SINGLE IN MY 30'S (5 Things I've Learned)

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mel

4 жыл бұрын

I THINK I KNOW STUFF (video 1):
Hi All! This subject has been on my heart lately so I wanted to share. Hope that you enjoy!! :)

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@justinmalabanan8298
@justinmalabanan8298 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Being single in your 30s and seeing your friends get married does sting. But like anything else, even tho I’ve been single for the last year, I’ve learned a lot about personal development and really gained a lot of confidence and slowing finding my inner peace. Thank you for the video.
@roundyj2673
@roundyj2673 4 жыл бұрын
I needed this video! Thank you for keeping it truthful and sharing with everyone 💜😊 So relatable
@lunagirl200404
@lunagirl200404 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Melissa, I really needed to hear this. I’m the same age as you and dealing with this same thing. It’s been 4 years since my divorce and still struggling accepting being single. It’s has made things difficult because I focus on wanting to find a SO instead finding myself and enjoy this time. There are times I’m happy with it but others I’m not. I need to go with my time line and things will happen when it is time. Be true to myself and enjoy life. Thank you again.
@Deroliebe
@Deroliebe 4 жыл бұрын
Omg so much unnecessary rambling! Video starts at 04:21!
@chelseahancock6933
@chelseahancock6933 4 жыл бұрын
ParadoxdelaPaladino thank you lol
@lalina1304
@lalina1304 4 жыл бұрын
😥 thanks
@chelseahancock6933
@chelseahancock6933 4 жыл бұрын
Tony k that’s irrelevant, I’m a single and I don’t ramble
@deficator750
@deficator750 4 жыл бұрын
Hey honey how was you day? This
@howdareyou5800
@howdareyou5800 4 жыл бұрын
@@chelseahancock6933 you are nagging, that is why you are single.
@StarLight-on4lh
@StarLight-on4lh Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the encouragement! Your positive energy is contageous!😊
@itsmescottyd
@itsmescottyd 4 жыл бұрын
Melissa, I absolutely love this video! It truly speaks me to another level! I know this is a bit personal but I was in an abusive relationship about year ago now, and I shut myself off for a long time. It’s been a year since the break up but I feel everyday is a brand new day, and I am manifesting better things in my life. I learned each day how to love myself and enjoy life! I am just letting God help me guide myself, and trust him timing! I know my soulmate is out there, and we will meet soon! I also love to see you doing better! ❤️❤️❤️
@smileyslick1534
@smileyslick1534 3 жыл бұрын
Mel, having a healed heart of contentment in singleness is a great sign of being prepared for a relationship. Reflect and resolve personal baggage. Anything unaddressed will be carried into another relationship and that baggage will burst open unexpectedly leaving the other person wondering what the heck happened. Never give up moral values, but be flexible in personal checklists or expectations of a potential relationship.
@MrWm2800
@MrWm2800 4 жыл бұрын
WONDERFUL HONEST VLOG! You Go Mel! Speak your truth. Good advice heart felt from you. I have been lonely 80% of my life. Its hard BUT I keep trying to change things. I hope some day we ALL find the special someone to share life with! God Bless Bill M
@80rew
@80rew 4 жыл бұрын
I’m single and 39yrs old just bought a new sea doo trying to stay positive and have fun life is too short
@sarahbill3085
@sarahbill3085 3 жыл бұрын
do you really want to get married.
@BurtReynolds.
@BurtReynolds. 4 жыл бұрын
Hope all is well Mel!! Keep smiling!
@MerasolRalstonChannel
@MerasolRalstonChannel 4 жыл бұрын
WONDERFUL HONEST VLOG! You Go Mel! Speak your truth. Good advice heart felt from you.
@brendaanne0810
@brendaanne0810 4 жыл бұрын
Great video Mel!! ❤ Congrats Auntie Mel!!🎉🎈❤
@Lewis_J
@Lewis_J 4 жыл бұрын
So I'm a guy age 16 soon to be 17, just finished school and heading to college in September, and I must say this video really did, personally, give me a very different outlook to this topic and the busy life I have ahead of me. As many have assumed which is why you may have made this video, is being single can be pressuring especially with friends who are in relationships, it becomes quite isolating, and the need to find someone to share your interests in tends to be quite condescending because you feel the need to meet that expectation, but it's gratifying to hear you talk about this because it's not something that's talked a lot about and this concept being 'alone is different to lonely' is also very eye opening. Loving the advice videos Mel, thanks for being awesome, as well as just being you, #PTUcrew❤❤❤
@Lewis_J
@Lewis_J 4 жыл бұрын
@Mysterium Lugosi wow ok, never looked at it from that perspective, but I must say I totally agree with you, thanks for the insight :)
@JoyAnnDagmil90
@JoyAnnDagmil90 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this encouragement mel, I just turn 30 and still struggling. God Bless!
@trecymachuki6135
@trecymachuki6135 3 жыл бұрын
Am SO disappointed at mel's 3rd point in particular... Please google "female egg count by age" or "female egg count at 30" ...ur only child free before 30, after that you are just childless... N y'all watch Kevin samuels... Trigger alert, u'll get really triggered by he speak ALOTTA truth
@7eamGhast
@7eamGhast 3 жыл бұрын
Do you want to be a mother? Will you be submissive to a man?
@trecymachuki6135
@trecymachuki6135 3 жыл бұрын
@@7eamGhast am a man but ofcourse.. why wouldnt any woman be? i mean... women in most cases date UP .... women want a taller man, more mature/older man .. someone thats financially stable and in most cases making way more significant figures than they do ... look at our parents and grand parents and your best friends cousin.. who is the oldest person in the house? the wife/mom? and this is the problem i have with 9-5 women... they know their place in the office... boss says i want u here mon-fri 9am sharp... DONE! ... hey theres a meeting with an important client u have to be there... DONE! on the other hand, their husbands are not awarded the same seniority because "we are equal" .. no were not... am older than u, i hold more maturity ... pls advice, am i wrong?
@7eamGhast
@7eamGhast 3 жыл бұрын
@@trecymachuki6135 Correct, men and women are not equal. The only view of their equality comes from God, what I mean is the creator is the only being that sees all of his creation as equal. However, for us Humans it is not so, Men have been given vessels and tasks, just as women have been given vessels and tasks. The vessels are not the same and nor the tasks. My son falls off the bed from jumping, I immediately say stop crying and make him realize he chose to put himself in danger. My wife will immediately rush to his side and want to hug and console him (if I’m not around) and cater to him and worry about if he’s ok. We see things differently. This is how we have been created. So why has western ideologies and their philosophies changed the women and men so much? Men are become more feminine, wearing tight clothing, make up, and never maturing. Where as women are being told, live single, don’t settle for anything less than what you consider to be a (personal) standard in men. This happens when our world views are formed by media and entertainment, music. And not by realistically considering the true infrastructure and original design of the Creator. So it is important to ask a women, do you want to be a Mother some day? Kids don’t play with toys much anymore, and girls don’t play with Baby Dolls, they are immediately indoctrinated with this idea of growing fast, and watering the seed of “relationship”. This causes a very bad spiral of unacceptable behavior which only grows worse with the child as time goes on. I ask if a women would be submissive, because women don’t realize that seeing that type of humble characteristic in a women, is EXTREMELY attractive. As men, we don’t care about how much time you spent at a university being told what to think, we care about your ability to think for yourself and your ability to actively humble yourself and follow the leader, and purely reap the benefits of the labor. Keep my land and house in order and raise my kids to be wise as I have instructed and keep your body good for me and only me, in my culture we have our women cover their heads in public. If it is only family, their hair can show, but a woman’s full body, beauty and glory are a gift to the man who has chosen her to be his partner for life. All of these things are lost in today’s world, and as I continue to broaden my perspective of how these women think, as I continue to research the last 10 years of trends in media and subliminal ideologies, I’m realizing this seems almost by design. The same way a women will get a tattoo saying it’s meaningful, 80% of men want their women’s body to be 100% natural (flaws and all, no artificial). That’s a problem that women are being lied to about destroying their bodies with images of idols, same with men (they should not tattoo). Anyways, Cheers. I’m just researching the mindset of women to further help minister to women and men whom seek assistance and choose to turn to God. I see it all too much, and the amount of children negatively affected by these vain ideologies is about to show heavily in the next 5 years. The idea of Family and building legacy and taking pride in your bloodline is dead. People just want to live their life, have “fun” all the way until death and just let their family bloodline die. The exact opposite of Gods commands, so I wonder who’s responsible for this way of thinking?
@katiewatts9409
@katiewatts9409 2 жыл бұрын
It won't seem this way, but if you do want to settle and have children you still have loads of time on your side at 30. Realistically still got 12 years at least.
@rosamill2612
@rosamill2612 3 жыл бұрын
It is not at that easy, I am 31 years old and never had a bf because I believe that the one who will take my heart is the one who will give me his... I hope to get married as soon as possible and to be a good mom ⚘
@highbaws
@highbaws 3 жыл бұрын
His what?
@himanshusingh5214
@himanshusingh5214 3 жыл бұрын
Single life can be better than married life (for both genders). You are thinking of a romanticized version of a marriage. Most marriages end in divorce, so you are at least not heartbroken. Embrace your life and try to be happy with what you have.
@The44Irish
@The44Irish 4 жыл бұрын
Happy for you Aunty Mel!!! Love will find you when it is time not before.
@randomdude2287
@randomdude2287 3 жыл бұрын
It STILL amazes me that all these attractive women would rather lie to themselves then admit how toxic feminism has been to them. The HIVE mind is strong. #HypergamyFail
@Deroliebe
@Deroliebe 3 жыл бұрын
It STILL amazes me that men thinking feminism is toxic. That teaching women’s why’re equal to men and telling them they’re more than wives of mothers is somehow “toxic” to women. The INCEL mind is strong.
@randomdude2287
@randomdude2287 3 жыл бұрын
@@Deroliebe 1/4 women on depression meds More women overweight More educated women in DEBT More women single/childless More women lost jobs during COVID Good luck.....
@Deroliebe
@Deroliebe 3 жыл бұрын
@@randomdude2287 That’s neither here nor there. More women on depression meds does not mean more women are getting depressed. That means more women are finally getting diagnosed. Men are also fatter except now women don’t have to put up with that because if they can get a better man, they will. More women single/childless? You’re acting like that’s bad? Over 30% if women are now childless by choice and many mothers are breaking the taboo by speaking out against being forced by society, and assholes like you, to be a mom. I don’t want a kid lol Also, you say single like women would rather be with some sexist douchebag and be disrespected rather than single? If those are my choices - I will be single. Everyone lost jobs in COVID, genius 😂 You just have nothing do you? You’re big mad women have more choices and are no longer taught to cater to men who are unworthy of them.
@randomdude2287
@randomdude2287 3 жыл бұрын
1+1=3 #Feminism
@Deroliebe
@Deroliebe 3 жыл бұрын
@@randomdude2287 Ah ok thanks for letting me know you don’t want to have a discussion. I can see that you’re clearly butthurt that women are free and have no understanding of what feminism is. Good luck with that mentality!
@vanessafernandez-herak6209
@vanessafernandez-herak6209 2 жыл бұрын
There aren’t enough honest videos out there for a woman in her 30s, becoming the highest version of herself, preparing for her future husband. Thank you for sharing this video ♥️♥️♥️
@davidbolha
@davidbolha 2 жыл бұрын
Preparing for their 40 Katz more likely. 😁
@cipryan96
@cipryan96 2 жыл бұрын
you should have prepared for your husband in your pre 20's. Now its just "save the pricess" cause she getting old and no one wants a triple 0 body count "virgin"
@patkuebler3881
@patkuebler3881 3 жыл бұрын
Well I am 51 years old single and no children never been married you seem to be a very good person and a very attractive woman keep up the good work love to see your videos.
@jacquelinebennett
@jacquelinebennett 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 27 years old and I’ve always adamantly stated I don’t care if I have a man in my life or not and I don’t want a family in the sense of starting one, and I always question myself because of what people say to me - they always go “oh you should find a man.” Or “Oh your so beautiful why don’t you have someone?” Or “you’ll change your mind?” Or “you’ll regret it when you are older.” And Every-time I hear that about finding someone or having children it just depresses me because I feel like I am expected to be a certain away despite not being that way and emphasizing it and knowing it so this video help boost my confidence in myself and to just sort of flip people the middle finger when they voice their opinion. Also congrats on becoming an auntie Mel!
@smileylisa1977
@smileylisa1977 4 жыл бұрын
So I am a 42 year old woman. I was in 2 bad relationships in my late teens and early 20's. Which lead me to be a single mom. I vowed that I'd rather be alone than settling for someone just to have someone in my life. I refused to settle. Which in turn lead me to my husband of 18 year later. I am so grateful to myself and him in the end! You really are doing a fantastic job Mel!
@justina8143
@justina8143 4 жыл бұрын
Should have had abortions
@kp361
@kp361 2 жыл бұрын
@@justina8143 I bet your mum is having second thoughts, Justin.
@Rampaigee
@Rampaigee 2 жыл бұрын
Inspiring. Thank u for sharing.
@joshuab464
@joshuab464 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe your choice in men is your problem, can we say accountability?..
@henryfisher3618
@henryfisher3618 2 жыл бұрын
@@justina8143 that thought is too horrible to give any time and thought too much less to speak those words about two humans who have a unique role in sharing this place with all of us.
@DumbDumb855
@DumbDumb855 3 жыл бұрын
The one thing that feminism didn’t account for was the feeling left out of the couple’s scene when you get older. Women are more social, men really could care less about going to a group dinner or a 2 year olds birthday party. There is much more to life than gossiping about other people. Feminism has broken the social norms of society, so don’t feel insignificant when you don’t follow them. Embrace your freedom.
@kpjlflsknflksnflknsa
@kpjlflsknflksnflknsa 3 жыл бұрын
But it's men online who are crying about being single.. well.. they say that they don't care but their obsession with the subject would suggest otherwise.
@bjjkickboxing7876
@bjjkickboxing7876 3 жыл бұрын
@@kpjlflsknflksnflknsa exactly, you JUST said it. Men ONLINE. If you really think that what you see/read online is a real representation of the real world then you need to go out more. The internet is like an eco chamber for an annoying minority of every single group. But just try to go on a dinner party, a wedding or any social gathering were people from every different groups get together. THEN you will realise the truth. Us men in our 30's we live our best lives. We are at our peak. Me and most of my friends have never gotten as much girls as now that we are 30 years old. While all of our female friends or women we meet call us childish and tell us to grow up for living our best life. Dont believe everything online.
@Deroliebe
@Deroliebe 3 жыл бұрын
Feminism has taught me it’s ok to be single rather than just marrying someone because god forbid I’m single!
@dianabuzzati163
@dianabuzzati163 3 жыл бұрын
@@bjjkickboxing7876 peak life you mean balding, with dad bod, spending their saturday evenings cracking beers and replying angrily to women online? wow, what a best life
@saltyhamslam7991
@saltyhamslam7991 3 жыл бұрын
@@dianabuzzati163 I don't know where you get such ideology. Women peak physically around 22 men around 36. From a young age women have the advantage but if they don't settle down while they can the tables quickly turn and men have the advantage from 30 and beyond. I had horrible luck with the ladies till about 32 and now I refuse to get married until I am at least 40 it is finally my turn to have fun.
@babytsoknat
@babytsoknat 2 жыл бұрын
I am 33 and single. My last relationship really taught me that I have to heal first, resolve my traumas and let go of my emotional baggages. I need an enormous amount of healing first. I know I'll get there. I do enjoy being single so far and I am discovering a lot about myself. Some people do pressure me and they dont really understand but, it is really up to you how you'll filter out the opinion of others. Thank you for this video. Alone time is healing time and learning how to love yourself genuinely.
@Exodus26.13Pi
@Exodus26.13Pi Жыл бұрын
If ya female marry by 26. Mothernature has the final say.
@haroldbones84
@haroldbones84 4 жыл бұрын
I know this community is a very positive one. So I hope you guys can send my way good and positive vibes, let me explain. Last Saturday I adopted a 2 months old puppy that I completely fell in love with the moment I saw her. Her name is Nala. But unfortunately on Tuesday when I woke up I found her vomiting and weak. I took her to the Vet and it turns out she had Parvovirus before I adopted her but it manifested once I got her. I just want her to be ok and come home to me. I feel very sad since I haven't had a dog for over tweeny years. Please keep her on your hearts. I need my little puppy home, healthy, safe and happy.
@tamandjp
@tamandjp 4 жыл бұрын
As a married woman whose best friend is newly single, I think your advice is awesome.
@lilijohnson1495
@lilijohnson1495 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I can resonate 100%
@Carliux1984
@Carliux1984 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Auntie Mel ❤❤❤ It's always fun being the cool aunt 😁😉
@KiwiDude7
@KiwiDude7 4 жыл бұрын
God damn, look at those arms! Looking good, Mel!
@margaretshannon36
@margaretshannon36 4 жыл бұрын
This was a really awesome video I really appreciate the content that you put out I’m really excited about the new categories and ideas that you have for for the content I too am also single and I would love to hear what you have to say of how you got over all the different hurtles in your life to get to where you are now
@margaretshannon36
@margaretshannon36 4 жыл бұрын
You always seem so positive and so high energy you and your family are awesome
@irenet5653
@irenet5653 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats Aunt Melissa❣🤗
@amandacarreiro9816
@amandacarreiro9816 4 жыл бұрын
Love this video! I'm single and I'll be 30 in December. When I was younger I thought I'd be married with a kid at this point (my closest friends are all married with kids/starting to have kids). But HONESTLY I'm kinda glad i still haven't settled. I could've had that family life already, but I would've committed to relationships that wouldn't have been everything I've deserved or would've been happy with. My family and friends used to say I was too picky or to throw myself into dating more instead of career/work. Now they have started to understand where I come from and embrace it with me. They see with all my self love work that I've become a happier person than many of my friends in relationships. I'm a strong believer in trusting the universe and it's never let me down. I know eventually I will have the family and be happy that I got thru the single self love life. It made me a better person to bring into a relationship for my future spouse. It took me a long time to get to that thought process and place like u, but it's really worth it in the end.....this logic isn't just for females either. I have a twin brother who was engaged, had a job that he could retire with, and ready to start a family at 25. Weeks before the wedding, he realized that family life isn't what he needed or wanted. He needed to be single and find himself first. He too is single and lives in a house with 4 of his friends (2 are males pushing 30 and single also). It's scary to redefine what "traditional" life is supposed to look like in ur late 20s/early 30s. But I'm glad this generation is doing it. We'll all make for happier and more fulfilled adults later in life! And I think that will help make this world a better place overall.
@TheHelpmeetJourney
@TheHelpmeetJourney 4 жыл бұрын
🐈🐈🍾🍷
@cullyschmetterling3963
@cullyschmetterling3963 3 жыл бұрын
I found this video more than a year after you posted it. I hope that you have found a man to love you and hold you during the nights.
@claudiabadia3605
@claudiabadia3605 4 жыл бұрын
Yes I've been crying with all of Allie and chars videos
@jenniferkearnes9906
@jenniferkearnes9906 4 жыл бұрын
Love you Mel 🐾🐾🐾
@JasonK1982
@JasonK1982 4 жыл бұрын
On a personal note I’m glad you’re single because you can stay positive and focus on yourself and be happy. You’ll find love when it’s time and I learned it from watching you and others.
@wisedonut2919
@wisedonut2919 4 жыл бұрын
Jason Kaplan I love your positivity
@JasonK1982
@JasonK1982 4 жыл бұрын
Wise Donut Thank you. I appreciate your support.
@Melly16yr10
@Melly16yr10 3 жыл бұрын
We need more men like you
@Thatiswhatitismadefor
@Thatiswhatitismadefor 3 жыл бұрын
@@Melly16yr10 why is that?
@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780
@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 4 жыл бұрын
Mel, the IRL families and the ctfxc are biased to miss Remi’s GORGEOUSNESS! Yes, take your time. A lot of these are applicable to a long distance relationship..... holy 🐄 what a learning experience, but a wonderful one.
@KatysDream
@KatysDream 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Auntie Mel, she's very lucky to get you for her Aunt because you are so sweet, smart, loving, and kind and you love her.
@Happywackyerin
@Happywackyerin 4 жыл бұрын
Love this so so much!!!
@thequietinside3201
@thequietinside3201 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! I just wanted to comment to say I am so sorry that so many people have been unnecessarily critical and rude towards you for this video. I think it's wonderful that you have standards; I do as well. Keep trusting yourself & speaking your truth. You don't need to explain or apologize. Take good care.
@galaxychildrenacademythega4977
@galaxychildrenacademythega4977 2 жыл бұрын
They should b rude ,c is speaking her mind
@claudiabadia3605
@claudiabadia3605 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on beautiful baby Remi! Melissa you are beautiful and wise. yes have guidelines. You deserve the best and will find that wonderful person. It's always good to be fussy and make sure he treats you with love and respect
@DaddytechEnt
@DaddytechEnt 4 жыл бұрын
*it's not important to anyone except those who are going to judge you regardless of what you say, weather you are with someone or not. You have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with anyone else. Dating apps are open invitations to the devil to come in and ruin your life. You have So much going for yourself, so much to be positive about. and that much is really encouraging. that's why i've watched when you actually upload videos. All the things you mentioned that you expect in this video are things that any polite "gentleman" would normally do. You gotta be all the you that you wish to be before you go lending yourself to someone else. and lets be honest that's all you really ever do is lend yourself to them because life is so short we only fill that void for each other for far too short of a time. There's no time to be wasting the short time we have on those who don't fit your "guidelines". It's ok to have expectations. To me knowing what you want and expect is sexier than someone who just goes with the flow or is afraid to do their own thing because you've got yourself together. Most ladies i've met can't say that. they are just sort of riding the wave of life alone and going wherever it takes them. I was really pleased to see the true joy and commitment in your face when i met you at play list live back in 2012 (the Phil and Ally Speed era) That day we were all standing in the hall way while Charles stood there greeting people. That's part of the reason i went over and clowned with him a bit before going on. I was so enamored i would have stood there babbling like a retarded person and the last thing i would have ever wanted to do was say something that would interrupt or interfere in any way with the happy life you appeared to have going. I actually liked the Phil we all got to see in the videos. I am sure from what you're saying that the off camera Phil was a bit different though or you would still be together. Long and short of it, there are no judgements here because most of what you've said i am 100% in agreement with. I feel and think much the same way. and the absolute WORST thing you can do is get in a relationship that's comfortable. it's far too easy to become complacent in a relationship. You should challenge each other constantly. That's how you grow. Encourage each other to do and learn new things. That's what keeps life interesting and exciting. Being comfortable and settled just leads to taking each other forgranted and maybe at first just not being as complimentary to each other as you both think you should be. Next thing you know you hate each other and all hell breaks loose and you're both pretty much sitting there wondering what the hell happened and where it all went wrong. By then it's too late, it's over and all you can do is grab your stuff and go. Unfortunately i've been there and wasted FAR too much time on those who weren't worthy of that time and EVERY SINGLE TIME i do the same thing and every time i regret it that much more because i let myself down by settling for ms. right now instead of finding ms. right. HUGE mistake and it's unfortunately one i keep making*
@justifiedtone823
@justifiedtone823 4 жыл бұрын
I think your amazing. I am 30 and single too. Your totally right about the calling and texting. Also about loving yourself and knowing what you need to do. The difference between lonely or alone. perfect summary. Your an attractive woman. Greetings from Germany.
@monieboo
@monieboo 2 жыл бұрын
Almost 31. Single. No kids. But finaly found peace alone. I was always in a stupid relationship. Working. Money motivated & vacation with family travel when I can 💕💕 I date when I want :) i dont need. 😋 working on myself, self growth.
@RJweblink
@RJweblink 3 жыл бұрын
I married my wonderful, sweet, loving husband when I was 36yrs.old because I have always been so set in my ways and protective of my own space and time and he was the same way so he fully understands. He respects my own time and makes plans ahead of time he is my true best friend, confidant, loving sweet partner in life;) we are married almost 9 years and going strong. The right person will come along for sure do not settle for anything less and most of all stick to what is true to you and for who you really are. Melissa, you are so on point on this one, you definitely know what you want and who you are.
@walkersmith2791
@walkersmith2791 3 жыл бұрын
Why did he get an old woman sexually used for 15-20 fkn years? Silly simp...
@walkersmith2791
@walkersmith2791 3 жыл бұрын
All the work he's done, suffering and just for 1 kid??? Hope he has kids from previous marriage.
@whysoseriousiamnot9772
@whysoseriousiamnot9772 3 жыл бұрын
Yiikes
@deana.riley.
@deana.riley. 4 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 100%. I have been single off an on in my 30's. At times I feel like my clock is ticking an I jump into relationships to fast. So I to have set guidelines for myself. Always take time for yourself know mater the length of time you need. Your awesome keep all the great advice coming. Have a wonderful day/night.
@petrusxramulus564
@petrusxramulus564 4 жыл бұрын
Off and on...? Sounds more like fu*ked around
@deana.riley.
@deana.riley. 4 жыл бұрын
@@petrusxramulus564 sorry u took it that way but no I am not one to "f" around
@thewanderer6174
@thewanderer6174 3 жыл бұрын
@@deana.riley. so, you're not intimate with your partners?
@deana.riley.
@deana.riley. 3 жыл бұрын
@@thewanderer6174 no I've not been intimate with everyone I've dated.
@ronardo7353
@ronardo7353 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@kgentile
@kgentile 4 жыл бұрын
I’m really glad you made this video. I’ve learned to embrace being single and have faith it’ll all happen in the right timing...sometimes the hardest part is everyone else making you feel like you should be in a relationship and the “why are you still single?!” comments...
@EnoI539
@EnoI539 3 жыл бұрын
Let me guess you were on sleeping with anything in your 20s and now you alone and have a cat.
@highbaws
@highbaws 3 жыл бұрын
@@EnoI539 Salty much?
@riannaramrick7375
@riannaramrick7375 3 жыл бұрын
I like you already, gonna subscribe! Love your advice and your doggo , too tweet
@katrina8336
@katrina8336 Жыл бұрын
Dear Mel, this reflects my experience a lot. I am single at 26, yet most of the advice from 20-somethings “enjoy, don’t worry, you have a lot of time” etc. is not helpful to me. I have always been single and have enjoyed it for many years. Meanwhile my friends are getting babies, getting married etc. My focus for the past few years has been on getting education abroad and learning who I am, which is important, since I have experienced relatively traumatic childhood & therefore I had to re-learn who I am. This age to me is bittersweet. I am sometimes afraid of getting closer to 30, because society says that around that age dating is “impossible”, but your video (and the comment section) really helps me to know that I am not alone.
@Exodus26.13Pi
@Exodus26.13Pi Жыл бұрын
Good to know this at 26 instead of 29. Be fit, feminine and agreeable. Never cuss until married.
@katrina8336
@katrina8336 Жыл бұрын
@@Exodus26.13Pi Really depends on the culture you live in. In some countries, like Germany, men prefer dominant women. I think I am quite normal, in general agreeable, but also can stand my own ground.
@abbas22mohammed
@abbas22mohammed Жыл бұрын
@@katrina8336 Hi Katrina Can I talk with you
@oliabarabolia
@oliabarabolia 2 жыл бұрын
Start at 04:41
@aselalovesjoy7368
@aselalovesjoy7368 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder how old Mel is in this video.. Great insights! Strong ❤
@crystalelk706
@crystalelk706 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah Mel your back! So great to see you. Yes the birth Vlog's of Remi Sol all made me cry too! She is a sweetheart, what a beautiful baby. Sending positive vibes your way. Peace Love Dreams!🇨🇦 💞🌐📷⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐🌎💜🌍💙🌏🙏👣🎼👩‍💻🕊️💖☁️🎬😉
@mariejae
@mariejae 4 жыл бұрын
I was so fed up with dating guys, and not trusting of anyone. I started focusing on a new hobby, and met my new bf three months later. He's cool, but also younger than me. He's a great communicator because we're long distance.
@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780
@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 4 жыл бұрын
Jae Me Age doesn’t matter, my bf is a couple of years older. Honestly you get the best of both worlds long distance. Good luck and i hope it’s someone who is understanding ❤️💪
@ooruthendi4277
@ooruthendi4277 3 жыл бұрын
YOUNGER, LONG DISTANCE BOYFRIEND......GOOD LUCK!!!!
@jaak8487
@jaak8487 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 what
@walkerprecious3907
@walkerprecious3907 2 жыл бұрын
Hello dear how you
@dylansousa5571
@dylansousa5571 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats Aunt Mel
@PenIncTone
@PenIncTone 4 жыл бұрын
You need a podcast cause you love to talk, and you should call that Trippy Talk. Nice points on here. Trippy Talk on KZfaq Live. AKA TTYL YES DO IT.
@Cathakinz
@Cathakinz 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mel
@wesleyjoiner929
@wesleyjoiner929 3 жыл бұрын
Stay TRUE to yourself. Exactly like you have been. No matter what happens. You'll be fine. 💯
@AlishaC18
@AlishaC18 4 жыл бұрын
You’re an inspiration and my role model Melissa !
@ferencszabo3504
@ferencszabo3504 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, she's a beautiful thinking woman! We need more like her, please!
@dunzy1825
@dunzy1825 3 жыл бұрын
Szabolc, don't be a simp.
@EnoI539
@EnoI539 3 жыл бұрын
@@dunzy1825 💀
@texasroper
@texasroper 4 жыл бұрын
You have your head on right Melissa, you are so pretty, smart, happy, and grounded which makes you a total package and also irresistible...stay sweet and enjoy the journey, wishing you the best life has to offer...Kent, Texasroper...we share the same birthday, it is a Gemini thing...
@bluemarvel5042
@bluemarvel5042 4 жыл бұрын
I am 9mins in and this video is already speaking to my heart and soul! THANK YOU THANK YOU FOR THIS. I am 26 and I needed this especially right now! Oh Mel, THANK YOU FOR THIS. You have no idea. 😢❤️
@kathyspeed9727
@kathyspeed9727 4 жыл бұрын
Right there with you girl
@retrodee4126
@retrodee4126 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 44 and single. Then again I have fears of dating and commitment from my abusing marriage that ended 18 years ago. Therapy has helped me a little bit. Then again I’m old school and wait for men to make the first move. I talk to random strangers. Mostly female, very little men. Complimenting them on whatever even what they’re wearing. If I see a pregnant woman it feels good to me to compliment them on their natural beauty.
@Moesie
@Moesie 3 жыл бұрын
Lol you ended up as the cat lady. sinle lady with 10s cats in her home
@retrodee4126
@retrodee4126 3 жыл бұрын
@@Moesie I have one cat
@luke2648
@luke2648 2 жыл бұрын
But if men do that they are sexist and creeps?…
@carol2girls
@carol2girls 4 жыл бұрын
#1 you don’t need a man in your life!!! Your a strong woman. Melissa , Remi is perfect. Congrats if you want to do something for Remi buy her a savings bond.
@thetroublewithtribbles
@thetroublewithtribbles 4 жыл бұрын
😂 wasirite or wasirite 😂 the psychic twins just called and invited me onboard 🤩🔮
@theflyguy5976
@theflyguy5976 3 жыл бұрын
How many good men have you rejected?
@whathappenedwas7083
@whathappenedwas7083 3 жыл бұрын
There are no good men or women , just got to find out how to unconditionally love ❤️ which we are not taught how to do.
@bambooforrests
@bambooforrests 3 жыл бұрын
I agree--a completely valid question. As a general rule, your dating pool is only as big as those people who are willing to date you. If you're rejecting everyone in your dating pool, then it is entirely your own fault that you're single. A coworker was distraught about her lack of dating options, and complained about how lonely she was, and how she couldn't figure out what she was doing wrong. I told her that she rejected all of the men that were willing to date her, and those men were her opportunities to be in a relationship with. She said that she didn't like those men, that they didn't meet her standards, and that she can't control what she is attracted to. I told her that she has the right to have standards, but that she obviously didn't meet the same standards as the men she wants to date, otherwise she wouldn't have so much trouble attracting those men.
@dianabuzzati163
@dianabuzzati163 3 жыл бұрын
are you aware that relationships end for many reasons and not just because a woman rejects a man? or are you so incel that you don't even know what it means to be in a relationship?
@Deroliebe
@Deroliebe 3 жыл бұрын
Are you aware that a “good man” is a subjective opinion? I’ve met plenty of men who think they’re good just because they don’t best a woman. The bar is set very low for y’all.
@bambooforrests
@bambooforrests 3 жыл бұрын
@@Deroliebe "The bar is set very low for y'all." Elaborate.
@dazzlingdee1694
@dazzlingdee1694 4 жыл бұрын
When I split from my ex I learned quickly that rushing into relationship after relationship wasn't a good thing, so I took a step back & thought about the things I wanted in a relationship & how I wanted to be treated. It took me awhile to figure everything out on my own, but the funny thing is I wasn't looking for a relationship when Mr. Right walked into my life. He still amazes me each day & yes we do argue, but not in the way some couples do. When either of us raises our voices the other does a hand's down gesture so the voice lowers. It's a simple thing, but it works & keeps tempers from escalating beyond reason. This year in October it will be officially our 18 yr anniversary. I did 18 yrs with my ex & it was a very abusive & explosive relationship to say the least. I can honestly say the past 20 years has been fantastic & I learned that when you AREN'T LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP is when it'll find you! 👍❤ Keep doing you & you'll see that when the time is right that your Mr. Right will walking into your life & sweep you off your feet. (((Hugs))) & prayers (& OMG baby Remi Sol Squiggles Trippy is gorgeous!) 💗
@marisarae766
@marisarae766 4 жыл бұрын
Yes THIS!
@Jude13able
@Jude13able 3 жыл бұрын
Ok I have to be straight up honest. There is no fun in being alone or lonely.... none. Who in there right mind wants to be alone/lonely? We are social beings we are created to feel and interact with each other. I'm in the process of getting divorced and currently separated. I tried this bullshit finding yourself by being alone it doesn't work. The best thing you can do is build your self confidence change/work on the bad things about yourself then find someone who will value you. The alternative is to live a sad boring lonely facade life as if everything is ok when it isn't. Oh yeah if you are a female over 30 and still unmarried or previously divorced maybe you need to do some personal self work and get brutality honest perspectives about yourself that aren't yours or your girlfriends.
@NM-ru2qj
@NM-ru2qj 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with this. Honestly I would hate to be older and single. Life is not fun when you are single, the problem is most of us don’t realize this until we actually do get older. It’s all fun and games until you reach a point in which you realize your friends who are all married now all have priorities - their spouses and their children COME FIRST. This limits the time they have to spend with you. Ever wonder why most married people only befriend other married folks? Because they have the same priorities as them and will understand their busy lifestyle. Your life changes when you have a kid, even when you get married but when you have a kid it will change tremendously . Your time is no longer your own and there’s nothing wrong with that as that is the natural course of life. Most people want and will have children. When you find that your friends no longer have time for you you will probably turn to your parents...who are getting older by the day and are longing for grandkids. Parents do die at some point and all parents want grandchildren. Your career is not going to give you fulfillment in life. When you die you’re not leaving behind your career or money you’re leaving behind children, that is your legacy. It makes you have purpose in life. Feminism brainwashed women and they are only waking up too late. My advice to younger women who are on this channel is not to make the same mistake as this lady. If you are in your early 20s as a woman recognize that time is on your side, take advantage of that fact. You can Juggle for your education and career at the same time while looking for a potential spouse. This is the best time to find someone. Your odds of getting married decrease every single year, as a female, this is just the reality of things. The sooner you not only realize this and act upon this realization , the better off you will be. I know too many girls who made this mistake and either married too late or never got married..they are regretting how they spent their youth. Spinsterhood is a curse that I wouldn’t want to wish on any female.
@Jude13able
@Jude13able 3 жыл бұрын
@@NM-ru2qj I hope more women read your comment than listen to this bad advice video.
@himanshusingh5214
@himanshusingh5214 3 жыл бұрын
@@NM-ru2qj You can befriend other single people when you are older. What's the problem?
@NM-ru2qj
@NM-ru2qj 3 жыл бұрын
@@himanshusingh5214most people aren’t single at an older age. And friendship isn’t the same as a relationship (obviously). Even with 100 friends of 1 friend if you are single you will still be missing something in your life and not genuinely 100% satisfied. Sorry.
@anushree07
@anushree07 3 жыл бұрын
I could relate with you girl.
@navygirl54
@navygirl54 4 жыл бұрын
Yup 34 single never had a bf.
@justina8143
@justina8143 4 жыл бұрын
You must be fat
@SixHundredAndSixtySix
@SixHundredAndSixtySix 4 жыл бұрын
@@justina8143 My thoughts exactly.
@dot1754
@dot1754 4 жыл бұрын
@@SixHundredAndSixtySix lol
@samuellema9222
@samuellema9222 3 жыл бұрын
@@justina8143 damn you guys cold
@averagecitizen863
@averagecitizen863 3 жыл бұрын
@@justina8143 actually there's a big market for that kind of women
@CD-ge7xg
@CD-ge7xg 3 жыл бұрын
You're freaking adorbs. Can relate. Also, dating is a dumpster fire.
@belle_nm
@belle_nm 3 жыл бұрын
I know how scary it is to face your fear but I gotten so much better! I like challenges! Make it fun you can overcome it !
@AleesatheIsraeli
@AleesatheIsraeli 4 жыл бұрын
Just came from seeing your niece Chars and Allies channel. Her cheeks tho.....see Char laying down on the couch with her you will die of cuteness. Your young so having your stuff straight your less apt to being codependent in a relationahip.
@Ika.Irete007
@Ika.Irete007 2 жыл бұрын
No guarantee anyone gets married especially with the brutal unfairness men go through if a divorce happens.
@davidbolha
@davidbolha 2 жыл бұрын
*Based.*
@brenlyndellosa9746
@brenlyndellosa9746 2 жыл бұрын
I just went into a bad breakup with my 7 year long term and first love. It's very difficult because I was so sure that he was the one. I just turned 28 and the pressure is a lot to find a new one since I'm almost 30. Also, I've been feeling lonely because it's the first time being alone in the very long period of time. I also just recently found out that my ex is now seeing someone new. It breaks my heart.
@keyshawnscott12
@keyshawnscott12 2 жыл бұрын
Take time for yourself learn to love yourself more he's not worth it love yourself queen more then anything
@davidbolha
@davidbolha 2 жыл бұрын
40 Katz in your future my crystal ball tells me. 🤔😆😅
@brenlyndellosa9746
@brenlyndellosa9746 2 жыл бұрын
@@davidbolha what does it mean?
@brenlyndellosa9746
@brenlyndellosa9746 2 жыл бұрын
@@keyshawnscott12 Thank you. I've been silently healing. Deleted all my social accounts and stopped watching videos about getting back with an ex.
@davidbolha
@davidbolha 2 жыл бұрын
@@brenlyndellosa9746 Meaning you have wasted your young fertile years in vain. Because your peak years are pretty much gone your options of finding somebody else have been greatly reduced too. 😑😕 You are also competing with rival ideologies that have gone from the underground into the mainstream in the last 10 years. Here I mean MGTOW & the Red Pilll which have been somewhat successful in removing men from the dating market. 🤔 Plus who iniated the breakup in the first place ? You or him ? I'm guessing it was you as the logics (on the basis of your outcome) dictate your reaction (remorse). You thought he wouldn't or couldn't get over you (but he did) which may imply a calculative (even manipulative) move on your part. If he broke up with you then it's too sensible that you are having feelings of autoreflection (what if questions etc.). 🙄
@mishawakapost2681
@mishawakapost2681 4 жыл бұрын
Mel ❤❤❤❤❤, fist bumps 👊👊👊👊👊, high fives/pats on the back ✋✋✋✋✋, extra thumbs up 👍👍👍👍👍 Finley ❤❤❤❤❤, treats and tummy rubs.
@ae4xo
@ae4xo 4 жыл бұрын
Your back and then your back and then your back and then your back
@martinjohn9904
@martinjohn9904 3 жыл бұрын
You seem very nice I hope it works out for you.
@chiefmodacs
@chiefmodacs 3 жыл бұрын
This is really hard for me to do but I really want to hear from this community. Is it sad or pathetic that I am in my late 30's and have never felt true love? Please give me honest responses. Don't worry, I can handle the criticism. Just want true responses and what better place than the anonymous internet
@FRANCESCA01234
@FRANCESCA01234 3 жыл бұрын
chiefmodacs its not pathetic at all. These things happen when they happen. Maybe in one year time you will meet the live of your life. Not everybody found true love, some people think they did and then they separate. That cant be true love. True love is rare and a blessing. Dont loose hope, it might be just around the corner ❤️💋
@randomdude2287
@randomdude2287 3 жыл бұрын
Are you a man or woman?
@Jude13able
@Jude13able 3 жыл бұрын
No it's not sad many never have true love. Marriage and relationships can really be a guessing game to find the right person.
@1966ricco
@1966ricco 4 жыл бұрын
I only have a single question that matters....are you a happy person if so the rest aint nuthin but a thang.
@ThrivolousZ
@ThrivolousZ 4 жыл бұрын
a) Congrats - you will / do make a great aunt. b) So you're tellin' us there's a chance! ;)
@gdumaguing
@gdumaguing 2 жыл бұрын
I feel totally fine being single...not even in a relationship...not even a kid..well, i have dogs? I'm totally okay with it. It's lonely..but im good with it. If i am meant to be single..im ok too. I agree too, i am not alone, but i am lonely. Especially this pandemic, i cant go out and travel... Meet friends. It is not necessarily mean a lover, but to just have someone...
@dragonflymagictarot1180
@dragonflymagictarot1180 3 жыл бұрын
You have the best arms two thumbs up
@iuliastrungariu8345
@iuliastrungariu8345 2 жыл бұрын
Call you..of course! I can't believe some girls can't stand being called before the date. Of course it's normal, you are gone meet anyway and it's important to act just normal. I'm sad just that this dating app era made normal things seem hard to get
@syafiqahsyazanar1814
@syafiqahsyazanar1814 2 жыл бұрын
Single and 30 is actually not so bad... If you have someone, well, that's good... If you don't, well, it's not our turn yet or it's a blessing in disguise. For me, single and living with parents is a bit hard as you don't alone time that much, you are not able to set your own rules and you are under the impression that you are dependent to your parents to some people. However, living alone even in just a small studio apartment with pets if you have pets is quite fun too... It's not about when you're alone, you can have parties and go out and go crazy... It's not that but it makes you have your own space and you can find your me time according to your own time and schedule. Furthermore, it makes you feel empowered that you are able to have your own personal space... From there, you can organize your own schedule... For me, it's not all bad... There's pros and cons to everything... Slow down, enjoy life and if it's meant to be, it will be... For now, let's take a breath and just try to achieve our goals step by step...
@shadyabrown-hall5955
@shadyabrown-hall5955 4 жыл бұрын
Being a single woman in your 30's isn't a bad thing. It's a blessing. I am just like the girl in this video. I enjoy my alone time and when I go home after work I enjoy going home to peace and quiet. Since my ex brokeup with me three years ago I've been focusing on getting myself together with my walk with God. My job. My driving and the take the opportunity to just get up and go where I want to take the world by storm. Yes! I desire marriage but, I'm not desperate. If that where true than I would of ended up with one of my ex's or the guys who came after them. So society stop telling us ladies that, "you need a man!" No!!!!! We need time. We need opportunity. We need space. We need food. Water and shelter. Those are all needs A man is just extra. Marriage is a wonderful thing but, it's not everything. This who saying, " your clock is ticking." "Your eggs are dying." It's all garbage and lies. And, no one dies an old maid. Don't let the old folks brainwash you. But, if you do get into a relationship and your happy that's great but, don't forget to stay true to yourself and don't loss yourself in a person.
@jeremys4461
@jeremys4461 4 жыл бұрын
Single and intend to stay that way. Would love to find a wife, but can't find that traditional one that won't divorce me to get alimony and my retirement, because she's so "independent".
@TheHelpmeetJourney
@TheHelpmeetJourney 4 жыл бұрын
😔👍
@dannydanny9875
@dannydanny9875 4 жыл бұрын
Mel!
@leesa3579
@leesa3579 4 жыл бұрын
There is nothing wrong being single I've been single for 35 years I'm cool with it
@yousefalkhudair4420
@yousefalkhudair4420 4 жыл бұрын
Good luck
@lastnamepinto7568
@lastnamepinto7568 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao...are you? 🤔
@ashleycroydon9743
@ashleycroydon9743 4 жыл бұрын
True I’ve been in few relationships and I’m done. I’ve had my father phase as an uncle helping raise 7 diff nephews and nieces bathing feeding changing and etc. I’m 30 and don’t feel like kids or a partner and I’m happy 👍💯
@mryoso22
@mryoso22 4 жыл бұрын
you aint foolin nobody
@dot1754
@dot1754 4 жыл бұрын
@@mryoso22 lol
@hunter-fs2gq
@hunter-fs2gq 3 жыл бұрын
Being 30 is hard it really is I have a lot of depression
@belle_nm
@belle_nm 3 жыл бұрын
Things doesn’t go the way you want that what I learn
@EnoI539
@EnoI539 3 жыл бұрын
You just wasted your time in your 20s so that's your falt.
@cheeseblock89
@cheeseblock89 2 жыл бұрын
i just got out of a 4 year relationship. Im 32. i really thought he loved me. Also as far as most other guys i have dated in the past, and maybe its just who i was choosing. but once you sleep with them no matter how long i waited. They were outies. So it will be very very very hard for me to build trust with anyone again.
@cheeseblock89
@cheeseblock89 2 жыл бұрын
@Dannie Tee they were done with me
@NiceNice-dt8sy
@NiceNice-dt8sy 2 жыл бұрын
Same here, just got out of a 4-yr relationshit and im about to turn 32. I'm lost and I think it'll be hard for me to trust again.
@davidbolha
@davidbolha 2 жыл бұрын
Telegony/Microchimerism is detrimental. 😶😑😌
@abbas22mohammed
@abbas22mohammed Жыл бұрын
@@NiceNice-dt8sy can I talk to you
@jaak8487
@jaak8487 3 жыл бұрын
bruh this girl just need a hug... deep down alot of relationship regrets
@whathappenedwas7083
@whathappenedwas7083 3 жыл бұрын
Curious why you are watching this , do you have no regrets ? Do you see yourself as better? Do you secretly need her perspective to reaffirm any biases already held? Just wondering
@JasonK1982
@JasonK1982 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Gorgeous. You look adorable holding your niece. I’m so happy for y’all. Remi is adorable. Love ya lots
@zg3671
@zg3671 2 жыл бұрын
I wish dating was more optimized and streamlined. It currently sucks.
@asadmalik2464
@asadmalik2464 Жыл бұрын
The wall owns you!
@cosmicpowerchannel7926
@cosmicpowerchannel7926 2 жыл бұрын
God bless 🙌you forever love 💘you forever
@TheKetoishQueen
@TheKetoishQueen 3 жыл бұрын
30 and single 💟
@PlumeMarqueur
@PlumeMarqueur 3 жыл бұрын
I’m about to be 33. I haven’t been in a relationship for 6 years. There been guys I liked that I talked to in between that time that turned out to be the worst. Most of them were in relationships and lied to me and the others just didn’t want to be in a relationship so I parted my ways. Now I’m still singles and find that idk.. maybe I won’t ever meet someone and I’m at the point to just give up. I am lonely most of the times and it’s heartbreaking that I’m thinking that the possibility of me having my own family isn’t what God wants for me. I tired dating apps and find that I’m not matching with anyone I am interested in. Or I match with guys but they never messaged me so I end up unmatching them or they say hey, but it never goes nowhere. I’m just frustrated. It’s really sad. I know that I’m not ugly. I’m fun, I respect myself and other. I’m creative, I work hard. But it’s like no one likes me. Idk what I’m doing wrong. I really don’t know. I know how to have a conversation but yeah I don’t know. People always say, their surprise when I say I’m not married or have kids or even in a relationship.. I’m surprised too. The last relationship I been in was back in 2015. That’s horrible
@whysoseriousiamnot9772
@whysoseriousiamnot9772 3 жыл бұрын
Hey a guy speaking, a redpilled one. Look, if you don’t find someone maybe there are things you can do to get yourself more in a position to be a suitable mate. Gym, enhance your feminity, or any skills that can add up to a man’s life, like cooking etc. That can make up for other area where you may come short of arguments.
@whysoseriousiamnot9772
@whysoseriousiamnot9772 3 жыл бұрын
Anyway good luck 👍
@highbaws
@highbaws 3 жыл бұрын
@@whysoseriousiamnot9772 lmao "other areas where you may come short of arguments" chill out dude
@whysoseriousiamnot9772
@whysoseriousiamnot9772 3 жыл бұрын
@@highbaws English is not my first language that’s why it sounds weird l’essentiel c’est qu’elle comprenne le fond de mon message
@highbaws
@highbaws 3 жыл бұрын
@@whysoseriousiamnot9772 dacc
@Arizona_lilly
@Arizona_lilly 2 жыл бұрын
Awww puppy
@loladance67
@loladance67 4 жыл бұрын
Remi is beautiful and I agree that it is different being an Aunt to a blood relative 💖
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