"No stress never deh inna de curl" Y'all sleeping on Spice. #TellThemSis

I get what spice is saying. I will never bleach my skin I love the skin I'm in. but Some ppl do give light skinned ppl better love and respect than a darker skinned woman.

I am a lighter skinned black woman & I completely understand what Spice is saying. Mimi is not comprehending what she is saying.

Being a dark skinned woman I can see where Spice is coming from 100%

Mimi’s facial expression after the “light skin privilege” comment, she acts like light skin privilege isn’t a thing, when it really is.

He was really trying to not say “they straighten their hair” ... the relieved stress from the curl.... wtf

Spice is right...Mimi is in denial. Light skin men & women ARE treated differently...if u disagree you are in denial as well.

I fully agree with Spice! Mimi doesn't understand.

Some light skin people get it and some will never understand 🤷🏾‍♀️

Mimi actually just demonstrated her own misconceptions in this scene. Madame C.J. Walker is actually a *controversial* figure in Black history, precisely *because* she popularized techniques for Black women to straighten their hair *in imitation of Caucasian hair.* She didn't "promote Black beauty," like Mimi said; she really promoted *white* beauty to Black women.

If Mimi could stop yelling all the goddamn time maybe she could hear Spice's viewpoint.

I think they both have points. They're just too prideful to see each other's point.

Mimi needs to listen to what Spice is saying. Spice hears Mini but MiMi doesn’t hear Spice. MiMi doesn’t have the same experiences as Spice. Spice was not raised in the United States and she has dark skin.

I really hate how Mimi is just shutting out Spice by screaming and shouting.

I'm Jamaican and I've heard teachers on countless encounters cursing students calling dem "black like midnight" if they misbehave and these are normally the darkest student of the class.

MIMI DOESNT GET IT AND SHE NEVER WILL. People come from different places and have different struggles including black people. The man gave Mimi an example and she didnt acknowledge it, by all definitions of the word, that is ignorant.

Spice is basically telling Mimi about the struggles of being a dark-skinned black woman. However, Mimi may never understand that because she doesn't have that kind of struggle where she was mocked for her skin-tone, not feeling accepted whether its by family, business and relationships. Spice is showing that Mimi is privileged because she has a LIGHT-SKIN TONE.

Please remember Spice experiences are from a Caribbean island where we are predominately black much different from America. That being said, lighter skinned blacks are more privileged than darker. I agree things are changing but colorism still exists! I remember stores in high tourist areas like downtown ONLY hired lighter skinned, good hair females and banks as well. That’s just the way it is

Mimi won't EVER know what it is to be dark skinned. Ever.

i can definitely relate to spice im dark skin and i grew up getting a lot of shade from my own so call black brothers and sisters of how dark i am i was call all kind of names because of who dark i was by my own black ppl. so i can really understand what spice is saying

You won’t understand..... when ur a lighter complexion black person you will get better opportunities and are seen second to a white woman... in the Caribbean.... when your a dark skin woman you are less desirable... if MIMI grew up in Jamaica she would be sought after she would get 9/10 men in the club while spice would get 2/10 sooo that’s what spice is saying.... there are dancehall artiste who don’t even have half the talent spice has and from their first song get a lot of support while spice had to work yearssss just to get her accolades..... to put it in the prospective of American society... a cardi B acts ghetto af! And she is talented sure but there are dark skin female rappers like a remy ma who are far more talented and seasoned and lets be frank remy am will never have the level of success that a cardi b has just because of her dark skin.... think that’s why LIL KIM has bleached her skin over the years because she also realize that being of darker complexion people won’t check for u.... funny how Mimi saying all this yettt you have a legendary LIL KIM bleaching her skin looking crazy in these streets sooo what’s there to understand about what spice is trying to teach u... when you have a prime example in ur own America hip hop/rap community 🤔🤔🤔🤔 Mimi can’t think straight tooo much pressing combs used in her hair

As a afro-Caribbean woman is obvious to see that mimi wants spice to convort to the American standard of black beauty whereas not to tip-toe over that line to make it look not too obvious

Does Mimi not realize Madame CJ walker made products the appealed to European standards but just made it easier for it to happen

"Blackness" is beautiful!!! You can love anybody regardless of the colour their damn skin. Being light is a headache but to be dark skin is a heartache because so many people suffer discrimination from other races plus within their own communities. Education needs to be a strong tool to educate the generations to come🤗🤗🤗

Thank you Love and Hip Hop for a real discussion that is affecting our people....The basis of this conversation is knowledge through facts vs knowledge through experiences

Im glad they are having these conversations however, when that man told Spice to change her look a couple episodes back he didn't mean she should bleach her skin. She automatically assumed that is what he meant and made it about her complexion. Oh yea and Mimi is annoying af and always does the most..🙄😒

Spice -"buh no stress neva inna di curl" DWLLLL

Come on na!! Y’all know Meme love to play slo

I hear what spice is saying about her completion but not everyone feels that bleaching their skin is the answer... She's gone end up looking like lil Kim... 1st its skin color next it'll be more plastic surgery on her body then onward and upward... Just love yourself and love whatever shape, color, hair texture & etc you're blessed with...

3:50 nahh as a dark skin I felt that part low key😩

The biggest issue I feel like was that both girls weren't *listening* to each other. They were trying to get their points across without trying to understand what the other was saying. So yeah there's that. Now considering the *facts* of the matter, Mimi was wrong. Yes both women are black but as a *darker* skinned woman she went through *more* discrimination than a lighter skin girl. And we as a community do it to ourselves.

I really like spice. This is the only clip of love & hip hop I’ve EVER seen that didn’t feel like it was scripted.

The darker the berry the sweeter the juice😏

I hope this comment section doesn't turn into a who had it the worst battle between lightskin and darkskin people..😂

I think spice is right 💯 every country has a different way of doing their own thing. Being darker skin in Jamaica doesn’t give you the same opportunity as when your lighter skin. It’s sad but it’s true. Society just needs to except us for whatever skin tone we are.Everybody has their own way of looking at it. But she’s an adult so she feels like that’s her way of getting the point across I think she should be able to have that right every country has a different culture of a different way of doing things that’s just life

Honestly I could feel where spice coming from !

This is actually one of the better story lines promoted on the Love & Hip Hop platform. This is a dialogue that is prevalent in our society and needs to be discussed and people need to see the perspective from BOTH sides. There is no "right and wrong" it is all perspective from each individual's experiences. All black people do not experience the exact same kind of racism all of the time. They also didn't grow up in the same culture or with the same parental upbringing. For ONCE in LAHH history I can see a positive in a storyline; Please don't make me eat my words Mona!!!!! 🙇🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️

"Me ah get deh right link from Jamaica"- SPICE🤣🤣🤣

i actually love how i learned something. Would love to visit the Madame CJ Walker museum, such history and iconic moments

Wow this is dope!!! I would love to go there!!!!! I got chills when he said where they were at.

*I love my girl Spice♥She needs to look at one Jamaican Queen named Patra♥♥♥♥♥Patra did not lighten her skin to be accepted. Neither did Dawn Penn♥♥♥♥♥Sounds like more of a self esteem issue than skin color.*

I love Spice! Start real meaningful conversation!

This was a great conversation

I’m glad they are bringing this up this season

With Spice on this one all the way. Unless you are wearing and walking in the very same shoes of those deeply affected, it will always slap differently. Love and appreciate how her actions are challenging the very outdated status quo.

🥰 I love this debate it's not over a man it's about something serious I approve of this message

Is it me or has n e body found the full episodes..its like as soon as I got cable I dnt get no more recommendations for the full episodes

Nice 💎

I’m sorry but I would never bleached my skin for that reason but I do understand both sides those

Yep spice is right. We did it to straighten our hair I’ve always said that yeah we natural but still I got my wig on but aye

I use to get that done when I was a kid to my hair that was the in thing in St. Kitts and my mom.use to do it when she was younger as well

I am a Hershey kiss, and I absolutely love it.

I will say this when I was in school the light skin girls got chosen for everything first for everything and treated noticeably better by teachers I the eczema kid so My personality scares people off but the darkskin girls got picked on So the pressure to be lighter is there Mimi doesn’t get spices point

Spice wants to break open the conversation and make it honest and transparent. She got rid of the gas lighting by doing her bleaching stunt and I applaud her for it! Being dark-skinned IS a different struggle than being light-skinned, especially around colorist people. Considering the little bit of protection dark-skinned girls and women get from colorists or really our own communities, how quickly we are considered angry and malicious yet "strong" enough to deal with more BS than the average default women in society are expected to deal with, Spice really brought her points home with this video and I hope we can progress from dialogue and mutual understanding.

I love my hair texture. I wear all styles including the hot comb, relaxers you name it. I like to wear my hair different ways. I change it up, I was taught to love myself despite it all. People are gonna do wat they want if it feels it will make people accept them.

Aww man, good job Mona!! I got teary eyed

Black is always beauty🔥Thnx to God🙏🙏I'm Blessed to be a black🙏🙏🙏

Are you gonna have a next child 😂😂 real yardie😍

It's good conversation, I just wish they were patient with each other.

'Stress in the hair' what a way to describe my hair. I have stress on the brain and stress in my hair. Stress: you can't run from me I'm everywhere

The irony of two women with weaves mimicking European standards talking about self acceptance. Edit: referring to the straight look folks not hair color

As a lighter skinned woman I can say I agree with Spice 1000000%. I've experienced situations where I was preferred over my darker cousin she was more like a sister. Even as kids when we played certain games to the men who like us to certain opportunities that we got. I was always favored and I know that it is a huge issue within the black community.

I truly understand where they are both coming from honestly it’s just they way they are both delivering it is where they bump heads.

I’ll never know what it’s like or even begin to even feel the pain my dark skin sisters going through this horrible nonsense but I’m standing in my blackness in all shades! Last week I was told I was too black and too bold and yes I was not discriminated for being a darker skinned woman but it really made me think 🤔 what are my darker skinned sisters going through yes someone’s ignorance hurt my feelings but I felt some type of way and I won’t lie I was close to dashing something at the person but I held back and use my tongue instead I just wanted to share that 🙏🏽 my mother born and raised in Clarendon Jamaica 🇯🇲 miss spice have a point 😤🚪

Spice your color is beautiful ! Love black color (Africa) 😍🤩

Black is beautiful no matter what the shade is embrace it ❤💪

Its good to see this i learned something from this

Sometimes you cannot understand the pain when it’s not yours to bear.

I love Mimi she is a very persuasive friend she's not a hypocrite spice have some points still I don't think spice should bleach her beautiful skin tone

I think Spice is using her platform for a good cause. As a darker skin woman many people treated me different. I love the way Mimi tried to explain her point of view but Mimi doesn't know until she has a relative experience it. Few days ago I was watching Erica Campbell show when her daughter told Mrs. Campbell how she felt. This is a serious issues around the world that we need to let our children know their skin color, and body shape is beautiful.

LMFAOOOO I MIXED IM NOT PRIVLEDGED

The subject is intense! There has always been a debate with light skin vs dark skin and with me being so Chocolate I understand. However my Mother is light skinned and grew up in the deep South in the 50's. She has always taught me to be proud of who I am, inside and out! MiMi should be sensitive to Spices struggle and I know she means well but there is a cultural difference and when you are privileged or preferred sometimes you are unaware. I don't think changing your skin color is they key....but if you look at some of the celebrities right vs before, it's so obvious they've bleached or toned their skin

Spice is 100% correct Mimi is hard headed

I Feel u Spice

They BOTH have very valid points... I genuinely feel that way. 😳

1:03 they turned their head the same time😂😂😂

Every shade is beautiful BESIDES THE SHADE OF BLEACH SORRY SPICE

I'm lost. Spice is talking about “black hypocrisy” and all that stuff, but has a straight wig in the confession part of the show, with a curly long weave wile filming 🤔🤔

It’s true. In some jobs sometimes in Jamaica you have to be light skin and have straight hair. My cousin that lives there actually bleached herself.

Oh lawd, Please don’t ratchet up the museum!! So glad they got their asses OUT!

Just because we all black, don't mean we all face the same discrimination. Period

Mimi is lighter tone but very much a black woman she is hardly privileged she not that damn light

Just love the skin your in.

As a cosmetologist.... this means so much to me!! 🙏🏽💕💇🏽‍♀️

We in 2019 and still tryna justify the reason why bleach our skin and most of the comments here are agreeing with sky, what you agreeing with.Why was black of all shades created and exists, melanin is very beautiful its the only skin color and skin tone that no one can bleach into unless they black fish, that is how unique darker skin tone is.Its 2019 no matter how lighter you make your skin to be, its not gonna boost your self confidence, or your self esteem ,if you dont self confidence in who you are as a person , thats it, its about time darker skinned black women to rise up, take their mantle and shine.Lupita Nyon'go comes from the darkest skinned toned tribe in Kenya and am sure she was called names, teased but look her now,Danai as well with all their darkness, and so many other women thriving in the industry or even world .To young person who will ever read this, i hope you read this and know that you are beautiful in whatever shade of color that you are, do not listen to what the society says, create your own sound and hear your own voice and the Lord God your creator who tells you, you are beautiful, amazing and you are a queen and the only way someone else will treat you as such is when you do yourself.

Black people face problems period 🤦🏽‍♀️. Light or dark we face the same problems in different ways. Saying one has it harder doesn't fix anything 🤦🏽‍♀️

My answer would have been my momma use the hot comb on my hair for manageability! I had a head full of hair n I hated when I had to get it done. The hot comb did me justice as a child! 😁

Oooooooooooooh.... *I’M READY!*

I agree to some extent with spice n some with mimi The hair that was legit But if spice do bleaches.... Thats too wild Instead of changing... Show that its ok to be darker skin.... This can get real twisted if u change over.. When lil Kim did... It did so much to young black females

Spice has a very valid point... Funny how she’s questioning Madame CJ Walker and straightening natural African American hair, whilst wearing a 28” BLUE WIG. 🤔

*I LOOOOOOOVE HOW SPICE DELT WITH THAT, CALM AND COLLECTED* YAAAASSS QUEEN COME THRUU MUMA❤️❤️❤️❤️🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

"Nuh stress nuh deh inna the hair" 🤣🤣🤣

Here my thing....because natural hair nazis will say that blow drying is not natural. Does that make them right? A pressing comb is used to make it easier to comb your hair. Period. I dont have 3 hours somedays to deal with my hair in curly state. Why do we even have to quantify it on these levels!!!! We are all black. We all have had terrible experiences in relation to WHATEVER color brown you are. I get it Spice, I do. My mother and I are the lightest among a dark-skinned family. I prayed for children the color of them because I hated....excuse me....hate this lightness. We all have a struggle....lol...MImi.....let Spice live and learn. None of us have every really walked in someo ne else's shoes✊👊

All I see is a lighter skinned woman arguing with a darker skinned woman about her struggles SIMPLY as a dark skin woman, the very struggles which mimi will never know..... because she isn't daaaarrrrrk skiinnnned lol!!

like girl is we gone argue as friends let it be about something like this a actual problem not just for tv because i understand both of their sides truly ❤️🙏🏾

Wow that light and dark is still going!!!

Maybe back in the day but not now I hear ppl praising dark skin women and men .

Shes beautiful the way she is. Smdh.

That guy is soooo me in debates/arguments

At 3:45 she definitely said the ppl that love u goin to think ur selling out...smh sell ur soul is what she talking about smh illuminati is something else