Going through rush as a PNM was not easy for me, but being on the other side of rush was arguably a lot harder. I don't like judging girls based on superficial characteristics. I think you have to be an extremely low-vibrational person to view rush as anything but barbaric. I really didn't enjoy participating in rush, but I do think joining a sorority gives you access to a unique social atmosphere that can make certain types of people flourish, I am not one of those people.