I think being single is a really important part of growing. You need to have that time where you can get comfortable with being alone so you won’t be so dependent on someone else to make you happy. Learn to love yourself so you can know how to share that love with someone when the time is right. The one will come to you when you least expect it. The last thing you want to do is rush it and fall for the wrong person.

i loveeeee how clarence is talking about queen & his family. i know she’s gunna watch this & be smiling from ear to ear lol

“If you never had a women, how are you a man?” Realest shit I’ve heard in a min! 💯

Awwww Clarence has grown so much. Their kids have really given him a different outlook on life..

People get so caught up in age when it comes to when they have a kid or when they settle down...we are all at different paces🤷🏽‍♀️

Mod needs to do more vids like this with collabs like clare or other youtube celebs. He has the content, he just needs the recognition.

A lot of times women don’t trust men due to being hurt by men that they’ve been with previously. So, when they step into something fresh their guard is already up. As you grow and mature in life there comes a time where all the games need to be put aside. It’s like GROW ⬆️! Everyone moves at their own pace. But like Clare said, you definitely don’t want to just jump in the game just because other people are in relationships or doing this or that. There’s someone out there for everyone. Sometimes when you go looking you may get something that you don’t want or not sent by God. When your patient and you allow things to flow organically with God in the midst that’s when you start to attract what’s meant for you.

Mod & Clarence Got The Friendship Everyone Should Strive For & Look Up To Them To Have A Friendship They Have. It’s Not Misleading Or Disloyal, It’s All Genuine & Lots Of Respect💯💯💯They Represent A Real Friendship For LIFE!

This was real grown and mature I respect it Jared is smart and clarence really represent his queen and his household 💯🔥

Clarence video idea set up blind date for Mod.....

Mod don’t go looking for love let it find you everything is about timing your such a sweet heart your going to find someone who is going to knock you off your feet also remember you have to be able to receive love before you can give love Peace Love and Blessings King

"Its a difference between being social and being disrespectful" 👏🏾

I really feel like you don’t need to be in a relationship to feel the way Clare mentioned. I love myself to the point I don’t need a man to be in a relationship. You wake up everyday, love yourself more, wake up motivate yourself, do better for yourself. You really can find more to love about yourself everyday....Jared you feel like you locked in because you haven’t grasped the fact of what a relationship is.

I think being single is good and it helps you learn your self and love your self and focus on your self and get your self together .

Clarence is very mature and wise for his age

Clare is 100% correct. You are not living until you have a child for sure. If you don’t have a child you will never ever understand what he means by that. 💯

Two successful young black kings, two different perspectives. You both doing it the right way. Clare found his better half and Jared will find his soon. I love the deep and raw talks between you guys both of you will get further. I love how you shut down the negativity and focus on your bag, not everyone will understand you but you understand yourselves. Jared I pray you get noticed soon, you so talented the game is not ready for you, the day it happens I will be so happy. Keep grinding Gods timing is the best, stay patient and humble king❤🙏🏽

Patty’s hair looking real healfy 👏🏽👏🏽 you can tell he takes great care of it

A relationship is not based off age, it’s based off mentality, mutuality, two grown people on the same understanding base. THAT CAN HAPPEN AT ANY AGE.

I don't want to get too deep but your singleness is when you find YOU because you can't love someone else if you don't love you FIRST! Man was not created to be alone. We are made to connect and there's power in connecting with someone on a different frequency. You can have all the money and materialistic things but be miserable and bitter because you don't have anyone to share them with. Man can do good on his own yet it ain't nothing like the spirit of a woman which is a partner, to make that man feel unstoppable; his backbone!! Jared you just gotta find her but definitely don't rush cause you'll know when your ready🤷🏽‍♀️💪🏼😊

I swear y’all are great friends for each other 👌 on a mental level 💯

I can’t believe all those bad things Queen cousin says about Clearance fighting Queen.....cause right now all I hear is a Man loving his family he were Bless with❤️ If so I’m Praying for good decision making in their relationship 🙏🏽

Everyone reaches that stage in life when they want to settle down. That moment in life when you’re not willing to tolerate any BS or games. It’s not as difficult as everyone paints it. Stay single until you know you’re ready to settle down. That means no cheating, lying, and all the other foolery that leads to drama or breakups. Because of your status Mod, I suggest you step out of your comfort zone and date women from different scenes. Speed dating, dating apps (there are some that screen their clients for safety reasons), or even church like Clare said. Always let a woman know what you want, expect, and need in a relationship and have her tell you in return about hers. We all have our future King or Queen painted in our minds, but you have to be willing to compromise on some things. For example, I prayed for a faithful, handsome, hardworking, God fearing man with no children. Guess what? I got everything except the “no children” part and wouldn’t trade it for the world. Turns out my now husband of 4.5 years was a single father with a 6 year old son who is now my child and going on 14. You see how God works? My husband and I met when he was 28 and I was 26. We moved in together after 3 months and he proposed 9 months later. We are best friends & lovers with the happily ever after story. I say that to say everyone’s experiences are different. Do what’s best for your happiness and don’t settle.

Enjoy ya life, yung G (Mod).. Continue to be the best U & always stayed prayed up.. GOD'S timing isn't rushed but is carefully & strategically orchestrated.. HE takes HIS time when HE molds the clay, & rewards unexpectedly AND some..You'll be somewhere 'random' at the right place /right time.. It won't feel like it's by force, but the chemistry will be undeniably magnetic, & you two will eventually feel like a 'Force'.. Most importantly, it'll be healthy & not toxic..Let GOD work, continue to train, & guide U 💯

Omg! Clarence and Mod having boys grow up together is going to be so hilarious!

I definitely feel being SINGLE is a choice. And when you're ready to be in a RELATIONSHIP you will.🤷🏾

I like the fact that they share their thoughts and feelings that’s kinda rare for guys I also like the eye contact with each other when they talk lol

Love how they automatically click no matter how long they haven’t seen each other. Laughing and vibing just like the old days 🥰

Do another one... this made me smile so hard. 😬 Took me back to the old grind. We all had so much fun during that era ❤️

I Understand Where Jared Is Coming From He Wants To Build & Have Someone To Build With Same Time Don't Rush It Because Every One Else Has It Their Situation May Look Appealing But Behind Closed Doors It May Require A lot More Work Than You Think. Take Your Time & Enjoy Your Life Work On Your Music Career & Let God Lead You To The Rest. PRAYER IS DEFINITELY CORRECT Keep Pushing Mod. Your Day Will Come 🎯

Lol, Jared stay patient. Your journey is your journey and it'll all play out like it's supposed to. Stay focused.

I love how Clarence pick his words n everything that he says with procaution but the part about business partner thro me off. Everything else was answered correctly. Clarence did this interview very well. I need to c Jared in the new crib as well. Inspiration

I miss u two together bro...u bring a very nice content to the people...and by the way...u should do it more often ...that's where all started bro ...we miss that shit one love

Yall are hilarious!! So cute how yall are homies, but you can tell that Patty really looks up to Clare and respects his advice

Damn who would’ve thought Bj & Deavion would separate. Much respect for the both of them for sure they’re cool asl💪🏾‼️

Investing in a relationship is not something you jump into. You have to learn how to love someone else unconditionally and sincerely. Being single is a lonely life but if you can't love someone as you love yourself and make this person apart of your life, it's best to remain single!

My two favs💜 Glad they did a video together..Missed the two of them together making video's... Mod doing his thing, proud of the great success , Clarence also.. Never give up on ur dreams, cause even though its hard your goals, success will come.much love all the way from ct..✌💜🙏God bless

Yo! Mod! I noticed that you have 444,000 subscribers. Pay attention to those numbers. It that sequence those numbers always have meaning.

Everytime I look at Mod I wanna say “Go home roger!!!!” 😂😂😂

Very Mature Conversation!! Grown man status!! Frfr💯

Great topic Jared. Real talk for these young kings. Watched 90% of ads. 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

I just think you should fix your toxic ways when it comes to relationships. Youll never find the girl for you if you stay in that same engergy you have to open your mind

What a Great Video both of y'all are on Point So Good 2 see y'all back together don't let it be so long again much love Family ♥️♥️

I was definitely glad to c this vid ...and Clarence the fact that u did not call him patty one time was great . Jared is what u called him and that's a sign of one man respecting another. Convo was pretty good but u both r still young so ur speaking from what u have lived point a view ,which is fine bc at least u have a point of view to speak on ...bc a lot of young people just go off impulse and never think about what's next . Great job guys I 💗 seeing u back on the couch even tho u were not in the basement 😉😊

This was dope glad we got the spicy 🌶 101

No one is promised tomorrow no matter the age.

Jared if your past relationships all feel like bondage, you're a candidate to remain single. You're not ready to share your life and it's ok, relationships are not for everyone. Keep in mind though, don't have a family with a jump off, that's toxic to your child.

Lol this was funny and mature as the same time.

My homeboy and I had this same convo the other day. I’m MOD and my homeboy is Clearance. Funniest shit ever.

Jared just take your time, no rushing nothing... what the lord has for you is already yours just continue believing in yourself 🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️ Sn : just bc you meet someone and procreate with them doesn’t mean it’s meant to be forever also if you want a wife you have to pray & prepare for that and then began to take the steps to achieve that life. Now if you want a babymomma; you can find that anywhere also marriage doesn’t mean that it’s 100% gonna last 💚

Mod don’t get discouraged there are still good women that’s not worried about what you have but just truly concerned about you just think Clare can’t be the only w a great one

Mod and Clare Speaking facts on this video I agree 💯💯💯 I love Mod DA God and Clare

I’m single by choice, only time will tell, when I am ready to settle down , I’ll be 31 this year time is ticking

Not to bring my boy Bj up is beast 😭🤦🏿‍♂️ like that’s crazy😭😭😭😭😭😭

I miss y’all together 💯🥰💪🏾

MOREEEEEEE OF THESEEEE

“Bad boys for life” got me 😂🤣

Our generation be too focused on timing with age rather than timing from God. You’ll find your person when you find your person don’t put yourself on a time limit. It sounds like clarence isn’t understanding that just because his starting his family don’t mean everyone got to

Y’all Dropped Hella Gems💯👏🏼 Thank Y’all For The Inspiration!

I Love These Videos!!!! So Glad You Brought Spicy 101 Vids Back!!!! It Feels Like The Old Days ☺️🔥♥️

I enjoyed watching this VLOG 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I agree with modagod hes very mature he thinking about his parents and his legacy when he thinks about settling very smart young man 😉👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Yah need to bring the Spicy 101 topics back!

Every Good Man Needs A Dominant Woman By Their Side.. Nothing Wrong W/ Being Single It Definitely Helps U Sharpen Your Ability To Love Yourself First And Fully Understand Who U Are As A Person.. Your Purpose In Life. Time Well Spend By Yourself To Grow Almost Every Woman And Man Will Eventually Look Around Like This Can’t Be It.. I Want More And I Wanna Share It W/ Someone.. Respectable Video 💪🏽

Their is nothing wrong with Patty he is like me we are picky and eccentric and we the kind of people that need Real Love not place holders like the rest of most the world 🥰🥰

"This like my last week being young" LMFAOOOOO did anybody catch that?

Mod got the Ol' School 90s Mystikal braids

Ohhhh shittt the talk videos are back 🤞🏾

Yeah! Prayer always works! I personally believe in BISION BOARDS. Just putting out to the UNIVERSE what you want. You can create your whole life and make your dreams come true through a VISION BOARD. Mod! I suggest you be very specific as to what your looking for in a lady and just make sure that your able to match what your looking for in her. Relationships are fun. It’s more than just sex. You don’t want to be single and hoppin from this chick to that chick. It’s like sit down and find yourself. Figure out what you really want and what’s meant to be in your life will be. Everybody’s situation is different. What works for one person may not work for you and vice versa. So, it’s just a matter of knowing what you want and praying about it and not really looking. When it’s meant to be and you’ve prayed about it if you take time to be still and pay attention to the signs you’ll find the girl for you with not too much effort on your part. In the meantime continue to work on becoming the best you so that when that opportunity presents itself you’ll be ready.

Lmaoooo “Bad boys for life” that would be so cute. Legend marrying Jared’s daughter.😭 but yeah Jared you need to hurry up and find the one. 💗👀 time waits for no one.

Yes I missed y’all together❤️❤️❤️

Mod take your time!!! Dont rush nothing..... focus on your craft right now... you are on the right path.... im a female but ina be honest having a girl then going on to have a kid just adds bills lolll im just saying..... get where you want to be at in life.... if you want to have a girl then fine but focus on you.... dont let clarence situation make you second guess yourself.... at the end of the day he got it easy... he got in a situation where his shawty was already lit 🤔🤔🤔 and everything he got is because of her ☕️☕️☕️.... you got shit alil harder so its only going to make the end result so much more appreciated because you working hard for your shit... stay focused bro

Clare 👏🏾👏🏾✊🏾respect! Seems like you & Papoose been conversing 😂✊🏾

I FEEL LIKE YA'LL ARE SPEAKING YOUR FUTURES INTO EXISTENCE. IMAGINE A YEAR LATER, MOD SAYS HE HAVING A GIRL.

5:20 mod made a point. & Clare felt that. Love this vid

6:40-7:24 was such a deep moment for Mod. Went over a lot of yalls heads..Mod I just wanna let you know though. YOU HEARD RIGHT. Straight out of the horses mouth. Sometimes we aren’t prepared but that’s the confirmation you needed..but let me just end by saying when you make it ALONE, without any assistance, you’ll feel way more accomplished than you ever feel you WOULD HAVE been, being apart of “spicy mafia”. You got the talent my boy. Believe in yourself. Lock in and GRIND, fuck all the confusion. Search WITHIN. Much love and success to you 2020 💕

I fully support you i never watch ads but I’m definitely watching yours

I loved this conversation!!! It was amazing; fun- everything!!!

Very reflective and insightful convo. Hope to see this more. Ya'll really do have a, dope friendship. Hope it never ends, no matter what. Good point Clare. There are several "prime moments", in life. Prime comes in, many forms. Jared, describing therapy to help with emotions, was super dope.

“We on the cusp” 😩😂😂😂😂😂😂

Always worth the wait

Yessssss spicy 101 is backkkkkkk 🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️ damm but I am late 😭

Y'all be cracking up!!! Mod you better get on it Bro....

SPICY MAFIA BACK IN DA BUILDING!!!! UUUUUUUU HEARD!!!

I miss the spicy gang that was a good video and specially seeing you guys together again...spicy gang needs to do more videos

Love you 😍!!!!! Keep Doing your thing!!!! God bless!

Single = 1 mind Relationship = 2 minds

Great Video👏🏽❤️

SPICY MAFIA 🌶🔥💯

Let go baby

I’ve been single for to long that I stop counting lol 🤣 but when the right one comes it shall come. Same for you Patty the right woman will come along eventually just continue to wait patiently🙏🏾

I remember being 26 and saying this my last summer to wild out lol

This is an excellent video.

Feelin the intro❤️ also never knew mod was this deep

They back!!!

Lets do a "The Bachelor" featuring Jared aka Mod Da God, produced by Spicy Mgmt, the series.😍

MISS YALL TOGETHER, REMINDED ME OF OLD TIMES !!! NEED MORE OF THIS IN 2020. Sorry had to do all caps because niggas don’t be seeing comments 😂😂😂 #SPICYGANG

My two favorite ninjas 💕

I love the advice, and debates y’all have !

Nice to see you guys together again! 😂😂😂