Every single man should listen to this story, especially if they've been cheated on. OP is a disgusting human being and cheaters aren't sorry for hurting you, they're sorry for losing. Seriously, every few minutes I thought to myself, "OP is a terrible person"
@aaronalvin39926 ай бұрын
She even claims the middle of the cheating was “the best time of her life”. Glad the Husband got his, but I do think this story is fake given how has things wrapped up.
@Grandwarden9366 ай бұрын
@@aaronalvin3992 may be what i am saying is disgusting but i really wanted that after OPs husband left her she finds out that the boss had made her pregnent and now she has to bear a child from her AP with no job and partner and then she saw her ex husband living his success with his second wife who is more caring loving everything than OPs
@notanicebear6 ай бұрын
How is staying home doing nothing a “sacrifice”?
@joshuawells74156 ай бұрын
The same way being with just one person is a sacrifice, she's made for the streets.
@elseggs65046 ай бұрын
Not having any workexperience whatsoever despite paying for college doesnt seem great either
@Sonj9826 ай бұрын
I think what she was getting at was that she got married really young under the idea that it would be more exciting. Once realizing the reality of what her marriage was and that patience would be needed to have all of the expensive and fun experiences she got jealous of her more carefree friends while she was at home all of the time. The main issue I believe is that she went to college and got a degree to just become a housewife, I belive if she found a job like him she'd be less upset about not getting attention and being at home all day. This isn't a justification, just my best guess at trying to understand her decision.
@toddwest28516 ай бұрын
This
@jayy59036 ай бұрын
With no children she should have been working. At least she could have put her education to work, put money towards their future, and wasn’t just sitting around being bored and resentful.
@joshuawells74156 ай бұрын
They always say "I was so young back then" as if being old enough to date is isn't also old enough to know better then to cheat.
@Nameless822846 ай бұрын
I'm way younger than her and I know that cheating is wrong.
@joshuawells74156 ай бұрын
@@Nameless82284 Exactly
@Nameless822846 ай бұрын
@@joshuawells7415 I understand what she was going through but cheating is not the answer. I mean she had everything but she gave it all away to go out and live a rich life even though that's what her husband was doing for her. I understand the kiss because she was in the moment and drunk but even though she realized that it was wrong but continued to do it. She didn't care about the consequences because she enjoyed this life. She's not sorry for cheating, she's sorry because she got caught. If she was truly sorry she shouldn't have started this affair in the first place. And if she did she should have ended it on the first night, but didn't. I mentioned this before, cheating is not a mistake, but if it was then the first time would be it. What was she going to do if she never got caught? Was she going to keep up this affair for the rest of her life or her AP's life? That's what she pretty much stated, she wanted to have both her husband because she "loves" him and her AP because he made her life exciting. Was that her plan? I mean if she didn't get caught her AP would have eventually broken up with her because he had a fiancee. I heard about these types of men, they want one last fling until they finally settle down and get married. And if that happened OP knows she couldn't get revenge by telling the fiancee because she would have been exposed too. Would she just fall in love with her husband again after he gave her the life she wanted and would see this as the best decision of her life because her affair helped her be happy in the meantime before it ended and her life with her husband is perfect now?
@kilamkam6 ай бұрын
@@Nameless82284I can promise you she does not love or respect her husband.. I've come to notice the massive difference in these stories when it comes to the treatment of the two betrayed spouses.. Almost always the wife will stop sexing her husband and distance herself from him.. Maybe even become cold/cruel to him.. But the AP she's with doesn't treat his wife differently.. He will still go home and show her love.. She will never see a major change in his treatment towards her.. He will take care of all her needs as usual, playing the loving husband.. Dont get me wrong he's still a POS for cheating but I think the contrast is important.. Its imo the reason the APs wife stayed with him in this story.. Because when he tells her OP didn't mean sh*t to him she was just a fuk.. Its easy to believe him because even though he was cheating he was always good to her.. Meanwhile the OP was nothing but a nag and lazy bum who stopped fuking him.. She distance from him for another man while he worked hard for the both of them.. Then the ultimate disrespect is that man being his boss and having ate at his table.. Such a crushing contrast.. She allowed someone he has to see everyday, have his wife....
@MrMonnTM6 ай бұрын
@@Nameless82284 Nope in most cases if it were to end like this she would make her husband's life a living hell. She would be in withdrawal, ask why her husband is such a loser compared to his XXX, why can't they go there and there. Basically like in the beginning but worse since she has gotten the taste of luxury and was betrayed and on who can she vent now? Of course hubby. She is a smartish(about 1iq point higher than average) woman (yeah really), she finished college, knew that endless tirade of excuses are useless and it's not what you think were useless. She immediately knew what actions to take when she started cheating in order to decrease chances of them being spotted i.e. by manipulating the boss to pull the strings.
@crabtoes22106 ай бұрын
Complaining about "only" having a *couple hundred* bucks to shop is *insane*
@braidencummings77886 ай бұрын
Lol no shit... When my old lady and i spend anything near 100 bucks its a huge deal😂
@NoNo-xh7ru6 ай бұрын
People have been killed over less money than that and she wants more to spend on a fucking bag
@What-ke7uh6 ай бұрын
Especially since they didn't have kids. She could have gotten a job and helped their finances. Would have helped with her boredom too. But alas, it's probably a lot easier to spread your legs instead of getting to work.
@MrMonnTM6 ай бұрын
@@What-ke7uh Man she was a gold digger what did you expect. Did you notice that her only regret was not losing her husband but luxury that he would bring later on. :D She by definition didn't want to work but go shopping and have an entertaining life.
@blackfire60096 ай бұрын
aaah the age old "I deserve" followed by "how could this happen, i didn't know" when she gets caught. it's also interesting how even up until the very end she still talks of "luxuries", I guess the lesson hasn't been processed yet. Well, life evens out sooner or later.
@chaopainter45956 ай бұрын
This is just gut wrenching to listen to even if they are most likely bait I hate knowing there's a possibility of this being real...
@SchoolVideosGoHere6 ай бұрын
Yeah, this story sounds like it was written by someone to scare women from cheating lol
@shadesteel92476 ай бұрын
@@SchoolVideosGoHereit sounds realistic to me, cheaters regardless of gender are really dumb and try to bend everything they can to avoid accountability.
@afriendlycadian98576 ай бұрын
@@SchoolVideosGoHere which isnt a bad thing if it is tbh
@Meetbaw6 ай бұрын
could she not have got her own job, or just gone out with friends, I dont see how she got this delusional
@LH-lv4zs6 ай бұрын
Both OP and the husband's boss are awful. The boss, especially, is a POS. He wanted his coworkers wife, and OP went along with it. She thought she had possibly found her husband's replacement... bottom line. The fact that OP was ok with her husband being manipulated at work, so she could have her fun with his boss is pitiful! This is a common scenario, unfortunately. The gal, in the end, realizes her AP has another woman in his life, and she was just his side-gal. Her impatience and immaturity got the best of her. Now, after all is said and done... her ex is moving on with a better model. PERFECT ENDING!
@goddessrick87346 ай бұрын
Seems like a fake story. All the stories on this channel seem to end with the man coming out a super sigma and not enough cheating men stories despite it being far more common.
@LH-lv4zs6 ай бұрын
@@goddessrick8734, yea, it's fake; however, the scenario is quite common- the gal realizes she's a pump-and-dump, and was emotionally manipulated by her AP.
@MrMonnTM6 ай бұрын
@@goddessrick8734 Actually women cheat at the same rate if not more in current western world, while high status men i would agree cheat a lot more, average joes have no such luck even if they wanted it, and there are many like me who despite having tempting chances are adamant not to engage if we are taken or if a woman is taken). Also their cheating is proven to be less noticeable, probably because men in general are less observant while women will usually spot infidelity quite fast either to their large social circle or observant nature. Also women have a better nose, that's why they can sense cologne much better and if feminine cologne is mixed in with them they will know. So in not so rare cases female infidelity get's unnoticed, had a funny read when people who were married for 30 or 40 years i.e. they were old around 70, wife confessed that she cheated on her husband many years ago (don't remember if it was full blown affair and if there multiple partners) but basically he didn't suspect or know of this and despite their long ages together he divorced her....Kinda good and bad, this old chap will be soon on his death bad and the only thing what will be on his mind that a bitch cheated on him. Plus let's take to a account that many men even if they want to cheat are not desirable, women on average desire men up to their standard or higher and with social media those expectations rose higher. It's even stated that women in western world by the age 20-25 have higher body count than men. And when conducted interviews some women are baffled that some men don't have sex for years since they have an imagination that almost every man has plenty of sex (funny logic since we have a limited pool people and the fact she has 100 guys dming her for chance to meet up or hookup).
@afriendlycadian98576 ай бұрын
@@goddessrick8734 im sorry but men cheating is not far more common?
@Chris-wu2hc6 ай бұрын
Ah yes, gotta exchange numbers to get her "pie recipe". There was no other option. "I'm just gonna give my husband's boss who is creeping on me my number because he wants my 'recipe'." I hope she wore underwear so she didn't gush all over the floor while anticipating texting with him later.
@elseggs65046 ай бұрын
The wannabewriter needed some excuse as to why they exchanged numbers
@chainofenkidu94516 ай бұрын
If i had to hear another woman say "I feel like I wasn't a priority to him" I'm gonna lose it. What the fuck do you think the man is grinding his soul away for, do women think men don't want to just chill at home, scroll through social media all day, doing some simple house work that's mostly done by machine, play video games, read book, chance HIS passion, and MUCH MUCH more??? The only reason a man will work till like that man is bc he is trading his youth for YOUR future, your family future. Social media and attention is porn for woman.
@notting26406 ай бұрын
@@uarmyhimangYou call him an incel but you’ll never call him a liar. Because he’s right.
@umm3766Ай бұрын
he was grinding so much yet provided her with little unlike what the masculine provider boss did to her
@boredcryptek55136 ай бұрын
Ever wonder if the boss was giving the husband extra work to keep him busy and husband just thought he was the man.
@eclipsedigi6 ай бұрын
beatiful ending, my man did justice
@Endless_Productions6 ай бұрын
The problem was she was to caught up with everyone else’s life
@eichzoernchen6 ай бұрын
Things went south long before boss bought the first gift, but her lie about the bag was imo the breaking point.
@Kalell17015 ай бұрын
Did anyone else notice that the trouble in the marriage started when she began viewing other peoples lives on Instagram. She began comparing her life to others on Instagram. Theodore Roosevelt wrote “Comparison is the thief of joy”. When we compare ourselves to others, we are often left feeling inadequate and unhappy. We begin to focus on what we lack rather than what we have, leading to a sense of dissatisfaction with our lives. 80% of social media usage is women. 70% - 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Just something to think about.
@Mark_Proton6 ай бұрын
What does the boss do? All of my bosses come to work late, but they also leave late, how does that guy find the time?
@notting26406 ай бұрын
Middle management. Aka practically nothing.
@Mark_Proton6 ай бұрын
@@notting2640 I am a middle manager and my day is packed to the brim. Perhaps middle management is different in the US, but where I live middle management does all the same work that the workers do on top of administrative duties.
@sen4316 ай бұрын
@@Mark_Protonduh he could very well belong to the ceo or chairman family. Having to do not much just enjoy. It's actually common
@Mark_Proton6 ай бұрын
@@sen431 that's a good point.
@beat_avenger6 ай бұрын
Mans handled it like a boss
@VanshKumar-jn6gl6 ай бұрын
Tf is she saying she is making sacrifices? What sacrifices she made?? Is staying at home is sacrifice? He probably told her to work if she wants to but ig she decided to stay at home I'm sorry if it's harsh but it's completely bs!!!! She didn't have any patience that everything will be okay after he made some money!!!! Instead she cheated!!!! 👏🏻👏🏻
@VvodeAn6 ай бұрын
My god, doing nothing at the house while someone else pays for your stuff is a sacrifice? Good to know.
@lukmanalghdamsi31896 ай бұрын
my brother warned me of women who don't value the work that the man does. he made sure to marry a woman who understands this very well and he have a peaceful life with her. that being said we are not westerns (I think you know from my broken english) and american friend of his that lives in Turkey and lived in other eastern countries said that the western women are the worst. i can see why
@VvodeAn6 ай бұрын
@@lukmanalghdamsi3189 they are, indeed, the worst.
@umm3766Ай бұрын
it's not her fault that the husband couldn't be a masculine provider like his boss was to her
@umm3766Ай бұрын
@lukmanalghdamsi3189 I got Slavic friends in Europe and they don't like cheap western men who aren't masculine providers with money lol those woman actually got more higher standards then western woman
@whitewolf67306 ай бұрын
“Every man(or woman), is drawn away by their own lust and enticed”. She let the foolishness of social media make her dissatisfied, she could not wait for a while and let his hard work become fruitful. Watch your influenced, cultivate gratitude, and do not cultivate any relationships or spend time with members of the opposite sex.
@reflex92386 ай бұрын
I'm getting tired of all these cheaters trying to justify their cheating by saying their spouse wasn't giving them enough attention or they couldn't notice these "signals" for fuck sake, they're all adults and old enough to communicate with their partner about how they're feeling so they could at least give their partner a chance to work on their relationship so they're also happy, and for crying out loud the dumbest shit ever was because she saw shit on social media, what are you a child? Doesn't take a genius to know that these perfect lives aren't so perfect as the real world has tons of fucking responsibilities something which her husband was managing and was probably stressed as hell trying to build his career so he and his wife could enjoy themselves sooner.
@lmusima32756 ай бұрын
These cheating women get the good men who settle for them, provide for them, give them want. This is what they get in return. Terrible. Yet women like me who have never cheated, never been unfaithful and show loyalty even dating get overlooked
@Gwynbleidd216 ай бұрын
And she had a problem with him not having much time and money because she is a parasite at home.
@lostplug6 ай бұрын
@@lmusima3275just wait😘🥰
@umm3766Ай бұрын
her husbands boss is a masculine true provider unlike her own husband was like imagine being a workaholic but cheap not her fault she cheated I would too
@fernybern6 ай бұрын
This has happened to someone.... just people who have no self respect and waste others time with marriage
@TheColombianSpartan6 ай бұрын
After all this she still hasn't let go of her greed. how disgusting.
@richardwolf64176 ай бұрын
These videos are so cathartic. Just watching these stupid people lose everything.
@drkinferno726 ай бұрын
Shes mad cause hes not at the finish line 😂
@Fireserpent76 ай бұрын
"a few hundred dollars" bruh id kill to have 500-600 dollars whenever i wanted to go shopping
@miroslaviliev52416 ай бұрын
SHE ASKED HIM FOR MONEY AND HE GAVE HER "JUST A FEW HUNDRED" ??????!??!?!
@xxsuperstarstxx97736 ай бұрын
Throughout this entire story, you can hear how much she focuses on getting caught or the fear of getting caught. Fuck her husbands emotions I guess.
@ryanbashor73716 ай бұрын
What efforts? What sacrifices? All i hear is my husband works all the time and I'm in the kitchen waiting for him to get home and I'm unhappy he's not raking in the millions right after we graduated college. She does nothing? Like, what?
@umm3766Ай бұрын
her husband cannot be provider like his boss not her fault she choose right
@ryanbashor7371Ай бұрын
@@umm3766 I'm gonna be honest here, I need to rewatch to see what I was talking about. It sounds familiar, but I'm gonna have to rewatch it LoL
@jayy59036 ай бұрын
It’s not about being young it’s about being immature. I was waiting for that excuse and OP didn’t disappoint. The boss was a POS and hubby put them paws on his @$$.
@ih8pe0ple886 ай бұрын
Haha, walked right into it
@Brian65876 ай бұрын
Never invite the boss over if he's a male and your wife is bored lol. That's the lesson I got here. Freaking terrible. It's kind of terrible but I can somewhat understand why some people cheat. It's lust, desire and that temporary high of doing something forbidden. It's short lived though and in vane and it will steal and destroy everything you have. All of these cheating KZfaq videos have taught me is to be prepared for potential heartache. I am a Christian and know unfortunately this goes on within the church as well. Makes me kind of depressed when I think about it.
@PS3PCDJ6 ай бұрын
10:20 And yet she behaves the way she does
@Ohsnhapitsdenus6 ай бұрын
I'll take "Things that never happened" for 500
@BeteN0iR6 ай бұрын
just a few hundred.....
@davidnash82086 ай бұрын
Time there should be no alimony for cheaters.
@KingFire9976 ай бұрын
The stank face i have rn is STRONG
@sincerelyv82644 ай бұрын
Of all the common jobs out there that someone can get on a college degree, when she lost everything and needed a job after having an affair, the job she lands is as a nanny... 😅😅 It just looks bad.
@minecraft9911155 ай бұрын
I have a very strong stomach but this made me wanna hurl
@kaushtirou6 ай бұрын
Two words: Gold Diggerrrr
@Ella-vo6ws3 күн бұрын
I dont like her BUT everybody said, she only sleept for money, she also sleept bc she hot attention she didnt got at Home. Still no excuse but a bit other situation
@bearsong84866 ай бұрын
I have a feeling OP will bounce back, np. I know it’s not fair but attractive people, especially women will always have a sucker who will take a chance. Also, I bet the boss will come back for seconds and thirds. Also, this story sounds 💯 fake, written by a dude that got left by his wife for his boss and then got fired.
@IZachC6 ай бұрын
OK bear song
@OUburkie6 ай бұрын
Try not to screw the husband of your nanny job
@EraPraSerSoJotaАй бұрын
the amount of SAHW and SAHM that went to college just fucking baffles me why did u even went to college if not to get a job after?
@kiyajohnson44366 ай бұрын
I hope things get better for you. I'm glad you were able to admit. Best of luck to you
@nicknitro866 ай бұрын
This is written like a bad lifetime movie.
@Homiloko26 ай бұрын
This is so fake lmao. She went out to help her friend move dressed in 'Chanel'? There were pictures of her in the newspaper in the next morning, and he had already seen it? bro.
@morganmayhavebeenhere6 ай бұрын
I agree completely! It sounds like someone who really hates cheaters wrote it while trying to emulate their thought processes. It came off as flat and as if OP was dumb. The far marjority of long-term cheaters are cunning not bumbling like this
@Zellonous6 ай бұрын
Fake
@skullemorris94076 ай бұрын
The only thing i don't like about the husband is hes so work focused that he doesn't spend time with his wife. Yes she did cheat and that really bad but when most if your time is more on work then your lover it would make anyone want to feel the love they want.
@jimmycecil76216 ай бұрын
Cheating is Not a mistake it is a choice. Hopefully you will never find Happiness ever again because cheaters don't deserve to be happy.