So true

Yup. Mom wanted to intrust those proceeds to someone who would honor them.

They have reason to be, unless they are way more wealthy than her.

yeah seriously

Absolutely

Oh you know it!!!!

better get those payoffs on paper and not just a handshake

Well said.

Well if it was said by words, there’s no genuine evidence in of to be taken to court, even if they do take her court they won’t win the case because it would be unlawful. There’s needs to be a contract on consent with all of their signatures or the grandma would have to leave a will or clause stating that the house would be split between.

Yep

That was her mistake

Yep!

Evil 😈 🦹‍♂️ 🤣

They always come back for more.

J S Never make deals with terrorists, as Reagan once said.

iBcPirate she won’t

lvzxy She needs to grow a pair.

I think its more because the team tells you to be brief and quick and not drag the convo more than 120 sec or so.

That may be but i also felt like she wanted to hang up to cry probably

Her life, her circus

+David D why do wealthy people always push books on others?

+JasonfromMinnesota he gave her the book... for free. He believes in the product and is willing to advertise it on his show.

Zach K true i was being sarcastic most people don't know the value of nonfiction and success books - but have massive flat screens and flat screen payments

@@JasonfromMinnesota true words

mee too

I agree. people like that will never prosper.

typeav That's true, but it's also interesting that they were not close to the mom, and that the mom put her in charge of it. I think that alone speaks volumes. I feel like a parent would want all of her children to have equal parts, if she couldn't trust a few of them to not do it.

Exactly. If I were her I would make it a duplex and rent the property. And Invest the money into multiple ways. They wouldn't see a single penny.

Those type of siblings will find some attorney who will take their case and challenge the will. They could care less if it honors their Mothers legacy. The just want what the feel entitled to, even though they never paid a dime for any of what Mom left in the will.

Right I'd just keep it out of spite

Johnathan Meeks yep!!!!

she needs to find a husband

She totally did. You know it. I know it.

You know she did g it’s sad

she did, and she deserves the stress for being an enabler

Smh. It’s true sadly. My grandfather has built a good little wealth. Nothing too crazy he’s probably worth about 1-2 mil total. My uncle lived 3 states away and wasn’t even raised by him but all of a sudden he moves up here right when my grandfather gets diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. They are waiting on him to die to get their money. Smh. And him and my dad are battling over power of attorney. Sad situation how money can tear apart families. There’s a college fund for me for 70k and I’m not in college so I told them to use that for him.

Your first sentence summed up EVERYTHING.

@@BradPwnsU keep your money , do not let them use it

InSight BadDude thanks for he advice

K H-C I’m sure it mostly happens that way but, not in my case. I did everything but, my sister gets a house now and I have to wait, perhaps, decades. Never so much as gave my mother a birthday or Mother’s Day card but, as my mother is coming to appreciate the weak, more usable child, I’m out - and so is Mom.

I can understand how she's tempted to do it just to shut them up and to get them off her back. Mom leaves the instructions, but she's gone. She doesn't have to deal with these two entitled brats. The daughter is the one left behind to be pestered by these two leeches. Not a fun place to be for the daughter. I might do it ( pay them their chunk), on the condition that they have signed away any rights to the proceeds from the sale of the house. I'd get a lawyer to make it official. They get their chunk BEFORE the house sells, don't come looking for more when it DOES sell.

Yeah, no kidding.

The verbal agreement is the only thing that even benefits them. There's no reason for her to even say it unless it was true, because it would hurt her. If there were no verbal agreement in place, they would get nothing because the house was already legally left to her (I assume).

it doesn't really matter. the house belongs to the caller

Those two were LUCKY that mom decided they should get ANYTHING after not visiting her until the last five weeks.

too bad Wills and Trusts cost money - one should be able to type up their wishes on a word doc, have it notarized (which is a $30 fee at most) and be done but no - that won't stand up in court bc you didn't pay a lawyer $2000/$3000 to get it done. =(

TemeryN No, you can get one online for less than $100, and even a simple one crafted by a lawyer can be $100 to $150.

Facts

fabulous life -is that a bible verse? What if mother was abusive or neglectful of her children? We don’t know the background.

they would hate me, I would tell them, I am never selling the house, so you are never getting a dollar for me.

az21bob666 it’s not from you, it’s from her mother. Her dying wish. You’ve missed completely the point on all this. Try again.

Miracle Mixon Core the other 2 sound like they could be married too. I hope she didn't give them money either.

In the grand scheme of things, no. Not worth losing a brother or sister over and not worth buying one with either.

There's no "mess" to sort out. A mess is when your relatives sue you. In this case all Sis has to say is no and I don't want to discuss it anymore.

Yeah I'm really glad that he addressed the issue again because he gives her advice and then she turns around and still tries to figure out where wave can I pay them off it's like disgusting you know and he says oh they're really mad and this is one time because I don't always agree with Dave Sunrise but this time he really really nailed it on the head like he got this one exactly right they're never going to be happy how dare they be mad especially acting like they're mad with the sister their mom just died these kind of things upset me even more because I actually don't have family no Mom Dad grandparents even my older sister got murdered they just reopened the case because they think they know who the Killer is like I have no one and so far $15,000 they are going to act like this towards their sister and honestly even the collar kind of started getting me upset like she's trying to do anything she can to make them happy and I don't know the chances are 50/50 that these people talked her into some house tell him that house or getting the money disgraceful