As your Recon Corpsman it's my duty to remind you that women are EQUAL now. She can fight the Lion for YOU. 😂

What she means is men who care more about being perceived as good rather than actually being good. So many people ignore evil all around them because they want to be perceived as nice. A truly good human being will go through the discomfort to set right the wrong. That trait is on the decline. Both women who nurture and men who are ready to fight for and protect the weak are rapidly disappearing.

​@@sreddy914 exactly: example of nice guy: Chris Watts

She did not say all that. ​@@sreddy914

That’s not what she’s referring to. She’s referring to men that are nice but are incapable of self defense, and so those types of guys often become really resentful throughout their lives, and then they can eventually take out that inner resentment on a future long term girlfriend or wife.

Exactly!! I'm wondering where the safety connection is coming from with her comments, especially with respect to being nice & courteous as a guy. Some of these women simply don't know what they want in life. Talking about kindness, does she know this phrase " Don't take my kindness to be my weakness"??

I think you've missed the nuance in what she's talking about lol. The "feel safe aspect" is more so implicit. Yes he may have been raised right but it isn't impossible to have both been raided right while also wanting to "feel safe" i.e. accepted.

Im always polite and i carry a gun😂 nice and safe.

@@emanx222 the "feel safe" is a mental projection of her own subconscious. What she is essentially saying is that when she is being nice, it's to feel safe in a different environment, not because she is nice. It's far less true for guys, because guys are physically strong, and in most situations, they would "win" even if they were not nice. People who "raise their boys right" essentially teach them self-restraint. That is the crux of chivalry. Chivalry is an essential component of civilization.

​@@TCCTTWH 😂 🎉 ❤

Wait what?

Tell me you have no protective instincts without telling me.

I can totally identify with what Teal is saying here. She's right, about kindness, completely.

so avoid a human that thinks they know everything? why, stating the obvious I see

did she claim knowing everything? that's called sharing insight

We don’t live in a world of gentlemen let’s be honest no kids opening doors for their girlfriends

​@@coryalgra182bro I open the door for strangers, you just lazy.

@@themostepic0162 🤣

There are still plenty real nice guys gentleman out there ,its for the ladys to filter out the fakes.

Women just don't believe that there are actual gentlemen in the world. Well that's on them. I guess the women will be lonely then.

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Pretty accurate 👍

:D :D :D Right on!

Hahaha......absolutely spot on😅

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Beautifully put..

Heard Jordon Peterson once say something very similar to your comment. It rings true. Though Teal also has a good point here on this. All well put and true.

@mikefahey6606 You ARE of the noble stock now, you've been initiated and you know better. It's on you to carry the torch now brother💪🏼 RIP pops

Better get spiffy then

They just don’t make men like him anymore

@@main2333 men like that aren't made. They make themselves

@@NwoDispatcher I’m sure he had a father to teach him. We don’t make ourselves. We are all born without knowledge. God gave us the blueprint

I'm not a nice I just don't care about lots of money

I agree with you Eric 44ism . When being kind hearted , and nice to people is considered a character flaw , and when that type of erroneous thinking starts to be given credibility , then mankind is on the verge of being doomed 😲😵😕 .

absolutely. It's crazy, isn't it?

Dont worry being a nice guy is always a good thing😊. My friends and I have always known that, and im sure most women too. Unless they have deep issues and need adrenaline , they will go for the nice (maybe generous IF you are successful... Not cheap,but you dont NEED to be successful to be loved by us..a couple can become successful together andvstart "poor")We love nice guys.this lady tries to kinda play with words(kind n nice),in MY opinion.❤Please stay nice, guysss

Unfortunately, this is the mindset of most modern Western women.

100% facts

no it doesn’t, neither show you’re true strength, being nice just handicaps you heavy on your values, you can’t like everything in this world that’s impossible

@@elbuki4006being mean or rude is the real indicator for narcissism than being nice. Narcissists were the ones who mistook kindness for weakness before…now narcissists are mistaking niceness for narcissism, the irony

@@elbuki4006be rude to a black belt and tell me how that goes for you.

Very well said ❤️‍🔥

Well said...

Thanks for the info. Maybe 10 yrs ago there was something dodgy with her and her ego going on behind the scenes as well. Cant remember the details.

So she has experienced herself

I like her: she's got (bad) experience to backup her words.

WTF with this ad hominem

irrelevant....healing takes time and work, rock bottoms, and those propel you to learn.

Walking talking RED FLAG. She's a lunatic

A big one. She's nuts!

You should have written it in all capital letters.

Nuttier than a Snickers bar....

Tattoos mean everything...

you are raised right my man, my salutes to you and your father

She's talking about the men that are nice to you because they want something from you

SemperFi

​@@negativephantom9590she is saying nice guy gonna let the lion eat you to stay safe himself . Maybe she met the person who mistook as a nice guy

NICE PEOPLE MOST OF THE TIME HAVE A HIDDEN AGENDA. THEY WANT TO BE LIKED, ADMIRED, ACCEPTED, ETC. NOW ALL PEOPLE LIKE THOSE THINGS BUT THE NICE PERSON WILL TRY TO BUY THOSE THINGS OR SACRIFICE TO MUCH TO RECEIVE IT WHEN THE FACT IS WHEN YOU ARE TRULY ACCEPTED BECAUSE YOUR YOU ITS REAL, BUY YOURSELF SOMETHING NICE TODAY

Neither of these terms can encapsulate the complexity of human beings. Labels are a huge problem in the modern age when it comes to dating and this kind of content only exacerbates that fact.

Everything we believe as being "nice" has been a big misconception. That's why she uses the word "kindness" for what you and me think is "nice". Becuase being just "nice" is not enough.

Lmaoo ur imitation 😂

Most guys that you talk about have been conditioned to be nice guys and they gave into the conditioning out of fear of consequences. She is correct

You totally missed her message. **Right over your head***

I think her wordchoice was dangerous. I agree with the latter part. Love isn't about giving someone a smile. You don't stop living your life when you smile, so if you love someone as a part of yourself, you don't stop at that smile. You don't let your hand bleed because you might worry what it thinks of you for bandaging it. You don't give up on your hand because it's not responding the way you want. You can only love someone up to how you love yourself.

Look Up The Etymology of the word „Nice“

Apparently!

If you're only being nice for personal gain? I'm fairly certain people like that have been culturally referred to as either snakes or foxes or even devils for a long time.

@@jhonny3053 Lots of people are just nice though without an ulterior motive. You can always look for ab ulterior motive if you are so inclined but that's a pretty depressing way to look at the world. I'd say being respectful of others, polite and kind are the important things. Maybe nice is to loaded a word for some as they associate it with manipulation.

@@KevinSheedy10 Actually, the Chads and Tyrones of the world are some of the nicest people (at least to women) you will meet initially--until they get what they want. Also, the Chads and Tyrones are more likely to act in their own self-interest after post-nut clarity.

It's not women logic my friend. These are cultural narratives, perpetuated in the West to keep men and women apart, mess up happy couples and families= AGENDA

So you also missed the part about Kindness. Kind guy=good

@@Vannabee13 Until we start writing kind as "kind" just like we did with nice.

@oemj7147 the sentiments the same. Someone being "nice" because they want people to like them isn't actually a good person.

I wonder what she thinks about a nice woman

You can genuinely want what's best for the other person AND feel insecure and need validation. The two can both coexist.

When that kindness is taken for weakness, it is time not to be kind

I think that her point is niceness is different than kindness. One is a survival skill and one is genuine and protective. Discernment is key.

You’re confused at what she’s saying. Go check out her 30 minute how nice guys kill

No...they are much more protective actually, because with a woman by his side...he will have all the confidence in the world!

@@Luis-cr1twNooooo Because true confidence cannot come from an external source ...

Facts, she is toxic asf if she thinks nice guys are bad

i stay away from anyone with eyes like hers

He will have a dog or cat for the rest of her life

@@immortal3293 you are one of those people who confuse "niceness" and "kindness". The behavior she explained is absolutely real, where people act nicely because they expect something in return. You can say that is not real niceness, you can label it as you want, but it's just a simple fact there is a difference between people who do good things for you only so that you treat them well, and people who do good things for you because they actually care. Pointing out this difference is not toxic. if anything it's toxic to deny it and denounce people who do acknowledge it.

You have to start someplace in this wicked world--so?@@thomasmann4536

Exactly, have rock solid standard for your self.

Agreed

You're still not getting it though. Being KIND to a person (regardless of gender) is relinquishing the expectation of having them do the same for you. It's a core personality trait. Not a performance to get someone to like you. The whole point of kindness is to show it AND MOVE ON with your life regardless of how the other person reacts. The fact that you mentioned broken women shows me: You aren't kind. You're a "nice guy" You're expecting some sexual pay up because you delt with her "brokenness" You're shifting the blame on someone else The common denominator is you. It will ALWAYS be you. I literally just showed you kindness btw. I firmly but respectfully showed you what your problems may be. You may reflect and find a solution to the problem or you can get mad and curse me out. Regardless, I did my act of kindness and MOVE ON. I'm not attached to the outcome of this interaction. That's kindness. You don't need to like me (like Teal said) for me to take what you said and help you FOR YOUR BEST INTEREST. Stay blessed

@@minuit6305 Moral is not waste time on someone just because you like that person. Invest time only on someone who is equally invested in you.

​@@minuit6305 yes this person didnt get the point(or maybe didnt listen to the whole video.)..but he has a lot of hate towards women,too sad 😢...cause you gotta give them-women,im.one of them- a chance🙄...we DESERVE this kindness nice gestures...keeping it for yourself if selfish.how to know if they are "parasites and stuff",lol...before you do nice things to them at least a few times...or more.how to know if they wont appreciate your gestures etc, your sacrifices ...gotta give them time.They/some of them at least(used to be like that) try to see if the guy isnt just pretending.for sex etc, really shallow reasons,not true kindness or love-affection towards us

I don't mean this in a rude way, but I think the only madness that exists is that you completely failed to understand her message.

@@matthewmckee561 Oh i understood it as clear as day. This woman is as toxic as they come.

@@tonimarx6405 No bro, you're missing the message. What she is saying is true.

@@tonimarx6405 There are way too many people in this comment section who did not understand what she said. She is trying to explain that there is a difference between being nice and being kind. Being nice is superficial, it's self-serving, it's a mask. Being kind is grounded in love, it is looking out for the best interest of both and all people not just yourself, it is doing the right thing for the sake of the right thing instead of doing the right thing for looking good. People who are simply nice are usually not good people. Kind people are good people.

@@matthewmckee561 Nope. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. She has unreasonable expectations that can never be met because they're exactly that; unreasonable. Woman like this want you to be both nice to them yet simultaneously give them the hard shoulder. You cannot win. She is her own worst enemy yet is completely oblivious.

If I win president of my dorm, I promise I will put on a nice guy appreciation party. It's gonna be historic.

Chivalry is seeing yourself as above or superior to another. It should die Politeness is opening the door, or carrying heavy things for ANYONE regardless of sex/gender out of kindness. That needs to grow Thanks

Chivalry doesn't have anything to do with it, but it's very telling that you think it does. A lot of guys tend to fantasize about some plan that will make people like them - usually stereotypical stuff like chivalry, money, good genes, whatever - and then get frustrated when their magic code doesn't work. Or they think women need to be manipulated into liking them because of some imagined "flaw" - like not having enough money, bad genes, or whatever. In either case they act nice, but they aren't kind - they don't see women as people, but as ends to their invented means.

Chivalry is Kindness.

@@thatJackBidenTalksAbout Perhaps you have your own definition of "nice"

@@lefty577 "nice" - someone who is kind "nice guy" - a guy who acts nice with an ulterior motive

Weakness can breed curiosity. Maybe you want to be good at something you're not good at so you try to understand it more?

@@DAANBRO you don't take law advice from a failed lawyer. You don't take medical advice from a failed doctor. You don't take fitness advice from an obese or unfit person. So no, if you claim to be (or aim to be) an expert in a specific field (whatever it may be) you need to have a certain degree of competence and success (not mere curiosity) in that field. There are failed footballers (soccer players) who went on to become great coaches or managers but they could only be great as a coach or manager but not as a football player (even they have the wisdom and humility to admit that). If they gave advice as a player (note: not to a player but as a player) on how to be a good player it would be a bad one. Period.

Yep she just hasn't yet been fed up with being pumped and dumped by the guys she warships. but in due time

I also can't take marriage advice from a counselor who's never been married or is divorced.

Faaaacts

Because maybe he was not that nice!

Facts 💯%

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Amen. There is no upside to a relationship anymore

And never get the support and love from a great woman. Thanks for keeping them safe from your bitterness.

@@TheNinnyfeeyep, let the assholes have them. The nice ones are all narcissists anyway. 95% of the type of women running around today, of child bearing age, and looking for a mate, are not worth the trouble, and have nothing to offer, except headaches and heartaches. They simply don't have the values or morals of a 50's woman. Leave them to their 'only fans'. Most of them today are so self obsessed anyway, that there's no room for them to love anyone else.

The woman could do a better job explaining herself. At any rate, she’s old and is trying to turn men on by passing a red pill move.

I don’t understand what she’s talking about?? So we should be with a mean guy???

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Talking as though she's a leading psychologist - yet she has no qualifications. The only bit I can decipher is that she's saying women should go for bad-boys. I don't understand the narcism comments at all.

@@basylpeterjones exactly - no qualifications.

Good god so true

Yeap

She is “super narcy,” but she speaks a lot of truth

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Hahahaha

Check out " No more Mr nice guy"- by Robert Glover. It has a deeper incite into what she's alluded to. If interested of course.

Im curious at to what level your supposed to be nice. I’m nice because it feels better and I certainly don’t expect anything in return. Idk man it’s confusing you’re supposed to be an asshole?

She goes on to explain the difference between "nice" and "kind" and why you DO want someone who is kind... Basically, "nice" is a facade and a social manipulation, kindness is truly caring enough about someone else to take actions that prioritize their best interest.

Read the book by Robert Glover, it changed my life.

Don’t confuse niceness with kindness. Kind guys are great. ‘Nice’ guys, not so much.

Well put.

If I meet a person who is not in my close circle of friends, would there be a third option besides self-less and selfish?

@@benrex7775 It all depends on the situation

Nice pun

Good one.

I don't have safety in mind when I'm being a good dude 😂

Totally ignoring the difference between how men and women want to be treated? Why?

@@adamnyback Because women want equality.

"nice guy" became an internet slang for lying, sneaky incels for a reason.

"nice guys" and "good men" are two completely different things.

How is nice and good different?!

​@SokkingBTtulaj completely agree!!

Nice guys are nice because they are preening to a higher power to jerk their own self righteousness

Right. Even at the expense of your relationship.

It says more about the people around the nice guy. They're so cruel and evil that he feels the need to hide his true self to be safe.

@@DawnshieId Or he can stop being a pussy and just be himself

She literally tells women to be more feminine and that modern feminism is a lie.

I love that saying, often true, and it could be true..BUT I feel like this lady just likes success and money now.she knows what is good for her but only for her not her fans.she is very famous now so it worked(not always for good things,since they said that she had pple /fans living with her etc...🫢).but she says being kind is great...so she is kinda playing with words...in the end🙃 love nice guys💯💯💯

100% accurate.

@@julie.66 everyone has an agenda is what I think you are saying and she's playing her cards close to her chest just like the nice guys she speaks of 😏.

She is very lonely, haven't got real man in her entire life, feel sorry for her. @@julie.66

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You hit the nail on the head with that one.

Just shows that women are inherently insane.#yeahIsaidit😂

nice guys = submissive You’re a 🐱🐱 hahaha you’re a loser

have an open mind ok bro? Never think anyone is crazy no matter how “outrageous” they sound, you don’t have to agree, but never forget what that person said, they thought god was berserk too 😂😂😂😂

Who in the hell is she anyway? I keep seeing her vids show up in my page and I don't know why she happens to have this immense certainty in saying things like this. Certainly she should explain more before saying "Women shouldn't date nice guys". It seems like a rather toxic or cynical view of humanity to literally try to explain that niceness is somehow actually just closeted narcissism.

​@@wowomah6194 true

😂😂😂😂😂😂

100% tru

Absolutely

1000% she's clueless

And the weak should be defended, not attacked. Any good person believes this.

Well I won't let Jezebels hijack the term "nice guy" and pervert it.

I know right, I held a door open for an elderly couple and they said to me “that’s rare, wow thank you, you are so sweet”. Literally an hour before I was at the gas station cussing out 2 employees and about to fight a security guard lol

I have been called a nice guy, yes, I hold the door open, I walk on the outside by the street, i am kind to others, I am loyal, but when needed, I can and will do what is needed to protect my own. If that makes me a nice man, I don't care.

What is a nice guy? Where are the nice guys? WTH does that mean? When I am being nice, it comes with a price. I pay the price, so you don't have to. Does that mean the wicked dude can overcome me? I think not. I don't hang with wicked, disgusting people. They don't measure up . Go get you a wicked man then. Stupid is as stupid does. Hey, I might come in last, but I am going to last. Momma didn't raise no fool.

That's the definition of being a "nice guy", full of manners and outward pleasantries but not actually kind. Like you said, you're not a nice person you just have manners.

What she doesn't realize is the lion trying to eat your throat out is the type of guy she's suggesting you go out with. What a narsasist.

@@martinrbookermb Indeed

And then they complain about the abuser or emotionally unavailable guy too. So in reality you can't win, the issue is not you it's the women. Nothing satisfies them they suffer eternal greed

It never ceases to amaze me how a woman will always choose someone bad over someone good. Their irrationality is off the charts..

Remind her women are EQUAL now. It's her turn to fight the Lion.

Your role model is a woman with 3 divorces at the age of 40 lmfao. Good luck with her advice.

Because it’s a whole bunch of BS. Niceness and Kindness are both synonyms, just take a look at a dictionary. She also misunderstood why men are nice and made it about wanting to be liked, when the overwhelming majority of men are nice out of principle.

She should be vilified because she understands that nice guys are vulnerable and need compassion, only to respond with superiority instead of compassion. Showing that she herself is not kind.

Enemas. We dont need enemas😅

what do you mean?

Nah, you just live under a rock and have no clue what "nice guy" means in internet slang. It stands for lying, sneaky incel who feigns "niceness" to get laid but turns incredibly vile as soon as things don't go his way.

@@vinzanity68 ☺️☺️☺️

vozhonn401 I mean that nice guys are in fact... nice. It's psycho-babble to try to make it sound like they are not real men, screwed up, or whatever. And it is not helpful to steer other women away from men who are mature, strong and empathetic enough to put us first. I've had quite enough of hyper-masculine bad-boy types. My bf is sweet to me, he's kind and thoughtful, and he's nothing like the pathetic mess you are trying to describe.

Guess if you have to let the lion have one this gal seems a good candidate.

😂😂😂

Facts😂😂

Men, never risk your life for any woman other than your mother. You are expendable in her eyes like all men.

NB: Be kind not nice.

231 guys and 3 lions

Slutshaming? 😂 She's so right about you "nice guys" *tips fedora*

Hahahaha

Yeah you totally get what she’s saying! lol some of these offended comments SMH😂

And if you understand how vulnerable they are, and how much they need compassion, only to turn it on them and make them feel inferior instead of caring for them, that shows how disgusting, rotten, and evil your heart is. 🤮

"I had to come up with a reason that women don't like nice guys without saying it is because they aren't rich, or don't look like male models"

Bahaha definitely

​@@023achilles Even being rich and attractive, I struggled to find a really loving wife! This world just goes wrong and females have to learn to be nice actually.

Thisss lmao

@@th3realdevilman If you want to find a wife, first step would be to stop calling women "females." WOMEN. Is that so hard?

So they can justify their own misdeads as being the victim of a "mean" man.

A man you can form a coherent sentence is a good start

​@@MissChattertonTry that again.

The same woman will go running back to the roughneck the moment he clicked his fingers. There's no accounting for taste.

Yeah, she's wrong with her advice jere. There's Narcissists who mask as being nice guys, and then there's genuine kind souls who are male, and love females, and are gynocentric type men who love women and had female led families and stuff like that. Men who grew up in Matriarchal Families, and want a Matriarchal Household. She only has a few dimensions of knowledge onnthis subject. I personally grew up in a Matriarchal Household. I don't have any Patriarchal tendencies, and people dismiss me as a wolf in sheeps clothing, and then date the actual wolf that's gonna eat them for dinner.

Seem to be too busy defending and being offended to let it sink in🤔

You completely missed her point. R/woosh

Found the Nice Guy

Hey man, that wasn't very nice.

Him: smokes horse but doesn't exhale for max effect. Her: You sincerely are being truly kind man, dear sir. Would you care to marry me?

Hit narcs holler, "nice guy"

Definitely. And an "act" only lasts so long.

Yep, they have taught women that "He is pretending to be nice because he wants something". Uh no. But at some point you would hope it isn't BAD behavior that pays off, in this world, right?

You're wrong, the strongest people on earth are actually kind because they fear absolutely no one. But if you want to lower your standards and go with a DvMB455, that's your choice, that's your problem. My wife is safe, my wife is happy and I will continue to provide her with this happiness as much and as long as I can. And she's doing the same for me, that's true love. Because she's a real woman, ready to be a nice mother for our future children (but if you're a woman who doesn't like children, that doesn't mean you're abnormal, you're just not ready for this now or it's just not your wish, that's ok, I'm not judging you on that don't worry). But what you are looking for is a free bodyguard, it is totally different and it's a very bad way of looking at relationships. But don't blame her, guys, karma often speaks by itself and it hurts hard until people find redemption. The time is stronger than anyone here, lol. Remember that as hateful as you may be, there will always be a stronger guy than you to put you in your place and he will do it fast but he will do it gently. Because he prefers to see stronger guys in this world than being the only one. Because all women and all men deserve to be happy, because everyone has their place in this world. If you don't agree with me, I'm available to chat in real life, knuckles or not, anyway. I'm just speaking the truth and I love you all. Because I know that there is a part of kindness in each of you. We can continue to fight against each other and become poor. Or we can collaborate and improve this world, being happy together. You have this choice, make the right one and never give it up. I'm statistically one of the strongest and the smartest guy in this world from now on and I'm grinding everyday to climb on the top of the food chain, currently at few percents on my full potential. And this was the best advice I could say to you, thank you for reading and don't forget this. In my country, there is an adage that says: "We are on the same boat.", it's real, the ecosystem is a balance, we don't create anything, we don't destroy anything, it's all just about transformation. Even if there is an effective way to transform matter in favor of omeostasis, I know you know what I mean, it is more complex than it appears, but we all instinctively know it.

Anyone who wants vulnerable people to stay lonely is clearly just trying to be nice. Complete hypocrite.

@@DawnshieId I feel you so hard. ❤️

And you can’t forget the vocal fry. Lol that’s essential to make it sound like you know what you’re talking about. Lol

@@bajovato oh yeah the vocal fry, the vocal fry!

You, my friend, have cracked the matrix!

All you have to do is say "explain what you mean exactly" and her entire logic falls apart 😂

Grossly underrated comment. They talk fast and loud to sound smarter than they truly are. Another manipulation tactic.

I'm not fighting a lion for anyone without a high power firearm . And I'm not going were the pricks are anyways , bears are enough for me .

Women in the west assume all men owe them provision and protection. They do not understand that is reserved only for one woman most likely. That woman may or may never come around. You can't turn 304 into wife.

Women are EQUAL now. She can fight the Lion for ME.

Her reasoning makes no sense. A person will let a lion bite your neck because he's a nice guy?

short answer is you shoulnt anymore, women were elevated socially, it also means they should know to care for themselves

That sounds like a personal problem. The only red flag is that you didnt understand her very simple message. 🤦🏼

What are you talking about? What about this is incorrect? What about this is toxic?

For the game players. The passive aggressive or the sheep, as she describes. 😅 RUN FROM THE LIONS IN SHEEPS CLOTHES CUZ WE REMEMBER WHO WE ARE NOW. WE WANT ONLY THE BALANCED MAN. NOT A WIMP NOR A WIFE BEATER. A WARRIOR.

This "woman", is a guy. ♂️

I agree. Major red flags. Her points are so broad it loses all meaning. Nice vs kind. Really? The only thing she said was that if you are a nice person, that automatically makes you a selfish coward in her eyes. She likes bad boys. Good for her. But I had challenged many rude badboys in my life. Most are nothing but insecure cowards who use their size and a crappy attitude to hide it.

Bars! 💯🎯

@@handsomeX thanks!.

Exactly. Wish more people had the attention span to finish watching a 30 second video!

I agree with your assessment. The problem is that she has an overly simple view of the world and wants to preach it. I agree with her that 10% of men are narcissists who are weak and cover it with a shallow niceness. But at least in this clip she acts like anyone who does not prioritize her is one of those 10%. I'm not a woman and I'm not divorced twice. So perhaps this is a perfectly valid survival strategy on her part. But at the same time she calls the majority of men abusers in the making. And if you have a society which calls the majority of men abusers in the making then all the men who build roads, keep the garbage from the streets, invent new technologies and protect the common man from violent people will loose motivation to contribute to society. Guess what happens then.

Yeah, I am just gonna call myself a kind guy. Problem solved. 😂

Gone With the Wind.

Ok Rhett !

Ok Ron Isley lol

This is an underrated comment

Hear hear , I second the motion .

😂 good point

Not sure who this woman is but she seems to be some sort of "guru/psychologist. Watched a few of her videos and she has some interesting takes on male female relations, but this one is simply bat-shyte Crazy. Kinda lost all respect for her view points.

One time I heard her say the most important human need is emotional security 😂

@@KillerstingrayK-cm4piThat statement speaks volumes to this clip

I mean then why are men so bent out of shape about wanting women to go back to being "tradwives"? You can't have it both ways bud

Yeah she’s way off. Nice does not=Narcissist. Some people are just nice and truly mean well. She’s confused.

She is on point. Niceness is a dangerous mask, kindness is true love.

The entire world including her comfort and ability to relay this information was developed out of niceness. It baffles me how people can be this ignorant.

​@@TheNinnyfeeBeing nice has nothing to do with narcissism but about being respectful, she is lost in her own delusion

@@darrenhaverlock7025I do believe she’s deluded, primarily because everything on KZfaq from her comes off as a lecture

Thank you fr appreciating his character

Yes they are not mutually exclusive

Thank you

That's exactly what she said. Kindness not niceness, they are not one in the same. Nice is not necessarily doing what's right, kindness on the other hand is standing up. Not all nice people stand up and do what is right.

Amd sounded like a dumb donkey. Amazing indeed xD

The condescending tone and egoistic pontificating are also good indicators.

Boom exactly

Kindness has a different quality then niceness.

In case you don't know: « "nice guy syndrome" refers to someone who believes himself to possess genuine "nice guy" characteristics, even though he actually does not, and who uses acts of friendship and basic social etiquette with the ulterior aim of progressing to a romantic or sexual relationship. » It's where someone presents a veneer of humanity that goes out the window if they don't get what they believe they're entitled to. For example, if a guy believes that being rich and good looking means that women will automatically like them if he's nice, but is rejected for treating relationships like transactions (ie, man buy food, woman dispense sex) he's a "nice guy."

Bingo. The same for women. If either sex despises nicety, kindness, gentleness, intellect, whathaveyou, that's a HUGE red flag to stay away.

@@JohannaKristinEllerup damn, she went over your head too? see my response above.

I agree

It's pretty hard to teach men what to expect from a woman, because most men most of the time are hardly in control of their hormons, but I think It is possibile. As a mother, I put some seed of wisdom in my son, regarding this matter, and I hope he will fully understand, once he has grown to a full man.

​@@rosannatermini7383... Did you just say men are controlled by their hormones?? Pot, meet kettle.

​@@rosannatermini7383I'm interested to know what sorts of advice or seeds you plant in your son in this regard, as I also have a young son, age 10, and I want to seed those plants in him. I'm genuinely interested to know. ❤

That’s also because healthy masculine energy creates healthy feminine energy. Masculine energy is earned, feminine energy is preserved. Providing a container allows the feminine to relax. The feminine needs expectation because of this, as an unworthy masculine will never make her feel safe. If you can be a healthy masculine, you allow her to be as she is, she naturally begins to soften, to love, to nurture. You want someone who has emotional intelligence, who can be loyal, who has a nurturing, loving quality, who can allow you to be masculine (but also you have to be good at that enough for her to relax in her trust for you).

This so much. We need to start holding women accountable for not bringing anything to relationships and just expecting to receive instead of providing actual value.