Ye mere sath after marriage ho rha h... Shadi se phle usne kha ki m hr chij me sath dunga.. And after 3 month of marriage wo muje bole ki job chod do m ne deny kiya ki ye mera decision hona chahiye ki muje chodna h ya nhi.. Or wo hmesha aisa show krte h ki wo muje allow krnge to m job krungi nhi to nhi.. Normal honge to khnge ki job dhund lo or ldai hogi to iski hrkate dkhke m job nhi krne dunga... M is attitude se preshan ho gai hu.. M ek self dependend girl thi.. Software tester thi.. Now ab unka mn hoga to job dhung lo mn ho to chod do.. I am frustrated in my life with that person.. What to do????

@@itiseasy2709 apka jo man hai na mam vo kijiye... kyoki life choti bhi hoti hai or lumbi bhi... sab kuch acha ho to life choti lagti hai, par sab kuch apne hisaab se na ho na to bahut lambi.... ab aap sochiye ki apko kya karna hai🙂

@@itiseasy2709 plss yaar app wohi karo jo apki man kehte hain..n do you know one thing? log mar rahe hain ek acchi job ke liye aur jab woh aap ke pass already hain then why are you leaving..it should be your decission not some one else's ..so please don't waste time just take a stand for youself and go for it dear...

Kaash aisi message kisine hame 10saal pehele diya hota tho mere badi sister ki zindagi aaj bhikar nahi jati. Her husband had always issues with her because she is a simple women n one day he dropped her to my parents home. And he took their 6 old daughter with him. My sister daily cries for her daughter because he didn't allowed her to see or talk. One good thing is at least my sister is living with respect n peace full with our parents.

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Very true

🤐 True

and the solution is "Kuch toh log kahengeh ,logo Ka kaam Hain kehna." (mind your own business)🙂.hope it works

Chodo bekar ki baatein ,kanhi biit na jaye raina..😀🙂..i don't know why people interfere other's life.

Mera bhi

I can understand ur situation.....i'm happy in my married life but .....it's like contract ever ....He is not so bad for me....and not so good for me.....

Mee too

Yes u r right

U r right

Don't get married.... that's the best thing

@@lifehappened8251 But we should be financially independent or else !!!!!🥴🥴

True bro.

True

What will happen if it was boy saying this instead? Wont there be emotional blackmailing on boy to consider girl' s feelings & girl' s familys' feeling. Would it be okay for boy to break up the marriage 3 weeks/ 1day before the day of marriage or just refuse the nuptials at the time of the nuptials.

@@pratik.kataria very true 👍

@@pratik.kataria you should say what ever you feel it is better to do it before marriage than after marriage

No you are wrong many of important points raised by this channel

It is unacceptable to break things by giving silly reasons because why she agreed to finalize the wedding date without knowing him? Why didn't she take enough time to know him? What kind of mindset the girl character have? Please finalize things only after knowing your partner because if you are not able to understand your partner before marriage then how can you understand him after marriage? Think it.

@@Kumar_78844 Itna time kon deta hai😂 kuch logon ka tho 1-2 mahine mai shaadi ho shuka hota hai

@@mirroruniverse9331 Sorry madam, Once again I disagree with your opinion because if someone is not giving enough time before finalizing the things. Then how he/she willbe capable enough for that decision.

@@Kumar_78844 there are many educated families still in India where they expect the girl and boy to give thier decision in a week. But luckily if you get time between engagement and wedding sometimes you understand you are not compatible with that person because sir everybody puts thier best foot forward initially but as time passes only then you will come to know ones true character.

@@beautifulvignettes2217 Sorry, you are not getting what I had said.

बस भाई रुलाओ नहीं

Absolutely correct because I am suffering from same problem at the age of 17. In middle class family the parents can't understand their children and their rule that whatever they had done for their children was absolutely correct in this case the child get depressed but parents are unable to understand their feelings ,sure it's true that whatever parents had done for us is good because they had tensed our future but always doing this without listening was not good. We are girls not budden!!!

Yeah 🥺

Bilkul sahi kaha aapne

True

😂😂sahi baat

right......

Exactly

😂😂

😂😂😂

You got a bad soulmate?

@@kshemendragourav3746 no

All the best dear🙂🙂

@@kshemendragourav3746 hmm

@@PriyankaGhosh-ww8pz thanks

Takes a lot of courage to share this . May you start trusting again . Not everyone is the same ! All the best .

Sorry to hear your story. I hope and pray you get somebody who would sweep you off your feet. Stay happy and healthy ❤️😊

@@beautifulvignettes2217 thank you .. u stay happy too always

True I see many people think that love marriage is better. But that's not true. What matters is the person must be better. Love and respect should come from both sides. It doesn't matter if its love or arranged marriage.

@@patriotic190 100% agree

The same thing applies for arranged marriage too.

@@Lisa-sg1of yes I meant it for all type of marriages

@@fiyafoods Then you're right.

Read my comments also bro by the name love nation. Or aapka point bhi bilkul valid he. 👏👏👏

More power to you.. All the best have a great married life😊

Good suggestion

Do only extremely necessary work.like cooking..keep simple menu.when ppl don't care you n your baby why do you care them so much.

Nobody will support u..if your husband is not with you make him realize that this is his baby too.. get little more close to him and tell him that you and your baby are his responsibility. Best of luck.

Why would even a pregnant woman needs to work. Husbands can also work.

@@ritasahu4490 pregnancy is not to be considered as decease.rest is not mandetory.Only thing is do not over do.

iska mtlb ye bilkul bhi nhi hai, ki love marriage me sab sahi hota hai.... love marriage me bhi kai baar pahle sab sahi hota hai or baad me nhiii.....

Agreeed Mam sab sahi nhi hota har baar but atleast parents ko ye to samajna chye 4logo k chakar me apne bachoo ki khushi ka gala na dabade

Love marriages ki guarantee doge kya .....iski koi guarantee nai hai ki love marriage mein sab sahi hoga

Gurantee to Arrange marriage me bhi nhi hoti jii mai ye nhi bolta ki arrange marriage aachaa nhi but if kisi ka pyaar hai to vo usko mile just I mean that

@@dineshtalreja2370 wahi tho. Love ya arrange isse fark nai padta. Farak padta hai tho insaan se. Aap aisa kyon sochte ho ki kitne love marriages nai hue. Ye bhi ho sakta hai woh love marriages na hoke do insaano ki life kharab hone se Bach gayi. Shadi mein do insaan zaroori hai, unke beech mein understanding, respect and love ye bhi zaroori hai . Haan agar love sacha hai dono ek doosre se puri tarah khush hai tho ye baat alag hai. Par un dono ko zindagi bhar iss baat ka khayal rakhna hoga.

Gradually hi hoga In sbme time lgta h Hope for the best. 👍

Aur kawn hai ye log? Jiska hawala dekar log apne rai busro par impose karte hai. Agar sabhi apne aap ko Dusre ke mamle me openion dene se bache aur shirf apne Tak simit rshe to Sahi decision le sakte hai.

Not only indian but also Pakistani's parents It is all due to society

aisa kuch nai hai..ab koi kisi ki parwah nai karta ki kon kya keh raha hai or kya soch raha hai..aaj har koi wahi karta hai jo use sahi lagta hai..ab log duniya ki parwah nai karte..!!😏

@ Kiran! You are absolutely right!

Hmm u could not tell anyone But don't worry Time heals everything One day u r gonna adjust infact love to adjust 😊

Then take the bold.move it will be better than regretting after marriage. U might adjust for log kya kahenge but these will still say many things. Always remember that u r adjusting for those who will taunt u even after taking all ur sacrifices. So don't listen to others or society just do what u like and what will be fruitful ahead.

Sahi baat h 😂😂😁😁

I can understand but u can take it even now. There is still time and there will be always time to correct the wrong. Take the bold step that world is waiting for. Nd agar koi kuchh kahe then just tell them that log kya sochenge ye bhi hum sochenge to log kya hi sochenge. No one will be able to speak after that. All the best👍🏻

Very sorry to hear this, Tina, many girls and even guys have to suffer this fate..