Siblings Rivalry & its Solution | Parenting Tips | Salman Asif Siddiqui

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5 жыл бұрын

Parents often find themselves in a difficult situation when two (or more) of their kids start fighting with each other. Sometimes the fights are of trivial nature, but many times the fights are due to jealousy, hatred, or due to similar ill feelings for each other.
How can a parent deal with these fights? and more importantly, what are the reason of those fights to begin with and what measures can be taken to avoid developing these ill feelings for each other in your children? Salman Asif Siddiqui talks about this critical parenting issue and gives very insightful tips to help parents deal with these situations in the best of manner.
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@sarwatansari6053
@sarwatansari6053 2 жыл бұрын
اللہ تعالیٰ اس دنیا میں منزل ڈھونڈنے والے ہر انسان کے سر پر آ پ کا سایہ سلامت رکھے۔
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 жыл бұрын
کی parenting ہماری سب سے بڑی “ ” ذمہ داری یہ ہے کہ ہم اپنے وجود کی آلودگی سے اپنے بچوں کو بچانے کی کوشش کریں۔ Solutions courtesy @Hassan Siddiqi comment- : 1- Improve relationship with your own brother/sisters and do not provide justifications if you have bad relationships. 2- Dont do comparison among your children .. which means to appreciate them of their individual strengths 3- Ignore the disagrements and fights b/w siblings and let them resolve unless it seems to get nasty and a big one
@vlogsforallpeople6855
@vlogsforallpeople6855 5 жыл бұрын
Right and thanksssssss
@rabiashah1963
@rabiashah1963 5 жыл бұрын
If we dont compare then what should we do u didn't tell
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 жыл бұрын
@@rabiashah1963 Every child is unique. Focus and be happy with what he/she is doing already and give them confidence on their existing strengths.
@sabinh628
@sabinh628 4 жыл бұрын
ERDC “aap toh bade hain na “ is line ka substitute line batayen. Kya keh Kar ham bade bache ko samjhaye
@er.khadijasajdakhanam79
@er.khadijasajdakhanam79 4 жыл бұрын
Jazak Allahu khaira ki aapne likh kr share kiye Allah aapko aur tarakki de
@secretdynamogamer4045
@secretdynamogamer4045 5 жыл бұрын
"Hurt people hurt people" Wow Amazing philosophy but 100% True
@AdnanKhan-kh9qs
@AdnanKhan-kh9qs 2 жыл бұрын
کمال باتیں سلوٹ سر اللہ سبحان تعالیٰ آپ کی زندگی میں برکت عطاء فرمائے
@mohammadhasan235
@mohammadhasan235 2 жыл бұрын
ماشاءاللہ بہت خوب اللہ تعالٰی آپکو جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے
@Aimenworld739
@Aimenworld739 9 ай бұрын
Khushkismt hn wo jinky parents apky jesy hon MashaAllah
@Subhankhan_11
@Subhankhan_11 4 жыл бұрын
Bht alaa....allah apki zindagi m brkat dy ameen.
@prettydollmydoll8738
@prettydollmydoll8738 2 ай бұрын
I'm a single parent... brother u say 💯 right everything
@sunaidullah5021
@sunaidullah5021 4 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah sir, I've been trying to select someone as a mentor for myself to learn from his exposures, and then share that with my beloved one. Alhamdulellah I find that in shapb of you sir. Thanks for giving this sort of incredible and unimaginable wisedom. May live long sir.
@anmolmedia7443
@anmolmedia7443 4 жыл бұрын
Kya khub kha ap ny Zbardast
@ibrahimisma9616
@ibrahimisma9616 5 жыл бұрын
Really great lessons for mothers. N I like ur Comprehensive style. Jazak Allah.
@ishratgirly
@ishratgirly 4 жыл бұрын
..nd for fathers... Alhumdulillah
@fatimashah2877
@fatimashah2877 4 жыл бұрын
Great job sir , Jazaak Allah
@anamnizamani9909
@anamnizamani9909 3 жыл бұрын
ALLAH ham parents ko hiddayat day.... Achi tarbiat ki taufeeq day. Ma sha ALLAH sir i really like your videos.
@safiamasnooncgg9635
@safiamasnooncgg9635 Ай бұрын
JazakAllah khair...
@danishkhan1607
@danishkhan1607 5 жыл бұрын
Just AMAZING! MashaAllah.
@ishratgirly
@ishratgirly 4 жыл бұрын
It is very important to make others nd our self understand the role they/we have.. every 1 wants to take advantage of their role instead of thiking about others right. This is very important in my point of view that older is older and younger is younger. Being older doesn't mean that s/he has to sacrefie their self for young siblings..instead it should be turn taking. When it comes to caring both should b explained the importance of each others role in each others life. May Allah make out lives easy up on us, by being a good muslim role model to all around us nd may He make our children pious. Ameen.
@ihistory8522
@ihistory8522 3 жыл бұрын
بہت ہی اہم لیکچر تھا۔ بنگلہ دیش سے آپ کو بہت بہت شکریہ۔ ایک بات بولنا چاہتا ہوں، یہ comparison کرنا ہمارے لئے اتنا فطرتی ہو چکے ہیں کہ دل میں یہ خوف پیدا ہوتا ہے کے بچوں کے بیچ میں کمپریزن نہ کیا ممکن ہو سکتا ہے ہمارے لئے؟
@mrs.anmbermuzzamil2609
@mrs.anmbermuzzamil2609 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent. Kindly share this lecture completely...I'll be grateful
@songzzzall7395
@songzzzall7395 2 жыл бұрын
Jazak Allah Khair sir
@shakeelasim3970
@shakeelasim3970 4 жыл бұрын
کمال ہے سر۔ اللہ تعالی آپ کو رحمت و برکات سے نوازیں
@sz4653
@sz4653 5 жыл бұрын
Golden words.
@nikhatriazrasool
@nikhatriazrasool 3 жыл бұрын
Kaash yeh Parenting advices/ Lessons pehle bhee available hoate... :( Anyways Sir your lessons are soooo Good! Hope tv channels would give u Air time to present these Lessons on Tv also
@thementorsacademy2767
@thementorsacademy2767 4 жыл бұрын
Loved people, love people!
@rohaantechnical9577
@rohaantechnical9577 4 жыл бұрын
JazakAllah very nice
@bintulislamsyed7283
@bintulislamsyed7283 5 жыл бұрын
Jazakallah khair 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
@ahad6551
@ahad6551 4 жыл бұрын
Hakim in the morning to you soon and have a good time and consideration and look
@zulfiqarsaifuddin4304
@zulfiqarsaifuddin4304 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir thank u sooooo much may ALLAH PAK guides us much more
@muhsinkamal9988
@muhsinkamal9988 3 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely awesome sir. Great explanations
@shahanausman9540
@shahanausman9540 9 ай бұрын
Allah salamat rakhy sir aap ko Kis qadar gehrai sy aaap ny bachon k ehsasat ko mehsoos kr rakha hy jo usually hum parents b mehsoos nahin kr paty. Allah aap j sy rehnumaon ka saya salamat rakhy or hamen aap sy youn hi tarbiyat yafta honey ka sharf hasil hota rahy.
@followislam9383
@followislam9383 4 жыл бұрын
very helpful for parents who were orphans in their childhood
@tahaahmed3917
@tahaahmed3917 5 жыл бұрын
Wah wah sir Kamal KR DEA very intelligent man
@SairaA.SaifKhan
@SairaA.SaifKhan 5 жыл бұрын
Well said,I learn alot, JazakAllah
@ayeshazulfiqar1512
@ayeshazulfiqar1512 4 жыл бұрын
Very informative. Thanks you so much sir
@einfacheskochenlebensstil3477
@einfacheskochenlebensstil3477 5 жыл бұрын
Bohat acha sabq hain ham jese walden ke lie ham bi ese karte hain ghar main bachoon ke sath main jab video dekh ri thi mera dil tarp rha tha ke ham kitna ghalt kar re the main ne to apne Kontakte main sab ko ye video beji
@maqboolhussainmemonmaqbool7382
@maqboolhussainmemonmaqbool7382 4 жыл бұрын
Mera ek beta as m parobam AP ka mobile no as number p msg 03003585797
@shahidrahman-uj7cv
@shahidrahman-uj7cv Жыл бұрын
جزاک اللہ خیرا
@crown-cockpit
@crown-cockpit 3 жыл бұрын
very useful and informative lecture. JazakAllah
@sarfraznawazsayyed7279
@sarfraznawazsayyed7279 4 жыл бұрын
Masha allah..awesome
@aneerasadiq71
@aneerasadiq71 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful talk
@ammaramashkoor3225
@ammaramashkoor3225 3 жыл бұрын
Great efforts to society improvement may Allah pak shower his blessings on u and your team jazakalllah khair
@asmabintashfaq8402
@asmabintashfaq8402 3 жыл бұрын
ماشاءاللہ ۔لگتا ہے کہ آپ کی صورت میں اللہ تعالی نے مجھے ایک اور بھائی عطا فرما دیا ہے اللہ تعالی سے دعا ہے کہ آپ کی اپنی زندگی میں پاکستان میں مثبت تبدیلی دیکھنے کی سعادت بھی نصیب فرمائے امین ثمہ آمین
@amnaahmad6950
@amnaahmad6950 2 жыл бұрын
So nice sir
@kaleemsiraj
@kaleemsiraj 5 жыл бұрын
Jazak'Allah sir .. loved your lecture, learned a lot.. so thankful to you !! May Allah SWT bless you with all the success and health
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot. You are welcome to our channel kzfaq.info
@Army-Blink889
@Army-Blink889 4 жыл бұрын
Very informative video for parents Thnks for sharing sir Keep in touch.
@farheenhaque11
@farheenhaque11 4 жыл бұрын
Sir you are true inspiration
@mdirshadalam7150
@mdirshadalam7150 3 жыл бұрын
Sir you are absolutely right.
@atiqashoaib7528
@atiqashoaib7528 5 жыл бұрын
jazakAllah
@Musaddiq.
@Musaddiq. 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much salman sir
@Shadowgamer78944
@Shadowgamer78944 4 жыл бұрын
So motivational Mashallah
@nuzhatkhan3530
@nuzhatkhan3530 4 жыл бұрын
I love it thanks again
@abik344
@abik344 5 жыл бұрын
Very well sir
@qahaf7864
@qahaf7864 4 жыл бұрын
Lecture key note "hurt people hurt people". 😊. Thanks sir for info. And this Ap to baray ho this is spot on.Aksar families may aur highly educated families may b danista ya gayir danista yay he hota ha.
@ayazmirzq1789
@ayazmirzq1789 5 жыл бұрын
Well said
@jabeenansari6826
@jabeenansari6826 4 жыл бұрын
Jazakallahu khairn kasiran kasira v nice lecture
@Samistar_Urdu_Academy
@Samistar_Urdu_Academy 5 жыл бұрын
Mashallah behad khoob sir 💚💚💚❤❤❤❤
@nadeemnadeem4996
@nadeemnadeem4996 4 жыл бұрын
Boht khoon hats off to you sir. Reality turns into solutions 😊😊😊
@Lifeofbrownmom246
@Lifeofbrownmom246 5 жыл бұрын
Ap to bary hy na 🤩🤩🤩bilkul theek kaha ap ny👍👍👍
@abdullahvlogs754
@abdullahvlogs754 5 жыл бұрын
Thank u sir or zaberdast baat aj batai k "ap tu baray hu" ye tu may akser bary bety ko kehti hun
@annaaquarian1841
@annaaquarian1841 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly ........
@dilshadarora4455
@dilshadarora4455 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing and very informative video ....
@RubyKhan-km8we
@RubyKhan-km8we 4 жыл бұрын
Good topic Sr g aj Kal hr gr m yehi ho raha h thnxxx sir g jazakAllah
@shinchan1904
@shinchan1904 5 жыл бұрын
Sir app buhat acha samjhaty hai.thanks very nice
@qusainali6143
@qusainali6143 5 жыл бұрын
V informative vedio sir thanks
@sarooshshahzad1855
@sarooshshahzad1855 4 жыл бұрын
Great sir
@sajidali8312
@sajidali8312 4 жыл бұрын
OUT STANDING SIR
@malikshujaat2142
@malikshujaat2142 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent sir
@NadeemAli-gl6nb
@NadeemAli-gl6nb 4 жыл бұрын
Mind blowing sir
@yaseenahmed6927
@yaseenahmed6927 4 жыл бұрын
Bohot khoob
@shifaniaz5295
@shifaniaz5295 5 жыл бұрын
Very nice and informative
@ukhattaku9420
@ukhattaku9420 4 жыл бұрын
You arre great sir
@psychologicalfacts3705
@psychologicalfacts3705 2 жыл бұрын
Very nice sir .you are great
@rafaydx9864
@rafaydx9864 5 жыл бұрын
Nyc sir g papers ki waja sy busy thaa ab aapki har video regular aaajao ga
@nayabhoor231
@nayabhoor231 4 жыл бұрын
Best sir
@aashiquehusaintadvi6809
@aashiquehusaintadvi6809 2 жыл бұрын
👍 useful info
@kidsfun3541
@kidsfun3541 2 ай бұрын
Sir you are a great person. I like ur all videos about parenting
@sabanaeem1540
@sabanaeem1540 4 жыл бұрын
very nice very informative keep it up
@fatimatuzzahra3621
@fatimatuzzahra3621 3 жыл бұрын
Buhat khoob Allah kary ap ki baat samjh mai ajye insani khaal mai bahriyon k janwar hain yahan sab
@nuzhatkhan3530
@nuzhatkhan3530 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@nidarauf5265
@nidarauf5265 4 жыл бұрын
Allah Almighty bless you sir
@tanzeelzahid6457
@tanzeelzahid6457 5 жыл бұрын
Weldon 👍spokesperson
@sumairanaz3976
@sumairanaz3976 2 жыл бұрын
Zbrdast sir so nice 👍
@naveediqbal2799
@naveediqbal2799 5 жыл бұрын
Sir U are great
@tomandjerry9618
@tomandjerry9618 5 жыл бұрын
Zabardust speech sir hum as kartay hain we did lot of time copare in study thats wring recently my husband did that he did not allaow my daughter to study medical compare others ke girls always get marridge kia karro gi and he selext her conerce now sge have tuff time because she did not like that subject but ihelo her and cobvence that when father hapoy GOD happy to u
@shakeelmahi7608
@shakeelmahi7608 4 жыл бұрын
Nice sir
@yesicancook44
@yesicancook44 5 жыл бұрын
Love from Canada
@bushrailyas5656
@bushrailyas5656 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome sir u r doing great job great respect for u
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the appreciation. Do watch more & also share with family & friends.
@memesboys175
@memesboys175 3 ай бұрын
​@@ERDCPKکسی بچے کو بچپن میں مارا اور بہت ڈانٹا گیا ھو... وہ پڑھنے میں اچھا ھو مگر اسکی سوشل لایف زیرو ھو.. دوست احباب برائے نام ھوں تو 23 سال کی عمر میں ھونے کے باوجود اچھی یونیورسٹی سے پڑھنے کے باوجود اس کے بچپن کے ٹراما کو کیسے ختم کریں.. اس پہ ویڈیو بنائیں اسے اپنے والدین سے شکایت ھو کہ وہ اسکے بچپن میں اسے ٹائم نہیں دے سکے... اور وہ شدید تنہائی کا شکار ہو...
@UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude
@UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude Жыл бұрын
Two lovers who are not intellectually mature .... they always fight as the get mature .... they fight less and less
@kiddiary5385
@kiddiary5385 3 жыл бұрын
Great mentor sir u r gem
@nasirwali3384
@nasirwali3384 4 жыл бұрын
Nice
@sakinabanu5698
@sakinabanu5698 5 жыл бұрын
Very nice
@ahmedarain9350
@ahmedarain9350 2 жыл бұрын
Good
@maryamsami1835
@maryamsami1835 5 жыл бұрын
Zabardast lacture
@KingsmasterTailor
@KingsmasterTailor 3 жыл бұрын
nice video 👍dn
@aminasworld703
@aminasworld703 3 жыл бұрын
reality
@AshrafKhan-dg3tv
@AshrafKhan-dg3tv 4 жыл бұрын
Nice video sir
@intresting_videos150
@intresting_videos150 4 жыл бұрын
Hurted people,Hurts people..
@bamisal1978
@bamisal1978 5 жыл бұрын
plz tell me kay jub bari bachi choti bachi say zid kare exmple toys ,mobile tu bare bachay ko kysay samjae
@matkututti2079
@matkututti2079 5 жыл бұрын
My mum is an educated lady but still she gives prefrence to sons grandchild
@muhammadkhubaybsajjadkakka6603
@muhammadkhubaybsajjadkakka6603 5 жыл бұрын
I want to ask that it's not possible in joint family system
@ghazisalah-udin4144
@ghazisalah-udin4144 4 жыл бұрын
How to encourage our kids give me solution plz sir
@Shine12348
@Shine12348 4 жыл бұрын
Yes right .in joint family system sometimes other people teaches wrong values to children .
@AliHamza-gc6tn
@AliHamza-gc6tn 4 жыл бұрын
I hv learnt
@unknown-pw2kc
@unknown-pw2kc 5 жыл бұрын
Great but give us solutions of these issues.thanks
@hassansiddiqi3050
@hassansiddiqi3050 5 жыл бұрын
Solution already in the talk in my opinion- what i understood is: 1- Improve relationship with your own brother/sisters and do not provide justifications if you have bad relationships. 2- Dont do comparison among your children .. which means to appreciate them of their individual strengths 3- Ignore the disagrements and fights b/w siblings and let them resolve unless it seems to get nasty and a big one.
@ERDCPK
@ERDCPK 5 жыл бұрын
@@hassansiddiqi3050 Thanks for summing that up. Will include that in the pinned comment.
@sharifadamad1840
@sharifadamad1840 4 жыл бұрын
Great sir ur amazing how do you know all this specially behavior of females
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