There is a huge lack of Titus 2 women...older, more experienced women teaching the younger women. I believe that's a big part of the problem. Thank you Titus 2 women for this!

I appreciate this wisdom for many reasons, one being that I need reminders and reinforcement for myself. It has also encouraged me to evaluate, repent, and keep going. Hope is not lost, and I trust that the Lord can not only discipline me, but also lead me in disciplining my son.

I stumbled across this today, and wow. Just, wow. I have a feeling I will be coming back to this video many times to continue in my journey to becoming the kind of mother I want to be. Thank you ladies so much for sharing!

As a Muslim mother, this resonates with me so much. I love the emphasis on teaching children that obedience to parents is important because it pleases God. I will definitely try and incorporate these lessons as a parent as I found your advice was so similar to my religion as well which in essence is living to please Allah.

I love how these moms love the Word & apply it in their parenting. Learned so much in this video. Much needed to hear. Thank you so much ❤️

Praise Yah for the time and effort you ladies took to come together to share this message with other parents. I’m a young mom with young children and this has been very humbling and encouraging for me. Looking forward to discipling my children in the way they should go as detailed in the scriptures and being more aware going forward of the worldly tendencies of parenting I have already slipped into even as a believer.

I LOVE that you guys pointed out that not having a clear show of authority and consistent boundaries isn’t fair to your children. I totally agree that we let them loose when they are young and then come down with rules and strict boundaries when they are old enough to be gaining freedoms and preparing to be adults.

I listened to this while making breakfast this morning, and it moved my heart to a desire for discipline for MYSELF! wow, what a blessing. I have a tiny baby who isnt ready for discipline (yet 😂), but I want my heart to be ready when that time comes. Please pray with me for my husband and me (and my baby!) that the Lord would direct us in the way we should go. Thank you for this beautiful episode! ❤

YES! Please help me because i am NOT enjoying motherhood in this season. Sahm homeschooling mom of 4. 7yrs old and younger. One day runs into the next. I am so drained!

This came at just the perfect moment for me. Thank you! I needed this today

Ginger, I asked God to do something new in my faith life and stumbled upon this video. I woke up knowing that Biblical Discipline is the answer! I just bought all of your books you just spoke about in this video. Sonja, thank you too! You have helped me in CM homeschooling!! ❤❤❤❤

Thank you so much for these. I am loving these videos and their content. I'm new to Charlotte Mason. Unfortunately I was raised in the way of being manipulate or physically disciplined which bred resentment. I love that this is grounded in religion. I am really enjoying everything that is being said here. There are many similarities to gentle parenting and respectful parenting.

I needed this when my children were small 😓. My youngest is 15 now. I followed some of these ideas but not always, and not perfectly I'm sure 😔

I have 3 children 6,3,and almost 1. We are I. The thick of it and definitely fall into correcting behavior instead of getting to the heart because there are so many needs having to be met it’s overwhelming to stop and have those heart to hearts. Thank you for this. I just ordered the wise words for mom’s “cheat sheet” and looking forward to using that along with prayer and guidance from God.

I wish I heard all this earlier. My youngest is 9 and I feel like I havent done a whole lot. I pray its not late. My oldest is 17 but I want to still believe that I can still do something, anything! Thank you

The mum wisdom I wish I had access to before becoming a mum myself. Absolutely wonderful.

This is so helpful. I was gifted Wise Words for Moms when my boys were younger and listening to this has made me realize I’ve slipped on some things over time. Pulling it back out today!

I am new to Christianity and learning God's word. Thank you so much for this godly wisdom. I have one question. What does the Bible say about obedience to a bad father? The father is not raising our son the way the Bible says. How do I handle that?

Oh boy I am in a rut. I needed this, thank u!

This was one of, if not the, most helpful and amazing talks about parenting that I have ever heard. God brought me to this channel yesterday because if Charlotte Mason schooling and then used this video today to speak to where I see now I have gotten a bit off track with my young kids. Thank you soooo much!

This video is so helpful! Thank you for such an intelligent, biblical, and practical approach to discipline.

I listened to the opening and immediately started feeling like a terrible mom... Then I heard mistake #1 and I was like 'I don't do this!!' so I guess I could be worse 😂

Wow what a wonderful and super helpful discussion! This has really blessed me and inspired me to discipline my kids in a more godly, Word-based way. Thank you so much 😃

This is such a blessing.

Thank you so much for making this video. 💗

Wow thank you for this video! My mother gave me that chart when I had my 2nd child but I never looked into the author. Loved her! Very helpful video 👏🏼

Thank you for this. You are such a blessing!

Really Helpful.. Thank you soo much.. ❤

Thank you for this information and wisdom. I've been guilty of many of these mistakes.

This is so good. Thank you. It's good to prepare ahead for these situations. God bless you.

Great discussion - thanks ladies !!!!

I needed this today. Thank you ladies!

Absolute perfection, thank you so much!

Discipline is so important and sadly too many parents avoid it. We see the fruit with the young adults acting crazy and expecting every to cave in to their demands. As the Bible says, Spare the Rod Spoil the Child. God bless you ladies.

This was just the encouragement I needed thank you

Love this, thank you!

This is wisdom these women are talking😍

So good! Thank you for this.

15 minutes in and I’ve realized I’m doing EVERYTHING wrong 😩

Excellent advice

Next topic will be the Benefits of Curfew... Thanks for sharing but Curfew is a Must. It makes you closer as a family especially during dinner time. I am just expressing what I've observed within our families and done it and applying it to my child. Once again, thank you, and Take care. God bless

17:00 hit me; we want our kids to obey because it pleases God not because they owe ME because of all I've done for them

So good!

I always wonder how the father can play a part in this training. I know mothers are home more but how do we include the father in the training? They might undo all the work we are doing with the children by not being on the same page. Any thoughts on this are appreciated.

Repeating yourself.... Repeating yourself.... Repeating yourself....

Are Mrs. Hubbard’s material appropriate for teens? Also, what would a parent do for older teens if they had been making many of these parenting mistakes already for years? What can a parent do to try and change and correct their own mistakes in parenting them up to that point? Is it even possible for a parent of older teens to still be able to instill good habits and good discipline into them after years of bad habits and poor discipline, and if so, do you have suggestions on where to start or how to go about making those positive changes? Thank you- I did need to hear this today, and it really made me take a good, hard look at how I’ve been parenting for all these years!

Enjoyed this

Help ! J’ai bien compris les erreurs à ne pas faire mais comment enseigner aux plus jeunes enfants à obéir ? Est-ce qu’il fait aussi lire des versets à des enfants de 1 à 3 ans ? Mon fils de 2 ans, en colère, a frappé son frère. Je lui ai rappelé la règle et j’ai demandé de dire pardon à son frère. Il a refusé. Je ne l’ai rien laissé faire d’autre jusqu’à ce qu’il demande pardon. Cela a duré 30 minutes avant qu’il se décide enfin à demander pardon. Un autre jour, je lui ai gentiment demandé de ranger avec moi ses kaplas dans la boîte et j’ai commencé mais il a dit non et maintenu son refus pendant 20 minutes. Je suis allée jusqu’à mettre un kapla dans sa main et l’amener jusqu’à la boîte pour le déposer. Il a dit “non”. Mais alors comment leur apprendre à obéir quand ils sont tout petits et très têtu ?

What is the consequences if they don't listen

Need this!!

This was just great!

I did want to mention the “parenting experts” she mentions actually do support the discipline you are talking about which is based in science and child psychology

What if we threaten to donate toys that aren't taken care of, and then actually do it? What if we follow through with threats?

What about autistic kids? I really wish you would address this or some Christian mother somewhere would. I feel alone on an island and my child is in secular therapy that strongly condemns spanking or physical discipline. I just don’t know what to do anymore

Why do you want to avoid repeating yourself?? I didn't understand..

Please speak on hitting. Ive had christians tell me it is in the Bible to hit aka spank. It makes my heart tight

That's why I pulled my kids out of school. The school Can only teach the curriculum and not the individual child

This was a great podcast, but I would like to respectfully disagree with number 6 “Don’t reason with small children”. What you’re describing isn’t actually reasoning, it’s bribery and manipulation when the first strategy to “render” obedience didn’t work (which you correctly point out as a poor strategy early in the podcast). True reasoning is concerned with helping a child [person] logically step through choices and consequences in order to understand what the best choice/outcome is and WHY. And this doesn’t have an age limit; even my 3 three year old is capable of [age-appropriate] reasoning, and walking her through the reasoning behind something and connecting that to the consequences of various choices is building strong reasoning and decision making into her that will help her later (as we’ve seen with our older child who at 6 can make very logical choices and explain to me why something is/isn’t a good idea). Being willing to reason with a child is actually respecting their personhood (as Charlotte Mason advocates). This does Not preclude obedience-in our house we have a mantra “obey first, then ask questions”-because obedience IS super important for all the reasons mentioned. AND kids really do need to understand the step-by-step logic behind what we’re asking them to do (there are often reasons that we don’t articulate because they seem so obvious to us), so that someday They will be able to make those choices-and I think the earlier we start that kind of thinking and processing, the better! Bonus: when they really understand why they need to do something, they’re totally bought in and more likely to replicate that behavior in the future, because it’s not arbitrary for them-it’s a heuristic they can understand and apply to other situations! (At any age!)

Wow 😢 where do You begin when you’re from an undisciplined home without Christ. 1st generation Christian here saved later adult years

Mind your own children, do not listen to a KZfaq channel to tell you how to raise your kids .