很多事情不是任何人的错也不是自己的错,但就是会很痛苦,这种时候只有自救,不停摸索的自救,很不容易但是别无他法。每个人自救的方式也要寻找到适合自己的。很能理解贝卡在别人说宗教的时候愤怒,因为那个方法对她讲不通,但她不应该对别人无礼,别人能用的通那个方法也挺好,whatever works and different things work for different people. 很高兴贝卡无意中见到那个开车的男生,然后跟着自己的直觉去接近他,因为那个是她需要的outlet, to be able to make connection with and to talk to someone who literally is on the same page, in the same boat as she is. And actually she also gave the driver boy some help too. 妻子和丈夫处理丧子的方式不同也很正常,没什么规定说结了婚的人处理所有问题的方式都要合拍。但是沟通和耐心很重要,说说容易做起来可不容易。"Then what?" "I don't know. Something though." I think the director is trying to show us a sign of trust and patience even when you feel lost and confused.