless you for me and sharing this as well .I will definitely share a testimony on my channel oneday. ❤❤❤❤ In Jesus Name Amen 🙏 .
@Olajumoke.E Жыл бұрын
This video was made for me (just finished my service year)you spoke to my soul and am definitely going to prioritize myself❤
@effeerichardson Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Lucy ❤. I started listening to you few months before I turned 20 this year. The year is about to end and I’m so grateful and proud of myself. I started my small hair salon business, started KZfaq today ❤ and making a big decisions for myself. God bless you 😊
@Adebisi_Rahmot5 Жыл бұрын
I am 17 and yet I face most of this things you talk about especially the three major life challenges you had which is fear, over thinking... I really love your videos 💖
@missmaryfabela98 Жыл бұрын
I'm 24 and I needed to hear this,thank you so much for this❤️👏
@SindyAkpolo Жыл бұрын
Put yourself first 👏🏾 atleast exploring options, don’t stay in a job that you don’t like. Lucy spot on always sharing gems 😊😊
@Lizbethefe Жыл бұрын
You are just a blessing from God because your videos come at the right time. I literally said thank you from the beginning to the end of the video. Thanks Lucy 😊
@haveasitatmytablepodcast Жыл бұрын
Thank you Lucy, i most certainly have to learn how to cut off people without any explanations. Even hearing you say people have a mind and brain of their own and will do what they want is powerful.🥰
@ellaochechema3283 Жыл бұрын
My fav youtuber I’m always excited when I see your video. You motivate me to always be consistent on my KZfaq channel
@elvaduring274 Жыл бұрын
Hey Lucy, I'm just starting my 20s, and your vids are really guiding me. Thanks for everything❤️.
@blessingokorafor939 Жыл бұрын
Don't have kids if u haven't healed from your trauma! It's a very big one to be very honest! You might become what you hate...thanks Lucy💓
@abejidebunmi2728 Жыл бұрын
If only I can like this video as many times as possible Am in my 30s but its so helpful ❤️ thank you 🤗
@camijade2209 Жыл бұрын
I turned 29 a few days ago, I have so much I want to achieve this year!
@Mihlesdairy Жыл бұрын
Thanks for that session love, I literally listened to it twice that's how much I needed it
@annahnolet1873 Жыл бұрын
LUCY!!! I am so happy to listen to you videos. I love hearing you speak. It's like my big sis is talking to me. I am 28 so you might be my little sister. Thank you for posting this video. ❤️
@melaniecharles7652 Жыл бұрын
You truly help me a lot,thank you
@elitaahiakwo Жыл бұрын
Lucy give us KZfaq mom vibes I love it😂❤️❤️❤️❤️
@blessedonyedikanwabuzor7509 Жыл бұрын
It just feels like you are talking to me 🥺 thanks Lucy❤️
@jessicaamrich Жыл бұрын
Girl I love this video. You make a whole lot of sense
@miracleakiewa6751 Жыл бұрын
If anyone is toxic in your life please do well to cut them off
@Rekasspace Жыл бұрын
This was very well needed. Thank you.
@ashleymorgan8687 Жыл бұрын
Finally early for once, hi Lucy thank you for your guidance through all these months. Keep up the good work. Proud of You!!!!!!💗
@Princessm1320 Жыл бұрын
As soon as I saw the no kid no marriage in the thumbnail I clicked. 6 months ago a relationship ended that I thought would never end. After 3 months I went on a date with a guy who I started liking, but things didn’t work out, so I went back to focusing on me fully. This girl asked me out(I’m bi) and I said sure but I told her we have to wait until my classes end in May. Now that it’s May, I don’t want to date anyone. I want to focus on me and my education.
@ThisisMeggy Жыл бұрын
Not me agreeing with everything Lucy says😍Thank you for the video ❤️
@marianapo1969 Жыл бұрын
First time being number one on yr page😂i usually just download to save data🙈😂❤ I love u❤
@angelicaroland9139 Жыл бұрын
Just find your channel and I’m in love it’s really what I was looking for ur such a vibe ❤ keep doing ur great job
@leilasilva61922 ай бұрын
I am having my 20's now, I am 33. You said everything I should have done sooner
@nandi8412 Жыл бұрын
One thing about you ,you are an angel sent ❤️
@EverydaylifewithGael Жыл бұрын
I was thinking about this just today Even tho I have a baby already…My 20’s are still for me ,I feel like I know nothing and so ready to grow and explore with my baby
@-Lerato-Moleko- Жыл бұрын
I’m new here and I love it here!❤
@lady_staphenie Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Lucy for this video, it came just at the perfect time ❤️😘
@WendyLiving Жыл бұрын
See I really needed this ! I was literally in a such state rn, and this video was the right thing I needed to watch.. Thanks
@giftewomazinosjourneys Жыл бұрын
Awwwn, thank you so much Lucy😍💜
@paulineoiva8543 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Lucy
@lillauser9483 Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏so motivational. And beautiful hair!!!
@MissChayBella Жыл бұрын
Thank you Lucy! 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@mi_mie Жыл бұрын
Thank God I'm seeing this video
@Lisathafinest Жыл бұрын
This is you talking to me I am 22 and about to finish university this December nd I am happy I saw this video. just telling me what I need ...thank you
@garenanighoro3722 Жыл бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed this video. Great tips Lucy!
@otegabrume Жыл бұрын
This video is for me🎉
@chelseabangoura6845 Жыл бұрын
You always help me thank you 😌
@Dottiebonds Жыл бұрын
🥰😍😍oh my myyy that HAIR IS EVERYTHINGGGGG!!!
@Joyce1345-z1n Жыл бұрын
Been waiting for your video
@wamiegunya4384 Жыл бұрын
First to comment :-)💖🙈and am already loving it here can't wait to finish the video
@mccnbinnie9840 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 💜
@Staarrxxx Жыл бұрын
The advice here is priceless ❤️
@josiaharchibald7165 Жыл бұрын
Sending love to you sis 💜 all the way from 🇹🇹 Great advice! p.s. I'm using my child device
@baloguntemitope9221 Жыл бұрын
Honestly speaking this is first time I actually enjoyed ur content for the first time 😂keep it up and I hope you too you learning from someone else too because thousands are watching your channel which is really good. Please practice what you preach.
@Being.Benedicta Жыл бұрын
Thank you Lucy for this great reminder 🤗
@siyamamkelanompula-msomi1616 Жыл бұрын
Hey Lucy can you share your lip combo 💓 it's beautiful
@nietah325 Жыл бұрын
Luccyyyy with the gems
@anitagreamson407 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Lucy…just turned 25 and already feeling that I have failed
@marciaantonio4968 Жыл бұрын
Gosh! Lucy! ❤
@goodygoody52 Жыл бұрын
@Lucy Benson I so much love all ur content and this particular video I was lost admiring ur wig nd ur beauty.
@laurynluvanda1605 Жыл бұрын
I never comment on KZfaq but I’ve to say, I love this video, thank you!
@adetilda5486 Жыл бұрын
This job part 🥺🥺, I literally started a job I hate. It’s almost a month, and I am already tired. Tomorrow is Monday, and I am already not at peace. But the thing is, nothing else is really working 😢.
@risamaratv Жыл бұрын
Lucy, you are just the best 🥰💝🥰🙌🏿
@abgnortoeelorm7908 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 💕💕 sis
@Gift_Etokudo Жыл бұрын
Thanks sis for this video, I really learn a lot.
@absatujalloh4931 Жыл бұрын
🎯🎯 this is an advise we need to get frequently, thanks Lucy
@NadiaWeekly Жыл бұрын
03:00 - Move out of your hometown, city - sign from God🤲🏻✨
@maryamchan2400 Жыл бұрын
you are pretty I love your accent and your mindset and your personality , I subscribed ❤
@esthermutua1287 Жыл бұрын
Thanks alot for this so informative ✍️❤️❤️❤️❤️💯
@Thependapamseffect Жыл бұрын
Thank u for this ❤
@everythingwithmartha9408 Жыл бұрын
Hey Lucy ..what if you already have a child for someone who clearly doesn’t want you anymore.. and you desperately want to leave but you are not financially ok to move out😢?
@blehsynadel Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this❤️
@ezinnechukwuma7828 Жыл бұрын
Lucy with the lines
@kahundedoreen Жыл бұрын
Your right girl 🤍
@Zabethglam Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ❤
@busayobanjoko Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video
@foyinlolasworld6072 Жыл бұрын
Thank you gurl
@michelleambani4522 Жыл бұрын
I love you girl
@registerednut9117 Жыл бұрын
Lucy!! You are beautiful. Please share the link to that hair!!
@jenniferkoranteng8691 Жыл бұрын
Thanks dear❤️
@susannannozi6637 Жыл бұрын
Lucy Is "that" big Sis🤗💕Sure the best!!😘😘🥰
@alimabangura9531 Жыл бұрын
Omg sis🥺Thank you🙏🏽
@happym3585 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing 🎉
@Kenyan-kitchen Жыл бұрын
🤗🤗notification gang❤
@77ruby Жыл бұрын
♥️
@mariexoxo1282 Жыл бұрын
Love you so much and thank you!🙏🏾❤️
@rosemarytuzie3733 Жыл бұрын
Nice one. More grace. Watching you from china.
@Arialoveth Жыл бұрын
What if they see bad influence but they support you finicially
@adegboyegasunkanmi9079 Жыл бұрын
Hi Lucy 👋 u just got a new subscriber 💓💓love your content on here 😊