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@kramseyr2800 6 жыл бұрын

I love how the next video in the que is titled "I Broke up with My grilfriend and we Still Own a House Together." That's comedy.

@finisherjess3863 5 жыл бұрын

Kramsey R nice catch, that is great haha

@QueenStylin 5 жыл бұрын

There is one like that on his show! Hahahhaha! Wonder if its the same guy? 😂😂

@VanFelo 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, you are right, in divorce he would just lose it to the woman xD

@PublicNuisance2K24 Жыл бұрын

No more “Jerry!!! Jerry!!! Jerry!!!” Instead it’ll be..”Ramsey!!! Ramsey!!!! Ramsey!!!” 😂

@shalondaking4708 5 жыл бұрын

I went through this EXACT thing and it ended badly. I will NEVER buy a house with a boyfriend ever again!

@Elizabeth-yg2mg 5 жыл бұрын

Same here--when I moved out he wouldn't sell the house and used it to try to control me for two years. We had a contract but it didn't stipulate what would happen if we broke up. It was the most awful time of my life; never again.

@Astrologcomedy 5 жыл бұрын

Why would a women allow this? He can’t marry you but wants buy a house with you? How backwards is that?!

@back2the80s 4 жыл бұрын

Alot of that going around. Women need to have more respect for themselves

@MalikEmmanuel 4 жыл бұрын

It could be the other way around.

@davidw.7275 4 жыл бұрын

A good friend of mine did this sort of...except she and her boyfriend didn’t want to get married AND her name isn’t on the house either...for some reason though she thinks that it’s okay to help pay his mortgage payment anyways, even though she has no equity in that house. Desperate is what she is and a user she’s involved with. Doesn’t believe she can do any better even though she has all her friends including me yelling at her that it’s a bad idea and that she can do better. But she’d rather trust this one guy over her friends who loved her before and will still love her after this relationship. Some people....

@davidw.7275 4 жыл бұрын

Retrobytes amen

@sarahb8147 4 жыл бұрын

Modern society/culture has just broken down the self-esteem of young women to the point they think this is an acceptable way to be treated. It's really sad.

@oneluv201 10 жыл бұрын

Even renting an apartment with a boyfriend is bad when it doesn't work out.Bad experience..

@jamesbond-yx9hi 7 жыл бұрын

is it because he wasn't in the lease?

@oneluv201 7 жыл бұрын

***** no. IT is because he was.

@jamesbond-yx9hi 7 жыл бұрын

I don't understand why that's a bad thing. The boyfriend can't just walk away then. The girlfriend can then sue the ex for unpaid rent, no?

@oneluv201 7 жыл бұрын

***** no if both sign it both are responsible to pay. Like Co signing a car. If you can't pay it and I Co signed I end up paying

@ErickaWilliamsCC 7 жыл бұрын

oneluv201 worked at an apartment complex and tons of couples break up and dude can't afford apartment or they have lease issues.

@groundedapproach 3 жыл бұрын

Making a massive commitment while not committed enough to make a commitment 😂

@pawsnotclaws2772 5 жыл бұрын

Why can’t they just get married...? That’s what I want to know

@lauraerwin471 5 жыл бұрын

I almost did this with a bf it would of been the worst mistake of my life

@darvish2012 10 жыл бұрын

I heard this last Friday when I got some pizza at papa johns and I still feel the same way. The only way I would be a house "with" a buddy is that I completly own the house and he's just living in it.

@patrickjordan2233 4 жыл бұрын

It NEVER ENDS WELL.

@CeeLiberty 6 жыл бұрын

DON"T SHACK UP! It's a total joke!!!!! And buying a house? Are you INSaNe??

@bartvanriel6767 7 жыл бұрын

I've rented with my ex, turned out she cheated so I kicked her out since I was the main renter now she's bitter and I'm getting along really well so it turned out good for me bad for her

@SpiritLeash 7 жыл бұрын

I feel bad for you man. Good for you getting out well.

@sarahb8147 4 жыл бұрын

Dave is right. The son is not going to hear a word of this because that mother has been on his back about them living together and the whole relationship for ages up to this point. You can just tell by her tone. She may be right, but young adults do not want or need to be parented and it's the quickest way to get them to stop listening to her.

@ericb1233 4 жыл бұрын

I agree in most cases this would be a bad Idea, but it really depends on your situation. I bought a house with my boyfriend just over a year ago and it has appreciated close to 100k already. We are just as happy together now as a non married couple as before we purchased the home. In this situation the mom seams distraught and disapproving of her sons relationship more than anything.

@sadieesther9721 4 жыл бұрын

Not even just breaking up but I didn’t even think about disability or death!

@lolacole5653 6 жыл бұрын

My sister was married and her husband bailed on her. She still had to get his signature. He put the screws to her by saying he wouldn't sign if she didn't give him a large lump sum of money. smh

@drunclecookie216 7 жыл бұрын

I bought my house when my wife and I were just dating and we lived together for 3 years before we got married... but the house was in my name only

@bmbott123 7 жыл бұрын

Ryan Cook what happens if u would divorce being it's in your name only?just curious

@jrrambo2097 6 жыл бұрын

High chance she can get her hands on it still.

@5000MikeMaster 5 жыл бұрын

That’s the best way of doing to in my opinion buy the property or apartment and let her live with you but kick her out if she acts up

@grizzlybear2702 5 жыл бұрын

KingQuad Bott it doesn’t matter who’s name its in. If it doesn’t work out for any reason than the women keep everything you can think of

@gigi8528 5 жыл бұрын

My boyfriend just closed on a house that’s in HIS name only. The plan is to get married eventually but I feel a lot better not being on his mortgage.

@heidithaw1072 4 жыл бұрын

I was taught to never live somewhere I could not afford on my own. I own my own house. Lived with a guy once and he was mad when I kicked him out because he was an occupant on the lease but the lease was in my name. I was fair about it and gave him time to put it in his name. He was a big time philanderer. Would never buy with someone I was bot married to.

@thefoodwench4848 4 жыл бұрын

When I was single I wouldn’t have my name on any kind of paper work with a boyfriend lol.

@suelawson7273 5 жыл бұрын

I'm preparing to buy my next home after 7 years of renting, it's going to have my name on it only 😊

@chezshirecat1872 4 жыл бұрын

Just happened to family friends, they bought the house and just broke up. He was able to keep the house, but it is hard to get her name off the mortgage.

@laureljade3476 3 жыл бұрын

marriage is more than a piece of paper, there's legal, tax, social security, health benefits, inheritance, next of kin benefits.

@moma5501 3 жыл бұрын

Okay..., well I’ve been with my partner for 9 years. Whats the plus of getting married? Cause the way I see it. We’re fine the way it is. Anything I want left behind to next of kin will be.

@esonon5210 3 жыл бұрын

@@moma5501 It's less of what's happening but more of what can happen. You are not legally his next of kin so you would be fighting over his assets with his parents, if they don't like you, they can prevent you from seeing him in the hospital if he gets sick. You won't be entitled to alimony if you separate. Marriage is more of a practical thing to do to protect the belongings between the two of you. You can go to city hall and get it over with without paying thousands on dollars for a ceremony to entertain a bunch of people you don't really care for.

@ennvee1989 2 жыл бұрын

@@moma5501 if something happens to him medically you cannot take any decisions. it happened to someone I know. She has been in a relationship for 20+ years never married. Her husband got very very sick, the doctors needed a regarding treatment and the longterm girlfriend had no say since they were not married. All medical decisions had to be approved by the young daughter (only 19 years old) since she is considered next of kin.

@yeahisaidit6184 6 жыл бұрын

Does it sound like a good idea? No. Would I do it? Definitely not. Does this mom need to back off and let her son make his own choices? Absolutely. She has “issues” with them living together? Not her business. Also, some people don’t want to get married. I’m married, happily but it’s not for everyone even if they want to be together.

@sidwhiting665 4 жыл бұрын

I can see where a parent can and should still give advice with their adult children, not in a controlling, authoritarian way, but rather as a kind voice of experience sharing wisdom. . Example: "Son, I know you feel in love right now and buying a house with Susie sounds like the best idea in the world, but having been in a long-term, committed relationship with your father in the eyes of both God and Man for 20+ years I've learned a thing or two about doing things in the best order to help you have a life-long, successful marriage....and buying a house before being married is not one of those things." . I fully intend to manipulate....err, I mean "act as a positive influence on" my kids well into their 40s (and beyond) *grins. As my parents have done with me. I appreciate their decades of experience, and I've learned some good things from them. But in the end, they know and respect that it is my decision. I get the feeling the mom in this video does too. It would be interesting to look back now that this is 6 years old and see where it all ended up!

@sarahb8147 4 жыл бұрын

Agreed 100%, I was rolling my eyes right from the start. Parents need to back off and learn to disentangle themselves emotionally when their kids make dumb choices because some mistakes they just need to make on their own.

@tylerpripps4969 7 жыл бұрын

Dave, I've got this book you should read. It's called "Boundaries" :-) JK

@Ms-Jones 5 жыл бұрын

Tyler Pripps 😂

@devnerdgirl4638 6 жыл бұрын

My bf and I bought a house together and had a lawyer draft a contract that details what happens if we break up . We signed that contract on closing day.

@marinalina6348 5 жыл бұрын

like a house prenup lol

@PInk77W1 4 жыл бұрын

Sounds smarter than the ave. Couple

@back2the80s 4 жыл бұрын

shacking up. why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?

@Fleury4 3 жыл бұрын

Getting married would also be a bad financial decision for this guy

@MsLucky443 3 жыл бұрын

👏👏why do people do this?!

@tommygunnz5655 4 жыл бұрын

Just my opinion me and my girlfriend own a house together and we been together for 7 years and were not married. I dont see a problem with it but I understand what your saying

@sarahb8147 4 жыл бұрын

7 years and you're still not married? Why?

@cloudedcolour5329 4 жыл бұрын

@@sarahb8147 maybe they simply dont WANT to be married?

@khadijahjones2460 3 жыл бұрын

@@cloudedcolour5329 good luck if they break up or if something happens to the other. They have no legal security

@mairedaly4926 3 жыл бұрын

It's not a problem when folk are together, it's a mess if they break up....

@tommygunnz5655 3 жыл бұрын

We feel like we're not ready for marriage yet. There's things we feel we should work on

@bneyens 7 жыл бұрын

2:25 - it never works? Oh really? Really? I bought a home with my girlfriend. We then got married 7 years later. We then had 3 kids. We then sold the house and made $150k. We have been together for 15 years now. What a disaster?

@BMWAddictE90 7 жыл бұрын

Ever heard of an exaggeration?

@bneyens 7 жыл бұрын

BMWAddict "it NEVER works. It's ALWAYS bad"

@5000MikeMaster 5 жыл бұрын

Well you took a chance on someone and it worked out. But the odds are against you

@JavFoster 5 жыл бұрын

Working great for me. I wouldn't dare get married.

@PInk77W1 4 жыл бұрын

Some win in Las Vegas. Most don’t. That’s why they have big gold buildings. Still a bad idea to buy a home with bf-gf

@CiCi5467 5 жыл бұрын

Own a house with my boyfriend for 10 years. We have great accumulated equity. Worked out very well.

@PInk77W1 4 жыл бұрын

1% of the time it works

@thatcrazyjack 10 жыл бұрын

It worked out for me and my now husband

@logicbombs5490 6 жыл бұрын

exception = rule

@monkas7270 5 жыл бұрын

Michael Post sounds like you are jealous and are just projecting lol, how many girlfriends have you had in your life? probably not many

@richconrad4554 10 жыл бұрын

My fiance and I bought our house before we were married. We bought it after we got engaged, but were looking before. The difference is that I put the house in my name. I guess i don't understand why people put the house under both names? This way, if we ever need something in the future, she doesn't have the debt attached to her name. Or if something were to happen with us, the house is still on my name, so i could sell it and get out of it.... Am i missing something? She gives me money each month to help the mortgage until we have a joint checking account. But we are also getting married in Sept, so she is the main one saving for the wedding and i'm covering the house and utilities. its only an $88k house...

@TippyPuddles 8 жыл бұрын

If you get sued with both names on the house, they can't touch it.

@richconrad4554 8 жыл бұрын

ah, I did not know that! :-) Now that we're married and just refinanced, I believe her name is on the house now. But we also have legal shield, so we're pretty safe if we get sued. :-)

@TippyPuddles 8 жыл бұрын

+Rich Conrad also, if one dies the title automatically goes to the survivor. you should check to see how the title reads. There are different ways the title can be issued. Most common is called some thing like right to survivor .

@TippyPuddles 8 жыл бұрын

+Ann Korn if one "dies"

@richconrad4554 8 жыл бұрын

good to know, thanks! :-)

@JDAfrica 2 жыл бұрын

Give him the advice - but sometimes stupid needs to make it’s own mess, and then clean it up. If you can’t listen, you must feel.

@darrenkrock736 6 жыл бұрын

We are living in unstable financial times, a post credit crunch and a bad real estate market and escalating national debt. Banks should not be allowed to give mortgage loans to unmarried couples. Its too risky for all parties.

@edermitt 6 жыл бұрын

Unstable financial times, a post credit crunch, a bad real estate market or escalating national debt are irrelevant. Why would the bank care if you're married or not? The loan is no more "risky" for them one way or the other. If the loan isn't repaid they foreclose, sell the house and, if they so choose, sue all parties for any shortfall. Exactly the same thing happens if a married couple defaults. if anyone is taking any additional risk it is the buyers.

@merrittmcdowell8675 5 жыл бұрын

Have them not buy the house together just have him or her buy it

@NickYourHomeLoanFriendKrehnke 4 ай бұрын

because splitting up real estate is SOOO much easier when it is via divorce? LOL LOL LOL

@michaelpaliden6660 8 жыл бұрын

im gonna buy my GF a fantasy house because my dream is to win the 400 yard moronathon

@sarrahconley3923 8 жыл бұрын

hahaha cracked me up

@robmartin217 Жыл бұрын

How is the property titled/ownership?

@tpcs8667 10 жыл бұрын

Now ONCE you see that you and this person have LIVED TOGETHER for years and you BOTH KNOW deep down inside you are meant to be together, THEN you can get married THEN you can buy a house together WITH CONFIDENCE.

@bebetigre1252 6 жыл бұрын

then you can get divorced.

@roxannegordon6162 5 жыл бұрын

Correct tpcs. That way BOTH people have equal claim in the propriety. Wouldn't you want that for the one you love? Unless maybe you want to keep your options open just in case you want her (or him) out of your life after a few years. Bad thing to do.

@grizzlybear2702 5 жыл бұрын

Roxanne Gordon what do u mean equal claims on property. The women always keeps everything

@back2the80s 4 жыл бұрын

That is not how it supposed to work. how about live separately until married?

@pep590 4 жыл бұрын

@@bebetigre1252 That would be you.

@Anthony-zw1qb Жыл бұрын

Let’s not get married but let’s take out a huge loan together lol

@buggybank 4 жыл бұрын

This is an old video but I disagree...I have been dating and living with my boyfriend for 5 years and we are about to move into a house that he owns. We are going to marry soon and I’m very excited!

@mairedaly4926 3 жыл бұрын

But the point is....he owns it, you didn't buy it together before you even thought about marraige

@xavierreigneau6273 4 жыл бұрын

How old is the son and his girlfriend? Wouldn't that be a factor to consider?

@pets6659 7 жыл бұрын

Mommy always want give advice to kids but they did not listen to there parents that why so many broken homes

@kevinwinstonshen 6 жыл бұрын

Regardless of one's religious beliefs, renting a place or buying a place with somebody you are not married to will only lead to bad legal and financial consequences.

@trent797 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, she blew her credibility on the silly moral aspect of it. Now she has none left for the actual important part: the financial side.

@beckys5461 4 жыл бұрын

Don't say "never" or "always" Mr. Ramsey. It worked out for me. Fiance and I got a place together and then got married 5 yrs later.

@jrmlx 3 жыл бұрын

He said it in the context of stories that he heard. He never heard of your successful story.

@tinpimiento150 3 жыл бұрын

Took a while

@EHSmichigan 4 жыл бұрын

Great advise. Kids please listen.

@hedipunkflafla1 7 жыл бұрын

lol I guess we got lucky it worked out with us. We bought our house at 20yrs old, didn't get married until we were 26 and now we are about to celebrate 5 years of marriage! We just sold our home :) we are off on the baby step 2 owe 8,000 in debt but we will pay it off by December 2017.

@SpiritLeash 7 жыл бұрын

Good luck!

@ReconMarine702 6 жыл бұрын

It’s December 2017, did you pay it off?

@mecheckraise 5 жыл бұрын

Sounds stupid. I really do not see why they do NOT want to get married. It is the legal way people do these things. People want to make a mess outside typical legal ways then want to find relief from courts.

@metaltera86 Жыл бұрын

I bought my first house with my girlfriend (wife now) but my name was the only one on it. So she was just a roommate legally speaking

@tpcs8667 10 жыл бұрын

Unmarried couples SHOULD NEVER get a mortgage together UNTIL they see with each other THROUGH A REAL DECENT amount of time ( 3+ years) that they can stand living together and they BOTH see that each other IS dependable in paying bills and keeping sound balanced budgets in which show actual wealth building. This is the ONLY exception to the christian rules about how you should be married before you live with someone. BS. You DON'T truly know someone until you live with him or her. THAT is a fact of life. I'd rather LIVE with someone for a few years BEFORE finalizing getting married TO MAKE CERTAIN I "CAN" live with that person FOR LIFE. Marriage= FOR LIFE. If you can't live with someone that long, then that marriage is NOT meant to be and in the end you save yourself and that person time, headache, heartache, and prevent THAT damage to your credit.

@makesomenoise90 9 жыл бұрын

Chronofusion I agree with you on that... been living with my boyfriend for 3 years and thankful we did it this way because we know we can live together and support one another through tough times...we are going to get married eventually and know that. And we also lived together first with each others parents so we got a feel for living together BEFORE committing to a mortgage. We are now considered common law which is similar to marriage at this point by law in terms of what we own.

@makesomenoise90 9 жыл бұрын

@itsokaytobeclownpilled5937 8 жыл бұрын

You waste your reproductive years waiting to get married. Anything over 12 months is playing house.

@makesomenoise90 8 жыл бұрын

LOL I'm only 25 and have been living with my man for 3 years now. .. still lots of time and we don't want kids anyways. And if we did we have lots of time.

@itsokaytobeclownpilled5937 8 жыл бұрын

+Chelsea Bradley Sweetheart, you're setting yourself up for a lot of problems shacking up with a man who is playing house. You're wasting you're best years for attracting a high quality man. If a man doesn't propose in eight months, he is waiting for something better to come along. People with high integrity act with integrity. And, this fellow you claim to be yours isn't. RUUUNNNNNN!!!!! While you still can.

@karenhardie1132 7 жыл бұрын

Over the age of 18 they can do what they want, dave doesn't believe in living together.

@PaintingandExercise 6 жыл бұрын

Of course, they can do what they want but what "living together" couples don't have versus married couples is the legal protections that come with a marriage contract.

@arleneaugustahair8393 5 жыл бұрын

Living together is one thing but having a mortgage together is way too complex, especially when they aren’t married.

@millsathn 5 жыл бұрын

I don’t understand why Americans are so against this. Works fine in Europe. Been with my gf for 10 years and we own a house together

@pep590 4 жыл бұрын

Read all the legal problems you have in the US. What do you do when this happens. Let the house go back?

@jvolstad 4 жыл бұрын

I wonder how Common Law would fit in.

@ThePeterDislikeShow 4 жыл бұрын

Depends on the situation. If each had $10 million and we're talking about a $100,000 house then yea, have fun.

@Richie2k6 7 жыл бұрын

For Dave to say this "NEVER" works is so narrow-minded and inaccurate. People do this successfully all the time. Not everyone is in a dysfunctional, irrational, immature relationship.

@logicbombs5490 6 жыл бұрын

While your statement is technically true, in the context of the scenario outlined it seemed like sound advice. Its like saying a marriage can "NEVER" recover from infidelity. Sure, it's possible, but for the overwhelming majority of people it just won't work out. Plus, if you're calling Dave Ramsay, you are probably in one of those dysfunctional scenarios!

@kristethba7475 6 жыл бұрын

I know a lot of people who have gotten themselves in hard trouble.. Sometimes it took 2 years and sometimes 11 years.

@yeahisaidit6184 6 жыл бұрын

Kris Teth Ba Sane can be said for married couples.

@roxannegordon6162 5 жыл бұрын

He said all that at the 2 minute mark. Plus he sees these things crumble too many times to suggest it's a good idea. From our uneducated view it sounds good. NOT. My former coworkers did that and less then a year later she wanted out but to get her investment back was not go'na happen.

@AllynHin 3 жыл бұрын

This is probably the least helpful I've seen Dave's answer. He just keeps ranting that it *is* a bad idea, but doesn't lay out the legal pitfalls except for a couple of worst-case scenarios of if/when the woman leaves the caller's son. All he says is "it's bad bad, really bad. I mean it's really bad" over and over. No kidding Sherlock. How about some information the caller can actually USE in her plea to her son not to buy a house with his girlfriend?

@queen.kristal8395 2 жыл бұрын

he already said that you do not have legal protection like marriage is when buying a home. when your married its harder to run away from responsibility than a couple.

@AllynHin 2 жыл бұрын

@@queen.kristal8395 Yes, he glossed over it, but didn't elaborate on just what those legal protections protect you from. It's a whole lot more than just not being able to 'run away' from responsibilities. In other videos, he spells out the pitfalls and explains what they mean to both parties. In this clip, he just rants without explaining anything.

@JV-bc8um 3 жыл бұрын

I can say my boyfriend and I would be unaffected if we bought a house together. That was actually the plan; plan for the wedding, buy a house, then get married so we had a home of our own.

@khadijahjones2460 3 жыл бұрын

Y not just marry first then buy the house after

@dos14dos14 3 жыл бұрын

Have some self respect and morals. Get married first.

@steelcurtain656 7 жыл бұрын

Never works eh Dave? I know multiple couples that bought a house together before getting married. Interest rates and housing prices were right and they were obviously going to end up married so they went for it. And it worked out well. I would even go so far as to argue that if you break up and sell the house you are better off than divorced. In a divorce the house is only one of the things that you are fighting over.

@pep590 4 жыл бұрын

Wrong...a lot of big fights over pets and household items and many have kids. You made no sense there.

@ThePeterDislikeShow 3 жыл бұрын

Would the bank even allow a joint mortgage when the two aren't married?

@JV-bc8um 3 жыл бұрын

Yes it's called joint tenancy 50/50. You don't have to be married to do this. There's also tenancy in common.

@joycewright5386 3 жыл бұрын

My husband and I did it and lived together for 12 years. Finally we got around to the wedding. No I don’t know why we waited so long. So happy ours turned out alright.

@ennvee1989 2 жыл бұрын

@@joycewright5386 why couldnt you go to the courthouse before?

@joycewright5386 2 жыл бұрын

@@ennvee1989 We could have but we didn’t know the Lord and we had no one to guide us. Fortunately for us things worked out because now we just celebrated 25 years married.

@MsLucky443 3 жыл бұрын

Not a good idea to live together.

@harrykashouli9774 5 жыл бұрын

That mother is terrible "I already have a problem with them living together". She planned this call, just so she can use Dave's (very correct) advice about not buying a house together, and add than on top of a "see?! You should not live together!!!" comment.

@wedgemicro1301 3 жыл бұрын

She needs to get a life of her own

@RealHealthyGuidance 4 жыл бұрын

It's normal that millennials don't get married. At least here in Norway. Most of us are also atheist.

@pep590 4 жыл бұрын

That's a lot of dead people in the furture.

@woodside4life 5 ай бұрын

@@pep590 all of us are going to die in the future

@ir10031981 10 жыл бұрын

here's my simple answer... NOOOOOO!!! don't do it! get married first then buy a house together. This is why I am one to rush into marriage. My biological clock is ticking and hint: the digits on my screen name is my date of birth.

@tkdcow9911 8 жыл бұрын

I was born 89 like Taylor swift. Is that why I feel like shaking it off?

@M22OHIO 8 жыл бұрын

+ir10031981 Oh boy do not what what ever you do rush into marriage don't do it. Please for you're own sake and you're own self preservation don't do it. There's this thing called the divorce industry and FYI: the divorce industry isn't exactly full of rainbow lolly pops and unicorns.

@autohelix 5 жыл бұрын

The Wife and I did. It's been over seven years now.

@cassieolson2163 6 жыл бұрын

Been with my spouse for 6 years lived together for 3yrs an have a 2yr old son an we just bought our first home we are not married but we are doing great it is possible but you have to be mature in your relationship we are family

@RochelletheRealtor 5 жыл бұрын

This person isn’t your spouse if you aren’t married.

@pep590 4 жыл бұрын

Cassie It's not over yet. But good luck.

@michaelsmith5583 5 жыл бұрын

I bought a house and let my friend rent it for 2 years. I rennovated it, and made quite a bit in appreciation and rent. Also tax deductions. If it happened in a downed market that would be different.

@MsLucky443 3 жыл бұрын

It’s amazing girlfriend/ boyfriend live together with kids and buy house and do not get married and have plenty of money. 🚨

@Jeff-xy7fv 6 жыл бұрын

Lenders should NOT even allow unmarried people to buy a house together!

@miketheyunggod2534 3 жыл бұрын

Giving advice by making generalizations? SMH.

@jessicamaclean5767 5 жыл бұрын

It actually does work out. I love not being married and living in sin. Dave, do you understand how much divorce costs? ,In Canada we are common law so it's the same as marriage.

@pep590 4 жыл бұрын

It's his religious belief, like yours is Atheism. This is really about not buying a house together.

@jessicamaclean5767 3 жыл бұрын

Sponge Bob thanks so much!!! I don’t understand things unless a man explains things to me.