Me right now at the age of 25. Life seemed so promising 4 years ago.
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
You will get through it, make a 5 year plan and make small steps towards it
@yipgundam Жыл бұрын
I relate to that so much 😢 feeling a little relieved that I’m not alone in this.
@ryanculler73248 ай бұрын
I relate
@LadyM2514 ай бұрын
Same 😢😢
@rogersparker58752 жыл бұрын
6. Childhood nostalgia being a hell of a drug
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
It most certainly is!
@nobilityjudah5303 Жыл бұрын
So true!
@samanthaking1751 Жыл бұрын
This hit hard, but it’s my college years and I haven’t been out of college long 😢
@doosls300 Жыл бұрын
Yep
@niggy3147 Жыл бұрын
I’m my mind it’s still 1999
@HolyChad7 ай бұрын
Watching people my age (25) already having houses/married with kids/well paying careers and im just sitting here hoping to finish my college courses before i end up homeless is more than devastating
@vulcanraven97012 жыл бұрын
Very true. When you're 18, you feel like the opportunities are endless. When you're in your mid-late 20s and things haven't turned out as planned, one realizes opportunities are becoming harder to come by & its exhausting. Don't get discouraged. **Work smart, plan goals, and do NOT give up**
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
Never 😁
@adipurnomo5683 Жыл бұрын
Time is healing. Let it flow like water
@JonathanRodz Жыл бұрын
22 years old I just wish life came with an instruction manual
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
In a way their are many manuals, find one that resonates with you, stoicism is one of my favourites
@Sparta1993 Жыл бұрын
I got you. You need to go to trade school and work as a plumber or electrician for 5 years. Get a license. You’ll be making around 110k for a few years by then. Invest in the S&P and Bitcoin 100$ each a month. Work as an electrician for ten years and continue to invest. By 32 you’ll be loaded
@asturianix9820 Жыл бұрын
The part I fear the most: From age 18 to 24 I bareley had social life. Now things are better, but Im constaly anxious at the thought of all the time wasted. I feel that the early twenties were an important part to live through with a group of friends and gain "street experience" so you dont act like a socially akward kid. But now that time is gone forever. Now I feel like Im not at the same level of social experience than the rest and I may never be. And even of I have "that group of friends" now, there wont be as much twenties left to live them together ss the rest have. I see former classmates losing their "kid face" and I feel scared. Like If I hadnt grown up with them as I should have because I was the loner.
@cxri94549 ай бұрын
Omg I feel the exact same
@taylorhenderson7674 Жыл бұрын
I’m 26…. I’m doing okay for myself. But my head is barely above water….. it’s hard out here 😓.
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
It definitely is. It helps if you have a goal and are taking small steps each day towards it. Then being happy in the moment that you are making progress
@kambalechristian88562 жыл бұрын
The zero motivation part i felt it.
@mynameisjimbo2 жыл бұрын
Yep, definitely a quarter life crisis for me lol
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
😅
@brittstime3470 Жыл бұрын
Turning 29 soon and I feel like it’s the end of the world. I have a great government job, apartment, etc. but my life lacks a lot of amazing things and I feel like I’m running out of time. 😕
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
Try not compare via social media. Not all is what it seems. Be grateful for what you have (sounds like you are) and then work on 1 extra thing you want to develop or change. Time is not a factor, this think could take you 5 years to fix but believe me you won’t feel any different at 34. So don’t wait start now, small steps every day.
@PinkBloempje Жыл бұрын
I‘m 31 and still feeling this 🥲
@youngrosay2493 Жыл бұрын
Just turned 28 July 1st and I feel like my walls are caving in 😅
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
Look at changing your perspective, you have more control than you think. This is a new chapter. My most transformative years were 27 to 32. Make a plan and take action!
@NicolasCharly2 жыл бұрын
Just turned 32, left my fiancée a couple of months ago after 11 beautiful years together. Totally lost, feeling tremendously alone, useless and lacking. Alongside leaving a person I still love, the quarter-life crisis is a hell of a ride for now.
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
It’s difficult to understand sometimes but you are in complete control, work out what you want, what your passions are and make a plan to get involved deeper or make them your career. Do not listen to anyone but yourself. 💪
@adipurnomo5683 Жыл бұрын
Good bless you
@biatae27135 ай бұрын
How are you doing now man? Hope you’re feeling a bit better
@baseldawod4189 Жыл бұрын
I was born in 1994 now I am 28 and I feel that I am Old. I have a lot of Dreams. A lot of Responsibility’s. I just finished my Engineering Degree. Single and feel alone.
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
You are on your path trust in it, it doesn’t matter if you’re single just hold out for the right partner. Don’t rush because of your feeling of loneliness.
@80Lora10 ай бұрын
25 now and I haven't finished my studies yet but I want to. I hope to finish next Semester.
@ToriHarris-lb6zg7 ай бұрын
I miss 2010-2012 so badly am I the only one? I would give anything to rewind time backwards to before 2016.
@apoorva4085 Жыл бұрын
I'm 25 and feeling exactly what you mentioned. Although I know my purpose on this planet but I'm just too scared and tired to take any steps towards it. I had so many dreams as a kid I feel like I haven't accomplished anything. I have a good job but not what I wished as a kid. My classmates who were not good in studies are doing better than me. Everyone is finding love in my circle, some are getting married and here I am, all alone. I have never ever hurt anyone, never cheated on anyone, and always tried to be the best daughter yet I'm the one who always gets cheated and betrayed. I never got any love from my parents, siblings or friends. I'm just totally clueless about life rn.
@williamdesmoines2147 Жыл бұрын
Same :'(, hopefully the next year is the right one :').
@sevdamustafazad3564 Жыл бұрын
You described my life
@apoorva4085 Жыл бұрын
@@sevdamustafazad3564 Ikr, we're not alone. Everyone is facing the same battle in various ways. Have faith! Recently things have gotten better for sure, it will for you too, I pray so 💗
@giorgiociaravolol199811 ай бұрын
Best thing I can advise you is to read some philosophy books, depending where you are from you will have some native authors. The path of a philosopher is hard mentally and at the end it all comes down to this. The mind. I'm in a crisis myself but I do have people that support me. Develop yourself and those around you will notice, but you have to remind yourself that you are doing this for yourself and that life doesn't end at 25-30. People take black belts in sports like brazilian jiu-jitsu at 60! LIVE LIFE AND BE HAPPY!
@Lja7761321 күн бұрын
At this point it feels more like a midlife crisis
@karlz916210 ай бұрын
I'm 28 and... - My ex left me after 11 years for somone else almost a year ago. (She cheated) - I had to find a new home for my dog after my seperation since I could not afford having her anymore, unfortunately. (Loved her so much) - I'm almost done with my engineering degree. (Have my thesis left) - I moved home again after my seperation, so I'm living with my mother. - I'm broke at the moment but I'm working out almost everyday and trying to find a job. I can relate to this video so much right now, I'm feeling really empty and anxious.
@AlexGoldie10 ай бұрын
I went through something similar at 27, absolutely no shame in it. Keep working at it and yourself. Some days are easier than others but one day everything will be alright. Be proud and enjoy the journey 💪
@tayshuyuvanessa568714 күн бұрын
I am 25 and I feel every single sign that you mentioned in the video :’) I’m lost and I don’t know how things will get better.. with no direction and so much uncertainty
@kevinrosario2729 Жыл бұрын
1997 born here, I’m dreading turning 25
@LekgotlaKgosiTshweneyagae3 ай бұрын
welp, im 25 now😮💨..
@wellingtonuzamere3511Ай бұрын
Totally me! I am 25 a year out of college just feeling so lost
@AlexGoldieАй бұрын
@@wellingtonuzamere3511 take this time to try lots of new things. 25 is young and you don’t need it figured out. Experience as much as you can and you’ll find your groove!
@theredrock3663 Жыл бұрын
Scared of time As time passes you miss the old time more
@Punkyismeoffical11 ай бұрын
Im almost 28 and i aint going nowhere with my life 😂
@juliopeinado2660 Жыл бұрын
I have all of those feelings. I was only born in 2000
@ArkelChatman45 Жыл бұрын
Turning 25 in December all of this hit
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
Check my long form videos, I did one all about this a few weeks ago.
@theev6342 Жыл бұрын
Same brother , mine is the 13th
@ThatOneMalaysianGuy Жыл бұрын
I'm only 16 but weirdly enough,i feel the same thing
@jonathanpinckney9227 Жыл бұрын
Dude described my sorry butt to a tea.
@guts0113 Жыл бұрын
Turned 25 like 3 months ago and I was fine like motivated and everything. Somehow I now all I'm in a Quarter Life Crises. Although on the brightside of things I'm taking the best appropriate action necessary!
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
The crisis might have manifested from outside expectations or your own through see others who aren’t you flourish through social media. Trust your journey
@guts0113 Жыл бұрын
@@AlexGoldie I'm sure part of it was. However the other part was not making friends or ever having a girlfriend or new friwnds for that matter. Recently I just said screw it and asked a girl my age to hangout with me. Id say it went well since she wanted to hang out with me more that night. I also have other plans to meet other people!
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
@@guts0113 🙌🙌
@-wack Жыл бұрын
Funny, I started my workout at 22. I’m 25 and skinny now LOL
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@JM230072 жыл бұрын
Dang, really hit the nail on the head... Thank you, look forward to more.
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
🙌
@mariasamoo4083 Жыл бұрын
Im a 2004 baby,but even i feel like I’m having quarter life crisis
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
Social media has made you feel this way. It’s made you second guess all your choices because of what you see others doing.
@lolhaipop Жыл бұрын
Lol Bro i am in mid 20s and lack social skills , confidence and don’t know my goals.
@pepthelad Жыл бұрын
100% me, although I have accomplished some things I feel like it’s nothing
@riyamodak44228 ай бұрын
Just turned 23 Had to move out for making a career And being alone a past year constantly working to get a job and suddenly these thoughts intensed that somehow triggered a anxiety Always making me question whats the purpose what would it be like when im 30 Im getting older my college days , time to be with friends everything ended now i just have to get a job and earn to live a good life. My life is stuck i won't have anything in life apart from earning and hopelessly living Would I ever get ever these thoughts .
@Vegan_scorpioo9 ай бұрын
Last one😢
@ditsydaisys Жыл бұрын
just turned 20 last month and this is exactly how i’ve been feeling lately… recently got in a car accident and lost my very first vehicle which i got a few months ago. now i feel as if i’ve got nothing going for me, and friends have gotten busy with their lives so it’s like i’ve got no one either. very frustrated with life, and constantly pondering my purpose. it is causing me to spiral into so much depression especially when i see others moving forward with their lives. i also have been feeling so much regret for how careless i was in my teens. if i had cared more about my life/future back then maybe i’d have some sense of direction by now. just feel very stuck lately
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
Hey Daisy, I know you feel very alone but the majority in your age group feel the same. The school system doesn’t help this because it forces you to become a worker bee instead of inspiring passions. It took me till 31 to find my purpose, it’s not a race, you might find yours soon or when you’re 40, everyone’s time line is different. In the mean time use your 20’s to experiment and make mistakes, don’t be afraid to. Follow interests and hobbies and see where they take you. As for friends, some get less busy, some stay busy, some friends go and new ones appear. The only thing we can be certain of is change, let it happen.
@Futurelawyer8125 ай бұрын
Hell I’m a 1990 baby and feel this way sometimes lol
@suhanasanam5398 Жыл бұрын
I just turned 19 and yeah...I'm definitely having a quarter life crisis💀
@vanessavega7080 Жыл бұрын
1985 here... still relevant
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
I can believe that!
@AngelToraldo_2 жыл бұрын
I’m 20 and I feel all the things u mentioned sir 😀
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
Remember you don’t have to have your whole life together at your age.
@daltonblackwood3837 Жыл бұрын
You just hit every nail on the head. Thank you for posting this.
@rajashreedas09452 жыл бұрын
M 2000 born and still experiencing all the signs ( the first 1st one is partially true for me )
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
Work out your passion and make a plan to enjoy it more or make it your work.
@VedikaMaharao4 ай бұрын
1999 born and feeling the same here 😢😢
@elyksteeley1181 Жыл бұрын
I'll be 30 next year. Knowing what I know now I'd like to do it all over again and make the right decisions. Can I hit the reset button please?
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
If only :) but 30 is a great time to start 🙌
@thelastairvinder42405 ай бұрын
I had my first QLC when i was 23, where I question my life's purpose due to burned out. Now I'm 30 and experienced everything you have said. I felt anxious and sad most of the time. How can I overcome this.
@xrandomxgamesx8021 Жыл бұрын
So I’m having mine at 14… W o n d e r f u l !
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
😂😂 don’t worry it doesn’t last forever. You’ll find your purpose 💪
@coffeeperson1461 Жыл бұрын
I have had this for so long I can no longer call it quarter, I have to call it mid
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
I hear you
@justgeeek Жыл бұрын
Me right now. I have a good job, but I feel useless. I feel like I am faking my way through life right now. Time flies because I only look forward to two days out of the month (payday). I’ll figure it out I guess
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
You are not alone. Find ways to be present and enjoy each day. Little wins and activities.
@justgeeek Жыл бұрын
@@AlexGoldie Thank you for that bro 🙏🏾. It’s definitely a marathon, just gotta keep going.
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
@@justgeeek 💪
@grannyronna Жыл бұрын
Here's some encouragement from a 72 year old. I had a quarter life crisis and my sense is that throughout history, when one slams into adulthood, it is always painful. My lived experience is that these crises don't stop at 25. Being lucky to live long enough means you will have a few of them. The good news is that you will learn for yourself that you have the strength and skills you need to get to the other side, and there could end up being more beauty and joy there. Healing from a crisis, any kind of crisis, can leave you stronger and more resilient. Good luck from Granny Ronna!
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
Brilliantly put Ronna 💪 thank you for sharing :)
@grannyronna Жыл бұрын
@@AlexGoldie Thanks Alex. Your response really lifted my heart.
@sevdamustafazad3564 Жыл бұрын
Omg i am gonna cry having these thiughts every single day
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
You will find a way out. Make a plan, take a step each day towards it.
@itsmewonder50412 жыл бұрын
Im turning 20 in April, nothing I do seems good enough and I feel like I don't have a goal to aim for. I wasted my teenage years by being too introverted and barely hanging out with friends. I move out so now even though I realize I should've spend time with them I can't anymore. Im fucking miserable and unemployed at this moment
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
Understand nothing is wasted and you still have so much time. I didn’t have a plan until 30. You’re not alone, most people feel this way, my suggestion is brainstorm careers revolving around your loves. You have to do what you love or you will hate it.
@awsomemodels2 жыл бұрын
Exactly like you !
@killerwolfZeita1171 Жыл бұрын
i was born in 1999 and get all of these but 1
@asexualtrickster3 ай бұрын
I turned 27 today and all I want to do is curl into a ball and cry and go to sleep forever.
@lysvelez Жыл бұрын
I feel like this can be relatable to anyone though. I’m 16 and feel like this
@Rightly_Divided2 ай бұрын
Been there, done that, I live on :)
@asturianix9820 Жыл бұрын
Nailed it. Any advice to overcome them?
@whatis_thislife Жыл бұрын
About to be 23 and this all hits me and I'm born in 2000.
@mamoon_pk Жыл бұрын
Same here 😞
@Theoryofjariatou2 жыл бұрын
21 and going through this now
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
You’ll get through it. Be grateful for what you have, you’ll find happiness there and keep on your journey.
@crystlelakefarm1254 Жыл бұрын
I'm definitely going through all of this
@johnvermintide Жыл бұрын
Im 20 and i already have this :(
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
It’s very natural, stop comparing you are on your own journey and make an actionable plan
@johnvermintide Жыл бұрын
@@AlexGoldie thank you very much
@HeavymetalHylian Жыл бұрын
my quarterlife crisis was in middle/high school... or maybe it was my 1/8th life crisis and I'm about to get hit by the 1/4 life bus 😬
@adipurnomo5683 Жыл бұрын
Tottaly feeling lost. Need more motivation to get rid of worried
@posto842111 ай бұрын
Omg this is me for real!
@rosec.250810 ай бұрын
Include 1999 people in there
@zekielrodriguez522910 ай бұрын
Bro 93-98 babies are having their mid life crisis already this is late as hell
@ProjectEverything Жыл бұрын
Any tips on helping my wife over come hers
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
Take a break from social media and then start a gratitude journal. Being thankful for the big and small things in her life will ground her. Understand that she is not late nor early, she is exactly where she needs to be. Make plans for the future and take action. Don’t give too much to do to quickly. It’s all about small steps consistently :)
@av33284 ай бұрын
YES! YES!! YES! YES AND YES!!!
@fffin550 Жыл бұрын
i passed with a 100% score
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
👏😂
@navi9597 Жыл бұрын
I turened 24 last may. I never had many friends but now I'm losing the people I had around me. I'm singel since 2019 and I desperately want to be a mother one day and it's stressing me out. I feel like I'm not a part of life and that I can't have the things other people on my age have (socially)
@killdalamb33572 жыл бұрын
Yep. All facts at the moment
@NilanjanaRai Жыл бұрын
And all our already delt past memories re surface again and it feels like our choices and identity being ripped off Lol
@Eltipoquevisteayer Жыл бұрын
It's all long gone
@deMuseo_cl9 ай бұрын
I think you're describing depression, not a midlife crisis
@gamacichi Жыл бұрын
all this video did was make me more anxious, so thanks for that I guess.
@topman8627 Жыл бұрын
I’m very late but I thought I was just being edgy but all of these I have been going through especially the last one
@bindiboo001 Жыл бұрын
Nah I'm just scared of death and dying young, such a beautiful world I don't want to leave
@---qu9uf2 жыл бұрын
Me right now.😭😔
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
You will make it through to the other side.
@austingray6885 Жыл бұрын
I’ve felt a mix of optimism and rock bottom all in one year. I quit my full time job two weeks ago because I got fed up with not having control over my own schedule and dealing with shitty people on a regular basis. I can’t stand society anymore especially seeing degeneracy and injustice left and right. I have no friends and the ones that I thought were my friends ended up being snakes and wronging me. I’ve been rejected and led on by several women in one year, quit two different jobs in one month, when I make comments or seek advice from “gurus” on KZfaq their true colors come out and make it obvious that they’re just hustling people. I’ve been bullied, taken advantage of and exploited for so long during my whole life that I can’t help but be jaded and question people. And I struggle to find the purpose in life and anything I do because I struggle to find meaning and contradictory beliefs from all the things I’ve told in my life.
@austingray688510 күн бұрын
Update: nothings changed except that I’m joining the military
@vonnbatbatan3920 Жыл бұрын
I'm 22 and this is what I felt right now.
@Drwilliam110 ай бұрын
Yep!
@allisterthornley71342 жыл бұрын
I don't feel anxious about my peers moving forward. I'm proud with them and happy. Maybe I lack of courage to do the same. I have lot of doubts with my potential. Is that happiness? Who knows what's behind their happy life? Is that worth of suffering? Live in rat race cycle? That's always on my mind.
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
Everyone has potential, I know it sounds incredibly elementary but honestly deciding what hobbies and activities make you the happiest and starting a career around that, you either join a company in that market or you start your own thing, your potential lies in taking the initial steps.
@hercules_144 Жыл бұрын
2002 here and that's definitely me 😁
@Dekky_Dakky Жыл бұрын
Ye mate join the club I’m only 20 but I feel like my life peaked when I was 15.
@cez23388 ай бұрын
5/5, nice, what are your suggestions?
@mr.fiddlesticks22712 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry I'm but I'm just going to ask does this apply to someone who is 18 going 19 or is there other terminology. I happen to tic almost all of the boxes ( sorry English is not my first language)
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
The age part doesn’t matter so much, anyone can feel this way.
@dariusthurman8835 Жыл бұрын
I already knew that
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
Fair
@darkmidnight818 Жыл бұрын
Why those specific years? It makes no sense 😂
@frnatalie Жыл бұрын
I'm only 13 and I relate
@asturianix9820 Жыл бұрын
Dude. You dont have a reason. Here are some advices: -Chill. Ur a baby bro. -Try to enjoy things more. -Be kind and a likable person. -Set a series of simple goals and get closer by little steps. -Try to not say no to social experiences. And most importantly: -MAKE A GROUP OF LOUAL FRIENDS TO MAKE GOOD MEMORIES TOGETHER.
@kaiest_12 Жыл бұрын
Ah, yes. thank you for confirming 🙂
@Realoudworld Жыл бұрын
Everything is True, but I’m 18 I think there is something wrong with me 😢 Any suggestions?
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
Absolutely nothing wrong with you you Chacha our societies are presented in a way that we are almost forced to compare our lives with others. Try and stop that and understand you are exactly where you are meant to be :)
@Biharibabulive111 ай бұрын
What to do then 🥺🥺🥺
@unlockedbythekey5522 Жыл бұрын
But I'm a 2002 baby why do I feel this way?
@AlexGoldie Жыл бұрын
Social media, being able to see everyone else living their lives.
@Andipendergraft6 ай бұрын
I’m 25
@anshsahni2747 Жыл бұрын
What’s the solution..!?
@gigglespumpkin9792 жыл бұрын
Daannnggg, i guess ito nararamdaman ko. 😞
@neesh52082 жыл бұрын
Wait ppl outside of 1993-1998 don’t feel this?????
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
No they have a mental blocker, it just doesn’t happen to them 😅
@armyant91632 жыл бұрын
1991, I am not part of this conversation lol
@bharatiyaseeker44602 жыл бұрын
what to do about it? lol
@AlexGoldie2 жыл бұрын
It’s not something to worry about. We have a crisis of purpose in this world because of social media, we think we must be doing something. If there’s something you enjoy then do it but otherwise just enjoy your journey. You’re young and it will make itself clear at some point.