Truck driver in China takes paralysed wife everywhere, even when working

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Truck driver in China takes paralysed wife everywhere, even when working

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A man from northwestern China’s Gansu province takes his paralysed wife everywhere with him, even when he is working as a truck driver. He is her sole caregiver, taking care of her daily needs including cleaning, changing her clothes, and exercising.
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@jamessweet5341 5 ай бұрын

This folks, is a REAL man.

@kenjijohnsonsanzenin3388 5 ай бұрын

Chad!

@avalonjustin 5 ай бұрын

Imagine if more men in the world had his dedication and selflessness. Society would improve so much.

@kojo2773 5 ай бұрын

*a REAL human

@kojo2773 5 ай бұрын

@@avalonjustin *more people

@inslayerclone4679 5 ай бұрын

@@avalonjustinmen are not slaves to society because that what it seems like what is like to be a real man from my perspective

@HittokiriBattousai17 2 жыл бұрын

Not only he's taking care of her every need, I have a feeling he enjoys every single second of it. That's just beautiful.

@wendyshoowaiching4161 2 жыл бұрын

You don't enjoy the Paralysis duty but responsibility and commitment to your love ones. I believe with hard work exercises, she can recover 90% & can walk well as long we see she can cycle and move her legs already.

@vhylis6510 2 жыл бұрын

@@wendyshoowaiching4161 Yes and if the day arrives I'm sure she'll return the favor he did to her

@Eclipse-lw4vf 2 жыл бұрын

Eventually it’ll get old. As he gets older he won’t be able to care for her as much.

@dailyoptions7832 2 жыл бұрын

Til death tears them apart

@RickSanchez-hd4ct 2 жыл бұрын

I thought I knew what love was and my wife wronged me in so many ways. I almost forgot what undying commitment meant. Glad one real human exists... also my wife told me if I even lost a finger she would leave me while I would be willing to carry her on my back forever if she was paralyzed. I almost forgot what devotion to someone meant..... I won't make that mistake again.

@amazingdany 5 ай бұрын

He takes “in sickness and in health” very seriously and that is immensely respectable. 😭🤧👍🏻

@sigerlion8608 5 ай бұрын

There's no such vows in China lol. Maybe he takes the red string connecting them very seriously.

@dddaaa6965 5 ай бұрын

@@sigerlion8608 can you explain that joke, even if its racist im actually curious either way

@dddaaa6965 5 ай бұрын

@@sigerlion8608 oh...are you talking about the cloth holding them together?

@sigerlion8608 5 ай бұрын

@@dddaaa6965 It's not a joke. There are no wedding vows in traditional Chinese weddings. So "in sickness and health, till death to us part" doesn't mean anything to the Chinese. They are connected by to each other on the finger with a red thread of fate. The ceremony is simple: bow to heaven and earth, bow to their parents, then bow to each other. Then they drink a lotus seed tea with each other. The thread of fate gets shorter metaphorically as they get closer to each other over the years.

@wjuju8278 4 ай бұрын

@@dddaaa6965 as a Chinese I think he or she means in Chinese mythology, the fairy in charge of love matches will connect two lovers with a red thread, so in traditional Chinese weddings, the husband and wife would hold two ends of a red ribbon to symbolize the bond between them.

@Heroesworkshop 5 ай бұрын

Seeing her at the end moving and improving made my day. Bless this man and his family.

@cano4458 4 ай бұрын

right. was happy seeing that too

@kaboomvn201 3 ай бұрын

She passed away last February.

@Avalon1489 2 жыл бұрын

That's what I call love. I wish nothing was but happiness for these two people.

@capnanaya4642 2 жыл бұрын

It's not what you call as love, but this has been the traditional Conservative understanding of marriage and responsibility. I wouldn't be surprised that you think of it as something unusual considering your liberal lifestyle.

@lcfflc3887 2 жыл бұрын

that man has no obligation to stop himself from moving on but the pressures of society makes it difficult to Walk away.

@ramdundi804 2 жыл бұрын

@@lcfflc3887 many don't care when situation came like this, he loves that's why he cares otherwise if he fear of society he does nothing like bathing, makeup etc

@exoticindiaa 2 жыл бұрын

A woman would never do that

@D3tyHuff 2 жыл бұрын

@Yinhua Any more bets like that and you'll be carried on the back of your Chinese husband soon.

@septembertrese1977 2 жыл бұрын

this husband gives a whole new meaning of marriage vows, " in sickness and in health". kudos to him. that is love, folks!

@anassahbenji6056 2 жыл бұрын

Yes it is

@kiyushot 2 жыл бұрын

Its another fake video...

@Tali_Kali2343 2 жыл бұрын

Right, true love 💕 n a faithful man.

@sawestjunior5841 2 жыл бұрын

@@kiyushot You are a fake person too

@brentfoster9138 2 жыл бұрын

No, that’s what the vows meant all along.

@robertdean5791 4 ай бұрын

Give that man a humanitarian award. His dedication should be standard for every human to follow.

@brookelynnwu8016 3 ай бұрын

You can tell just how much he loves his wife, he adores her always.

@alanwade2962 2 жыл бұрын

This man is 1 in a million, what an incredible human being. I hope that his wife continues to recover and that their lives get easier.

@pummyy Жыл бұрын

make it 1 in a billion in this era

@SUN-kc9zy Жыл бұрын

@@pummyy nope every where

@deletdis6173 Жыл бұрын

Most men are like this low key.

@roems6396 Жыл бұрын

@@deletdis6173 What are you talking about? No they aren’t. The vast majority of people would not do this.

@deletdis6173 Жыл бұрын

@@roems6396 You sound bitter af.

@orethaateboh7312 5 ай бұрын

Mehn I’m tearing up,he didn’t abandon her . I’m genuinely happy for people I don’t know

@stardust332 5 ай бұрын

rare for a man

@chuckscott-cy7iq 5 ай бұрын

@@stardust332 I agree. He should divorce her.

@BarkerVancity 5 ай бұрын

woman abandon, men dont

@stevezy4772 5 ай бұрын

You realize women are hard to find in China due to the one child CCP policy.

@koray6261 5 ай бұрын

@@stardust332 Rare for a woman*. Not man.

@espinoname2988 4 ай бұрын

I'm blessed to have a boyfriend which behaves exactly like this man. I'm also very sick, with chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia, I can barely help home with some basic tasks, and take care of myself and our small dog (mostly). I have been sick for over a year, after a covid infection. In the beginning I couldn't even walk to the toilet by myself and I needed help showering and eating even. He helped me with everything since minute one. When I got sick we were finishing our masters (we are both in our mid 20s) and our situation was also quite bad, not as bad as this truck driver and his wife, but we also shared a tiny 20m apartment in a very badly acoustically insulated building. Luckily, since then he could finish his master's and find a nice job. We have now moved to a larger apartment in the countryside and our life is much calmer without money stress. I was so lucky to find him, he also stuck with me without a doubt, even if we had only been dating for about a year before I got sick.

@myaccount9498 4 ай бұрын

Yes that's incredible dedication by your boyfriend. I hope u will both be happy forever. Hoping u get better as well! Blessings from Australia 💜

@juliengo2581 3 ай бұрын

@@myaccount9498yes i wish you and your boyfriend will get through everything , all the hardships challenges! And you getting better with your health. From Australia, true love never die!🎉🎉🎉

@enikofazekas1655 2 ай бұрын

Have you tried juice cleanse for fibromyalgia? I’m going to try it for a different condition.

@fordxbgtfalcon 5 ай бұрын

That is the definition of unconditional love. ❤

@overlord1995 4 ай бұрын

Unconditional love doesn't exist. You selected someone based on certain conditions. You didn't pick a random person to love Use your head.

@BonsaiM 4 ай бұрын

@@overlord1995 You must be fun at parties.

@overlord1995 4 ай бұрын

@@BonsaiM I am. I don't know what kinda weird parties you go to where you stand in circle, hold hands doing the kumbaya and discuss unconditional love. Or does everyone have to be brain-dead like you?

@chrispoe2947 2 жыл бұрын

This man deserves a lot of credit. He obviously loves his wife and takes his vows very serious. Much respect

@leoniehendrickson2530 2 жыл бұрын

His rewards will come from the Lord

@chrispoe2947 2 жыл бұрын

@@leoniehendrickson2530 i believe that and i believe that we make our inner self-respect. And he has a lot of it.

@basbosaize 2 жыл бұрын

Wt vows

@chrispoe2947 2 жыл бұрын

@@basbosaize for better or worse part

@basbosaize 2 жыл бұрын

@@chrispoe2947 what is that

@ErniJuliaKok 2 жыл бұрын

His love will certainly help his wife's recovery process. Nothing is more powerful than true love. May Mr. Nie always be healthy, and lucky.

@anakaloralor1397 2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏

@schick3191 2 жыл бұрын

Agree

@daybyday1664 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@rbanerjee605 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve never heard of recovery from paralysis

@lcfflc3887 2 жыл бұрын

@@rbanerjee605 i think in the movies.

@kaiajackson8538 5 ай бұрын

An amazing but necessary sacrifice. He loves her so much. You never know the kind of abuse disabled people have to endure its amazing to see someone car for their disabled loved one so dearly

@lisawhitney9978 4 ай бұрын

i started watching this only for a few seconds and immediately i was swept away in tears for this man and his wife. This is what it means to be loved and to have love in your heart.

@everydayfun9531 2 жыл бұрын

Mad respect to this guy as a Truck Driver the Truckers really are Proud of him for having such Dedication towards his Job while also taking care of his wife!

@irenedavo3768 2 жыл бұрын

Where are the Children?

@cjhoward409 2 жыл бұрын

@@irenedavo3768 They’ve been married 20 years. So the kids are either at college or old enough to take care of themselves maybe 🤷🏼‍♀️

@masukpakeko86 2 жыл бұрын

@Nicky L what's the matter? In china, a couple could married at 15. It's common there.

@stonesking6833 2 жыл бұрын

@@masukpakeko86 male22，female20，dont be silly

@rohankurian5641 2 жыл бұрын

😘❤✌

@SM2005_ 2 жыл бұрын

My dad was married to my mom for 40 years until she died in 2017 from a long term illness. He obsessed over her and her comfort. He loved her till the end. He was so lost without her, he ended up dying in 2021. I believe he was never the same without mom. This is love. What this gentleman is doing for his wife is love.

@sanaqamar1 2 жыл бұрын

Thats true love all these people are the great example of sacrifices

@Snoopy1997Joshua 2 жыл бұрын

Goals...

@TeeNicole10 2 жыл бұрын

Amen to your dad💙🙌🙏

@KCHSG 2 жыл бұрын

Same for my father. My mum passed away in October 2020. My father was equally lost and lost his will to live. He passed away 8 months later.

@Abdullah-ib9mc 2 жыл бұрын

How many kids did he have?

@penni6432 4 ай бұрын

There isn't one part of this story that I don't love! Sweet couple. This is loyalty and dedication.

@Romy--- 59 минут бұрын

She passed away of a cerebral hemorrhage earlier this year.

@nghiatran-yx4ff 5 ай бұрын

protect this wonderful man at all costs, he is an angel. she is very lucky to have him

@mikesbarn1858 2 жыл бұрын

My wife is in a similar situation. It’s my honor and privilege to take care of her. 39 years of love and devotion.

@supergobgoblin424 2 жыл бұрын

I bet your wife cheated on you when she was healthy

@saravanane1317 2 жыл бұрын

Kudos to you

@AccountHolder007 2 жыл бұрын

Real man.

@lubaleong9619 2 жыл бұрын

Bless your heart and your marriage.

@ulaper6465 2 жыл бұрын

You are a real man and not a coward like some people are.

@proud2bcsn 2 жыл бұрын

A role model, a great husband, and a real man. They are both lucky to have each other. In sickness or health, till death do us part.

@deneb3552 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, that's a real role model, a real tough guy. A perfect human being.

@-GHOST--ci4ho 2 жыл бұрын

@@deneb3552 i dont think no one is perfect but he is best example of it

@deneb3552 2 жыл бұрын

@@-GHOST--ci4ho you can be a perfect human tho, humans are imperfect by default

@orwellianyoutube8978 2 жыл бұрын

@@deneb3552 wait wut?

@Jallu555 2 жыл бұрын

So what happens after the till death do us part

@blessdatrack4masssoundprod773 5 ай бұрын

thats a real man taking care of his wife by any means necessary im happy to see she is getting better

@nanidominika7766 4 ай бұрын

😭this is unconditional love. What an angel-husband 🌼🌻

@meli3593 2 жыл бұрын

This is worth to be in a video "MASSIVE RESPECT". I can tell he willing to even sacrifice himself to protect his wife

@marvelcomiks8078 2 жыл бұрын

You'd be surprised how many men are willing to do this for the right woman in their life. There are many, the problem often lies with the women. Obnoxious, lazy, not caring for the family, expectations on husband, demanding, contemptuous or condescending to the working husband or worse betrayal. Listen to what he said...he recognized her dedication and hardwork for those 10 years. Her hardwork and devotion did not go un-noticed (he had been watching). Marriage is about sacrifices, not about what the other person can do for you. If you go into marriage with this kind of mind-set, I am confident 80% of the husbands will even die for you.

@thesecretlifeofbuns4336 2 жыл бұрын

@@marvelcomiks8078 the problem is always the woman to you, isn't it

@Berrygirl6784 Жыл бұрын

@@marvelcomiks8078 same how many women willing to take care of paralysed husband

@marvelcomiks8078 Жыл бұрын

@@Berrygirl6784 Very few. 1 in 10,000 perhaps. You will need to dig very hard to even find one and then once you do, quickly use her to boast of the dedication and sacrifices of the modern feminists, who otherwise have contributed nothing to humanity except problems and shames. Vast majority of women will leave their partners when their partners become a vegetable and go broke. That is fact.

@hobsonbeeman7529 2 жыл бұрын

Now that is man’s man! Dedicated to his spouse, for better and worse. My respect goes out to him!

@michaelperaza1079 2 жыл бұрын

Brother perfect words - It's amazing how today's youth thinks.

@fullmindstorm 2 жыл бұрын

Men are great creatures, most wemon wouldn’t do that for a man, some would but its rare in this day and age, and to michael, he is 40 and she is too, youths now a days wouldn’t do that. He is a man from a different time and so is she, a time when marriage was taken more serious.

@brucewayne6590 2 жыл бұрын

@@dimitar297 you need help

@fullmindstorm 2 жыл бұрын

@@dimitar297 She is doing her part and working through rehabilitation, and successfully might I add. Its only a matter of time until she fully recuperates.

@Theoneandonlybish 2 жыл бұрын

@@fullmindstorm you need calm tf down my guy Have you met most woman I would argue that woman are more loyal than men

@Starrynite777 4 ай бұрын

Wow! People these days don't understand unconditional love like this. Bless them both. ❤❤❤

@fred6907 4 ай бұрын

Kinda hard when women are told to hate men throughout academia and elsewhere. You wanna support a woman like this when you are told women don't "need" men? Feminism hasn't hit eastern Asia.....yet.

@shannonbeazer1268 5 ай бұрын

WOW! that is such committed love and I am blown away by their relationship. How he cares for her is amazing and she is such a beautiful person and so is he. I love it.

@cccatch-js8xb 2 жыл бұрын

In sickness and in health.... this man is an inspiration.

@sanaqamar1 2 жыл бұрын

Yes many people don't compromise and sacrifice and that is why they break their marriages

@lawrenceslsko1391 2 жыл бұрын

Really touching. He never forgot the "for better, For worse" vow.

@supergobgoblin424 2 жыл бұрын

If the paralized was the man , he would have been discarded. Vvomen are trash

@newyardleysinclair9960 2 жыл бұрын

They're Chinese. Do they make the same sort of marriage vows as we do in the west?

@ntz752 2 жыл бұрын

@@newyardleysinclair9960 Even if they were not spoken by the mouth,they were by the heart,this man does more for his wife than most westerners who take a vow.

@samuddin873 2 жыл бұрын

In this selfish world that Vow is just a word for many..

@ko-Daegu 2 жыл бұрын

We don’t have those vows The vows are stuff in western world mainly

@jefferypitts343 4 ай бұрын

This guy is pure gold, his devotion is without compare, if you really mean the words " I do" ,this is what you do !

@purplebunny7220 4 ай бұрын

BLESS THIS MAN. I LOVE YOU.

@tioswift3676 2 жыл бұрын

This man has a huge heart, much bigger than mine. I have the utmost respect for what he does for his wife.

@m.haslam8495 2 жыл бұрын

This is what true unconditional love is. Totally unselfish. The wife is on the road to recovery. She may not reach 100%, but is in the right direction. Undivided love and care for each other. I'm not totally disabled. However, my wife has looked and cared for me and I could never pay her back. She's amazing and I feel really blessed every day.

@BirdsTV4U 2 жыл бұрын

❤👍.. May Allah swt give you and your wife happy, healthy long life. Aameen

@lindahandley5267 2 жыл бұрын

That's what true love is all about. Blessings to you both! ❤ Throughout my life I witnessed my precious Aunt give that kind of dedicated care to her husband who sufferred with crippling rheumatoid arthritis. She worked for several years in a factory, getting up super early to get him bathed and ready for the day, while another Aunt and my dear Grandmother took care of him until she got home in the afternoon. I don't know how she did it. I loved her so dearly and I believe she's my guardian angel.

@Wumbology378 2 жыл бұрын

Very True, there are not many people who have relationships that can handle this. If you got someone like this in your life don't take them for granted.

@lindahandley5267 2 жыл бұрын

@@Wumbology378 So true. Many leave for a lot less than this.

@honeybadger9425 2 жыл бұрын

I hope i have that kinda relationship someday it not easy to find

@gravityiskey 5 ай бұрын

That's just beautiful.Their souls are beautiful.

@HeatRaver 5 ай бұрын

That's a real man there! Hard-working, while still tirelessly devoted to his wife. I wish all the best for them.

@ridhamatri9447 4 ай бұрын

We need more women devoted to their husbands.

@robert-antoinedenault5901 2 жыл бұрын

Now this is what being a man is. Do it for your own self, do it for love without being asked to do it. I raise my hat and bow to this man as he is better than most.

@kaiie. 2 жыл бұрын

Poetic

@tigrayfirst2261 2 жыл бұрын

@@ChristineFisher123 just get you another one.🙂

@ronmartin1375 2 жыл бұрын

Truly an amazing man that is inspirational. He must sleep very well at night knowing she can’t run away.

@JK-vy8vh 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah but this was a woman who actually loved him and stuck by him… dangerous attitude to have unless your actually lovers with a proven and trusted loyalty.

@ronmartin1375 2 жыл бұрын

@@JK-vy8vh I joke but this man truly is a hero. And as a couple they are inspirational. I will admit it’s great to see her recovery coming about and they have children together and that’s fantastic. Too many people these days are so willing to just give up. Not these two. That makes them hero’s.

@Abakaschi 2 жыл бұрын

This is unconditional, true love. He's a role model for all of us. This is a display of devotion and pure beauty from inside out. I wish both of them a happy and long life, side by side.

@jediahfish Жыл бұрын

1. He loves her because of her personality, what makes her, her. 2. What can she do.. love him? 3. Yes she can, you can clearly see her talking with him in the video. 4. Some may think having to look after her is a burden, but it'd probably bring them closer together. 5. If you think he's suffering, that's fine, you can give him sympathy, but he may not take it. 6. Love is love, if you don't love your girlfriend or wife just because they're paralyzed, you're never going to find a soulmate. Get lectured by a teenager, ya dog

@skyhappy Жыл бұрын

@@jediahfish I'll just reply to your first point, that is sufficient. You know absolutely nothing about her personality. He didn't even say he loves her because of her personality. You made a baseless assumption and this means your thinking was illogical. Making statements out of thin air is just dishonest.

@jediahfish Жыл бұрын

@@skyhappy kzfaq.info/get/bejne/p7VkqJCe0sCmhoU.html

@inayaisaac1824 Жыл бұрын

@@skyhappy she could've said the same thing when she was raising their kids alone at home, when she was home making, when she was cooking & cleaning & waiting for her husband for 10 long years. She was dedicated to him now its his turn. Besides, they are in love & she is getting better.

@E-A-Z-Y 5 ай бұрын

@@jediahfishDid you reply to a deleted comment?

@brucesmith9206 5 ай бұрын

Wow. That is pure genuine love. That man is one in a million.

@fred6907 4 ай бұрын

Helps to live in a country where women don't hate men. China hasn't been ruined by feminism....yet.

@Brooklynec2 4 ай бұрын

This is so nice how he take care of her

@ronnie8317 2 жыл бұрын

As a married man this brings a tear to my eyes. That's real love from a real man!

@salahuddinayubi5162 2 жыл бұрын

Do this to ur from now... Ok

@ronnie8317 2 жыл бұрын

Either of you married? Been married 5 years and it still feels like we just met. Do you say the same?

@manumaster1990 5 ай бұрын

guess wat if the gender where flipped she will never to the same. not even close.

@ridhamatri9447 4 ай бұрын

No.

@ridhamatri9447 4 ай бұрын

Ever seen women telling women what it means to be a real woman ( to selfless love their man)? No, right? Then shut up, ok.

@4and20blackbirdsbakedinapi6 2 жыл бұрын

This is the embodiment of the wedding vow, “to love, honor, and respect, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, til death do us part”. What an inspiration this couple is to the rest of us.

@lloydwalters4252 2 жыл бұрын

It's love, honor and obey, not respect!

@vh448 3 ай бұрын

That's a real man who truly loves his woman. Can't say that about majority of men. Too much fake love and not enough real love in the world.

@PS3PCDJ 5 ай бұрын

Might be propaganda, but this is what true love is.

@ati3armyofrobots 2 жыл бұрын

True love is not about looks ,money ,fame &all its about caring each other .Showing up for one another at their worst. This man has my full respect

@user-vs9db4tj2g 2 жыл бұрын

Yam chummi vy

@mcmerry2846 2 жыл бұрын

👑

@ati3armyofrobots 2 жыл бұрын

@@user-vs9db4tj2g a manipuri😄 what a coincidence

@petraeason2602 2 жыл бұрын

I have more respect for this man than I ever had for anyone. This is TRUE love.

@durkskuntunemun 2 жыл бұрын

I respect my parents more and you should too

@petraeason2602 2 жыл бұрын

@@durkskuntunemun and you should not tell me what I should or should not do. My parents are dead you Genius.

@randyjohnson8366 2 жыл бұрын

All parents don't deserve respect

@blackbeltjones2903 2 жыл бұрын

@@durkskuntunemun speak for yourself. You don't know what other people have gone through in their lives in regards to their familial relationships.

@crisalcantara7671 2 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭

@luisreis3202 4 ай бұрын

Wow, this is one if the best examples of love and humanity. I am 71 years old and tears come to my eyes. Long live for this couple

@stevieb931 2 жыл бұрын

When you think true love doesn't exist in this world.

@brendadickson9583 2 жыл бұрын

It does this is a proof of it I pray for such unconditional love

@stevieb931 2 жыл бұрын

@@brendadickson9583 Amen!

@kss8866 2 жыл бұрын

Did it say what happened to his wife?

@dcryptospace1284 2 жыл бұрын

Wow. I know. Speechless.

@allanverdadero8082 2 жыл бұрын

@@kss8866 yes, she suffered a brain haemorrhage in 2020 as per the video.

@thumtlnguyen3626 5 ай бұрын

I know a similar case. There's an Ukrainian woman who got married to a Vietnamese man. They moved to Vietnam to live. Her husband is paralyzed after an accident. She went back to Ukraine to sell her house and everything she owned and return to Vietnam to take care of her husband. She opened a restaurant to make a living in Hanoi and she has been taking care of her husband for over 20 years without complaining. When asked how she can take care of her hubby for a long time. She replied because I love him.

@EpicBunty 4 ай бұрын

Hella beautiful. I need true love like this in my life.

@user-qk2pv7uu5g 4 ай бұрын

And because she was fit to do so and no other choice then To put him in a home I got chronic back arthritis If some happen to my husband there’s no way I can look after him love or not

@ayurbadmaev7174 2 ай бұрын

Could you give her name or the link to the article with her story?

@thumtlnguyen3626 2 ай бұрын

@@ayurbadmaev7174 She's from Kyiv. Her name is Svetlana Nguyen. All article and videos don't reveal her full Slavic name. Copy and paste this phrase " phụ nữ Ukraina nuôi chồng bại liệt 20 năm" in youtube and google search, you can watch and read articles about her life. This Vietnamese phrase above means: An Ukrainian woman taking care of her paralyzed husband for 20 years.

@franklinviele2399 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for the willingness to share parts of your story! Blessings, Joy & peace on the journey as you both continue to get stronger in & out 🙏

@Loifisgreat 5 ай бұрын

It's unimaginable Thankyou for sharing this Giving more hope in this beautiful life Everything is possible ❤

@0to600 Жыл бұрын

To see her start exercising and her smile is priceless.

@Arunasweets 5 ай бұрын

That smile is what drives him to care for her day in and day out. Such a sweet story.

@Tory-JJ 5 ай бұрын

She's beautiful. He's beautiful. Their souls are beautiful. The way he looks at her even when they're being recorded.. I can tell. Makes me cry.

@ting-ting7001 5 ай бұрын

I’m crying. My best friend’s dad and her mom are like that. Her dad has stuck with her even after my friend passed away. He’s always there for her mom.

@Sunriru 4 ай бұрын

thats so sweet and heartwarming. thats true love right there

@ahmdnaube3745 4 ай бұрын

That is unbelievable and amazing care 😮 pure definition of love.

@Tolu1x 2 жыл бұрын

the makeup part adds so much more to this. Not only does he take time to fulfill her basic needs but he learned how to and applies make up to her on a daily basis to make sure she is pampered and her dignity is as well. This is the definition of living for someone

@MTC008 2 жыл бұрын

this is the definition of true love

@keithmoriyama5421 2 жыл бұрын

She is also a beautiful woman.

@haroldi.6450 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful story

@ponicorn 2 жыл бұрын

This is where donations and money should go. To help and assist those who are truly in need of a hand for simple things we take for granted.

@nR-nc8mb 2 жыл бұрын

You can’t give him donations if he is from China . the government will corrupt the donations . It’s better to give to some poor people in your own country

@patriciaobyrne1024 2 жыл бұрын

Yes I couldn't agree more maybe people will open their hearts and start a fund for them to make life a little more comfortable like toilet shower a hoist there are people out there with amazing talents to assist them .

@22Hammy 2 жыл бұрын

Nah people are too busy donating to twitch streamers

@Bobby-dl6tg 2 жыл бұрын

Chinese officials will take all the donations

@leesteal4458 2 жыл бұрын

Yes

@Killjoymain 4 ай бұрын

Definition of a great man 👍🏼

@decafmocha211 4 ай бұрын

Heartwarming. This man is a Saint.

@sherring7074 2 жыл бұрын

An amazing husband. So selfless and loving to his wife. We should all be so lucky to have such a person in our lives.

@vennsim71 2 жыл бұрын

She would be so lost and dishearten with life, if not for him. She knows he’s always around, and can fully focus on getting well again, instead of thinking about negative thoughts. No doubt at times she will experience that. Pretty sure he minimised that greatly

@thepipun 2 жыл бұрын

True, but first and foremost to ponder .. . Can we maintain those high standards ourselves before expecting someone to be so loving and dedicated towards us... many will simply say 'Yes', but its not an honest answer.

@vennsim71 2 жыл бұрын

@@thepipun I wish I can reply something sensible to you. But I think i don’t have an answer myself. Being someone going through a rough patch, I wish everything turns out well and i can give my all. But there’s a lingering thought if that is at all worth it. But I still do what I ought to do, what I want to do for the other half. But I just can’t say that ‘yes’ resoundingly.. that’s just for me

@daisukeyuki1215 2 жыл бұрын

Don't many just enter a relationships expecting people to change?

@chetansood1178 2 жыл бұрын

@@thepipun 🙂 i can't ... This kind of loyalty needs real high level morality ... Where is that in me.. i hv this question to myself

@ry-gaming4964 2 жыл бұрын

This is the real definition of a real man, not the man that go out and fights 10 guys alone but the one that has golden heart and loving.

@DipsyMum29 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@roberthertel5565 2 жыл бұрын

Agree 💯

@chaxologist2024 2 жыл бұрын

Love the Ip Man reference! Yeah, Ip Man not a real man at all going out like that and also slapping his defenseless friend all because the latter colluded with the Japanese to be a translator. This one's a real man without over the top Chinese patriotism!

@aokiji5888 2 жыл бұрын

@@chaxologist2024 Dont disrespect the goat Ip man

@mrdeepwebinsider2197 2 жыл бұрын

This comment deserves 7 billions of likes 👍.. thank you for pulling this out..

@MichaelWilson-wx5ms 4 ай бұрын

It is great to see dedication and true love ,it is so rare ,this is genuine humanity

@awanier786 Ай бұрын

Real life Hero, he is fulfilling his promise and commitments, thats a real man there.

@euclidelmore8379 2 жыл бұрын

This mans love for his wife is on a level I can't even begin to fathom, when he said "for better for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and cherish always." he meant that!

@martuuk8964 2 жыл бұрын

Chinese weddings don't have those vows. That's a western thing.

@euclidelmore8379 2 жыл бұрын

@@martuuk8964mb not verbatim as i put it, but there are vows exchanged at a chinese wedding(atleast at the few i attended both at the ceremony and Gov offices). But my point is whether Western or Eastern cultures as husbands we do make a vow to our partners to do what this gem of a man is doing for his wife. Most don't stay true to that vow. This man right here? Exercise love not only in word but in deed n he is a legend for that. We can learn from him no matter the cultural background.

@KFC431 2 жыл бұрын

@@martuuk8964 verbalization is meaningless if you don't mean it. Take action instead of talk or promise. I think it's kind of the meaning. His whole way of living/actions and intentions/ambitions are saying that on it's own.

@Follow.Jesus.Christ 2 жыл бұрын

What a man, what a husband, what an amazing human being. Wow

@ramenomirice2767 2 жыл бұрын

More like a descent person

@portraitofablueavatar114 2 жыл бұрын

@@ramenomirice2767 A decent person wouldn't go as far as to take her to his job just telling you.

@stephenkgordon6856 4 ай бұрын

It's simply amazing. I have so much respect for both of them.

@Andrew.PJMsia 4 ай бұрын

This! This here is the definition of true, unconditional love between two people. This is amazing!

@martiniskandar8764 2 жыл бұрын

This is wht u call unconditional love! So proud of him and hopefully his wife back to normal someday

@petedoze6643 2 жыл бұрын

Very 💓 touching.1in amillion couple.

@JT0007 2 жыл бұрын

Utmost respect from 🇺🇸. This man is what we should all aspire to be.

@sillyrukus 2 жыл бұрын

100%

@RakeshKR10 2 жыл бұрын

Cold war Usa china 🥶

@itinensanzen 2 жыл бұрын

@@RakeshKR10 Cold war is created by the "rogue state". Search for William Blum's books.

@JT0007 2 жыл бұрын

@@RakeshKR10 🇨🇳 & 🇺🇸 have many more reasons to not go to war than to. Stop believing everything you see on tv.

@brandonhansen7998 4 ай бұрын

Love in its purest form. I know of a story of the complete opposite of this. I know a lady(used to work with her many years ago) her husband was in a bad car accident and became very dependent on others and she left him for someone else

@colinmorgan7771 5 ай бұрын

thats a HERO MUCH RESPECT SIR....FAMILY FIRST AND ALWAYS

@errorsk2188 2 жыл бұрын

The fact she is getting better is amazing, both to get the life she used to have and for the husband to have less stress. Best wishes.

@Valhalla_Heathen 2 жыл бұрын

Mr. Nie is truly living up to his “In sickness and in health” vow he took at the altar! Much respect sir 🙏🏻

@AutodidactEngineer 2 жыл бұрын

Why do you asume he did? Asians have their own religions, it's selfish to say things that correlate to your religion. There are better religions out there.

@Tooill4daIRS 2 жыл бұрын

@@AutodidactEngineer lol

@serixirose7575 2 жыл бұрын

@@AutodidactEngineer heh ?

@arch4916 2 жыл бұрын

you high?

@59Lemony 2 жыл бұрын

@@AutodidactEngineer You have the brain of a 15 year old atheist, congratulations

@hyperbole6529 5 ай бұрын

What a man 👏 👏 Great to see

@Garygarygary24 Жыл бұрын

As a 31 year old man that is sometimes skeptical about life and love, seeing things like this give me hope. Is it so hard to find someone that you want to be completely loyal to, care for, help grow along with you and start a family? Anyone that has found that in life is truly blessed. And these two are definitely blessed! I wish them nothing but the best

@Nonyah123 Жыл бұрын

You can't be picky and you have to see past people's looks to find such a person. Amazing women like this exist but they're not glamorous or beautiful. It doesn't matter though, their beauty grows as you get to know them. You probably have a woman like that in your life that you've overlooked due to physical appearance

@wakeupthisisntreal8168 Жыл бұрын

@@Nonyah123 you have spoken incredible words my friend. I am sure you have so much wisdom to share

@kireccielmas8727 Жыл бұрын

My husband Was like you. It Was really heardworking to Show let him believe that he can trust me and i love him and he can trust me. He ex hurt him so much. Now he is believing and happy. And me too because to give work even not easy everytime showed me a wobderful husband. Wish you the same ❤

@eivor319 5 ай бұрын

@Jay-bs4qw bro as a 30 year old guy i can feel u i have been single since my whole life and its obviously due to my flaws of being an introvert and low confidence but slowly i grew up to be really loving being alone maybe or maybe not i cn find someone for me someday but for now i feel that its fine to be alone.

@gazzy9136 5 ай бұрын

Women are stress most the time. They’ll make you question your psyche, through psychological abuse. They are regarded as psychos for generations and generations for a reason.

@RGTFLA85 2 жыл бұрын

That is what a real man is. Around the world there are very few men that are mentally and emotionally able to be anything close to him. Blessing on their family and her rehab/ recovery.

@nd-mk8pp 2 жыл бұрын

Stereotypes

@Chet_Brinkley 2 жыл бұрын

Oh yes, yes, SO right . Beautiful person.

@jeradblazek677 2 жыл бұрын

There are very few women who would take care of a man like that as well.

@ommanipadmehum4975 2 жыл бұрын

Young generation has to know what is true example of heroes in this world. Like both of them. Watching that video is a thing, but be deeply touched is an other. The Generation of zapping doesnt take enough time to understand how the situation they live is an profond accomplishment. Im really sad to see most of young people have lost faith in the power of love built by effort over time. Like all has to be fast and without strong commitment..

@santiagoastengo8176 2 жыл бұрын

100% agree.

@marcocapozzi7321 4 ай бұрын

what a great man, what a fortunate woman!

@cutiemegumi 2 жыл бұрын

This is so heartbreaking and heartwarming at the same time. He’s an angel. I really admire his determination and love for his wife. I didn’t even think this type of men or person exists . I wish the best for them and hope his wife will get better soon.

@markcavandish1295 2 жыл бұрын

Well said

@marvelcomiks8078 2 жыл бұрын

You'd be surprised how many men are willing to do this for the right woman in their life. There are many, the problem often lies with the women. Obnoxious, lazy, not caring for the family, expectations on husband, demanding, contemptuous or condescending to the working husband or worse betrayal. Listen to what he said...he recognized her dedication and hardworking for those 10 years. Her hardwork and devotion did not go un-noticed. Marriage is about sacrifices, not about what the other person can do for you. If you go into marriage with this right mind-set, I am confident 80% of the husbands will even die for you.

@arifbagusprakoso2308 2 жыл бұрын

Paralysis is recoverable. The wife will be back to health. I hope it's sooner than later.

@Zedd2087 2 жыл бұрын

I'm disgusted at your view point generalizing all men and am going to assume you wont meet a decent one because of it.

@markcavandish1295 2 жыл бұрын

@@Zedd2087 chill

@omkazn 2 жыл бұрын

We can all learn something from this man. It’s easy to say love when everything is fine, but much harder when faced with adversity.

@bb-yk5cc 2 жыл бұрын

Ccp scam

@notagain2856 2 жыл бұрын

@@bb-yk5cc shut up, bot

@ntz752 2 жыл бұрын

@@bb-yk5cc You can hate the government but don't hate the people brother

@LukeHartman-ro7hl 5 ай бұрын

What a hero this guy is. Much respect to you, sir.

@shomans905 4 ай бұрын

This is a REAL man!!!

@debbieanne7962 2 жыл бұрын

A wonderful husband, sleeps in a tiny 10 centimetre space, looks after his wife's personal hygiene, doesn't complain once. A true man. Wishing them both better times ahead and hope his wife will make a recovery however big

@milanimorales2645 2 жыл бұрын

She has a better caretaker than most people in care facilities in the USA. In the USA the nurses are short staffed and frustrated so the quality of care is lower and lower everyday. But even in the truck she has an amazing person looking after her. Very inspiring.

@xymzk 2 жыл бұрын

There are staffing shortages and issues with the staff. I've seen staff neglect and torture patients. Though there are also amazing staff.

@Me-ds3nm 2 жыл бұрын

Oh yes the CCP is great.

@Joooo89 2 жыл бұрын

@@Me-ds3nm This has nothing to do with politic.

@johnwig285 2 жыл бұрын

@@Me-ds3nm typical reply of a "patriot" aka one who doesn't like it when flaws within the system are pointed out

@masterclass3941 2 жыл бұрын

@@Me-ds3nmcringe asf what does it have to do with ccp?

@talon310calif 4 ай бұрын

What a beautiful story. I hope she continues her recovery and they can enjoy the rest of their lives together.

@apsh23 4 ай бұрын

This man is a real hero....

@wheniwatchtheworldburn3184 2 жыл бұрын

People often brandish the word 'King' and 'Queen' around but I think that man truly deserves to be called that

@Mario7p Жыл бұрын

To me he is a real man, because kings and queens are just moochers 😂

@wheniwatchtheworldburn3184 Жыл бұрын

@@Mario7p that's very true, Kings & Queens live lives of luxury with servants whereas this man works very hard

@camaroman101 Жыл бұрын

How do you know he identifies as a man? I would ask him his pronouns first.

@Mario7p Жыл бұрын

@@camaroman101 I dont think he cares about american binary culture

@Nonyah123 Жыл бұрын

Kings and Queens mean nothing. He is a man. This is what it means to be a man

@andytjhin7670 2 жыл бұрын

Hope his wife got a full recovery 🙏🙏.

@leotrace9158 2 жыл бұрын

I really hope so.

@vennsim71 2 жыл бұрын

Sincerely so too.

@fadhilsyarif5374 2 жыл бұрын

I'm still searching for their update, but one website is full of chinese characters and I can't read them 😆🤣

@b34k8 2 жыл бұрын

@@fadhilsyarif5374 send if to me pls

@CyberMew 2 жыл бұрын

Please keep us updated!

@sinduravishnu8306 3 ай бұрын

Wishing his wife a speedy recover awesome man

@Chrissy358 5 ай бұрын

He's a great man that truly loves his wife. I am truly happy to see the love he has for her. I wish them all the best. ❤

@jamescaneda9515 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been married to my wife now 39 years. She scares me when she says she’s ready to go. I don’t know what I’d do without her.

@Bert_de_Wit 2 жыл бұрын

Don't be afraid James. Cherish and live. Life is short for all of us. Don't waste one minute in fear. Hold her close and feel her love. Live now and don't think about tomorrow because that's tomorrow. Bless you, my friend.

@neerajshukla2756 2 жыл бұрын

Just dont show for likes that you are also like this man.

@RakeshKR10 2 жыл бұрын

@@Bert_de_Wit Christ are Mostly lovely boys

@Theoneandonlybish 2 жыл бұрын

@@neerajshukla2756 why would you comment trash are you jelous

@cynthiaholland13 2 жыл бұрын

I'm praying for you and your wife. Enjoy every day with her and know that all will be okay one day at a time

@TheBajanMan 2 жыл бұрын

For someone with a spinal cord injury I can respect his efforts 1000%, this is what we call true love for another human being! If you don't feel teary-eyed watching this then it didn't hit you like most of us. This is the kind of love the world needs right about now ❤️❤️❤️👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

@OneTrueWord1988 2 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@TheBajanMan 2 жыл бұрын

@@SpecialSalads fixed it thanks 🤗. The video had me emotional and wasn't paying attention to what I was writing.

@OneTrueWord1988 2 жыл бұрын

@@TheBajanMan We all knew what you meant. 😊 No worries; it is a great comment! 💐

@tomsd8656 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, romantic love, which most women crave and would leave their husbands to chase it, is not love. Love is like this right here.

@OneTrueWord1988 2 жыл бұрын

@@tomsd8656 Very true Tom! 💐

@georgieburchill7672 4 ай бұрын

This is the most beautiful thing I have heard and seen in a long time❤️❤️

@papermason 7 күн бұрын

Love at its greatest and deepest. They smile and they just get down to the business of everyday life. I wish them every blessing. Love from Canada.

@garnetz1731 2 жыл бұрын

That's what I call a true lovable husband. This puts tears in my eyes to see such a devoted, lovable family sticking together.

@GabrielGriffin82 2 жыл бұрын

All "Husbands" are loveable. Men that are not up to this level are not "Husbands" in the truest since of the term. I would have no objections to doing this for my wife who I love dearly. Titles have honor we must not diminish their distinction.

@JA-tr9ze 5 ай бұрын

What a fantastic human and husband. Taking her on his journeys and sharing the best he can with his life. He is exactly where he needs to be and so is she. What a great video. Thanks for sharing.