Sex Before Marriage? Hearing God's Voice? Friends with Atheists? | Q&A

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Sex Before Marriage? Hearing God's Voice? Friends with Atheists? | Q&A | Melody Alisa

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Hi! My name is Melody Alisa - welcome to my channel. I lived in South Korea for two years where I met God and I documented my life as an English teacher (check out my Life in Korea playlist for more on this!) Now, I call Atlanta home. On my KZfaq channel, I share my Christian faith and life as a creative, a newlywed, a soon-to-be first time mama through weekly new videos!

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@MsSnesie 4 жыл бұрын

So refreshing to hear someone is waiting for marriage, people act like being physically intimate is the number one component to a healthy relationship🤦🏾‍♀️

@minimalassembly7893 3 жыл бұрын

While this is true and sounds all good and well, I wish more people would be honest with Christian women who choose to wait until marriage. The truth is that it is really, really, really hard to find a Christian man that is currently practicing celibacy beyond the age of 25. Most are absolutely not and will skip over a woman that is, sad to say. If marriage is the goal, a celibate woman will need to marry early, be prepared to wait for a long time, be okay with an open relationship while dating or wait on a miracle from God.

@MsSnesie 3 жыл бұрын

Minimal Assembly You are completely right in saying that and I tell the same thing to women. Chances are that if he stays he might step out on you at some point, but celibacy is YOUR own journey and no one else’s actions should make you change your journey. It all boils down to intentional dating, if you both establish early that the end goal is marriage than the path is clear and there’s hope.

@deasiathompson91 3 жыл бұрын

Minimal Assembly it is very hard to find a man of any age that will wait. That’s why us as women of God have to be patient and wait in God because the right man of God will understand abstinence and want that same very thing. I do feel that men lust more than women, although there are also some promiscuous women. I just hope and pray that if I am to get married, whoever God has for me is already strong enough to wait before I even meet him. However if I never get married, I still know that God is enough ❤️

@malebelomaphutha6566 3 жыл бұрын

@@deasiathompson91 I am with you on that one Deasia and just to add my two cents i think what's also important is understanding that celibacy is not just about waiting on some shelf like a fried chicken waiting to be devoured at the 'right time/marriage' but that it's a call to holiness. It's God's standard that we keep our bodies, which are His temple pure for The Holy Spirit to dwell in us until such a time that you are rightly qualified to let another body in after marriage. But having a perspective of celibacy just being a period of waiting for someone to come into you after marriage is what makes it pointless to a lot of us people that's why we end up just doing it anyway coz we make it about the other person when it's not. Celibacy is not even for your future husband it's primary for God.

@deasiathompson91 3 жыл бұрын

Malebelo Maphutha yes perfectly put. I needed that read because it spoke volumes. God gets all the glory & I know in waiting, whatever he has for me will be worth the wait.

@Gina-qz9lh 4 жыл бұрын

I liked how you said God wants us to wait till marriage to have sex for our good. Sexual sin only hurt us but God is still greater than our sin and He works it out for our good as well.

@elizabethcruz8547 4 жыл бұрын

Yes to making a video about waiting for marriage!

@Lavish.38 4 жыл бұрын

I agree !

@akajazzy12300 4 жыл бұрын

Yes please

@zinzihorne 4 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@abieyuwaekuase8699 4 жыл бұрын

I second this !

@AdesolaLeah 4 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@bassvergelsin1357 4 жыл бұрын

If you reading this comment I pray that may you live a long life with full of happiness and fun 💞💕!

@preciouschauke3109 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Isabella I pray the same for you too 😊

@r.r.1592 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you much, you will be blessed!

@joanpettengill2758 4 жыл бұрын

Received and forwarded back🤗

@tonirene.r 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊 I pray the same for your life as well. 🤍

@MarleeDecember105 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I bless you with the same prayer.

@JillStillGoesUptheHill 4 жыл бұрын

Something about you is so calming. It's the Holy Spirit, I believe. New subscriber from the last vid. Grace grace.

@MelodyAlisa 4 жыл бұрын

Aw tysm! Welcome to the family 🤗♥️

@nonami_066xswqoqowiwl 3 жыл бұрын

Melody Alisa She thanked the holy spirit not u

@m0n.y3 4 жыл бұрын

I think God sent me to your page at the right time. It seems like a lot is going well for you and that is honestly amazing! For me however I'm dealing with loneliness, not going to school for a few months, mental challenges, losing friends etc. I was wondering if you could doing a video talking about healthy friendships, loneliness, and things like that. Thank you love your channel(:

@kanyintheartist8742 4 жыл бұрын

You've got this🤝🏿❤

@malebelomaphutha6566 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Monye' I don't know if this helps and I am sorry to hear about what you are going through...I went through and still am going through a similar experience and what I have learnt so far is that sometimes, just sometimes (read the story of Job in the bible)God allows us to be in a season where even our closest ones can't be there for us so we can draw closer to Him without being distracted. In the midst of letting God and focusing on God's word, my relationship with a childhood friend got restored back and I cannot wait to see what else He will do. It's also improved my metal state, while I don't have all the answers I'd recommend you start drawing a timetable on how you are going to read and disect the word of God. It teaches a lot about Him and seeing his design for friendships and other life issues

@davidvincentalston6731 3 жыл бұрын

This is no longer the time to be lonely for anyone. This is the end time. Chase after Jesus, everyone's true love. Either you are going to be caught up to meet the Lord in the air as one of his redeemed ones or you will be a tribulation saint who has to be beheaded for refusing to sell out to the beast. Embrace Jesus. Forsake every avenue of sexual self-gratification. Shun everyone whose life is not one that is sold out to Jesus.

@van3k3 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Monye, I also recommend joining Mel's Sisterhood group. You might be able to connect with like minded, Christian friends there. God bless you :)

@yazmynebright5892 3 жыл бұрын

I was going through this also especially being alone in this quarantine and my friendships ended as well but now that I'm getting closer to God I realize now that it was for the better. I needed this time to focus on me and bettering me.

@sydneycouch7334 4 жыл бұрын

I would love to hear more about how both you and your boyfriend have overcome the temptations of being intimate before marriage. As someone who is single and didn't wait until marriage, I feel overwhelmed and doubt my ability to overcome the temptation in future relationships. What boundaries do you have to remain pure during this time? How did you ultimately forgive yourself for your past mistakes? Thanks so much for pouring your heart out to strangers! You are so very encouraging

@lunadeluz4229 4 жыл бұрын

Girl you got this!! I have been in the same situation, and a lot of it is the healing that comes from God. Healing of your heart and learning to love him and how much he calls you precious in His word. You no longer lust for things you once did, things you wouldnt expect to be free from! Reach out to God and ask for healing. It’s all a journey ❤️✨

@koolsmoothfan 3 жыл бұрын

First miss Sydney, remember 1John chapter 1:8 If we confess our sins, The Lord is faithful and just to forgive us for our sins and to cleanse us from unrighteousness. So if you have asked for forgiveness the Lord has forgiven you, so don't beat yourself up fam. In overcoming our fleshly lust, we cannot do it on our own. You must cry out to God to fill you with His Holy Spirit, to provide you with the Heavenly strength to overcome your fleshly urges.

@MarleeDecember105 4 жыл бұрын

I've been celibate for 5 years and can honestly say it is one of the BEST decisions I've made in my life. Sex before marriage isnt an importance to me anymore. I'm more into getting to know myself with my mate as well as my mate with me and who he is an an individual. I also agree that our focus on God and Jesus should match along with the fact that we need to be able to have Bible study with each other to grasp the true meaning of religion. I see nothing wrong with learning from each other. Ok, ending here before I write a novel of a comment. 😉 Definitely sharing this one out.

@antionettebrodgers3267 4 жыл бұрын

I think we should be cautious about how we use the term “Friend”. With that being said, I feel it is ok to have non-Christian acquaintances or coworkers with whom you respect and have casual conversations with, however having non- Christian friends is not a good idea. True friends influence each other and advise each other and even sometimes teach each other, so it would not be wise to have that type of relationship with people of different mindsets, beliefs and values. A good book to read, for anyone wondering about this is “ Relational Intelligence”.

@elomichetienne3931 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly my thought!

@King_Vic92 3 жыл бұрын

I will definitely have to read that book. I disagree with the premise only cuz I believe having someone of different values is important in any walk of life rather someone is Christian or not. I believe it's important to always have a open mind and a open heart and that no matter what someone else may believe in if they're a good person they'll be more inclined to be around you and want to continue to be around you compared to someone who is not. I also don't think hearing a different perspective from someone who is not Christian or religious is wrong or can lead to bad consequences, I tend to think some of those conversations can be some of the most engaging and thought-provoking because it opens the eyes in the minds to how someone else lives without the life of God in their life. It has shown for me that some people have the same exact morals and values and beliefs that I have they just don't believe in God and that I found was not a legitimate reason for me to not continue to interact with them or be friends with them but it encouraged me to keep being friends with them cuz I was not going to not believe in God or not not pray before we ate or be confident in my Love of Jesus. In the end though I love God and I love Jesus and I won't compromise that for anyone so I always tell people you have to understand if you're going to be my friend these are things about me that you can't change so if your intent is to keep being my friend to change them then we might as well not be friends and I have yet to encounter that but life's a mysterious thing anything can happen

@jesuslovesyouandI 3 жыл бұрын

Sooo true! I am tired of unequally yoked relationships. No more.I am a 22 year old virgin waiting for a man who loves God😋

@abicooks 3 жыл бұрын

Haha same

@justdena15 4 жыл бұрын

I can relate to so many of the things you said! Especially how God speaks. I've also noticed that He speaks in prayer and worship. There are times where my prayers go into places I wasn't expecting and referencing scripture I wasn't thinking about. I definitely recommend getting into your word as much as possible! It makes it so much easier to discern the voice you're hearing. With confidence, this sounds backwards, but I was listening to Joe Solomon's podcast about being unimpressive (lol) and it just reminds you that everyone dies and no one has the authority or ability to remember you in eternity but God. When you think about the fact that you can't even prove your own name will be remembered in this world after you leave here, but our eternal God can look at you and say "well done my good and faith servant!" Idk it just... realizing how finite we all are yet God desires to know us FOREVER?!?? People will ghost you but God just wants to be close is beautiful and a great place to anchor your confidence.

@IamROYALTY_ 4 жыл бұрын

That Blessed me.. it is for my Good, that sex was created strictly for marriage because God knows the consequences of it when we do it outside of the purpose that it was created for. I’m with you, I too felt the effects of operating outside of my convictions when I knew I was called to live a life of holiness, but compromising definitely put a hole in my heart.. So fast forward this has been a commitment I Vowed to and uphold to live to this Standard.. I’ve met a few men who shamed me for my standards of living unto God and I use to feel bad, but now I don’t, My true man of God will understand and is living that way as well

@MomentswithMist 4 жыл бұрын

I love how lightweight yet stunning your makeup is! Maybe a tutorial with a faith based chit chat?😍😍

@jesusislord7021 4 жыл бұрын

The tricky thing is....being unequally yoked is a SPIRITUAL STANDING... its not just whether that person is open to Christian ideology.

@vf5454 4 жыл бұрын

Defining confidence: Valuing/being confident in who God made me to be, but not viewing myself higher than God / never putting myself above God Well put, Melody! 🤗 & awesome content!! 👏🏾👏🏾

@MelodyAlisa 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Vicky!! ♥️♥️

@preciouschauke3109 4 жыл бұрын

Would definitely love to see a video about waiting until marriage.

@zinzihorne 4 жыл бұрын

Same!

@clarissecoloma5797 4 жыл бұрын

Please make a whole video!! ♥️ can you also talk about the boundaries you set with your significant other? Thank you sis :)

@Aixela_1 4 жыл бұрын

I totally agree- being friends with non-Christians is one thing, but a relationship? No. My two year relationship recently ended but I should have never been in it in the first place. We met while I was teaching in Korea and were long distance when I left. He believed in God (most of the time) but it wasn't enough. I knew he wasn't for me when we'd talk about our future. The decisions that he was making weren't God-led so I just knew I couldn't have a family with him. Plus we were sleeping together and every time I'd just feel awful like I was disappointing God. This also taught me that you can't change people. I figured I'd be planting a seed and eventually he'd get saved but now I know I need a God led, God driven man. A man who just doesn't go to church but who actually has a relationship with Him. Had I listened to God in the first place (I ignored all the signs), I wouldn't have had this heartbreak. Listen to God yall. It'll save you a lot of trouble!

@MelodyAlisa 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve been there too! I found it’s not enough for them to just believe in God, they gotta have a personal relationship with Him! That part makes allll the difference 🙏🏾 I’m glad you got out of that sis!

@bbkeepsitreal9863 4 жыл бұрын

I have been listening to God for some time now!! And obeying him when he say no sex until you get married!! And with his help he make this easy for me!! Now I'm living the best life I ever lived I have the victory and I give all the glory to him he's an awesome God it pays to obey him in the long run!!

@beautifulqueen3887 3 жыл бұрын

I agree i just let go of a friend who stayed with me he said he was spiritual believe in a higher power not jesus and he didn't pray i had to let go god told me to......

@yocelynezeledon 4 жыл бұрын

I can’t get over of how pretty you are! I catch myself saying through out your videos “she’s so pretty omg.” 🥰😂😂 I had to share the love.

@KennedyKelly633 4 жыл бұрын

absolutely beautiful!!!! such a good example of who we are called to be as Christians!!! every answer was taken back to the word of God and what JESUS says.... whew! love you and your vids!

@tiannabest9154 4 жыл бұрын

Loved the questions and answers and would definitely like to hear more about your thoughts or discussions on waiting for marriage before becoming sexual and how has this journey been

@lotusflower3154 3 жыл бұрын

I’m 43 and I was married for 15 years recently divorced I’ve chosen to wait until marriage to have sex again ppl try and convince me that I’m crazy and I’m never gonna me anyone because of my spiritual beliefs but I’m standing strong Mind body soul

@dunamis333 3 жыл бұрын

You're not in a position to remarry. Your husband is still alive. So as far as the Lord is concerned you're still married to him. If you remarry you will be practising adultery. This a common practice in the Apostate Church.

@akajazzy12300 4 жыл бұрын

Yes! I would love a video on discussing waiting until marriage. I’m currently single but I’ve chosen to abstain and it would be interesting to gain your insight on this topic as far as the complexities of it and if this was something you decided prior to your current relationship and how did you and your bf agree to do this together ❤️🙏🏽 Blessings to you .

@Delicieuxable 4 жыл бұрын

I completely liked this video before it even began. I had complete faith this was going to be great... and it was!!!! :)

@WalkingInDivinePurpose 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, tgis channel was recommending to me and I am loving what I am seeing. Being a single Mom, with a KZfaq channel, online school, rebooting back my business due to covid and going through a divorce. Is a lot, happy to be here and as a Christian, I am happy with your answers.

@shenandoahschwarz4978 4 жыл бұрын

Love that you speak the TRUTH in love and are in His Word💜

@beverlymutirua1656 4 жыл бұрын

These topics are good to dive into in a spiritual perspective so I am here to watch and listen sis.

@carmelyn 4 жыл бұрын

Love this video!! So happy to see where you’re focusing your channel- for God’s glory💓

@desireegrant3313 4 жыл бұрын

Love from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹

@PerfectMachForever 4 жыл бұрын

This is so refreshing to hear. It pays to wait before marriage. Love how BOLD you are about this. We both waited before we got married. And it's made our journey the most beautiful 💛

@gigi-gc8gu 4 жыл бұрын

I was in a relationship with an atheist and I kid you not I got into satanism. I did not notice how far I’d fallen. It was just everyday having pre martial sex and drugs. I had to let him go. I forgive him for he is not ready to come back to Christ. I am grateful that I was raised Christian and I am hoping that through my repentance he will give me deliverance

@kimberlymitchell8428 4 жыл бұрын

Everything you speak is so real, raw, and genuine. For a young lady you sure do have a lot of wisdom😉

@Mickeii617 4 жыл бұрын

I'll never forget when I found your videos back when you were in Korea. It's been so long, so many years ago, I was a sophomore. 🥴. You really are glowing! Loving this vibe.

@MelodyAlisa 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@Kendra_KG 4 жыл бұрын

I enjoyed these topics. I would definitely like to hear you talk more about waiting until marriage. It’s something I wish I would have done in my past relationship.

@ctine 4 жыл бұрын

So happy for you and how God has changed/is changing your life. I discovered you through your Korea videos, which led me to re-visit my dream of teaching/living abroad. And now your content has shifted to what it is now and I think it is just God timing because all your content thus far has blessed me in different seasons - such as the season I'm in now where I know and can see how God is pursuing me and for lack of a better term, wants to be let in to level up my life for Him.

@asiadawson2487 4 жыл бұрын

I’m still not sure how one of your videos popped up on my feed recently lol.. but it did and I’ve been watching ever since! It’s so so evident from your videos that you truly love the Lord and have a real relationship with Him. I just moved to Atlanta in April when all churches were closed and I sooo miss having good, Christian community. I’m not sure if you’re a part of a small group here or if small groups are even a thing again yet, but if so- I would love to check it out!

@megannjenae2744 4 жыл бұрын

i would love to see a video of you talking about your testimony of waiting for marriage, what your experience was if you didn't wait and how it effected you and your relationship with God and how it benefits your current relationship

@Its-sarahj 4 жыл бұрын

Love this video! Love your honesty and energy 💕💕 For me I’ve noticed there are so many ladies that want to wait till marriage but i have never come across a man/boy that is celibate and wants to wait till marriage.

@audreyshakara6928 3 жыл бұрын

YESS!! Please make a video about the impact/importance of waiting & why GOD wants us to do that!!!!!!

@karleymillender-morris7426 3 жыл бұрын

I moved from Texas to Atlanta alone and it was the best decision I could have made. My life changed completely. I met my husband and he has been a rock for me while in a city with no family or friends. I still don't have many friends but I know eventually that will happen. ❤🙌🏾

@wandeabisoye 3 жыл бұрын

I love how your face lights up when you talk about your relationship. It's very reassuring

@LadySmilez25 4 жыл бұрын

Love your channel and I initially found it a year or two ago when I first started teaching ESL online. Love that your sharing how God has been faithful to you in this season. Super encouraging, thank you!🙏🏽💕

@tiffanyj5977 4 жыл бұрын

From someone personally whose never seen a courtship play out I’d love to hear more about your experiences with what you’re building through Christ, Of course without being invasive to you guys! Also I completed your 7 day challenge today and absolutely loved it. It helped me a lot and would love to participate in more.

@firestarterjess 4 жыл бұрын

New subscriber! 2nd video, I love your answers. We need more young humble believers who represent God in the most honest and Spirit led way.❤️❤️❤️

@AngelaWang724 4 жыл бұрын

Love Q&A’s!! So excited to watch this🤗💖💖💖

@mirandalevy1451 4 жыл бұрын

I definitely also assumed you had always been a Christian! It’s so amazing to see God completely transform someone into a beautiful relationship with Him 🙏🏽 On a side note, can you share where you got your necklaces? I’ve been looking all week for something similar to the ones you have!

@tonishaburrow3373 4 жыл бұрын

I would love for you to make a video on what God revealed to you about sex. Your short answer was great! But I feel like there was more that you wanted or had to say. As someone with more Non Christian friends then I would like, your videos bring me comfort on my walk with Christ💕

@shonamarie1116 4 жыл бұрын

Love love love this Q&A! God is working through you beautifully!! Sending you love Melody❤

@tifwit1 4 жыл бұрын

The business behind the scenes you are trying to figure out series yes!

@ashleypatience9093 4 жыл бұрын

Yes please to the waiting for marriage content. Especially as a young person who still wants a romantic relationship...I've [20] been wondering if the possibility of relationships without premarital sex is possible in today's society as someone in her twenties.

@julieann8668 4 жыл бұрын

GOD IS SOOOOOO GOOD!

@liseyquese 4 жыл бұрын

Thankyou for this SUPER timely message🥺❤

@alicialynn6281 4 жыл бұрын

New subscriber! You remind me how much God’s process is the same. Surrendering and practicing discipline is such a gift from God. I wish you and your boyfriend well! It’s amazing to see other couples in 2020 in Godly courtships. It’s so rewarding! God bless!!

@atouchofgloryinternational1628 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so very proud of you how much you've grown in 4 years . I've been to China and Japan but never Korea. But I'm glad to hear that you are going strong...

@gigib7510 4 жыл бұрын

Been following you for some years and I’m so happy for you ❤️✝️

@wishingonthemoon1 2 жыл бұрын

So happy you waited for marriage. Trust me, y’all, sex outside of the covenant is not worth it. TW r*pe It was forced upon me, and I decided to stay because I thought it was too late for me-not true. Assault is not a choice, and even if you did slip up, you can start over.

@nkenge2011 3 жыл бұрын

I enjoyed the Q&A Melody. Specifically, how you spoke candidly how you balance-your full-time career which you love and your passion-making videos by being led by the Holy Spirit and the time and commitment it takes with scheduling, filming, editing and posting. Also, behind the scenes. I would be interested in journey the virtual journey of fitness. Also, you stated some key ways that God communicates with us through His Word and dropping ideas into your spirit.

@sffkingdom 3 жыл бұрын

Waiting till marriage and doing it God’s way is truly safe sex!!!! Good to hear this!

@anthoniabiks 4 жыл бұрын

This was so beautiful. I bless God for his great love and how he draws us to him and also enables us to live for him. Thanks Melody

@crystallf26 3 жыл бұрын

Yess please make a video on waiting until marriage!

@PrayingForPeaceZajac 4 жыл бұрын

I would love to see a series on how you film your videos/ your scheduling/ business pertaining to KZfaq!!

@god1st457 4 жыл бұрын

God will reward your obedience and faithfulness. Very well said God wants you to wait to have sex until you’re married for your good. So wish I had followed that advice.

@wandeabisoye 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Melody. Just stumbled on your channel. I love how down to earth you are, so warm and cheerful

@nadiauwase5399 4 жыл бұрын

Yes to all the video ideas you mentioned! It's a yes for me, do them! 😍🤗❤

@angyyyskyyy 3 жыл бұрын

every word was well said! ❤️

@howtoobeygod4384 3 жыл бұрын

2 Corinthians 6:15. .....How can a believer be a partner with an unbeliever?

@SonjaLauren 4 жыл бұрын

You are truly amazing! I am so happy that I found your channel💕! Please do a video about waiting until marriage!!

@kamillmarie1866 3 жыл бұрын

It’s me at 4am watching all your videos! 😂💙

@charisse_xo 4 жыл бұрын

Melody! I love, love, love seeing you flourish in your faith journey! Something drew me to you back when you were making those Korea videos, even though I was never interested in going to Korea or anything, and I'm so glad I stuck around. It has truly been beautiful going along this journey with you! Ain't God good girl?! lol thank you for sharing all your wisdom and using your platform to glorify Christ and His goodness. It's definitely so refreshing and overall just awesome.

@KM-ok6pk 3 жыл бұрын

Girl please make a video about waiting for marriage!! I’m in the same boat. I’ve recently became closer to my faith and feel a calling to wait until I find the right person to be intimate. In the past I was so unhappy with my choices with how I felt, especially after sex. I’m happy to know I’m not alone in this! Also can you please make a video of going to counseling and how you chose the right one? I need to start but it’s a little intimidating!

@francisca5590 4 жыл бұрын

I’m a new subscriber and I really enjoy watching your videos. Love from the Netherlands 🇳🇱

@tshepilicious 3 жыл бұрын

Yes to waiting for marriage video! Love this video!!!🥰

@lanalovesjesus6133 3 жыл бұрын

I relate to you so much in all your videos. Glad God showed me your channel.

@LifeWithBrandi 3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad I found your channel ! Your personality is amazing & what your channel about is awesome! I’m gaining strength in my walk with Christ and your channel is a great tool for that !

@MsKolo90 4 жыл бұрын

Yes video on being celibate. When did did you bring it up to him? When is the best time to tell your partner you want to wait?

@minimalassembly7893 3 жыл бұрын

He should already be convicted about being celibate before you bring it up. Otherwise, he will likely not be on board for long and you might feel rejected if he decides that it is not for him.

@jessicawestbrook3730 3 жыл бұрын

I think it should be stated right from the beginning.

@jessicawestbrook3730 3 жыл бұрын

If he's not on board, you can go ahead and weed them out.

@promiserobinson5113 2 жыл бұрын

Love it!! Thank you for your honesty.

@model_nvartistry 2 жыл бұрын

Binge watching...so good!!

@LB-mn5jq 4 жыл бұрын

Definitely want to hear more about your reasoning on sex before marriage. I struggle with this one. I wouldn't want to be married to someone who can't please me in the bedroom or who isn't comfortable talking or communicating around this topic but once you're married it's too late. Intimacy is so key in a relationship I can't imagine marrying someone without that missing link. 😕

@sm7640 4 жыл бұрын

Well in any relationship you have to communicate what you need in that aspect. No one is a mind reader and will know exactly what you need in the bedroom. If two people have a loving connection enough so to be married, then they should be able to be open enough to navigate that area together. It would be terrible to have a partner who you later find out is closed off or doesn’t care about learning how to make intimacy important for both participants though but that would speak more about what kind of person you are married to. Basically communication is key and women need to be verbal/vocal also especially if they love/trust their partner.

@LB-mn5jq 3 жыл бұрын

@Wilmina Robinson How can you learn if you don't practice...? You're relying on a single person to teach you everything you need to know when they have no knowledge either? It's fine if that's not important to you and you can live with an average sex life but realistically experience equals knowledge in all real life applications including this one.

@thegoodwife144 3 жыл бұрын

@Wilmina Robinson period❤️

@thegoodwife144 3 жыл бұрын

@@LB-mn5jq she’s saying that you learn and practice together. you tell each other what feels good and what doesn’t feel good... you don’t need multiple partners to know what feels good to you when you are having intimacy with the one you are married to. tell them speed up slow down like... it’s all about communication and practice.

@jbrown2180 3 жыл бұрын

Would love to follow your fitness journey. I’m sure we all would since we’re all experiencing COVID, maybe watching too much Netflix, snacking etc.

@WalkingInDivinePurpose 3 жыл бұрын

Please do a video on Sex as a Christian and how to to remain focus on God's word and his time.

@savannakadurira1083 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely loved this and I agree with you 100%❤️❤️❤️God bless you

@cfoBROOK. 4 жыл бұрын

Loved your response to the last question

@annikaminina7670 3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad I’ve found you girl 🌹🌹

@heatherlowles4967 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this Q&A session. 🙏✝️💗

@BusinessMarketingFanchon 3 жыл бұрын

Psalm 🙏 Proverbs 🙏 Romans 🙏 Proverbs=the serenity prayer is always APPROPRIATE.

@raventhomas260 3 жыл бұрын

Please make a video about waiting for marriage!

@TheLittlePrayerCafe 8 ай бұрын

I would love a video about fornication before marriage, like if you could do a whole series about it because this is something that I’m struggling with personally. Ideas thoughts things to do ways to keep busy why you shouldn’t have sex before marriage besides the soul ties. Can give like a complete detailed guidebook of why waiting to marriage is worth it. That series would be great.

@I.am.His.007 Жыл бұрын

I would say that keeping people who do not believe in God I'm your close inner circle isn't a good idea. At least from personal experience, it isn't good for me because i easily get influenced and am still a newer believer and don't have that level of self discipline just yet. I also want to be comfortable but ur right it's good to still have them as friends or aquatintces because that's how u invite them to Church and introduce them to God 👍🏿😊💗

@tracyelle2023 4 жыл бұрын

This was another great video! I really enjoy these type of conversation style videos from you. Also, yes to all the video ideas you mentioned and wanted feedback on, they sound like really good topics!

@WalkingInDivinePurpose 3 жыл бұрын

Sex out of marriage is wrong (Sin) if we fellow God's word. Corinthians 6:18-20 says “Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.

@judixx4247 4 жыл бұрын

Definitely interested in the behind the scenes video on editing, recording etc

@xthom001 4 жыл бұрын

👋🏾👑 Stopping by to show some love. 😍

@KimmieEli 4 жыл бұрын

So happy that I found your channel!!!

@Chanspiritxb 4 жыл бұрын

Oooo this is resque ... can’t wait to watch 👀‼️

@Quietstorm_1010 4 жыл бұрын

Loved this video so glad I found this channel

@zsazsasundayschool 3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations may God continue to bless your union

@BronzeSista 4 жыл бұрын

Great video sister!🙏🏾🙏🏻🙏

@Madilicious 4 жыл бұрын

Your videos are so calming

@goduxunike 4 жыл бұрын

I personally never felt attracted to Christian boys. The ones I've known are always so similar to each other. Say the same things, have the same lives. Dating agnostic/atheist people who respect my beliefs has been ok

@theninjasquad3956 4 жыл бұрын

But what about being unequally yoked. Paul says it's not a sin in 1st Corinthians I think but uts not advisable. Dont you what someone who can lift you up when you're down in your journey of faith. Think about it and pray maybe. Not judging just giving advice based on what I've heard and seen

@michsys3398 3 жыл бұрын

@@theninjasquad3956 brainwashed