Staying Together After Cheating | Couples Can Survive Infidelity

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@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 4 жыл бұрын
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@percivalngidi5985
@percivalngidi5985 3 жыл бұрын
Hi I need your help, my wife cheated on me I am not sure if my wife is remorseful, but yet she says she wants to make our marriage work. In my mind I want to give it a second chance my heart still loves her. I caught her with the guy coming out from his house. I am so confused right now, I trusted my wife so much.
@pinoyako4001
@pinoyako4001 3 жыл бұрын
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@miguelrebolledo6291
@miguelrebolledo6291 3 жыл бұрын
Just wonderful, I have been researching "how to make it work after he cheated" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Qenamilla Strayer Magnet - (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my friend got great results with it.
@aswaldcastillo2446
@aswaldcastillo2446 3 жыл бұрын
Many thanks, I have been researching "marriage recovery after an affair" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Qenamilla Strayer Magnet - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my work buddy got cool results with it.
@andrewnyangau5329
@andrewnyangau5329 2 жыл бұрын
This is just superb, I've been looking for "how to mend a relationship after infidelity" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Qenamilla Strayer Magnet - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my co-worker got excellent success with it.
@davonte2498
@davonte2498 Жыл бұрын
never thought I'd see myself searching this up yet again
@jayfword117
@jayfword117 9 ай бұрын
Anyone that has cheated had multiple times when the thought that they shouldn’t be doing it popped into their head and they still did it. It’s not a single decision. It’s a constant string of not making the right decision.
@faithfaith3329
@faithfaith3329 Жыл бұрын
Once broken can never be the same again
@thegratitudeattitude67
@thegratitudeattitude67 Жыл бұрын
There's always observers shouting "you are worth more". And it's like "what if I love them? What if I don't want to start afresh?"
@ipassingthrough
@ipassingthrough Жыл бұрын
Maybe stick around and find out
@gregfam6250
@gregfam6250 7 ай бұрын
A broken mirror put back together still has plenty of cracks. Anyone who consciously cheats on you, takes the necessary steps to hide it, book a hotel room, check in, and put on a condom knows every step of the way _exactly_ what they're doing. You can decide for yourself if that's someone you want to invest any more time and emotion 'healing ' with, or if it would better to spend the same resources healing yourself and finding the person who deserves your love and your loyalty.
@kiokosalaam8059
@kiokosalaam8059 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely right. Only stay if you can fully consider the right reasons to. Including but not limited to them being accountable. I’m currently in a relationship where I have been cheated on in the beginning and he has since and still is 110% patient, understanding and accountable for what happened. He’s made changes for not just me but us. Going to therapy and healing from what made the person cheat is important too! Always remember cheating is most likely the reaction of someone that isn’t healed. It’s not your fault
@bobfrankfurt9449
@bobfrankfurt9449 Жыл бұрын
May I ask what kind of therapy he seeked? I am in a similar position... I betrayed the woman I love and I am in need of help... After watching some videos I do feel I am on the right path, I just need a bit more help and guidance. What kind of therapist should I be seeking? Any books that you could recommend perhaps? Thank you greatly in advance.
@ivoncabanas3216
@ivoncabanas3216 Жыл бұрын
I recommend the 7 principles for making marriage work & seek a therapist that best connects with you. For me I needed a therapist that specialized in trauma and so did my partner. We are also doing couples therapy on top of doing individual therapy.
@gracehenegar8365
@gracehenegar8365 Жыл бұрын
thank you for posting this comment i really needed to see it, working through the same thing
@austinkelly9446
@austinkelly9446 Жыл бұрын
I’m the one who cheated and I’ll live with it the rest of my life. I told her everything two days ago. Should I send her this video or would that be selfish of me.
@hectormanueco9339
@hectormanueco9339 Жыл бұрын
@@bobfrankfurt9449 any good tips?
@joehilton6951
@joehilton6951 2 жыл бұрын
My heart felt easier after watching this. I have no idea if I’ll go back to her but this made me feel like the world hasn’t stopped. It made me feel in control again
@user-ek4pw7uc2t
@user-ek4pw7uc2t 11 ай бұрын
Wait until it hits you again in few coming years memories don't fade
@SarahJones-zq4eg
@SarahJones-zq4eg Жыл бұрын
I guess this might be a successful reconciliation story. My parents have been married since 1996 but for the longest, I thought I had the ideal, perfect family. We're 3 daughters, me and my two twin sisters. Then last year I stumbled upon dad's old and dusty, abandoned private journal in the basement and I wished I had never read it. They cheated on each other. First mom gets caught in the act with dad's then best friend in his house, on his couch. The journal stated she was on top of his friend. Dad punches the hell out of his friend and calls her bad words. Obviously she gets dumped first but then they worked it out, mom buys him a new couch, helps in the moving out process, etc. Then by 2000 (they're married by then and I'm just 2 years old), dad cheats back in revenge but he confesses. They worked that out too; he was forgiven immediately..she went lenient on him...I'm going to assume it must be out of guilt and because she was forgiven, she couldn't be a hypocrite. No one knows (not even his nor her parents, not a single soul) about what happened except their counselors they went to at the time...then off course me who read the journal. My twin sisters are ignorant of this detail. I haven't told anyone I read his journal. If I had never read the journal, I wouldve never suspected of anything happening between them. It still shocked me reading those details.
@ethanluedke3165
@ethanluedke3165 Жыл бұрын
What’s worst is that you didn’t trust them already and saw the warning signs and you were proving right. Gonna be a tough few months for me that’s for sure
@tatattaylor
@tatattaylor Жыл бұрын
Even though it wasn't physical, it still hurts me to my core. I was engaged and moved out. That was a year ago this month. He has apologized and working very hard to rebuild the trust. I'm still struggling to fully let go and move on. Some days I don't think about it and other days I just want to scream. I'm already a high anxiety person and trying to let go is very difficult. Now I feel like I'm going to war with myself. I just want to be able to forgive and move on with him. Trying to see if it's even worth it now?
@tatattaylor
@tatattaylor Жыл бұрын
**He said he wanted to make the relationship work. I had finally let go of what happened...but unfortunately, he met someone and decided to move on. He never told me until I found out he moved her into his home a month after meeting her. I have no regrets about trying to make the relationship work even with the aftermath.
@DD14396
@DD14396 Жыл бұрын
@@tatattaylor so sorry. How are you feeling? It's great that you don't feel any regret for trying. At least you know you did all you could and never have to look back and wonder. How did you manage to let go? I'm struggling to forget....
@tatattaylor
@tatattaylor Жыл бұрын
@DDD I remind myself that, I've already given so much of myself to someone and it didn't work. I accepted someone who lied constantly, cheated, and simply didn't consider my feelings. I will not give him any more of me. I changed my number and said enough. Plus, this world is filled with so many amazing people I can meet. I want to thrive now - not struggle to move on.
@ankdaggdag-hy3zf
@ankdaggdag-hy3zf Жыл бұрын
Exactly going through the same thing
@savannahroberts1211
@savannahroberts1211 Жыл бұрын
I’m in the same boat 😕
@nathanjarrelle
@nathanjarrelle 2 жыл бұрын
Cheating isn’t a mistake, it’s a choice. A bad choice.
@aneatrice28
@aneatrice28 Жыл бұрын
mistake (n.) an action or judgment that is misguided or wrong
@viktorialoves1
@viktorialoves1 Жыл бұрын
For 15 minutes pressure, ruining whatever was built as a deep, strong relationship. For 15 minutes pleasure, you destroy someone's life forever.... I am not the same person anymore and I won't be..... Simple as that, if you don't want to be with them better break up, then cheat.... The pain of the breaking up is way less than the pain and the mark left from the cheating
@jasmainjasmain2906
@jasmainjasmain2906 10 ай бұрын
Can’t have choices without one being a mistake.
@JLang-bn3hs
@JLang-bn3hs 9 ай бұрын
It was no mistake and not an accident. It wasn’t an evil decision. It was a decision to do an evil thing. No consideration for the spouse. Intentionally inflicted wound. An international decision that could cause fatalities. Purely evil intent. These intentional decisions don’t come from someone in love with you. Do not try to”rebuild” because it never was and there is nothing to build on. The Bible even suggests divorce in the case of adultery. Hell no.
@standground7956
@standground7956 7 ай бұрын
@@jasmainjasmain2906 Cheating is a bad choice 100% of the time. It’s the one choice where you know it’s a bad choice every single time. Cheaters cheat because they don’t think it’s a mistake or a bad choice.
@rachealnansubuga7318
@rachealnansubuga7318 4 жыл бұрын
Thks for this video. My heart it's really in pain after being cheated am trying my best to give back him my trust but it's really hard for me. Becoz I can't forget it
@nadiabegum1930
@nadiabegum1930 4 жыл бұрын
The level i understand you on is unreal. The saddest thing is times he blames me... or times he feels he doesn’t need to make anything better or make me feel safe. My heart is in pieces its been a year since he cheated and in that year he done more cheating with others flirting, calling women, and his forcing me to get married by next month or he will leave. But i still dnt trust him and he doesnt understand
@juliojr21
@juliojr21 4 жыл бұрын
Nadia Begum dont marry that man.
@taminamurch341
@taminamurch341 4 жыл бұрын
He blames for his cheating.. It's been 14 years he hid everything.. Then he told me without any remorse or guilt.. He is still the same.. I am stuck because of kids and he is the only man in my life. I so lost.. He hates me.
@Lightskinlightning
@Lightskinlightning 4 жыл бұрын
You shouldn’t forget it by any means but if you choose to forgive do it after you get your self respect in line a lot of folks don’t give themselves the time to heal
@allisonroath2531
@allisonroath2531 4 жыл бұрын
Racheal Nansubuga the hardest part is to not think about it
@EsHaQ2024
@EsHaQ2024 10 ай бұрын
ONLY If both parties are willing to take accountability. When one person tries to rebuild the relationship, & the other one doesn't, then it's useless to stay together. Especially when children are involved, it's difficult to.
@_icognita_9961
@_icognita_9961 Жыл бұрын
In my opinion, it depends on the overall quality of the relationship. And if the other person has shown signs that he can not change, AND ESPECIALLY if the experience traumatized you, DO NOT try just because others will tell you you didn't try for it or to show "modern". ON THE OTHER HAND if you still wanna try, if you feel like it can work and if the other person wants to make it up to you DO NOT BREAK UP because society tells you that you have to.
@standground7956
@standground7956 7 ай бұрын
Society shouldn’t tell you that you should dump a cheater. The cheater let you know that by cheating you. It’s laughing material to the cheater if you decide to forgive them and remain. You’re basically telling the cheater to do a better job hiding the cheating; they most certainly will.
@richikakashyap6616
@richikakashyap6616 11 ай бұрын
He was the bestest boyfriend ever…He wasn't toxic he did everything to make me happy and loved me very much. That's what makes it 10 times worst..he was ả perfect green flag for me but what i did was so worst..i made mistakes several times in 3 years of our relationship…hể forgive me every time…but I always took advantage of his kindness😔..Even if we break up, I will not be able to accept that the boy is not in my life now…This regret and guilt is killing me.. I cheated on my boyfriend who was amazing as a partner.It's hard to let someone go that you perceived as your future.🙂..I apologized countless times and told him how I feel about him but. It wasn't enough and no matter how many times I say sorry..because it was not a small mistake though..I made a million mistakes and I threw away a loyal boy who always there for me no matter what situation was..That boy loved my parents more than me..he always tells me to fulfil my parents dream..he motivates me always ..but I know i am the worst girl ..He always gave his 100% in this relationship… At the moment I simply wish I'd just not cheated or taken my boy for granted.💔…
@waffletoast6997
@waffletoast6997 Жыл бұрын
I love her so much, I can’t bring myself to let go
@amyj.4992
@amyj.4992 2 жыл бұрын
I've witnessed my partner be authentic, and honest before. I know she can earn my trust back. I have no doubt, however I want to see how much I mean to her and what she is willing to do to heal and unite with me. I want to be united with her, she had to go through her issues. I understand deeply. Deep down she is a wonderful person, and just got caught up in a bad crowd of people. We all go through it. I am ready to start a new chapter with her on the right foot together
@marvinmanalastas7093
@marvinmanalastas7093 5 ай бұрын
Curious, how have things gone?
@j.s2507
@j.s2507 2 жыл бұрын
I never heard him say he was sorry or take accountability. I guess that's my answer. Thank you for helping my heart to heal a little
@fannyjacob8535
@fannyjacob8535 2 жыл бұрын
The dude is just not fakeing . The finishes of the goals. Beautiful. Magisterial. Love you *Minslegend!.* .🙏🏼
@mszgigi0518
@mszgigi0518 Жыл бұрын
I can’t believe I had to search this smh. Married for 5 years & he betrayed me 🥺 he’s apologetic but he knows the trust won’t be there overnight. I’m still on the fence if I even want to stay with him anymore…
@philiciaragsdale1296
@philiciaragsdale1296 2 жыл бұрын
Learning HOW TO forgive is the catch! It’s almost been a yr & i can’t forget the bad . Thanks for the video
@icewallowcome9168
@icewallowcome9168 Жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@hairdresser1300
@hairdresser1300 Жыл бұрын
It's tearing me up
@Down_Triangle
@Down_Triangle Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. It's been a few months and sometimes I feel weak for not being able to fully let go of the pain that I went through. My partner has been very patient with me and takes full responsibility for what happened.
@hairdresser1300
@hairdresser1300 Жыл бұрын
I've buried it for almost a yr. My anger has been seeping out here and there. This weekend I am a volcano of emotions.More sad than mad now. My partner too has taken responsibility but still says he doesn't understand how it happened. We have 30 yrs of marriage. I wish he never told me
@standground7956
@standground7956 7 ай бұрын
@@hairdresser1300 Why not divorce and move on remembering the great times you all shared. Even good things come to an end, cheater let you know the end has arrived by cheating on you. They’re too pathetic to break up so that’s their route. That said, why don’t you end the marriage. Isn’t it better to have a fiber of self respect and be single than to remain with a known cheater?
@kishore-anand
@kishore-anand 8 ай бұрын
No strength to even watch this video to the end. Just can't stop crying .
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 8 ай бұрын
We're so sorry! We are here for you ❤️
@Ur2ez4me81
@Ur2ez4me81 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t put yourself in predicaments where things like this can happen. I remember years back I cheated on this special woman who I did love at the time but made bad choices with getting drunk at a party & one thing lead to another. After the fact I felt so dirty inside & was immediately ashamed of myself. One of the hardest things if you have a conscious is that you can’t hide it from you’re lover & it hurts so badly that it gets to the point that you have to confess it. The hardest part is telling that person & crushing their heart. They are never the same after that & even though we have been together for 20 years it still hurts bc I love this person 😢 if I could take it all back I would it wasn’t worth it…
@JEJE-xl1wp
@JEJE-xl1wp 2 жыл бұрын
U are spot on
@3ggyt0ast
@3ggyt0ast 2 жыл бұрын
same here
@michelleroman2552
@michelleroman2552 2 жыл бұрын
My bf cheated on me with his ex gf , and It’s been like four months. He says he regrets it but it’s so hard to move on…
@Ur2ez4me81
@Ur2ez4me81 2 жыл бұрын
@@michelleroman2552 I know it is
@michelleroman2552
@michelleroman2552 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ur2ez4me81 reading your comment, and seeing him in your shoes, Idk what to do… how did your wife get over it?
@florenceepseatemanyangweaw8061
@florenceepseatemanyangweaw8061 2 жыл бұрын
I feel that trust can never be earned again.
@Everydaylife360
@Everydaylife360 2 жыл бұрын
So true
@ws8668
@ws8668 2 жыл бұрын
What if your other half doesn't admit to cheating but the evidence is just too strong?
@karynanne9322
@karynanne9322 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly.. Like they believe their own lies and will never admit to it. The proof was said to be someone else's not theirs so i go w/my intuition even after he took my self worth and destroyed me almost completly
@auroraborealis4320
@auroraborealis4320 2 жыл бұрын
What about self respect? We are strong now but I am so hurt, I feel robbed, deceived, humiliated, taken for granted, disrespected by both him and myself it’s really hard to stay I want to but because I can’t help but feel these emotions sometimes and I feel bad because he feels shit about what he’s done and I feel bad for bringing it back up, I have nightmares about it....i think to myself why don’t I just find someone who won’t treat me like that
@camisnyder3460
@camisnyder3460 2 жыл бұрын
I be feel exactly the same as you do.
@thenameischoya8149
@thenameischoya8149 2 жыл бұрын
I think the same way. But its like 50% of men cheat. Thats facts lol what are the chances of not going through this B.S again. Especially with kids involved.
@lizbethcastellanos9703
@lizbethcastellanos9703 2 жыл бұрын
im going through the exact same thing... wondering how things worked out for you??
@papalit89fan33
@papalit89fan33 2 жыл бұрын
if you feel that emotionally unstable about him cheating on you the best would be to leave him even if it hurts that man doesnt love you if he was able to betray you and embarrass the shit out of you like that, he may regret it but he still doesn’t deserve your love or your trust
@joptiks7062
@joptiks7062 Жыл бұрын
Time apart if possible can help, but also keep in mind plenty of people cheat. You can’t guarantee that you’d get with someone else and the will stay faithful. Cheating seems to be fairly common these days
@42BETWO
@42BETWO 2 жыл бұрын
If she throws you away to make room in her heart for another man, and the affair fails and you reconcile, you do so as unequals in fidelity, personal integrity, and sexual experience. You are ‘restored’ to her heart as less the man you were before the affair. You have a new identity along side your once unfaithful (now remorseful?) wife: recycled trash. No matter how hard you try to improve yourself in your own and in her eyes, your status remains second best to that ‘better man’ she chose over you- until she got caught.
@jaylampa2621
@jaylampa2621 Жыл бұрын
I'm praying that we can get back together. I know we both suffering. Hopefully, one day I can go back here and comment that we were both together again.
@bobfrankfurt9449
@bobfrankfurt9449 Жыл бұрын
Best of luck to you both.
@icewallowcome9168
@icewallowcome9168 Жыл бұрын
How did it turn out?
@kaeliguerrero9406
@kaeliguerrero9406 Жыл бұрын
Please let us know how it went
@bryxonevano7318
@bryxonevano7318 8 ай бұрын
Any update bro?
@kashujain9507
@kashujain9507 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this advice❤️
@Random-rt5ec
@Random-rt5ec 10 ай бұрын
I stayed for the kids after catching my wife cheating & that was 17 years ago. Today I wish I left her because we never rebuilt the trust & without trust she has been nothing but a burden that I have to monitor 24/7. Her lover dumped her and I'm nothing but her 2nd choice, that is a tough pill to swallow.
@brittaniesmith1817
@brittaniesmith1817 2 жыл бұрын
I recently found out that I was cheated on after our one year anniversary. It was all over the phone. It broke me. He promised me loyalty, protection, love. He promised I was the only person he wanted. I’m so hurt. But, I love him. I can’t just make my feelings from the last year disappear. I want it to work.
@resueah7257
@resueah7257 2 жыл бұрын
Very hard when someone's words don't align with their actions. I'm so sorry
@christinezechner2643
@christinezechner2643 2 жыл бұрын
you are dumb dump him !!!
@papalit89fan33
@papalit89fan33 2 жыл бұрын
if he broke all of his promises its not gonna work anymore, that man doesnt love you and he doesnt deserve your trust or your love i hope you left him
@icewallowcome9168
@icewallowcome9168 Жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@shop.super.nova.orb.
@shop.super.nova.orb. Жыл бұрын
I am now in college and have been with a girl for 7 months. I told her in the 4th month that I had sex with 2 people the 2nd and third month. I was on drugs (not that it excuses anything). And when I told her she threw up and it was the hardest thing ever. But we wanted it to work and I got clean and dropped some friends and am genuinely a man now instead of a boy. Gave her my life 360 and face I.d in my phone for security. And we’re stronger than we’ve ever been but only because we took it slow and had the conversations that needed to be had. Just make sure the persons remains fully accountable and shows true remorse and change and you should be fine. We’re stronger than ever and I can’t thank her enough for giving me that chance :)
@elizabethsoto2958
@elizabethsoto2958 4 жыл бұрын
You guys give good advice ❗️
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@vibewithAlyssaMone
@vibewithAlyssaMone Жыл бұрын
I have never stayed with a cheater & I’m trying to fight for my marriage it’s definitely harder than I expected …
@standground7956
@standground7956 7 ай бұрын
Welp, get a divorce, don’t stop now.
@vijikumar2088
@vijikumar2088 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much it is very painful though but as you said it’s better to be united than being right so I’ll try to fix my marriage as advertised by you
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad the video was helpful for you, Viji. Thank you for watching. Coach Natalie
@vijikumar2088
@vijikumar2088 3 жыл бұрын
@@HappilyCommitted welcome dear
@danielmccray9222
@danielmccray9222 3 жыл бұрын
My partner cheated due to the relationship not failing in both of our parts and my partner has always struggled with mental health and during this time fell into drugs and alcohol. They tried using another person to replace me and make the new relationship what ours was at the beginning. Ik first hand cheating isn’t black and white. Theirs a lot of factors that go into someone making that choice. After it was said and done they realized that I was the one. I was the one that deserved that spot in their life and that they had lost it and chose the wrong path to take. We are now working on things and going through the things that lead to those wrong choices. Our decisions aren’t for everyone to follow. But depending on the circumstances you can survive this and come out stronger. And have an even better relationship than before. It comes down to how much love is really their and the circumstances that lead up to the wrong decisions. If someone cheated bc of an ego or to fulfill a sexual desire than no leave move on.
@cherissegranger8275
@cherissegranger8275 3 жыл бұрын
What if the person didn't physically cheat but via social media convos, pictures and videos/video calls going on for about 3mnths. They've never met the person but planned to. The person didn't tell u about it but you found out from a coworker who's connected to the person they virtually cheated with?
@michaelsilva3202
@michaelsilva3202 2 жыл бұрын
so your the plan b
@michelle-h
@michelle-h Жыл бұрын
@@cherissegranger8275 I’m in the same boat :p
@katrinagarnett3256
@katrinagarnett3256 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this.
@user-yj9ko3jh7g
@user-yj9ko3jh7g 2 ай бұрын
I was married for 52 years to a cheater. He cheated on me after 6 years when I had 3 small children. I let him stay because I loved him and I thought my children needed him in their life. He was a terrific father and they adored him. Our relationship was never the same. I never allowed him to enter my heart again. I came from a dysfunctional family, abusive and I had walked away from them. I had no support. I took the blow and did the best I could. Took care of him when he finally died of Cancer. I do not regret staying as it helped my children. It was a very hard decision . I loved him but kept him at a distance until he died. He made a d3cision that was selfish with no regard for me or my children. You do it , you own it.
@jadaramirez2761
@jadaramirez2761 Жыл бұрын
I cheated on my partner by sending txt messages and it’s been a year now. And we been together for 5 years as well so it is possible to rebuild and forgive and move forward. Every relationship and every person is different. I’m not saying you have to stay with the person that cheated, just saying it’s up to you to stay or leave. I never cheated again after that because i didn’t want to see him hurt like that day he found out about those text messages. It ain’t worth it.
@ipassingthrough
@ipassingthrough Жыл бұрын
Well, it was just emotional cheating on your part right? Just texts? That's not the same as physical and emotional cheating, that's when the line is truly crossed. It's better to move on from a cheater, would you stay with a rapist? That's what cheaters basically are, they rape their victim's psyche
@-MdRakibulAlam-A
@-MdRakibulAlam-A Жыл бұрын
I wish all the cheaters die why you guys even belong to this beautiful world you Don't you belong to the streets feel sorry to that guy my brother you could have run away cause once a cheater always a cheater.
@thanks_man1268
@thanks_man1268 Жыл бұрын
He should've left you
@simplyaeri76
@simplyaeri76 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been with this guy for 5 years.. met eachother when We were 19. He’s a year older than me. I’m 24 now and he’s 25.. I messed up this time 😞🥺.. He caught me cyber cheating .. looked through my phone and seen I was sexting another guy and flirting with him .. didn’t send him nudes or anything but the guy saw me twerking on my close friends story.. and he broke up with me instantly. Yet, he’s cheated on me in the past, I looked through his phone and seen him messaging multiple women, flirting with them sending emojis to em and complimenting them while we were together, even saying raunchy shit to em and I confronted him about it , even though I took him back… several times. We’ve gone through hell and back yet I did something like this one time and he’s completely over me… yet we’ve still been talking, meeting up having sex etc.. I feel stupid because it’s not really want I want but idk how to feel rn .. 😞
@justxkaytm9186
@justxkaytm9186 Жыл бұрын
How did you guys manage to work it out?
@HelloKittyFreak96
@HelloKittyFreak96 2 жыл бұрын
I’m here because my husband cheated on me by having pictures of my young aunt on his phone, he knows what he was doing with those photos. My aunt had very explicit photos on her fb and he screenshot all of them and had a folder of her on his phone. When I found the folder I broke down, I couldn’t believe who he was using to relieve himself, I looked up to that aunt but then again she’s beautiful and she loves to flaunt everything on social media.. I was only mad at him obviously… I was embarrassed I didn’t tell a soul because I love my husband but I didn’t trust him, it’s still hard our sexual life has suffered, he’s a good person but I feel so disgusted, disappointed…. It’s been 3 years and we’re still struggling, this aunt is a close family member we see her every couple of days due to family gatherings. My heart sinks when I look at her and I can’t help but compare myself. My husband has apologized millions of times I know he’s sincere but I can’t let this go. I feel ugly, jealous, betrayed, heartbroken 💔 but I’m trying because I love him. I NEVER thought this would happen to me or to US.
@prersgirls
@prersgirls 2 жыл бұрын
Thank You for this commendable video. One of the best advise and information I have found.y D day was 101 days ago and you nailed the information.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching! Happily Committed Team
@deadend5385
@deadend5385 2 ай бұрын
Just came here to see the comments of people who have gone through the same thing as me, being cheated on by my wife, 6 years together, 2 years and 4 months married, a 4 year old girl. Just found out yesterday that while she was staying at her mom’s because of a fight we had, she hooked up with someone. At first I wanted to get back at her, but now I don’t know what to do, is it even worth staying and get over it?
@biracialsnow
@biracialsnow Жыл бұрын
Yep I am here, on this channel. He cheated, but we both want to stay together, so now it’s just about trying to move forward. It’s tough, definitely don’t feel good
@SpFrSpaZ
@SpFrSpaZ Жыл бұрын
What have you done to move forward? I’m trying to figure out what to do as well
@crystalcarls489
@crystalcarls489 Жыл бұрын
I got cheated on yesterday😢 But luckily I forgave her because she promised me that me and her will get back together and we never break our promises
@edub650
@edub650 Жыл бұрын
She will cheat again. It runs further than sex. She doesn’t respect you.
@priyankagaikwad5561
@priyankagaikwad5561 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot sir, after critical situation I m watching this video , and I m healing.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad the video was helpful for you, Priyanka. Coach Natalie
@ireneluke6330
@ireneluke6330 7 ай бұрын
This is the best video that I have watched. Very helpful. Thank you so much for this I feel that I can get on the road to recovery and work on my relationship.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 7 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@Dabman687
@Dabman687 Жыл бұрын
Still 4 years later I think about it. I still get treated bad once in awhile. I get told mean things that I won’t forget. It’s hard that she did that to me. She told me we were never going to be together forever. I’m so lost. :(
@bobfrankfurt9449
@bobfrankfurt9449 Жыл бұрын
It sounds like you need to move onto a better partner... If they are continuously hurting you that could be a sign your partner is a narcissist. Seek counselling perhaps? Read some books that can help you understand and figure out what to do. I wish you all the best.
@gavincosgrove
@gavincosgrove Жыл бұрын
At the end of the day if you love your partner you wouldn't cheat in the first place 🤷‍♂️
@celestialovelysoles8302
@celestialovelysoles8302 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this 🙏🏻🥺
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@starsandoval6526
@starsandoval6526 Жыл бұрын
I really love this man and I believe in the good of people of each person that's why I'm trying to make it work out but I'm not sure if I'm doing the right thing anymore
@theresachiorazzi4571
@theresachiorazzi4571 3 жыл бұрын
I could never never trust or forgive a man that would cheat on me thank god I had a good man we had a great life he’s gone now it was just his time. But I’ll always love him he was the best
@teymyneytor
@teymyneytor 3 жыл бұрын
Many thanks, I have been researching "can a relationship be repaired after cheating" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Qenamilla Strayer Magnet - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my co-worker got cool results with it.
@michaelsilva3202
@michaelsilva3202 2 жыл бұрын
you got self respect but a lot of these comments do not
@imsayingthis
@imsayingthis 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for giving me hope that it's worth saving for.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын
Glad the video was helpful to you! Coach Adrian
@cipryan96
@cipryan96 3 жыл бұрын
It's not. She will do it again.
@nataliagoncalves7396
@nataliagoncalves7396 3 жыл бұрын
@@cipryan96 you are really bitter. Leave people alone and focus on your life.
@weareone5429
@weareone5429 3 жыл бұрын
I hope things are working out for you. 🙏
@nataliagoncalves7396
@nataliagoncalves7396 3 жыл бұрын
@Kenya Hughes .. see wath i was saying..
@auaumoana
@auaumoana 10 ай бұрын
I have been married 11 years, together 12. My husband admitted to cheating on me when I was pregnant with my first daughter. But he said it didn’t count because we weren’t married. Well fast forward to 11 years later 3 kids together, and 1 recent miscarriage I just learned that he cheated on me two months ago. He admitted to it, and when I talked to the other woman she said it only happened once but after learning he was married she cut it off and she said he tried to do it again, but she told him no. What upsets me is that not only did he cheat and admit to doing that, he tried to go back for more with her and didn’t bother to mention that. He also said that he was incredibly drunk and high. I am so devastated and I am trying to figure out what to do.
@sarahbakhshandeh5670
@sarahbakhshandeh5670 4 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for that 👌👌👌👌👌
@lucye5752
@lucye5752 Жыл бұрын
I want to trust him again but I don’t think I can 💔
@nataliagoncalves7396
@nataliagoncalves7396 3 жыл бұрын
People tend to say that whoever does it once will do it again. But its completely unfair and it is absolutely a lie. But people have a tendency to generalize. And this is horrible for couples who have gone through many challenges and want to be together. So don't give up hope. If there is dedication, recognition and true love, everything is possible. Do not listen to negative people with phrases made. Each couple is different. Be happy
@user-dh5ww9gz8f
@user-dh5ww9gz8f 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro this gave me hope
@Thornaroundpetals
@Thornaroundpetals Жыл бұрын
This gave a hope 🙂
@ynot_0-0
@ynot_0-0 10 ай бұрын
Whoever does it twice can do it again?
@matinaki1644
@matinaki1644 9 ай бұрын
As you can see from the comments "this gives me hope". Yet the glass is broken. Yes, couples can survive but at great cost for the one cheated on.
@kikijammer
@kikijammer 9 ай бұрын
Uhmm sure they can change, but I aint gonna be the lab rat to test if they actually change
@TheLaurents2014
@TheLaurents2014 3 жыл бұрын
Its hard to hide a broken heart. I just found out that my husband was been cheated on me. But he just said sorry to me once with no feelings.. We have a one year old son my heart and my brain is fighting right now.. i wanna divorce but not at the same time cuz i dont want my baby to have a broken family... please help me 😢
@artcruz5603
@artcruz5603 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in the same situation I don't know what to do she said it was more than once 😟 we've been together for alsmot 12 years now and have been through the best and worst times in our lifes. .. our son is 5 years old and I love him to death i dont want to ever hurt him and make him feel like i felt growing up with my parents split up and what hurts the most is that it happend 3 years ago and discussed it and got passed it and i forgave her and just a few hours ago she came clean with more details that she lied about out of nowhere... i don't know what to do or how to feel.. what I do know is it fucken hurts cause our son is so amazing and beautiful and I dont know how it ever came to her making a decision like that 😕
@zuxianchong
@zuxianchong 3 жыл бұрын
i would first like to say that everyone heals and deals with things differently. my mum was cheated on by my dad and she ignored him for 2 years. took them a year to even start speaking to one another. and now it has been 8 years since my mum found out, they aren't separated because they stayed together for me but what i can tell is they really have lost that bond between them. they dont hold hands or share kisses or even sleep on the same bed anymore, but they do talk and go shopping and go out for meals. if u think u can deal with it mentally and come to peace with urself just to keep ur family as one then by all means, but sometimes it's better to move on as well and find your own happiness again, i do hope u find ur answers soon
@EarCandyAsmr
@EarCandyAsmr 3 жыл бұрын
Only you can decide. Only forgive him if you can truly forgive him. You don’t want to be in a bitter relationship the child will feel that energy
@fiae2897
@fiae2897 3 жыл бұрын
@@artcruz5603 The pain is real especially when she has cheated more than once, firstly go and get yourself checked over at a sexual health clinic, even to this day people don't practice safe s.x then don't try to work out things on your own, get some help 🙏
@leelew.1462
@leelew.1462 3 жыл бұрын
You'll show your child your happiness when you're happy. Don't ever be miserable or unhappy staying in a relationship for your child.
@angs1979
@angs1979 Жыл бұрын
Currently going thru this and we have a 4 year old son. So hard to stay to make us better but so hard to walk away ..
@seanmckenna1863
@seanmckenna1863 10 ай бұрын
Current in the exact same situation how did it go.
@user-vt2ce2jc4r
@user-vt2ce2jc4r 2 жыл бұрын
While so many channels advice ppl to break up or look down on couples who have forgiven im glad for this channel. So many say once a cheater always a cheater which is not true. There is no heart God cant renew.
@dequanmiles6767
@dequanmiles6767 2 жыл бұрын
After finding out myself it's hard to honestly stay and after my girlfriend whose also my babymother not only cheated once but twice with two different ex boyfriends. She claims she didn't have sex and both times I caught her texting. It's getting harder and harder to honestly trust her anymore and I wonder myself if this relationship is honestly worth it.
@ludydargin8189
@ludydargin8189 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. Im in this situation now and Its clear to me and I know now how to deal with it . Its very infornative for me thanks so much
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, Lucy. Coach Adrian
@KevinBaird75
@KevinBaird75 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you...
@jaredkaye3669
@jaredkaye3669 Жыл бұрын
My wife cheated on me when she was not invited to a funeral. I found out by her sitting me down and forcing me to get antibiotics for being exposed to throat gonorrhea. She said most people break up after hearing this. I assured her I would forgive her because my favorite saying since covid 19 has been, "Forgive your abusers!" That night I couldn't sleep and started asking for more information. Her initial response was she didn't know but she told me more and more which I didn't like. Even though I said I forgave her, her best friend who hates me heard me tell my wife "Tell Sancho I said hi" responded in spanish telling my wife to translate "I will introduce you to him". My wife's friend speaks english but forces translation because it is part of her detatched hatred. The crazy thing was I got angry for 2 hours and wanted to break up because I cannot compete with her friend. Whatever... I have to forgive everyone because from their perspective I am emotionally abusive and they are fighting for what they believe. I have to demonstrate forgiveness to all. In the end the only person that can control my anger is me.
@MrFlacco
@MrFlacco Жыл бұрын
😭 the pain is too much 😢.
@sufyansarfraz2652
@sufyansarfraz2652 3 жыл бұрын
1 time mistake but 2 or 3 not a mistake
@estherkieyakinyanjui7220
@estherkieyakinyanjui7220 Жыл бұрын
Trying to forgive but it's very hard I feel that he can never change
@montyolson366
@montyolson366 3 жыл бұрын
I was cheated on and my heart is just broken he hurt the trust between us and he didn't tell me for two years ,,, I want it to work but I'm in so much pain emotionally
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын
Being betrayed by a loved one can be very hurtful. Please watch this video, I believe it will be helpful for you. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/msmIddhks9elf4U.html Coach Natalie
@keidmaster
@keidmaster 2 жыл бұрын
It's not going to work. He kept that for 2 years?? I hope to the high heavens you got rid of that A
@ragnarironwolf535
@ragnarironwolf535 2 жыл бұрын
I like this video. My significant other cheated on me and everyone is saying to leave but in my heart I still love my other half. I said weather we stayed together or I left I would forgive. It only happened because I work so much and never around. I been working so hard to save for a future that I didn't see the signs
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 2 жыл бұрын
I know how hard this can be Ragnar. Let's set up a coaching call so we can talk about your relationship and determine what you should do next. www.happilycommitted.com
@boarderfalife
@boarderfalife 2 жыл бұрын
The reason it happened is NOT because you were working so much, its because your S.O. is selfish. Don’t ever blame yourself.
@papalit89fan33
@papalit89fan33 2 жыл бұрын
you may love her but that woman does NOT love you if she was able to do that to you and it was not your fault because you work a lot, that is not an excuse to cheat on someone
@RS-rh9kp
@RS-rh9kp Жыл бұрын
Whats the update?
@sohininath6865
@sohininath6865 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou,,,for giving some positivities , within all the negativities.... As usual "time heals" But, everytime certain things pop up and it breaks me into pieces 💔💔 Now, it's somewhat a comparision got in to my head!! 😭
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching the video, Sohini. Coach Natalie
@christinejoycalatin2933
@christinejoycalatin2933 Жыл бұрын
it is so hard to forgive.. :( i can't get over it.. even if i cry everyday.. :(
@chillrian
@chillrian 4 жыл бұрын
I just want to say thank you...
@Pia-Noise
@Pia-Noise 3 жыл бұрын
It works to you?
@mazthebear
@mazthebear Жыл бұрын
I refuse to stay with a cheater
@bonneyirang6239
@bonneyirang6239 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir for your beautiful advice it feels so good after watching your video but can't forget what he did with me it is very hard to forget n painful 💔💔
@GalaxyKnight
@GalaxyKnight 4 жыл бұрын
I already give him several chances but whenever I asked him something to make clear he behaves so crazy and always avoid all the matters and talk about another things...even I can understand sometime that he lies but still he denied all the time how could I able to fix it..I just want him as he was before...but I can't express my emotions to him..
@alexmaldonado-lopez7868
@alexmaldonado-lopez7868 4 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure if that will work SaH
@christinaronaldo4217
@christinaronaldo4217 3 жыл бұрын
I am in your situation right now
@trash8280
@trash8280 2 жыл бұрын
My wife cheated on me just recently, the very second I found out I forgave her. A couple days later I could tell she was feeling bad for eat she done because I have been a damn mess even though I forgive her it's not a easy thing to get over. I can tell it's going to take time to heal over this. I have been having horrible nightmares of being in a room with her sitting on the edge of the bed and me sitting in a chair unable to move or look away while someone who I can't make out comes in and has their way with her. I literally can't even get it up when we try to be intimate with each other. It has gotten a bit better over these couple months and we're both making it work. I haven't been the best husband lately with having a drinking problem. 55 days sober now. But yes you can move on after this or if you truly love one another at least try if you think it's worth the time. I love her way too much just to let go of 7 years in the drop of a hat.
@rambojones8711
@rambojones8711 2 жыл бұрын
Going through this as we speak...I have no proof but I feel my wife has cheated on me when she went on vacay in VA..I don't no what to do
@sellers8133
@sellers8133 Жыл бұрын
@@rambojones8711 Trust your gut. Mine has never led me wrong and just like you I had suspected it before I was able to confirm it.
@kwikest
@kwikest Жыл бұрын
going through the same thing at the moment. just found out about my wifes 6 month affair with another man. im broken. please tell me, 5 months after your comment, is it any better?
@orange2352
@orange2352 Жыл бұрын
@@kwikest if you both want it to work, it WILL get better. Both of you got disconnected... connect and build your relationship stronger than ever.
@truthtalks-honestyunleashe2796
@truthtalks-honestyunleashe2796 Жыл бұрын
@@kwikest hit the gym bro grow some balls she belongs to the streets
@jojoramirez8070
@jojoramirez8070 2 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend cheated on me with someone older then I am and when her and I found out. She blocked him in everything and so I wonder if she hadn’t done that if I’d still be the one he’d be fighting for. Because at the end of the day he was planning future plans into a year in advance with her.
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Jojo, I am sorry to hear that your boyfriend cheated on you, I know how heartbreaking that must feel. Regardless if she blocked him or not the biggest concern is that he disrespected you by cheating.
@manuelapmunoz5872
@manuelapmunoz5872 4 жыл бұрын
Rachel Rios Hernandez this is wat you got to know about cheating sloppy seconds from a man that uses you
@jaylansreen1068
@jaylansreen1068 3 жыл бұрын
All i wanted is to get Married and to be with someone who will love me forever. But why it is too diffecult to achieve and guys always to hurt me.
@Low_Key_
@Low_Key_ Жыл бұрын
I cheated my boyfriend two days ago.... couldn't stop thinking about it so i just told him the truth....still feel guilty about it and im slowly walking the " im a terrible person" path...didnt know that cheating is actually a reaction to trauma...yet this doesnt fully explains the why i did it...we still decided to give it a try...i dont know what to do...and i kinda seek answers for my problem...idk why i shared this to yall Have a nice day anyways x
@gabybiemo420
@gabybiemo420 Жыл бұрын
How isit going now
@cierraaustin2144
@cierraaustin2144 Жыл бұрын
It’s okay love, you shared it because it was heavy on your heart and we are here to help, support, and understand the situation. Please keep us updated on how it workouts for you two, and I’m praying for growth, forgiveness, and your relationship.
@niaer4632
@niaer4632 10 ай бұрын
i know the feeling man
@glencoco1616
@glencoco1616 9 ай бұрын
I’m in the same boat as you.
@larsdewolf6311
@larsdewolf6311 3 жыл бұрын
I did everything what you said but I'm not sure about the part of showing this video to her. (She isn't fully over the break-up). So it could feel for her like I'm pushing her?
@raiden_ei_shogun
@raiden_ei_shogun Жыл бұрын
It's so ironic that after all the times you've reserved yourself to someone who took time and effort to earn your trust after a long time, broke it again. I'm sorry for my imperfections, but I never had to put our relationship to risk-cheating. I thought I told you so-let's fight for everything but not for a broken trust. But here we are, I've been betrayed, again...
@bjhazelwood1014
@bjhazelwood1014 Жыл бұрын
i got cheated on and this very fresh, she took full accountability and she still cares for me and she says she still loves me. however she said she is making arrangements to be with that person. i'm very confused we talked last night and we both cried and clearly still have feelings for each other however i don't know if i should ask if she would be willing to try and save the relationship. we have been together for 5 years and we have done a lot together. any advice?
@cipryan96
@cipryan96 3 жыл бұрын
No, it can't. Don't prologue the suffering. Cheating is not a mistake but a choice. NOTHING can justify cheating, stop blaming the other person for not giving the cheater attention or some other bullshit reason. If he's not happy, communicate with the partner and try to solve the problem. If that does not work leave the relationship. The cheater is a selfish person and do not think of consequences, they just want to feel good. Leave and move on, no second chance for cheaters.
@kitziarodriguez5990
@kitziarodriguez5990 3 жыл бұрын
It’s it always true. In my case I constantly asked for things to change, I constantly asked for the reassurance, the live everything. I always asked for things to be fixed & they never were so I felt like I wasn’t being cared for, so I did it. Once I told my partner we had a long talk about it, we both saw our wrong my face your for change & help & if not being even cared for. Not saying it was their fault cause I took full responsibility but were 100x better than what we were in the beginning
@cipryan96
@cipryan96 3 жыл бұрын
@Christopher espinosa that right, and you must learn from those mistakes. But that with your future partener, the one that you cheated on deserves better. 🙃
@Chrisadore11
@Chrisadore11 3 жыл бұрын
@@cipryan96 well, buddy. I was the one who was cheated on...
@Chrisadore11
@Chrisadore11 3 жыл бұрын
@@cipryan96 you made me have second thoughts on coming back to her... 🥺😥
@cipryan96
@cipryan96 3 жыл бұрын
@@Chrisadore11 don't do it, she's do it again 100%
@evelinadymanus922
@evelinadymanus922 3 жыл бұрын
This video would help me a year ago and save me a lot of stress -i wouldn't give him another chance only for him to cheat on me again He is narcissist-he doesn't see anything wrong with what he did
@lillooney5476
@lillooney5476 3 жыл бұрын
Does your ex partner ever message you since the split?
@burns919gk
@burns919gk Жыл бұрын
It’s definitely hard when we where engaged and going on the second time of her cheating with the same guy. Little more difficult when we have a child together. Hard to hear she wants two people but knows she can’t
@simonfranklin7659
@simonfranklin7659 6 ай бұрын
I could never ever be physical again with my wife if she cheated. Its the biggest turn off in the world.
@235nick1
@235nick1 4 жыл бұрын
What if you live down the hall from the person your partner cheated on you with? How do you get through something like that? I need advice desperately. My partner doesn’t care to move, so I’m stuck living in the same building a few doors down from this person they cheated on me with
@elisabethkaligka2775
@elisabethkaligka2775 3 жыл бұрын
Get out of there, as fast as you can. Your partner should agree to never, I mean never see this9 person ever again. This is for your mental health. Otherwise, it's not worth it. Sorry.
@Taiofemi69
@Taiofemi69 3 жыл бұрын
Who knows, maybe your partner is sincere and will change. After all, nobody’s perfect, right?They even promised to marry you. So is it worth it? Marriage after infidelity is a tricky proposition. But if you love the person, forgive and forget, move on and live happily ever after. Just like in the movies. Marriage can be a blessing, but it can also break your heart, especially, if you think you've reached the end of the road. There's no easy path to divorce. So is it worth forgiving someone who cheated on you? Of course. Do it, living with hate is not a good way to live. Is it worth forgetting about it? No. Your experiences in life make you stronger (and hopefully smarter). It's time to examine your feelings about yourself and your marriage. It is understandable that you are hurt by what your husband did. However, he has apologized for it and stopped his relationship with her for you. Now, it is up to you to forgive. Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself. It gives strength to move on. At this point you might have tried marriage counseling and probably hire a good lawyer, to best find the truth for proof in court I suggest you google search" hubtechhack ethical” to help you get proof from your partners device remotely for evidence. Sometimes it's worth saving a relationship and sometimes it isn't. Only you know the answer to the question of whether you should get a divorce or you're better off staying married.
@Trickorvr
@Trickorvr 3 жыл бұрын
We have been together 21years and I just find out the first 3 years she was cheating with multiple guys. Now everything is different. I use to like our story, especially the first years. Now it's all tainted. 21 years and 2 kids later, shes not the same person. Shes remorseful but it doesnt change the past. The trust is gone, I gave her the freedom she wanted and this is what I get. I even confronted her what was the third guy and she said I was crazy. I was ready to break up then but she lied and I stayed. Even worse she did it 1 more time after that conversation. She said I should believe her thats it and after that was all us, I dont believe but dont want to start a new chapter
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for reaching out, Jay. I understand what you're going through. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you more on a personal level. Coach Natalie
@glydellarciaga2839
@glydellarciaga2839 3 жыл бұрын
Me either even if Im not in your situation.
@-MdRakibulAlam-A
@-MdRakibulAlam-A Жыл бұрын
You Don't have any self respect mate just tissue for her to use.
@gugumillicent8505
@gugumillicent8505 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder why when a woman has cheated it's almost impossible for a man to forgive the woman but when a man has cheated women forgive almost all the time ?
@iamuniverse3154
@iamuniverse3154 2 жыл бұрын
Only a manipulated woman will forgive her cheating partner because she justify and tolerate his cheating
@gugumillicent8505
@gugumillicent8505 2 жыл бұрын
Very true
@melvinmolly4151
@melvinmolly4151 2 жыл бұрын
That is because sex is what mainly WOMEN put on the table for a relationship.. (men do not put sex on the table, because women, if they really want, can have sex, just about anytime).. When a Women cheats on a man, because someone whispered some sweet nothings in her ear, that man she cheated on him with, gets what she put on the relationship table for free!!!!
@honeyful1667
@honeyful1667 10 ай бұрын
​@@melvinmolly4151It's because men think that their cheating should be acceptable and that's it ..
@Mr_Stratosphere
@Mr_Stratosphere 4 жыл бұрын
Seriously this gives me hope. That's what I didn't understood. That my commitment and love is so strong that I hope that we have a new start. I know that I need time to get over this pain but. I don't know why. I don't want to throw 9 years away and my best friend (girlfriend) & my lover in crime like worn out socks. I know that we had tough times but I always had the opinion that we're growing on these hurdles not break. Thank you for this video. It gives me hope. And no matter what... I'm going to fight for her because we are human and anybody else does Tripp sometimes.
@mljrotag6343
@mljrotag6343 3 жыл бұрын
@Dillards Shopper Exactly right. Cheating is never a mistake it is a decision.
@camilak7218
@camilak7218 Жыл бұрын
i wish i could.. i can forgive him because i know he feels very guilty, but i truly need loyalty, not just about cheating but about respect and having my back.. i already fought too much, felt unloved and now i feel like i have no other choice than to let go..
@fredrickoyamo2528
@fredrickoyamo2528 2 жыл бұрын
I hurt my wife badly! I thought I was going to lose her but she stayed with me. Knowing that she is fighting hard to heal it breaks me even more. I wish I could go back and 'be faithful'. I destroyed something wonderful and I don't know if I will ever forgive myself...
@papalit89fan33
@papalit89fan33 2 жыл бұрын
i hope she gets out of there and finds someone who would never betray and humiliate her like that
@fredrickoyamo2528
@fredrickoyamo2528 2 жыл бұрын
@@papalit89fan33 😐
@pankhurikhattar9327
@pankhurikhattar9327 10 ай бұрын
Hey.. my husband cheated on me now he want some time to reset his thoughts. He is not doing any efforts. What to do give him sometime or just leave?
@telekbalazskristof
@telekbalazskristof 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Thank you for watching! Coach Adrian
@namgyal-la
@namgyal-la Жыл бұрын
Feeling little better after watching this video, i am in 6yrs long committed relationship and my bf cheated on me since 1month. I caught him red handed with all pics two days back and i am devastated and heartbroken, He was a good person bfore and we were in such a happy relationship phase while we were together . We gt in long distance relationship since 1.5 yr and cheating happened. When i caught him he accepted everything and apologised and promised me this wont happen again.but i am completely broken and keep on imagining things of his cheating. I am in confused state whether i should brkup with him or forgive him coz i love him alot and i can’t imagine my future without him but i wont b able to trust him like i do. I am worried he might do it again too and scare to loose him too. What should i do 😢its very painful
@himanshinogia6131
@himanshinogia6131 3 жыл бұрын
If I have cheated on someone. Now he is scared of trusting anyone. But I want to make things right again. What should I do
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for reaching out, Himanshi. I understand what you're going through. Please watch this video when you get a chance. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qs1xi8KV36i2lYE.html Coach Natalie
@parvatipujari8607
@parvatipujari8607 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ❤️
@HappilyCommitted
@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, Pravati! Coach Natalie
@MuscularMan008
@MuscularMan008 3 жыл бұрын
@@parvatipujari8607 want him back for what so u can do it again man u really have the guts to say these things u should've thought of this that b4 u banged other dude. Lol 😂
@kerlinahnatasha2796
@kerlinahnatasha2796 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, my name is Kerlinah from South Africa in a place called Witbank, my partner cheated on me with his ex whom he told me treated him badly, he act as if he's the one cheated on, he doesn't wanna take responsibility and he doesn't want me to leave, so I really don't understand because in our 6 years relationship he never cheated, so this is so new to me and I'm hurting, I've lost trust and hope, now he's acting like a victim, should I leave or stay as he shows no regrets or remorse
@filmokakhazana1045
@filmokakhazana1045 2 жыл бұрын
The most hardest thing in life
Me: Don't cross there's cars coming
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