Best approach is indirect and non threatening. If women see you making other people laugh or engaged, you’re preselected. You can start being indirectly playful with them until they’re ready. If a hot girl is behind me at the grocery store, I’ll make small talk with the old person in front of me. Gives them a chance to observe your personality.

There are very few men that will get women without approaching.

Your exactly right. If she's interested, she will let you know. Besides that situation, cold approach has very little benefit. Unless you are the high value guy. Tall, handsome, muscular, with the appearance of wealth and status. Those qualities are what makes the cold approach work. It's all about the attraction. I am pushing 60. I am the poster boy for passive. Gym, work, gym, home. Hike on the weekend. At my age I've become very comfortable with being alone for the remainder of my life. Gone are the days of typical dating. Now it's all got an agenda. I can tell men like myself that you need to be 100% responsible for your own happiness. NEVER leave it in the hands of something that lives by emotions, feelings, and hormones. Always look for equal effort if you do date. For you young men I would suggest tempering your physical desires. This is truly her only control over you. If you can control these desires. A woman can't bait you with sex into the roll of a provider.

Cold approach is the biggest life hack for the average man who doesn't get as many dates or from the quality of women they really want off of dating apps. Even an average man who gets nothing online can go out there and get 2 or more dates every week, consistently. It's like a super power once you learn it.

You don't have to do anything if she likes you,if not it doesn't matter what you do.

That moment when you happen to make eye contact with her and you two feel an immediate spark. Her eyes get wide with excitement and maybe your heart skips a beat. You see her melt for a split second and immediately composes herself. That’s the best time to approach, when it’s genuine.

I dont know man, im 37 and the lesson ive learned so far, is that whenever i chase something its impossible to get it, when i dont put much effort and expect little, it somehow falls into ur laps.. ive experienced this many times in all aspects of life, mainly in my carreer

I use to think I was nervous to approach woman but then I realized it wasn't that but instead it was because most modern women out there, for many reasons, aren't interesting and appealing enough to approach

Appreciate all the wisdom LFA!! The big 100K right around the corner, Respect brother!

Im done with the approaching, I’m working on my personal life, - work - hobbies - homework 🏠 - fitness 5 or 6 times a week A woman will fit in or stay away, either way I’m not regretting anything.

man you naild it thanks a lot & after my exams i’ll be coming in on the live stream again ❤

LFA the GOAT. love your work mate

W LFA. W brick wall. W starting the video with the word “greetings.” W dominance hierarchies.

Great advice, LFA.

My mate had a cold approach success rate of 1/1000 but after a few years of consistency he met his wife, married 2 kids later etc. so it does work

I've been considering the idea of initiating conversations with women, not necessarily with the intention of asking them out, but more as a way to build my confidence through experiencing rejection. It's sort of a social experiment.

I think we can all agree that it's better to ask than to live in regret of not asking. That isn't to say you'll regret not asking every single girl you walk past on the street. But if you are the type who will, I guess you should! I try to save my efforts for something like a girl at the grocery store that I've built a little rapport with. I've had a couple rejections that were still very positive experiences. Good-hearted girls will not be tough on your for daring to ask - quite the opposite, in fact. Good-hearted girls are generally taken, so they don't need to make up random excuses either. I've heard of happy families and lifelong marriages that started from the corniest crap.

A funny approach experience I had recently was at the gym. A woman gave me a ton of IOI's prior with multiple held eye contacts, multiple smiles, etc.. When I approached, we had a good chat with flow, and I did the name ask test. This is where you ask for hers, and if she asks for yours in return, it's also an IOI. Not only does she ask for my name but says, "That's one of my favorite names for a man," with another smile. So I go for the number and she says, "I'm actually married." It reminded me of getting dealt a 20 at blackjack and the dealer drawing out a six card 21. 😂

God bless your wisdom brotha.

I’ve been cold approaching girls at my gym here in the UK .. the interactions have mostly been positive and I’ve got a few numbers which I have yet to convert .. just go say hello, comment on something they are doing/wearing etc and you’ve easily opened but escalation & conversion are a different matter .. practice your social game guys

Loving your content, keep it coming brother ❤

It’s 90% about looks, that’s the ugly truth…

Bus stop girls. Cold approach heaven

All men need to learn and understand this. It took me a while to and it will come. it’s just all about mindset and experience.

Good video. The conclusion after a lot of analyzing different strategies and behaviors of people. Really insightful. From my point of view if you are single, one should do a few cold indirect approaches a week, so that you have less approach anxiety when it counts. That could also mean to move to a big city.

Legend Friend Affirmation.

I’ve done day game for years. I do it much less now. I’ll do an approach when I’m already out doing other things. Now it’s more like once or twice a month. There was a time I went out 5-7 days a weeks. I’ve had many scenarios happen like same day lays and other fun experiences. Now if I do it too much I feel like what a horrible misuse of time. Cold approaching Vs. A warm a approach is vastly different in reactions.

I respect your opinion but honestly if men do this it will do more harm than good. Imagine being a man and having to wait til your successful or a “girl” looks at you for you to make a move. This shit isn’t the movies. Men out here suffering from dating apps and are too scared to approach women. So your solution is wait til your successful for a woman to leech off you financially rather than “hey man that girl may be into you but she hasn’t seen you yet, talk to her and see what happens”. Sometimes a girl that may be into you doesn’t even know that cause she never seen you before. If you don’t introduce yourself how will you meet if you aren’t in the same vicinity at all times. Approaching women in the same place is stupid don’t do that but still approaching women for a man who wants a gf or wife is not bad. This isn’t the movies you have to put in effort if you want something in life. You’re saying it’s a numbers game. How many men are successful? Or are making a certain amount that will be considered attractive to women? Now what is harder grinding 80 hours per week or approaching a woman you found attractive in the store. lol crazy.

Quickest most accurate answer to the title: Not unless you’re a Chad or Chad-lite. I suppose if you’re an upper tier normie it wouldn’t hurt if you don’t mind being friend zoned at a literal 99% frequency. If you’re just a normie or sub 5, absolutely not unless being maced and have the cops called on you sounds like a fun time.

You are perhaps the most socially intelligent person I’ve ever encountered, either in person or online.

Keep it up addressing real dating issues that average men face today.

Guys, just work on yourself, get stronger & more confident in your own skin. Learn to be in solitude/content in your own company and boom- as you finally don't need approval of others to be happy, women gravitate to you. Works the other way as well, been there done that.

Cold approach is very efficient and you have little competition as not many guys do it. However I would not go out of your way to do it, it’s best to do it whilst already out living your life

Perfect 👌😊

Good take as usual. What I've noticed is I just can't respect someone who does not respect time. Just because you can, it doesn't mean you should. It starts at a young age too, where people don't understand the potential they have. The character they can build. The habits they can overcome before they become habitual. Thats tragic. Knowing what you want starts with not by knowing what you don't want, but knowing what you're willing to fight for. This generation seems stuck on the idea of novelty & is bored with sustenance. The best things you're gonna learn in your life isn't when you're happy nor chasing, but when you've learned what it is that you really want. Thats why I cannot respect males who approach every single female they come across as a way to "overcome". I can understand the "why." However, it doesn't help them "overcome" anything, but reinforces the fact that not everyone is gonna like them. I don't know if some will like that once they're on the other side. It kinda remind me of females who dress provocative cause they think males will want them. Keep up the good work!

Should I approach an angry dog?

def had that feeling many times 16:20 guess you cant try all the flavors at baskin robins ... you gotta pick one and leave the store..

My approach is peace quiet and freedom going away on my own going for a quiet walk just looking at a nice 🌲 tree , flower 🌸, or sitting by a lake just me and God.

I love you bro

babe I had a quota that day.... and it was getting real rough round about numbers 46, and 47 ... but then there you were... in all your glory... I knew...

Cringing at the memory of myself doing exactly that, setting a "goal number" of girls to approach and just went with it. With no result of course other than making the girls feeling on a spectrum from uncomfortable to annoyed to terrified..

Ive did a cold approach from a girl at work and got rejected at the end. Im going through counseling at the moment trying to get over it that i cant let go im mildly autistic.

The honest answer is no. Lol. Guys should not bother cold approaching strangers. Best thing to do is get involved with your community in extra curricular activities that you like such as book clubs, cooking classes, church or martial arts or even art/music. Meet people through there and work on establishing friendships first. Be confident and let them fall in love with you from there. Do not just randomly bother the poor girl shopping at Target. I can’t believe anyone thought that was a good idea.

Lol no man got pepper sprayed while approaching women

Absolutly perfect. In truth, I think it's ridiculous cold approach. I already did it my self, but I came to the conclusion that it's simple ridiculous.

I only cold approach in the winter

get pepper sprayed for being a 6/10 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Interesting theory. Literally as i was about to do this today. Ill say this, if you enjoy social interaction then i think its not a bad idea. However in modern society compared to 30 years ago its definitely not the norm as it once was.

I've met more women from facebook dating in the past few months than I ever have cold approaching, I never thought it would work but it does. PoF doesnt work, tinder doesnt work, for some reason facebook dating works.

Cold approach is always creepy unless you're a Chad or Tyrone....

This might be weird but I like women approaching me. It’s only happened twice but both turned into good relationships that ended mutually. That girl boss shit turns me on. Not be dominated or anything like that I guess it’s just nice to have a woman with confidence that can handle her own shit

64 degrees? I had less in my room in my flat here in Poland lol fortunately now is warmer and I have about 65 in my room lol

I wanna see you do a video while you saw firewood

Good stuff yet again dude and I csn vouch for a lot of what you say as I am of a similar age to you. I do feel that in this day and age though, as red pilled as it might sound an established older guy should then go for a girl in her early twenties for dating. For marriage again due to the way most modern women think and are, he should aim for a woman in the same age bracket of between 21 to 23 who is virgin and traditional. He is more likely to get this abroad unless maybe he finds an Amish girl 😂

I always lolz at these types of questions. Its kinda like asking: "should the untrained and unskilled average joe get on the ring or the octagon with Mike Tyson or Jon Jones?" Sure. Go ahead, make a fool of yourself and give everyone around a good laugh.

Unfortunately, I'm too short and ugly to cold approach women. I really hate myself

I know men in there 70's who are married and are still cold approaching young women in the workplace.

I get women cold approach me or strike up a convo with me it goes both ways

I heard random dude and fire. Sir you have my attention...

Cold approach is a very good way to cheat and circumvent the competition on the dating apps. It is the best way to "boost" yourself 1000x and be seen. A real life cold approach definitely makes you stand out in the woman's mind for better or for worse. Unless you are built like LFA, you should consider cold approach.

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I haven't watched the video yet but I think the cold approach is really difficult today. I live in a major urban area where everyone is looking at their phones and it makes you seem crazy if you talk with a stranger and ask for their contact info (even if you just ask for social media info). Unfortunately, it's too much too fast. Women will sense you want something from them and I think most will be hesitant. Unfortunately, there are unhinged people "out there" although they are not the majority. With that said, does it work for a few? Yes. But very few. In major cities, I think most women would view a cold approach as an invasion of privacy.

“He’s got ten baby’s mothers or whatever “ lmao

Absolutely not

I think the only time I cold approached in my life is when I was my freshman year of college. Then I started to work out as a 19 year old, observed how my attractive friends were flirting and the rest is kind of history. The only thing that slowed me down was listening to all these dating coaches and red pill content creators. I started to convince myself woman did not like me and the worse case scenario would happen. The good thing is that conditioning is starting to wear off and now I pay attention to how my parents are still happily married 25+ years later and steal what my dad used to get here. I will have to come on this stream sometime. I have been watching since 2018.

Tell them them jeans sitting right on that tail!!! Put another one on the Barby!

No. Do not cold approach. Total waste of time, confidence and sanity. If you are average or below average, you will approach 1000 women and maybe get one date. It’s an utter black hole. The only quality version of talking to a new woman is when she gives you choosing signals. If you don’t receive those from her first, just keep walking

Something as simple as a genuine smile from a girl is such a rarity nowadays... If I see that i'll approach ! Is that so much to ask for nowadays ?

Absolutely not your only feeding into their ego things must change.

you miss 100% of the shots you don't take/make. On dates it's the fifteen minute rule: it never fails or lies...

11:00 absolutely not true! You can be her biggest crush and she acts like completely not interested…

No matter if you make a move “cold” or warm and welcomed you’re still gonna need some sort of social Game.. this is where the pua’s get a bad rap cuz they teach social interaction dynamics… and yes the more u talk to the more comfortable you will become.. just like anything, practice

I agree with most of your videos. This might be, however, be an exception. There's no need to disclose how many women you've approached before getting to "the one." She should already have the notion that it is expected for a guy to get rejected a few (if not many) times beforehand. It is simply a number's game for us.

What ever happened with just going with the flow, the good old days.

What if you do day game , but only do warm approach?

If a lady approaches a dude and she's asked why she came up to him but answers "idk" that's a red flag. She can suddenly lose interest/attraction for you and officially get on a relationship with some random dude within a day or week.

I’ve never thought of it that way that you don’t want to have to lie to a woman and tell them I approached 100 women that day and you were the only one that said yes 😂

No, most definately not!

The answer to that question is an emphatic NO. Most women I meet I deem unworthy of my attention.

So then, I wonder, what are guys’ take on women approaching them?? I haven’t done it but at this point I feel like I’m gonna have to, since I don’t seem to attract guys that engage my curiosity very often…

The ironic thing about cold approach...it is for men that already have options. They're just shopping in person rather than being on tinder. They get tinder matches but just choose to go out in the wild.

I think if you are a reasonably attractive guy of at least avg height then there will always be some women who will be interested no matter where you go. Guys like this take their success for granted. Because there are clearly guys who have some disadvantage, like short stature, that makes women naturally pass them over. They need to have a strong personality. They will need to be more forward and initiate interactions.

Best move to make. Move out of parents house love by yourself in the city, quit habits that keep you indoors (weed, booze, fapping). Go out to singles nights, speed date, salsa, events that are organic and where can meet ppl for long term. Eventually u will find one.

Choosing signals woman give on daily base

Its easy to criticise guys doing CA to bring their options from zero when youve had an abundance of women from an early age. Should we just write off all the guys who werent so fortunate?

11:30 you can tell if shes interested in you by the way that she is looking at you -he describes it well -seems to be contradicting other advice here that hes given in other videos. The cold approach she be apart of the play book

They would have to leave their childhood bedroom first. Ain't gonna happen.

Gigachad get beautiful women without approaching

no sound!?

"hes so deprived of women" that's literally all of society

Cold approach? Nah, women who want you to approach usually give you an opening, or look/smile. I’m not trying to put in all that effort 😅

Anyone man or woman who asks what did you like about me? I already can’t stand them they’re insecure. They have no self-esteem move on. Worst question ever. You shouldn’t have to ask someone you’re dating what they like about you because they should be telling you every day what they like about you.

Absolutely. Only way. Best relationships come from cold approaches. Dating 🕸 are bs.

@LFA hey thanks for your content I really enjoy listening to you and the insights are real world stuff But on this one could you be much more specific? I think you have to share more detail or this video isn’t useful. In what cases are you saying it’s ok and where is the line? I don’t do dating apps, I’ve met my last two girlfriends cold approaching and had a lot of other unbelievable life memories because of it. My life would not be as great at all if I wasn’t doing it. Maybe I’m low value. But if I see an attractive girl and can talk to her I will do it. I’d be nowhere without doing that, girls don’t come up to me and I’m not sure how I’d have had any dates otherwise. I think you’re right about a lot of other stuff but I’m not getting this all the way. Btw how did you get with hundreds of girls if you don’t cold approach? Apps are the exact same as cold approach but it’s so lame

When I go out I never go out with the idea of meeting women , and yet they keep following me . If u go into a room with 10 women are 10 looking for mr it .

Maybe approaching random women is a good practice if a man isnt that confident. But i don't think that our confidence should be driven by external things. That is low quality of a man, who is trying to convince himself something.

Female here! Toni. Age 73, never married, no children. I just learned I'm a sigma female. That's been "my problem" my whole lifetime😅! My high school - 3000 students. We had dances regularly. All the guys lined up on one wall, girls on the other. Only a few guys would go ask girls to dance. They would dance with 20 girls! They were fun & enjoyable guys, & I always danced the night away!!! The other guys just stay along the wall... Same thing during my adulthood. Bars that had dances - same thing. Only OLD GUYS - asked me to dance!!! And, I would dance the night away!!! I'm not a HOT beauty - but I'm happy, pleasant, fun- loving, outgoing & good-looking!!! Everywhere - I'm doing my business alone. Guys of all ages give me the "puppy-dog" look. Especially, older men doing their grocery shopping! They want to start up something with me - BUT THEY DON'T. They have no social skills & no balls. I REFUSE to do their "man work" for them!!! I've said to myself - since junior high school, "IF A GUY DOESN'T HAVE ENOUGH BALLS TO COME OVER HERE TO ASK ME FOR A SIMPLE DANCE OR JUST BE FRIENDLY & SAY SOMETHING TO START A LITTLE CONTACT" - forget it!!! I could & can start contact & conversation with anybody. My Dad taught me that. But I REFUSE to do it - in "The Game Of Love"!!!!! I want a guy "STRONGER" than me. As a sigma, I'm strong & very confident in many ways, lifetime, even as a kid. My parents taught me so many skills, & I've added a bunch more along the way. Everything takes practice. And, I never look at - what you guys call "rejection", as rejection. To me - people have the right to make their own choices, for their own reasons. People are deep. We will not understand why. Does it hurt? YEEEES!!!! Go home, repair & move on. Nike! JUST DO IT!

Yea cold approach is dead. I tried and I’m burnt out lol

Cold approach is lame af i agree but what options does the average guy has? We dont get validation at all neither at social media or dating apps so we either do this or we're screwed

Only chicks I have pulled have approached me.