Also Cristal: Please don’t ever feel like because you’re an influencer you have to speak out about anything. IT IS YOUR LIFE. We don’t have to know about anything personal take the time you need to heal. We care more about you than a serious situation (we want you to be comfortable) don’t feel rushed to do these things. Don’t let the fans get to you. I

It makes me so sad that someone would break into their home especially knowing Niko wasn't there. I hope it wasn't a fan! You guys are in my prayers that you can heal from this terrible traumatic experience. Sending much love to the Valdez family especially Cristal and their beautiful babies. You are so strong to go through this and share your story ❤

Praying for you CHAMILY! My heart goes out to y’all♥️

People who are watch this in 2024

There’s something about this family that makes me happy and this upsets me to know that there are people who watch with different intentions !! I hope all the 4 of you are safe and happy we are all there for you’ll ❤️ and lots lots of love for you’ll 💕

I’m so glad y’all are safe. Yes that’s true robbers wouldn’t pick a house in a gated community when there’s other houses around it. Robbers also wouldn’t come to your house that late at night. Robbers try to avoid owners of houses. I’m so sorry that this horrible person had the evil, evil intentions they did. Thank the Lord you guys are safe now. I hope you find a house that you feel safe and happy in Cristal. Lots of love coming your way. 💗💗

My home was broken into also about a year ago and I’m still not over it AT ALL!! It’s such a violated feeling!! I’m so glad that you and the kids are ok. Keeping y’all in my prayers always.

Hey Chamily guys After listening to the incident that happened with you guys i would like to suggest to not to update about your daily schedules or whereabouts on any social media platforms, I consider it highly dangerous, sorry for being so skeptical but that's what I do in our personal life, especially Never-Ever Tag your locations unless you have really moved out from there. Stay safe you guys☮️🇮🇳🙏Thank Goodness everyone is safe🙌Bless you 🙌

I hope you guys are all ok and safe... Keep your babies close to you at all times❤❤❤

I live alone. I didn’t have an alarm system. 3 people broke into my home and took a lot of my processions. I’m so grateful I wasn’t home. It was so scary! The thought of strangers in my home and going through my things was such a violation. Since then I’ve put in an alarm system and I’m much more cautious and aware of my surroundings. I understand how you feel!! You will get past it and you’ll take what you’ve learned from this experience and be more cautious. Best wishes to you all ❤️🙏🏻

I’m so sorry! Omg the stress and fear that comes from that is insane and I know how you feel as my family has experienced such horror like this except we didn’t have any alarm systems. It’s hard to feel ok to leave your kids in another room but may the Lord give you peace and may the burglar be caught. Shame on that robber.. take care ❤️

Im so sorry that you had to go through this Crystal. I had a similar situation and it took me awhile to feel safe anywhere. You are aloud to be feel scared and worry about things and cry cause this took your sense of security away. I hope with your new security system that you feel a little safe in your home. Love you guys. Stay safe. ❤💯❤💯

Thank you for sharing Cristal. That was sooo courageous of you to do. I know how traumatic it is to be violated as I too had been violated at a really young age. It will take time and good counseling to get past it all. One thing I did for myself was take active self protection classes. It has helped me to be more aware of my surroundings and has helped build my confidence. Praying God's hedge of protection to continue to be around The Can Fam💕🙏🏽

I admire your bravery, Cristal! Hoping for your safety and security at all times. I hope you guys can find a house that would finally make you feel safe, secured and comfortable withour worries.

Be vigilant and always double check the doors and windows before going to sleep. Above all keep on praying for protection. There's a lot of crimes going on in America now, they don't choose their victims. Scary. This is truly traumatic. God bless your family.

Praying 🙏🏼 for you guys, and sending hugs to you all as well! Take care & God Bless 💛

It makes me cry to listen to her saying all of this. And we all appreciate that you let your heart out and shared this with us. Cristal, you're really very strong and your family puts us to smile. You all stay safe and happy, always! ❤

I wish I could Cristal a hug It's such a traumatic experience I hope you all be safe and continue to be safe! Sending lots of love and prayers

You guys are very brave discussing this. Cristal, I'm sure you've been told that you are suffering from stress related to the robbery. You're doing the right thing confronting this head on. In todays world alarms are absolutely needed. It's good to move to a safer house. Your babies are of paramount importance. I'm from South Africa and we live with this. Take your time to get well. As much time as you need. God keep you all and bless you.🙏🕊🌹💞

Crystal I am so sorry you went through that. I pray that you, Niko, Abella. and Neo find your forever home where you will be able to love and feel safe. Praying for you guys.❤❤❤❤

I am so glad you, your Mom and the babies are safe, Cristal. I am sending so much love and prayers to your family to lift you up. 🙏

I feel you Crystal. I'm living in a sketchy community. Twice I woke up with a burglar in my face. Your body will adjust on times like this. Before I slept deep now I develop insomnia and have troubled sleeping. It's hard really. So be safe yall. Wish I have a cure. But no. I always feel unsafe.

Thank you for sharing this love I pray for healing for you your family. I can’t imagine how horrific and terrified this experience been for you. It’s so heartbreaking knowing how often this is happening to our neighbors. My car got broken into in LA and it was parked in a gated parking but nothing was stolen they shattered my window and tried to take my bumper and I ended moving out of that complex because just didn’t feel safe. Love you both please stay strong fam!

I’m glad you guys are safe as I’m watching this. This is unfortunate but a learning experience. I’m glad you all are well, no valuables were stolen, you guys are proactive about your family’s safety and know how to move from here. Don’t let this get in the way of living your life! Heal through and through!!

*Im so glad you all are safe. You can relax now. Breathe. Cry it out. Smile. And thank God nothing bad happened.*

Prayers for healing! 🙏 I'm so sorry to hear this. I pray for peace of mind and safety to this family. Love y'all!

Y'all have a stalker but on y'all hands trust me they know the ins and outs of that house they've done this before when y'all weren't home they took practice so they know the craft of the house you gotta be careful don't ever post where your at!! God bless I'm so glad y'all okay and especially the babies are okay I know its traumatic the same thing happened to me and it was just me and my son and I had no alarm but I heard footsteps upstairs when I left my room and I ran back into my room locked the door and called 911 and now I have my license to carry I'm not playing I had to convince my husband cause he's always out and working and I'm home with the kids girl strap up its the best thing to do you have a right to bare arm!!! ❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💯💯💯💜💜💜💜 I hope y'all find a safe house!!!

I love your words of wisdom Cristal! I have been through a rough time. A really bad car accident. I went unconscious for 3 minutes and when I woke up I was bleeding and I had bruises everywhere. Now, I am terrified of car rides. But watching your vlogs since the beginning truly helped me get through it and how inspirational your words are and how truly meaningful they are. Love you guys ❤

Deeply sorry to hear about this. We are living in critical crazy times. Cristal I'm glad that you and your family are safe. I can't imagine how you must have felt. Please keep safe and I hope you all will soon find another home to feel safe in. Sending warm hugs to your family.❤️

Hugs! My house was robbed years ago, thankfully no one was home but knowing that someone just invaded your privacy is just an awful feeling.

Our prayers and thoughts are with the family to make sure you're safe okay

Omg hope everyones ok 🥺 Sending prayers, God well keep you safe ❤

I was in karate and the sensei and other instructors always told us to be aware of our surroundings at our house, stores, parkings, etc. Never post if we were out of home doing errands, or hanging out at some place and giving the location on social media. We even learn how to walk at night with the keys always at hand between fingers (you can use it as a defense weapon) and other kind of preventive stuff. Till this day I use all those lessons with my children so they can have the basic tools to be aware of potential dangerous situations and defend themselves. It's clear that you are doing the proper thing to find another house probably the person who broke in your house could have been following you on social media and took advantage that Niko wasn't at home. We are living in a crazy dangerous world. Take care, be safe and blessings for all.

I'm so sorry that happened to you! I completely understand how you feel. I actually had someone break into our house when I was home with my 1 year old at the time and my husband was working 3rd shift. It was 4 guys and they had guns too. I ran straight to my son's room and got him out of bed and ran and hid! Thank God my husband was only about 3 minutes away and I was able to text him and as soon as he pulled up luckily the guys all left. That was the scariest moment of my life! All I could think about was OMG they're going to kill us or kill me and take my son or maybe leave him behind with me laying there dead. I'll never forget that day as long as I live! I'm so glad you and the kids are ok. I'll keep you in my prayers because I know it can constantly stay on your mind and worry you that it might happen again. To this day I keep our alarm on constantly even when we're at home. Sending you lots of love and prayers! ❤️❤️❤️

So sorry Cristal.... You'll get over the feeling eventually. This just reminded me of when i was in school, my dad was away and it was just my mum and kid brother of about 4yrs old... they were literally face to face with the person who broke in, the window was broken, they were threatened with weapons etc... it took them a long time to be able to sleep... my kid bro would fall asleep and suddenly wake up crying and scared and that was so tough on all of us. You'll be fine Cristal... Glad the kids weren't directly involved. My heart goes out to you....❤❤❤

I can totally relate. I was broken into in 2020. It's such a violating and traumatizing feeling. I'm thankful I wasn't home, but if I had been, I don't think they would have entered my home. It took over a month before I could sleep in my room. It will take time, but eventually you'll heal. Like you said, don't let it rob you of good moments and live in fear. That's not a way to live. The important thing, is that you and your children are safe and no one was hurt. Hugs my friend! ❤

Ugh my heart breaks for you girl!! I went through something similar when I was like 23. It was my first home with me and my son (back before my beautiful little girls and my wonderful hubs came into my life) and someone broke into my house while my son was there, I woke up bc After having my son I became a very light sleeper I wake up from anything and everything and I heard the glass breaking in the back door, ran into my sons room who was 5 at the time and called the cops and thankfully they got there quickly … nothing was taken it was just so beyond scary hearing someone walking around in my house at 3:47am I will never forget that night or the time or how I felt trying to keep my 5 year old quiet after being woken up from a dead sleep. Beyond scary I literally thought we were going to die and that’s a feeling that now even 5 years later I still feel like it was yesterday I can’t go to sleep without checking to make sure every door is locked the garage doors are closed the gates are closed alarms are on we even have an extra sensor in our room so incase we don’t wake up from the alarm on it’s own it sounds off in our room as well…. so I totally emphasize with you I understand how you felt and how you’re feeling and the ptsd you get from something like that. I left that house that night and moved back in with my parents (😩) for a good 4 months until I felt safe enough to start looking for a new house. Lots of prayers being sent your way!! It’s still so fresh for you but it gets better!! You’ll forever be changed by that experience but that constant fear will get better over time!

I am so sorry sweetie!! I am praying for all of you!! I hope you find a place to live where you feel safe!! Love you all

😥 The most scariest thing ever. Hope you can heal Cristal and recover from that traumatic experience.

I’m praying for your family 🙏🏼I’m so happy that you all are safe

That's so scary to go through. Sending lots of mental peace for Crystal 🙏🏻

I'm deeply sorry for what y'all been through 🙏 God Bless

So sorry someone did that. Blessings to you all.so glad your ok.

you are so strong Cristal and you are a strong mother, God bless you and your family during this hard time

Praying that you will finally find a home that you will feel safe and secure. And I pray that your heart will be healed and that you will be able to free yourself of this traumatic experience. 🙏

Praying for you CHAMILY! Keep safe always and God Bless🙏

So upset that you had to go thru something so horrible. How sad and scary I'm just so glad you, the beautiful babies and your Mom are OK. This world we live in anymore I don't understand I really don't know what their intentions were but I'm just so glad you had alarms and authorities were alerted before anything could happen you did great sweetie with telling us you crying is completely understandable you've been traumatized. I hope you guys find the perfect home you deserve it. Love you all ❤

Awe...I just want to give Crystal a hug 🤗. How scary and traumatic - I hope you find the home with everything your looking for. Stay safe and love you guy's 😘. This made me tear up and as a mother I truly feel for you Crystal. You will do anything to protect your babies. May God continue to watch out for you and protect you 🙏

That was really courageous of u Cristal to come out telling this story. I’m so glad y’all are safe. Sending so much love and prayers to your family to lift you up. 🙏

So sorry you had to go through this, Cristal! Glad you and your little ones are safe! Hugs to you all! Take care CAN Fam and God bless you all🌺🌺

You are an amazing mother and person! Take the time you need and do what you need for you. Prayers you find peace

I literally got into tears 😞 when crystal cried while talking about the kids and nico was not at home. Crystal..you are so strong woman, a strong wife to Nico & a strong mama to your kids. I pray to god to keep you'll safe and those who are in trouble as well. I love you guys🥺♥️

I’m so sorry you experienced that. I can understand the fear, especially with children. I can’t help but wonder if it was a fan. Vacations and time away don’t need to be shared with us, or share only when back. Wish you peace.

I’ll be praying for y’all CHAMILY stay safe out there always watch y’all’s surroundings I am glad that y’all and you’re kids are okay ❤️

I was tearing up watching this. It breaks my heart knowing this happened. There are no words. No one should feel unsafe in their own home. I'm so sorry you went through this. Thank you for sharing this with us even though it was so hard for you. Stay strong Much love Leanne xxxxx UK

I hate that you had to go through that…. I’m sorry for you both. My Dad was a special agent and he pounded in our heads to always be aware of your surroundings and also… here’s a little tidbit for the women out there. NEVER EVER EVER get into a car with someone trying to kidnap you. Scream, yell, fight as hard as you possibly can bc once you’re in the car, the chances of not coming out alive increases dramatically. Just DO NOT get in the car with them!! I’ve been through a couple of things that are very traumatic, so thank you for the shout out! One is a very recent below the knee leg amputation. Talk about life changing. Much love and many hugs to you all!!!!! Love you all so big!!! XOXOXO

Few things I have to say after watching this video and being brought to tears: 1) I (and all your true fans) are saddened to hear about your traumatic experience and our thoughts and best wishes are with you guys. May you get your strength, confidence, and happiness back. And hopefully this doesn't have a negative lasting affect on you. 2) You seem to be such a genuine family, so loving and fun! I love watching your videos, every single member of the CAN FAMILY are beautiful and loveable, and you make all your fans smile and laugh! 3) I can NOT believe the sick, despicable, ignorant few who have posted comments stating that you guys flaunt / expose yourselves on social media (as if you deserved to be targeted the way you were)...and those saying hey disbelieve you. I reported the comments I found ad I hope others do the same. Such horrid people out there. BUT please remember that you are loved and deserving of happiness! Ignore any haters who obviously need help and have no soul. Finally just want to send huge hugs to Cristal. You are a boss! Always take time for yourself and know that you are an amazing woman, and wife / mother! Cry when you must then shake it off and do what makes you happy! Even if this comment goes unseen I just had to send love. Hope you recover from your trauma and live peacefully!! xxx

My heart hurts for you Crystal.. God has his hand on your and all your family members lives. God will protect you and give you peace of mind. Keep your head up I understand how hard it is when you feel like you can't protect your family Niko and Crystal but things will get better im praying for you all! And may justice be served!!!

Glad everyone's safe! Keeping the whole Cham in my prayers 🙏💕🥰

Omg! So scary I can’t imagine how scary that would’ve been! I’m a mum of 2 young boys and my partner often goes away as he’s a lorry driver and I’m always scared being on my own! We have no security either. Glad your all okay and crystal your so brave!! Love from the uk 🇬🇧 ❤️❤️❤️❤️

I'm so sorry you had to go through this!! I don't blame you for moving. I can't imagine especially because they didn't Take anything. Thank God for the police. God bless you and your beautiful family. ❤

Couldn't control my tears when you said you are trying to not let this incident scare you and it takes a lot of work. Such incidents really shake you up and you feel so scared specially you can't predict what the other person wanted and you want to protect your loved ones at all cost. I also get paranoid and scared about my family and sometimes it affects my mental peace also. It's like you want everyone to be in front of your eyes all the time. With time things do get better and if not then counselling may help. Things will get better with time and a little helo

I am so sorry that u would have to go through something so horrible. Thank God for protecting your babies and yourself. This will take a long time to not only get over, but to process period. Not for nothing, but I worked in a convenience store on the over night shift, I was robbed once during the day by an ex employee, then 2 times at gunpoint overnight, it's amazing what people will do for a quick come up, and what's worse is they have not one ounce of consideration, compassion or respect for another human life. The fear alone is unreal. I can only imagine the fear, I was in a store, you were in your home, with your children... I was so scared, I shook for days, I thought about every bad scenario possible, all the things that could of happened, I drove myself crazy with thoughts... I really hope your able to have your comfort back at some point, right now you need time, understanding, support and lots of love, which I'm sure you have!! It's a shame that bad things happen, but it's a reminder that you have to be aware of your surroundings at all times, unfortunately this means at home as well... So glad you all are safe.. Lots of hugs and kisses with the kids would be great at a time like this ... Praying for healing for you, may God protect your whole family at all times!! 💕💙💕🧡💕💜💕

As a mom the guilt is there all the time but when something happens it’s almost like ptsd. You replay every moment every possibility. Praying that God gives you peace and this will turn into a good direction for you and your family. It takes time momma give yourself grace! Matthew 6:34, girl I have to remind myself. You will get through this together❣️

Hello Can Fam!!:) Don't worry guysss... God is good Love from India ❤️

Cristal I’m so sorry you went trough this scary experience, is very traumatic it happened to my husband and I it rob us of feeling secure in the home that we had live there for many years, we move with in two months out of there. I got a huge rescue ferocious dog but it didn’t help while we were there. You have ptsd you’ll probably benefit by talking to a professional to help you with this traumatic experience. Blessings we are so thankful that you mom and babies are physically ok. take care please, hugs and much prayers 🙏🏼♥️

I am so sorry you had to experience that. It is the worst thing to go through. I agree, be aware of your surroundings as well as the ppl close to you. At times, is someone who you trust and who are very closed to you guys. This happened to me and my family and ended up finding out it was a “friend” of ours. Don’t trust anyone! Keep you and your family save! Hope you find another house very soon!!

Omg I’m sorry you had to go through that hope you’re doing much better💕💕

I hope you are and everybody in your family is safe ..... We always wish you a happy life 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 love from India

So So Sorry! 🙏 Prayers for Strength and Peace of Mind!! I had Someone Walk into my House while I was home too. My door was'nt locked, and in Broad day light!! But Thank the Lord, it could of went Bad but, God was with me, and I'm here to tell about it. And Thank the Lord You and your Babies are alright! I do remember once The man left I relized what the guy was there for, and i could'nt sleep for Days, but my Strength and Peace came from God!! ❤

I'm so glad nothing bad happened to y'all I know how this feels We live since over twenty years in the same house and my mom went one day in the basement. When she came back up she had such an empty face expression and said:"someone broke in" I was shocked to hear that but it was really true... And it was the first time something like that happened! :( We still live in the same house but my dad blocked the window in the basement and put an alarm there. I'm just so sad what is happening to society :( You can't even live in your own home without being scared for your own life

Bless ur heart!! U guys are wonderful! I'm happy ur safe! Good luck on house searching! ❤❤❤

That’s soo scary!! I’m glad u guys and the kids are safe ✨

I can only imagine how you're feeling. I'm so sorry this had to happen to you. I always tell my daughter be aware of your surroundings, especially coming out of store, leaving and coming back home. The are so many sick people out there. God Bless you Cristal. 🙏🙏🙏❤

My house was broken into 4.5 years ago, & I still have jumpy moments, but it does get better! Stay strong, & I'm glad u & the kids are safe!

Hey Niko and Cristal! Thank you guys so much for sharing this with us, your honesty and bravery is very appreciated.

Prayers for you guys and your babies!!!😇🥰👍🏻

I've experienced similar. It's traumatic. Especially when you have small children involved. I'm so happy you all are okay. Prayers for continued safety.

So sorry this happened to you guys. Makes me angry that someone broke in.😠 I am so happy you are all ok. I had someone break-in my house also. I wasn't there by the Grace of God. But when i went home. I felt so violated and could not sleep for months. I didnt have an alarm system. But boy did i get the best alarm security system asap! My prayers go out to ya'll. Love you ❤️❤️❤️

So glad you are safe. I would move it's probably the only way I could sleep at night. I hope you can feel safer in time. GOD is truly holding you in the palm of his hands. He's got your back. Thank you GOD for protecting this Family🙏

We are all with you crystal....we love you guys and neo and abella💜💜 Stay strong

So sorry, that happen to you! Please stay safe. Praying for your “peace of mind”!

Something exactly the same happened to me. They came thru the window and 1 was crawling over my bed. I started screaming and they took off. It still haunts me 35 years later. I don’t like to be in the house alone. I got how your feeling. Be strong. Be safe. Love Australia 🇦🇺❤️🇦🇺🙏

I’m so sad this happened to you and your family. I’m praying for your peace and safety 🙏🏼🙏🏼 Hugs to you Crystal for sharing when you were ready. 🤗

Our home got broken into about 3 years ago. We felt really weird for a while as well. I'm glad you guys are ok.

Cristal I hope soon you can find a little bit of comfort, so in return you can feel a little safer. I'm really happy that you guys are so blessed that nothing happened, but also that you can afford a move to a safer home to regain some peace of mind! I feel like you guys are very safe in taking precautions to not really show your home. I honestly feel like if Cristal and maybe her mom or someone who stays with her took some self defense classes it would help settle her mind a little. Please don't feel pressured to share, you need to process and figure things out before you just open up and let everyone know your thoughts and feelings when you haven't fully processed.

this hits so close to home. my home got broken into 5 years ago, and they came in thru my bedroom window. luckily we had left to run errands when this happened but some of our stuff was taken and they never got caught. i understand the feeling of not feeling safe in your own home. it takes time to heal and you will. i pray for you and your family. ♥️

I am so sorry you and your family had to experience this. So grateful you’re okay! Prayers for you all! ✨❤️✨

You guys are now like a family to us. We can't imagine something bad like this can happen to you💔. May God protect you, us and everyone else from such horrible incident ❤️

Thank God for keeping you and your kids safe. It’s very very important to have proper security system from the inside and the outside of your home. No area around the house should be kept unlocked for the perpetrators to gain an east entry. I’m sure this has made you more cautious 🙏🙏

I am so very sorry you are all going through this. My heart hurts for the fear you have and are feeling. My GOD continue to be with you all, and will guide you to your new home. Prayers said, Blessings sent, and Love always.

I hope all are safe Please be strong careful and taking care of Abella and Neo 💛

Love you Cristal and Niko ❤ Thanks for sharing the story.. It's really disturbing for anyone. Don't worry! Stay positive Cris💛

Oh boy! I feel tensed just listening to your experience. That’s terrible. When I was a teenager someone broke into my family’s home in the middle of the night. I was so horrified I began shivering and developed an instant fever. The feeling of terror lasted for months thereafter. Thinking that intruder could have hurt you is disturbing.

Glad Can family is safe! Be safe everyone , Be aware of your sorroundings.

It’s ok to cry, good to express your feeling! Stay safe

Hugs to you Cristal

U made me cry too sissy Crystal,,am not been through in this incidents but as a family i fell what u fell being so scared,, Anyways it's just a bad dream,,yes we learn from it,,but forget it,, Congrats for the new home,,Godbless u guys,, I LOVE U AND UR ALWAYS IN MY PRAYERS,,

Love you guys… will be praying for family protection. It’s a crazy world out there but I know how powerful prayer is and it works.

It’s good that you guys talk about it, that is a way of getting rid of that awful feeling. Take care, blessings family.