“Stop extending grace to those I’m trying to discipline”. Awesome.

"You are not giving up on them, you are giving them up to me"....Do you know how much peace that Holy Spirit inspired phrase gave me? ✅👌

A big mistake people make is to think that people in the church are their friends. Most just use you when they need. Pastors also do the same, they just use you when they need but very few will show up if you need. We know people from church but very, very few we can call friends. There was a story in the news where I live showing that very few Christians during the pandemic got a call from a pastor or a friend from church. A few years ago, I was very involved in a church and volunteering in many areas. I had a problem on my knee and had to wait 6 days for the surgery and then after surgery I couldn't walk for 10 more days. One day I asked my non-Christian roommate if he could buy a hamburger for me on the way back from school. He said he would but then he asked: "Where is your church when you need the most". That day I figured out I didn't have friends in church, just people I knew and had activities together. I know a guy that became a Christian and was involved for 4 years on a church. He always offered his house for meetings, etc... He was transferred overseas and came back first time after 3 years. He said that people changed completely. No one came to visit him and very few talked to him in church. He called me to ask if that was normal in church and based on my own experience, I had to admit that happens with lots of people.

Stop extending grace to those I am trying to discipline! Wow great word!🙏🏽

I ended my friendship with who I called my best friend for over 30 years because I wanted to keep believing that she would love me the same way I loved her. Instead of having a conversation about how I felt, I ghosted her phone calls. She finally texted me and I decided to go ahead and talk to her. Only to be disappointed again because she still made the conversation about her, not about the issues of our friendship. I still love her but our season is up.

This is great revelation. We are all on assignment in different locations with different people. May we discern who is our assignment.🙏🏼✝️

OMG...Before Pastor Dharius said it...I was thinking the same thing...Relational Intelligence for Teens...it's something in that!

This is so important. My friend since elementary school, over 50 years ago, just broke my heart into a million pieces. I'll beware of who I call "friend".

I’ve been friends with my friend for 20 years. During that time, she has not been one to open up about her problems or struggles. There is no transparency. But, I have been transparent with her. Asking her to pray for me and with me. Revealing my struggles and sins and receiving her help and encouragement. When I asked her ( 10 years ago) why she doesn’t have me as her accountability partner or why she doesn’t share any struggles with me, she says she doesn’t struggle much but if she does, she goes to her sister ( who lives out of state). I was hurt because I know I am her best friend and I know she has few friends. I feel like she thinks of herself as very well put together and that she sees me as a “ project”. I want are,auto ship that goes both ways. I want to help her and pray for her just like she does for me. But, we can never get to that point. Now, it’s getting g too hard for me to continue in this unbalanced friendship. It’s almost like there is pride on her part that keeps her thinking that she is the one with the answers but she doesn’t think I have anything of depth to offer her..... other than me being fun for her and giving her a purpose in,Ive which is “counseling “ me. I am Very sad and very frustrated and think like “ if I am a good loving Christian” I will pursue this friendship and not give up on it..... I am still not sure if “ elimination” is needed here....it hurts me to even contemplate it. Please pray for me. I love Jesus and my friend. I want to do the right thing.

We live in a broken world 🌎 full of good and bad Friends. May God help us to make good choices. Thanks for sharing God bless you all ❤️

Be authentic with everyone but transparent with friends. Quit extending grace to those I'm trying to discipline. Great people are busy. Mentorship requires readiness and intentionality.

One of my favorite guests so far.🙌🏻

Thank you so much for having Dharius on your program. God used him to help me understand something I was not aware of.

I love JTT, and I first saw Dr. Dharius Daniels when he gave the powerful sermon on Job at Gateway Church at the beginning of the year. I was blown away. Joni, please continue bringing us truth through JTT and Ministry Now. I love the guests, I love the topics, I love the ladies around the table, I love the mentions of Marcus. God bless and more grace to you Joni and your family. Such great revelation and insights that come forth from the Table. Shalom!

I feel so blessed by watching your program Joni and I want to keep God in my daily walk for I need Him every moment of each day. May God keep blessing you and your family.

🌷Thank you Jony for blessing us so much with great programs!

I remember God said the same thing to me concerning friends of mine!!!

Good to see you all. I watch everyday. Thank you for your courage!

Love this Daystar program. So much revelation, instruction, encouragement, wisdom and on and on and on…..God bless you all! Such a blessing to so many people.

Thank you Dr. Daniels and JTT for sharing this topic. 🥰👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

So poweful, you have some friends you always feel better when you talk to them , that let's me know I am safe!!

This was everything! Thank you so much Dr Dharius and ladies for this conversation....so much confirmation and clarity here 💯

I had to recently let go of a so-called friendship of over 18+ years! It hurts, but God is faithful and I know that He will heal my heart. I'm excited about this next new season in my life! Glory to God... Thank you Lord Jesus 🙌

I'm just now watching table talk at 2am it's about Job though so guess it's not posted yet...but I too had a job like experience. I also had watched Pastor Darius preaching after Rachel spoke about him...I then understood what I went through and why I'm still in my right mind...and here I had to edit...."I heard of you by ears but now I see you".Thanks to daystar when I was and still sometimes grieve it's this channel that I listen to fall asleep to and wake up to...for this I know that Joni and family will be ok.

Thank you I really needed this right on time Thank you Holy Spirit 💗

Such a Wonderful interview. So many great reminders for me from reading that Awesome Book. The book changed my Life in Many Many Many ways. God Bless Each of you ❤️🥰🙏🏽

Exactly what I needed to hear.

So many Gems from a Biblical and Relational Aspect...I can't wait to listen to the Book.

What a great and so very necessary discussion. Thank you so much 🥰 love y'all at Daystar.

Thank you. This blessed my soul.

I so needed this..God bless you

Incredible practical wisdom

Thank you. beautiful conversation

Thank you so very much - I needed this today as I am also one of those that want to save the world - no matter what pain it causes me. Thank you

Great word!! Thanks

This was sooooo goooood, and to think I almost didn’t watch

This is on point for a lot of people in my life. Thank God for this being on my list.

Amen I needed this 🙏🏾❤️

That was awesome thank you family!

This was amazing, God bless.

This was a really good discussion. I have the book and it has so much wisdom in it. Thanks to Joni, Dharius and the other ladies for covering this topic. It is very needed.

Thank you!!

I needed this. Friendship is one of my main concerns that I take to the Lord in prayer.

My third time listening,this is so good for me...Thank you pastor D

This is such a great book!!! And very helpful . Thank you Dr. Darius Daniels 🙏🏽God bless you 😘” Relational Intelligence “ Awesome Book 👏🏽

Relational Intelligence. Great topic. 👍 💖

So many leaders expect something from the people they serve, such as friendship. It's complicated because those who are being served often blur the lines as well.

“Stop extending grace to those who I am trying to discipline” - John Paul Jackson (RIP 🕊)

Great conversation, ❤️👍💯

EXCELLENT!

I cut off all of my poison negative friends who inspired me to the failures & shortcomings, the ones who saw no good in me & inspired me of nothing except of evil.

Waoooooow!!! Stop extending grace to those he is trying to discipline 😱🤯🤯🤯

This helped me today

I just clicked for Dr. Daniels

Dr. D. Always on 📌

Really good!

My pastor🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

I understand the assignment!!!!!!

Truth Pastor Dharius! Please read this book...it will change your life!🔥🔥🔥🔥

I will get his book!

Relational Intelligence for Teens ✨👑

Confirmation message

Thank You 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🙌🙌

A close friend ended our friendship earlier this year when he realized the extent of which I was attracted to him. He is same-sex attracted as well and wrote a book about leaving the lifestyle. It's been so hard on me, but I've been learning A LOT since then, and I genuinely do hope that someday we can be friends again after I've gained some more healing so I won't think and feel in that way again for him or anyone else. I hope it's in God's plan for us to reunite, but this time actually enjoying closeness and intimacy the way God intended and NOT the inordinate affection I experienced.

In myself?.wait.for God's will.Amen!

Life advice.

Friendship breakups suck so bad. At 27 I thought I had alll my friends. Instead,, I lost some and I dont like making new friends😩I know.community is needed, So help Me God

Iron does sharpen iron..so people do need each other...but in what context? I enjoyed this show answering these questions

“Quit extending grace to those I’m trying to discipline” . Wow

Amen 🙏🏽

If you don’t have a friend you can’t tell the truth with you don’t have a friend.

This was very good 👍🏾

Please write it Dr Darius.... “relationship intelligence for teens”

I’m wrestling w calling because I don’t want to be poor…. That’s so good

My last friend group didn’t work out so well, we started a business together but I deleted all the content and started my own business… look into sometime :) #praise #happytolovegod

There is such a thing as unrealistic expectations. Just as we should not expect a husband to do/be to us what only Jesus can be; we should not expect those in the church to be this either. Remember what Jesus said the various churches in the book of revelation. Every Christian is not on the same level--we don't become Christ-like overnight. I am now walking in a place of maturity. We are to realize that the rest of the body is being worked on as we are. When you begin to allow the fruit of the Spirit to be worked out in you--you will come into much understanding and maturity

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Joni have you written a book ?

You all are so awesome , I will be anyones friend whom need my friendship but your guess is right there are friends and just friends so to speak , my holy friends whom I can talk to anything about I feel those are my faithful friends my other friends whom do not know the lord like I feel I do and still learning , God Bless you all , Jesus is as funny Lord , I have laugh like a child with him , also met him through a mediations that turned into about a 5/6 years old skipping holding Jesus hand than met his mother Mary amazing meditation that was when I was in a chapel with other woman going through the same meditation but never asked about how there meditation went ! I was told through Jesus to use my meditation as a testimony what is your thought about this ? Thank you again for your guess and all at the table

If you don't have a friend you can't tell the truth to you do not have a friend

I feel like it's pure jealousy and we don't even know why.

But where is the very for that about grace?

Mm

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