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It’s a bad deal. Men without kids shouldn’t get emotionally involved with single mothers. Same goes for women without kids.

I don't want no baby mommy. Period.

Many of these ladies fell for the Pookie and Ray Ray dude, ignoring the good brother, he was lame according to these same ladies. Now years later after that troublesome dude has done everything to them, used them, abused them, played them and the list goes on then they want to settle with the men they used to call lame.. A womans respect and reputation depends on who she has been with, nobody want to deal with a Pookie and Ray Ray left over.

Being a Gen Xer with no kids, marrying a single mother never entered my mind.

They can only blame themselves with their own actions and behaviors of ruining the step daddy market 🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️

"Man, you can't tell me what to do. You're not my father." 😂😂💯

Don’t forget that other saying that women used to say, “We come as a total package so you want me you gotta want my kids.” That don’t work anymore these days either.

A bitter single mom sent her new baby daddy down stairs to "deal with" her old baby daddy who was my friend. Dude stabbed my friend to death and the bitter baby mom tried to get dude off on a self defense charge. Saying my friend was the aggressor when all he wanted to do was see his kids

Worst things ever is a men with no kids raising another men kid.

Single mothers aren’t traditional or they wouldn’t be single mothers, unless she is a widow

I know I definitely don't. I don't believe in taking care of another man's child. My parents didn't raise me that way

My grandmother once said the problem women with a lot of kids by different men it’s the multiple personalities clashing with each other! When the kids argue and fight they’ll talk about each other’s daddies! She also said, women who have kids by a lot of men were not wrapped too tight! Today, we call them TOXIC!

I don't care how many children she has, I want nothing to do with single mothers.

If she's a Single Mother Run For Your Life 🏃🏿‍♂️💨💨💨💨

I’m a 18 year old black female and growing up I seen some of my cousins get pregnant young, me? I was more lonesome because I preferred being by myself, never dated, never had sex, until I turned 18 I was finishing nursing school and had this guy I was talking to, he seemed so good, so sweet, until one day we got into the mood and I thought wait are we even dating he said “whatever you want” I was like “no I feel like you’re only into me for sex” he was like “you see I knew you were going to hard to get” im like “as in sex” he said “yea” I was like okay cool take me home we are done” next day didn’t hear back from him and I was like yk what I’m glad I’m still a virgin because I value myself more then I value a guy who’s not ready.

Single men with no kids, with single mothers, is like missing the party, but they want you to help "clean up."

They gave their best years to the worst men like pookie and ray ray. Then when the baby is born then they want to look you up on social media after years of friend zoning you as if you are actually going to wait on them. Hell no ! Take your baby and your wide back extra post baby lbs back to the streets. I got my passport

Step daddy season is over 😂🤷‍♂️🤣. Guys are not playing that game anymore....for the most part

I got ZERO time for those problems. Straight problems out the gate.

Some single mothers are extremely lucky that get wifed up by a childless man

I would NEVER date a single father. I would NEVER date a divorcé. I dont want his chaos, his liabilities, and the drama in his life. NO THANK YOU.

Don't swim where other men have drowned

A lot of times, creeping in late at night after the kids go to sleep is about all you can do with a single mother, if you want to have some one-on-one adult time with them with no kids interrupting or without having to take her and all her kids on a "date" to Chuck E. Cheese. Also, single mothers are usually the easiest women to sleep with because most are so desperate for male attention since their children keep most men far, far away.

They did it to themselves bruh. Hell it might be a brother outchea who would date/marry a woman with multiple kids. Just not me.

From the age of 18 to 30 years old women literally have a head start in life vs men and they use up their best years traveling, having fun, and making bad decisions that results in trauma and kids by men they realize wasn’t the right choice long term. 😅 oh well I just turned 35. Women say their done playing games. I just got started 😆🔥

Don't want a single mother at any term period

Marrying a single mother is like deciding to be the fool that's dumb enough to actually decide to purchase a 🚘Rent-A-Car that's been dogged out by dozens of dudes, knowmatter what you do, you can never roll back the thousands of miles that she's put on living her 🔥 hot girl life.

Why would a guy want pay for a mess he didn't create. Single mother is another word for debt. Expenses that he didn't even get to have fun generating. It's an investment that has very low probability of any real return. Saving women is not a good activity for men to engage in.

Firstly it's nasty🤢🤮 other men have been shooting up the club and you go right in behind him. Thats basically polygamy. You're basically in a relationship with a child's father and his woman. Secondly, you're not respected or appreciated. Thirdly it's emotionally difficult and could be physically dangerous. It's a hard pass for me.

I remembered back in 2018-19 i was dating a S.M for 2 years just to tell me that she didn't want me anymore, lol the nerve of her when i provided for her and her son (plus she wasn't all that good lookin), well after we broke up the following summer i landed my apartment car and CDL class A driving job, now in 2023 i have a son of my own with a beautiful woman inside & out, with a stable job Herself.

1:25 _"It takes a real man to take care of a woman"_ Only Mr. Simp Harvey would say that

I feel like many single moms don't really respect the stepfather, so the kids mimic the same energy the mother has. Kids disrespecting the stepfather drive alot of men away.

These single mothers have "standards" higher than childless women. And the solution is right in their face but their egos wont allow it. Theyre in a position now where theyre going to have to "settle". Same with the ran through post wall chicks. The same way every man doesn't get his top of the litter pick the same goes for women. But see thats going to require them to humble themselves, and you know how that goes....

Don't no man wanna deal with a bunch of MOUF from the mama & Bad @ss kids or DRAMA from a deadbeat non-active baby daddy❗

It’s an incomplete statement: the men that they want. Chad & Tyrone. The guy that would take them and their kids on: they don’t want those. Single moms are a bridge to a very complicated relationship where you as a man are deadlast on her list of priorities. While she has to be on top of yours. It’s just not worth the effort and “modern man” realize this. I’m a dad of 1 & I don’t even look at single moms. There are plenty of women without all that baggage out there.

I wish single mothers would just commit to dating single fathers. Why are you trying to ruin our lives with your chaotic lives. Leave us childless people alone, for the love of all that is holy!

Nobody wants to take care of another man’s kids unless he has no better options. Go get back with your bd. No one told you to lay down and have multiple kids by maybe multiple men. That’s the decision you made so accept the fact that you might only be worth a smash and dash. Being a step father is a dummy mission

Ladies very few men want to take the responsibility for another man's kids. These guys now see you as sex period. That BS gaslighting doesn't work today.

I'm a GenX. I have NEVER Dated a Single Mom. I Always Knew Better......

Too much liability with marrying a woman with kids. You can be financially responsible for kids accordingly to the court system. There is no reward in being a step-dad.

Of course most men don't want to date single mother. Most men don't have kids themselves. He's not trying to take care of another man's children. He's not trying to deal with a "You ain't my daddy" child. He isn't obligated to take on a woman that already has a family. He doesn't want the headache.

And she's the only one surprised??? 🤣🤣🤣

Yo phil please do not stop doing the plane engine sound lol. I was just waiting for it lol.

Single mothers are done

No man wants a instant family we will make our own.

I'm Not black mysef but the amount of women I've seen shame men into raising their bastard children under the guise of "community" "mentorship" and that "it takes a village to raise a child" .........Women need to take responsibility and accountability and stop sleeping with the type men who they they wouldn't want mentoring their kids

The bank is closed.

It's MILF not MILM for a reason.

We finally waking up thank god never go back to putting these woman on a pedestal let them lay in the bed they made

Maybe they should give custody to the dads, if that's an option anyway.

How do men benefit from being a step father?

Drink in hand, tats, sunshades, deep voice, overbearing impressions... And she can't even see it...

i refuse to date a woman with kids! women be saying them and they kids are a package deal lmao yea u a package deal alright that's gon remain on the market for a sucker! aint no way i am gonna take care of someone else's responsibilities plus who knows what kind of drama and history that comes with all that!

PROVERBS 21:19 IT IS BETTER TO DWELL IN THE WILDERNESS,THAN WITH A CONTENTIOUS AND ANGRY WOMAN.

Recreational use only if not avoid at all costs.

Raising another man's kids its a no no for me, i love myself too much.

Gotta be fly, she gotta be 100% cooperative. It's too much possible baggage that come along with baby mommas. Gotta worry about if the baby daddy got some simpin in his heart so you don't know what dude is capable of doing. Then not being able to discipline the child. 😩😫😮‍💨

He ended it so very well with, "your gonna end up marrying yourself if you keep on... "

These new era chicks will book you for a death match and then take the stand for her baby daddy… let them be of hunger and stay focus brother..

Don't feel sorry for them. They made their bed now they gotta lay in it.

"that wasn't a high five" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

A male lion, king of the jungle, kills any cubs that are not his, then he mates with the lioness. You can't (and shouldn't) kill the little ones so stay away from single baby-mommas.

That airplane noise always have me laughing keep up the good work phil lol 😂

I DID.. after my several experiences. I've learned that S.M. often unable to heal from trauma and unhabor resentment. A woman is unable to be a full nurturing mother . S.m. have to be nurturing as well as the provider, which is not a healthy mix. If you're around children all the time, you become built for children like Tendencies.

Answer is because we see what these women are about these days

I wouldn't even do one child no kids period I'm good

They need to date men with Kids

I refuse to date a woman with kids unless the kids are grown and out of the house. But even that's doubtful

I saw how my mother made my step father cry I will never be that Man

More than likely, Single Mothers tend to be bad Long Term Partners. Because, they're usually tied to or unapolagically desire the types of Men that are not interested in Long Term Relationships. So, many Single Mothers end up being Bad Investments for the Men that are willing to entertain Single Mothers and their individual Situation-ships. Bad Single Mothers are a Good Single Mother's worst enemy in relationships. And every time a Bad Single Mother does a Good Man Bad; 200 Good Single Mothers lose the opportunity to be chosen. Facts on commentary.

Well, I'm a woman that doesn't have any children, my man doesn't either. We both lucked up...

Being a step father is a thankless job there’s a lot of attractive single mothers out there though but I’m good on dealing with all that baggage and trauma.

Babymammas are a no-no, period !

It is best for a single mother to get with a single father.

PROVERBS 9:13 A FOOLISH WOMAN IS SIMPLE AND KNOWETH NOTHING.

It's gotten so bad now that even if the woman has grown children they are still not datable because of the grandchildren being around and their failure to launch children

Well for one,they continue to listen to any certain types of people,They have a problem controlling their children,They don't want the man to discipline their children,even though the man/men are buying them the thing's they need,etc.

Keep ‘em coming Philly

1 child is one too many for me from another man. The best sex partner I ever had was a single mom on and off 2 years. We literally went out one time to meet in a restaurant then it was on 😈 We went running and biking outside of that it was great sex at my place or her place. She has a PhD was living with her mom. I'm not trying to pull her out of that struggle for over a decade with her young kids. I was certainly there to fall in the 😺 😊 Single moms y'all do it to yourself. You have no business getting pregnant by someone you don't want to spend 18+ years if not the rest of your life with. No excuses. Any excuse a single mom gives remember that is the individual that is going to be in charge if something bad happens to y'all, her kids, your kids, you're in a comma. This individual has already proven they don't make good like decisions. Always a hard pass outside of sex. Single moms don't want you raising their kids. They will take your resources though. Single moms chose the struggle life and I respect their FREEDOM to do so. I have enough struggles being black.

marrying a woman with multiple children is like buying a lemon car.

In my experience, the reason I don't want anything to do with them had nothing to do with their kid and everything to do with their character as a person. Me and the kids were cooler than a fan.

I understand. I feel the same way towards men with kids. I will never ever date another man who has kids. Keep that stress and disrespect to yourself so I completely agree with these men for not wanting to deal with the blatant disrespect. People want you to help them take care of a child but won't require that child to respect you. That's a hard no and unrealistic request. You might need to tell these baby daddies the same thing Phillip because if they have kids they definitely can't talk about a single mother 🤸🏾‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️✌🏾😊 cause some of these men have baby mamas but want you because you don't have kids. Go away 😊

I've been there when I was younger, in a relationship with a woman with four kids, it lasted for about a year and a half then i split, i seen the future of that and wasn't with it.

Dang right. Zero appreciation - zero respect - zero honor. ALL TROUBLE - ALL PROBLEMS. Been there and done that. Got divorce roped. No - DON'T

... and I stopped calling them queens

Funny enough it's rarely about the kids. It's the emotional damage and attitude many single mothers bring to the table that scare men away. They seemingly take out all their frustrations about the men that left them on what ever man is dating them right now.

At least I tell them up front, hey your cool, we can kick it or whatever, but I am not a stepdaddy, situationship is the best I can do. sometimes they are cool with it, sometimes they tell me to step off, I feel good about not lying to them either way.

I am not responsible for taking care of someone else's mistakes.

I learned my lesson many years ago about dealing with women with children I don't ever want to deal with that again I don't want to deal with the disrespect from her children I don't want to deal with the disrespect from the fathers of those children it's a world of trouble

ZTT - Zoom To Thailand!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

🗣*Ball of Confusion* dating (SOME) of these *single women drama/ready-made-family *😟.

Im a single mom and honestly I don’t want a man in my house. My kids and I love the peace in our home. I don’t invite men over and I will not be letting any man move in, at all!!!!! Guys hit on me and we never get pass the talking stage because I don’t bring men to my house and Im not going to theirs😂😂😂😂 And im very happy with this boundary. I’m abstinent from s3x so I dont have to worry about a fluctuating PH balance😂 🤷🏽‍♀️ I guess I’ll start collecting cats

Thank U!!! Bro...Blessings 2 U keep it coming Bro...

Everything he said in this video word for word was 100% all facts

Don't want to get shot by someone's Ex.😮

You're right bro,thank you for letting them know.

I can’t believe you still have to explain simple things like this. It’s so obvious why a man doesn’t want a single mother.

Problem is a lot of people seen how their mother treated their stepdad and said that will never happen to them. A lot of these women treated stepdads of the past like crap and the kids seem it.

I went out with a woman that had 4 kids by 4 different men. I would never recommend my son to date a woman with kids. I prefer my son to create his own family and not go into a ready made family. I found to much drama from baby father's , very expensive and a lack of respect from the children once they get older. If the woman is a professional and in a good job, no problem but if she is on a low income or welfare. I would tell my son to stay far away.