The Roommates Podcast Y’all should tour colleges and have open dialogue/panel discussions. I can help 🤗 #ProudSpelmanGraduate

The Roommates Podcast he’s preachin preachin!💎 Get him a towel guys😅

Will you guys ever invite Derrick Jaxn?

@@PurelyChas Send us an email

@@emmanmuruka Hahaha lol

Amen!

Yea lack if self love sometimes

Yes that was Heavy

That is deep. And true.

So true

Respect is key

I'd rather be respected than desired or lusted after. Respect is priceless and can't be manufactured by any means. With respect, trust and honesty will coexist ...how sexy is that?

@@k.denisejohnson7621 A seductress can be both respected and lusted after... which is a feminine power many women are able to harness.🌹

@@user-wr5he7df6z I love your response and wholeheartedly agree with you. I think we are in a time, where people have forgotten how valuable respect when used interchangeably will achieve.

Bravo - that is my new mantra 👏

They will be. Starting a change!

Lol... We're all listening in. Believe me, there are a lot of us on the wave.

Glad to hear that, but idk how to find that

Crowd and environment change helps. I used to be very fond of what I know, but I changed my crowd, space and conversation... Next, I found really great women that added value to me. I messed the last one up... But there are more out there.

@@izu874 💯💯💯💯

We are out here.

absolutely 💘

Alot more than you think.

Seems like you keeping the wrong men..a couple brothers in your comment section alone prove your hypothesis wrong

@@GraitBritton that's an abusive talking point! put it down and never pick it back up❤

Hope ur doing well .. it’s crazy breakups can be harder than going to a funeral uggghhhh

Same. Your comment was 11 months ago. I hope it's going better

@@jasonjones4036 hope you doing well my man

@@tonileolion9702 dude knock it off

@@bananapee86 first off not a dude I’m a grown woman …. Secondly I say that as my own experience.. after having a parent passing away (mom) funerals r never the same for me , I rarely even cry at them anymore

That's great.

Hope you still sticking to your goals.

So how did 2019 go? Report back man.

that shit sounds foolish

@@honeys.9579 I am

Thanks for the support :)

If you read the video description, it says their names. Also, they say their names near the beginning of the show. :) @Searra Ann

Agreed.Bringing back the hope in mature masculinity.Very uplifting seeing guys talking with wisdom.Inspiring.

Hahaha

OKAY!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

Lol ditto

Hahahhahaha

Very true.

Agreed

Thank you :)

@@TheRoommatesPodcast nah thank you. Love hearing a guys perspective its always so interesting and enlightening 💜

And they're always full of great energy too! I love that

Olga E 💕

Please keep growing and healing Queen. You get your strength and power back 10fold.

I will pray for your continued healing sister. Glad that you were delivered with your life.

❤️

❤️ I am so sorry that happened to you

Glad to be able to help.

☮️

Danny Owens fr? Would’ve never knew

Facts!

For some it does, attention possibly could be what brings business or income eventually.

For many people, including women, it does. Unfortunately.

@@bvernon97 100 percent facts

Coming from a women, 😆 stay in your lane

All it takes is one. To feel understood or relatable is a great thing.

Yeah maybe more people would meet their match if this happened.

Sad truth.

God knows his sheep.

It’s time to get back into the Word.

People ain't worth shit

That got me too!

Very true.

This here preached!!!!

Facts... I not only that but the ones who expect everyone to be perfect be on some bs themselves and cant even see it

Thank you!

Thanks so much for the support. Be sure to subscribe and check out the other episodes!

Big facts.

The mirror is TOUGH! However life gets so much more fulfilling afterwards.

Hahah you one of the few that got that joke lol

Terri Williams lmao I caught what he was throwing 😂😂😂

Supernal Sacred Space this came right on time!! Def need this!!

He is so great!

And all humans want that.

Glad that we can help :)

Jeanine Unscripted Podcast Me too!!! 😊

Glad that you came to check it out.

He is real great!

I was just asking someone what's their expectations of me prior to accepting a dinner date. He asked me, "what are these expectations that you keep talking about?" I didn't feel comfortable accepting his offer unless we were on the same page. His initial invitation was to spend the entire weekend with him, I wasn't doing that. Communication must be fostered in the very beginning of the friendship/courtship/friendship.

Glad it can help!

Me too 💯💯💯

Watch Sheraseven1 on KZfaq

@@user-wr5he7df6z she is alright. However she speaks from a marriage standpoint which I respect.

True.

He is so great!

Yes

Thank you for the message :)

Thanks so much for the love and support. Glad that it can help and speak into your life.

She is so great.

So thankful for that :)

the man finds you. a woman should never chase love because it will never workout right. in most cases some type of heartache will happen

Which book did you read ?

Great idea! Congrats, roommates!

Thanks so much for the support. Preciate it!

Thanks so much. Be sure to subscribe and check out the other episodes :)

Amen!

Amen. Thanks for that!

How?

@@voquoncarter924 it gives great insight on the male perspective of things. Men aren't always vocal so when they are it's very beneficial in my opinion.

@@exoticlove-sherine1234 no love that wasn't for you. That was for the guy saying that they were gay. I really like their content.

@@voquoncarter924 ok hun. Stephan is a real one. I reported that comment cause I hate negativity in a positive space. He seem like a hit dog! Smh

@@voquoncarter924 what do you mean how? You’re so dumb

Thanks Angelica :)

Thanks a ton!

Thank you for your kindness :)

I hear you on every level. I have went through this more than once in my life; for me, it has been gaining weight so I am not looked at. I have went through a lot of emotional turmoil in my life and many times the attention made me uncomfortable. So gaining weight, dressing super casually, limited makeup or trying to look good really has been a layer of protection for me at times in my life. I have gotten more attention now in my 30s than I did in my 20s. Late bloomer. :)

OMG! the same thing happened to me. Shaved head and weight gain (albeit, in the right places somehow), and somehow getting even more attention.

I have to be honest and admit, I have done things or not addressed certain issues to not be attractive or desirable physically. This is a healing video to watch. Love this open dialogue.

OMG! I literally just shaved my head last month! I thought that it was to disassociate myself from everything that identified me as me to him. Maybe it was I sign of something deeper. Thanks so much for sharing your perspective.

Yes it's TRUE I did that too. 25 years ago☺

Thanks so much!!!

Thank you!

Stephan is so great!

Neither where we lol

Lol. I felt thesame way..I saved the episode I must have listened 5 times by now. Great stuff. Been following him for years, have his books and he always delivers.

@@nikkyshamz2696 nice, what have you learned? Just curious.

Thank you so much. We are working real hard to get better.

@@TheRoommatesPodcast you're welcome, we don't know each other but I'm really proud of you guys. Lots of love from London 😘

@@Usualspec13 pee

Blessings! Thanks so much!

Thanks so much!

Thanks

Blessings to you in Toronto. Thanks so much :)

Blessings to you in London.

Thanks so much!

Glad to help.

Big truths.

💯💯

That's the dream. Also with the best possible person. If not then co-parenting in peace with pure intentions.

Thanks so much be sure to stay connected for the other episodes.

Thank you for the support :)

Preciate you :)

Thanks for the support!

That's great to hear.

Thanks for the love and support!

Glad to help!

Glad to help!

Thanks so much for sharing.

Idk any chick who don't want a man with money

You must not be that pretty.

Full of bullshit

I think this frame of mentality is disillusioned. I’m sorry but as a modern woman in today’s society ( Los angeles dating) Financial stability is top 5 in the dating criteria. I don’t make a “bunch” of $ but i am in a position where I am blessed to pay for shelter for myself and my child, pay for essentials and small joys, and in LA that’s something hard to come by I know ppl who are still in their late 30s who share a family line with their parents and still live with their families with barely any savings in their accts. I’m not saying I’m better than them but when I got out on dates to try and find a partner, I want to know that the man I want to invest my time and efforts and emotional energy on CAN and if willing be a level that I can trust to support himself and if we grow together eventually can support our future family. Which in LA is pretty expensive not saying I won’t contribute to that lifestyle but I want to know that he is able to sustain a livable wage for his children/more children etc. So yes there is the factor of connecting and mutual values but that why it’s so hard to find someone with ALL these qualities. I don’t want to bash your comment I just don’t want young woman out there just thinking that they should find only a emotional connection with someone but bypass the $ part, bc there are LOTS of men out there who pretend to be there for you but then turn around and suck your pockets dry. And I want to warn woman who are lonely and are willing to give and give but then cry when those men take advantage of them financially and run off as soon as they get a chance. I’ve seen it done and i’m not the one. You gotta think about your children and your future children before your hearts needs. Sorry for the rant. Much love and Good luck all the singles out there! Date smarter not harder! 🤞💕💕

Thanks so much for your support :)