9 Unavoidable Problems You’ll Have DATING A MEXICAN (+ How to Overcome Them)

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9 Unavoidable Problems You’ll Have DATING A MEXICAN (+ How to Overcome Them)

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Күн бұрын

Being in a relationship is usually fun... but you should definitely #ConsiderThisBeforeDatingAMexican!! Every relationship is different and how successful it is depends on a lot of factors, but I want to warn you about any potential #TroubleWhenDatingMexican!
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0:00 Introduction
1:53 Conservative Family Values
2:43 The Silent Treatment
3:17 The Macho-Caballero Paradox
6:00 How To Solve These Issues
7:00 DON'T DO THIS!
8:35 The Impact of Gender Roles in Your Relationship
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@springspanish 3 жыл бұрын

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@fidelsolis6070 2 жыл бұрын

I love Mexican girls. I want las q son Amable y no enteresadas. Ay unas bien sangronas enteresadas que vienen a vivir a Illinois oh nueva york que andan con todos. Esas no valen las pena. A mi me gustan las Mexicanas chidas independiente s y bien guapas q sepan bailar q son Amable s y romanticas y q sepan Cocinar algo.

@MrDMC11889 2 жыл бұрын

Hablo español con fluidez. No me cuesta adaptarme a nuevas circunstancias. Gracias por explicarnos porque las cosas son como son.

@johnryan6456 2 жыл бұрын

The culture shock is real. I work with my girlfriend, she is from guatemala. We work with many spanish speaking men. I'm often bothered by the way these men stare at and annoy my girlfriend. She and her spanish speaking girlfriends seem to be fine with this behavior. I find it very disrespectful yet I know my Irish culture is much different and more reserved.

@chrisjoy439 Жыл бұрын

I have a Mexican American cousin. She’s lives in Los vagas and I love her to death 😊

@doncunningham3124 11 ай бұрын

I'm a white guy married to a Mexican woman for over 30 years now. Other than the fact that this video is very accurate, I have to say this... Mexican people are very passionate and will sacrifice their own life in order to protect one of their family members or even their friends. Just imagine what it takes for a woman like that to respect her man. It's all or nothing because that's exactly what she'll give you. Just saying. ✌️

@ImAgentK Ай бұрын

Well in my experiences with Mexican women, they're not keepers, it seems like they play too many games, are the biggest liars, mean, etc.

@kevinjonesmusic 3 жыл бұрын

This is good info. Now to find it from a Man’s point of view.

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

Good idea! I'm going to pitch it :D Thank you KJ

@inconnu4961 2 жыл бұрын

@@PaulisimaSpringSpanish wow, thank you for considering it! I'm impressed!

@DateMeNow69 Жыл бұрын

😀👍♥️

@franciscov511 4 ай бұрын

jeje you are correct, latinas highlight the best of them to get picked by an European or American(gueros)

@ka-ba-ahk 7 ай бұрын

They are also touchy feely accepting hugs from everyone. Some cultures don't have as much touch and comes off as to " friendly "

@marietzannetakis7870 5 ай бұрын

Not in Tlaxcala.

@sophietejada5651 22 күн бұрын

@@marietzannetakis7870 xD because Tlaxcala don´t exist 🤣jk!

@dreadfulbadger Жыл бұрын

All of this sounds perfect for me honestly. Especially the pda and loud talking

@josebro352 2 жыл бұрын

I'm a white british guy and I have a HUGE crush on a Mexican girl in work. She's absolutely beautiful and she's cool too. She looks like Catherine Zeta-Jones.

@michaelcandido2824 Жыл бұрын

funny cuz shes welsh but yea any luck?

@u.smarines1649 Жыл бұрын

Be a gentleman with her, make her laugh and show some chivery also show her that you have a good heart and she will be yours, unless she's married or has a boyfriend.

@stephanygemagomezflores7378 Жыл бұрын

@@u.smarines1649 I agree with you. I am a Mexican American girl and I think that she will be yours if you do show her you are interested in her as well as what @U.S Marines suggest.

@u.smarines1649 Жыл бұрын

@@stephanygemagomezflores7378 stephany,you're very pretty 😍,I'd definitely wine and dine you.

@BurnerBoy-mw7tx Ай бұрын

Did you get with her

@elaineen1 27 күн бұрын

I am a U.S. born Puerto Rican living in Los Angeles. I speak Spanish. For some reason I was never in a serious relationship with Mexican women although I dated such. Most were not attracted to me. I never understood why. In the end I married a Spanish woman. She was U.S. born of Spaniard parents. I think there are subtle cultural differences among Hispanic cultures which can influence relationships. Such may not be overtly apparent.

@jeffonken4769 6 ай бұрын

Este vídeo fue grabado hace 2 años pero hoy está recibiendo un "Like". Disfruto escuchando tus videos especialmente con la energía y entusiasmo que pones en tu enseñanza. Hice mis comentarios antes de ver la última parte del vídeo. Debería haber esperado. A esto lo llamo la guinda del pastel, es puro lenguaje de amor.

@steveforrest8 Жыл бұрын

I live in a very Hispanic town and most of my cliental and friends are Hispanic. I'm learning a great deal of Spanish by listening and not afraid to speak as much as I can. I've dated three Mexicans, two live in Mexico.. I love the culture and certainly want to marry a Mexican. It didn't work out so far but I'll keep trying

@zinknot Жыл бұрын

Good luck! I dated a few Mexican women and I'm in love. The worst of them treat me better than any American woman I've known.

@karaokemetal6313 2 жыл бұрын

I'm a white guy with a Mexican woman. She's very protective over me and I love it. Plus she loves public displays of affection. Plus what I love about her she doesn't ask me to change she lets me be myself and honestly I've never had that in any relationship and she's very understanding. She doesn't try to stuff me in a box that I will never fit in. But the only thing that her and I have one problem in the relationship is the language barrier cuz my Spanish is very minimum and the way her and I talk is either through Google translate or her son or daughter translates for me

@jrlast5051 2 жыл бұрын

Dude... Learn Spanish. Is not that difficult. And is the second most useful language in the Americas... Or the first.

@deepgardening 2 жыл бұрын

Vale la pena to learn some castillano! If you are bilingual in English/Spanish you've got the two most spoken languages on the planet, and they ARE related, maybe only something like Swahili is easier to speak a little bit. The feeling you get when you hear a song you've known all your life and for the first time you hear what the words mean- it's just too cool.

@ct4074 2 жыл бұрын

Good decent Mexicanas don't die their hair purple, they don't need pronouns or tatts,, they know all lives matter, they don't kill babies, they like their men to be men, they're not poisoned with hatred towards men, body count is a source of shame not pride, their moral book is based on Judeo-Christian values not the Cult of Latter Day Woke...

@sofiblinka2300 2 жыл бұрын

@@jrlast5051 why not she learn english

@jerryhawthornejr.4261 2 жыл бұрын

That's So AWESOME.

@fernandacarrillo3642 2 жыл бұрын

If someone tells me that "Calladita te ves más bonita" Ohh man you will be in trouble 😅🤭

@vanessamadridmartinez7144 2 жыл бұрын

This was some advice given to me.

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 2 жыл бұрын

@@vanessamadridmartinez7144 and me too ugghhhh :/ but we are the change that our ancestors were longing for :D

@DateMeNow69 Жыл бұрын

😎👍

@WineSippingCowboy 2 ай бұрын

Same deal with many people in The Philippines 🇵🇭. I live in San Francisco 🌉 I meet many Filipinos and Latinos. I visit The Philippines 🇵🇭 for many years including 2022, when I was recently there.

@baleslydia2009 3 жыл бұрын

I watched this video and my Mexican-anerican husband was listening in. When you shared all the loving phrases he goes "oh yes, Imma cry now" 😂😂😂 guess he needs some extra love

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

Aww!!! Thanks for watching Lydia :D Don't we all need the extra love? hehhehe

@inconnu4961 2 жыл бұрын

LMAO! Poor guey!

@DateMeNow69 Жыл бұрын

💛💙💖

@AJontheguitar 3 жыл бұрын

This was so good. Growing up American in a Mexican family, I'm fully in touch with my femininity while also fighting a weird instinct to be macho, which doesn't fit the rest of my personality.

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

Gracias AJ! The macho thing right? It's so unfair! It puts unnecessary and ridiculous pressure on man even since they are of a tender age. Brutal. btw ... I'm fascinated by the Mexican American culture :) I love its endurance, its adaptability, I love mis hermanos mexico-estadunidenses de todo corazón!

@AJontheguitar 3 жыл бұрын

@@PaulisimaSpringSpanish Yeah it's definitely a balancing act. I certainly have never taken offense to being called a pocho or a chicano. This is a wonderful channel that has inspired me to start speaking Spanish more to my wife and kids.

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

@@AJontheguitar Me da mucho gusto que te estemos ayudando :D

@Kitiwake 2 жыл бұрын

@@PaulisimaSpringSpanish you can't know because you're not one. It didn't matter how many brothers you have. Yeah sure it can be difficult but we can handle it.

@Kitiwake 2 жыл бұрын

That's fair PC nonsense. What's you feminine side?

@emilyflores9844 2 жыл бұрын

My experience dating several and marrying two mexicans...most are alcoholics or ex alcoholics

@josebro352 2 жыл бұрын

Women or men?

@clarusjason4389 2 жыл бұрын

So sorry about that dear I wonder the joy most pple derive from drinking alcohol too much it's really annoying dear but believe me all men are not the same dear... Believe.

@clarusjason4389 2 жыл бұрын

There is still a me right out there my dear

@DateMeNow69 Жыл бұрын

♥️🍾👍

@fray3dendsofsanity 6 ай бұрын

Her personality is magnetic haha, fun video

@ellisandino 7 ай бұрын

I'm in a relationship with a Mexican girl but I'm interested in her i love her so much but i hate when other guys talk to her and the most guys that bother her because they low down people

@wingzero411 3 жыл бұрын

As a Mexican guy born in the USA. I gave up on dating Mexican women after dating a decent amount (25) of them and being told I'm "too american, not Mexican enough, and too nice for a Mexican man." So I dated everyone else black, white, vietnamese, Chinese, Brazilian, Haitian, and German now. I'm happier sharing my culture with others. No hate to Mexican women but, be ready for anything to go wrong and be like MacGyver and fix it. I would have if I saw potential in any of those dates. My mom really wanted me to be with a Mexican women so got as many girls to go on a date with me as possible.

@MonaLisasApple 3 жыл бұрын

I’m a US Mexican. I too have had this issue. I’m about to quit dating Mexican men altogether.

@wingzero411 3 жыл бұрын

@@MonaLisasApple or I've had some try to marry me to become USA citizen

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

ufff I hated when people try to tell me I'm not something "enough". I'm like.. b..... Of course I'm enough. I'm me and that's enough.

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

@@MonaLisasApple heheh I'm about to quit dating.. ALTOGETHER jaajaja!!! :D

@wingzero411 3 жыл бұрын

@@PaulisimaSpringSpanish I would give up but take it as a learning curve and put your best foot forward.

@ccoose51 2 жыл бұрын

I have a 50 year relationship with a large family in Yucatan. I now live among them and of course eat most of my meals with them, besides getting close with a real beauty. I suffered a mild heart attack a year ago and of course I regrettably had to change my diet a bit. These days I can easily attach humor with my passing on manteca y mondongo at the table! Me encanta tus lesiones! Muchas gracias.

@johnmorelli3775 2 жыл бұрын

Thank god for Mexico's old fashioned values! That's a benefit not a problem. Sexual liberation has done little for North America with tons of single moms & a very high divorce rate!

@danjsilve 2 жыл бұрын

I have no problem with public displays of affection. I can handle somebody being late. If we have a restaurant booking for 8pm. I would tell her it's a 7.30pm booking, or even 7pm. However, I have realised/experienced that dating somebody with a child means I am very low down in her list of priorities, this is universal not just Mexico. Great video

@johndrake2729 2 жыл бұрын

Date no one with kids. It's that simple.

@moscaonthewall 2 жыл бұрын

So... this is gonna be long... fair warning: From my POV as a Mexican single mother with a Christian/Traditional upbringing, yes her children are going to come first while you are DATING. However, I was raised with the idea that the husband is the head of house and he comes before the children. So, what men have to understand is that while dating, you are not her priority because you are just a boyfriend, which can mean very little depending on the amount of time you have been dating. The longer you can last in the relationship and the more committed you both get to each other, the higher you get on her list of priorities. Once you become HUSBAND, however, then you are someone important. Boyfriend, not so much. There is no reliability or guarantee of commitment with a boyfriend. Also, there is no shared responsibilities with a boyfriend. As a single mother, we are not only responsible for ourselves, but also another human being (which is a pretty big responsibility). Therefore, how can you expect to be #1 in her list of priorities? Once married, she can feel some relief because she will share those responsibilities with you and that will give her more freedom to place YOU (the man) higher. I cannot understand why men feel like single mothers should not prioritize their children over someone they are dating. They are wholly responsible for the life of their child(ren). They are not responsible for you (men). However, this does not mean that she doesn't WANT to place you higher in her list of priorities or that she doesn't want to be everything for you. It simply means that her hands are tied to her obligations to her children because they are her FAMILY. Now, if you completely fall in love with a single mother and think she'd make a great partner, then have patience with her and her situation. Have an honest conversation about how she prioritizes her children over you. It's very possible that she's unaware that you feel this way. If you or any man is not marriage minded, however, then I suggest avoiding single mothers altogether. Single mothers are looking for partners to share family/life obligations with. For the most part, they are looking for husbands and, in some cases, father figures for their children (in cases of absentee fathers). This is just my point of view, but I'm confident that I'm not the only single mother who thinks this way.

@danjsilve 2 жыл бұрын

@@moscaonthewall Thank you for your thorough and comprehensive reply. I am very encouraged by your viewpoint, as it's nice to hear Mexican ladies' POV. Also from someone who has Christian values. I am originally from England, and let's just say things are very different there with regards to Christianity and marriage. It's why many Westerners look to date from other traditional cultures as divorce rates are so high, and 80% are instigated by women. Personally, I don't want to be the top priority in a relationship with a single mother, I have my own things I want to take care of. The lady I am getting to know is still waiting for her divorce to come through and she is in no hurry to get married again. The father of their 8-year-old daughter is present, which is great for their daughter, but he does not want another man living under the same roof as his daughter, and being a Father myself I get that. The lady in question says she needs to obtain closure, and we recognise the possibility she may never be ready to date again, aside from time constraints, ( she is spinning many plates ) her ex-husband may be the one great love of her life, and their soul-tie is very strong. You know some people only ever have that one soul mate. We shall see. I should be in Mexico in May, and I hope to finally get to meet her, and as we say "one step at a time" Gracias.

@DateMeNow69 Жыл бұрын

♥️♥️♥️

@bodieb.1239 2 жыл бұрын

Loved this video. You are a beautiful ball of Mexican energy. Also very funny and natural. W O W !!!

@BritishRail60062 Жыл бұрын

I love the sense of humour she has and if I do get a Mexican soulmate in the future. I would be open to learning about her culture and customs. I like the sound of the Spanish language as well. Gracias Paulisima, please keep up the great awesome videos. I like the positive energy. I have subbed and I hope to make some Mexican friends too this year. Gracias Amigos. I want to learn Spanish, so I can enjoy the culture better.

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish Жыл бұрын

Gracias por tu comentario :D

@JohnHernandez-uu1id 10 ай бұрын

Hola Paulisma. I'm a Mexican-American born and raised in the U.S. . Can you point me in the correct direction so that I can better my spanish. According to my co-workers, who are 100% paisanos de Mexico, I am 80% to 90% fluent in spanish. I really want to be 100%. Any advice?

@haroonmarikar 2 жыл бұрын

I have only one request to mexican girls , Dont be silent :) but speak slowly till my spanish improves . At 100 words per minute i can only understand some words in spoken spanish . Por favor . disculpe , gracias :) Nice video

@tymz-r-achangin 2 жыл бұрын

I'll learn her immediate family's names. Anymore than that, then she'll need to memorize the names of my tools!

@tymz-r-achangin 2 жыл бұрын

and I dont care about your families drama of who does and dont like who. If you got that bullsh-t going on and you all dont keep separated, then dont drag me into your soap opera!

@Th3lite 2 жыл бұрын

Idk if it just me but I live in a neighborhood with a heavy Mexican population and I handle claim for California, 90% of my customers only speak Spanish. The men seem really nice but this is only a phone conversation of coarse. Just made me courteous.

@Kitiwake 2 жыл бұрын

So.... You speak Spanish to them?

@lancewright2518 2 жыл бұрын

Not to compare but dating a Philippino was the hardest thing for me in the beginning..dated 4 years an it took me 3 years to understand her an her language...words do not meen what they sound like..most do but lots dont...but the similarities between Spanish an Philippinos are super close...family...actions..family..devotion to boyfriend..or husband...religion ( both catholic)... for me dating a Mexican would be a walk in the park..planning on moving to Mexico soon...find me a Hot Tamales...start life over....

@DateMeNow69 Жыл бұрын

😀👍♥️

@DrummingWriterTrekfan84 4 ай бұрын

I'm an American white guy trying to win the affections of a beautiful modern Mexican American woman. I wish I had found this channel last year because ive already made plenty of mistakes. I believe there's still hope and this channel is definitely helping me a lot!

@cayrick 2 жыл бұрын

I wish I could speak Spanish the way you speak English. You are far more than a pretty face. Kudos.

@jonathanwade3882 Жыл бұрын

I’m a black guy and the only thing I’m being more aware of is when my girlfriend starts yelling at me in Spanish and sadly i learned so much Spanish just to know what she’s saying 😭

@visionsick 2 жыл бұрын

This is so so true for my experiences. I mean I had to be in charge and lead everything but only when I was doing it the “right” if not she wanted to chime in on everything. Lol your in charge yeah right. Lol. The family thing was so much to handle. Not only that she has 3 sisters. So I was the go to for all guy advice. So I become a therapist. Then the hardest part was being super polite to the father but also showing him that I handle things in my home. The aunt told me. “You see those rams 🐏 on tv in the wild when they head butt? Just go with that attitude. But don’t disrespect him” lol 😂 then with her also never saying what she means. Always being quiet 🤫 and expecting me to know what’s wrong. It was honestly the most difficult and the most rewarding time of my life. I learned so much about myself also.

@kateviers6536 2 жыл бұрын

Perfect timing! haha!

@AngelWrldTV 2 ай бұрын

Great video

@lex6819 2 жыл бұрын

A good comeback for the "calladita" comment would be "igualmente"

@aesopdemoor7595 2 жыл бұрын

4;12 #5 this may cost you your life, remember Myans cut hearts out, these are them. when you break up, run for your life

@youngsavagefury7138 3 жыл бұрын

I find filipina women and Mexicans share the same values

@livelovelaugh85 3 жыл бұрын

I think so too lol But mostly about family values. As a Filipina, I'm starting to like their culture.

@Kitiwake 2 жыл бұрын

Traditional Catholic values.

@trydyecry3978 3 жыл бұрын

Hola, guapa. Lol I came here for the affirmations and learnt so much more.

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

Hola try :D these affirmations are muy importante :D

@johnshoosmith 2 жыл бұрын

I'm dating a woman from Toluca... You may have saved our prospects of being life partners! Bless you, and thanks!

@boink800 2 жыл бұрын

Great video .. if I am ever so lucky one day to have a Mexican girlfriend/wife.

@user-ju3mz4xp8z Жыл бұрын

I have travelled to Mexico many times, and you are right. Mexico is huge with distinct variations in behaviour of the natives. I am still wondering why no one ever told me it is important to learn Salsa dancing if dating a girl from Veracruz, and why in that region the girls say "eh ,eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh" as they are dancing. Which I have not heard in Chiapas or Sonora for instance, where they also love to dance.

@gabygerman4269 4 күн бұрын

Vamos por unos tacos! Definitely will help❤😂❤❤😅❤❤

@ayuanabradford3206 2 жыл бұрын

I agree, as my fiancé is A True Mexican. Not a Mexican American. As a Mexican American is different from the True Mexican culture and not the same as a 100% Mexican. Also my fiancé did say Mexican Women are very tóxica and they need to calm down. Yet he always respect still his people and never really bad mouth them. Just telling facts..As he dated Mexicans women before me.

@zinknot Жыл бұрын

Great video! You're very funny.

@joelibarra7095 Ай бұрын

I am American Mexican 🇺🇸🇲🇽 I love Middle East Woman

@kairamalave4930 2 жыл бұрын

😂 Where was your video 6 years ago? Needed this. You had me laughing the whole way... Thank you so much.

@springspanish 2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@billjackson1200 2 жыл бұрын

Wow that's a great video, and I learned a lot of things.So thank you very much,and it was very helpful.And I believe that Mexican women are the most beautiful women in the world, and I enjoy dating them.So keep up the good work, and may God bless you and your family!

@Carpets_are_nice556 Жыл бұрын

COMING FROM A MEXICAN MEXICANS ARE SO LOUDDDD AND HAVE SO MUCH ATTITUDE honestly on my dad side they believe in a women in a kitchen and a man working and my moms side is more nicer about it but they still kinda believe it Honestly I’m not mad about it but I do think that dads should be more in the child’s life and also help the mom

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish Жыл бұрын

totalmente

@justindurham7017 2 жыл бұрын

Lol thank you. Just started dating a woman from Mexico

@alexcidjavillonar7973 3 жыл бұрын

Mexican ladies are the sweetest. My mama is Mexican.

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

And Mexican mothers are the best :D

@lupita4391 2 жыл бұрын

No es verdad mi mamá me pega con el huarache saludos desde México

@jiner5210 2 жыл бұрын

I honestly i love mexicans i have never meet much sincere and kindly people i am proud of were i am from but i am also in love with how you'll view life in general

@jamesfreese4700 Жыл бұрын

Interesting!!!!

@frankherzer2227 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much 💖 Greetings from Germany 😍

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome Frank :D Oh! Germany is in the top of my list of places to visit when travel is easy again :D

@frankherzer2227 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your answer 💖

@DateMeNow69 Жыл бұрын

💖💖👍

@frankherzer2227 Жыл бұрын

💖🙏💖

@mikesmountain2 2 жыл бұрын

Love this Lady's Energy! ...thank you for the information!

@lessforloans Жыл бұрын

My wife is Mexican. Her family migrated to Ca Ans mainly speak Spanish. Love them like my actual family and to be honest maybe more. Loving and good people with some killer food

@j.rebekah8605 2 жыл бұрын

I would never reject tamales. You're very pretty. I just met a Mexican American man and couldn't stay away from him. We watched the stars for four hours and talked. He lives far away and I hope to see him again. He didn't seem different than other men but I'm crushing so looking these sorts of things up. Thanks! 🌺

@N3dita Ай бұрын

How did it go? Did you ever see him again? I hope you two ended up together 🥹

@sksman71 2 жыл бұрын

I'm married to a woman who is part Mexican, lots of pots and pans LOL

@wip3z531 Жыл бұрын

On GOD 😂😂

@-whackd 3 жыл бұрын

What is all the negative stuff about a macho guy? Because we don't have this exact culture Im not sure what examples you mean.

@Kitiwake 2 жыл бұрын

I have come across it. It's very ugly, really.

@dm7744 2 жыл бұрын

It’s actually a guy who isn’t very macho , fragile ego , has to prove himself. Not truly masculine. That’s what they seem to be talking about

@lizmakino561 Жыл бұрын

Hi! Mexican girl here, well there are lot of negative examples, one could be the controlling behavior (specially the one that's soft in the beggining and then it becomes intense and it's clarely abusive) in every matters: money, time, friends they aprove their woman to have, the way she should dress up, many of them insists their woman left their jobs or profesions in order to keep them at home with the kids, that way she'll be totally controlled etc etc etc ... There are more but maybe you have an idea now...

@DateMeNow69 Жыл бұрын

💝💝🔥

@tylercampbell6365 2 жыл бұрын

My Mexican honey fed me Menudo and didn't tell me what is was ..lol 🤣🤣 But she is the most amazing woman ever..I forgive her!!

@Kitiwake 2 жыл бұрын

Lucky you, Tyler.

@JohnPeter-co1jf Жыл бұрын

That’s why I had to cross from Michigan to Mexico Chetumal just to get a wife and I’m very happy.

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish Жыл бұрын

ChetuYork! jejej AWW entonces conoces Bacalar? Felicidades por tu matrimonio :D

@JohnPeter-co1jf Жыл бұрын

Oh, yeah I know Bacalar, in fact, I'm about to go to Mexico this month.

@JohnPeter-co1jf Жыл бұрын

My Spanish is a little bit messed up lol 😆.

@aarongunter8758 Жыл бұрын

It's a Mexican woman at my gym OMG I don't give AF I'll make a door an open it for her. She smiles at me I still haven't made a move her English is ok. Damn I trying to work up courage to say something to her.

@dreadfulbadger Жыл бұрын

Did you go for it?

@minookalantari Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@alphabrakovo9122 Жыл бұрын

I'm a Latino, Spanish speaker, but raised in Canada. I currently started dating a Mexican girl (I'm living in Mexico now), and these type of videos help with the cultural difference. Please make more of these.... Gracias!

@MexicanMovie 8 ай бұрын

Paulisima i have a question. I have over 80 classes on italki with mexican tutors, most are good looking women and they ALL tell me they would have no problem packing up and moving to the U.S. and leaving their family behind, which kinda confuses me if they are so family oriented, but i don't wanna ask too many nosy questions of them, lol. And i notice that you did the same und du lebst jetzt en deutschland. (my wife is from Germany, so i spoke decent German until i gave it all up to learn Spanish, lol)

@gaming-zombie1392 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome sounds Great and Love it... Spanish was my first Language because my Grandparents only speak Spanish to me they never Learn English... I miss them so much I called them Mami y Papi never Grandma or Grandpa...

@analyst1777 2 жыл бұрын

Interesting!

@Cody8man 2 жыл бұрын

Could you do a video on Citas con una bruja Mexicanna

@ezduzitgarcia784 2 жыл бұрын

Love you ya nerd,

@nicedog1 3 жыл бұрын

I like Mexican woman too but it’s not much use to me living in the UK 😕

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

Oh we're everywhere :) Cheers!

@nicedog1 3 жыл бұрын

@@PaulisimaSpringSpanish There’s plenty of Spanish people in the UK.

@jaztec68 3 жыл бұрын

@@nicedog1 Totally different culture from Spain. I'm Mexican American and there's still a cultural difference from the people of Mexico.

@lolaasayolkkk7085 3 жыл бұрын

@@PaulisimaSpringSpanish nott... Really there really not latinos tbh.

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

@@lolaasayolkkk7085 Oh no! :( Now I'm on a mission to find out where my people gathers in each major city of the UK hehehe!

@sumreview373 Жыл бұрын

Que significa "Spicy Latina"?

@JOAQUINARMIJO 2 жыл бұрын

Is this for dating a “Modern Mexican” Woman, for Non Latino Men?

@colinq9697 Жыл бұрын

I'll get back to you ,going to try some of these haha had a little rough patch the other day. Mi novia vive en Tabasco.

@TheDoonRealEastateofficial 2 жыл бұрын

Hi, I'm an Indian boy and I love Mexican. I want to move to Mexico so do you guys have support? What is your opinion about this? And I like Mexican girls very much if there is such a girl. If found, I will shift there.

@Paolalezz Жыл бұрын

dude, follow your heart! -Mexican American gal

@keithnelson7629 2 жыл бұрын

Muchas gracias Bonita now I'm ready to marry my Maria

@lupita4391 2 жыл бұрын

Jajajaja saludos 👉🏼👈🏼 desde México

@tomasvalenzuela4044 Жыл бұрын

Paulina No estoy de acuerdo con todo pero eres !un refresco!

@feonix138 5 ай бұрын

Soy un grigo y me casé con una mexicana y creo k ella tiene casi 182 tios y 1,027 primos o mas no se es muchooooo!

@todddean3145 3 жыл бұрын

I wish I saw this before I did , lol . Would do it again in a heart beat ; I ❤️

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

Oh man sorry I'm late for you! We've had it in the works for a while, wanted to created something actually useful. But I'm glad you'd do it again :D

@todddean3145 3 жыл бұрын

Best relationship I’ve ever been in 🙏

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

@@todddean3145 awwwwwww ...now I'm like in gossip mode..I want to know what hapenned?!?! ahahah cheers

@todddean3145 3 жыл бұрын

Lol , mostly fear of what happened before me happening again. For me was holding on too much. I learned a lot about myself and what I needed to change. I am very grateful. Her honesty and being very straightforward was fantastic.

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

@@todddean3145 :.( I feel you brother

@stevemill8959 2 жыл бұрын

Let’s go get tacos! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@multilingualmind778 2 жыл бұрын

you are awesome! thank you for the video. I was so surprised to get a message from him after the first date with the question how are you feeling now? I have never been asked this question by a man.. he is like a sudden sunrise during a long dark night

@inconnu4961 2 жыл бұрын

LMAO! Too bad your opinion of him will change!

@TheGman5000 8 күн бұрын

Mexican girls can be crazy,but so warm hearted and loving and make the perfect wife/mother

@forearth_ww 2 жыл бұрын

It was very informative.keep it up.

@luzcielmusica Жыл бұрын

Depending on what kind of Mexican men because the cowboy guys are way different from a city boy

@catirerubio 2 жыл бұрын

Mi esposa es Venezolana. Pasa lo mismo.

@DateMeNow69 Жыл бұрын

♥️👍

@Kitiwake 2 жыл бұрын

@10.48 What's a physical conversation?

@bobkloth57 Жыл бұрын

I am dating a beautiful Mexican-American female. She doesn’t use foul language, but in her social media, there are pics giving her middle finger toward the camera for no reason. Why?

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish Жыл бұрын

No lo sé! Es muy común en algunas generaciones... Tal vez, le podrías preguntar, pero dulcemente jejejej

@sexy_tanjiro8878 2 жыл бұрын

I am a white woman age 41 from France and my longtime boyfriend who I have been for 13 years who is 31 he is a Mexican from La Mixteca Poblana Puebla Mexico. Yes I been to his small town that has a population of 1000. I have no complains about him just one thing tho. His family you can say they are modernized and have no convsertive mind his mom is a bit but open minded. He does not have a macho attitude or anything like that. The thing is I don't like is that Mexicans want to have a ton of kids. Hey I am 41 and I don't plan to have any children not today or in 10 years. I simply don't have time to raise a child I love babies but to have one 24/7 its not for me. Hes been pushing me the last 3 years or so to have a kid he says its time already and for me its not I say. Despite this his family is very modern. I mean modern in total its 5 children he is the only male and youngest. All his sisters are over 5'9 and they dress with fashion he is the only one that dresses normally and he only went to high school compared to his sisters who went to college and have careers. Honestly his sisters walk like models. All his sisters have foreign boyfriends none are latinos or Mexicans. You could easily mistake any of his sisters for white females. My father in law is 5'11 and my mother in law is 5'6 while my man is 6'3. His sisters are 5'9, 5'10 and 5'11 of them

@inconnu4961 2 жыл бұрын

Break up with him, please. You have different visions of the future. Any person that really wants kids but doesnt get to have them, will likely be bitter and blame the spouse for not having kids, or he will leave you once he meets a woman who will give him the family. I know this isnt happy advice, but its better you consider it and plan accordingly than to find out the hard way. Bonne chance!

@jackielopez269 2 жыл бұрын

As a Mexican, I can tell you that not all Mexicans want to have a ton of kids. That completely depends on the person. At least the people I know all have a different idea of how many kids they want or if they want any. Also, you mention his sisters can be mistaken for white girls when being Mexican is not a race. Most of us are mestizos a mix of white (mostly Spanish) and indigenous. I am 5’9, light skin with green eyes is not that I look like a white girl is that I am descendent of white people, It is probably the same for the family of your partner and a lot of other Mexicans.

@moscaonthewall 2 жыл бұрын

I agree with Inconnu 49. You are not well matched. If you haven't already, you need to have an honest conversation with him about the fact that you NEVER want kids. He might think he can persuade you at some point. You need to make it clear to him so that he knows what choices to make. He seems to really want children and being the only son, it's kind of up to him to continue the family name. It might be old fashioned thinking, but making sure a family name doesn't die is kind of a thing for Mexicans (maybe not as widespread anymore though).

@midnight-2021 2 жыл бұрын

@@jackielopez269 so much for this short Mexican stereotype, lol! In Cancun I find this to be true plus in Cancun and other regions of southern Mexico as well as in these countries of Central America not only are a majority of Latinos and Latinas short they are usually very thin. But my experience in Chihuahua and Monterrey was the opposite on average for Latinos and Latinas because tall Latinos and Latinas are very common no matter if looking more European or more native. White Americans in the mid 19th century described the natives in northern Mexico and in the great Plains of the USA as tall and big boned people so this everything is bigger in Texas might have more to do with the native tribes of this region then with being European.

@user-tl7lj2lu4c Жыл бұрын

Ok, "White woman, age 41 from France .... Lol. First of all, you stalled long enough in the relationship to not even worry about having kids anyway .... Your door to that possibility closed a year ago at 40. This is "My personal opinion" but even a woman who is a "Career Woman" will set a small window aside to have a child because creating life, then to teach, nurture, and watch something so amazing grow into this productive person that you created is so self rewarding .... it's truly amazing. But to not have ANY CHILDREN AT ALL for the sake of They're there 24/7 is a little selfish to me. Yeah, it's "PARENTING". Lol .... Didn't know where you were going when you literally gave a height, weight and skin tone of ALL OF HIS SISTERS but I said to myself, "Ehhh, cut her some slack, she's French". Lol ... Oh, and BTW .... Don't know who said it, but they're right .... You're 13 years of selfishness and not wanting to give him A CHILD ..... Sealed your fate. It's only a matter of time before you get your walking papers ...

@sushmitanaik1858 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this video mam. I am your new subscriber. Will you please introduce some one Mexican man for me to date😂😂😂. I really like Mexican people. Lol from India.

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

Come to Mexico City, we'll hang out and I'll introduce you to some Mexican men hehe ;)

@sushmitanaik1858 3 жыл бұрын

@@PaulisimaSpringSpanish Thanks for invitation mam.Sry mam I can't go because my family will not allow to go so far, but they also respect and love Mexicans.

@s3pHsaur3n 2 жыл бұрын

Do Mexican women consider Mexican-American men foreigners? In my 12 years living in Mexico, my experience is that they do. What do you think?

@javiercastro8466 2 жыл бұрын

They do, but in my case the majority of my life was as an American despite being born in Mexico.

@inconnu4961 2 жыл бұрын

Where you live is who you are! That seems to be the attitude of the vast majority of people. I'm sure Texans dont consider people who were born in Dallas but lived ALL their lives in the north anything but a yankee, am I right?

@ireneswackyjournals8810 2 жыл бұрын

Yes. I’m Cuban American and my Cuban family call me American. I was born here I know both languages but to them since I never stepped in Cuba. I am not Cuban. I have their heritage and that is it.

@DateMeNow69 Жыл бұрын

🤔👍😎

@kamron_thurmond 3 жыл бұрын

7:21 Huh, you seem to complain about pretty much the same things that we complain about here in Texas. I get there is a time and a place, and sometimes it's best just to let a person vent their frustrations. They are likely already upset, and that is not the best time to start a lengthy conversation/debate (that would probably be very intellectually stimulating if they were calm) doing so could just trigger them to go on a longer and angrier rant. With that being said; it sort of has the same energy that you were upset about earlier "You're are prettier when silent." I don't like the idea that I should hold my opinions back anymore than you do. That's very unhealthy and stifling. I think that will eventually cause resentment towards a romantic partner. I personally think it's best to get everyone's personal feelings out in the open, because if their opinions cause serious friction maybe that's a good sign that person is not the one you should be with anyway. I don't expect my partner to be silent, and I am not going to be either. If anyone wants to date a white American guy hopefully they like to talk. Well with this one at least, because not many topics are taboo with me.

@PaulisimaSpringSpanish 3 жыл бұрын

When it comes to love we humans have so much in common regardless nuestro origen. :D Thanks for your thoughtful comment :)

@meini2463 2 жыл бұрын

Do you have Mexican girlfriend???

@kamron_thurmond 2 жыл бұрын

@@meini2463 Not at the moment.

@DateMeNow69 Жыл бұрын

🔥👍

@nickyingtavorn5491 Жыл бұрын

I love Mexican people and culture and want to have one that we can do somethings or spent life time together forever... but so far I still can not find one I'am not young and I am ready to relocated if I lucky to find one 50 to 60 years old only the problem is the Languate

@teeken8850 2 жыл бұрын

the macho thing is every woman in probably almost every race... why so many women end up divorced they are attracted to mister macho, and often get mister nacho narcissist

@ZamirMalachi6354 7 ай бұрын

I don't know for some reason it looks like a half breed Mexican woman is easy traditional full-blooded Mexican women are hard to get

@minkhs 2 жыл бұрын

I am coming to Mexico - beautiful tips :)

@todddean3145 3 жыл бұрын

Hugs 🤗 all day! Lol

@kingkanoworldmedia4389 2 жыл бұрын

I love old school, but I not see it in the Latina. They seem very liberated in a bad way. Having said that, I love the ones who held on to it. I do not focus on sex, but romance and they are not the same. I love the Latina who dresses like me, normal, casual, comfortable. If she is comfortable, so goes I comfortable

@huntingfashiondolls3307 Жыл бұрын

Some mex women have poor education, and it shows in their interests, their goals, their conversation. I cant stand other mex women, im a mex girl but seriously they lack personality and intellect , im surprised american men find mexican woman dateable material . And i was married to an american guy who i had a child with but i was very young and stupid, for real!. Now i realized i had nothing to offer poor man 🤣🤣🤣 now im older i think i became more mature but now im focused in my goals so im not after a guy anymore for a while

@sonqasawa2622 Жыл бұрын

Very interesting video! Explains why my former Mexican girlfriend was so distrusting without cause and constantly checking my emails and phone calls, which drove me mad.

@davidstylespro Жыл бұрын

I’ve been there bro

@TheBlueFlame112 7 ай бұрын

So if i go to mexico for a vacation i cant score?

@matthewchang5701 2 жыл бұрын

How much fun

@westcoastmex629 3 ай бұрын

As a mexican man married to a Mexican woman i can assure you that Mexican women are no different than any other woman as female nature is universal. Just be yourself , respectful and state your true intentions most important don’t except foolish behavior here are my 9 response to her 9 problems 1. Unless you are dating a teenager then what she said is true .2.Not true you’ll be surprise not all Mexican families are big .just like not all US families are big.3. Like I stated before be true to her and yourself this much like number 1 is foolish behavior that is not expected from a grown woman in any culture let her know from the get go make it clear you aren’t a mind reader .4. In general woman don’t respect push overs and being respectful and considerate is more than enough don’t try to impress with every action be stern but rewarding. 5 like 1 and 3 these are on the foolish behavior spectrum and must be stopped on the spot if she cant trust you than she needs to go .There is no time for bad behavior if she has issues from previeses relationships than she needs to get professional help you are no Doctor or mental specialist , not even a healer. 6.This is a culture thing but i notice it happens when you aren’t direct and let them know that time is important people actually respect your time when you make it clear that it is important remember don’t be a push over. if its just a gathering at a home or party it makes no difference the time they get there. 7. Not all Mexicans are loud when they are excited or in shock which is natural to be because this behavior is normal across all cultures when individuals are face with a problem they feel they can’t handle and yes some people Re just naturally loud or have a no bs tone . 8. No one gets offended if you say no thanks it’s not the 18th century people understand that you come from a different place. 9. This depends on the person for the Most part from what I’ve experience We are pretty conservative when it comes to public affection it’s mostly teenagers you’ll see kissing or hugging in public .

@tamiokasan4318 2 жыл бұрын

i have girlfriend from mexico. but we dont have excitement and she always say yes and Ok. always she say short message.. i dont know she is not like before we met on dating app.. i dont know if she is serious.

@inconnu4961 2 жыл бұрын

assume she is NOT serious! Most women are quite talkative when comfortable. if she isnt, it is likely a red flag.