In this video we will discuss what are the signs of extra marital affairs.
Hello, I am psychologist Mayurika Das Biswas, and you are welcome to your survival model.
Remember that the signs of an affair discussed in this video are not absolute signs. Meaning the presence of one or 2 symptoms or signs does not ensure or guarantee that the other person has an extra marital affair.
Just like having fever does not mean that a person is most certainly suffering from malaria similarly a couple of symptoms do not act as a short shot indicator of an affair.
let's watch this video with an open perspective.
1. The first ad the most scary sign is the mobile Phone .
you will notice that the person is inseparable from his hello or her Phone,
always password protects the Phone and does not share the password with anybody including the closest family member,
Carries the Phone even to the washroom or bathroom
There is an exponential increase in the person's social media activity
The person is sending and responding to messages all the time is looking at his or her Phone all the time
You start feeling as a person is dating his or her Phone
2. Unexplained absence, your partner has been staying away from home very often
The number of business trips or trips with friends or solo vacations have suddenly increased
It could very well be that indeed the person is busy with business due to increase in level of responsibilities business trips have increased,
due to increase in age the person wants to spend some quality time with his or her friends
But if you feel an unexplained suspicion or anxiety about this, you should stop and think and discuss with your partner .
3. Your partner has become more irritable than before, and gets angry on every little thing .
The irritability could also be because of physiological changes , like hormonal changes response to stress ,
it could also be the first stage of some illness that a person has not come to realise yet .
It could also be due to withdrawal from some form of addiction,
maybe the person has recently stopped drinking or smoking and has become more irritable than before .
But it could also be that because the person has an extra marital affair he or she is feeling guilty
And now finding reasons Stew fight at home , looking for justifications do tell their own self that situations at home are so irritable or unbearable that it is alright to look for happiness outside .
4. You notice that your partner no longer takes interest in things he or she like before and it frequently
The partner avoids his or her usual activities like spending time with the child, visiting the temple, spending time with you
Now these symptoms could be due to increased stress, decrease availability of time and energy .
But it could also be that they are spending less time at home doing things they like because they are spending that time outside engaging in the affair which is a new activity that they like.
5. You suddenly notice that your partner has become do obsessed about his or her appearance
Is visiting the gym too frequently and 2 dedicatedly , has become obsessed about skin care facial care and clothes
This could be that your partner has realised that looking better is beneficial,
If we look better we can have gains in work, social life and maybe get more likes on social media .
But it could also be that you would love your partner no matter how he or she looks,
No matter how good or bad your partner's appears if he or she approaches you for sexual relationship you aren't likely to not shut them away ,
but the other person's love is not unconditional and in order to get the love of the other person your partner is trying to improve his or her appearance .
6. Do you notice that there is this person about whom your partner talks a lot
maybe you know the person , maybe the family knows the person but your partner just cannot stop talking about him or her
Now it could very well be your partner is highly influenced by that person because that person has great qualities is very intelligent or very wise in some way or another
But it could also be that your partner is having an affair with that person,
and when we are in love even talking about the person of interest gives us joy
7. You notice bat the quality or frequency off the sexual relationship between the two of you has changed
Your partner is either approaching you for sex too frequently Or approaching you less frequently than before