sister you must ask yourself, what kid of a person you are denying another female a right to a lifepartner. On this planet there are more female than male, her only choices are, staying single, having an affair or become public property, very cruel isn't it?

@Todoneta For Life exactly...

@@EliteKozarcan you re sick

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@@bibaolaitan5189 lol good argument shees

Agree

Polygamy dont help!

@@JahannamHellfire it depends if the husband is mentally, and economically sound, and is not selfish.

Polygyny would create a lot of men without wives then why don’t you guys allow polyandry as well. There are 102 men for 100 women, so there are more brothers without wives especially the young ones who would be better provider. Polygamy creates more problem then it solves, it gives men too much power over women in relationship.

@@shintiariva6012 in my community our women outnumber us 10 to 1, and it's our ancestors culture, and monogamy has lefte a lot of African American women single.

It's not about a man providing for one. It's about creating family. What happens if this man gets sick or something happens to him ? We have to think much bigger than being provided for. It's about providing for one another. Building family or a village. This subject goes much deeper than just this video. I'm not criticizing you but just making a statement based on your response.

@@derwinsexton6283 Tbh unless the man is a provider, how do women benefit from polygamy? The whole idea is for the man to be a provider and the women caretakers for the home. If the women are doing the mans role and still be 100% caretakers of the home, then what men just can make minimum money yet have access to a whole lot of women? Naw not fair to women at all.

@@ruthhouston9860 , in Islam, men are not considered to be an easy task. It can be very straining and draining to be there for your husband 24/7. But when there's another wife, you have 2 days completely for yourself, and be yourself.

AnnaLee33 Yes that makes sense it’s probably hard especially when you have children to take care of. But i STILL believe when men are given women one woman or a billion women he should be a sole provider. Or atleast 75% provider men should never have access to women for free.

norain norainbows I agree, women who don’t choose to partake in a polygynous relationship should have the choice not to. And I believe in it, myself. I’m not a Muslim or anything, but certain things aren’t for certain people. I also agree that it’s the man’s duty to financially take care of his wife/wives since he is the head of the household. That is a part of it. I don’t agree with us going to other races, because that weakens us. We need to fix our problems within our community together. Peace.

Polygamy is destroying families

@@Jahannam...Hellfire. umm show some facts please because monogamy has a failing and destroying families. There are facts and stats to prove that.

@@klyetruman7285 Claims that monogamy destroys families, doesn’t back it up with any statistics or evidence but insists for you to look it up. 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

@@Ziiphyr no i suggest that you look up the statistics and realize that people are getting married less and less children are being born because of this forced monogamy. The marriage system is one sided. You obviously dimt know ehat you are talking about. It takes a village to raise a family. Worked perfect for the jewish people, rothchilds, rockerfellers, the royal families, and many other civilizations that practice this.

Polygamy in the UK had destroyed 1000 of families!.

The problem is islam countries will look down and bully any divorced women who want to escape from being co-wife. islam is bullsht

@@adw6894 there is Islam in theory and Islam in practice. In my experience as a revert to Islam I've learned that in countries with a predominant Muslim population often culture is superimposed over Islam. There are over 2 billion Muslims. To use your broad brush on the practice of Islam on 2 billion people is unjust.

Yes that's true

Women are ignorantly sharing their husbands today with the child’s mother before them. $$

What about being a mistress ?

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Bro you make no sense. You can strengthen ur relationships with God doesn’t mean ur not gonna be poor. What makes you think that women are clinging on to him? You really think that women only marry for money wow many people speaks of polygamy as if it’s oppressive then just go & degrade women in the process the irony.

No, they take 4 wives on welfare system! Men don't provide for the wives.

Or women clinging to one man because they respect his ability to lead, his vision. Why all the negative? Most women aren't even virgins these days so they are not in a position to play moral superiority. Too much entitlement.

If women just wanted "monogamy" then why aren't majority of them virgins upon marriage? This goes for both Muslim and non Muslim women. Clearly during her "hot girl summer" phase she wasn't concerned about "one partner". She wasn't concerned about monogamy but she now gets to bargain? A woman who has probably terminated pregnancies unjustifiably, giving her body to every man she found attractive ... western women need to drop this "one man, one woman" bs.

Lies,the polygamy thing comes mostly when the first wife has 2 -3 kids and can't leave anymore,then a younger more beautiful woman comes in. She knows she doesn't stand a chance in a "it's her or me " scenario.

@@alphabogeyman7462 haha ur joking right

@@rahamahabdul630 my great grandfather had 7 wives,my grandfather had 3,I'm not joking.

in my opinion that shouldnt even be in a book

H you really made a point

There no justice in polygamy marriages Muslim women suffer. I'm Muslim I know.

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@@JahannamHellfire why don't this suffering end for Muslim women😭😭

@@tulipbubbly3748 Because the Muslim men dont fear God!

@@JahannamHellfire a question since I'm not Muslim. Do all Muslim men practice polygamy??

So hurtful dear but what to do.. if it happens alihamdulillah

@@mrymsidrat5724 😭

Exactly, I've pity for Muslim women😭😭my heart bleeds hearing things they need to go through. But but you're not forced to . Islam tells that no woman should be forced to accept polygamy. If you don't want it, just digorce

Yea as a muslim we will speak on this before I even want to marry you and if you think you can't be with one woman then leave.

Muslim sisters are suffering in polygamy marriages and it's not Alhumdillah, polygamy is destroying the ummah and women starting to hate men, leave Islam! I've seen so many sisters suffering and then end up with mental health problems later leave Islam.

First of, you have to understand that men and women are not the same. Women are biologically designed to be with one man since the dawn of time for survival sakes but men aren't and are naturally polygamous and can love many women equally. Men never needed women to survive but women needed men. So I'd understand if you are a woman and you pick it from the female point of view but don't think men and women are the same. Since the dawn of time men have had many wives and only the poor couldn't afford to. A man can love many women equally but a woman can't do same ( thats why a man can love you with all his heart and still cheat but when a woman cheats shes effectively replaced the man with a better candidate)

@@mohammedgausu2298 I do not think your point that “men and women are not biologically the same” is good enough. Women can choose to have 1 husband and 100 boyfriends if they wanted to. Men do not want their woman to be with multiple men and it’s the same for women. And it’s not true that women cannot love more than one person. The abundance of polygamous relationships in the US will prove that. Not only do women have multiple lovers at the same time, but women fall in love with multiple men when getting in & out of relationships throughout their lifetimes. I don’t understand why men can’t stand the thought of their women being with another man. Look in the mirror. You can’t even imagine being in a woman’s shoes and loving yourself, because you wouldn’t even love you because you’re not worthy in your own eyes. That’s exactly how women view men too. We absolutely agree with you. That’s why women leave men. And if she doesn’t leave you, it’s either a toxic relationship or she’s just perfectly fine with polygamy. And no woman is going to be fine with being in rotation if you are not filling all of her financial, emotional, physical and mental needs.

@@mohammedgausu2298 Alhamdulillah women do not need men anymore to survive nowadays. At least definetly so in developed/ Industrialized countries. So this post does not make sense

@@lalalala9007 exactly the world would not even function with women and I just read him saying men don’t need women🙄

Thank you.

Imam Shaafi’i offered an additional exegesis for the final clause of the pivotal verse discussing the divine legislation of polygyny and the divine limitations imposed upon this ancient institution.[9] He espoused that the closing clause of verse 4:3, usually interpreted as ‘that is more suitable that you may not incline to injustice’ should be understood as ‘that is more suitable that you may not be financially strained by numerous children’. Imam Shaafi’i reasoned that divine decree had already listed fear of committing injustice as a reason to not wed more than once, hence it was pointless for the same reason (for not wedding more than once) to be expounded twice in the same verse. His alternative interpretation pursued the perception which held that the presence of a plurality of women in a man's conjugal life would produce undesirably large numbers of offspring, which could be a potential cause of financial hardship and poverty in the future. Given the emphasis that Islamic law stipulates on the welfare of children and nurturing children with permitted means of income, Imam Shaafi’i opined that it was legislated for a man to marry just once as an increase in the population of a family due to multiple marriages could potentially harbour harmful monetary consequences for the man who marries more than once.[9] Ash-Shaafi’i is of the view that it is desirable to confine oneself to marrying only one although it is permissible for him to marry more than one. This is to avoid being unfair by being more inclined to some of them than others, or being unable to financially support them. [al-Hawi al-Kabir 11/417].[11]

True. I find this topic interesting, just cause it's a strange concept in the USA. I have a short video about it on my channel- intended for Christians...who are monogamous out of tradition I believe.

I have and its still whack

@@tietearoddy you clearly haven't lmfao

Tina Buckner men and women not the same nice try tho

But if they have multiple husbands and if they get pregnant then how will they know who the dad is

@@ohwoww1 Get a DNA test.

Asiyah Abdullah Look back at the time they mated. Duh!

It’s obvious women and men a different in many ways. That’s common sense!

You will be pleased to have your husband fooling around or keeping many mistresses but wouldn’t tolerate if he marries one legally & love you both equally

@@FahadKahut both are not okay lmao

@@FahadKahut not all men cheat like you , okay?

@@FahadKahut do you even know what love is? And you can't say: feeling, obsession, lust, tolerance because none of this is love. If you know what love is you'll realize that a love a husband has for his wife is only for her

@Stoptalkinweunderattack Unite&fightbackdamnit Rightly said these western liberal thoughts supporting people want to view world from their glasses and not from other people's point of view.

I like your opinion Sarah

@DoughnationCreative Oh shut up and at least have the ability to apply common sense when you read comments 🙄

@@Fekuchand_ Yes

@@Fekuchand_ Yes she can and all the men could work together as a family

@UC_pMEzH8nF1i_qvymeKdINw If she has many husbands,they could more done.They could all protect each other and she could provide many children

@@paddymcgarren6655 well at a time only one child. How can you say children

@@paddymcgarren6655 well you didn't told me your gender and didn't described exactly what is woman gonna do of multiple husbands and are you ready to have multiple husbands if I guess you r female.☺️☺️☺️

I'm concerned that there are women out there being pressured and forced into it. Why should we be silent if people are getting hurt?

@@ilyem999 really ! Pressured and forced how ? Why don't they just get divorce ?

@@yhyaalaa5174 you're joking right?

@@ilyem999 no am not joking not at all what's wrong with divorce if a woman doesn't like the situation ? I do not mean to make fun of your words, but I really don't see any problem with divorce so Please share with me your thoughts what's is your point of view ??

@@yhyaalaa5174 i know some women suffering n they dont ask for divorce..

sanaulla sharief They need not compromise?????? Well ... being one of many and being alone 1/2, 2/3 or even 3/4 of the time is a BIG, BIG compromise in my opinion.

Well, you seem to be voting for a more sickly next generation because narrowing the gene pool is what polygamy does.

A man who is incapable of committing to one woman is not a proven responsible man. Most of these men have attachment insecurity and I would argue are probably the dismissive avoidant or fearful avoidant, a consequence of being likely raised themselves by avoidant attachment parenting, overly controlling cultural norms patterns perpetuated through generations.

@@theexoticalaspielady well how can you say man is not committed to single woman. You go in Saudi Arabia or dubai and see how there people live there life. Many men there have at least two wives. They have mansions which consists 10 to 12 rooms and many cars and servants. Well if money is in your pocket I don't think there is any problem in polygamy. All live a lavish lifestyle. I would say this concept is good for modern day landlords and kings in short for millionaire or billionaire. There is no matter of commitment here as everything is on the surface. Rather than having discrete affairs why not have wives. As I said this concept is best suited for wealthy men and not for middle class people. Just be pragmatic and do not comment anything non sensible.

Amey Vichare those men only provide finance and cannot meet the emotional and intimate needs of their wives and children. A man cannot live in two places at once. These marriages are primitive and do not meet the requirements for healthy relationships. They perpetuate dysfunctional households through generations.

Or more!

Yea 2 prostitutes and 1 pimp. Guess it works ...🤔

@@familymatters6122 wow to think of wives as prostitutes is backwards, what of relations between men and women who are not tied by marriage? Most people wouldnt take a second wife on if they were realistic. I believe it might be a difficult task for most these days.

@@KalikOsborne God one🙌

@@rblightchild awesome that you understand .

sucks to be you

No society or civilization has ever survived with a population of single people.

@Obvious Incel Being single is ok but, after a while it get depressing. Just like you said miserable!

Periodttt!!

Why?

Women dont have to share!

@@muhammadmafaz8530 Why do you even ask? Do you really think women would actually like to share their husband?

@@hu_man1 I just wanted to know why nothing to force my views.

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And there'r not enough women for all men to have 2 wives. If half of men have 2 wives, the rest will be single. lol. And most of men dont have enough ability to provide for 2 wives and children. Population is overload, no need to giving birth many children

Progress is an illusion people tell themselves to feel superior to others. This is such nonsense.

Please Only the muslim community follows polygamy while India being home to 5 religions. Every time Supreme Court tries to ban it,the community asks that non muslims do not interfere in this matter.

FYI, polygamy is a complete violation of Right to privacy

i agree to what you say, certain communities can be blessed through it, im not opposed

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That's in islam tho,as a man I want one wife

But that's up to you and the woman who you want to marry. If the woman doesn't want her husband to marry another, she can write that in the marriage contract, and the husband must obey if he wants the marriage. Don't you get it? It's a choice not forced. Islam only says it's permissible because, for example, at time of war, there are very few men which means millions of women won't have a family, children and home. Even now there are fewer men than women, imagine what happens in a time of crisis.

@@311kratos As long as the women agrees and isnt forced/pressured into it

@@paddymcgarren6655 alot of people don't think of any reasons before they judge other people. I know alot of people who married a second wife for good reasons. For example, there's one guy who couldn't have children because of his wife because she has problem and she can't get pregnant , the wife told her husband to marry another woman if he wanted children, which he did, he has another wife and kids and he is happy with both wifes. Another man has the same problem but refused to marry another wife. I know a wealthy man who married another 3 wifes besides the first, the wifes were Syrian widow refugees with kids, the man took all the widows with thier children and gave them a home and adopted them. They are now one big family living in 4 stories building. People need to stop judging others they don't think much about.

@@311kratos it's not judgment it's just opinion but hey if they cool then i guess

Imam Shaafi’i offered an additional exegesis for the final clause of the pivotal verse discussing the divine legislation of polygyny and the divine limitations imposed upon this ancient institution.[9] He espoused that the closing clause of verse 4:3, usually interpreted as ‘that is more suitable that you may not incline to injustice’ should be understood as ‘that is more suitable that you may not be financially strained by numerous children’. Imam Shaafi’i reasoned that divine decree had already listed fear of committing injustice as a reason to not wed more than once, hence it was pointless for the same reason (for not wedding more than once) to be expounded twice in the same verse. His alternative interpretation pursued the perception which held that the presence of a plurality of women in a man's conjugal life would produce undesirably large numbers of offspring, which could be a potential cause of financial hardship and poverty in the future. Given the emphasis that Islamic law stipulates on the welfare of children and nurturing children with permitted means of income, Imam Shaafi’i opined that it was legislated for a man to marry just once as an increase in the population of a family due to multiple marriages could potentially harbour harmful monetary consequences for the man who marries more than once.[9] Ash-Shaafi’i is of the view that it is desirable to confine oneself to marrying only one although it is permissible for him to marry more than one. This is to avoid being unfair by being more inclined to some of them than others, or being unable to financially support them. [al-Hawi al-Kabir 11/417].[11]

I kind of agree with you. Also, it seems like in a lot of the Islamic word they just pretend as if the other wives don't exist, it's not really a communal, let's all live in harmony type thing. So its like each woman is pretending to have a monogamous relationship, which seems odd. It's not like in traditional African culture, where families really were integrated. I think also, the economies most of us live in, all of us really, are not geared towards polygamy or polygyny.

@@JahannamHellfire But in Islam marriage isn't just about producing children.What if the man is sterile, then can he marry many women, no children to worry about.

So a old wise men should get all the women in the neighborhood? Lmao

@@kmjones041 just because someone or the majority practice polygamy doesn't make it right

DreamGyrl360 😃😃

I told my husband he can have a girlfriend, people thought i was nutts ..lol😃😃😃

@@Voila1999 you're not!!! I'm a unicorn looking for a family to join. I desire this form of love

@@tanw.5149 😅 . Alas, there is light! Even if she is a unicorn. 😉😊😊

Masha Allah

I dont like her opinion but respect it

@@crazygirlfriend9072 I don't care about your opinion

@@haithamalsuaibe473 well u cared enough to tell me u dont care soooo you care

@@crazygirlfriend9072 ???

@@haithamalsuaibe473 dont ??? Me u hear what I said

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Hanan Home cheating its when its done behind their back....every man wanders, whether you know about it ir not is different

@@blueberryj2 No, not every man "wanders". That is an insult to men. You're implying they're not capable of honour or faithfulness.

Yes, any woman who supports polygamy is either forced to or is herself a cheater, no other way

Hahaha

lololol

Imam Shaafi’i offered an additional exegesis for the final clause of the pivotal verse discussing the divine legislation of polygyny and the divine limitations imposed upon this ancient institution.[9] He espoused that the closing clause of verse 4:3, usually interpreted as ‘that is more suitable that you may not incline to injustice’ should be understood as ‘that is more suitable that you may not be financially strained by numerous children’. Imam Shaafi’i reasoned that divine decree had already listed fear of committing injustice as a reason to not wed more than once, hence it was pointless for the same reason (for not wedding more than once) to be expounded twice in the same verse. His alternative interpretation pursued the perception which held that the presence of a plurality of women in a man's conjugal life would produce undesirably large numbers of offspring, which could be a potential cause of financial hardship and poverty in the future. Given the emphasis that Islamic law stipulates on the welfare of children and nurturing children with permitted means of income, Imam Shaafi’i opined that it was legislated for a man to marry just once as an increase in the population of a family due to multiple marriages could potentially harbour harmful monetary consequences for the man who marries more than once.[9] Ash-Shaafi’i is of the view that it is desirable to confine oneself to marrying only one although it is permissible for him to marry more than one. This is to avoid being unfair by being more inclined to some of them than others, or being unable to financially support them. [al-Hawi al-Kabir 11/417].[11]

Haseebullah Mayar 😂😂

Every 7 seconds a child is being born because they are millions of women who have been pregnant for 9 months or less popping out babies

If you have dollars everything is possible. In marriage in today's world money is important... 💵💵💵💵💵💵💵

If you have dollars everything is possible.. Money matters. It's the major ingredient from a recipe called marriage... 💵💰💵💰💵🤑🤑🤑💸💸💸

At least, if there is another woman ...it is not hidden.

@@zafirahcoleman1604 well that's what I say rather than mistress why not wives and as said by me if a man is millionaire or billionaire then cherry on cake for everyone...

@@zafirahcoleman1604 well that's rightly said.

DreamGyrl360 I would like to view your videos on this topic.

To those questioning God's approval of polygamy, let's see what the Bible says. Abraham was a polygamist. Jacob, who later was renamed Israel (from whom the 12 tribes of Israel came) was a polygamist. These were hardly men who discounted God's will. The most telling evidence comes in 2 Sam. 12:7-12. Here we have the prophet Nathan quoting God in condemning David for his adultery with Bathsheba. In verse 8, God says that He (God) gave David his master's wives and then goes on to say that if he (David) wanted even more, God would have given him more. But because of his sin, verse 11 says that God is going to take away David's wives and give them to another individual man who will have his way with them. If God hates polygamy, why did God give David those wives? And why did God offer to give David even more? More importantly, why would God take those wives from David and give them to another INDIVIDUAL man rather than giving them to several men so that the women would have monogamous marriages? Regarding Paul stating that Christian leaders be restricted to having one wife, such restrictions indicate that polygamy was found in the early Christian church. If everyone was monogamous, why would Paul feel the need to include that restriction? It would be like prohibiting leaders from being idol worshipers or unbelievers. Since the church contained none such, such prohibitions would be silly. Specifically banning polygamy for leaders shows that polygamy WAS practiced in the early Christian church and that polygamist men might have been considered to be bishops if it weren't for this restriction. Such a ban wouldn't have been needed had there been no polygamy in the church. Having extra wives and the extra kids that they'd produce would require polygamist men to spend more time with family and less of their time on other matters than monogamist men. They'd have less time to dedicate to being a church leader and tending to the needs of the flock. Because of this, men with just one wife would be better suited to serve the Christian community as a leader. Paul wasn't condemning polygamy but rather simply making sure that church leaders had time to adequately deal with the responsibilities of being church leaders. Banning such leaders from practicing polygamy also kept them from possibly offending potential Greek converts whose culture denounced polygamy. In 1 Cor. 10, Paul tells Christians to abstain from allowed behaviors if those behaviors could cause non-believers to be offended and reject the Christian message. The bottom line is that polygamy is in no way condemned by God in the Bible.

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Chris Bowen not everyone who questions it is Christian though

@@account_nameonline6420 Agreed, but Christians should accept it as acceptable to God. It may not be for everyone, but it shouldn't be condemned.

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Why the negative face?

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So you compare your husband to a material possession like a bank account ? If you can't meet his needs, should it not be your duty to give to him what he needs, to see your loved one happy?

You going to share him rather you know or not!!!

Your husband is a human too, you know?

@@AnnaLee33... **Unfortunately it seems that's what many women (of course not all) look at men as nowadays!* 💯

No need for you to cause u You lack knowledge on how to make it grow instead of deplete. So dont concern yourself. You already are in lack so dont entertain yourself an stop speaking on those who can ✌💙💡🙏

Agreed

Buddy Odell Did God really give them those wives? Or did those men chose for themselves? Be careful now

Buddy Odell... what 2 Samuel 12:8 says? God himself told David he would give him more wives if he asked instead of took Uriah's wife... it's a sort of protection for the women specially the widows when their husbands died in war so can always joint another family

Biggie's Productions God told David that to keep him from committing adultery and murder. It was part of the negotiation. But David did what HE wanted. He had Uriah killed in battle so he could screw his wife. Selfish, greedy and lustful might I add. David is a bad example. So is Solomon. And you dont have to marry a woman to protect her.

Buddy Odell sounds more like a business opportunity than a loving relationship. I cant imagine how the first wife feels when her husbands comes to her and says " fix up the spare bedroom honey cause you know what you signed up for."

its you been selfish when you have many women unmarried!

Mahmud Adeniyi Why does everyone have to be married? why does everyone have to have the same things in life. If someone wants to do it,fine but people dont have to feel pressured to solve the world's problems let them decide how they want to help

This way of thinking is nothing by self centeredness . The same selfish way of thinking that causes the gap between the rich and poor widening . But if you actually give it a good thought you will discover if every one is in a marriage which can only be achieve through polygamous will be less chaos in the society , less promiscuity husband ,less women trying to be wayward or mistress competing to seduce your husbands

@Mista Scott Money is a big part of it Islam doesn't shy from that, men are meant to provide for the family

You don't need to marry to provide a woman. If you are so great, provide the woman and give her shelter without marrying

Nigeria is an example of instability. If there are less men it points to a bigger social issue of war poverty poor healthcare and addiction. Women should take the economic power in such places - it’s happened before with small business loans - then look at the region prosper. Women are more than capable of taking care of themselves

John Bedford

Its all about lust and control

They wicked too

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And then civilisation happened..

👏👏👏...

Which is what bothers me about islam.. is that the decision to take a second wife doesnt lie solely on the first wife... and ppl try to justify it by saying helping an orphan or a widow, when we all know its because of lust.. and it is very possible to help a widow or an orphan you dont actually have to marry them, especially if the first wife doesn't agree.... its inhumane... and unfair to the first wife, just divorce and marry another.... and stop masking having a side chick with the civility of marriage..also ppl that use African culture to justify it, dont follow African religion.. the hyprocrisy!!!

Was religion not supposed to control lust..instead of encouraging it..

@@bibaolaitan5189 I am not religious, I don't have time for religious dogma.

@@DanielJeffcoat-tt8wn me either!!

You got to be from South Carolina

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Charleston lol

Polygamy is fitnah

Why is monogamy so hard?

Never do polygamy

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I'm for polyandry

You take about sunnah, start with your fard also Muslim brothers ignore the sunnah of fasting on mondays and Thursdays, they ignore the sunnah of praying 2 Rakats before fair, they forget that Tahajjud is a sunnah. The only sunnah they remember is to marry 4 wives... as Muslims we must fear Allah swt and not change the deen to suit our needs, unless we want Allah punishment to come upon us, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then one [marry only] from Quran... And you will never be able to be equal just between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. From quran from Quran... Allah said Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded. Surat An-Nahl 16:90 And Allah says O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do. Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8 “A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196) A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to. It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it. No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter. By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.

It's only a sunnah, not fard.

Lol you can't control that

@@BRKS627 it is not about control. Most relationships in the religion of Islam are just monogamous. The choice is the man's and most men choose to marry once and once only. It is about reality.

Everyone talks about that polygamy also exists so that women wont stay single because there are no men. Please there are so many unmarried old man in my circle. What about them. Arent polygamous men taking away their rights??????

AMEN

burrrrrrn

Mohamud Ahmed bacically you’re ok with it until you start listening to what others in society tell you - that’s it’s weird, that it’s immoral, that it’s wrong, etc. would you personally think anything of polygamy if you hadn’t already heard other people saying it’s strange? Probably wouldn’t even matter to you.

Word...!!!

True that dealing with such a situation right about now until I have decided to shut everyone away and do mi

Lie

Stop lying tho 😂😂

😂🤣 look at how women in Saudi Arabia suffering and them comeback an lie more

Jenny Chris Exodus 21:10: "Raba said: a man may marry wives in addition to the first wife; provided only that he possesses the means to maintain them". It’s mentioned multiple times through the Bible.. including important men having multiple. Read it a little more if you’re gonna preach it so ferociously.

@@arriannasanguine8335 you are lying...it does not say that...it says "if"... the fact remains GOD created a female Adam... what is it that you don't understand... A... is singular...

@@peachesb-georgia1125 if and provided is the same thing dummy...ur in a hurry to argue i dunno why

@@rahamahabdul630 you are the dummy... don't understand what you are trying to say... but as I always say... you do you... hope you will be happy... it's not for everyone and everyone will not accept it...

@@peachesb-georgia1125 in the heaven there you will have to bear more women with your husband... :D

lies you cant tell a man in ilam that he cant marry 4 wives its his right and the wive cant stop him nd where are u getting these facts miss

Still second wife can not force men to divorce his first wife. If he's ready to live with both of wives then second wife has no authority to judge him. Fear to Allah we can't change his religion.

Neither wife has a right to prevent the husband from taking another wife. If she decides to seek divorce, that is an option either of them can take. Islamically. It is called khula. The divorce the woman has a right to

Muslim man treat woman as salve, you can give many reasons but the truth is high class salve

@@mangalamgrace2415 How do muslims treat their women as slaves? How? This is not a good statement because you speak for all men. Well my father and I treat our ladies like gold. Other might treat them bad. Women treat their husbands bad.

@@mangalamgrace2415 actually men are men they choose their own actions but they are sining because that’s not the Islamic way or Muslim way. Woman are appreciated and protected in Islam you are not to oppress her do more research on Islam and being a Muslim instead of bad rep that you’ve heard or bad Muslims that truly aren’t Muslims doing sinful actions

@@aspiringyoungartist6716 Muslim women aren’t oppressed in nations practicing sharia law? Are you high?

Toxic

Keep your hate speech to yourself, and do not pretend that all non muslim monogamous men stop their eyes from going astray, their tongues chatting up women and their limbs from cheating. Marriage to more than one wife upholds decency, rights and respect When all really practise the religion

@@speakthehaqq56 Sorry my mom is commenting on my stuff but what she mean is you should only have 1 wife at a time not 8 have a good day sir.

That is ridiculously unacceptable

That is unacceptable. That makes no sense. You are one female. Two male energies to one makes no sense. Economically two woman and on man makes sense.

@@jamalstephon Why? If both women are earning as much or more than the men?

Jamal Dunning Says who little boy? Your mind can’t conceive of a woman being liberated and having the power to control men can it?

Yes. when men having multiple female is bad but female having multiple men is nice. Hypocrisy.

That’s not right! Just love and respect one woman. It’s not your job to provide or care for any other! Especially if your wife is not okay with it. She is a woman and must be respected so just stick to that and don’t worry your self about other women. Always think about it in the opposite way would you be okay if your wife was allowed to pursue multiple men! No you wouldn’t so why do it to her then!

It is not up to you to determine when a man should marry or how many women he should be married to. Marriage is a serious and very personal decision. It is not something that someone else decided for another.

Buang

@@shortstorywriter But don't you think it's wrong for people to commit adultery?

@@missmkhalifa5827 Do because ALLAH allows it and a man wants to

dizz duzz lol

@@dizzduzz5058 how is this number(1.8 billion) accurate? Especially the punishment for leaving Islam publically is death or be jailed... Would anyone dare announce that they are no longer a muslim? Even in the most liberal islamic country such as Malaysia, no muslim is *allowed* to leave Islam, google "Lina Joy".. how is this number ever accurate then? Its more like a cult, once you enter, theres no way out, if you want out, you get killed or jailed.. 1.8 billion, yeah yeah 🤣👍👍🤣🤣👍👍

@@m.e4752 Interesting how you think your 5-sentence argument dispels a 1.8 billion statistic. Very utterly compelling!

@@solomonnderitu2421 hahahaha same to you... so your 1 sentence confirms 1.8 billions to be true? Lol.. come on, another joke please.. im waiting

@@m.e4752 Another one? What's the point, you'll just recycle it.

In a polyandrous marriage how will you know who the father is?

Upgraded Byeongsin some societies considered all the husbands the father. The child had a number of fathers.

Upgraded Byeongsin There is something called a blood test

Diane Taylor just wanted to no why is this nonsense

Waste of my time

If it doesn't make sense to you, doesn't means it's non sense 😊

Don't watch it then it is that simple.

Haha these feminists are funny, as if men are ever faithful u need to wake up and wash your face from fairytales

@@rahamahabdul630 🤣 who hurt you?

You're white you wouldn't understand

White people always think they know everything. First speak only on your culture ( which holds no moral high ground due to all the things yall have done) second you know nothing and i mean nothing of our culture, and if you think you do i challenge you to debate me on KZfaq live.

Smiso Pridesworth As an East African woman myself I completely agree

You don't go heaven

yeah, so they can watch their husband have a fuckfest with their 72 full-breasted virgins

@@Anna-cx4tg In Sha Allah I want this

It's gaslighting and manipulating women into polygamy marriages nowadays

@@Anna-cx4tg women to yk lgbt women will love this

Its like man marrying widows and taking care of orphans as their own

its god's decree sponge bob

@Muhammad Salman They don't have DNA test?

@@mildhoney2092 it not accurate and women's psychology is they like to be more emotionally attached with one husband. Finally she'll be not happy like men having multiple wives.

You take about sunnah, start with your fard also Muslim brothers ignore the sunnah of fasting on mondays and Thursdays, they ignore the sunnah of praying 2 Rakats before fair, they forget that Tahajjud is a sunnah. The only sunnah they remember is to marry 4 wives... as Muslims we must fear Allah swt and not change the deen to suit our needs, unless we want Allah punishment to come upon us, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then one [marry only] from Quran... And you will never be able to be equal just between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. From quran from Quran... Allah said Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded. Surat An-Nahl 16:90 And Allah says O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do. Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8 “A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196) A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to. It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it. No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter. By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.

How do you feel about children who have to share parents?

@@simorf Hm ... You can't compare parental/family love with spousal love. The love between spouses is a very special one: romantic and passionate. Couples are attracted to each other, desire each other. They have an intimate relationship. They make love to each other. That's a BIG difference to the platonic love we have for our children, family and friends.

Daniel Jeffcoat in Islam u can’t marry a second woman if the first doesn’t approve. But of course some men still ignore commands like these to satisfy themselves but that’s their own fault and they will be judged accordingly.

Yes now women wants a law to ban it and send everyone who practice it to jail

What percentage?For me it was brotherhood.

There’s actually men who converted to Islam just to marry 4 wives the religion allows men to beat up women and control them

King David?

and if you are single woman of single parent you are desperately seeking men attention !

Grow up

Holistic Hippie Housewife Thanks for the suggestion. But I'm good 👍

I'm going to guess that you are not speaking from experience. If so, are/were you a bored man who took a second wife or are/were you the 2nd wife "or below"?

T Plez I am neither. And dont need experience. Its very obvious what the true motive is

Praz Yeah buy??? We’re not property. Check yourself.

Praz Yeah I don’t care what you do... and you’re not entitled to my respect. I don’t owe you anything. End of😌

@Praz Yeah sure thing, praz

If you wanna be a second wife it's up to you, but please don't ruin other women's life by being her husband's second wife without her consent.

Muslim woman act like they need men so they will accept

@@NorthPhilly-zr7xc Islam is not indigenous to Africa, Islam was forced on our ancestors.

@@DanielJeffcoat-tt8wn agree I already know,you can't tell them that

I am african and polygamy does not work perfectly here with cowives been malicious towards each other and children been brought up in a toxic home