Males are always told they should become better. Females are always told that they deserve better.

“When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.” 😢

The problem with people like Olivia is she knows enough to think she's right, but not enough to know she's completely wrong.

"Demonizing people for being lonesome and isolated is not exactly helpful." Massive understatement to say the least.

I doubt Olivia Wilde even knows what hypergamy means. God bless you Mr Peterson

Jordan is not only brilliant, but more importantly he is a kind man.

It's so weird not seeing Piers interrupt his guest every 5 seconds

Her statement was merely an embedded confession of her own idiosyncrasies and insecurities.

I'm sick of the "new age feminists" and I'm a woman! Men deserve so much better than what these women are offering.

Judge what she does, not what she says....walked away from her husband and children to chase a lad who likes wearing dresses 🤦‍♀️

i love how he never stoops to the level of his critizisers and never uses offensive words to describe them

When I meet my future husband I never once asked him what he did for a living. He knew I had a high paying job that few women had. When I found out he ran a bull dozer at a construction site, it didn't bother me a bit at least he was willing to work hard doing honest work. After we married I asked him did he want to go back to school to be something else? He said he'd sure like to instead of working outside in winter and really hot summer months. I said it's possible since we don't plan on children for a while so we made the move, he graduated with his degree while using his VA benifits. For the next 35 years he was the boss and loved his job, we went on to have 2 children and raised them together. We've now been retired since 2010 and 5 grandchildren. We're married 44 years and still love each other madly. Give those men who work hard daily the respect they have earned, they keep this impossible world we've created running. @MrFatuchi you didn't see the pain in my husband's face when he came home from being outside all day in 102 degree heat. Nor did you see the pain he felt in his back, or being chilled to the bone shivering in a hot bath trying to get warm after working in 30 degree cold. I heard him say a hundred times he wished he'd had a better education to do something different. So after 2 years of marriage I offered him his desire for a different line of work. It had nothing to do with my career it was purely for himself. I didn't give a flying rats ass what he did for his career. I was totally madly in love with this man that is still my husband after 45 years. I merely asked him what his dream job would be in his eyes. He was 31 at the time and after finishing his degree he worked his dream job another 35 years. He's now in his 70s and tells me daily how much he loves and values me exactly as I do him.

Demonizing men for being lonesome and isolated is not only unhelpful, it is deeply cruel and mean-spirited. It is the equivalent of kicking a man while he is down. This is not the same as having standards. It's more like a rich snob looking down on the poor. Instead of having some compassion for men who cannot find a partner, who are *involuntarily* celibate, Olivia Wilde calls them and all like them losers. Instead of praising JP for recognizing their struggles and, like any good therapist, trying to help them rise above their struggles, she demonizes him as being some sort of cult leader of the losers. Simply put, Olivia Wilde is a disgusting snob. People like her, who dismiss the suffering of others, who prefer to trample these people out of existence, are shameful. They genuinely hate others less fortunate than themselves and mock those who dare help them. It's no wonder some men are angry and opt out of the dating scene. And yet, here is JP, trying to help these men back into society, back into life, to have happy, healthy, and productive futures, and she calls him a fascist! Some people seriously do not understand anything!

I was a high paid professional but my industry collapsed and everyone I know that had the same profession as myself lost their job. When I took a low paying job to pay the bills I was no longer good enough for my exwife. She choose to burn our marriage and her life savings in legal bills rather then be with someone that was no longer high enough status for her. She is in her 40's and lives with her parents.....KARMA!

I have the highest regard for this man.He makes such sense of the world.

An old gf said she thought I was the loneliest guy in the world, but yet she wanted me to marry her. Funny thing is I often felt loneliest in the company of people because so much is staged. When you become aware of it, social dynamics like only presenting a persona that fits with the role your social group is comfortable with, you'll find that it's not so lonely being alone or spending time with a select few

A has-been actress with fading looks still has a high demand for attention, so she wakes up one day and decides to sling some arrows at JP and struggling young men. She gets to be the center of attention for a day and a half. That's pretty much how I see it. Imagine having her looks, privilege, and wealth and this is what you give back to the world.

At age 25 my husband was living in mom's basement. He felt as if he wasted 3 years in college and had no ambition. His mom kicked him out of the house so he was forced to get any job and pay his way. That made him more attractive and it's why I took a chance on him. 4 kids and 22 years later... we're making it work.

Every word that JP says is of immense value to everyone.

Considering Olivia Wilde was close to Harvey Weinstein, attending parties and basketball games with him outside of work (you can Google the pics) then distancing herself from him after the multitude of sexual allegations came out, you can't really say she's the best judge of anyone's character. Especially since everyone in Hollywood knew about Weinstein (including her no doubt), but she wanted to scale to the heights she's at now. Some feminist she is...

Dr.Jordan Peterson is a treasure 🙏🏻

"deep narcissism" is the correct term in this context! Thank you for saying it outloud👏👍😊

I have had the experience of being a student at an all girls school and then moving on to being the only girl in a construction class. It was quite a learning experience for me and as a result I prefer to be friends with guys than girls because they are very open and honest. My guy friends had no problem with me being a part of the group actually treated me like one of them whilst still they being guys after all discreetly maintained a protective security around me. I really appreciated that.

Protect this man at all cost!

Dr. Peterson is a gift to the world. Please stay healthy.

The prince only had a royal title but wasn’t a millionaire, he lived in a school bus when she met him.

i seen House MD all seasons 3 times. I had respect for her. She is dead to me now. She thinks I WANT TO BE ALONE?

"Demonizing people for being lonesome and isolated is not exactly helpful." It's not just "not helpful", it's evil.

You're not marrying a prince. The prince marries you. If anything. To think otherwise is wild. Very Wilde.

Olivia Wilde has lived life on easy mode all her life due to her pretty privilege. She wouldn’t even comprehend how hard it is to be a man, let alone a man deemed unworthy by modern women and their ridiculous standards. I feel for those men. People need to have more empathy.

She's just entertainment Jordan, you're knowledge, wisdom, a person who cares about others, you're a real human being, she's just another Hollywood bubble. Thanks for all the work you do for those who don't have a word in this shi**y world

So on point. Can’t judge a woman for not wanting to have a kid with a loser

I came to Peterson's talks for the memes, and ended up staying for the wisdom. He's a legend.

She sure made herself look like a bully and mean girl.

Rare to see Piers silent

Authentic and accountability is so important. I've met many guys who weren't authentic and didn't have a drive to do anything in their lives. I tried to encourage them and give them resources especially after I realized the initial person I met was a facade. Sadly they never wanted to better themselves. I wanna met a guy who's authentic so I know what in getting myself into before getting emotionally attached and invested.

Jordan is doing a lot of good, and in this world that is far too rare.

Exactly JP! Olivia Wilde is the face of extraordinary privilege - she has much to be thankful for - her entire ancestry is one of great aristocratic privilege - that’s wonderful. Our children grew up somewhat privileged too, not in Olivia’s league, but certainly more privileged than I remember in my meagre childhood. Now if there’s one thing I would not put up with was my kids mocking or putting down other kids just trying, particularly those that might not be so privileged. If Olivia was one of my kids, I’d be ashamed.

A lady named Diana K, I couldn't reply to her story under comments. here it is.Loved your story Diana. You and I have similar stories. your story had shown you're committed to each other no matter what. That bond is quite strong and would be hard to break that one up. I didn't ask my husband for 38 years what he did for a living either. We are blessed with one daughter and we are both semi-retired. Can't wait for grandkids some day! Thanks for your story. Blue collared workers are what keeps a community going strong. If we didn't have them, where will the CEOs or lawyers or doctors be? Not everyone can be doctors, someone has to till the soil! It was good to be able read your story, thank you!

I shed no tears for my enemies

Olivia Wilde is like all exceptionally beautiful women. Clueless to real life. She’s had people be nice, giving and attentive to her 95%+ of the time based solely on nothing but her appearance. Even if she has a shitty personality people were nice to her because she’s gorgeous. You take her good looks from her tomorrow and she’s lost. The real world will swallow her up and leave her a depressed confused mess.

"Demonizing people for being lonesome and isolated is not exactly helpful." god.. never take this man from us please..

I feel we need to support each other as humans first. It is hard to live this life no matter who you are. Everyone has their own struggles. I support everyone and always will.

Not only men, women also listen to you Professor

Olivia Wilde sheds skin bi annually.

The sad thing is there are too many women like Olivia in our times

Words not only of wisdom, but compassion.

I WAS WAITING FOR THIS!!!! (sorry for yelling!) I made a way less articulate response pointing out Olivia's hypocrisy on MikHaila's channel when this first came out. Someone responded implying that these two women are equally privileged, un/educated, and share the same result in life. No. Nope nope nope. Olivia grew up in an Elite American Family, surrounded by famous people, marrying into Italian aristocracy at age 19. Then somehow she just broke in to Hollywood and was immediately successful. Meanwhile, Mikhaila suffered debilitating depression and auto immune disorders, childhood arthritis, hip replacements in her teens, motherhood, marriage, divorce, a return to higher education, etc. Not to mention the fact that she has improved her fathers health and runs his businesses. You simply cannot compare these women.

He's doing something to help people take responsibility for themselves. The people she mocks probably need all the help they can get meanwhile she wears her privilege like a badge of honour.

There was an woman author who was able to pass as a man with some help (clothes, restrictive bra, fake stubble :P). She truly wanted to experience what it is to be male. The results shocked her. She found men to be far more inclusive and supportive than women...and at the same time realized how hard they all have it. She joined a bowling club and found complete strangers being super nice and helping 'him' out as much as they could. She was able to get a realistic look inside the world of men...being men...around other men. It was impossible to keep it all up in the air at times...and when she told some of them who she really was...they all understood her position and again...were supportive of her. Mind blown again for her. She planned on doing it for two years... but had to stop after 18 months because...because she started to hate women. Btw...she was a lesbian...so imagine the effect this had on her. The reality shattered her lifelong perceptions...she never got over it. She went into a severe depression afterwards...up and down for a few years...and finally committed suicide. Granted it is a one off experience...but how many samples are there? Being a man...a real man...is a lot tougher than it looks and it takes a toll...every time. Edit: The book is called...Self-Made Man by Norah Vincent...and is worth a read.

A friend said: men can love anyone, but women only love a particular type of men.

Honestly, the only reason she picked on JP is for media’s attention. Since she can’t make a strong reputation on her own, she picks on him knowing she’ll get more attention. I’m a woman, i disagree with every single thing she says or wants to represent. If you’d like to see an example of true feminism, take a look at the women in Iran, not this petty lady, who has everything on a silver plate, teaching the world on how things should be. She hasn’t helped women as JP has done with men and boys, she’s just bragging about doing so, but no concrete deeds. She doesn’t represent us, as women, nowadays! Let’s not make her/similar ladies to her the faces to represent us and pls don’t generalise things, as i can guarantee, we’re not all the same.

Amen. This was me. I started being truthful honest & upholding my integrity in everything.

Im here for my brothers, infinite patience and compassion for yall. These are difficult times. I believe in all of you

I'm one of the people Peterson is speaking about. His wisdom helped me put my life together and now I have something to really show for.

“A sign of a deep narcissism” might be an understatement.

When you're told your not up to the standard, you either demolish the standard or pick yourself up. That's really powerful.

I gave up trying to find a good women years ago. Just me my son and our dog now

I've been painting for a number of years now. I work at a lot of apartment buildings in the DT core where the demographic is typically 18-25 year olds. Tons of women. When I'm in my work clothes, have some paint on my hands etc, and start a conversation with one, the girls who looked shall we say, 'popular' in high school don't even give me the time of day. Definitely narcissistic and entitled. I know how much they pay for rent, but they don't know that I'm pulling down 20K+ a month. Everyone is a topical sales pitch to them. Not trumpeting my ego, just sharing what I see firsthand in a lot of young women these days. By the way, Jordan Peterson is one of the biggest reasons I'm where I am at today. I cleaned up my thinking, and took the steps necessary to improve myself and my life. I have found success and great pleasure in responsibility & in my work. Infinite gratitude for this man.

Within the truth that I feel Jordan is speaking, I don't feel worse about women but feel better that someone is speaking for men and understanding them at this level.

Olivia Wilde refers to Jordan Peterson as a "pseudo intellectual". Dear lord she's so insufferable.

She was shaming him because this is her only defence.

The question SHOULD be "if I put myself together, and prepare myself for sacrifice in order to start a family, are there ANY young, marriageable ladies I can find in the West? And if I do find love, what happens if I do everything right, and it goes off the rails?" The problem is two fold. Many of those young men are isolated and lonely not just for lack of guidance, but for lack of a quality partner even existing. Today it is typical for ladies of 25 to have partner counts well into the double digits, and to have totally unrealistic expectations around what her role will be in a family. This isn't just men failing. EDIT: I have tried to respond in thread. KZfaq is deleting 100% of my responses.

In less than 3 minutes he gave you a life lesson. If you watch it 10 times and really listen, it’ll be the best 30 minutes you spend on yourself this week.

I was in my mid twenties when I caught myself trundling off to work in jeans and a t-shirt AGAIN. We had no dress code but I 'upped my game' regardless. And people started treating me different in a matter of weeks, like an adult. I also found that I really like ironing shirts. It's soothing, simple and therapeutic, for me at least....

What about just being the best human being one can be? Just having respect for another would be a good start.

If something characterizes Jordan is the use of language to describe and edify, not destroy. Please, don't fall for trendy clickbaits such as DESTROYS. 🍀 Thank you for all these extracts!!

Olivia wilde was one of the most beautiful women on the planet for all her life and praised for it. I believe that this allowed her to grow so out of touch with other people that she lost all sense of empathy for regular people.

They’re not demonized for being lonely, they’re disliked for being extremely entitled.

And they say women are more empathic.

Oliva Wilde had one motive, to bring attention to her movie, by dropping Dr Peterson's name, well using his name to bring attention to her, She is nothing, she is what I call a one hit wonder, she will be one of those actresses people call a has been.

Olivia Wilde and Jordan Peterson should have a conversation.

And THIS is an absolute golden comeback.

Those fools, whenever attack JP,it backfires to them at ten levels harder. Peterson is like Eminem,he shreds.

I would LOVE to see Olivia Wilde try to debate JP for even 30 seconds.

His take on always telling the truth (to yourself and others) make a huge difference in a matter of months.

I love men and appreciate their struggle. Please know not all of us ladies are like Olivia 😭 I appreciate all you guys do that I cannot and don't want to do! Thank you boys!!!!

I think its better to think this way: if a woman isn't right for me, I'd rather be single. Sex is only sex.

WOW! Can’t believe I’m witnessing this - Piers Morgan in a monologue and he’s not the one talking!!!!

Someone is for you and you are for them. Who cares about everyone else.

As soon as I saw Wilde’s comments I realized that she was not a good person. To be so arrogant as to speak publicly about someone without even doing a little fact-finding homework on them is the height of hypocrisy, narcissism, self-centredness, stupidly, & a tremendous lack of conscientiousness . Now we find out that she was having an affair with Harry Styles during the making of the film which made other costars uncomfortable. What a shocker. Further, CTV News in Canada tried to put a negative spin on Peterson regarding this and when I clapped back, some people said that I was triggered, implying that I’m some sort of InCell. Again, the stupidity of people- I’ve been married for 28 years and have three daughters!

He didn't destroy her... he made balanced, thoughtfully observed comment.

That is the problem with social media laden culture... it is 99% narcissism

It's not that incels are trying to make themselves more attractive to women - they are blaming women when they are unattractive. I am glad that some of them are taking Jordan's advice and looking at themselves to fix their issues. That takes courage.

I learn so much from watching Dr. Peterson. This generation need him

Being “authentic” is really critical, for sure it might scare away some people, this really is a blessing in disguise, the feeling of being true to yourself is incredibly empowering.

Jordan Peterson is a genius. Just like we now know about geniusses like Nietsche and Freud, future generations will learn about the absolutely enlightening and positive teachings of Jordan Peterson.

pierce morgan letting peterson finish sentences on a streak...amazing to see him shut up

She’s a director because her extraordinary looks have been deteriorating rapidly.. I’m sure she’s fully aware and has “anger aggression” she needs to let out. Keep your eye on her, it will be interesting to follow along. $50 bucks says in 5 years from now she looks like a cheese pizza with everything on it

True. When people are feeling bad and trying to get better, only bullies try to make then feel worse.

My friend has been single for a long time. He told me this story about an encounter with a pretty woman in a bar in Napa, CA; Him, "Hi. How are you doing?" Her, "Hi. What kind of car do you drive?" When he told her, she got up and walked away. She wasn't interested in getting to know him on any level if he didn't drive a car / truck she sees as worthy. My friend is not a millionaire. He isn't wealthy at all. He works hard and pays his bills but probably doesn't have much in the savings account. But he is worth knowing. I wonder if that woman knows most millionaires drive white trucks. I wonder if she knows most truly wealthy people don't wear their wealth on their sleeve for blood sucking gold diggers to identify. I wonder if she's happy with the man she eventually met who drives the car she sees as worthy.

Right again. I'd rather listen to the counsel of a proven intellect, professor, and clinical psychologist than an actress who likes to denigrate those who are lonesome, isolated, and often miserable.

He’s forgotten about the fact that Olivia has hit the wall

Everybody's all "Mental health awareness!!!" And then they meet someone with mental health issues, then they're all "Ewww mental health issues stay tf away,"

Demonizing people for being lonesome and isolated is not helpful. Neither is demonizing women because of your own personal failures and inadequacy. The men who vilify beautiful women for cashing in on their looks are the same ones that covet such women and would gladly use their wealth, fame and power to win them over if by some miracle they had any.

That used to be a rude question here in OZ "what do you do for a living?"

Its unfortunate this academic has felt compelled to even respond to such a rude comment. Dr. Peterson is a true visionary having been be able to turn this into a teaching moment for others . Edit grammer and structure

She married a multi-millionaire prince., what a great line. let her respond to that :-) Dr JP should have stopped right after that line.

J.P. is a professional that truly cares.🙂

I'm particually happy to see that this video has almost 1 million views (so far) and almost no one disagreeing with Peterson. I happen to believe that these people like Olivia just make much more noise than actual nice people with good common sense. So the world is not lost, it's just that internet gave these people (like Wilde) easier to be heard... sadly.