Brief Summary: - Being focused is better than being busy - You do not have to rush
@shawna_mills84145 жыл бұрын
Did u rush through the video?
@stalinmatos32965 жыл бұрын
So true, cuz wen ur focused u do almost everything right but when you're busy, u do very little correctly out of all the busy work you do.
@lovingdiscernment42344 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@springbloom59404 жыл бұрын
Slow is smooth, smooth is fast
@gardopfuat4 жыл бұрын
@@shawna_mills8414 Good call :) I actually tend to watch videos x1.5 to 2 speed
@g.a.c.41394 жыл бұрын
One person below commented: "I thought this was going to be about driving". Little did he realize...it is. I drive an unrestored 90 year old pickup truck. It doesn't go real fast. I must plan every turn, and every stop, and every other maneuver. I do drive the speed limit, but usually I drive a little bit slower. I've seen plenty of fingers and angry people. I see them often...the same drivers...at each stop light...for many miles. They get so frustrated that we are at the traffic light together, again, or that I sometimes pass them up, again. Planning my (driving) work gets me to the same goal as most of the other drivers, but I do it at a more relaxed pace, and I save more fuel, and I don't need brake jobs as often. You see, it is about driving..and the driving is an analogy for how we move forward though life. Thanks for presenting this great talk. I'm in.
@omnirealtyassoc2 жыл бұрын
I see what you did there.
@shootdang86184 ай бұрын
You gonna do one of these ted talks soon brother?
@codishaa Жыл бұрын
"We admire people who are busy" phew! Aint that the truth. It's so vital to slow down. I love this message.
@justinspykerman2 жыл бұрын
In the first job I ever had, my boss gave me some great advice; Work smart, Not hard. The greatest advice I've ever had, I just wish I listened to her.
@JohnAckerman9311 ай бұрын
I have had a speech impediment ever since I was little. I went through speech therapy for many years when I was in school. The problem is I never absorbed any of the techniques I was taught. Lately my speech has been really bad, and watching this video helped me understand that I don’t have to talk super fast, and focus on what I want to say instead of focusing on something else.
@breakmanradio25304 жыл бұрын
As someone with ADHD, this is life-changing advice. I watched Kimi Werner's video about slowing down first. I highly recommend watching her TEDTalk about slowing down as well. It's very inspiring. But wow, yeah, slow down. Think about what you're doing. Take time between tasks to sit down and think about whether you're attending to your priorities. Think about how you will do the task. That takes 2-3 minutes.
@TonOfHam4 жыл бұрын
The real lesson for me here was that your kids are magical and your only job as parents is to cultivate and provide a consistent structure for their growth, and follow the lead of the ones you love!
@dadaTunes4 жыл бұрын
I watched this in 1.5x speed. I need help. 😔
@JGMeyz4 жыл бұрын
That's actually really funny. You gave yourself time to sit back and laugh about it afterwards ; )
@marcelosilveira70793 жыл бұрын
@@JGMeyz he is speaking at 118 words per minute. That's more on the slow side. Spending to 1.25 faster will get to 148 words per minute. Which seems to be a more suitable speed
@whiteangel9772 жыл бұрын
Lol same
@lizapulsifer2 жыл бұрын
Ironic
@notagain37322 жыл бұрын
You might just be better st learning so dont feel bad , looking at ststistics you will find some people can listen better to fast talkers and that is impressive
@unlokia5 жыл бұрын
In a PC, a processor which is ALWAYS busy, makes for a SLOWWWWWW computer.
@yoursubconscious2 жыл бұрын
well put 🤔
@yoursubconscious2 жыл бұрын
well put 🤔
@AA-wr5zj4 жыл бұрын
There is a good book on this concept: Speed: Facing Our Addiction to Fast and Faster--And Overcoming Our Fear of Slowing Down Paperback by Brown Ph.D, Stephanie (Author)
@ValEdgina2 жыл бұрын
Amazing talk. More people should watch this!
@DanielOliveira-cs6be2 жыл бұрын
This was inspiring, and it's great to see others who also agree it's important to not feel constantly sucked in to the growing demands of society.
@devgarg57592 жыл бұрын
Not a blah blah, But he said things practically, Loved it
@maandagmeditatie2 жыл бұрын
Taking a break is the post productive thing you can do on a busy day.
@teresaeasler99486 жыл бұрын
Loved this speech! What a great talk.
@Iamtrejack2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate his humor 😆
@CyberRings-NEET2 жыл бұрын
Loved this, thank you so much Ralph - true reminders for the times and so on 🤞
@ytchannel-howtooutgrowstutteri Жыл бұрын
Great video! I agree with the video that slowing down speech could help outgrow stuttering. The positive effect is that speaking slower makes you feel more comfortable, whereas other people who speak slower have more time to double down on doubt to say a feared letter which means that 'confidence that you can move articulators during a speech block' helps in outgrowing stuttering
@teddymills1 Жыл бұрын
I used to run everyday at warp speed. I used to think if Warp 4 is good then I can do twice as much at Warp 8. Its only when I slowed down to Impulse Drive that I started to make better progress. Its amazing the difference.
@EnjoyingLife20245 ай бұрын
I had a mentor who advised me to always slow down when faced with an important decision or when taking on a new role in an unfamiliar environment or when in a tense-filled exchange. Rushing forward in every situation is not always wise. Quieting the tongue and opening up the ears makes decision making easier when I intentionally slow down. Unfortunately, I can't handle driving slowly. I have a need for speed when I'm in a car. 😎
@manifestandohoy921411 ай бұрын
Hahaha I love your mood and very smart information taught. Thanks. Learning having fun is the best!
@shawnward65156 жыл бұрын
Ralph, thanks for this insightful presentation, I really love the idea of creating a "space for grace!" great job!!
@alexsveta5403 Жыл бұрын
A very nice speech!! Thanks for being brave enough to show up and talk :)
@sharayutravels3 жыл бұрын
Great talk with simple logical examples
@jamesrgerice12223 жыл бұрын
…intentional desire to receive grace 😇
@anandramanathan94164 жыл бұрын
Great one. Thank you very much
@sujeetsingh4365 жыл бұрын
Awesome idea !!! Thanks for sharing with us
@slinkon063 Жыл бұрын
Very informative. Thanks a lot.
@yoursubconscious2 жыл бұрын
this was a good simple reminder.
@NargeseMast4 жыл бұрын
That was amazing👌🏿
@Practiceofthepractice5 жыл бұрын
Yes, this is vitally important. Thank you for sharing!
@lifeisbeautiful70473 жыл бұрын
Thanks I needed it
@CoolGirl0072 жыл бұрын
Got to be bless for slowing down and it feels good really but maybe getting lazy
@thorified79044 жыл бұрын
Space for grace
@yeswecanyzone64824 жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT SOLUTE SHOWN
@voice_of_zameel9 ай бұрын
Go slow avoid danger 🤍
@anthonyvasquez11126 жыл бұрын
Awesome message!
@gripzip4 жыл бұрын
Alright lets get this thing cookin
@Vegan_scorpioo3 жыл бұрын
omg can i say this is what i need now?!
@anyazayamusic2 жыл бұрын
Does anyone else think that issue of rest is not the issue of not prioritizing it but stems from LACK OF RESOURCES to afford it? 😂
@plutoplatters Жыл бұрын
We have 1,000 types of Tums /antacids today along with everything else ! And we wonder why we're going nuts !
@user-st9rx8ml1s4 жыл бұрын
The guy: replace the B word with the F word. My brain: "Fusy? That doesn't make sense" *3 seconds later* The guy: good thing my mother is not here in the audience. Me: Oh so Fusy is a slang word? Hmm never heard of it.
@011shashank3 жыл бұрын
Don't disconnect from technology once you become peaceful you can use it very well your natural intelligence work according :)
@KIPlayboy76072 жыл бұрын
Accidentally clicked on this then I closed it immediately. For some reason I said I’ll watch it just to see if it was a ( beautiful mistake) -- focused replaces busy- 🤔 ok , you’ve peaked my interest I’ll be back
@KIPlayboy76072 жыл бұрын
Saved to watch later,, seriously
@annisabaksh45333 жыл бұрын
I am often told at work, i keep moving fast and need to slow downnn
@mturkdeniz3 жыл бұрын
Turtle are live long just because slow life , fast life is game of our century, life is to short we need slow down for find ourself
@plutoplatters Жыл бұрын
We're very unaware of how we constantly "add on " . Think of all the things that pissed you off this year. Now realize those didn't even exist in 1920...
@lnp3943 Жыл бұрын
Me watching this in 1.5x speed...and realising *oh the irony*
@monkeymoney7830 Жыл бұрын
Proper reading would say the 613 commandments reveal the kingdom of heaven which Jesus came preaching.Grace was the last train at the station to get you there not a vehicle of abrogation
@chaibapat3 жыл бұрын
Breath Slower = Pranayama ( indian vedic culture), Eat slower = Greetings we give to the person who is having food ( again age old)
@djdcoy4 жыл бұрын
honestly thought this was going to be about driving techniques.
@g.a.c.41394 жыл бұрын
At 13:40 You show your 'List of Intentions'. I noticed that the list isn't really tangible, so there is nothing to measure success by, other than an overall 'feeling'. Was it your intention to remain somewhat ambiguous on this list? I'm very familiar with ISO regulations in industry, and one of the main goals of ISO-9000 to is plan your work (this is in line with your teachings), and to have tangible goals so that achievements can be quantified and measured. This is my background, and I apologize if it seems to contradict part of your program (which, by the way, was fantastic and enjoyable. I'm in).
@TubeScavenger5 жыл бұрын
I watched this video at 1.5 speed.
@stephengreico28105 жыл бұрын
TubeScavenger lol
@brandonthegoat121 Жыл бұрын
Preworkout is my speed I’m going to quit it
@AA-wr5zj4 жыл бұрын
Somebody, please type a text reply, the point which I am not clear about the incident he mentioned. He went for watching sports(game) to the stadium. Watched sport for some time and decided to return and Started early. By luck, he got a chance to meet the celebrity and collect an autograph. What are the relation with Slowing down and this incident? It is pure luck, right? Can somebody please clarify??
@AA-wr5zj4 жыл бұрын
@@josephpchajek2685 thank you
@chriswhited4 жыл бұрын
it's not the power of pause...........it's about the power of perspective.
@johnlombardo78164 жыл бұрын
Synchronicity is amazing huh. Great book series and movie celestine prophecy if you want to see this In action! By james redfield
@HermionaHonor10 ай бұрын
Just tolk..
@janedoe092 жыл бұрын
I'm so slowed down I've done nothing today except watch utube, eat, feed my cat and some knitting...I need to learn how to Move when I don't feel like moving.
@azamahmadian21234 жыл бұрын
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@swamivivekananda-cyclonicm87812 жыл бұрын
Then corona came which slowed down everything.
@GlynTaylor Жыл бұрын
no. It was coincidence. ffs
@Savant_oran3 жыл бұрын
Third world philosophy
@heshamsaleh74466 ай бұрын
After ten and a half minutes there will be no benefit to watch