I love how close Loni is to Tamera's kids!!! Their friendship is beautiful

“and he CLOCKED Ariah straight in the head” LMFAOOOOOOO

Jeannie started preaching man!! Once my younger sibling got here the fun disappeared and I low key hated my brother for a grip 😂😂😂

I'm literally waiting for the day for Adrienne to announce her pregnancy! 😀

When the show started (BET Africa) I didn't understand Jeannie (extra) but when Tamar(love her) left everyone started being themselves and their personality started showing. Jeannie is the only constant personality rain or sunshine.

This is why I'd prefer to have kids close in age. That way none of them get too comfortable to "how things used to be" before their baby brother/sister came along. I know it can be hard to control when to conceive though- also, I love what Loni said about older siblings. Middle children get left out as well, maybe even more so. People's birth order can contribute greatly to their personalities later in life, so it's important to be aware of such things

"You have to remember the oldest child." Thank you.

Jeannie always get me on my feels 😔😢😍❤

I fight with ALL 7 of my siblings! It’s our thing 😂

My brother tried to cough on me to get me sick when I was born 🙃

Well said Loni. As an older "sister" I always was, and still am today at the age of 22, in second place. Not just my mum, but my whole family only seem to remember I exist when they need a favour =) So please, if you're having a second child, please remember your first child is still your CHILD and still needs love, attention and support. Don't expect them to raise themselves just because you have another child to raise.

Loni is right, we always tend to gravitate towards the younger ones because they are smaller and cuter...it's natural. On a side note, I wish Tamera added a bit of sparkle to her lipstick to go with her beautiful dress.

I fight my five siblings like it’s nobody’s business! But I’d die protecting them. It’s a sibling thing!!

Y’all are always talking about Adrienne but can you imagine if she wasn’t involved with her step kids y’all would drag her. As long as HER kids love her leave it at that

I wanna hear the sibling rivalry between Tia vs Tamera!!!

The middle child is always forgotten

Damn. No wonder Jeannie doesn't want kids. Good choice though.

I am 7 years apart from my oldest brother and 4 years apart from my other brother and we get along great as adults. We definitely had our moments when we were kids and we really started to appreciate one another once we were grown. Our mother became ill about 3 years ago and it was a wake up call for us to really be able to lend emotional support for each other because sadly our mom passed away in 2016 from cancer at 49. Now it's just my brothers, my dad, and me and the 4 of us all get along amazing

Ahhh...the good old days when it was just the four pack. This was a good segment.

I'm pregnant again with my second child. So this information is helpful for me having a 9 month old son. Love you ladies!👍😍😍😍😍

As the oldest of 3, I was put into a parenting situation over my siblings at a very young age. I feel like I got looked over and when I became a teen, I began to get into trouble for attention. I even had a baby at a young age because I wanted love and attention from my parents. I was always an overseer for my siblings, but the way I understand it now, my sister has carried a lot of resentment towards me because of the situation our mom put me in as their overseer. Needless to say, my two kids are 16 years apart and they love each other. My son looks up to my daughter and loves it when she is around. I never put her in the situation my mom did to me because he was my baby, not hers, and I made sure to make time for my daughter and give her the attention she needed for her productive development.

Lmao there's not one video where someone isnt hating on Adrienne so hard. Like damn, what did she do to yall lol

jealously is the worst emotion

I can’t wait for my daughter to have a sibling some day!! Great tips ladies! ❤️❤️

Adrienne, always forgets about Israel's kids with his mistress Devawn (from his first marriages) those two kids are both under 5 or 6, so there won't be that big of a gap, between her kids and all of her "bonus" kids.

I'm sure my sister felt the same as Jeannie. We're 9 years apart. So I darn near felt like an only child growing up,which was fine for me lol.

Adrienne looked *SCINTILLATING, STUNNING AND SULTRY* in all RED!!!!! 😍🙌🏾✨💃🏻👄💄💋👠

I have two brothers. The oldest is 29 and the other is 26 and i'm 22. We're all super tight now but we definitely got into it as kids. But after our mom died of cancer we became closer than before and leaned on each other while we were grieving

Just trying to find a video where people don't come for Adrienne for no reason other than just to be petty.

Awww they didn't even try to blend Loni's foundation on this day huh, they said Fu*k it! 😂

My sister and I are 12 years apart. Ever since I was born, my mother wanted to have other children. To be completely honest, I think she blamed her fertility issues on me. It was very hard growing up and I had a really bad relationship with my mom. When my sister was born, she reminded me of my mom, and it made me hate her. I had to spend a lot of time fixing myself and my relationship with my mom before I could love my sister.

Loni: “The cute little one” Hugs Adrienne 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Loni is right,and I did the same thing with mine,even applied the same technique as Tamera when I had my first babies and my baby sister was small and felt they were taken her place. The older child need to not feel replaced.

I'm a single mother with a 2 yr old but when I find the one and hopefully have/adopt/foster I hope my love doesnt hate his siblings

Siblings hate each other more than anything and also love each other more than anything

If Israel's kids want baby siblings maybe he should introduce them to his other kids.......

I love what Loni said about paying attention to the older child. I am six and a half years older than my sister and I remember when family came to visit and they payed her lots of attention, I got so jealous. We're much older now and I'm not jealous or mad anymore, but I wish my family had the same mentaility as Loni in this situation.

Jeanie is always so relatable and god her spirit makes me so happy , she's glowing !!

my oldest was 3 when our youngest was born. she was really excited for like 2 weeks. After that time frame she asked "when is the baby going back?" lol They love each other so much now I couldn't imagine them without each other.

It really happens all the time. We argue, we shout, we don't talk to each other sometimes but of course at the end of the day siblings are always be a siblings and it always end up loving each other unconditionally.

My sister and I are 6 years apart; she’s older; and she told me she never felt bothered about having a sibling cuz she had 6 years with our parents all by hair self; I was born at her request LOL she was more than ready and we played together and she carried me and still are close like when we were kids. If you just had a kid; spend some time with him or her and then a few years later after building their love and confidence; have another child. They’ll look forward to it

Jeannie, I feel you, I have a 9-10 year gap with my sisters. I'm almost 20 and just now starting to change the way I am with them. Its not so much jealousy as much as no connection because of the gap. Now that they're older, its easier

Anybody else feel like Adrienne has fertility issues? 🤔 I might be looking into it too much but she got married quick so I figured as much as she talks about kids she’d be pregnant by now lol but idk.

Omg I totally agree with loni, being the oldest of 4, I knew I’d follow that same logic and focus on the oldest while the parents are lovin on the new one

Omg Loni so right !!! My mom always told me before you always don’t wanna forget the older one

When I heard that... the first thing I thought of was season 1 during the 2nd half of the season and she talked about how Aiden was very iffy at times sometimes he would be happy and then he threw her baby shoes downstairs 😂😂😂 me and my brother are 6 years apart and tbh we still lowkey beef lol

Loni is on point with this topic!

i need to take notes from Jeannie.... shes the best at story telling!

Someone mentioned that Chrissy n her husband look like sibling themselves LMAO I can see it now ewww

I love how A calls them my kids

As much as I know Loni loves being auntie loni she would of made an amazing mother someone you can have jokes with but still really respect

I agree with Loni. Anytime I went to a baby shower I got a gift for the older child too so they could be included. 1st birthday the older kid got a gift too especially if their birthdays are close together.

Tamera is so gorgeous, she's so discipline. I love the way she carry herself.love uuuuuu girl

Jeannie is SO real, that's what I LOVE her!!😍🤗🤗👌

Tamera is such a good mum ❣️

Loni is a great god mother/ aunty to all her babies. It's really sweet to see that strong nurturing side that Loni has to her. It's easy to forget cause she's always going on about and sex, hard liquor, and partying( which is fine, I have nothing against that) but it's nice to be reminded that there are many many sides too miss Loni Love. In general she really has a soft spot for children and for people who take on that parental role for thoses kids who may not have it and educators who really care about their students. You can tell she really has a caring soul.

“We went to sizzler” LMAOOOO I love Jeannie

All looking fab as always but Jeanie is glowing! Love the whole pink look ! 😍

On another note my sis is the favorite. Could yall bring up Favoritism .... even that goes into adult hood . Please!

Thats so cute tam outfit matches her cup

"oh oh get it one" loni kills me tho😂😂😂😂😂

Yes Jeannie, I got everything I wanted until I turned 10 & my younger siblings came into the picture 😂

Yes, older ones have it hard when the younger siblings arrive. However, it's important to note that the harshest feelings are with the youngest. They come into a world where they are being hated for no reason of their own. They didn't do anything except be born yet they get targeted for foul treatment. That causes severe problems as they grow up. It's also why so many younger siblings are the introverted, scared types.

She never talked about how they hated each other before. That's a common thing, I guess she was really embarrassed though...It's helpful for people to know the truth about how it can be with 2 kids..People don't do that often enough

Aww I love how Adrienne said my older kids

As the oldest child It’s different once you hit a certain age. I hated that I was having siblings at 13,14, & 16. Life changed drastically but now that I’m older and they are teens we we are close. As for my daughters who are 3 yrs apart, I let my oldest be involved with everything. I also showed her photos of my baby shower, ultrasound, etc so she knew everything we are doing for her sister we did for her. Also, when she first came to the hospital I had the baby in my arms and she wouldn’t come to me. But the second time I didn’t and she was happier and more open to seeing her new sister.

I have 2 kids and my son is sometimes jealous he is 3 years older than my 3 year old daughter yes they argue but whenever I turn around he is nice to her he loves his sister but he says mom “Ava sometimes just erks my nerves” and I would laugh and say “ you’re sibilings yeah their annoying but you guys will always have each others back don’t fight it”

I thought Adrienne's Husband has two other " Cheatation" kids . Or do we pretend they don't exist 🙁

I was blessed my boys got along in their younger years. They are three years apart, the oldest one took care of his little brother.

Sibling love is the strongest love there is!

When Tam talks about her kids,I get chills man😍😍😍

Loni would be such a great mom ❤️

Adrienne reminds me so much of my stepmum, the way she seems to have integrated so greatly into her husbands family. That is to be seriously respected. My parents split when I was 6, my Dad basically raised me and my older bro completely alone, and my stepmum came into our lives at probably one of the worst moments, and being a Greek-Cypriot family, we weren't too fond of her at first because she was Turkish haha (the history lol), but years on, she is one of the closest people to me, and I now have a little greek/turkish brother who I love more than anything. I just love that Adrienne calls them her kids, because it takes a REAL woman to step up and raise somebody elses kids, a real MAN too! But you don't hear many single father stories.

I'm the youngest and I wouldn't know but as I got older, yeah we had our moments

I think the age gap is also important. The older the firstborn the easier he gets it that there's coming another baby. I'm currently pregnant with baby no 2 and my firstborn is 1.5 years old. So I'm scared he will be shocked cause he's too young

Both my brothers put me in a suitcase and told my Mom they were shipping me off to our grandma's. 😭😭😭 bastards 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

My family 3 boys and 3 girls!all my siblings we got along real good! We had no choice! It was still inside of us you be close to your siblings.

I was 9 when my brother was born and I’ve loved him ever since. He’s always been my best friend and will forever be my bestie

I wish i can meet these girls ! theyre such powerful strong human beings with such good hearts!

Loni acts like she knows so much about raising kids

Tamera's dress and the mugs though ❤

My sister and I are a year a part so I didn’t have no time lol but me being the first grandson and oldest I got babied a lot and my sister hated me for years because of it 😂 but for me to be 31 and independent I still get spoiled to this day by my grandma

It's the parents job to make the kid excited and be like your going to be an older sibling and your little brother or sister is on the way

Yesss for the longer clips!

My moms friend had a baby (close family friends) just about a year ago and obviously I wanted to buy some clothes for her but there’s an older sibling so I had to get him something too. Her mom felt bad and said “oh you didn’t need to get him anything” but I feel like I have to. They need to both feel loved.

Well, Adrienne, if YOUR older kids want new sibling, have YOUR husband introduce them to the ones he had outside of their actual mother.

I never heard of step children wanting their step parent to have a child.

Why is the comment section always filled with disgusting insults about somebody’s makeup or hair

The oldest is usually the smartest, but they are so jealous of the youngest!

*Loni didnt make sense, she said make sure not to just fan over 1 child yet she says everytime she goes over tameras house she talks to Aiden first.. before Ariah..*

Tamera looks beautiful!

When my lil sis was just a few months old .. I was 5 yrs and I hit her with my fav brown bear 😂 she screamed and it was the best feeling I had!! Am 23 now..

I am OBSESSSED with Loni's hair

Jennie imitating her mom is the best😂

If you’re interested in astrology, Ayden is a Scorpio moon and Ariah is a Capricorn moon. When I looked up their charts, I was shocked. I would’ve thought their moons would’ve been in cancer or taurus.

I love Jeannie's lipstick color!!

I wish my parents had taken Loni's advice xD In my house, it was the exact opposite of what she's saying, because it was a lot of my being the oldest being used as the excuse/reason I had to give up certain things for the sake of my younger siblings. Growing up, I resented the attention one of my younger siblings got in particular (due to medical reasons), and I had plenty of Jeannie Mai moments, where I had to keep checking myself not to become resentful that the focus had to be on her

Tamera’s makeup looks good!!

Adrienne " My Older Kids" 😂😂😂😂😂. Sucks for her.

My son been the only child now for 8years n he’s now appreciating being the only child. He doesn’t want a brother or sister... 😂😂😂 when he was younger he would bothered me to have another baby now he doesn’t want any siblings.!