I genuinely feel bad for these guys as a social worker I want everyone to be the best version of themselves and it sucks when people get stuck in the rut of I can’t become anything

This documentary is astounding in so many ways. It's honestly insane that you can look at this from a lens and see what's obvious in their flaws or problems yet it's so lost and foreign on themselves. That, they all interact and don't seem to make each other better but confuse one another further in their deep delusions of inadequacy. They all have their own problems, for different reasons, and interesting enough NONE of them can really help the other one out to be better in general. They just all trapped in their own self-perpetuated cycles of failure that others reinforce. Such an interesting case study.

As long as you haven't tried: - Basic Hygene - New Hairstyle - Shaved - Gone to the gym to work out - Searched for a hobby that builds your confidence as an individual You are never really an Incel. Because you never really tried to appeal to yourself or others.

Incels are the most interesting people to me, I feel as though majority if not all, can be lead into the right direction of finding someone for them. No one should be without love just because they think they’re too “ugly/weird” or whatever the case is.

the pickup artist looks like he used to write anti smoking ads in the 90's

This is what my life has come to. I am a 24 year old virgin incel watching Papa Gut react to a video about virgin Incels.

These dudes are the sort who unironically watch Synthetic Manlet and think he’s completely based. 😂

As a very lonely, unconfident man in my 20’s (not an incel tho) I’ve watched this doc dozens of times since I was like 17. Keeps me grounded. One of the Shy Boys took their own life sadly.

I'm an average woman in pretty much every regard and get approached often by girls with them giving compliments and things like that. But I've found it unbelievably difficult to even make new friends as an adult. But since ive started working from home I have socially atrophied. If you are not getting out and socializing with people, you get rusty and awkward, and your anxiety is amplified SO much. Even if its just hanging out with friends at a restaurant and one of them bringing their s/o so you get the chance to interact with someone new, it helps. I can't imagine how difficult not just adult friendships, but adult relationships are for guys who either struggle socially or with not conventionally attractive appearances. You've gotta get out there and at least just socialize so you don't get stuck in your own head. Surround yourself with people who have like-interests. Not completely like minded necessarily, you need to have people who challenge you. But having friends is usually the gateway to meeting their friends and possibly meeting someone you'd be interested in pursuing. Just never make an intimate relationship your main intention for interacting, tho.

13:41 clip that shit. I fucking died

that wizard comment sent me hahahah

The “is she balding?” with the immediate retraction at 30:37 made me laugh so much 😭

13:40 had me howling. I was not prepared

Socialize, clean hygiene, effort into appearance, and try to be confidence. If he or she says no, just keep it moving. Shrug it off. life goes on. get your groove on. also if anyone has an issue with you approaching them politely, then its whatever. (and the dude with brown long hair could probably just stop saying that he shoots low for a reason. I think he's just negative.)

Do you apply polish to your head?

Does any one else feel bad for Michael? He seems like a very sweet guy that only needs to work on confidence and the dude kept calling him ugly the whole time and made fun of him for wanting to find a woman for love

A huge piece is confidence, namely self confidence. And you can have that regardless of your job, income, athletic ability, etc. That's why that first guy saying "I go for the lowest of the low" is an INSTANT turn off to women: they can SMELL the desperation. I've also gone long periods before, once like a decade at least when I was addicted to opioids. But even at my most desperate I knew it was me that had to change. And now I'm clean and getting married this summer, and the reason I go a few months now is because we currently live in different countries.

I believe approximating is a word...

Out of everything to wach, I chose to have this on while studying for my algebra test

I been fat and broke my whole life and have no trouble. Its all mindset man. If you like yourself genuinely and are a decent person, you will attract people.

Phillions reaction on this was hilarious 😂 cool to hear it from another perspective

Idk if this just makes me an incel but I hate dating. I just genuinely hate going out and paying for dates with women and it never ends up going anywhere past like date 2. Even if I can afford to waste the money.

The guy at 7:05 literally not ugly at all. Quite the opposite. I think he just needs to work on his approach and how he builds connections, he might have some tism or something. He also speaks quite negatively of women. If his love interest ever heard that, immediate ick. It’s a problem on both gender sides to group everyone into a hatred category. That false perception does you no good. Also, stay away from all pick up artists. They will turn you into the worst incels.. I’ve never watched one of these guys and thought “oh that would work” lol

Lmao idk why I thought the title said "she boys" 😂

These vids give me such WoW nostalgia. Might get it set back up....still able to play vanilla style? I stopped after Lich King.

That guy looks like Spencer from iCarly

The box and the mound 😂😂

Random,but does anyone remember when agent and low reacted to this?? Did that video just disappear or what??

This first guy sends uncomfortable vibes. I wouldn't be surprised if he's on dark triad or something

There's nothing wrong with playing videogames like WoW. I actually met my husband on WoW. We started out as friends, dated, and then got married. The key is to not be a creep.

27:08 if theres any game grumps fans here please tell me you remember arin singing this fucking song

When the pick up artist came on and he said “what’s the fashion sense here? Shooting up Columbine?” He was so freaking accurate 😂 he looked ridiculous haha

I remember Mister Metokur reacting to the love shy video, it was hilarious

There's awkward and then some of these guys in the doco push that envelope to the limit with how they talk

26:45 🤣 omg... I understand what ur sayin

I remember watching Mr. Metokur cover this.

Incredible stuff 0:04

I’m not saying it’s easy, but start with having earned confidence, taking care of yourself and having your life under control and you’re 80% there. Also don’t be desperate, everyone can smell it.

13:31 lmao papa

29:25 incredible stuff

19:44 was indeed very funny mhm mhm

10:28 that's some chris chan shit there

18:30 I’m dead

8:26 I'm offended

I have a kot of issues but this i will never understand. I've never asked out a girl in my life, they ask me. Im not the best looking, under 6ft, not rich, my pp is quite average. Like papa gut said, its about your attitude. Dont be anyone your not and you will attract like minded people. Just be genuine

Oh must be nice everyone to lose your v card normally. I lost mine at 13 to a 19 year old.. soo... lol.

30:00

I think a lot of those guys were gay

7:00 honestly I saw this before and don’t think he’s bad looking. Seen guys worse than him with girls. Just needs to get a job and stop being so mopey.

These guys are so stuck on not being able to get a girlfriend. But why do they even want a girlfriend?

17:27