Spot on, bro

Tatum is right about something’s. Other subject matters he’s a moron. This is one of those. Imagine marrying a woman who can’t even tell u her body count. Huge red flag.

5:35 if women thought body count truly didn’t matter, why would she be afraid to tell u the truth then? Obviously it matters and women just don’t want to admit this. Also it’s funny seeing a former police officer condoning poor behavior like lying to a potential partner 👎🏻

Imagine trying to tell someone what you're talking about and they blame you and say you're crazy we live in a reverse reality it's because of duality law of reversal

@@9770G to avoid judgement. Cheating while in a relationship is one thing, but to be mad at her and dump her for cheating on you before she even knew you existed is ridiculous. Having a preference for her isn’t bad (preferring her count is low), but to make it a deal breaker is ridiculous. The only thing that matters is if she makes you happy. I’m the only one my wife has been with, but even if I wasn’t, even if there were several before me, I wouldn’t love her any less and I still would’ve married her because she makes me happy. She’s more to me than a set of holes.

Yup

Facts

Indeed to a point you can usually can start yo relize whats lies and not wat before a number was released of not then you aren't good at watching behavior

Well it doesn’t necessarily insinuate it would be higher, women feel shame for their body count so it makes sense for them to lie about it but it’s important to note that lying to your partner is not accepted your not supposed to keep anything from each other for a good relationship but that doesn’t mean everything needs to be discussed.

It’s pretty nuanced actually, I see the balance that he’s maintaining

Yep, if you start watching his earlier stuff you can actually see a spine slowly forming over time. Bros a stegosaurus these days.

lok

well they took most men's voices away on social media as the left controlled social media. So if a man were honest about a woman..he would get banned. You can get away with speaking the truth about women today as a man on X or formally twitter today...but it has slid back a bit towards the left. They shame men today for having preferences like NOT being with a ho. Tatum will shame you for that too. He's stuck in the past with respect women but doesn't realize those women in the past you would respect were called "Ladies" ...there simply is no such thing as ladies today.

Brian is like a shining light in a world of simps.

It’s ridiculous to not want to know

That is the MAJORITY of men in marriages.....like this man here....no clue about that woman they married

He sounds like a feminist.

he really outed himself on this one. he knows his wife was probably getting deep d!cked by dozens and dozens of men but he just wants to cover his ears and shout "lalalala i cant hear you" and his framing of "well ACKSHUALLLY ONLY MaTuRe MeN dOnT cArE AbOuT BoDy CoUnT"

Agreed

​@@senorp9869he goes from it doesnt matter to "I dont need to know bc I wont be able to let it go!"

Excess guilt is a type of pride. Just repent and move on with your life.

The difference with sex is that in the US since the 1970s it has been a cultural norm for people to have sex on their prom night. Teenagers having sex. That’s average and normative. So how could people in their 20s looking for marriage hold peers accountable for sexual purity when the assumed status is non-virgin? “Ok well we’ll just hold them accountable for being extra-promiscuous.” Good luck with that. The well is poisoned so you better get used to the taste. Tatum is absolutely right, the best predictor is going to be how people behave in public. That’s how to guarantee that you don’t embarrass each other. All partners should take vows to not make the other look bad. In a nutshell- everyone is a reformed degenerate these days. So it should be normalized to forgive the past (to a certain extent) otherwise the American family goes extinct.

You also avoid wasting time in meaningless relationships, pretending to be someone you aren't, etc. People aren't mature enough to even think about their values and goals, let alone discuss them with potential life partners.

No one should ask a person's body count! It's noone's business! I was taught that a lady never discusses their sexual past. I am old school and people didn't ask such intrusive questions! I wouldn't want to know my man's body count, cause if it was high, I would be repulsed, and it would always be in the back of my head. Why, in this day and age, do we feel that we owe people every detail about our private past?

What changed was that women use to be virgins 90+% of the time on their wedding night. Now its less than 5%.

What you gonna polygraph her 😂. How would you know?

⁠@@MegaMisfit138this has changed because society has changed for the worse it gratifies and promotes sexual promiscuity back in the day an average man wouldnt worry about a woman’s past because the societal norm was abstinence til marriage it wasn’t as easy to get sex an it wasn’t at all acceptable now women running around with 10+ bodies at age 20. Having a bunch of partners can tell a lot about someone their maturity, their self worth, any mental issues, an trauma they may have, how serious they may or may not be in a relationship, how committed, when things get tough will they tough it out with u or run etc. Your sexual history can give alot of insight into u as a person an a potential partner. I’m also not saying having alot of partners makes u not suitable for a long healthy relationship aswell as sayin havin little to no partners makes an amazing partner but it definitely helps for discernment. Hope that helps you to understand y.

@@MegaMisfit138because a man takes a serious risk marrying a woman and it’s important to know because you can see where her mind is at and if she makes good decisions which can also affect your future and your children. A man should definitely know before taking a woman serious

I stopped listening to him years ago

What’s your preference on a man’s body count?

He's full of shit and immediately contradicts himself. His entire stance here is not looking hypocritical because of how much he sits there and hates on RP youtubers awith his hit pieces.

Or maybe he just finds it scummy to ask such tacky questions! You guys love the word simp, so you try to find any opportunity to throw that word around! This guy is not a simp, just because he doesn't ask body count. Just because you have a lack of class, doesn't mean every man that doesn't ask nasty questions like you, is a simp!

@@MegaMisfit138 Lack of class? I would say high bodycount women have a lack of class and I will try my best to weed such women out before a relationship gets serious.

@@dagda3000 I totally agree with wanting to weed out the low class, but there is a tactful way to go about it. You will find out the truth, by how long she waits for you, and her body language. I make it very clear, after meeting a man, that I have never had a one night stand, nor am I looking for a fling. We must be in love first, and sex comes way later. I am 44 and have never been asked a BC. That would humiliate me! I look back to the 50's for an idea of what class is, and people didn't ask such questions. In fact, Brian was asked, and he wouldn't answer. What is an acceptable cutoff # of bodies for a 44 yr never married woman? Mine is WAY below all my friends. But I'm not divulging a #! 🤣 My friends have asked me about the size of a boyfriend. I don't go there either. I have too much respect for myself and the men I have dated. Most women will go into detail, and want to show PP pics! 😱🤦

@@MegaMisfit138I agree with a lot of your points it is rlly annoying seeing these comments “oh he’s a simp or blue pill” etc they do sound immature. I think Tatum is a good man who is secure in his marriage and I and every other person should respect that he has a different outlook on certain things but he isn’t a simp. People don’t have to agree with alot of his points I don’t agree with everything he’s said but lame an juvenile insults lik simp an beta are pathetic. I also agree that one should be respectful an tactful when it comes to inquiring about one’s sexual history but a person ought to kno before getting into a committed relationship looking to marry with that person especially now. Of course it wasn’t lik this in the 50s because adultery and promiscuity wasn’t at all prevalent and accepted as it is today.

@@itsadoggo3772 My X told me about how he pleased many woman with a specific move. I was so turned off, and thought about that every time we were in bed. I wish I hadn't known. If you find someone you really love, and her past may be a little much, but she stopped being like that, you may want to stay with her, but in the back of your head, you'd be thinking about it, and wishing you hadn't known. At least for me this was the case. Women make it pretty obvious anyway. It's not hard to tell if she's a hoe.

Not once did he codone it. Not one time. It's completely immature and shows complete naivete to think that embarrassment or fear of being thrown away for previous actions. If a person COMPLETELY turns their life around in their 30s from how they were at 18 19 and into their 20s, and hasn't had a hook up in 10 years, your completely validating her concern and trepidation on not telling you. Which solidifies the decision to never answer honestly. If a woman has all the qualities you're looking for, she dresses modestly, doesn't hit on other guys, has all the personality traits you look for, takes care of you, cooks, cleans, and is open and honest with other than about the body count... you're throwing away a woman over something that had no bearing on y'alls relationship for the last 5 years, AND, you're throwing it away and showing her that the 99.9999% of times she was honest meant nothing. ANDDDD when she was honest with you, when she could have just kept it a secret STILL, you bailed, so there's absolutely NO point in being honest. There's 0 incentive in being truthful because 1000 times she was and it meant nothing, and even when she could've held the truth from you, she was honest, and it meant nothing. You guys wonder why the women out here that are marriage and commitment material are literally becoming nonexistent. There's literally no point for them to be. I'm ALL for high value women. But it's my fellow men like you and alot of other highschool minded fools that are causing them to go extinct

1-2 is low

The simp married a hoe but doesn't want to admit it.

Caring as a preference and making it a deal breaker are two different things. Would I prefer my wife not to be at 100? Yes. Would I leave her if she was despite how happy she makes me? Of course not. To leave someone over them cheating on you before they even knew you existed is ridiculous.

She would definitely leave you if you were a broke ass. It's about holding yourself and the people in your circle to a standard and respecting yourself enough to walk away. Men need to vet and disqualify their woman, and high body count is a major reason. That's a liability, from pair bonding, to STDs, higher likelihood of cheating, and getting bored easily. Relationships aren't free for men, I don't like working hard for used goods.

@@alexanderg5386 I’d rather be happy and not lonely than “respect myself”, but that’s not really respecting myself because I would be denying myself something, or in this case someone, who makes me happy and therefore punishing myself over something I had nothing to do with.

@@johnmartin4641and when 5 guys pass you and say they porked your wife, then what?

@johnmartin4641 Spoken like a true blue pill. Your whole mindset is feminine. Who said you have to be lonely? When you accept a partner who isn't good for you and a liability, you punish yourself. Accept the consequences when it blows up in your face. Operate on principle not the fear of being lonely. Be a man and act accordingly, and have an abundance mindset. Because make no mistake, woman will have no remorse in taking you to the cleaners.

I’m the only one my wife has been with, but even if I wasn’t and she had been “ran through”, I wouldn’t have loved her any less and still would’ve married her because she makes me happy, which is the only thing that matters. She’s more to me than a set of holes.

​@johnmartin4641 I don't believe you, if everyone done dogged your wife out and she had that reputation it would definitely have a psychological affect on you and you would lose attraction. She also would not be the same woman you know today either. It would show her body isn't just for you, you were just another number, the guy at the back of the line paying for an empty bag that everyone else got to have their fun with for free.

@@raizen21ss56 How could she have a reputation for it unless she posted the videos online? I remember when we were in high school and she was a cheerleader, there was a rumor started that before we started dating she let a bunch of the football players take turns with her in the locker room after a game. It hurt to hear, I didn’t believe she would do that, but I still loved and wanted her just as much when thinking how I would feel if it was true and never even considered leaving her. Then when I heard the details, I knew it was impossible because that particular game at that time, she was on the other side of the school talking to me. Paying for the empty bag? I got to have her for the rest of my life and have kids with her and get to hang out with her all the time, go on dates with her, get hugs and kisses from her, cuddle on the couch with her all the time. No one else in this hypothetical situation would get those other benefits.

@@johnmartin4641 you lucked up dude, thankfully you got her when she was young and didn't rack up a crap ton of bodies. (Hopefully its not a lie) she gave you the best years of her life. You just admitted it would hurt you when considering that it's possible she let the whole football team hit it. You would think of her very differently if it was true and you didn't meet her until she was in her 30s and that's if she didn't have a kid by someone else. A highly doubt you'd even consider her if life played out for you like that.

@@raizen21ss56 when I said “hurt” I mean at the moment thinking of her doing that meaning I preferred it didn’t happen. It was the initial reaction of picturing it in my head. Not because I was afraid they were better than me or she wouldn’t be able to love me or anything like that. That was the first time I heard it. I never actually believed it. All I did was think about what I heard and how I would feel about her if it was true. I wouldn’t dwell on it forever. It was just a shock. Again, she’s always made me happy. I know that I would miss her and be miserable if I threw her away like that, especially over something that happened before we even got together. If I didn’t meet her until she was 30, I would still want her because she makes me happy.

He is defo wrong and the reason you gave was spot on. There’s another KZfaq channel that is RP; Strong Successful male where he reads people’s stories. In the videos where the women lied about their body count they also omitted or was hiding the following: - Who they hooked up with and are they still in contact with them? - What kinky stuff she did with those men or women that she isn’t giving to her current partner - Pretending that she has a low s** drive just to seem pure - Do those people have videos of her and is it out there Also the previous podcast episode regarding the STDs, that’s another thing to take into account. Even if you are not sex worker but if you are having sex with multiple people, how can you guarantee you not only picked up an STD

That’s ridiculous to throw someone who makes you happy out of your life over something she did before she even knew you existed. I know my wife isn’t lying about me being the only one because we’ve been together since high school, but if that wasn’t the case, I would still want her just as much because she makes me happy.

If wasn’t during your relationship and was before she even knew you, it’s not a big deal and not nearly as bad as lies about things she did while you were together.

How many men do you suppose he forced to marry? My guess in none! This comment is ludicrous! No one can force people to get married. There are very good women out there, ready to take care of a man. You are acting as if prostitutes are your only choices. Perhaps when you are old and sick, you will wish you had married. Perhaps not. It's up to you though. Noone can make that decision for you.

@@MegaMisfit138lol I'm 30. And you're mentally slow if you read what I wrote and thought I meant physical coercion. It's akin to saying school wants to force kids into college. Do they sign up for them? No, they just advertise it as the only viable solution without telling you about the major pitfalls. The rest of what you said was ad hominem nonsense I won't dignify it. If you're not smart enough to keep up with something this simple maybe you should keep your mouth shut

Tradcucks have always considered men disposable.

That's a good one 🤣🤣

It's not a mistake, it's who they are.

The only thing that matters is if she makes you happy. She only lied because she didn’t want to upset you. To divorce her over cheating on you before she even knew you existed is ridiculous and not going to play out well in court. Of all of the lies a spouse could tell, this is probably the least bad. I know I’m my wife’s only because we’ve been together since we were in high school, but if that wasn’t the case, and this situation happened, I wouldn’t leave her or love her any less because she makes me happy, which is all that matters. She’s more than a set of holes. I’d actually prefer to not think about the other guys. Ignorance is bliss sometimes.

@@johnmartin4641 Well her having lied makes him unhappy. Lol, she lied because she didn't want him to potentially not view her as relationship material, it was a selfish lie no matter how much you try to delude yourself that it was a selfless one. He's not divorcing her over 'cheating on him before she knew he existed', he's divorcing her for lying in a deliberate attempt to deceive him. Not sure why you are defending this type of behaviour. Others may not be comfortable burying their heads in the sand in the way that you seem to be.

@@1st_b how is it a selfish lie? It has no impact on him. The reason she lied is because there are people that will blame her for cheating on him before she even knew she existed. I defend this type of behavior because I too was blamed for things I had nothing to do with and happened before I was born when I was a kid, so I sympathize. I promised myself when I was a kid that I would never do that to someone else and I wouldn’t tolerate being punished for the actions of others when I’m an adult and have power.

I don’t think he contradicted himself he said men who stresses over it an has to know is immature I don’t rlly agree with that he then says that if u do find out it will greatly affect u so y put ur self through tht that’s the jist of wat he said also he doesn’t want nor seek out a promiscuous woman an thr r ways to discern if she is or not an if she doesn’t seem to have any indication of being a 304 he will commit to her. So prtty much dating a promiscuous woman is something he doesn’t want but if she is able to keep it well hidden an is a otherwise good woman he will not pry further into it an thinks men should do that aswell instead of stressing over whether or not her body count is high. I don’t rlly agree with that but I don’t think he contradicts or is somehow a simp, beta etc not sayin you said tht just seeing that alot.

@@itsadoggo3772 True but if ppl like Brian (us) don't call this out then it goes back into a trend, which is something church used to do but they be failing lately. Like I can understand if u find a rare women who's good where it counts, like this ex prawnstar jynx maze, turned her life around got married and started her own social media and clothing business. Cuz she realized it was all a meat grinder so she quit at 21 ish or probably had a real scare like when ppl are born again or come back from a death.