She Keeps Flaking and Cancelling Dates

She Keeps Flaking and Cancelling Dates | How to Break the Flake

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3 жыл бұрын

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@LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 жыл бұрын

Never chase after getting rejected or dumped. Understand your self worth & value your attention. Don’t give it to someone who does not deserve it. Never let a woman TOY with you & waste your time & energy!

@ianerickson2210 3 жыл бұрын

Absolute facts, thanks for the wisdom brother

@lielie5091 2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you... For me flaking rejecting ignoring cheating means low interest so better move on find another girl...

@noseefood1943 3 жыл бұрын

She’s not really into you, just keeping you around as a beta orbiter

@moviefan8533 3 жыл бұрын

There is someone out there who would be mortified to flake on you, who’s cuter than this girl, and who has a better personality. Hold out for her.

@AZITHEMLGPRO 2 жыл бұрын

lol cope

@moviefan8533 2 жыл бұрын

@@AZITHEMLGPRO Ass what?

@PrimalKingTV 3 жыл бұрын

Flaking is usually a sign of a deeper problem. I would personally move on if a girl canceled the second date.

@jamilmcclelland8304 3 жыл бұрын

Yep

@Ejub.m 2 жыл бұрын

@Ankit Rana you ignore her

@elmo319 6 ай бұрын

Three strikes and you’re out? Sometimes there’s a legitimate reason….

@yardknight4953 Ай бұрын

@@elmo319 they can say what it is or get lost.

@paulthomas2178 3 жыл бұрын

The medium is the message, if she had Genuine Desire she wouldn't flake on dates

@LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 жыл бұрын

A woman's attraction for a man grows when she feels that the man is better than her. She has to work for your attention and approval then her attraction will grow

@elvinsormalihan4063 3 жыл бұрын

If she flakes you, just simple. Mirror her behavior

@Tom-ts5qd 3 жыл бұрын

But isn't this immature, butthurt, going down to her level?

@dkt2365 2 жыл бұрын

@@Tom-ts5qd gotta speak their language to get through to them unfortunately

@rymanshroomzorz 2 жыл бұрын

@@Tom-ts5qd sometimes I think the same thing, but ignoring somebody who is already ignoring you, morally speaking, should not bother them, if it does then it simply indicates a lack of self awareness on their part, if they don't like to be treated the same way they treat others then maybe they should change how they treat others.

@simonscowled9925 3 жыл бұрын

People still hookup and meet up during covid-19. If she was interested she'd meet you

@karlopeternel7685 3 жыл бұрын

If she flakes cut her off and move on You wonna deal only with high intrest women trust me who makes it everything easy for you Cheers

@blastoise01 3 жыл бұрын

Just apply the B.I.G strategy. Block, Ignore, Ghost. Finish it at your own terms.

@bonfacemacharia8712 3 жыл бұрын

A person's actions show how they feel about you if she flakes continuously it means two things she is dealing with another guy or an ex has come back into the picture

@wongel3950 3 жыл бұрын

🎯 nailed it “COVID is not a time for dating but instead a time to focus on leveling up, finding hobbies, finding a new discipline or skill all the above”

@ianerickson2210 3 жыл бұрын

Amen amen amen

@daryl9799 3 жыл бұрын

100% dating apps are such a waste of time the amount of hungry men out there is just a never ending buffet for these women.

@rx11s718 3 жыл бұрын

Been following Chris's advice for 2 years. After that my life has changed unimaginably. I have transformed from a nice, shy person to a person who now controls his life according to his will. All thanks to this man!

@afonsodeportugal 3 жыл бұрын

Remarkable.

@ianerickson2210 3 жыл бұрын

I’m sure you put a hell of a lot of time behind the scenes. Good stuff brother, we so high up and we only goin higher 💯

@rx11s718 3 жыл бұрын

@@ianerickson2210 Exactly bro. Universe tests you before giving the gift. It is a gradual process and requires patience

@HassanPoyo 3 жыл бұрын

Any man on dating apps in a pandemic is just shooting themselves in the foot.

@HassanPoyo 3 жыл бұрын

If she flakes and doesn't attempt to make up with another day then move on. Simple.

@Da_Big_G 2 жыл бұрын

Simple. If a woman flakes a first time, just don't contact her and move on. If she comes to you asking what has happened, explain the situation and give her one more chance. If she flakes a second time, cut off all contact with her and ignore everything she says.

@MMA-CLIPS2 3 жыл бұрын

Chris, you've contributed towards me changing my life these last 12 months. I'm better in almost every single way, thank you.

@BangMaster96 2 жыл бұрын

Remember Gents, the more you chase after her, the more she runs away from you. Chasing after a single girl is like running up those endless flight of stairs in Super Mario 64. You can keep running, but you can't reach the top unless you level up first. So, if she is running away from you, stop chasing her, and level up first.

@KhanivoreQniba 3 жыл бұрын

Text her the words ‘Ok bye’ and forget her.

@dnatividad2 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Chris! 1. Great advice regarding the pandemic. 2. This is is some of the best dating advice around. Thanks for the great content.

@stefanross8129 3 жыл бұрын

Yes! With flakes CUT & RUN! On to the next one! Bravo.

@numba1jebac 3 жыл бұрын

Ever since I developed a 0 flake tolerance policy I've been getting so much more done n feelin better in the head. None of that feeling sorry for myself crap mentality anymore where I'm still chasing n persuing despite seeing red flags of her flaking. Cut em outta ur life n watch em chase n still don't take em back until they really work hard for u n even then u don't have to. Ull see how powerful that behavior makes u over time

@Metalheadaches 3 жыл бұрын

Damn I didn't expect the first part, totally true. As always thank you for the amazing content Chris.

@southwestxnorthwest 3 жыл бұрын

I simply cant understand why dudes will sit there and text girls all fucking day; dont you guys have lives or anything to do? If a woman keeps texting me like that, I just quit responding.

@Champ1988 3 ай бұрын

Binging these vids today. I actually had no issues getting dates during this time. I was still getting kisses as well. I still used the principal of interest level and it held up. In fact, I was the one that was more hesitant after having already lost a loved one a week before lockdowns. Interest level cuts through everything.

@mayorofthenonsense 3 жыл бұрын

It's very simple - if she flakes or tries to reschedule, let her know that she won't be getting a second chance. Many women pull this card as a test to see how desperate you are. If she sees that you will easily reschedule for her, she will interpret it as weakness and desperation. But if she sees that you are willing to walk away, there is a good chance she will rethink her position and start pursuing you. Never settle for less than 100% enthusiasm, and you will attract the right kind of women into your life.

@nickkaol 3 жыл бұрын

Happened to me she asked for a reschedule I said yes but did not pursue her, on the day of the meet up she never reached out and neither did I.

@1bosstv 3 жыл бұрын

@@nickkaol She got with a man who was better than you anyway. Just be glad you didn't buy her onlyfans or simp for her. She couldn't control you either...damn she only saw you as a beta.

@blair5475 7 ай бұрын

@@nickkaol Any update?

@kiuk_kiks 3 жыл бұрын

I broke up with my girlfriend on New Years. I already knew not to get on dating apps because I’ll just waste time with women who aren’t willing to meet up with me during a pandemic and total lockdown here in Britain. What’s the point of trying to see women when they have the perfect excuse to never show up?

@gregmoverley7525 10 ай бұрын

Thank Chris. Right on point with YourcExperienced Advice !

@despachantecentral3841 3 жыл бұрын

2 flakes mean u out...

@ValNanovsky 3 жыл бұрын

Solid advice. Gotta be able to move on.

@kingdavid772 Жыл бұрын

The girl I’m dealing with is the one that initiates most of the time and keeps arranging to hang out then flakes. Makes no sense

@markusaurelius777 10 ай бұрын

Women are weird. PERIOD.

@brasileiroloko5375 10 ай бұрын

exacly like my situation

@Noxious200 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Chris, thanks for the videos over the years. Any chance you could up the volume in this new format of video? Cheers

@danialmr5960 3 жыл бұрын

Love you man

@itsik777 3 жыл бұрын

This one should have Many milions views:)

@jans3333 2 жыл бұрын

4:53 very good advice

@goodgel5024 2 жыл бұрын

Abundance Mindset we need, And It's frustrated being alpha cause many of girl just one night stand or not long relationship we have, that's Action Is better than worlds

@dylan1159 3 жыл бұрын

It's going to happen regardless, it's not a big deal if she flakes especially first dates, the amount of options she has is ridiculous, she doesn't need to prioritise you unless you're time and attention is scarce. Women flake because guys come on too strong and don't behave like a real man. If you guys need any help, just ask.

@szarekhostwind 3 жыл бұрын

so no texting everyday? but she said she like men who are consistent.. is this a shit test?

@StonecutterSC 3 жыл бұрын

Dude if she comes up with any excuse when you're trying to set up a first date, and youre giving her a couple days notice, she has no desire for you. Consider anything but an enthusiastic "Yes!" as a rejection and move on to another woman. Have some self respect.

@szarekhostwind 3 жыл бұрын

@@StonecutterSC I followed the no communication thing and after 2 weeks she texted me back..and now she's asking me for a date..its unusually rare in my country to be chased back by a woman though

@StonecutterSC 3 жыл бұрын

@@szarekhostwind good job you showed her you are not a needy simp like the other guys and she is probably attracted. Give her the honor of going out with you, set something up. Remember you are the prize. If she waffles follow what I said above.

@theglobalistchannel1471 2 жыл бұрын

Hey bro, so what about when theyre your gf already? She flaked on me once. I told her she had to plan the next date, she hasnt, its been 2 weeks no dates, I havent planned anything neither taken her anywhere. She flaked again last nigth. I just havent texted. Shes on seen.

@mariontiberion6722 3 жыл бұрын

Tell her she's not worth it and block her!

@amanahmad1391 Жыл бұрын

Heyy Chris, do we have to Mirror her actions and emotions in this..... Or just simply have to go No Contact till She Comes back. Please telllll

@jilokizito1705 3 жыл бұрын

She flaked, I dumped her.

@1bosstv 3 жыл бұрын

No, she dumped you first. You're just reactively moving on because you couldn't do anything else. I just hope you blocked her.

@thetuffament 2 жыл бұрын

Don't block her show her how great of a life you have without her. With career Hobbies and better looking women

@kazesensei4840 2 жыл бұрын

when she says "I'm busy" don't freak out just say it's okay and move on then she'll realize she made a mistake girls are emotional beings once you tick her emotions she'll start to get stressed and feel anxiety then she'll feel sorry for this behavior

@khethasithole5539 10 ай бұрын

I hope so 😊

@luthotshemese6807 3 жыл бұрын

Is this a re-upload?

@robertmoore294 3 жыл бұрын

It's a test and the man don't know she is testing him the whole time. He just got to be man enough to know her as a human being period. But its not worth the time thinking its going to work and deep down it's not. Just move on and find someone who wont flake u, it's not the time.

@billionjaybirds1906 3 жыл бұрын

NEXT!

@dinok.3809 Жыл бұрын

Gotta understand that even some of the most average lookin ladies are getting bombarded online with matches. We're talking anywhere from 50+ at any given time. Out of those, she's actively chatting with half, and then actively pursuing half of those, for an actual meet. So yes, you will get flaked on. ALOT. Learn to distinguish those you put on the slow track (check on every few weeks), with those you forget entirely. Usually I forget about her entirely, after the first, or second flake for sure.

@ryuhayabusa5 Жыл бұрын

Bruh, I had a girl flake on me even when she set up the date, imagine that haha.

@K9amilo90 Жыл бұрын

Yeah, me too. I was ghosted in the end

@FAITHandLOGIC 3 жыл бұрын

Never put up with this crap. If she flakes or ghosts, she's discourteous and should not be given attention.

@ravichandra1914 3 жыл бұрын

We want animation videos.....sir

@myetoob23 3 жыл бұрын

Cut contact with a woman who flaked on me multiple times. After a couple of weeks she reached out asking how I'm doing and I replied "good to hear from you, when can we meet up." Finally got her to give me her availability after some initial beating around the bush, told her a day and that I'd wait for her at my place. Since she's flaked more than once without notice I figure she has to come to me now until she's earned my effort. She has replied that she wants to meet halfway because she's moved an hour away since we last saw each other. I feel like I shouldn't agree to that and tell her to let me know when she can come all the way, and to not reply until she does knowing she's going to complain and say that it's too far. Is that the best way to handle the situation?

@donramon2501 3 жыл бұрын

Did you meet her

@myetoob23 3 жыл бұрын

@@donramon2501 a couple of weeks went by before she eventually agreed to meet. Since I started a new job near the halfway point she originally wanted to meet at I told her we could meet after I got off at a park near the job. She complained saying she had to get up early, blah blah blah, if I could drive closer to her. Told her no, I was already halfway between my place and hers. She did come but didn't call when she headed out like I had asked her too so I could clock out, she just texted. Called when she was already nearby so I made her wait until I finished, clocked out, went to the gas station, then drove to the park. Since she was making things difficult I returned the favor.

@iJuceYou 2 жыл бұрын

If they are flaking, tell them to use dandruff shampoo.

@tommydawson7147 2 жыл бұрын

Why you mean by "flake" when you meet a girl from cold approach and texting and she lets on read is not flake, its just that a test many times.

@inserter400 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Chris No contact isn't working for me, I have tried everything to work on myself but I just cant get over my wife breaking up with me. She is trying to serve divorce papers on me. I thought she would of had second thought by now. Any advice on why she hasn't reached out or how I can stop loving her and getting past this ?

@daryl9799 3 жыл бұрын

Go to therapy man you need help ive been there.

@josephlemessager4202 2 жыл бұрын

Start meeting new people and enjoy life with them. Stop focusing too much on her

@leenightingale9061 3 жыл бұрын

Why do they say "are you just here for sex?"

@JK-np8dr 3 жыл бұрын

my problem is the girl notices I'm ignoring her so her first msg is "What's wrong?" "Something I did?".. do I even respond to that ? Usually ignoring that question usually ends up killing teh friendship too

@l0remipsum991 3 жыл бұрын

don't reply

@dreamcore 3 жыл бұрын

"friendship" lol

@NoName-zb1gm 2 ай бұрын

A lot of women like the thrill of the chase. They like guys talking to them and messaging them and checking them out. They don't want a relationship. They want the validation. I've gone through this 3-4 times just in the past 8 months,

@gameinfoxz8213 3 жыл бұрын

Chris tell us more. I need your help make alpha male videos ...

@sincerelyme7423 Жыл бұрын

4:20

@_noname2032 11 ай бұрын

Judt6god flaked on. Would have the 3rd Date, cooking at my crib. Fuck it, I'm not answering.

@SanaxUltd 3 жыл бұрын

please fix your microphone

@donramon2501 3 жыл бұрын

I know to low

@svenk5221 Жыл бұрын

Go and see somebody else

@efanaja1583 3 жыл бұрын

My girlfriend been together with Mr for 1 year. At beginning our relationship, she let Me check her phone.. But now she don't allowed me to check her phone.. What should i do? I feel she's losing interest in me.. I must be the one who first initiate for sex. I feel she's being difrent.. What should i do?

@JohnDoe-gq3tm 3 жыл бұрын

Stop being possessive, paranoid, and needy. If someone wants to cheat on you then they will. And they'll probably start treating you poorly. At which point you dump them. There's no reason to check her phone. And if there is then you should've already dumped her. Have respect for yourself and her.

@jimbo6413 3 жыл бұрын

Why the fuck do you feel the need to check her phone? That just reeks of both emotional insecurity and weakness. Stop being a control freak. Live your life, let her live her life. If you want to feel completely in control of something then buy a dog. Seriously.

@efanaja1583 3 жыл бұрын

@@jimbo6413 I agree, but at some point I feel like if there isn't something she hide from me. Then she must be fine with it just like before.. Now I'm feel like she's hiding something and it's drive me crazy.. But I'm still act cool meanwhile I'm really2 feeling she's change..

@jimbo6413 3 жыл бұрын

@@efanaja1583 Just let her go. The insecurity and self-doubt you're displaying will only serve to drive her away. You need to be calm, cool and collected...in other words, be a man. Let her be the one who worries.

@samgraca2953 3 жыл бұрын

She cheating homie, been there!

@egemensuzgun4208 3 жыл бұрын

my girlfriend (wile i look after our 2 kids) flakes on me every weekend

@larryrubin5150 3 жыл бұрын

F em

@rufflemuffle 3 жыл бұрын

That's a fake email. 100%

@efanaja1583 3 жыл бұрын

I have problem on my relationship,we been together for 1 year.. So I admit I make mistake before when she pregnant I force her to abortion. Because I was not ready.. But now I'm ready and I love her even more.. But now she loosing interest for me. I feel it, she's being pull away and I always the one who initiate sex. For my mistake, I already change and I Wana be with her for the rest of my life. But I feel she's still can't forgive me, we still together but she's change... I what should I do guys? Should I walk away or keep waiting for her.. Because she's really2 change, her behavior and her attitude toward Me, now she kinda act bitchy and disrespect me.. 😢

@roottargz 3 жыл бұрын

Breakup with her, she needs space and time for attraction to regrow. Withdraw all sorts of attention, and find some fun activities, if she is getting cold, you should get colder and more stoic. Meet other women, let her regret and attraction to regrow.

@efanaja1583 3 жыл бұрын

@@roottargz thanks man, for ur advice

@Idontknowanyoda1 3 жыл бұрын

Similar thing happened to me. There was a lady I was seeing as FWB. Only had sex with her once and I withdrew. About a weak or 2 she called to ask if I released inside of her. I said no. She showed me her result. She was pregnant. I lied to her I was soon gonna get married. She later flushed the fetus. I tried to get her back but she said was very reluctant. Finally, I just have to let her go.

@efanaja1583 3 жыл бұрын

@@Idontknowanyoda1 do u love her?

@valdezmartinez2837 3 жыл бұрын

Wholly agree with the message but I have issues with the delivery. He speaks in the same monotone throughout and doesn't seem passionate or excited about what he is saying. That can cause people to zone out. This is not someone who will inspire me to go out there and conquer the world.