Should We Evict A Family Member?

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@AO-nr7kl
@AO-nr7kl Жыл бұрын
Do not say 'What mom wants to do' they will call her and harass her. Man up and be the bad guy if you need to be but let your mom just go about her business.
@shawmeck9323
@shawmeck9323 Жыл бұрын
It's not about being the bad guy, the mom has the power and the son is there to support her. Dave knows what he is saying.
@PurpleRose8725
@PurpleRose8725 Жыл бұрын
If Mom is the owner, he has to represent himself as being designated by her. "Man Up" is not an answer here and they could easily say what he says doesn't matter because he is not the owner.
@ivanvargas2425
@ivanvargas2425 Жыл бұрын
It’s mom house so he also has no say. It’s what she says.
@ravageawakened
@ravageawakened Жыл бұрын
They can call her lawyer and argue with the lawyer.
@AO-nr7kl
@AO-nr7kl Жыл бұрын
@@ravageawakened But will they? Guy gave them impression they will not make this easy and I bet they call the 83 year old mom vs the lawyer.
@Mistak-de9bp
@Mistak-de9bp Жыл бұрын
When he said NY state I know that this will not be easy to evict and will be expensive. Speaking from experience.
@aolvaar8792
@aolvaar8792 Жыл бұрын
Sell home to a corporate investor, pack bags, leave. The new owner will deal with it, harshly.
@tonypreston7278
@tonypreston7278 Жыл бұрын
Tough love is sometimes the only way. It doesn’t mean you don’t care. Enabling can do more to hurt people than help.
@Firguy
@Firguy Жыл бұрын
This is true. I tried asking my aunt for money because I was bad with money and she refused to enable me. I bit the bullet and applied for a second full-time job to work weekends on and I dug myself out of debt by working 68 hours a week, Sunday through Sunday (you read that right), and I was able to dig myself out of debt a lot faster that way.
@annstillwell730
@annstillwell730 Жыл бұрын
Send them a certified letter and legally they have to get 30 days notice.
@templemanning6180
@templemanning6180 Жыл бұрын
Offer them a cash 'incentive' to leave by September 15th at midnight. Of course they aren't entitled to anything, but it will be cheaper than going through a lengthy eviction process, because they will stop paying rent once that process starts.
@braceyourselvesfortruth2492
@braceyourselvesfortruth2492 Жыл бұрын
Nope, they will then try to say that they were given a choice to stay if they didn't accept. They deserve nothing but the boot at this point.
@davinasquirrel7672
@davinasquirrel7672 Ай бұрын
The incentive could be a good idea, and cheaper than a drawn out process.
@robr268
@robr268 Жыл бұрын
So let's be clear....are they paying rent and just don't want to move? Because if so just give them a few months notice to move. He's NOT BEING CLEAR OF THE ISSUE
@liasilva2789
@liasilva2789 Жыл бұрын
Cash for keys would be a good option. They can leave the house in excellent condition with all their belongings gone for a sum of cash the cost of eviction plus clean up divided instead plus a little extra if the mom has it maybe a months rent for each tenant on top of dividing those expected costs if they will comply to avoid those expenses. That’s what I would propose
@miketracy9256
@miketracy9256 Жыл бұрын
So they have been paying rent but mostly trying to sell a rental with occupants who do not want to move is very difficult. Dave gave a great answer.
@claudemartelly7421
@claudemartelly7421 Жыл бұрын
Yeah NY is very hard to take someone out.
@davinasquirrel7672
@davinasquirrel7672 Ай бұрын
They feel entitled because the uncle (their father) put in some share. Unfortunately for them, the 'sole survivor' thing was in place. As some others have suggested, offer the sale of the property a little below market value. If they do not take it, evict them. But it sounds like any proposal, they will drag out for years. His mother wants to sell up and move, that is the key thing. If they do not want to buy her out (majority share, because survivor/owner), then evict.
@jgray690
@jgray690 Ай бұрын
right. The sole survivorship is a cut and dry clause in a contract. Uncle agreed to it at the time when he signed it. So no matter how entitled they feel. This isn't a negotiation because they have no legal legs on which to stand.
@offgridjack5779
@offgridjack5779 Жыл бұрын
Don't let them drag it into winter in New York. Some states, you can't evict anyone in winter. Get them out ASAP.
@gafee2001
@gafee2001 Жыл бұрын
Yes. Next caller.
@aamirecan
@aamirecan Жыл бұрын
❤️the hardest fights are the ones we fight with our loved ones. I hope the caller and their relatives find a peaceful solution in this matter.
@Originalman144
@Originalman144 Жыл бұрын
If you want peace, prepare for war.
@simplyme922
@simplyme922 Жыл бұрын
This
@bigt1114
@bigt1114 Жыл бұрын
I'm giving this call a "Thumbs.. 👎". he's to weak ( on the phone .. crying 😭)..and the cousin know it ...his 82 year old Mother is being abused .. and he's.. crying...
@slidegirl6005
@slidegirl6005 Жыл бұрын
@i-mm-o res the uncle gave the old gal the right to take it back when he died. So now it is hers.
@melinda67
@melinda67 Жыл бұрын
@i-mm-o res yes they bought it together but legally it was always clear that the person who dies looses right to it. Nobody else from family can claim it.
@johndone8045
@johndone8045 Жыл бұрын
Looks like when the mother dies or sells it will be a legal battle and dave is dumb The dad of the cousin didnt leave his child the house but then left to his sister? Thats a longer story than that
@Mikeykaysuper
@Mikeykaysuper Жыл бұрын
Kick them to the curb !
@catherinep2034
@catherinep2034 Жыл бұрын
I'm going to be odd one here & say offer 1/3 of the house price when it's sold. Out of respect for callers uncle.
@westbccoast
@westbccoast Жыл бұрын
Sounds like there is more to the story, caller is being very vague probably intentionally.
@reese44622
@reese44622 Жыл бұрын
Do they want to buy it?
@Kyleg106
@Kyleg106 Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I was think just sell it to them
@brad885
@brad885 Жыл бұрын
Id give them an offer to buy it at 10% under retail. Other than that, I wouldn't give them any more concessions
@dagobert1234321
@dagobert1234321 Жыл бұрын
20% under retail is more fair.. no RE fees, inspection, escrow, ect.. and having to clean and renovate house
@kdilli6426
@kdilli6426 Жыл бұрын
Get the house appraised and offer to sell it to them for 10% below the appraised value. If not, sorry you gone.
@chupaperro4
@chupaperro4 Жыл бұрын
NY? Good luck with it - You will need it!
@nunyabidnes6010
@nunyabidnes6010 Жыл бұрын
Lol Dave Ramsey calling someone else ignorant is beyond ironic.
@user-yb5bg8im5g
@user-yb5bg8im5g 20 күн бұрын
yes.
@ChristopherInTexas
@ChristopherInTexas Жыл бұрын
Terrible answer Dave. Offer your family the opportunity to buy. If not then proceed to let them know the home will be sold. The caller wants to sell not the 82 year old mom. The caller is weak.
@jamesross1798
@jamesross1798 Жыл бұрын
If the cousins don't leave, just list the home for sale while they're still occupying it. Then once it sells, the new owner can either work out a rent payment with them or make them leave.
@paolaristori6179
@paolaristori6179 Жыл бұрын
A house occupied by renters, even if they pay regularly is devalued compared to a free house. At least in Italy it is so.
@jamesross1798
@jamesross1798 Жыл бұрын
@@paolaristori6179 Here in the US, I've seen homes only sell slightly less, and it's because of the potential risks to the buyer when purchasing a tenant occupied home, but it's no where near the amount of money they're losing by allowing their relatives to live there rent free for years.
@Lcshell
@Lcshell 9 ай бұрын
A smart person isn’t going to close the deal on purchasing a home while there are tenants in it unless there’s a clear agreement on how the tenants will be dealt with. As in, they will be out before closing or they sign a lease agreeing to be out by a certain date. You do a walkthrough inspection before closing and accept the property as is (including with tenants) or you back out because the tenants are still in the home.
@JoeyNYSDnomad
@JoeyNYSDnomad Ай бұрын
Someone buy this guy a backbone.
@bethromanowicz9874
@bethromanowicz9874 Ай бұрын
Can’t they just put the house up for sale? Then they will be forced to leave after the new owners take possession..
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 Жыл бұрын
Are they paying rent, do they have a lease. If not, then you can't evict someone that legally lives there. Just tell them to leave.
@paulinoaz
@paulinoaz Жыл бұрын
after someone establishes a domicile then you need to go through the process to evict them, it does not matter if they are paying rent or not.
@cmritchie04
@cmritchie04 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but you are looking this a personal problem when it is a business problem prospective they are paying rent just like any other renter. Is there a contract in place for the rent?
@marshallforeman2051
@marshallforeman2051 Жыл бұрын
If this is in New York , good luck
@clarifyingquestions
@clarifyingquestions Жыл бұрын
Make it Sept. 30
@michelhanson1500
@michelhanson1500 Жыл бұрын
Evicting your family members, God go with you.
@melinda67
@melinda67 Жыл бұрын
He’s not evicting them since they never lawfully rented it. If you take an item from the store without paying, no sales contract, the shop owner can take that item from you without involving authorities or anyone.
@moomouse6676
@moomouse6676 Жыл бұрын
It's just how it is the man up
@loveubye2288
@loveubye2288 Жыл бұрын
Its doesn't seem morally right that the uncle was 1/3 owner and also paid off the entire house on his own and for his kids to get nothing of it when he passed. They should give half of the sale money to the cousins to be able to buy another home.
@canadianjatti
@canadianjatti Жыл бұрын
those were his wishes this is why wills exist maybe his kids werent good to him
@Lcshell
@Lcshell 9 ай бұрын
I’m betting he set it up so they don’t get anything on purpose. They sound like asshole kids taking advantage of whatever they can from family
@dis.infectant
@dis.infectant Жыл бұрын
Why did Dave have to bring up the pink bedroom?
@vanesslifeygo
@vanesslifeygo Жыл бұрын
Wish they knew they paid rent for a year sooner lol
@ytr8989
@ytr8989 Жыл бұрын
They can buy the house or move out. That would be my final answer.
@theforeignerinamerica1817
@theforeignerinamerica1817 Жыл бұрын
Business is business. If the person is not paying, kick the person out.
@JFDSmit-rm6tw
@JFDSmit-rm6tw Жыл бұрын
No business in friends and family, no family and friends in business.
@amireallythatgrumpy6508
@amireallythatgrumpy6508 Жыл бұрын
Even better, no friends and family.
@David-wo9un
@David-wo9un Жыл бұрын
I was surprised by Dave’s answer on how to solve this issue; I hope it goes well.
@stevenporter863
@stevenporter863 Жыл бұрын
0:46 What does the bible say about getting taken advantage of and getting walked all over?
@karinbinnie1862
@karinbinnie1862 Жыл бұрын
Jesus said, "Be as wise as serpents and as innocent as doves."
@BarelyNoticedADD
@BarelyNoticedADD Жыл бұрын
Bank financed sale of home to the cousins.
@kokoskokso
@kokoskokso Жыл бұрын
Well, you could have water, heating and electricity switched off if they need convincing to leave. They can't really complain if they're living there illegally in the first place.
@Excalibur2
@Excalibur2 Жыл бұрын
Some places that's illegal.
@kokoskokso
@kokoskokso Жыл бұрын
@@Excalibur2 well, coincidences happen. Let's not forget they live there illegally also.
@fenderstratplayer05
@fenderstratplayer05 Жыл бұрын
Offer to sale them the house at a fair price
@youngboycarlito8927
@youngboycarlito8927 Жыл бұрын
Idk lol if the parents just helped get the house for him as just putting it in the mothers name or the down payment help but the uncle was the one who paid the house off. The uncle was the one who owns the house right??? Like morally lol, but if that’s what the uncle wanted then ig there’s only so much to do. I’d feel some type of way if my father paid the house off like all of it and my aunt just comes in and takes it.
@megalodon1726
@megalodon1726 Жыл бұрын
His mom, dad and uncle combined to buy the house, with ownership passing onto the survivors when any of them died. If his mom & dad paid 2/3 and the uncle paid 1/3, it's not like she just swooped in and took the house.
@aolvaar8792
@aolvaar8792 Жыл бұрын
@@megalodon1726 Joint Tenancy with rights of survivorship
@anata.g.4966
@anata.g.4966 Жыл бұрын
Why not sell it to them?
@musicpro7278
@musicpro7278 Жыл бұрын
What makes u think they have the money
@robr268
@robr268 Жыл бұрын
Yes like he's not being clear. I felt like they wasn't paying rent but then they were. Idk what's the issue.
@rachelharrison7961
@rachelharrison7961 Жыл бұрын
Unless they are impeding the sales process, why do they need to be out before the closing?
@paulhathaway5907
@paulhathaway5907 Жыл бұрын
Most buyers will want the house empty before they're willing to close on it...... Unless they buy it as a rental and is proof that the rent has been paid in a timely manner
@estyria777
@estyria777 Жыл бұрын
I'm just going to guess, but I'm going to say two reasons. First, there's probably improvements or repairs that need to be made before listing the house in order to profit. Second, the caller has zero faith they're going to leave. If he were closing and they weren't out the whole thing would probably fall through and he/his mom might be on the hook for some hefty fees.
@rachelharrison7961
@rachelharrison7961 Жыл бұрын
@@paulhathaway5907 That’s what I meant, gone by the time of the buyer’s walk through. The issue is whether they are interfering with the real estate agent, by refusing to leave during open houses or not keeping the property clean.
@adamseidel9780
@adamseidel9780 Жыл бұрын
The new buyers aren’t going to be interested in having to evict some squatters before they can move in
@davidtree2511
@davidtree2511 Жыл бұрын
@@rachelharrison7961 It is easier to sell an empty house than one that is occupied (and one will usually get a higher offer from the buyer). Trying to sell a house with renters in it is a pain and I don't recommend it even if the renters are cooperative. Even if the renters are OK with the landlord selling (they usually are not), the renters have to keep the place immaculate (that will not happen-- they have no motivation to do so), try to schedule showings with both the renters and the potential buyers, renters have to leave for showings, and so on. Finally, some jurisdictions allow the renters to stay through there contract, or the renters may not move out-- meaning that the buyers will either not agree to close or they will have to deal with the time and costs of an eviction.
@jeepaz79
@jeepaz79 Жыл бұрын
Sell it to them
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 Жыл бұрын
Maybe they have no other place to go to.
@amireallythatgrumpy6508
@amireallythatgrumpy6508 Жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as "no other place to go".
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 Жыл бұрын
@@amireallythatgrumpy6508 Wrong. There is.
@amireallythatgrumpy6508
@amireallythatgrumpy6508 Жыл бұрын
@@jimmymcgill6778 Nope. There are plenty of bridges in the USA with nobody living under them.
@nunyabidnes6010
@nunyabidnes6010 Жыл бұрын
@@amireallythatgrumpy6508 Ok boomer
@Veezy727
@Veezy727 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@pingupenguin2474
@pingupenguin2474 Ай бұрын
Lot of good stuff in the bible. If you read it right.
@carsonn863
@carsonn863 Жыл бұрын
Run em off
@_Philip_.
@_Philip_. Жыл бұрын
Ramsey team you need to stop this serial spammer he is gonna get someone one day
@summerforever6736
@summerforever6736 Жыл бұрын
i don't need the bible to tell me to be kind or anything!!!! I am without that...
@arrowarrow17
@arrowarrow17 29 күн бұрын
Tell your cousins to get out. They aren't babies.
@genxx2724
@genxx2724 Жыл бұрын
If they’ve been problematic, just have a lawyer send them written notice to begin with. The good thing is all these expenses will reduce the amount of capital gains. So basically Uncle Sam is paying the cost.
@RJWaynerium
@RJWaynerium Жыл бұрын
Please undo the latest updates you did to everydollar. It's become laggy and buggy to the point of being difficult to use.
@Mr_Fairdale
@Mr_Fairdale Жыл бұрын
Might have to a little “accident” 🔥 and just get the insurance money seeing how terrible the laws are in NY state .
@grod805
@grod805 Жыл бұрын
How can they kick them out. This is their family home!
@ginaem2008
@ginaem2008 Жыл бұрын
Sell that place and kick them out!
@wolfgangtritone1280
@wolfgangtritone1280 Жыл бұрын
The bible says a lot of things. lol
@summerforever6736
@summerforever6736 Жыл бұрын
the bible say?? hahahaha makes no different
@jillroberts609
@jillroberts609 Жыл бұрын
4th Comment
@sneakerfreak2002
@sneakerfreak2002 Жыл бұрын
Leave the bible out of it
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