I can understand feeling pride after seeing a flat belly after tireless workouts, but it is still weird to feel pride about something you have no control over… such as facial features or skin colour…

@@gpodjoe9179 You have lots of control over your appearance. Of course there are things you have less control over. But saying you have no control at all is downright ridiculous. And shaming people for trying to improve what they can, is both cruel and kind of arrogant.

I agree goodness thanks so much

@@HereIAm247 Shaming? You're being over dramatic. Colorism is wrong no matter what. There's NOTHING wrong with dark skin like some real people say. And the girl wasn't even ugly?? You ARE striving for vanity with this comment.

@@PickyVickyVindictive I am just curious, where have I said anything about skin colour? Personally, I find all shades beautiful. But I have mentioned nothing about skin colour in any of my previous comments. I have not called anyone ugly either - I have yet to see someone other than myself that I would consider ugly. I did say that we have some control over our appearance, because we do. Skincare, haircare, hygiene/grooming practices, the clothes we choose to wear, healthy eating, physical exercise, posture and body language, the list goes on. And by focusing on these things, I have drastically improved my own appearance, to the point that I don't always feel like crying when I look in the mirror, and sometimes even feel a hint of pride. Though I do still feel like a swamp monster at times, it is a work in progress. If you think that is superficial or vain, that is your own problem. Personally, focusing on improving the things I can improve on (both in appearance, and other areas of my life) have greatly improved my general happiness and quality of life. So if you want to stay stuck in a victim mentality, be my guest. I am certainly not going to, and thankfully, I do not need your approval to continue to strive to improve my appearance (as well as other areas of my life). It sounds like you have a very black and white way of thinking.

I am some people lol

There are alot of things we like on other people and not on ourselves....just because you envy them, doesn't automatically make them proud of having those features....you might similarly have some features that you don't like but others envy

@@totallykpopped1825 There's still nothing wrong with curly hair?

@@PickyVickyVindictive exactly... Even I have curly hair, and i love it. But at the same time, their are people who don't like their curly/straight hair and want what they don't have and its completely natural to feel as such .

@@mwenyamutale1513 me too

Could you share what changes you made?

A lot of them continue to suffer because they try to bring down the people that they wish they were.

you right but wrong. Dont accept people for being over weight, that's not okay. Its not okay to treat your body like a fat storage facility. Its perfectly fine that we make those people feel shame, because they should feel shame. This idea you cant control your image is bullcrap. Fat shaming is needed, because being fat is not okay. its not something society should ever just accept and say we cant say anything about them. They need to feel that shame, because they are doing shameful things to their body.

@@tilled6695 Jesus Christ!! I hope this is sarcasm and you don't really mean people should be shamed for being fat.I've you ever been fat and tried really hard to get rid of it,do you know what that feels like

@@tilled6695 Well, sometimes stu pid people must be publicly shamed for their judgemental id iocy... . Read some books at least you are busy.--🤦‍♂🤦‍♂

@@tilled6695 🤦‍♀️ You realize most people that are overweight most likely have an eating disorder. So let’s use our heads. Insulting a person with an eating disorder 9/10 times is not gonna help them be as healthy as they need. Bashing and shaming them is most likely going to make them eat more. And for years and years bigger people have been shamed for their weight but yet obesity in America is larger than before, so please tell me how that’s gonna help. You can be accepting and encourage them into a healthy life style but I promise you shaming and making fun of them is most likely going to do the complete opposite. Please learn to be a decent human being.

I agree with @Tilled,but we shouldn't shame them,we should educate them on how that affects their health

Not only in movies. It happens in real life

@@ebioneyjerome5032 then imo the person in question was always a shallow and annoying character to begin with haha.

@@melvilli69 It's easy to say such things when we are not that person, or have not met someone with similar circumstances as the character in this movie. It may be true that some people may have been shallow and annoying all along, but for some others, it can be a lot more complicated than that

@@ebioneyjerome5032 most people in real life don't change because their appearance changing. They have some changes like more confidence, but not as extreme as shown in movies. Don't believe everything on internet.

@@sorewasore9730 it's easy for me to diss on her because I WAS over weight and I've known a handful of people who were obese to the point they couldn't go on about with their daily lives. Two of them were my roommates for almost 5 years. Idk about circumstances of the people who think they can be oblivious because they're attractive now but I've never observed a slight change in my friends' attitude to this day

Alternatively they could blacken up??? That's bound to end well 👍

don't let these movies and these pale ghosts make you feel insecure. Look at all of the fashion and plastic surgery trends in the last decade(last 400ish years for western countries). They have been jealous of black women's full lips, tan skin, lack of wrinkles, curves, hair texture, etc etc. Hell, look at how many Philippines are obsessed with hip hop and try to copy singers like nicky minaj. even look at BRUNO MARS. The proof is in the pudding, god made you in his image(the ORIGINAL EVE-MODEL IMAGE).

@@majpanik to be serious I don't really understand your comment?!

@@miriixr it's been part of their culture for 1000s of years to whiten the face to smooth out imperfections. The use of white coloured powders to do that was because they are naturally closer to white than black in the first place, and let's be totally honest people nowadays would go ballistic if asians started blackening theirs faces. I've watched asian tv cinema for years and I'm white bit I don't feel inferior, I watched many movies with a black lead and managed to feel invested in it, if you're insecure about who you are then the issue is with yourself.

@@majpanik Well no shit you don’t feel inferior. It’s not constantly being thrown in your face in media that your lighter skin is bad and should be darkened. This whole recap is the perfect example. The “ugly girls” were all darker or had big hair. While all the attractive ones were taller lighter and thinner with bone straight silky hair. You being white and saying that you never felt inferior is just proving the point further. While in many cases darker skinned people with curly hair have felt like this because of these types of “beauty standards” being thrown around.

Write back in about 30 mins and remind me I'm supposed to care.

I can say big words and be angry for stupid reasons too. Kaleidoscopes offend me!

What! Relax dear

@@doctorsleep7455 how is not liking being treated different because of your characteristics a stupid thing?

@@esmeralda9712 because yall react before even trying to see the moral of the story.

Movie name please

@@maryamtouray1978 snake eaters 3

Same 😞

Don't worry babe, you will be fine. When the thin ones get older,they will be bigger than you. And also, you are probably prettier than you think.

I also learned to accept & love myself, nobody would love you unless you do it first!!!

65 kg is not fat for your age - depends how tall you are. I'm tall (1,7 m height) and I'm 85 kg. I try to live healthy life and accept myself as I am

Sweetheart, you are beautiful and not overweight. At 13 yrs, I weighed 66kg and I believe my bones contributed to this also - and right now 10 yrs and more - I weigh 75kg. Yet I know and have been told that I am healthy and beautiful. I am glad that you have accepted and you love yourself. Way to go gurl!! So far you are healthy and you represent yourself well & hygienically in your appearance - don't listen to those social bias talks and stereotypical believes of your environment that group people based on biased natural physical outlook rather than the heart of a person.

You cant be fat and healthy at the same time

@@ocean4022 ok maybe fat wasn't the right word, I should have said overweight

@@ocean4022 no you can be fat and healthy. Health is mostly based off BMI whilst ‘fatness’ is mostly based off appearance. It’s overweight that’s unhealthy. So you were right the first time @Danny Lam for saying fat. Not overweight. @Danny Lam Don’t always change your answers because people disagree. Go and do your own study/ research and be convinced with what you are presenting.

U wanna know the side affects for being fat high blood pressure type 2 diabetes stroke heart disease

I don’t have a problem with fat people I have a problem saying being fat is healthy

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@Fatal Destiny basically the same thing

What?

It's a narrator on PC, Not a real voice.

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Name of movie please? 😊

Yeah totally agree

May be she is unmotivated because of the continuous comparisons with the other sister. Quite possible.

beautiful ppl are evil

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Thank you because I type “rara and it gave me a different movie.

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And not rich ?

Well I don't think so. Beautiful people can also be insecure for a lot of reasons. For example beautiful women could be accused for not being smart, because of stereotype that being beautiful means that you are foolish, and these women always have to prove their smartness. And this is only one example of insecurity

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No but if you’re from middle to upper class especially if they live in the city, there is a high chance they could speak english, even if theyre not fluent at speaking, they are likely understand what youre speaking. Not saying if they dont come from a financially sufficient family, they could not speak english (especially they younger generation), if they are interested in western’s entertainment/ any western related stuffs, there is high chance they understand english. But no we don’t speak english on daily basis. And yes, we speak with an American accent altho some of us, use our regional accent.

All the Indonesians I went to uni with spoke English. So yes they speak English in Indonesia

Hi and bye aren't hard to pronounce without an accent. And I don't where you're from but most people around the world know more than 1 language.

@@sy20777 I doubt that most of us speak w an american accent.. pretty sure that's just the case for rich af people. I went to a school where we must speak English. It's cheaper than most english-speaking schools but some of my classmates are kinda rich (most are middle class, some a bit higher, some are struggling to pay for the tuition), I don't remember any of the kids speaking with an american accent other than that one kid who grew up in philadelphia though.

(If you're wondering, I'm one of those struggling to pay the tuition 😂)

What's the title of the movie please?

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