Treat her like a celebrity she will treat you like a fan.

When she doesn't respond to your messages, simply pull back and let her initiate contact. Whether she isn't responding due to being busy, she's testing you, or is losing interest, a man who values himself and what he has to offer will not force contact with anyone. Instead, he will focus his attention on his purpose and those who reciprocate his efforts.

Mirror whatever they do, regardless how you feel.

Texting and social media have been a curse

You don't need her to complete you. Focus your energy and time to build a better you, a better character. Learn to love yourself.

A solid balance of "less is more" is always ideal. Great video man💥

Ignores your texts - ignore her. flakes on you - ignore her. Does anything you feel is disrespectful IGNORE HER. If she really does like you, she will figure it out and find a way to make things right. If not, NEXT.

I can't believe I'm one of these jerks that is going through this, it piss me off. But I have to humble myself and accept the fact that this is how it is. Thanks brother for this video.

The real question is not why she keeps ignoring you, but it's why are you still texting her ?

Dont text her first, love her and reply her...best trick, dont be insecure when she talks with someone, let her talk...be defensive and cool than being attacking and possesiveness, let her come to you with her own will, you cant force someone to stay with you, love your family first

That's one of the drawbacks with texting, it creates this expectation of continuous availability, which is insane. Far better to text only when necessary as opposed to using your device for nothing more than idle small talk. Both partners need time and space to live their lives. Blowing up a phone with texts only results in annoying the recipient (and rightfully so).

Our grandparents generation didn't have this problem, man goes to work he didn't have cell phones back then, just saw his wife when he got home

that string metaphor is so simple but so important.

The way I see it, is if you have enough time to use the bathroom, you have enough time to text your SO back. Being "too busy" isn't really an excuse. If she hasn't text for a couple of days then it's time to end it.

Don't show her your feelings. Driven by your feelings is not masculine. Core of masculinity is rational mind that controls those feelings.

I'm currently dating a woman who does this to me a lot, but I've never let it bother me, and I've never chased her. I don't even persue her, she intiates all the text convos. We see eachother almost every weekend, and everything is always great when we're together, so until that changes I just assume she's busy, which is fine b/c I don't like texting anyway.

Phones are for setting dates, thats it

She disrespects you, you ignore her and when/if she comes back, she has to pay the penalty for her disrespect. And make sure that penalty is a hefty one.

You have to be busy enough with your own life that you genuinely don't care about whether she responds to a text. Your purpose cannot revolve around her.

Girls are the same everywhere. Greetings from Egypt 💐🌹

Bad boys or disrespectful men are more attractive to women because women treat men who are beneath them in the same way they are treated by bad boys/players. If a guy doesn't care about the woman, then she is no value to him, that means he is more valuable to her. So if a woman doesn't respond to your text, it simply means that you are no value to her and you see her as being higher value than you. If you guys need any help, just ask.

Wrong: She IS thinking "how can I disrespect him"

Honestly, from everything I've experienced, just work on yourself until your time comes. When the time comes, the right woman will come along and you will have your shit together. If a woman takes more than 24 hours to text back, delete her messages and move on. Don't block her cause you might possible still have a chance at having sex but chances are slim. Focus on yourself and live life.

Many reasons why this happens. I always treat it as a test to see how I would react. So I just continue to focus on myself, my purpose.

Your Book (Atomic Attraction) is f**king Awesome! I wish we could meet in the future, Keep doing the great work man.

I love how this guy, Chris, possesses such a 'rock' mentality toward women.. One thing that I, myself, am still trying to improve. Your mindset is topnotch, Chris. Keep up the helpful content.

99% of the time girl not responding returning texts in not into you. It clearly means not interested. Jump to next one immediately without wasting your time

I think that when a girl that's her respond like that she's seeing somebody else plain and simple

A few days ago I saw the girl I'm talking to on her phone, and she didn't text me. Unlike younger version of me, I grew up this time to go "yo, I purposely ignore people all the time as well, ain't gonna make a big deal out of the blues" and I went on with my day

She is communicating with other men. Period.

If she doesn’t text back, call her. If she doesn’t answer, then let her get back in touch

Basically, he's the one creating the problem by getting emotional over her not responding quick enough. He even said it himself, she's busy and has a lot going on.

I wouldn't tolerate this shit, if a woman does not respond to me I let her go. High interest is all I want in my life at this stage.

Chris, at 5:35 You had me DYING!!!!! I am literally going through the same thing right now. I was asked "hey, if I don't message you, would you have ever messaged me? I feel like I am the only one initiating messages." .... I really like your line... "As far as I'm concerned, everything is ok. Are YOU ok?" HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Dude, you are a G. Seriously. James Bond 3.0

Actually it is reverse for me my girl friend message me .. I ignore her msgs.. She loves me more !!

Walk away from her and move on She may text or ring you,but until she does,get on with your life

Man you could charge a monthly subscription for a podcast with topics like this and it would take off for real

Your advice is so uplifting and empowering. Thank you

Man, if a girl ignores your message is because she is with other guy(s), that simple really, not much to explain there.

MAN YOUR TEACHING IS PRICELESS!!! I PRAY YOUR CHANNEL WILL GROW 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿

This guy is on key with he prognosis, because I have a relationship similar to this and I figured the same reactions through my relationship, at lease 93% percent correct.

With girls everything is complicated 😂

She could be avoidant and takes a while to emotionally regulate after periods of closeness -- a trauma response.

I like the way you formulate ideas

Thanks for all your videos i am in cameroon africa keep up you are helping with your short videos

Was dating a girl for 3 weeks, everything was really good then I was getting left on read and not getting a reply for sometimes hours or a day. No idea why she started doing this because I had all the signs from her, turning her body to me, touching my arm, looking in my eyes when we spoke ect. It just came out of nowhere 🤷🏻‍♂️

Man love this type of videos when you are explaining

This guy better get used to it. Cause the shit tests never end, wait till he marries her, pooh boy!

Am here all the way from KENYA NAIROBI..u might need to visit this country once in your liferime

This Dude is the best. I appreciate You Man

Had to stop video.. yes taking long time to respond messages is very rude. No excuses! Shows interest level

If a girl is really into you she will never pull away and will always reply in a sensible time frame.

I have noticed when a woman does this. You are not a priority unless she needs something from you

Girl I've been talking with for a few months, who previously had been texting me all day, now has started to text only at the end of the day, that too with low interest. How should I respond when she texts at the end of the day ? Should I reply with my usual enthusiasm or should I show low interest and respond late ?

Great video

I have been listening to tour messages keep up thanks alot

If things are great while you’re together, set more dates. Simple!

Power struggle stage, after the initial honeymoon phase. They get bored with us and our routines, loose respect and attraction pull away and we feel rejected or anxious. It’s a loose/loose situation, I’m initiating text and messages way too often, trying to mirror her level of contact.

She is telling you by her lack of action... She simply doesn't care about you... Give up and walk away, and don't take it personal

I really needed to hear this

A woman once ignored me and after two weeks she asked me why I had gone 'so quiet' on her. Strange. But normally a women ignore you because they are not interested.

Move on fellas, don’t waste your time. There’s too many women out here

typically being "busy" will only cause a temporary delay , not 24-48 hours

If a girl ignores my messages or i get only one word reply after 2 days i just delete her number.

If it would be fantastic relationship you wouldn't be writing to dating coach. Most man cannot properly read the level of interest in a woman. She might be loosing interest in you, and she did not find a better option yet to leave you. In any case stop texting her and stop reaching out first.

Audio’s a bit low on these videos Chris. Just saying. Might want to pitch it up a bit?

Post more vedios..great information as always..

Be Elusive NOT Exclusive.

The lion doesn't mind the opinion of the sheeps

Maybe she’s just pretending that she’s in love when you meet up but in reality she’s not. People have no time for you means you’re not important

You're really a legend thanks a lot for your advice!

Love your advices

Erika is flat out ignoring me all the time she’s not had to reply to any of my messages. She’s flat out ignoring me and I don’t know why I don’t know why

we fight and she ignored me for days. the fight is her fault

If there's pull away behavior that goes for several days into weeks, best believe that somewhere in there, there's another guy in the picture 💯 NEVER bother asking about it because she'll NEVER tell you this. This happened to me recently with a friend who I repeatedly told her it was just fun and casual. We'd hang for a few months, but out of nowhere she'd go cold and ignore me and disappear for a few months, then suddenly reach out again months later, and we'd resume where we left off. We hung out consistently again for 2-3 months, then the same thing again 😂 it's actually a sad pattern 🤷‍♂️

Wow..This is wat happen to me recently...I become needy when i called her she asked who is this? Well...I just told her directly that i wont tolerate any form of direspect via test or sacasim from her...the next day..I message her..How are you..she ignored my message...I did not bothered until now....I delete her number cuz..i will blow up her phone...I'm patiently waiting for her to test me back....yes she will..I know she love me! Thank you for the insights.

this is 100% true, ive met girl 5 times and after 5th time she got busy and i could not understand that she is really busy and got anxious thinking what the hell happened ? and started bombarding her with msgs and turned her off.

This video really helped me today I'm insane situation

My girlfriend and I are a long distance relationship we see each other a few times a month, we’re about a 13 hour flight from each other! The point I’m getting at is when we are away from each other we text all the time, but how I do it is she always texts me 90% of the time first And I’ll make her double text me like right now as we speak we were talking about something and she just gave me a one-word answer, I told her my coffee order she said nice! So I read it I’m not gonna text her back I’m gonna make her text me again before I text her, I think that’s a small but subtle way that makes her realize she’s chasing me because she’s always texting me First, I rarely double text her I’m not gonna say I never of done it but I rarely do it

This is passive agressive disorder,avoid this kind of girls.They dont know how to communicate at spot with you.Overgrown children save your piece of mind and run for hills

I have the same problem…everything is great when we see eachother but then she ignores my texts

Only smart men know how to outsmart women, kids, and cats in ways to make them feel great loyal happier and amused fed secured, and safe

I don't give my girl lots of validation and we have a good sex life but she still asks me "am I just here for sex?" is this cos she thinks I'm just using her?

Not if there's someone else

Very similar to my story. I’m 32, girl is 27. Our parents arranged our date. We dated for 5 weeks, all was amazing. We also had amazing sex. I had to go back to another Country after that. Texting became slow from her end & eventually I made a mistake of confessing feelings! Msgs completely stopped after that. She has been ghosting me for 3 months now. It seems over. I’m visiting my home town again this month & msged her to see if she’d like to meet. No response yet. I hope the email guy has a backup coz these type of girls are not good for ur mental health!

We are engaged... She ghosts me, she doesn't even see my msg... She sometimes send me a text during a day or calls for a min ( just formal talks) ..... What does this mean ?... She's also not telling me her issues

Golden channel

Thanks a lot that helped

Lets be honest: you cant be focused for 24hrs. You can answer while taking a dump. She is human also. This is just manipulation or testing but my guess is that things are not going well in person

This happens to me with face to face she’s behaves like a girlfriend that loves his boyfriend but with texts she don’t check up on me etc

You are awesome.

I’m in that thing to

7th time she ignores me and this time she viewed my story and posted on her instagram and started following some people now im scared if she thinks i ignored her becasue i took a little less than a hour to respond becasue i was a little busy and i was also thinking about asking her a question and it wasnt a regular question i was thinking if i really should ask it and i responded now she has been gone for 2 weeks

This is exactly what’s happening to me but I never thought about that she might be trying to hide how much she is obsessing over me, interesting. For guys who are having this issue, texting isn’t what I would pay attention to. But I would behoove you to look at these things: -does she still want to see you? -does she still do nice things for you (make dinner, buy gifts, etc…) -when you are together does she seem normal? -does she still want to have sex? (Can be a big red flag but also some women just straight up don’t feel like it sometimes so it’s hit or miss) -does she break dates? The number one red flag that I’ve always found that you know something is wrong is if she breaks a date. If she does that that means her attraction has dropped significantly and you need to build it up again fast or else she will be gone within a month or so. Imo this is by far the biggest thing to watch out for.

I got a question what if the relationship was great and all but she left you because she not ready for a relationship cause of serious life problems and past life problems and doesn't text back... What should a person do?

im here

You should only initiate a text once a week. Let her do the rest of the initiating.

Please!!! No one is ever that busy that you can’t respond to someone ! It takes seconds to say hello!!

Lads. Take it from an alpha (by society’s standards). If she ignores you, or can’t even send you one text in 24 hours, either cheat on her (if you can) or ignore her or leave her. She’s showing you that she couldn’t care less about you, which means she’s either got another guy, she’s looking for another guy or she’s trying to control/manipulate you (the last being indicative of a personality disorder). In other words, there is no nice answer fellas. Ensure that she’s made a rod for her own back, and not a rod for yours

I think would have been an outstanding video if we could hear the dude. 😂