You know when a girl is using you when the only time you see and hear from her is when its beneficial for her or need something.But, when you need something she will not respond , she will ignore you or talk her away out of contacting you. Men, if woman heart not into you its in someone else. Even if your married to her ... her heart can still be with another man. a woman who cares for you will go out of her way for you. Thats how you know where she stands with you.

When they always want to borrow money, then never have anytime to spend with you.

When you first meet a female, you are always her 2nd choice. It doesn't matter how much she seems to likes you. You shouldn't be sitting around waiting for her to text you back. That's just putting pressure on yourself. Trust me.

I understand people like that! Why can't they just be straight and say they' 're not interested? People are nuts!

If she give signs of no interest leave her or she will leave you soon or later and it will be worse, or just start looking another girl and when you find it kick her out

This video is 100% accurate. Luckily for me I saw the warning signs early and I cut her off completely b4 should do the damage thankyou marie.

I pray to God that one day I can find a mature, intelligent, beautiful woman like Marie Dubuque. I am so tired of manipulative, disrespectful, users. I am one of those good guys who is faithful and responsible and fit. But no... I keep meeting self centered people. Tired of online dating too, full of self centered gold diggers. I'm afraid one day I may give up on women and that scares me.

I gave up on women.

Great video thank you. I think my female friend is using me, she always wants me to do things for her and listen to her problems all day

if there is true love between, youll have a fight over whos paying haha. or you'll pay together.

Thank you. I'm moving on from her. I've tried to be in their life just so they would have a good life. But as soon as a text from one of her abusive boyfriends, shes runs off in la la land, she breaks her heart, and she goes to the next guy who ends up using her again. I'm done, I'm better off without her. I wish her well, but she doesn't wish me well.

This shit happened to me this is why I stopped falling in love with chicks

How to tell if a girl is using you?............. She's dating you.

Thanks Marie, Unfortunately I'm going through same thing with a girl that I really like. I see all those signs pointing that I'm not her priority. It's sad when you love someone that doesn't even look at you as something else than just a friend 😢

Thank you...I needed to hear this. ...been in a long distance for 5 years....The gut is always right....

She 1000 percent correct

Guys you can literally tell in the first glance with you meet a woman. Come on man. Diamonds are a beautiful thing that people die for every day but never even get the chance to even look at them. Don't let a woman be your blood dimond.

Thank you Madame. I just f??king lost it. I f??king lost it. When this girl started to make a new friend where she had no clue who this guy was. Right in front of me. I just and can't take her back, just listening to your video, you made a very good point. It really doesn't make any sense when her focus is on another guy.

100000000% accurate accurate accurate accurate accurate, you saved my life..

Marie thank you for your video. I wish I could have seen this video months ago. It would have save me time, drama and money.

One of the best bits of advice a Buddy gave me years ago: there's another one rt behind her, she shows any serious red flags: next! Plenty of fish in the sea. Keep that attitude in your head, if this doesn't work out, oh well, best of luck, bye. No hard feelings. Be willing to move on. Don't sell yourself short, don't allow dependence. If u can embrace this it's very freeing.

If she is breathing she is using you.

thank you, clearly put. simple, smith and clear.

sounds like all the girls I've ever met

You know it takes a Lady to find out what another woman is up to...

You just described my wife.

This video helped me out a lot even though my situation is with a friend, but what you said and described was precisely 100 percent accurate on top of what I mentioned in the past, now I know that it is time for me to distance myself a little but. Thank you so much! :)

I've been used before and as a guy it is really kinda common for me to be used for my body and that sucks especially when I'm really into someone. It definitely screws with you mentally. I'm still kinda trying to figure like "okay you like my body and think I'm attractive but what's wrong with me like why don't you wanna go on a date or go hangout?" I've just kinda thought ab giving up on a serious relationship honestly.

I like your videos very much. They are really interesting. You are an expert. Congratulations!

If you call her and her phone is busy but she doesn't return your call ... guys she is not interested

I have no problem with a woman using me for money as long as she is bringing something to the table that I want also. Basically I treat it like an employee employer relationship. She is free to terminate her employment at any time with no hard feelings. Her job description includes but is not limited to, being faithful to the relationship (no cheating), sex without an attitude, when I want it (meaning I don’t want to hear she has a head ache or she’s not in the mood for it, or I am to tired), fun to be with, no bitching, has some class so she won’t embarrass me when we are out in public or with family and friends, and so on. For a woman that can offer this and more, I have no problem paying for any one of, any combination of, or all of the following but not limited to. Her apartment rent, car payment, clothes, college tuition, makeup, groceries, popular plays, taking her on vacations with me and paying for her expenses, seven day cruises… on a cruise we wake up in the morning and she’s excited about doing whatever it is I have planned for us, no bitching or whining, when at a club she only has eyes for me, she maintains her residence and I maintain mine, no moving in with each other. If you marry her you’re going to be paying for these things anyway, so what’s the difference? When she is no longer able or willing to perform her job description satisfactorily she is put on administrative leave to be given time to think if she really wants to continue her “employment”. If she does not take corrective action or chooses to end her “employment”, she is given a severance package, all benefits discontinued, and my best wishes for where ever life may take her. No messy divorce, no trying to get her to move out, no hard feelings, and no lawyers. I get to keep my house, car, bank accounts, and even with the severance package it is still a bargain compared to if I had married the b*itch and then went through a messy divorce, lost halve my sh*t and had to pay “vaginamony”.

Thanks for opening my eyes!

You are brilliant! Thank you very much!!!

Thank you. It is so simple but true.

She will offer to pay, knowing long term she will strip you down for cash. Its a psychological reaction.

thank you for this...I steer clear of them...

amazing video, thank you. it helped a lot x

U told the TRUTH 👍😁

Wow you are very accurate, wise words

Always makes you feel you said or did the wrong thing. Makes you feel you constantly need to apologize.

Smart women

Plz make a longer detailed video on it... It would be really helpful.

always on pointb💯

She never does "errants" for me!

My gut tells me I'm on the top of her list but she has too many "guy friends", and I know she flirts with some. So the minute I slip up in the relationship she'll feel like she always has a backup which is no bueno. Definitely not pursuing that, but I'm gonna have fun with it before I full on ghost her ass.

Most Scariest and Sad Video ever I have seen till now.

this is real and good advice ….super

Bonjour Marie...votre nom est trés français...parles-tu français? Merci pour la vidéo!

Does this apply when your partner stays on their phone and you even feel 2’d to her phone and her needs?

Relationships are transactions, you have to pay to play. So if you don't want to get used go join a monastery

Spot on

i had a female friend like that.

This girl we had been talking regularly in social occasions she would intend to sit next to me. But then told me that she liked a guy who was in my training class. A few days later she asked if wanted to talk alone and she decided to rest and pick a spot where he would walk out of class. She asked me deep questions occasionally glancing but I could also see her constantly looking over towards where he was. I think she used me to make him jelous. Because now he is off and although we say hello and smile she is giving me the cold shoulder putting in her earphones and gave a death state to me today.

You're spot on!!!

the sign is THEY ARE USING YOU!

I've been without a girlfriend since 2013. My last one she was like this. But I live in Los Angeles. There is so much to do here, it's not worth worrying about any person. Just walk away

Thank u, ur right Girls instinct

It seems like every girl I talk to. Users.

thanks Maria for this lovely video, it just came at the perfect time. I have a girlfriend now that is exhibition almost 90 Percent of this sign. always have something more important, does not feel like calling, she does not for me. my gust tell me to dump her. I just did that few hours ago. thanks very much.

Is there an email that I can send you about my situation?

There is no greater manipulator than a woman.

Will a girl denial her feelings for me if she isn't comfortable around me?

This girl replay only not often as much cause i was annoying to her on all the messages i sent to her just to TALK to SISTER but they think im obessed within her and pushy witch im not .how can u fix that haven dreams after 2yrs still and still wont go away?

I want to get a girlfriend but all the girls at my school (Prison) are well not right for me, every single one of them are the same, like they all look the same and are super skinny and are always on their phones using Snapchat and Instagram and it makes me sick, I want a fat girlfriend that isn't like everyone else... is that to much to ask???

Any man who comes in contact with female coldness face to face knows what kind of creature the female is, her actions will make you wake up really quickly that this world isn't all sun shine and roses like we've been led to believe. Iv had a girl seduce me and then act incredibly aloof, then she's nice again like she's changing masks, when I experienced it it shook me to my core. They are unconscious of their own behaviour which makes them on par with an animal in my book. I completely understand why they were property for most of human history, its fucking obvious, I completely understand why the word of a woman in Islamic court is worth 1/3 that of a man's its fucking obvious. Women are born moral relativists and they can accept ANY behaviour if she can rationalise it to herself, this also makes her utterly remorseless. Any boy who experiences a cold heart like that becomes a man quickly.

thank you so much

They would rather spend more of your Money. Than to spend time with you.

Sounds like my current relationship.. ohh well

Thank you

u are right.i will leave my gf.. thanks for advise

thank you

tbh all the honorable men these days have gone MGTOW...join the movement!

the wall....undefeated.

If she is a female she will be using you ( if you let her).

Madam Marie , I know a girl on a phone but she denied to meet me all the time and I have not meet her but keep telling me she loves me for about 2 years , on the other hand we made a video call earlier, Further, she gives me gift of a quarter of what I have gifted her through her sister or friends and I feel very weird bcoz I have lost my time, money,mind, prestige, body . But she keeps me calling me every day for a 5 mins in day . Waiting 4 Ur reply - Madam Marie Dubuque

can you helped with my ex relationship?

The Truth 💯💯

Can u do signs a friend is using you please

I do have a question about this girl I have been seeing, however I do not want to broadcast it all over the internet. I believe in being discreet, and broadcasting my problems for everyone over the Internet to read is definitely not discreet. Do you have perhaps a business website where I could contact you via email, and send you my question?

You know a girl is using you when she only calls you on payday!

Thankkss

My girlfriend character as really change she avoid deep communication with me not like befofe i don't understand if she as already got got another dude?

Sounds like you've been there Marie

beautiful smile

"If you weren't so damn good in the sack you'd a been kicked to the curb ages ago."

Guys come closer and lets band together for a selfie, then we will sing 'Bella Ciao'

@2:12is the best part of the video

I have this girl I know she is always all ways asking me for a ride in money so is she using me? please help

Oh sorry I asked this before seeing this video

Been dating this girl, on our first few dates I bought the dinner, she say " you know you dont have to pay for everything" Shes been wanting to come over to my place almost everday after work, one day I didnt get home till almost 730ish Didnt have time to cook or anything, she said " i can grab you something on the way over" Im usually pretty skeptical, from pervious times getting shit on/burnt but not sure if its sincere or just saying that to be nice?

Marie, I'm dating this guy and he's been cancelling our dates lately, but right afterwards he wants to book another day, so we always have a date ahead of us. He is sweet and seems to like me but he always cancel in the last minute. And when we see each other (on his conditions), he just wants to hang out outside, like going to the movies, but then he wants to go home without me (I've slept at his house occasionally). He asked me if I wanted to spend New Year's Eve with him but I don't know If i can trust him. He doesn't seem to be out for just sex. What's his problem, and what should I do?

ohk now i got it she's using me but how do i remove the attachment!!!!

Appreciate your heartfelt advice, but todays women would NEVER offer to pay in the slightest, with online dating, they go on dates and have men pay like its a damn sport- they dont feel bad in the slightest to let a man do these things. Hope and pray there still genuine women, not these shallow, heartless, materialistic, futile minded women of today.... if their consciousness was only half as deep and wide as their eyebrows.. maybe I'd find someone worthwhile

oh my gosh, this always hppens with my friend. she always invites me over to her house, BUT when we go out (we are both platonic girl friends) I always pay and drive us and she promises to pay me back but never does. And the one time, I asked her to use her car and to pay for HER OWN share of food for that ONE occasion - she started getting all salty. I appreciate her hospitality and everything BUT I feel like she should be the one paying or at least be a bit more sensitive cause she is working but I am not. And I am friends with her sisters on facebook and they post really racist shit. Anyway, I am tired of it. She only calls me up when she needs something, or wants to go out somewhere (with me paying) I dont like it. Cause I get the vibes that she bitches about it later. like WTF

Sad truth 😢

Yep

F#ck , she used me for two years. I just didn’t realize it, so naive on my side

Hi Ma

we were dating for three years. we broke up and the day of she started having sex with someone else. she obsesses over whether or not he likes her( he is just using her as fwb, I know this because I saw messages) and she said why am I like this. my boyfriend loved me. what am I doing??? she moved out and says right now she needs space and time away from me. and maybe one day we'll be back together. we've been broken up about 2 weeks and we had sex last night. she put "the sex with him(other guy) is not nearly as amazing as I thought. not like my ex... I'm just wondering if this is a phase and will get over it eventually or if there is no chance ever for the future? p.s. she said he gives her motivation and he has a light that I don't have. ( I think it has to do with the fact that she gets excited to see him)

had a person do all this to me