Something Men Need To Know About Relationships

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@soufianesekkay3297 3 жыл бұрын

The best thing about being a high value man is to never , EVER chase women

@donragnar8430 3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@nikhil8892 3 жыл бұрын

True

@purpessenceentertainment9759 3 жыл бұрын

@MrAkaalis play the game when it's your move, when the ball is in your court.

@OrbioneKenobie 3 жыл бұрын

I have 4 kids 18+ ,i dont chase women,i chase freedom,the women i do meet are bringing nothing ive not seen or had before.

@hygorgoncalves6036 3 жыл бұрын

@Ali Chaudhry its a sign that you are a low value men.

@ahmednaeem4866 3 жыл бұрын

A relationship with the wrong women can/will ruin you.

@o_0264 3 жыл бұрын

Oh really

@USER-pv2gj 3 жыл бұрын

Dude isn't joking. I have seen it. High net worth and status to no net worth and status

@apurbadeb7618 3 жыл бұрын

A relationship with any woman can ruin you

@GuestingGameplays 2 жыл бұрын

@@apurbadeb7618 nah, while the wrong one can ruin you the good one can bring you up and help you on all circumstances

@macdavy70 3 жыл бұрын

They way to make a woman want you, care about your self more than her.

@macdavy70 3 жыл бұрын

@@marquezmercado1480 ignore it, and work on your own shit

@ajseb 3 жыл бұрын

This. This always always works. I’ve my fair share of women (some of my friends have had more imo), but this always works in my experiencd

@darrenbeadman2322 3 жыл бұрын

Dont simp to women gents . youre the prize

@julioandresgomez3201 3 жыл бұрын

A man without confidence and passion is nothing. A woman without humility, sweetness, tenderness is nothing. The innocence is gone, you may as well be with another guy.

@ShanntahnPininchula 3 жыл бұрын

Whoa that's heavy and deep, but very true. I realize this is the case after my most recent experience with a particular female.

@exclusiveaccess85 3 жыл бұрын

Jejeje the truth has being said Amen to that comment

@cellycell8970 3 жыл бұрын

I’ll burn to death before that

@pureintellectualbeing3575 3 жыл бұрын

@@cellycell8970 do it

@arfcomcobra 3 жыл бұрын

You can be “love bombed” by what you think is a woman who wants you to have a relationship. Then you allow it, now she gets tired of acting and you find out there were ulterior motives. This has happened to me so many times I can’t even take a woman’s advances seriously anymore. She eventually realizes I won’t fully commit. The younger and more beautiful a woman the quicker she leaves. As a woman gets older, has hit the wall or come close, she will change to her real self. You just have to wait out women

@dreaMje13 3 жыл бұрын

Man this society is lost, i literally have no interest in women no more, it's so easy when you are in shape that is even boring

@bigd3721 3 жыл бұрын

Seems like women get turned off by a man that is not on his purpose

@blockaderunner 3 жыл бұрын

and a lot of them think that "purpose" should bring in a lot of money, I however have a purpose of understanding more history and the mysteries of the universe based on the recorded record, and to become a good storyteller based off of that but getting women to LISTEN for any length of time is difficult cause they're children in comprehension/attention span/focus.

@rockyp32 3 жыл бұрын

I agree but the main part isn’t the “purpose” it’s how we act when on a purpose. We essentially start to look at them as normal human beings and just don’t think about them as much. When they see they can’t get u obsessed with them so easy they chase

@mounty6854 3 жыл бұрын

@@blockaderunner the less you talk to them the better you will become with them. The more you can make them talk the better they will feel... because it is not about saying the right thing... IT IS ABOUT NOT SAYING THE WRONG THINGS...;)

@ral819 3 жыл бұрын

Truth...A man's damnation is he forgets, or becomes complacent. You've got to stay sharp on this...

@dipayandey2838 3 жыл бұрын

Hope you brothers out there will read this & imbibe this message in your very soul- I've met a Yogi Baba from the Himalayas who had given up his enormous inheritance in Bengal, he gave me the most invaluable advise ever- "If you turn away from the light (purpose & self) & chase the shadow (women), you will never be able to posses it. You will be lost in the dark. Turn towards the light, walk towards it, the shadow will follow you automatically. I guarantee you this!"

@wilfridjoseph5222 3 жыл бұрын

Damn bro too notch advice

@fancyAlex1993 3 жыл бұрын

Yogic knowledge are battle tested and time tested. Can't go wrong

@paulgeorge5379 3 жыл бұрын

Powerful 1 brother! Thanks for putting that out there

@YoungWhizz38 3 жыл бұрын

Wow.... that was deep bro, never thought of it like that

@ninoavdic 3 жыл бұрын

What's up brothers

@wsmn16 3 жыл бұрын

Air, female bs and buffoonery

@kelvingivens1629 3 жыл бұрын

You spit straight facts. These women are not interesting enough to hold my attention.

@kelvingivens1629 3 жыл бұрын

@@strrangerthings7049 you're not lying lol

@DarkoStantic 3 жыл бұрын

It's very difficult for a woman to get commitment from a man she perceives as high value. Amen.

@BulldogMindsetArchive 3 жыл бұрын

Truth!

@Ben-bj1oz 3 жыл бұрын

This is the type of stuff all dads should teach their sons, so underrated

@jimtennison1 3 жыл бұрын

The apostle Paul says in 1st Corinthians 7:32-34 says: But I want you to be without care. He who is unmarried cares for the things of the Lord how he may please the Lord. But he who is married cares about the things of the world how he may please his wife. There is a difference between a wife and a virgin the unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord that she may be holy both in body and in spirit but she who is married cares about the things of the world how she may please her husband.

@retrovcr777 3 жыл бұрын

@Death Embrace That’s not entirely true. People do try to use “religion” as a way to control, and manipulate masses for their own agendas, and purposes. However, the Bible is not just a made up book, it’s a collection of books that were originally found as ancient scrolls written by men directed by the Spirit of God himself. It’s a scientifically proven fact that Jesus was a real person, and also the people who wrote these books in the Bible, which means we have to take very seriously into consideration everything the Bible says. It upsets me that many false man made religions are guiding so many people astray, and they really don’t know the truth because of so much misconception. No other religion claims what the Holy Bible says, and there is an enemy we face everyday which is satan and he knows the truth of the Bible, and the power it has to set people free from bondage, and lies, so he tries his hardest to destroy people before they even have a chance to find out for themselves. The good news is John 3:16 - for God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son, that whoever should believe in Him shall not perish, but have ever lasting life.

@Azargled 3 жыл бұрын

@Sidney Hinds I agree with you. Religion has been used for manipulative purposes of course (some religions more than others) but there are great truths in the scriptures themselves, especially The Bible. Most things are symbolic though, not literal.

@scarlettbear4885 3 жыл бұрын

One of the most effectively expressed red pills ever given. Very well put.

@_Trakman 3 жыл бұрын

There's a woman in here 😳

@_the_dare_devil_ 3 жыл бұрын

@Trakman, get yourself together!

@bremcdonald 3 жыл бұрын

@@_Trakman Theres at least two of us! Dont tell anyone.

@abdulbutt1162 3 жыл бұрын

whats a redpill

@rogernkosi8420 3 жыл бұрын

Nothing better than getting an LFA notification at 3:13 am working hard.

@wsmn16 3 жыл бұрын

Respect

@Xanivert 3 жыл бұрын

if you're working hard at 3 am you're doing it wrong lmao

@rogernkosi8420 3 жыл бұрын

@@Madfox4you South Africa

@rogernkosi8420 3 жыл бұрын

@@Xanivert depends.

@DDoonniiXX 3 жыл бұрын

Oh my god, he has become a full-blown man. Look at our brother, look at him! Keep it up, LFA.

@TXSuplex 3 жыл бұрын

What bad thing can come out of a relationship that you have complete control over? Only time bad things come out of a relationship is when you’ve been putting too much “effort” into it.

@chris20sith 3 жыл бұрын

Good perspective and listen to this man! 40 and single and was married and tied down since 25 years old. I have never been more productive, healthy and proud of myself in years.

@gooddaymate1171 2 жыл бұрын

any kids?

@rogernkosi8420 3 жыл бұрын

5 Minutes in. Guess I was nothing but a 28-year-old sugar daddy to my ex. 6 months ago I commented how my then gf got pregnant by her ex and still cried for me and asked I accept the baby. LFA has been very helpful to me.

@hoodmediatv6343 3 жыл бұрын

😂

@BRIANDER100 3 жыл бұрын

And you responded by saying ' GET LOST "

@rogernkosi8420 3 жыл бұрын

@msa1985 I've learnt alot. I don't hate women, but I've accepted them for what they are.

@vincewarren1271 3 жыл бұрын

DO NOT accept that baby.

@thembamyeni4761 3 жыл бұрын

Hade Mntungwa. Impilo leyo bhuda. Okungcono, it happened sooner rather than later.

@313Hoky 3 жыл бұрын

Stopped watching onlyfans for this

@wsmn16 3 жыл бұрын

You're wild haha

@user-ly1ml6ue9n 3 жыл бұрын

@@Madfox4youits sarcasm dummy

@KayPe1122 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@texican512 3 жыл бұрын

Naw you’ll go back eventually lol

@hoodmediatv6343 3 жыл бұрын

Omg that's paying for coochie 🤣

@piyushmore1166 3 жыл бұрын

Me in my early 20s getting LFA, Bulldog, Rollo Tomasi, 33 secrets, Rian stone content makes me think I'm lot more fortunate and gives me a blueprint on how not to mess up my future life and how to become a high value man.

@jamesbonofffradestin761 3 жыл бұрын

Those guys you just mentioned are not mgtow. Those guys are giving you game about how to deal with women and how to pick up women.. this is Great! I suggest two mgtow content creators. Coach Greg Adams and Better bachelor(the joker) Follow Alpha male strategy. He's the same as LFA and 333 secrets. Follow "21 convention" 21 conventions is like an organisation. They're fighting for men. It's almost a movement. They're for real.

@s.yemane3347 3 жыл бұрын

Don't forget Alpha Male Strategies (AMS)

@shivamiltiwari9541 3 жыл бұрын

U are smart and lucky

@glengraham7681 3 жыл бұрын

Read my comment above 90% of unmarried relationship are short term or fail and over 50% of marriages fail. Anyone can hook up Chemical love hormones cause blindness for about 6 months and eventually people see the real person. Some women on birth control have messed up hormones causing them to be artificially temporarily attracted to more effeminate men but then lose that attraction when they stop the birth control pill. Biologically most women are attracted to a masculine dominant man. Talk slow. Low vocal tone but assertive. Strong dominant eye contact but not staring. Friendly, smile, but not overdoing it. Be a sexy dominant man. Practice lowering your vocal tone. Look in a mirror. Practice. Let her talk 80 to 90% Repeat her key statements or words or ideas back to her ---> active listening---> very important Be willing to walk away without being mad and rejection is okay no big deal A womans emotions are like the clouds and change a lot. Survive all shit tests or challenges without agreeing and with no emotion She says I only go out with tall rich and handsome guys --- When I stand on my intelligence optimism and natural charm and sense of humor ---> I am all of that! Oh, I am all of that, I did not realize you were not wearing your glasses!

@davidykay Жыл бұрын

You're way ahead of the curve.

@chasewhite774 3 жыл бұрын

My mom had me out of wedlock, she had many boyfriends, one for 10 years, play boys on and off for years, and married my step dad 10 years ago. I remember her saying that she loved my father, but not unconditionally. And I and my brother were the only thing she loves besides god. My step dad goes above and beyond for her, and she only loves him fourth or fifth. Conclusion, don’t spend your life trying to please someone that will never choose you 1st over anything.

@adthompson154 2 жыл бұрын

Spot on

@aminezouagui4657 Жыл бұрын

Women are incapable of loving men unconditionally it’s their nature they use that trick named love to hunt the most useful men they can get its that simple they want you to be smart enough to be beneficial and stupid enough to believe in love and so they can use you

@stevefournier6375 3 жыл бұрын

Wise words, hot, average woman doesn't matter, sex gets old, without some division of labor, they bring to the table, their out.

@throkic 3 жыл бұрын

Honestly, I never thought of marriage, relationships, hookups etc. this way but I agree with your point, those things are a sacfrifice. Its something I've come to know subconciously but you saying it made me understand it rationally. I think yours is among the better red pill channels on youtube, your point about how its better not to run game and to just be confiednt and upfront with your inetentions really resonates with me. Be high value, don't pretend you're high value.

@1werewolf 3 жыл бұрын

They really are too much work...be cafeful what you wish for...you just might get it...

@butterygudness7577 3 жыл бұрын

High-quality content and truth.

@5O4evr 3 жыл бұрын

If you think relationships are hard work then you aren't with the right type of woman for you.You're also not comfortable in your own skin. Just be yourself. Women generally don't think much of themselves.

@danielnunez6354 3 жыл бұрын

Right on brother.

@SK-le1gm 3 жыл бұрын

thumbs up the second you said “sacrifice” 🤣

@bettermanchannel770 3 жыл бұрын

Own EVERY DAM THING IN YOUR LIFE...NO EXCUSES

@juancamaney3562 3 жыл бұрын

I am 50 years of age and what got me this far in life of being a Lone Wolf 🐺 . . ...Is my drunken style life style 😁😎

@BRIANDER100 3 жыл бұрын

Could you give more info on that ?

@mwloos1 3 жыл бұрын

@@BRIANDER100 it sounds like he’s a loner that drinks a lot and frequents clubs alone and takes home a lot of women

@asimnehal 3 жыл бұрын

He’s the big brother we never had 🔥 facts!

@mariovaldez3147 3 жыл бұрын

Dope intro. And pre- selecting your women is deff important. As always, Appreciate your contact LFA 🔥🔥

@MrAgsalud 3 жыл бұрын

LFA dropping some real wisdom here. Thanks, brother

@rickygilbert7204 3 жыл бұрын

Having the confidence and belief is indeed a experience factor.. great advice and cool change-up LFA 👊

@ethanwaugh8184 3 жыл бұрын

You're the man LFA! Thank you for everything you do

@skinnyman16 3 жыл бұрын

I always listen to your advice videos while I do my workout at home. It determines me to always push over the limit (not only gym weights related) . Working the body and brain muscle at the same time. Thank you for your contribution, LFA.

@milekrizman 3 жыл бұрын

First time I ever heard of term 'pedestalizing' was in movie Magnolia (1999) when Tom Cruise acts as a pick up coach to bunch of thirsty men 😆

@studio9___216 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@milekrizman 3 жыл бұрын

@@studio9___216 true. Watch the movie.

@honestbatreviews6837 3 жыл бұрын

Just improve yourself in every way (yes including social skills) while staying on your purpose. Everything else will come naturally

@BIGMONEYPLAYER1 3 жыл бұрын

Whats ur purpose? What are some examples?

@danieljoelsanchezhernadez4007 3 жыл бұрын

@@BIGMONEYPLAYER1 I started my own business as a tattoo artist. I believe that and pursuing art is my purpose

@BIGMONEYPLAYER1 3 жыл бұрын

@@danieljoelsanchezhernadez4007 idk i dont buy it.. u were put on planet earth to pursue art ? Lol there has got to be something better than just generic ass bs statments like that

@honestbatreviews6837 3 жыл бұрын

@@BIGMONEYPLAYER1 Why the hell not? Screw Frank Frazetta right? Smh, if it's a big part of his life then so be it.

@BIGMONEYPLAYER1 3 жыл бұрын

@@honestbatreviews6837 relax guy, im just trying to push to get to some truth that actually means something to me.

@MrByTheMile 3 жыл бұрын

Accept that women SELECT. just do you and do like I do at bars. YOUR OWN THING. they will approach you. Use your eyes. Watch who’s watching you without approaching them. Women love when you call them over. In this way you make THEM do the work to GET WITH YOU. The investment right from hello is put on her rather than on YOU

@MrByTheMile 3 жыл бұрын

@unknown unknown 🤣

@mustangcobrasvt8071 3 жыл бұрын

Is like selecting buying a car lol 😆 Is our choice 💯🔥

@realcorkdan 3 жыл бұрын

i so needed to be reminded of this today , your a legend brother 👍☘️

@beno_4785 2 жыл бұрын

this 15 minutes is x 100000000000 times worthy over my whole relationship with my father. guys I'm serious if there happens to be any young folks watching this make it count ! you are lucky we did not have anyone to council us.

@adriandelaney1976 3 жыл бұрын

Been there...done that!!!

@tmotom4476 3 жыл бұрын

this is a video of high value. thank you brother

@kareem8064 3 жыл бұрын

Never heard someone say the truth like this. Thank you

@gilekopi7296 3 жыл бұрын

Right brother

@seanoshea5269 3 жыл бұрын

Preach!

@RHReviews 3 жыл бұрын

This man is a legend. Wisdom wisdom and wisdom only!

@takesmoneymakemoney 3 жыл бұрын

Lmao love the intro animation that was hilarious

@Whatda25 3 жыл бұрын

The one thing men need to know about women: They look at you and wonder about your net worth and or monthly income before anything else!

@bremcdonald 3 жыл бұрын

not true

@SuperAwesomist 3 жыл бұрын

Nice video! Love your new look and fresh set up. Also appreciative of the rock solid knowledge. Experience is key!!

@mr.dccomics9018 3 жыл бұрын

It looks good. Great video.

@Roquea.207 2 жыл бұрын

Be careful with what you want , may not be what you actually need That statement should scream into every single man’s head at the same moment you are seen the possibility of getting into a relationship with her

@Ted1775 Жыл бұрын

I am mulling this one over. I am going through this now with an amazing woman I met a few months ago. Love your channel.

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@pulkitkohli1993 3 жыл бұрын

How to pick the right women ?

@TheMrFive 3 жыл бұрын

@@pulkitkohli1993 How do you choose the right anything? What you're really asking is how do you avoid getting involved with the wrong people. You have to learn to know what makes people wrong. To be able to do that you have to understand people. Their primal, instincts, fears and drives. More importantly you have to understand yourself. Behind this question is the task of figuring out, 'What is best for me?' To put together any kind of useful answer to that question, the 'for me', or the 'me' must be well and genuinely defined.

@TheMrFive 3 жыл бұрын

Women have evolved to be attracted to partners superior than they are in ability - just as men are drawn to women who are arguably better lookers than they are. Same shit different smell... But women have also evolved to be constantly on the lookout to move on to a better mate. I understood THAT is what puts the hyper in hypergamy. Similarly given the opportunity men will always try to father a child with a hotter younger option. Not so different in what makes them tick evolutionarily - both trying to mate with a better option.

@rsmpride8267 3 жыл бұрын

My brother. Really great video. My personal favorite thus far. Even though I love the sunglasses videos, this one was really good. Kinda gave me an idea of what I am going to say to the young men in my family etc.

@acefreddy 3 жыл бұрын

Another day in the office brother 💪🏾

@billywylie8199 3 жыл бұрын

One of the most valuable and finite things men sacrifice with any woman is our time.

@vigneshvicky7359 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing.... Now everything is clear... Thank you brother.

@raidersandkingsfan 2 жыл бұрын

This is great advice! I always took this perspective when it comes to women. Most dating coaches will say if a woman pulls away, you should chase her. However, If a woman shows a lack of interest, I immediately stop pursuing her. The reason is because I value my time and myself and I don’t have time for people who don’t show interest. If a woman wants me, she’s going to have to convince me to date her. That’s exactly what happened with my current girlfriend. She straight up told me “if you ask me out, I will say yes”.

@jonsalt3241 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent Content Brother!

@hankson5002 3 жыл бұрын

This is so on point, it fells like it is the only video you need to see to understand gender dynamics superficially. I can agree with everything from own experience. Thanks. Greetings from germany.

@Sugabullets 3 жыл бұрын

5:36 I figured that out without any experience

@wehrwolf8006 3 жыл бұрын

Framing is the essence of everything

@FamousFlashbacks 3 жыл бұрын

good advice bro, needed it

@luckyoracle7881 3 жыл бұрын

Hell yeah brother

@camilovargas77 3 жыл бұрын

have watched like three of your videos, and I follow a lot of you tubers, you are legit man, the most legit in this area, not the best video production, maybe super underrated, sometimes cheese but the most legit of all of them

@RoaringJaguar 3 жыл бұрын

Just what I needed!

@07wrxtr1 3 жыл бұрын

Extremely well stated - Especially the part about how for men, relationships are not an "upgrade" or a way to find "meaning" in ones life. The issue I see if that most men, and just people in general really don't know themselves, and therefor don't know what they want out of life aside from the typical programming: Material stuff/ego/etc. Sadly I just don't see people value their TIME, and many whom are lost, find relationships to be a worthy distraction from those big existential/life questions. Women these days can always find some guy to waste time with and then take him to the cleaners financially or emotionally thus leaving the guy with nothing to show for it, while she runs around telling her family/friends/etc "he changed". I've seen so many of my friends waste YEARS of their lives never really figuring out what their actual talents/purpose/motivations are beyond "fitting in" and doing what "society" has programed to do. It's really sad, I'm glad I ran through tons of women in my 20's and had the realization that investing in ones own growth will atleast yield something to show for it, and these days I've simply reached a place of just being content doing work, hobbies, reading, and an occasional canyon run/race in the car, but every now and then I'll talk to some girls and most of the time it's a clear reminder of why I'm better off carving my own path as there's just very very very little true marriage or relationship material left in our country. The book by Aaron Clarey: " The Book of Numbers " is a worthy read in that respect...

@gurjindersingh199 3 жыл бұрын

I am learning so much from you sir. I really appreciate your videos sir.

@WallyWestDefenseAttorney 3 жыл бұрын

What I've noticed is the woman I've been pursuing, became much more interested in me after I started to talk about my purpose and the strides I'm taking to realize it.

@kenandrieling5885 2 жыл бұрын

I've had girls that would self sabotage a relationship because they knew I was too good for them

@KarabauPlay 3 жыл бұрын

Very deep and inspiring. You have immense knowledge

@BoxingPlace0 3 жыл бұрын

You are the guy, well said.

@mischifischi 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for reminding me of this! 🙏🏼

3 жыл бұрын

Damn, LFA. Your set up and backdrop looks boss asf!! 🔥

@LFA 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks man... No backdrop tho. That's just what the office looks like.

@selfmade7061 2 жыл бұрын

Wow I really needed this video. I learned a lot from this. Bro you are the best!! 🙏👍

@Bloodiscoca 3 жыл бұрын

This was very true, my life lead me to the same conclusions I like this format of this video too

@Thatdude64317 2 жыл бұрын

Just randomly stumbled on this video from your most recent one and this one was posted one year ago today. How fast a year goes!

@caliente4657 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for the perspective!

@squaresided 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@francislepcha8668 3 жыл бұрын

YOU ARE DOING A FANTASTIC JOB ....

@anatomyandphysics 3 жыл бұрын

Good talk lfa, rlsps are work. It's like buying something from a shop, it better be worth the money

@ultimatelysupreme8274 3 жыл бұрын

Such a professional shot. Looks like a pro interview

@Moneyxsharks 3 жыл бұрын

Dude is about to take his pick off the casting couch

@javierperalta7648 3 жыл бұрын

You are right. Men focus so much on getting any kind of female attention that they forget to actually set standards for themselves. You don't want just any kind of female attention, you want a certain typeof attention and from a certain type of person.

@Rambaldi100 3 жыл бұрын

This explains perfectly why I feel good about breaking up from a long term relationship, she just didn't contribute any more, and was way too much sacrifice.