Should CHRISTIANS Do ONLINE DATING? | 2 Things To Consider

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Kaci Nicole

Kaci Nicole

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SHOULD CHRISTIANS DO ONLINE DATING? Dating is one topic the Bible doesn't specifically address, but it does provide general principles of wisdom which can be applied to dating. That's what I hope to do in this video! I also may or may not be sharing something that happened to me that gave me a lot of clarity on the topic of #ChristianDating. 😉Oh, and there's a very special GIVEAWAY happening in this video-with 3 winners!
I can't wait to hear your thoughts on this topic of #OnlineDating. If there's any good #ChristianDatingAdvice you'd add to this conversation, be sure to drop it in a comment below. 💛
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@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
I would love to hear your thoughts! 💛 If you're a Christian single, have you tried online dating? What was your experience like?
@MaSs030388
@MaSs030388 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Kaci, my act of boldness is to ask you if you would want to chat with me on Facebook or something. I think you are very charming and the fact that you love the Lord is the most important. Let me know :) God bless abundantly Sam
@adventureinlife7700
@adventureinlife7700 4 жыл бұрын
@@MaSs030388 Sam you just completely ignored what her post said. That is a red flag which she likely will not overlook.
@MaSs030388
@MaSs030388 4 жыл бұрын
@@adventureinlife7700 so is there anything wrong with what I did? :) God bless you man.
@megsterchick5
@megsterchick5 4 жыл бұрын
My brother found a really nice Christian girl on a dating app, they are still currently dating! And my cousin met his wife from christian mingle
@adventureinlife7700
@adventureinlife7700 4 жыл бұрын
@@megsterchick5 Thank you Megan for the encouraging words. I have tried dating apps, including Christian Mingle. Over the past few years I'd say I have spent around $1,500 dollars in subscription fees and in app purchases. All that came from it was a handful of "Cat-Fish" dates. One of which I drove 3 hours to meet. And then there's the plethora of fake profiles that you have to sift through as well. I have even connected with a few GORGEOUS-please-can-I-have-some-of-your-money women. I can count on hand how many real beautiful actual Christian women I have met through dating apps and Christian dating sites. With three of them I ended up not being tall enough for (I'm 5'9") and the other two we just ended up not being a good match for each other. But hey I could still pray about it and see if I get any guidance from God on it. Thank you again Megan. Cheers and God bless 😀
@adaliavasquez6552
@adaliavasquez6552 3 жыл бұрын
I just feel weird about dating online. It feels as though you are shopping for a spouse. I feel that meeting people in person is much easier, since you get to know the whole person and not just their profile picture/texts. I've also had some somewhat unpleasant experiences on christian dating sites. I'm praying that God will bring the right man in person and I continue to put myself out there and seek first the Kingdom of God!
@claribelmaysonet9372
@claribelmaysonet9372 2 жыл бұрын
I agree knowing the person in person is better for me to discern! I didn’t do to well online top.
@joemaxxcapri1799
@joemaxxcapri1799 2 жыл бұрын
So true just meeting someone while shopping or while walking and living in that moment you can feel that person vibes while on the app is a lot of text
@justlilly7653
@justlilly7653 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of people don't have a lot of options for meeting irl
@ashleyriggs6815
@ashleyriggs6815 4 жыл бұрын
This could not have come at a better time! I was trying out dating apps and realized it was out of desperation. This was really encouraging! I've really had to trust God in this season. #stillsingledevotional
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad this was encouraging! Thank you for watching. 😊
@kathrynebeyer6579
@kathrynebeyer6579 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! amen... I had a friend tell me recently that desperation always leads to sin. And I think that is so true. I've struggling with the same thing on and off. I think it's amazing that you can admit this and allow God to grow you through it
@charlesrichardson6573
@charlesrichardson6573 3 жыл бұрын
@@kathrynebeyer6579 Oh that's a wonderful advise 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so
@charlesrichardson6573
@charlesrichardson6573 3 жыл бұрын
how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so
@sweetman5249
@sweetman5249 2 жыл бұрын
Are you still single ? I am looking for wife .
@ThenSingsmyKids
@ThenSingsmyKids 5 ай бұрын
My husband met online dating site. When we first met online we weren't ready... We completly stopped talking. A few years later I was closer to God and praying daily God would help me find a godly husband. My husband found me again on a different site. I could see he changed for the better too during those few years. We both felt the timing was right. We got to know each other better and eventually married. We have been married 11 years and counting. 😊
@teamthurman594
@teamthurman594 4 жыл бұрын
My husband and I met online. In my profile I was specific about my faith and the person I prayed for. We’ve been married for a year already and currently serving together in youth and children’s ministry. 💕
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
What an amazing, encouraging story - thank you for sharing! 💛
@karuragirljustus5555
@karuragirljustus5555 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🎊
@aquafishes
@aquafishes 4 ай бұрын
Same. We started 9,000 miles apart. After 3 years of dating and 7 visits we got married. We've been together over 25 years now😊 God Bless🙏
@jtan2010
@jtan2010 3 жыл бұрын
The example of Ruth and Isaac is so fitting, and I never saw it like that. Thank you for the wisdom.
@andytheindividual3862
@andytheindividual3862 4 жыл бұрын
Dating is tough as a Christian. Even if you're good looking, inside and out!
@Disneygirl3715
@Disneygirl3715 4 жыл бұрын
Andy Gerdesmeier Actually, there are single people out there who share our Christian values if we really search hard. Dating is hard for everyone, not just us. I guess my problem is traditional church has little or no help for singles as much as they have for married couples.
@MRSTYL-cc6sl
@MRSTYL-cc6sl 4 жыл бұрын
Get the app salt
@DFmar1986
@DFmar1986 3 жыл бұрын
I like pretty girls, but Christian gals prone to be superficials (Let me explain: they thing that being bless is their beuaty and they diserve the best talking about money istead of salvation and God's grace ). And there is where i have issues because The non-christians pretty women with christian values (they) like me, but their not accept the gospel. I'm pretty frustated btw.
@MRSTYL-cc6sl
@MRSTYL-cc6sl 3 жыл бұрын
Mekeishakayla if you want a Christain wife
@seanmacnair4994
@seanmacnair4994 3 жыл бұрын
Dating is tough for us ugly guys too
@hannahhh19
@hannahhh19 3 жыл бұрын
It’s interesting because I have tried EVERY SINGLE DATING app and the 40+ dates I’ve been on... well, they did not work. I finally feel like God is telling me “trust me outside the online dating”
@Shotzzilla
@Shotzzilla 3 жыл бұрын
Same 😭😭😭
@saramartinez1112
@saramartinez1112 3 жыл бұрын
Same here... online dating is not for me lol I can't wait till corona is over, then I'll be able to meet people (including new friends) in person
@krumstoilov2352
@krumstoilov2352 2 жыл бұрын
Nope. It’s more simple. You all made terrible selections. I don’t know a girl looking seriously for a relationship and unable to find a man in a dating app up to 2 months going on few dates.
@tabithadoughty5101
@tabithadoughty5101 Жыл бұрын
I think it is individual I personally have been doing online dating for years with no success when I got closer to God and asked for guidance I realized that it was not for me and I should stay away from that personally.
@youtubeaccount-yr6hb
@youtubeaccount-yr6hb 3 жыл бұрын
I personally don't like it (not the dating app kind anyway) because I believe it's normalized turning companionship into a shopping experience/objectification and place of entitlement. People used to live in villages or towns and they'd have a few people to pick from if not an arranged thing and it was about forging a community/putting strengths together. Now it's focused on filling a sense of emptiness and idealizing. We don't live in a chivalrous world anymore. It's normal for men to expect sex in return for a meal or to get harassive and crazy if they are rejected. Women have to be extra careful who they trust themselves with. Discernment is key.
@anjalisartistry870
@anjalisartistry870 Жыл бұрын
In India , many a times, attractive profiles will come but they might be old age people or bad men. They can throw acid too
@sterlingchanell
@sterlingchanell 3 жыл бұрын
I loved how God just used this video to put me at ease and provide clarity for other areas of my life completely outside of dating. Not to mention, it’s an on-time word to share with a close individual in my life. Great content; I will definitely be subscribing. Btw, you have such a beautiful gentleness about you that made this that much more pleasant. Blessings, Kaci! 💛
@janeg1575
@janeg1575 Жыл бұрын
ThankYou🙏🏻 needed this. Focused on my education/ career in my 20-30s and just thought God would work everything out w/ re to my love life. I just told God today I don’t know how to be found, and this was His answer❤
@Morgain03
@Morgain03 4 жыл бұрын
I honestly felt God speak to me when I watched this and realized something within myself. This video just helped me listen to God and I know what he wants me to do. Thank you so much and God Bless♥️ I’m 4 min in the video and I’m already subscribed :)
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Wow that's amazing! I'm so happy God used this video in your life and so happy to have you here!
@kme3894
@kme3894 3 жыл бұрын
this is the best and most thorough discussion on this topic I’ve ever come across. And I’ve been struggling with this for years. Thank you
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy it was helpful to you!
@camoOC
@camoOC 4 жыл бұрын
This video was extremely edifying and much needed. I know I’m a little late but just wanted to thank you for making it. You have yourself a new subscriber..ty!
@lovex3pinkk
@lovex3pinkk 4 жыл бұрын
3:00 Girl! You did not have to call me out like that 😂 that was spot on! but seriously great video as always!
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Haha whoops 😳that is too funny 🤣 thank you so so much! 💛
@amandaholley8068
@amandaholley8068 4 жыл бұрын
This was perfect timing for me! I needed the reminder that nothing is wrong with me if I am currently single and God has a plan. #stillsingledevotional
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Amen! I'm so glad this video reminded you of that because it's TRUE. 💛
@abrahamlincolnmen
@abrahamlincolnmen Жыл бұрын
Hi dear I love the simplicity of your profile and I would love to know more about you
@karenraynor8562
@karenraynor8562 4 жыл бұрын
Dear Kaci, My goodness ! U are spot on for me, in particular ! I'm certain God directed me to your video because everything U said pertains to me. I was taking things into my hands way too much to the point I was terribly neglecting Him by even dismissing the importance of keeping His day holy attending Sunday service n keeping it a rest day. So your emphasis on obedience really hit home with me, especially. Thank U so much, K. A.
@charlesrichardson6573
@charlesrichardson6573 3 жыл бұрын
Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so
@kathrynebeyer6579
@kathrynebeyer6579 4 жыл бұрын
love love LOVE this! I loved how you centered on obedience and not about our "feelings".
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! So hard to do but so necessary! 🙌🏼
@virtuouswoman7554
@virtuouswoman7554 3 жыл бұрын
The motivation issue is key! Thanks for sharing this.
@dianefu6372
@dianefu6372 10 ай бұрын
Spot on. So true. God is indeed so much bigger than our human endeavors (or lack of them). He is sovereign.
@ablewongtsaijing5629
@ablewongtsaijing5629 4 жыл бұрын
thank you sister Kaci~! I've only just worked through lots of fears, shame, insecurities, worthlessness & hopelessness in this whole realm of relationships .. & come into my true identity as a gift to be given away & not just kept to myself .. tried a few Christian dating sites but kinda feels like a time waster at the moment :S .. maybe just need to persevere & be patient =)
@tdatrim
@tdatrim 4 жыл бұрын
I've giving up on the "search". Online dating is a horror show. I'll let the Spirit guide me to my match, however long that takes. 3 years single now and Im good with that 🙏
@tamerab3124
@tamerab3124 3 жыл бұрын
Same here too! Our time will come soon💕🙏
@charlesrichardson6573
@charlesrichardson6573 3 жыл бұрын
@Janel you should learn to open up your heart to possibilities dear 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so
@rosendanu5047
@rosendanu5047 3 жыл бұрын
Same here. Online dating is exhausting! Waiting on God now.
@viron6734
@viron6734 3 жыл бұрын
You're going to be waiting a long time...
@Yomidances
@Yomidances 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this, I came accross your video and it has really encouraged me where i am at the moment, Blessings x
@bellaisia5893
@bellaisia5893 4 жыл бұрын
#stillsingledevotional Really helpful! I really think God spoke through you and I agree with the fact that the motivation behind our actions can say a lot about whether we trust the Lord or not! God Bless you Kaci!!!
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
It's so true! I'm so so glad you found this video helpful - and thanks for entering! 😊
@idtweapons86
@idtweapons86 4 жыл бұрын
Wow your video was truly an answer from the Lord. I personally have never been a fan of dating aps, because I enjoy going up and meeting people. But now I'm getting ready to go back into the dating scene, made me consider trying it. But for some reason I felt uneasy about this and when you suggested the self analyzing "why's". Helped clarify the exact things you mentioned. This video definitely was a strong answer I was exactly looking for. Thank you for the time in making this content.
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, praise God - I'm so happy this video could speak into your decision making process in this area. May God guide you in this chapter as you go about dating! Thank you so much for this kind and encouraging comment 😊
@eliz954
@eliz954 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about this topic, I am learning english and about the bible with you. My dream is to have my family, I am praying God for this. A hug from Brasil!
@taylorw.4572
@taylorw.4572 3 жыл бұрын
Everything you said was spot on. I've used an online dating app before because the Lord told me to. He used that experience for me to be open to going on dates in real life. Thanks for the video By the way, you're gorgeous 💙.
@robertprice6881
@robertprice6881 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I needed to hear, thanks for the video!
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Aw I'm so glad it was helpful!
@Lillystic
@Lillystic 3 жыл бұрын
Hi!
@mooosebrains1615
@mooosebrains1615 4 жыл бұрын
wow honestly this was really helpful thank you i think i was over thinking this , if i’m obedient and serving him then Gods working his plan whether I download the apps or not
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! As you are seeking Him, He will guide your steps!
@EvinNazya
@EvinNazya 3 жыл бұрын
RIGHT. Absolutely same here. Like, just seek and obey. It’ll all just happen as you do.
@Chinstrap-99
@Chinstrap-99 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the advice! God bless you!!!
@FOTWC
@FOTWC 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve found somebody online that is serious about God and we have known each other for 2 months we taking it slow rn planning on meeting sometime in March of 2020 #PRAYFORUS
@FOTWC
@FOTWC 4 жыл бұрын
And she had brought me closer to God we read the Bible together and alone bc That’s mandatory
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Praying God gives you two wisdom and direction as you pursue a relationship!
@FOTWC
@FOTWC 4 жыл бұрын
Kaci Nicole thank you ❤️
@usarmyisthebest9193
@usarmyisthebest9193 4 жыл бұрын
How's it going?
@lupeavalos9791
@lupeavalos9791 4 жыл бұрын
SRFK SNIPEZ cool
@robingreen9227
@robingreen9227 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I never feel like I am doing enough. Looking toward God and waiting.
@meanwhome
@meanwhome 4 жыл бұрын
Online dating my way always lead to pain and disappoint me. Im a introvert so i dont go out party, or do anything in public area. Now during covid 19 theres nothing to do go out. Theres no church open to even go to..Even thinking of online dating gives me anxiety and uncomfortable feeling.
@GeorgePenton-np9rh
@GeorgePenton-np9rh 4 жыл бұрын
Are you dating on a Christian site?
@charlesrichardson6573
@charlesrichardson6573 3 жыл бұрын
You should learn to open up your heart to possibilities dear 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so
@saramartinez1112
@saramartinez1112 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way.
@saramartinez1112
@saramartinez1112 3 жыл бұрын
no need to use online dating, God will make it happen if it's His will :)
@andreamaldonado7039
@andreamaldonado7039 3 жыл бұрын
Same feeling jajaja
@gwendytequiere
@gwendytequiere 4 жыл бұрын
Needed to hear this. Thank you.
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Aw praise God! I'm so glad it was helpful 💛
@EvinNazya
@EvinNazya 3 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@myrrhsense
@myrrhsense 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a bit late to the deed, but this is exactly the video I needed. Thank you so much.
@spikyplant
@spikyplant 3 жыл бұрын
I need to know how you do your hair color, I love it!!
@ellona3645
@ellona3645 3 жыл бұрын
Met someone on Bumble since I live in a small town & in my church it's all older people. I'm very straight to the point that I'm looking for a guy who has a personal relationship with Christ & I keep on asking him about his theology. So far he's been promising. But still praying about it. Also, told him all my boundaries.
@graceannetadaya2747
@graceannetadaya2747 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for those words. I was just enlightened about my real motivation on using a dating app and quite felt guilty about it. God is really amazing. He even uses this youtube to enlighten me about this thing. You are such a blessing to many. May He grant all the desires of your heart. God bless you more! Ps. New subscriber here from the 🇵🇭
@charlesrichardson6573
@charlesrichardson6573 3 жыл бұрын
Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so
@matthewhughes3749
@matthewhughes3749 4 жыл бұрын
i am so glad i watched this video i have tried to use online dating for many years and in my heart i just don't feel any peace at all and i think what you said about for some it is just a matter of obeying God if he has told you just wait on him that is what the lord has said and i will obey even though that is tough
@247worship
@247worship 2 жыл бұрын
This was so encouraging! Thank you.
@meghanbronkema8381
@meghanbronkema8381 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your words Kaci! #stillsingledevotional
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Ahh thank YOU so much for this comment! 💛
@aheatherw88
@aheatherw88 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I needed to hear this!
@proscovianalubega3524
@proscovianalubega3524 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Now i know the answer to my question becouse God just answered me through you.
@CDFFdating
@CDFFdating 3 жыл бұрын
This is wonderful. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on Christian Dating 🕊️🙏🏾✝️💓
@checkingoutgypsymike2075
@checkingoutgypsymike2075 3 жыл бұрын
This video popped up in my feed after i looked at some Christian dating apps, even checked out yours it has terrible reviews. Talk about coincidence's. Guess maybe God wanted me to point out your app is not good at all lol. Not a surprise to see your trolling for customers after reading your reviews, very disturbing of you!
@Goltzer88
@Goltzer88 4 жыл бұрын
Really nice thoughts on the subject Kaci!
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@faridaramzan9987
@faridaramzan9987 2 жыл бұрын
Good words of encouragement we should keep praying let the lord have his way
@tanisha_tlc
@tanisha_tlc 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you just what I needed! 🕊❤️🙏🏾
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Ah I'm so glad!
@ronniewagner7552
@ronniewagner7552 3 жыл бұрын
Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so
@heyitskendra8973
@heyitskendra8973 2 жыл бұрын
Loved how you put this out to understand. Is the devotional still available?
@Dellamae99
@Dellamae99 3 жыл бұрын
I have tried online dating and I will admit that it was out of desperation. It hasn’t been easy for me to trust god during my single season since I’ve gone through healing from a toxic relationship three years ago. I know for a fact that God will bless me with the right person in his timing. I won’t allow my flesh to control my desires 💛
@robinlight
@robinlight 4 жыл бұрын
I just want to find my forever. I put myself out there and thought that maybe he put someone in my life but it's pretty much back to the drawing board for me. Please pray for me. Thank You and God bless everyone.
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Saying a prayer for you right now Robin. I know it can be so discouraging sometimes, especially when it seems like He may be answering the prayer then it doesn't turn out the way we want. But I know He is good and I believe with my whole heart He has good plans for you. 💛
@sweetman5249
@sweetman5249 2 жыл бұрын
Are you still single Robin ?
@kitlan01
@kitlan01 4 жыл бұрын
You are so wise my sister.God bless you thanks for the advice.
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so thankful this was helpful to you 😊
@kitlan01
@kitlan01 4 жыл бұрын
@@kacinicole ok
@germanibradley4514
@germanibradley4514 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this sharing this video, I’ve been struggling with this for awhile now. #stillsingledevotional 💜💜💜
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to hear it was helpful 💛
@ronniewagner7552
@ronniewagner7552 3 жыл бұрын
Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so
@elijahj-l825
@elijahj-l825 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Nicole! This really helped!
@Andrew-ig2dk
@Andrew-ig2dk 2 жыл бұрын
Pray to God and use gods word to decide if you should use a dating site not man's word or these videos. But very good explanation. I use u- tube now in lockdown to spread the message of the cross.
@ronamonald
@ronamonald 4 жыл бұрын
I have tried dating apps and sites on and off for a while I guess haha Honestly it’s discouraging at times. I’m a pretty shy guy especially when it comes to putting myself out there but at times I do and there’s this surge of confidence until you see no matches haha so then you start doubting yourself and all that and when I do get matches they end up being people catfishing and asking for money and other things after they got you thinking “maybe this could be something.” I do know online dating does work as I’ve had friends and relatives meet on there but like you said it’s pretty much preference. Right now I have a mindset that I would love to meet someone someday and hopefully one day get married but I am happy where I am now and I’m ok with being single. Honestly I’ve never had a gf, so as bad as it may sound you get kind of used to it but I am praying all the time that God prepare me for my future gf/wife that I be the man He wants me to be first so that I can best serve her during our relationship. Right now, like you said I’m going to keep doing what I’m doing and what He’s called me to do 😁
@matthewhughes3749
@matthewhughes3749 4 жыл бұрын
yeah dating apps are certainly not worth the time because it's all based on looks for one thing and the fact we don't get matches is this they want to keep you on the app for as along as possible so the algorithms diliberatly don't give you lots of matches you may get one when you start up the app and than none at all that is the deception of these apps and lots of times the profiles are fake and not real so that is the reason not to trust these dating apps
@laura-sandy1492
@laura-sandy1492 4 жыл бұрын
matthew Hughes that’s a really good point, didn’t realise that at first, also I find the concept of judging based on looks really off-putting
@charlotteava7710
@charlotteava7710 2 жыл бұрын
Lol 🤣 same here too I'm a bit shy and dating apps are a bit stressful as well 😩.
@banurachristine7377
@banurachristine7377 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry about that Ronald. We trust God to do what He does best
@Marie_Garwood
@Marie_Garwood 4 жыл бұрын
Your dating story is crazy!! Thank you so much for sharing-what a reassuring and encouraging story! A personal love letter from God to you for sure!
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Isn't that wild?! 🤯Haha thanks girl 🙈and I think so too! 💛
@ronniewagner7552
@ronniewagner7552 3 жыл бұрын
Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so
@abrahamlincolnmen
@abrahamlincolnmen Жыл бұрын
Hi there pretty
@laurenbarca4661
@laurenbarca4661 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video! Your thoughts on this helped me today. 🙌🏼😋
@abrahamlincolnmen
@abrahamlincolnmen Жыл бұрын
Hi pretty I love the simplicity of your profile and I would love to know more about you
@jamesdunn9744
@jamesdunn9744 2 жыл бұрын
That's very good advice very wise for someone your age you seem to be wise beyond your years I believe that for everybody there is someone made by God in my case I have to use Christian dating sites because where I live I don't think there's any dating clubs you can actually go in and join for speed dating that I know of so I'm listening to your advice and find it very interesting because I'm new on the internet so keep up the good work I enjoy the knowledge of learning cuz this is something I don't know much about
@stacedoggkyles2019
@stacedoggkyles2019 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you kaci for this video god bless you your family and your friends you have a wonderful fantastic awesome bless safe beautiful day enjoy the rest of your day🙏📖😊❤
@cassiopia2712
@cassiopia2712 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this Kaci! #stillsingledevotional
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching and entering! 😊
@m.j.6511
@m.j.6511 3 жыл бұрын
I did enjoy this video and thanks for your insights
@joshkamyszek9385
@joshkamyszek9385 4 жыл бұрын
#stillsingledevotional Love this video! Such an amazing girl, I love everything you put out there for us!!
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@nataliahn.4922
@nataliahn.4922 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the encouragement. #stillsingledevotional
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad it was encouraging! Thank you for watching! 😊
@abrahamlincolnmen
@abrahamlincolnmen Жыл бұрын
I love the simplicity of your profile and I would love to know more about you
@yashitanagpal1635
@yashitanagpal1635 4 жыл бұрын
I am a new subbie 😊.I really like the fact that you are open-minded and considered much about whats in the heart (intention) and not what restrictions and rules society puts sometimes, in your videos . That incident you shared tho🤪 P.S- I would love to know more about your jouney and views on singleness #stillsingledevotional
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Yay so happy to have you here and glad you liked the video! As for the incident...isn't that CRAZY?! 🙈😜
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Yashita, you are one of the WINNERS of my #stillsingledevotional! 💛please respond to this comment with your email address, and I'll send a copy on over to you. 😊
@jordanmoravenov
@jordanmoravenov 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you a lot for this video!!!
@EdenCalling
@EdenCalling 3 жыл бұрын
Amen to all that!❤️
@margeorietamayo3492
@margeorietamayo3492 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. I just subscribed to this channel today.❤❤❤❤
@ronniewagner7552
@ronniewagner7552 3 жыл бұрын
Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so
@catherinekabasiita9800
@catherinekabasiita9800 2 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel today n the video has been helpful to me ...
@rundodongrun1351
@rundodongrun1351 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video Kaci
@ronniewagner7552
@ronniewagner7552 3 жыл бұрын
Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so
@constanceroberts6906
@constanceroberts6906 2 жыл бұрын
I loved the video. I would like to get the Still Single devotional please. Thank you.
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad! The devotional is linked in the description of this video 😊
@m.j.6511
@m.j.6511 3 жыл бұрын
One thing I do not seem to find is this: Why is it that everyone assumes that God has a mate/spouse waiting for them. What if God's plan for someone is to remain and grow old single? Is this an abnormal thought (or situation)? Arent'there any instances where individuals are not meant to be in a couple and pursue the traditional need to be married? Why does this scenario seem to inspire pity and the need from others who are well intentioned to reassure someone? What do you, a Christian woman, think about that scenario? Could you do a study on that?
@naominashson5942
@naominashson5942 10 ай бұрын
Because God said it is not good for a Man to be alone , so He created a mate for that reason , The Woman.
@andreawilliamson6267
@andreawilliamson6267 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! And spoke to me in so many ways! #stillsingledevotional
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Andrea Williamson ah that makes me so happy to hear! Thank you for watching! 😊
@ronniewagner7552
@ronniewagner7552 3 жыл бұрын
Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so
@nabbosabeldine8885
@nabbosabeldine8885 Жыл бұрын
Thanks soooooo much wise advise 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@danielchavira9968
@danielchavira9968 4 жыл бұрын
I am trying it and being faithful that one will like me back just staying patient
@80sports20
@80sports20 3 жыл бұрын
My biggest issue with online dating/apps is that it just feels so unnatural. No matter how many times I try, I just can't knock this feeling. As a Catholic, some of the apps we have are good because you can make sure you are meeting people who are "practicing" (not just Catholic/Christian in name), but even still, online dating just does not feel natural to me.
@saramartinez1112
@saramartinez1112 3 жыл бұрын
Yes totally!
@gheeman5800
@gheeman5800 4 жыл бұрын
Always been pursuing women without ever sitting down and pray as to whether or not they are the one God wants me to be with, but your point about God having the ability to guide the person he desires into our life has really waken me up. Hoping to be still and pray about this as i'm still maturing as a christian through scripture
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I love that we can go to God and talk to Him in prayer about anything - even this!
@joywilliams6175
@joywilliams6175 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! Prayer is the key. Let us all Keep praying and waiting on God and he would bring us the perfect partners. While also waiting we should get to spend more time with God. Your God ordained woman is out there and my God ordained man is out there
@GloryAndy
@GloryAndy 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much it's extremely helpful for me 🤗
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Praise God, I'm so glad!
@greggsingletary8777
@greggsingletary8777 2 жыл бұрын
Such great wisdom!
@TonyTreece911
@TonyTreece911 11 ай бұрын
Your message is from God❗️Thank you for providing the truths from God’s Word❗️
@earlethecanadian5470
@earlethecanadian5470 3 жыл бұрын
Nice video, Sister! Jesús loves us!
@ecorceparfumee8848
@ecorceparfumee8848 4 жыл бұрын
#stillesingledevotional Loved this vidéo. I realized that my motivations where wrong and I think that God wants me to trust him more and be dependant on him. Faith is looking as thing that arent visible yet ! I have faith in our Father! ❤️
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
YES! 🙌🏼 "Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we cannot see" - thank you for that reminder, and thanks for watching! 💛
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Hi again, you are one of the WINNERS of my #stillsingledevotional! 💛please respond to this comment with your email address, and I'll send a copy on over to you. 😊
@zellylag
@zellylag 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve always had that question, so it was really great to hear about it! Thank you so much💕 #stillsingledevotional
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
That makes me so happy to hear! 💛
@brianstephens52
@brianstephens52 4 жыл бұрын
Thankful for your advice . Can I please have a work book and devotionals
@delehadecker1285
@delehadecker1285 2 жыл бұрын
This is sooo good!
@kaleygertken8185
@kaleygertken8185 2 жыл бұрын
oof I needed this today, thank you! I have such a fear I won't meet someone if I don't put myself out there because I don't usually go anywhere I download dating apps and have such bad luck with them
@johnemmanuel6595
@johnemmanuel6595 2 жыл бұрын
Hello I am John and I live in Italy I will like to know you.
@sweetman5249
@sweetman5249 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Kaley . Are you still looking for a man ? I am here for you.
@joshkaye5303
@joshkaye5303 Жыл бұрын
My personal experience on dating sites is that God did not bring me close enough to even a single coffee date. It was so uncanny how many times I got ghosted or the one I wanted to initiate contact with simply disappeared OR logged on for the last time the day BEFORE I joined. Not to mention all the rejection I had to inflict onto people interested in me also. Online dating just didn't work out so I've now resolved to go to different church groups around my city. Someone please pray that I can at least find someone to start a friendship with. It's been an agonizing ride, but I still trust in God's timing.... just like Joseph in the dungeon I just gotta keep trusting this has all been for a reason no matter how much I mourn and lament the time that I've lost.
@RaeAria
@RaeAria 10 ай бұрын
Online dating is not great 😅 Hopefully you found a good friend by now 🙏
@thekiaradanielle
@thekiaradanielle 4 жыл бұрын
OMG I so needed this. Subbed! 💕
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Ah I'm so glad - praise God! Glad to have ya here 💛
@ronniewagner7552
@ronniewagner7552 3 жыл бұрын
Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so
@heatherlovelett5571
@heatherlovelett5571 4 жыл бұрын
#stillsingledevotional :) this was great kaci!
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
So encouraging, thanks Heather 😊
@charlesrichardson6573
@charlesrichardson6573 3 жыл бұрын
Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so
@dolycontrerasatencio9819
@dolycontrerasatencio9819 4 жыл бұрын
I needed this video, nowadays it’s really difficult to be patient but as daughters of the KING of kings, we have to work for it, be patient, trust in him, in his timing it’s hard I know but we have to, he knows more than anyone what’s the best for us. So I decided to trust, remain single and wait for the spouse God has for me. #Stillsingledevotional
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
He truly does know best! Thanks so much for watching. 💛
@dolycontrerasatencio9819
@dolycontrerasatencio9819 3 жыл бұрын
@@brandon556 I’m good thank you, how are you?
@jamaljordan28
@jamaljordan28 4 жыл бұрын
The bible tells us For whether we be beside ourselves, it is to God: or whether we be sober, it is for your cause. 2 Corinthians 5/13
@danielvega9256
@danielvega9256 3 жыл бұрын
I’m petrified of trying app for dating But I’m tired of being alone Specially with this pandemic 😷 But we have to keep prying God bless you all
@tabithawangeci7830
@tabithawangeci7830 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you to 🙏
@floydadams7069
@floydadams7069 Жыл бұрын
Livening for god! The biggest thing I run in to is a lot of these “believers” are not really trying to live for god, and there’s just not very mini 20 to 30 year olds that are single and really trying to live for him. I guess not time yet🤷‍♂️
@arbeicas
@arbeicas 3 жыл бұрын
Hey that’s a good question.
@meganmindcreates
@meganmindcreates 4 ай бұрын
I did a dating app cause of my sister, I really wasn't looking for someone. I got response from a guy and we met a couple of times but I had to move back to utah. We stayed connected but I felt pushed with some of his responses thus we stopped talking but recently he texted me of our deeply sorry he was and that he regretted what he did. Got to admit it made me blush. I could see a change but I think I am scared. My life is a Tangled story. I have been closed off from everything and Idk how to take the leap of faith. I need to hear from God cause idk what to do.
@renatobeltrame5228
@renatobeltrame5228 4 жыл бұрын
Gostei muito do vídeo, muito construtivo! Obrigado!
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you liked it!
@onehitwarrior1708
@onehitwarrior1708 3 жыл бұрын
No. You dont have to put yourself out there. God will do whats best for you
@taylor1721
@taylor1721 4 жыл бұрын
Love this! #stillsingledevotional
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 💛
@lilac_lottie
@lilac_lottie 3 жыл бұрын
even if i wasnt a believer, i still would never do online dating cuz all those dateline and unsolved mysteries stories. its just scary to meet up with a stranger and go on dates, even if its in public places. u have to know someone for long enough to see all sides of them, then start dating.
@saramartinez1112
@saramartinez1112 3 жыл бұрын
exactly
@mississippisteeler95
@mississippisteeler95 2 жыл бұрын
Right about the sketchy people part but Ive also found many people who claimed to be a Christian on an app well in real life didnt quite always live up to that. It can be hard to meet people in real life but for me personally I do prefer that.
@netpal7818
@netpal7818 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this Video! I am really blessed with your message. (new subscriber here from 🇵🇭) 😊#stillsingledevotional
@kacinicole
@kacinicole 4 жыл бұрын
Aw praise God! I'm so happy to hear that 💛
@jackrussell1601
@jackrussell1601 3 жыл бұрын
Wow I never knew their was a section like this on KZfaq 😇😇
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